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Komentáře • 642

  • @denisedean8503
    @denisedean8503 Před 3 lety +407

    A peace of mind it's worth being single.

  • @mzbattle1210
    @mzbattle1210 Před 3 lety +281

    So true, I walked away from my kid's father after 10 years. Although I am a single mother, I now have a great credit score. My hair has grown longer than it ever was the entire time I was with him. my children are happy we feel safe and at peace. We are our children's 1st. teachers ladies let's STOP teaching them it's ok to be miserable.

    • @chrissy1448
      @chrissy1448 Před 3 lety +19

      There is no better example than a healthy mom...period... Keep thriving!

    • @blinghelmetsllc2439
      @blinghelmetsllc2439 Před 3 lety +3

      💯

    • @jennacorrinne
      @jennacorrinne Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @sunshinerays8960
      @sunshinerays8960 Před 3 lety +5

      Yes ma'am.. My skin got brighter from the dullness and hair stop falling out.. Glad for you and all of us that had to learn and grow. But got strong and now have a peace of mind!!

    • @takingbackmypower9859
      @takingbackmypower9859 Před 3 lety +2

      Congratulations to you I’m in progress now after 8years you’re right my kids don’t need to keep seeing me sad and the cheating wasn’t stopping.

  • @shanepruitt2715
    @shanepruitt2715 Před 3 lety +190

    “A man knows very well what he is doing and is taking a chance because he is willing to lose you.” TG
    A word and a sermon! 👏🏾

    • @disnalee
      @disnalee Před 2 lety +7

      Yes if he wants you he never leave you for anything!!! Love yourself. Thank you.

    • @teecee1678
      @teecee1678 Před 2 lety +2

      Amen!!!

  • @elatyriaf100
    @elatyriaf100 Před 3 lety +216

    Never take a man bk if he left you

    • @darkskinisalwaysin
      @darkskinisalwaysin Před 3 lety +29

      ... spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and/or financially. Nope, don’t and never do it. Keep it moving forward. Never look back.

    • @MsLibra-fo8tw
      @MsLibra-fo8tw Před 3 lety +14

      Never, never and I mean never!!

    • @JustBeYouTy
      @JustBeYouTy Před 3 lety +4

      What if you’re married? Shouldn’t you reconcile?

    • @tlashai9902
      @tlashai9902 Před 3 lety +7

      Yeah because he will do it again.

    • @michelleclay4749
      @michelleclay4749 Před 3 lety +16

      WOMEN...PLEASE LISTEN TO. TONY....HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH..IVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT...AND WASTED SO MUCH TIME AND YEARS...BELIEVE ME IF HE LEAVES YOU DO NOT..DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK..IM JUST LIKE PAUL WILLIAMS WHO LEAD THIS SONG WITH. MOTOWN RECORDS GROUP THE TEMPTATIONS.."DONT LOOK BACK"...I LISTEN TO THAT SONG..ALL OF THE TIME..VERY UPLIFTING SONG BY THE TEMPTATIONS....I LOVE THE VERSION OF THE SONG THATS ON THE TEMPTATIONS LIVE ALBUM WHICH IS ON YOU TUBE..."DONT LOOK BACK"...DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK..TONY IS TELLING THE TRUTH..MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE...YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER..THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE OUT THERE THAT WILL TREAT YOU WITH DIGNITY AND RESPECT AND WILL LOVE YOU.. WITH .NO DRAMA..YOUR LIFE IS NOT A REVOLVING DOOR..REMEMBER THAT..PRAYERS TO YOU ALL ..

  • @m.e.5446
    @m.e.5446 Před 3 lety +345

    Why does it have to be a game though?! Why can't people just be real and true and honest with each other....

    • @mayasheartdesiire
      @mayasheartdesiire Před 3 lety +49

      Exactly! We need more honest and genuine people in this world. There’s too many game players just manipulative and ego driven

    • @Mirror_My_Ambition
      @Mirror_My_Ambition Před 3 lety +74

      Because most ppl don't even know their OWN truth and aren't HONEST with themselves. As a result, they play games..sad but true

    • @belitr5915
      @belitr5915 Před 3 lety +19

      That's too much like right.

    • @go_off_Sis
      @go_off_Sis Před 3 lety +10

      Ask it LOUDER 💯😩

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 Před 3 lety +7

      YES!!!’n Say it louder so they can hear 👂🏾 you in the back!!!!!!

