Why William & Harry Grew Apart | William & Harry: Princes at War? | Real Royalty
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- With a combination of archive and interviews we explore the truth behind the headlines. Is there really a war between Prince William and Prince Harry? As speculation heats up around Prince Harry’s and Prince William’s relationship, are the rumours of a rift true? Are we heading for a royal show down or is it something that has been blown up by the media?
The two Princes have grown up in the media spotlight and are rumoured to have grown apart. They now have separate charities, split social media accounts, different staff and two households. We analyse how this sibling relationship has changed over the years, from the strong bond formed, to meeting their new wives and starting a family of their own. We ask what the future holds for the brothers and the ‘Fab Four’.
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Diana would be heartbroken if she knew that her sons were not speaking and a rift between them.
😂😂😂😂
And what about the parent that is still alive? What has Charles done to heal their rift?
Because of Harry
@@evelyndaisy9722 It appears to me, that, in Meghan, Harry FINALLY got the love he so desperately was searching for. I do not understand why people are not just happy for the man, and allow him to live his life as he chooses.
@@lastjob2011 are you kidding. she entrapped him. this is not love. she is evil to turn against the monachy for her selfishness because the word of our times now is RAcist.
I wish people stop comparing them
Two different personalities
Leave them alone
If you feel they should be left alone, shouldn’t you contact the press and news stations and press and demand they stop? I doubt any of them will see your comment on a CZcams video.
your so right 🙏 some people have too much spare time they spend time invested in other people business they have no life. They love drama some people mouth is like venom their poisonous. All this drama is coming from racism as soon as anyone step out to date someone of “color “ as they would call it , the Hate and drama begins. But God has the last say he will deal with all the haters .
@@gabe-po9yi come down Elizabeth, obviously this was just to keep the conversations going and not in a literal sense 🙄
even they come from one mother still both have different characterism. one is more formal and one is more regular happy go lucky person. but not all children will grow up easy when they saw how their parents go broken into separation because of the father go with the mistress and see their mothers loneliness till she got accidents. Hard for Hurry to not to forget what he sees at his young age
Amen
Reading these comments, I’ve just realized how horribly it must breaks my moms heart that my brother and I refuse to talk to each other.
Her last bday, him and I agreed to play nice in front of her. She told me it was her happiest bday she ever had. At that moment I realized it was no longer about our disagreements, but letting my mom die peaceful knowing we would take care of each other.
This is normal! We just need to accept that the royals are not perfect....they are gods children and will go threw tuft times like any ordinary person...unfortuently the boys were born and watched there every move.....Horrible just Horrible!!!
She did comment he was little idiot. She might slap the shit out of him if she alive
As a mother of two sons….. you gifted your mother.
Tuft lol
Yes, one time my sister and I got into a physically fight. Just a minor catfight really. We were very young adults, but i remember hearing my mother crying screaming for us to stop and telling our boyfriends to stop us and she was soooo so upset. More upset than i even was and i was the one fighting. I realized then how much our getting along meant to her and we've played nice ever since.
I really do sympathise with the spare, but look at Princess Anne..she is an amazing example of a spare who accepted her position and still decided to serve, albeit on her own terms. In my mind, she comes a close second to Queen Elizabeth, as an example of royal service and selfless service…an example of people first…I have such respect for her
Perfectly stated !!! Wholeheartedly agree. Big difference Princess Anne. To Harry disloyalty
What service do people get of this institution? Ok, you have the king but really, other have one president and not some family that do few charity works. Meghan made this family modern and inclusive and not rigid in the world's eyes. Now, ppl mostly don't care and the family look bad, bcs of the same rasi***c attacks Yoko Ono got, hate and blame and whatnot.
Harry is happy with her, he is noonger heiling hitler, drunk or on drugs.