  • @rosagreene4364
    @rosagreene4364 Před 3 lety +251

    Tony: “Hey Hey”
    Me: *hits the like button*

  • @Pinkdiamond12
    @Pinkdiamond12 Před 3 lety +99

    Women need to listen to their intuition and use those 3 words "got to go".

  • @tasheearose3386
    @tasheearose3386 Před 3 lety +121

    My mom told me once if it didn’t work out the first time why would it the second? Stuck with me ever since, now I cannot unsee it

  • @jackiemcbride833
    @jackiemcbride833 Před 3 lety +98

    Leave when he won't commit.

  • @cemplygloria6261
    @cemplygloria6261 Před 3 lety +90

    Never make a man tell you he don't want you more than ONCE! I heard this from JUDGE LYNN TOLER and I kept it in my mind.

    • @pinkishdiamondz
      @pinkishdiamondz Před 3 lety +1

      Love her

    • @pallana3701
      @pallana3701 Před 11 měsíci

      Why not? People keep saying this quote but never gives the actual reason why you shouldn’t let him tell u more than once😮

  • @jewelsafire6844
    @jewelsafire6844 Před 3 lety +110

    If a man can't even show and return the love a woman is giving him, don't need any other reason to bounce. Enough is enough!👌🏽✌🏽

  • @erynd.9911
    @erynd.9911 Před 3 lety +122

    Don’t ignore the red flags 🚩 sis! What you ignore and disregard right now will be the very thing that causes discord later on! I learned my lesson with ignoring the red flags smh.

  • @tulip4169
    @tulip4169 Před 3 lety +111

    I can attest that when you make a commitment to live your life for God and a life of standards, it can be very lonely.

    • @Korrun1
      @Korrun1 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes

    • @JustBeYouTy
      @JustBeYouTy Před 3 lety +2

      Yup.

    • @veelove2226
      @veelove2226 Před 3 lety +22

      It can be but I would rather be lonely and have peace and happiness, trust me I completely understand 🙏🏾

    • @michellebarnum8465
      @michellebarnum8465 Před 3 lety +18

      It can be lonely, but look at it from the perspective that maybe God is protecting you because he knew what was going to happen down the line.

    • @vanessalandry9763
      @vanessalandry9763 Před 3 lety +14

      Yessss very lonely...so I have become my own BEST FRIEND. When I get weary of being to myself then I just start praying and God cradles me in His loving arms and rocks me and redirects my thoughts.😊

  • @sheloves3663
    @sheloves3663 Před 3 lety +108

    I’m convinced fear of being alone is probably one of the most toxic traits someone can have aside from being envious. I enjoy my own company so that allows me to not let just anybody into my space and do what I need to to maintain my peace. Solitude and sanity > than keeping toxicity in your life. You also stunt your personal growth this way.

  • @sharonsavage5596
    @sharonsavage5596 Před 3 lety +116

    10hrs and he knows u are the one, for convenience or marriage. That hit me like SMASH 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾 pow 💥

    • @sharonsavage5596
      @sharonsavage5596 Před 3 lety +8

      @@yemedemure414 sis i was born with that name and God has blessed me with a father that was born with that name and a mother that was proud of that name cause she was a Savage for Christ so it has been thru the test of time. I would like to Add that I’m Savage for God” my maiden name is one that I’m proud of cause its made me into a strong, positive, and resilient woman of God. When the right man come into my life only then will i consider changing it. Stay blessed my sista 🙏🏾 sister Love 💯❤️👍🏾

  • @carolyn4realife
    @carolyn4realife Před 3 lety +127

    I'm one of your single 50 plus listeners. One question I've learned to ask myself when I was actively dating is, if I was ill, would I want this person at my bedside making important decisions for me or would I want to be at his bedside? Most cases it was a no both ways for me. "Gat to go".

    • @LaSultrySoul
      @LaSultrySoul Před 3 lety +12

      That's a good question I think different ages different stages and when you at a certain stage in life uneccsary disruptions is just not nessary.

    • @carolyn4realife
      @carolyn4realife Před 3 lety +11

      @@LaSultrySoul The sooner you learn and practice discernment on which situations are advantageous for you will only benefit you at any stage of life. Unfortunately for me, there was no CZcams with hundreds of videos. Even with that you have to vet who and what you are listening too. Mr. Gaskin has made it more than clear, some of us are sheep in middle of wolves. Happy to see his cup runneth over.

    • @LaSultrySoul
      @LaSultrySoul Před 3 lety +2

      @@carolyn4realife Agreed 🤗

    • @cw6045
      @cw6045 Před 3 lety +5

      I'm closer to 60 than 50 and I am using that same concept for discernment...would he take off work to take me to/from a colonoscopy (let's be real)? I knew it was over when my husband of 30+ years would not do this for me, even though, of course, I did it for him. I'm loving my freedom...if God says I'm to be single the rest of my life, I will be alright!

    • @allthingsmelanietj5545
      @allthingsmelanietj5545 Před 3 lety +3

      @carolyn urdy your comment blessed me!!!!!!!

  • @Glamrocs
    @Glamrocs Před 3 lety +64

    If I can do it, you can do it. Single mother of 4 in a shelter then a friend’s couch.
    The Bible says “ It was good that I was afflicted “ it was. God provided for me and my children. I’m thriving in my business and God keeps blowing my mind with new opportunities. I’ve been single 5 years if I date again good, if not I’m still good.

    • @luxeeventsbymerandallc2427
      @luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 Před 3 lety +5

      I have 3 and I'm pregnant. Just found out my boyfriend cheated on me. Just straight up shocked... The dr called me to come in for my swab results..he confessed.... Just in shock I paid for this mans attorneys while he was locked away in immigration. I paid for his down payment for his other attorney this year for his child case because he wanted to fight for her. I have done so much. I'm leaving and I believe in God and that we will be okay.

    • @Glamrocs
      @Glamrocs Před 3 lety +4

      @@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 You and the children will be okay. You deserve better and your health is very important. Trust God and find a family or friend that can help you in your transition. I’ll be praying for you. You got this 😘🙏🏾❤️.

  • @elatyriaf100
    @elatyriaf100 Před 3 lety +67

    ""When you choosing from the wrong place in your heart you have a price to pay"" Deeeeepp

  • @Jeanninecomeau
    @Jeanninecomeau Před 2 lety +14

    Once a guy leaves you, it's a wrap. They have to like you more than you like them. That's the only way it works. If he left, he was willing to take the chance of losing you

  • @Godislove818
    @Godislove818 Před 3 lety +64

    This is so real, a man will come back after he left just to keep dragging you along... Tony’s as always 100%

  • @mariabbanks
    @mariabbanks Před 3 lety +31

    That emotional abuse hurts deep. Then comes physical and verbal. Sucks when you love someone.

  • @DDsAlchemy11
    @DDsAlchemy11 Před 3 lety +122

    My pet peeve is a man asking me for money and to feed him 😩 I hate it.

    • @tulip4169
      @tulip4169 Před 3 lety +23

      The internet is now filled with males indirectly begging women for money.

    • @Ms.Haleyy
      @Ms.Haleyy Před 3 lety +13

      Sounds like a standard. Hashtag dealbreakers!

    • @lettya3993
      @lettya3993 Před 3 lety +9

      I hate it when men ask me if they can stay with me for a couple of days.

    • @Ms.Haleyy
      @Ms.Haleyy Před 3 lety +6

      @@lettya3993 bLLOCKED! 😂 All of the way

    • @lettya3993
      @lettya3993 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Ms.Haleyy . Absolutely

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 Před 3 lety +61

    Ignore them Tony. We all the friends you need. 🥰

  • @mzbattle1210
    @mzbattle1210 Před 3 lety +40

    peace of mind is priceless

  • @silviapalomba9946
    @silviapalomba9946 Před 3 lety +91

    He left me for the one he cheated me on,she dumped him after two years of them been together,he wanted her back she left and he back to me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and asking me why I'm so upset about he just done a mistake ,so I said if she never left you ,you never back to me and you know what the manipulative man says that I should not think like this 🤣🤣🤣🤣 wish him to go to hell,I never took him back he can propose beg wherever I will never again love him again or even look to him as man or have respect for him.