She wasn't the best royal member so what, that family was boring until them, and nobody can tell me Margaret wasn't more diva nust for fun and whatnot. You literally have a queen mistresd from the professional mistresses family, and wannabe tampon king. And you admire to them and went ballistic bcs Meghan wasn't so good in protocols and American, she acted sometimes as Hollywood star diva (nothing that Margaret and many others didn't do before) and palace went attackingher trought the media and made her next Yoko. And she was loved so much. Have you ever asked yourself who put this into your head? What a disgrace your king tampon is? His queen divorcee mistress?? How they even dare to judge? Meghan including herself into meetoo, feminism did bring actually postive points for RF worldwide. Nobody cares about Anne. And ask even British youngesters. And about the Brexit. You are stuck in some 15th century mentality and total discrepancy with your own youth, the rest of Europe and the world.
Anne should counsel the other spares in the family more.
She was also born in a time where she couldn't have been Queen even if Charles was unable to fullfill the role. It would have skipped her & went to her brothers before going to her. Queen Elizabeth changed that rule for Charlotte Oct. 29, 2011. So therefore Princess Anne was never a spare. She would have come after all her brothers & any children they had.
Even if you are a spare you need to realize that your life is better than a billion people
As a mother of two sons, about the same ages as William and Harry, it would break my heart to know my sons were not speaking to each other or anything. It's such a heartbreak and I sincerely hope those two boys find their way home to each other.
Yes it sure breaks our hearts. I am the oldest sibling and when the younger ones do bad, I have to always do good by forgiving them. William must find a way to forgive. Diana must be sad in her grave.
@@Junjo11 When you die, that's it. According to Scripture you don't know or care what's going on in life. You are in another place Free from the issues of the living world. That's why it is death. You are in a new body serving the God of heaven. f you take the time to read a bible you will find that out. That one is no secret. Read.
@@sassegranny4700 I know that you are correct. My saying was just a matter of speech.
You are right. It would bother any mother to know that her sons were not speaking but it does not help when you have a daughter-in-law that takes the one son away from his family instead of trying to heal the problem. It only adds more tension by what she’s doing. She needs to butt our and not air out their dirty laundry for all to see. Really she goes on the Oprah Winfrey show and tells of all the abuse that she was put through. Sounds like she’s pretty self-centered to me! Only thinking of herself!
@@debbiemiller8168 Meghan did not take Harry away. He wanted to go and Meghan became the reason. He made statements like he would rather be in Afghanistan than sit around Winsdor. He also said that no one really wanted the job of being royal. He said those things long before Meghan arrived. Every one wanted Harry to keep tagging along with William. You are criticizing her for airing dirty given the books and interviews Charles and Dianadis.
I lost my Mom at 13 and my brothers were 18 and 21. None of us were ever the same. I feel for these two.
i’m so sorry for your loss 😕
Their issues have VERY little to do with their mother. The press was ALWAYS the issue, never the death of their mother
@@billblaski9523 she was 13 and her brothers were 18 and 21
Yes. And everyone processes trauma like that differently. Agreed.
Peace to you 🕊🕯
@@lorrainearmstrong7587
Only each of those men in which Harry was only 11 at his mother s passing, know the trauma and lasting effects. Losing your mom at 11 so instantly would be a monumental trauma for a child. And each child would process that differently.
Harry was already raised as the spare and then to lose his center in life ( his momma ) had to be so disorienting and forever painful.
I wonder what Princess Diana would be doing, with her sons and daughter's in law and grandchildren. So SAD, she was killed. Miss seeing her face. So special she was.👑❤
As a mother of two sons that aren't close as they were it breaks a mother's heart
We can't choose what family we are born into, or the experiences we encounter as a child. But we can choose the sort of adult we turn into.
And people must accept our choices.
How can anyone call a child the “spare”. While I get the ones in line for the throne, calling a child a spare by the news media and/or family members is beyond disgusting
Diana is the one who started calling him the spare.
@Wynn True, but I meant that she started calling him that to his face and made a point of letting him know that he was the spare.
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The riff started way before Meghan! The brothers started growing apart a long time ago! So much hatred towards them from strangers. People who don’t know them and most likely , never will. The constant comparisons are just simply ridiculous! No one but those involved will ever know the real truth.
All this stupidness that social media is putting out about the Royals is making things worse because the Royals are not commenting on any thing people in high places are just saying things they would happen or believe should happen without any proof .The Royals are probably saying, (what you see here ,what you hear here and what you do hear let it stay here);so what ever is being put out there mostly is guess work
Coming to the point now, William is growing up as a sensible man yet Harry needs our prayers, without doubt, as probably misses his Mother Diana dearly, as all children do, when one parent leaves suddenly - Here's wishing both the boys every happiness in togetherness = all children are a Gift from God no matter what the outcome
Praying always as often as one can : - How true : the family that prays together stays together !! Our Mother Theresa was very fervent in her prayers for peace and generosity - Give till it hurts!
Alleluia our God reigns and always will forever and ever
When there is a wedge between two siblings, a wedge who has "an agenda", then the gap is insurmountable. Sadly, such is the case when "the agenda" is vicious & destructive.
i dont think most people understand the trauma these 2 (now) men went through as kids. being followed by the press all the time. hearing stories about their dad cheating on their mother. going through their parent's divorce. their mother's death. having to deal with camilla as their new mother figure... its a lot for anyone - young or old. whatever rift happened between them both is simple when you think about it... diana's death impacted harry more than it did william. it's lingered longer. harry realized that the media and being harassed is a huge part of why his mother was so unhappy. so, when it started happening to his wife, he made a choice. he chose to put his wife first. thats something charles never did. and its something that william wouldnt do because hes been groomed since childhood to be kingly and traditionally royal. they are two different men, despite coming from the same mother. harry is more like diana and william is more like charles. that alone, was bound to cause some tension between the two at some point
Harry is and always has been a good person. He did his best to find purpose in his life as the spare heir after sowing his wild oats as a young man. He did great in the military and he met and married a woman he loves and has a beautiful family with her. He really is a very kind person and that is all that matters. He knew his father was going to pare down the working royals once he became king: he just got out a bit early. Too bad it wasn't a more congenial split. I'm sure he and his grandmother missed each other these past 2 years.
It was the MEDIA that said there was a split...then everyone jumped on board. I can see why Harry did exactly what he did and why. After what was done to his mom, I give him mega credit for his choices. 💕💕
Thank you, well put. More people should think as you do. People should stop blaming Meghan for Harry using his own brain.
@@ekquinn7059 so Harry and Meghan’s rants are just for show. No split 🙄
U said it positively it's the realness of the truth..
Siblings. The relationship ebbs and flows throughout your lifetime. It’s called life and theirs is under a microscope.
Well said
I wich William embrace to have a brother like Harry cause this is the world u never know what will happen tomorrow. As brothers they have to stick together and love each for the sake of their children and their late Princess Diana 🙏
@@rose-maryzodwa1957 So true, they both should especially remember that we don't know what tomorrow will bring... remembering 08/31/1997
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As long as they are both alive there is possibility of reconciliation. People need to focus on their own lives and butt out.
I totally agree with you!!!
IT IS THE MEDIA THAT MAKING THEM GROWING APART.
I feel so sad that this has happened. I think Diana would be heartbroken.
I was 39 when I lost my mom, and it was very difficult for me. I can't imagine losing mom at 15, much less at 12.
I was 30 when my Dad died. Almost 13 years and I still miss him every day. My brother in law was killed by a drunk driver when my beautiful niece was only 5. She was just old enough to have real, solid memories of him and to feel and underetand how great a loss it was. It's awful to lose a beloved parent, at any age. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in your memories and know your Mom loved you very much.
I was 21 when my mom passed. She was diagnosed w cancer when I was 16. (Got lucky for the years we had with stage 4) always said I can’t imagine how it is for people younger than I was at that age. I could barely handle it. I feel cheated but I at least had an okay amount of time. Honestly I’m jealous of people in their 30s that still have their mom. Nothing compares to mom god bless friend. Doesn’t matter the age the loss still hurts.
I was 15, the same age as William when his mother died, when my dad unexpectedly died. It was absolutely the worst experience of my life and has affected every day of my life since. Harry was even younger.
I think both of them had to have been greatly affected by it, but William always had a path set before him, and he embraced it. Harry didn’t. So no matter what he has become since then, I agree that his mother‘s death had a much more unsettling effect in the long run on Harry than William.