    • @alicehardy8040
      @alicehardy8040 Před 3 lety +12

      Love Yourself first

    • @genj1184
      @genj1184 Před 3 lety +15

      exactly! if she never left you, you wouldn’t be here begging me. i went through the exact same! goodbyeeee

    • @my.0224
      @my.0224 Před 3 lety +4

      👏🏾🖐🏾👊🏾

    • @veelove2226
      @veelove2226 Před 3 lety +7

      They try to come back after being dumped so glad you moved on it’s someone better for you! 🙏🏾

    • @schoolwork232
      @schoolwork232 Před 3 lety +1

      You are a smart woman Silvia...God bless you!

  • @slimmbeauty2949
    @slimmbeauty2949 Před 3 lety +34

    Tony is so right. I met a man and he knew I was in wife in a month. For me, I never had that before so I wasn’t prepared or ready to step in that place but ladies pls know that a real man knows and it doesn’t take long.

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 Před 3 lety +1

      Not always the case, my ex left me for another chick, now hes divorced, so she wasnt the one for him, i was.

    • @relleyy
      @relleyy Před 3 lety +6

      @@jesuswilljudge7296 no, that means that neither of you were

  • @kumajoey6031
    @kumajoey6031 Před 3 lety +115

    Can you please do a video on how a toxic father and daughter relationship can affects the daughter's dating life(when the father is present). I would love to hear your thoughts on how a father shapes his daughter's view of men. Especially when he withholds validation and no matter what you do it seems like you never good enough in his eyes.

    • @brittbritt997
      @brittbritt997 Před 3 lety +15

      YESSS! This needs to be addressed!

    • @jadew9177
      @jadew9177 Před 3 lety +11

      Omg...It’s what I’ve been growing through. My mother was the bread winner. My father was present and we lived as a family but he is very controlling and berated me as I got older after my mother passed. I

    • @kumajoey6031
      @kumajoey6031 Před 3 lety +2

      @@brittbritt997 🙌

    • @kumajoey6031
      @kumajoey6031 Před 3 lety +4

      @@jadew9177 I'm sorry you went through that 😥, how did this affect your dating life? So before your mother passed he wasn't being mean to you?

    • @Ashley_Banks
      @Ashley_Banks Před 3 lety +6

      Yes this is an amazing topic!

  • @Best-ThingYouNeverHad
    @Best-ThingYouNeverHad Před 3 lety +33

    Left him because hes a cheater, a liar, a grown boy & a decepticon

  • @shannonjohnson5367
    @shannonjohnson5367 Před 3 lety +109

    Keep going about your father’s business Tony...Kingdom work is rewarding. I pray for you and your family brother because your obedience is better than sacrifice. God bless!

  • @ericaallen5216
    @ericaallen5216 Před 3 lety +13

    I always say there is a woman somewhere!!! She either under the bed, in the closet, in his bathroom, behind the curtain, in his car, or on his couch. I don’t get fooled when a man says oh I’m not seeing anyone. Right!!!!

  • @shelitaj.1479
    @shelitaj.1479 Před 3 lety +52

    Omg!! That exact thing happened to me a few months ago. My cousin called me talking about her abusive boyfriend and asked me to help her get away from him. Now I'm out of $2500 and two weeks later she posting pics of them together calling him the love of her life.

  • @shantellgonzalez7916
    @shantellgonzalez7916 Před 3 lety +24

    He is a mama’s boy. He left me to go back to his mom. That was the nail in the coffin for me. Now months later he misses me and knows that I’m his wife? Um no sir your mom is your wife carry on and God bless!✌🏽

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 Před 3 lety +4

      His mama didnt raise him right

    • @brittblessed
      @brittblessed Před 2 lety

      😃😄😆😅

    • @hollyrodgers9345
      @hollyrodgers9345 Před 2 lety

      Just went thru the same thing. Can’t marry a momma’s boy!! And yes, it’s like she is his wife!! Blah

  • @antob3908
    @antob3908 Před 3 lety +32

    Hey 👋 Tony, good advice as always. I left my toxic husband after 11 years of marriage. Our daughter was 10 years at the time and for the first time I had to rent my own apartment, be a single mom and pay my own bills. Life was stuff financially. I didn’t entertain a new man because I was too busy working and raising my daughter right. Now she’s 23 years old graduated with her medical degree from university and now doing her residency in a hospital. Ladies I’ll not lie it was difficult but I refused to give up, my daughter kept me focus and with God’s grace I survived. Now my daughter is on the right path and I’m doing well. I’m now ready to date the right man God has for me. “Be strong ladies, believe in your ability”🙏💕

  • @yummybubblecake7303
    @yummybubblecake7303 Před 3 lety +51

    🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 i sooooo had to hear this today. He left and 8 months later came back talking about wanting to work on our marriage (I’m his 3rd marriage). So glad I didn’t break and go back.