I’m not saying that one of them loved her more than the other. I’m just saying that William had something concrete to fill that hole with, while Harry didn’t.
Same here... I was 37 and I can't imagine losing her that young‼️
I lost both my parents, 6 months apart when I was 12/13 years old. It certainly messed you up. As a kid you bounce back but when I hit my late teens there were all sorts of emotional problems.
Children grow up, have different personalities,after they get married have their own children the dynamics and relationship changes. Sibling rivalry?
This is so sad 🥺. I hope William and Harry find their way back to each other. Rift or not, they’re brothers. 💔 Hopefully sooner rather than later
Without becoming a pawn for the media moguls to get it!!
I agree. William is expected to rule and Harry is expected to be second best? How long was that expected to last? Harry deserves a life of his own!!! Their father Charles seems to be the blame. Divorces are common and a way of life. It happens!! I say the brothers should re-unite on their own; if William wants to be king, so be it. If Harry wants his own life, then he, like anyone, should have it. However, he should be willing achieve his life, without becoming a pawn for the media moguls!
@@maryfuller6589Harry is the only brother to publicly disrespect his father, stepmom, his own only brother, and his sister in law. He's paid the price of disrespect.
How silly to expect the two ladies to become fast friends.
True. But some of us also had some reservations about Meghan - though we didn't dare to say it loud.
I'm sorry.Why is it silly? Brothers should be friends. I am friends with my brothers and my two sons are best friends and see each other all the time and during their twenties... But don't live with each other have very separate personalities and different professions... Whenever I hear about siblings not speaking to each other it's always odd and tragic.
@@Ettibridget skin colour reservations?
@@angeleyessvenska9330 Among other things, yes.
I think the main difference between them mirrors the difference between the Queen and Princess Margaret. Duty vs personal freedom.
Time has changed and senior royals need to grow up and mature with the youth and let them break some of those prehistoric rules. All the rigid and out of date rules are breaking families apart. Less rules and more common sense and love ❤ I believe that's what Princess Diana was about... family. I see that in Prince he has really picked up that mantle and he is running with it!
Wow, that male commentator predicted it all! This is very well done! I love how honest yet unbiased it was and these comments are👏 The fact is, neither of them are saints and I really do hope they grow together again.
Not gonna happen after Waaah. Harry has to ditch Meghan and publicly renounce what he wrote in the book. He made a terrible choice and destroyed his life over an inferior woman who cares nothing for his well being.
The brothers are adults and have become their own people. The British press causes alot of problems too. They should leave these people alone to do their jobs. I can already seen that King Charles does not suffer fools gladly, so why should his sons. The British love to gossip which is really screwed up. They were partly responsible for driving them away to America.
They wouldn't have left is the queen agreed to working part time senior royal and commercial dealers. But allowing for that to happen will create so many problems for the Queen. Horrid never understood that. Anyway, they left already so that's it. One thing, they just have to stay away.
I agree with you. The press like to make up stories to gain viewers and make monies out of trash talk stories.
Well said,Anne Harton.
Anne Horton you are right. Other members of the family were not allowed to make money off their royal titles so H&M should not be allowed to either. Somehow they confused that with Harry's cousins that were not senior royals but actually worked for a living.
Charles was with Camilla an together they planned getting rid of an destroying Diana. So why would Camilla be afraid to destroy anyone.
I don't believe for one moment, " that the most chocolaty biscuits were kept aside for William". As if the baker of the royal biscuits only had so much chocolate and there wasn't enough chocolate to go around. How stupid and ridicules do they think we are. Shame on how silly Katie Nicholl sounded, she had to pull that out of her
I agree that the claim about the sandwiches and chocolate biscuits is ludicrous, but I have no doubt that the older members of the royal family and the royal establishment, those who grew up in times when it was normal to show more affection for the first born, discriminated against Harry in many other conceivable ways. Imagine you are a 7 year old child and your dad and grannie only take a picture with your 9 year old brother (obviously for monarchic and state propaganda, I can understand that, but a child can't). Imagine you and your brother are in the same room with adults and other children and everybody wants to speak to your brother but nobody except your mother (when she was around) can be bothered about you. Or imagine you go to a formal dinner with your brother and he always walks in front of you and everyone would greet him first while they shake your hand in haste and with no specific interest in you. All these things can destroy a child's soul, especially if they happen on a regular basis for years and years and nobody in your family actually sits down to have a chat with you and to explain that, just because in public they have to behave in a way that may seem unfair to you, that doesn't mean that they love and value you less.