  • @BlondeVolDoll
    @BlondeVolDoll Před 3 lety +111

    I swear your video popped up about the time he messaged me LOL! Definitely a sign to not reply! 😩

    • @MoodyA1999
      @MoodyA1999 Před 3 lety +11

      😂😂😂don’t reply sis

    • @dawnsprings1708
      @dawnsprings1708 Před 3 lety +10

      Haha same!! He hit me up wanting to get back and I was thinking about everything he said right now when I saw this vid posted a min ago. Perfect timing!!

    • @BlondeVolDoll
      @BlondeVolDoll Před 3 lety +11

      @@MoodyA1999 I’m not going to but the timing was insane! 😩🤣🤣

    • @cherh
      @cherh Před 3 lety +4

      Yes it is! Follow through. You got this sis 🙏🏾❤

    • @lifeofmim
      @lifeofmim Před 3 lety +8

      Don’t do it girl. You deserve better.

  • @lizzylewis5793
    @lizzylewis5793 Před 3 lety +53

    Keep breaking the code Tony. God has been using you in setting the captives free and I thank God for that. My eyes have been truly opened💯💯God Bless!

  • @Sugarsugar4u
    @Sugarsugar4u Před 3 lety +18

    "Choosing from the wrong place in your heart, there'll be a price to pay!!!!" ALL FACTS!!!!!

  • @ClaraCouturexo
    @ClaraCouturexo Před 3 lety +12

    It always makes me laugh when he says “Commercial Break” and here comes a commercial!

  • @MakeupTiffany
    @MakeupTiffany Před 3 lety +14

    100% single club here. We meet on Tuesdays and Thursdays! 😂👋🏾

  • @yumyaw
    @yumyaw Před 3 lety +19

    A grown boy will be offended by what you are doing but a mature man with a healthy mind will take the message and change his ways. God said it himself “
    New King James Version
    When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” 1Corinthians13:11 So those men have to respect what God has put on your spirit to speak about. Point blank Perioooooood in my Tony Gaskin’s voice 🤣

  • @tjsmagicalgametime2916
    @tjsmagicalgametime2916 Před 3 lety +19

    At this rate I will never be with another man again!!!! I just cannot deal with all this falseness with men’s behaviour it’s too much to deal with.

    • @chickwitthagoodies
      @chickwitthagoodies Před 3 lety +4

      Same here it's just too much maybe next lifetime if they ain't cheating they wanna kill your ass

    • @tjsmagicalgametime2916
      @tjsmagicalgametime2916 Před 3 lety

      @@chickwitthagoodies exactly!!! Doesn’t seem worth the while in my eyez! I’m just staying man free!

    • @ginad8238
      @ginad8238 Před 3 lety +4

      Sisters...Never give up ..but Surrender to trust God completely with your life and His purpose for your future. Grace and Peace🙏🏽

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 Před 3 lety

      Don’t give up. When it’s the truth it can’t be denied.

    • @lsavestheworld5147
      @lsavestheworld5147 Před 3 lety +1

      Amen...too much effort...happier alone.

  • @Juju-gf3iq
    @Juju-gf3iq Před 3 lety +11

    Unk you made really good points as always. As someone who has been in a former abusive relationship, I’ll say that when you are really done and at your breaking point then no excuse will hold you back from leaving. I let that financial aspect keep me there because we were living in a home that was 2500 a month. I was worried about how I would be able to maintain all the bills as a single mom of two small children but I had to take that leap of faith. I kicked him out (it wasn’t easy but when u mention that Popo 👮 oh that got him) When I tell you God provided and made sure I never missed a payment on ANYTHING and my kids was all the way straight! I could write a whole book on how much God looked out and worked through ppl to make sure I was able to stay in that home until lease was up, it amazes me. God is a amazing. When you let go and Let God handle it he blesses you in ways you wouldn’t even imagine. Now I’m a proud home owner and he put me in a better place. Turn your pain into purpose. God gives us the gift of Life. Don’t waste it on people who don’t value you.. Thanks Tony, God works through you to empower us!!