@@bogdancristea9270 What a great comment. That's exactly how it was for Harry I think. And now too. I really think William had a large part in this split. He thinks everything is about him because that's how it's always been.
@@bogdancristea9270 Exactly ! It is cruel for anyone !
@@bogdancristea9270 I agree that the best was given to William first and foremost because it is just plain the culture; William got the love and respect because he will be the heir. Diana saw that and gave Harry extended love so he does not feel like a fish out of water.
I cannot even tell you how much I agree both with the main commentor and everyone who replied. The voices of sanity prevail!!!🎆🎆🎇🥂🥂
Prayers of Peace, Love, and Healing for the British Royal Family🙏🙏🙏❤🕊🤍🪽🌈
They will bond again. Family is family, especially theirs. Their blood is very strong! ❤❤❤
So many things not quite true in this film: e.g. Margaret was allowed to marry Peter Townsend but in this case she would have lost her royal titles. She chose the titles or social standing. It was Margret’s own choice.
It wasn’t. The choice was made for her. If she was “allowed”, she wouldn’t have to lose her titles and social standing. She was threatened and she caved because that was the thing to do at the time.
Actually, the yet inexperienced Queen Elizabeth II was convinced by her consultants that a wedding of her sister with Peter Townsend could mark the very end of monarchy. Therefore, she changed her decision and she gave her sister no choice. Princess Margaret would not only lose her status, she would also be ostracized in the same way as their uncle, Edward VIII.
@@pandemits also she would not be Queen but Charles would be king
@@pandemits Didn’t the Queen send Townsend to Germany to do some role? Margaret kept in touch with him for a while but because of the distance the relationship fizzled out. That’s what I seem to remember hearing.
@@A.F.U-A she could have married him but chose not to. That is a choice.
It’s kind of hard to be the Second Child in the family since the First Child is always in the focus of public eyes.
However if the second child is a better athlete and a social butterfly their popularity could be close to equal!
I can't say much since I'm the eldest among my siblings, but many second 'child' people successfully carved their own standing. In other monarchies, there are Prince Joachim of Denmark, Prince Guillaume of Luxembourg, Prince Carl Philip of Sweden, Prince Maximilian of Lichtenstein.. etc..they are all in second placing to their heir-to-the throne sibling.. None of them whines nor complains nor disparaged their respective family and country.. *smh
It is still a better life than many. Henry is eternally whining.
Prince Carl Philip of Sweden is the crown prince of Swedish royal family. He is married to a model or now she’s a former model and yet he knows that he can never be king because her sister is the heir of the family but he is still in the family and he is still okay with this and even his wife is okay with this and they’re actually doing pretty well so I think it depends on how you see it.
The focus of the establishment or the firm as thr calk it
it shouldn't matter who you marry as long as you are happy
Whatever they went through, as we all do, they are together again and that is all that matters = togetherness counts always so wishing them all the very best brothers united again so cheers! to both of them in the future years ahead the best brothers!
I feel sorry for Harry in a way because whether people want to admit it or not, kids can feel when their other sibling is the favorite, and that’s not a good feeling. There could be “deep down” sibling rivalry because of that, and it’s finally spilling over into their adult lives. I know other instances have occurred that may have caused tension, but when you’re treated differently from a sibling in the early stages of life, that can take its toll.
Agree with your comment true.
Its ashame what Prince Charles did to their mother and Harry is the one that is really feeling the pain.Harry is the one effected by Charles behavior in the marriage. As an adult Harry is the one feel the everlasting pain. I hope his pain will not continue for Harry. He have to be strong for your family.Breathe Harry breathe don't break down Harry in Jesus name be strong God answers prayer he still alive and well reach out with prayer.
Thats control telling them Harry and Meaghan what to do and act about their new born baby at the time of his baby birth.
I quite agree and I think the things that are being said about him and Meghan are horrible, ugly, rude, heartless and shameful. I think his FATHER, NOW kING, SHOULD NOT ABANDON HIS SON AND GRANDCHILDREN. I THINK THE MEDIA HAS BEEN MOST UNKIND.
@@robertagabor3736 Yes. So true.
I just want to hug that 12 yr old that lost his mother in front of the world.
I do I Understand this two Royal Families son, Willian and Harry! They are human being just like any born on Earth 🌎! I feel the pain they’re going through: They’re good families, that made mistakes etc. “God blessings for the Royal Families! Amen 🙏
I am praying that they will reunite for the good. This depends on their circle of influence. May God bless them as they parent th
I miss seeing the brothers together and in good sibling relationship. I hope and pray that they'd patch things up.
Bracia winni zawsze żyć w. zgodzie, zapomnieć o urazach, rozmawiać ze sobą ,matka tego by z pewnością pragnęła, miała tylko ich dwóch,oni byli jej radośćia życia
They could patch up but not with Meghan. Harry will have to understand the mess he has allowed Meghan to create. They warned him it was too soon prior to the wedding. When people tell you who they are believe them! Meg was refusing to speak to her father and he wasn’t at the wedding. She a bride lashing out as the royal helper went to lend a hand as she stepped out of the car. She didn’t have an asst there to help her now a friend. Now, dis the royal family and moving to US and don’t want titles and now they do want the titles.
‘Nor a friend there to help her’
It will happen… but only after Meghan dumps Harry. It’s only a matter of time.
If William is going to be a snob and not be a kind person to his brother by accepting his wife there will be no peace. And Will is now proving to be a bad older brother and I have doubts he can be a good King. Who really needs a King in 2022?
I can only imagine what it was like for William and Harry to lose their mother--arguably the most famous woman in the world--when they were very young. No doubt this had a major impact on their relationship moving forward. My brother and I (who are about as different as night and day) lost our mother when we were grown (49 and 41), and, ironically, her death brought us much closer together. I would hope that these brothers will recognize the importance of being bonded, despite their differences. But that can only happen with mutual understanding, respect, and acceptance.
They had a particularly close relationship because of their mother's death. He also had a great relationship with Catherine and looked on her as a sister. It is very sad that a wife could feel so threatened by her husband having a close bond with anyone except her. She now keeps him close - when did you last see him with anyone else - and she is in his ear all the time.
W & H's mother was never the most famous woman in the world - Queen Elizabeth was and still is the most famous woman around the world. Diana is like Harry & his wife, they are trying to outshine Queen Elizabeth, King Charles & Camilla and William & Kate etc by constant whining & crying. The media was responsible for TRYING to make Diana the center of attention by writing and saying things like everyone around the world loves Diana and even labeled her the 'people princess' and Diana had no problem with the media trashing her husband Charles and Camilla. (p.s. - Diana had boyfriends!)
That won't happen because William will someday be King.
I'm sorry but hundreds of children lost their mother at a young age they need to get over it and grow up. Harry is just a whinging pathetic arsehole.
@@patsimpson7834we don’t know what happened 😞.
It’s so sad and cruel of the other members to treat them differently!!!
😂 treating different people differently is cruel. The joke
I always thought that William, who had been older and had been Diana's confidante, understood the complex personality of his mum much better than Harry, who was only 12 and deified her. Maybe that's also why William was able to process her death in a more healthy manner.
William Older………only two years…..does not excuse Harry😡🤬🤬
They will forever be brothers. And now they chose different paths.
Blessings to them and everyone in every family who has to go through the ebb and flow of being human.
Thank you.
I think if u care about them please put them in your daily prayers they need it🙏
@Margaret 😨🥺🥺
When siblings are single they can be as close as can be but when they grow up and have their own family they start to be their own person having a family depends upon their chosen partner good or bad will show how they become later on😇🙏🏻♥️💜🌹🤗
Of course they were glued to each other, they had nobody else!