  • @lifeofmim
    @lifeofmim Před 3 lety +38

    This message was badass. I feel very strong after that. Thank you Tony. Blessings to you 100x

  • @arij.2821
    @arij.2821 Před 3 lety +17

    Right on time!
    Weak moments tempts me to get back an abus husband. but. God answered me when he sent you my way to wake me up.. but I feel so much peace without him. The kids are happy without all that mess.. Thanks love your Great!

  • @binspired3117
    @binspired3117 Před 3 lety +9

    Your attitude is what defines you. This man is giving away the game and you complain about advertisements!!! Wow! Everything in life worth having requires sacrifice! Grow up LISTEN to wisdom so that God will Bless you. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that Brother Tony is walking with the Lord. At 58 he is telling me things I wish I would have learned from my father. Years wasted for lack of knowledge. Stay humble, keep your spirit calm, pray and Thank God you came across this channel. It will save you a lifetime of heartache. I am crying 😢 just thinking of 40 plus years of relationship trauma! But I am full of hope that one day after working on the three B’s, well I have one down God will send my Boaz. In His timing... Be Blessed🙏🏽😇💕

  • @jayray420
    @jayray420 Před 3 lety +12

    You speak the divine truth. The thousands of women you help will far outweigh those players who are pissed you're revealing a code. God bless you.

  • @lial6061
    @lial6061 Před 3 lety +25

    Time for class! 🍎🔑

  • @onlyonekiney
    @onlyonekiney Před 3 lety +25

    Tony Ive said this before but I gotta say again Thank Yu So much for just educating us grown women on The Game! Listen I was just with a group of women recently and Im telling you lots of women are just not up to The code! I told them they need to listen to your channel and get some education. It will save them a lot of heartbreak. Blessing to you Tony. Ive listen and learned from you Tony and im 58 years old, Never to old to learn this stuff, get you some education, point blank period!

  • @lilrodz
    @lilrodz Před 3 lety +20

    Got.. to.. go.. 🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️ immediately 💯🙌

  • @glamorous8685
    @glamorous8685 Před 3 lety +16

    Hello Tony not only some men are upset because u giving advice. But also your Success and turning your life around👍. You right never ever take a man back who Emotionally and physically abuse you. May God continue to bless you and your family always 😊.

  • @mariadaskalakis9317
    @mariadaskalakis9317 Před 3 lety +9

    “This is about me pleasing my Lord and Saviour “ - grateful for it Coach. 💫

  • @Itsacamlife
    @Itsacamlife Před 3 lety +18

    I don’t know what’s happening! Why is Tony making video that is reading my mind! Damn! It was meant to be!

  • @joanna6570
    @joanna6570 Před 3 lety +14

    It took the guy I dated 2 dates. I left because he was confused and wanted to and I quote “build an empire with someone” but didn’t say he wanted that with me. I wasn’t bitter just simply moved on. We parted for 5 weeks, he messaged me and said he knows what he wants now. After having time to think. And that was a relationship. Deep in my spirit I feel in that gap he didn’t manage to find better & I’m just convenient or something. Just a lot of mind games that I can’t deal with. Peace of mind is invaluable

    • @nathlitakarnley7495
      @nathlitakarnley7495 Před 2 lety

      Block him!

    • @joanna6570
      @joanna6570 Před 2 lety +1

      @@nathlitakarnley7495 thanks but I did and ended up changing my number because he kept on calling me off no caller ID

  • @beckyvegalifecoach2481
    @beckyvegalifecoach2481 Před 3 lety +15

    God is my provider! 🙌🙌🙌

  • @freckledfacedbeauty151
    @freckledfacedbeauty151 Před 3 lety +10

    Thank you so much Tony for helping women all over! I’m 23 years old and I’m so thankful that my mom introduced me to your channel a while back. I have a whole new perspective now!

  • @sandranorth275
    @sandranorth275 Před 3 lety +24

    Tony, we need to know, sooo we as Women know how to better deal with Men in 2020,
    So I Thank You and Appreciate you and your
    Information!!!!😊🙏🏽

  • @NAJErEa91
    @NAJErEa91 Před 3 lety +7

    WOW! I NEVER REALLY CONSIDERED THE SPIRITUAL WARFARE U MUST BE UP AGAINST IN ORDER TO DELIVER THIS MESSAGE. I WILL BE SURE TO KEEP U LIFTED UP IN PRAYER UNCLE TONE. MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT TO YOU

    • @NAJErEa91
      @NAJErEa91 Před 3 lety

      WATCHED IT 3 TIMES :D AND LEARNED SOMETHING NEW WITH EACH REPLAY :)

  • @beckyvegalifecoach2481
    @beckyvegalifecoach2481 Před 3 lety +4

    I like the fact that you said that your calling can sometimes feel lonely . It’s true . Not everyone can go where God is taking you . Not everyone wants to grow . And that’s ok !

  • @roxyweatherspoon897
    @roxyweatherspoon897 Před 3 lety +12

    Awesome video stayed with him until my son had completed high school and I left life is good and my son has finished college and he is an army reserve Sargent Always consult God with any decision you make concerning your life and your children never let a man know you are desperate Bless you for your inspirational teachings

  • @mission24love
    @mission24love Před 3 lety +8

    Thank God for a man like you integrity, values and honesty want he do. I pray God continue to bless you and your family.

  • @evocentricpodcast1643
    @evocentricpodcast1643 Před 3 lety +35

    This was a great episode... And hr definitely well spent.

  • @gracegratitude2642
    @gracegratitude2642 Před 3 lety +4

    Know your worth, value your life, love yourself, in America you can be anything, you can do anything , there are many outlets out there to earn money and keep going caring for yourself and your kids. It might not be the dream life but it would be peace of mind.

  • @heikemcjunkin5103
    @heikemcjunkin5103 Před 3 lety +3

    I met a guy true my sister , I didn't date after my divorce for 4 years when I met him I thought he were different telling me all u can trust women and do much more ,I moved from tx to va got us a place , I did everything for him , helped him getting cars cooked dinner washed his clothes just everything , but he really didn't do anything with me , going out or anything , one he was gone I went true a old phone and saw that he been cheating , I kicked him out , we got back together , and it happened again so like 3 weeks ago I told him to leave now he is very disrespect full towards me calling me all kind of things , but I've been watching ur videos and all what u say is so true I'm way happier now again Thank you

    • @ultimateoptimist5217
      @ultimateoptimist5217 Před 2 lety

      He is a narcissistic sociopath...run sister run fast and delete block and don't look back.

  • @veelove2226
    @veelove2226 Před 3 lety +7

    When I say Tony Gaskins is speaking the truth I’m so glad he spoke on this subject so many women need to hear this! TG been on a roll! If a man ever leave you! Never take him back! Speak on it! TONY GASKINS! 🙏🏾💯💯💯

  • @sharnette8485
    @sharnette8485 Před 3 lety +9

    Tony we appreciate you for being a beacon of light in a world of darkness 💖

  • @nattysessentialsllc2044
    @nattysessentialsllc2044 Před 3 lety +8

    Omg! When your child has the right shoe on the left foot and you didn’t catch it because you were up all night crying...😂 I promise I have heard everything you said before this Tony but I appreciate the comic relief that allows me to not be as distraught about my situation... Thank you so much for giving it to us straight. It has helped me so much😊

  • @meetvirginia7023
    @meetvirginia7023 Před 3 lety +27

    My ex texted me A few hours ago after he said he didn’t wanna relationship, so here I am seeking advice. New subscriber, hello.
    Sorry about the bro-code 😩

    • @ntrvlogs2904
      @ntrvlogs2904 Před 3 lety +10

      So don’t give him a relationship or anything else

    • @larichou25
      @larichou25 Před 3 lety +18

      dont take back a man who left you! Never! He's probably bored right now and needs someone attention. Please don't fall for it. Speaking from experience!

  • @MrsLC-tp8oj
    @MrsLC-tp8oj Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Tony Gaskins 🙏🏽

  • @twilliams3600
    @twilliams3600 Před 3 lety +1

    We appreciate you and your message Tony!

  • @peaceful_and_blessed2879
    @peaceful_and_blessed2879 Před 3 lety +14

    Love this Tony!!! There’s a whole lot of us women dating Jesus these days and I can vouch that its worth the peace of mind that comes with it! Be blessed!! 🙏🏻🙌

  • @kathart5045
    @kathart5045 Před 3 lety

    You’re a blessing Tony. Appreciate your insights

  • @shenice8449
    @shenice8449 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank You, you're helping a lot of people!