Social Media forced them apart
In my family my older siblings always had first choice, unfair, yes, but as an adult I turned out to be the most generous. It's not who got preferential treatment but how your personality develops into who you become and your abilities to change your way of thinking.
Pj
You because generous because you were not the one that got preferential treatment; you were the underdog who grew up to be generous because of your experience. Children lives what they learn. You decided to change things because of the affect it had on you.
Children who get preferential treatment over others at childhood to young adulthood will always have higher self esteem and care very little about others.
@@Junjo11 Thus we have Will trying to compete with Harry and making Harry miserable. And by extension we see a wife rivalry. Kate is not helping the situation either. Harry supported both of them thru the early years and they repay him with crap. He is right to be upset. He supported Will and Kate and they betrayed him.
@@JennyWinters true. Harry accepted Kate at the very beginning and supported both William and Kate; both did not do the same for Harry when he married Meghan.
It's no big deal, merely a classic case of sibling rivalry and moving on from sad childhood to lead their respective adult lives
Paul Burrell's readiness to prioritize financial gain over integrity highlights the pervasive influence of money. While sibling conflicts are commonplace, understanding the deeper reasons behind Harry and Meghan's decision to step back, such as mental health struggles and relentless media scrutiny, calls for empathy. Kate Middleton should never have been subjected to such intrusive media attention, demanding an urgent overhaul of press behavior towards celebrities. Public funding shouldn't entail sacrificing privacy, except for the heir, individuals must carve their own paths to financial stability. The Royal Family's portrayal often masks its preservation-centric agenda, hindering outsiders from flourishing within its constraints.
As the general public grasps this reality, the sensationalism surrounding these events can diminish, fostering space for the brothers to reconcile with mutual understanding. However, it's vital to recognize that the Crown's preservation will consistently supersede familial bonds, ingrained in their upbringing and fostering division among private secretaries. The monarchy's instinctual survival dictates that the Crown must prevail, lest history repeats itself, reminiscent of 1649 when public sentiment led to the monarchy's temporary abolition.
When the public stops comparing them, it may be easier for them all. everyone's Family fights
I think if Diana were still here this wouldn't be happening between the brothers. She would be heartbroken to see this happening between william and harry. Hope they can set aside their differences and reunite their relationship. It's to bad!!
If Diana was still alive, the bond between the brothers would be much stronger. She would try to keep William and Harry, on a more equal basis..despite Harry's status of a Royal being lowered, with William's children (and grandchildren) being closer to the throne than Harry. She could serve as a mentor to Kate and Megan, help bridge their differences, and help them help the brothers..
Harry wouldn't have likely moved out of the UK and become a powerful ally to William, in his role of Prince of Wales and eventually King..
All because a women
@@robertpolityka8464 Yes. She definetly would have kept William down to earth more.
That's because if Diana were alive, Harry would never have married Meghan..
@@bibaoreo4355 William is already down to earth. His mum made sure of that however Harry was likely always the one more spoilt by the family being the spare. William even chose a simple commoner as wife with a stable upbringing to raise a family and Kate and him lead a more normal lifestyle as opposed to most of the Royals.
People react to things differently, they are brothers they will workout it out as long as the Media butts out. What happen to their Mom I'm sure has a lot to do with their behavior. They each have a right to their decisions and we should respect that.
Exactly
I couldn't agree more with you. Well said.
They both made their 2 entire different decisions and people should respect them.
They weren't as close as perceived even when younger
Thank you for sending this broadcast.😊
It is easy to be on the outside looking in and say how lucky these people must be !!! Imagine not being truly able to live your LIFE---to have everything planned out for you before you are even BORN!!!
sounds like a luxury prison sentence
That would have worked wonders for me. I'm 40 and my life is going nowhere
@rpgfan god has plans for all of us so we just wait whatever hit us lol.
The Queen, Charles and William, as heir apparents, are the only ones whose lives were planned out. The others have as much free reign as they wish. Both of Princess Anne’s children and both of Andrew’s daughters have careers that have nothing to do with royalty. For some odd reason, Harry said he was trapped like his father and brother, but he was never anything of the sort.
@@gabe-po9yi thank you for the details wow. Didn’t know that . Harry seems very cheerful to me .