  • @cydnee6461
    @cydnee6461 Před 3 lety +1

    This is too good Tony. God-sent!

  • @Kathyyyyy123
    @Kathyyyyy123 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for your daily posting! Stay bless!

  • @angelanash3109
    @angelanash3109 Před 3 lety +1

    Bless you & Thank you Kingdom man for doing it God's Wayyy!

  • @TlangiBaloyi
    @TlangiBaloyi Před 3 lety +1

    Your videos are always appreciated Tony, thank you.

  • @sunshineonmyshouldersmakes8331

    Happy day Tony and family

  • @brendajones9110
    @brendajones9110 Před 3 lety +5

    PREACH AND SPEAK.....AMEN

  • @brandihines2332
    @brandihines2332 Před 3 lety +2

    HEY TONY. BEEN A MINUTE SINCE I LISTENED. DECIDED TO CATCH UP STARTING TONIGHT. CONTINUE TO BE BLESSED 🙏🏽

  • @shemikahurd4215
    @shemikahurd4215 Před 3 lety

    I so needed to hear this right now.

  • @verigabs
    @verigabs Před 3 lety +1

    Tony, you are the best! I’ve learned to much from the videos and I haven’t gone through them all yet. 🙏🏼

  • @lengocchau1454
    @lengocchau1454 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you so much Tony! You opened my eyes and ears!

  • @laphawnewatt4830
    @laphawnewatt4830 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Mr. Tony Gaskins Be Blessed

  • @katrinaandersonward5938
    @katrinaandersonward5938 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for the message/video. I can relate so much to your content and scenarios. Keep them coming (round of applause).

  • @daniellehawkins7873
    @daniellehawkins7873 Před 3 lety

    Awww thank you bro, for your sacrifice, God bless you.

  • @cassandratarver5319
    @cassandratarver5319 Před 3 lety +1

    God Bless you Tony for this powerful word.

  • @marieblassingame6138
    @marieblassingame6138 Před 3 lety +1

    Amen, Amen, preached Tony.... you are so RIGHT!!!

  • @Iamnayhall
    @Iamnayhall Před 3 lety +8

    The passing gas ⛽️ part got me laughing so hard right now lol 😂 😆

  • @tmr5974
    @tmr5974 Před 3 lety +2

    I needed this. Thank you!

  • @karenbrowner8023
    @karenbrowner8023 Před 3 lety +1

    Bless you, Tony, you have a heart of gold and give good advice, you tell it so true. I watch you and learn so much...

  • @keeidoeee
    @keeidoeee Před 3 lety +8

    “When you do the work, the results follow” thank you so much Tony! I needed this video so much, had to watch it twice! Great message

  • @cozymelodiccorner
    @cozymelodiccorner Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Tony for your work. God will continue to Bless you 🖤❤🙏🏽

  • @godfirstcold3237
    @godfirstcold3237 Před 3 lety +1

    Eiiiiiii Tony you just nail it right on the edge..... blessed Sir you ...

  • @ktucker4083
    @ktucker4083 Před 3 lety

    Tony, I love your CZcams Videos...stay bless!!!!

  • @iamericaelle9338
    @iamericaelle9338 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you Tony!!!!!🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @missk4021
    @missk4021 Před 3 lety

    PREACH TONY!!!! Much✨ 🙏🏽✨Gratitude For Allowing The Spirit To Use You... 😪❤️ I Am Grateful To Your words of wisdom.. Many Blessins. To you and your family. ✨🙏🏽✨

  • @Erica-et4ye
    @Erica-et4ye Před 3 lety +1

    Wow...awesome teaching Tony!! Be blessed 🙏🏾

  • @tinajones1932
    @tinajones1932 Před 3 lety +1

    I didn't forget, here ya go 🎤 and thank you sir for the UNcut truth.

  • @ildikoeva72
    @ildikoeva72 Před 3 lety

    Very very good video. Thank you!!! Every word is true....have to be listened a couple of times to remember and not to fall into the trap again.

  • @crzytinabubu
    @crzytinabubu Před 3 lety

    We appreciate you tony .. thats sacrificing your friendships but at the end of the day you are definitely changing the world 🌎..