I’m 12 and my sister is 15, I can not imagine losing my mother at this time. It must have been very hard for them. I hope they will become close again like before, it’s so sad seeing them not talk to each other like this 😢
So sad to see the two brother’s relationship ended up to be like that!
Diana would be heartbroken. Something tells me their Dad, King Charles is behind it.
I prayed you two will bond & give the world your most brotherly love as the royal majesties could do for your happiness& world a sigh of relief & joy. Peace prayer❤💜💥🤝🫡🤲✝️!!
Many love and feel touched with most of things you both do. May that love Continue in peace .
I'm hoping that William and Harry William will be great friends again
So true
The cringe I felt when they called Harry the spare😣. I feel Harry’s need to disconnect
That's a common royal vernacular. The hier and the spare. It's been used for centuries.
@@ucheokoroafor8273 doesn't make it right. I'd have not felt to good being called a spare by my parents.
Harry has always been known as the spare
@@ucheokoroafor8273 "it's always been done this way.." Maybe it's time to come into the 21st century.
Why does no documentary show Meghan saying "Don't I have a voice?". It was obvious to me that she would be a problem when she said that.
My brother & I never got along. My 2 daughters are as different as night & day. My 2 granddaughters don’t get along. Now there are 4 greats, all very young but I wonder how things will work out for them. I can only pray for the best.🙏
This is sad yet quite common for adult siblings to become estranged, more than you think. Honestly, once you're an adult and have your own life, your tolerance for your siblings nonsense and petulant behaviour diminishes vastly. You just start to care more about your own peace and energy. Those of you who are still close to your siblings, well consider that it's easier to stay in touch when you actually get along and neither is selfish, problematic or narcissistic. Not everybody has that blessing.
I do wish Will and Harry well but unfortunately, a very common cause of family estrangement are the spouses who marry into the family and therefore the rift is not dissolved until a divorce occurs. Sorry to say it but it's what I've observed 🤷🏻♀️
I totally agree w/this comment writer.Darima 2.
Well said!
Ridiculous! Harry doesn't need to divorce his wife Meghan to please his brother; that would make their relationship and family bond completely collapse. Harry deserves to be respected better than a 3rd-wheel/ Threesome to his brother. These types of views by Britain's will ultimately be the demise of this pointless monarchy.
You are so correct, the choice of the spouse is the problem. Your choice is yours not theirs. God looks at the heart and not the colour of the skin.if their had true love for their mother that would have been a good thing.
Wait till a funeral happens and things are started to be divided... war always happens with siblings. Over BS stuff too. I dealt with it with my MIL and my sil, she gave zero to her brother and I just stepped out. Karma happened... all her crap was stolen in a home robbery so she got nothing too. I don't try to dwell on it but I was just the wife of the son that the son sent to be the emissary. I had no bone in this fight but I got stuck with it. Thanks to the powers that be. I am not greedy so I don't care, I do think it was unfair but not by circus anymore.
A week old baby really doesn’t need to se anyone besides the parents really. That is a disgusting sense of entitlement to feel like anyone should be obligated to share their brand new baby with anyone. Its crazy.
Indeed, especially since showing the baby at the hospital after the birth. It's not royal protocol. Diana started that. The Queen had her children at home, as most of the monarchs of centuries past have done.
So true. What happened if Meghan was anemic after the birth and did not feel to strong.
I believe that the reason why Harry and Meghan took a little while to introduce the baby to the public and took steps to introduce the baby in an enclosed settings indoor is that because the baby is bi-racial and that they had to make sure it was safe. One person in the media said that "the chimp has left the hospital" Harry & Megan knows that a black baby may need more safety, so they wanted to keep the baby safe. There is a lot of love in this world but there is also a lot of hate. Kate introduce her baby in the open outside but Harry and Meghan introduce their baby in an enclosed surrounding to keep him safe from haters.
@@Junjo11 Nonsense. Their babies are as white as they can be though. Megan herself look like white a bit tanned person. But you can believe what you want and spread that racist agenda.
I wouldn't have my baby if I was famous all over the MEDIA WHY SO THEY COULD RUIN THEIR LIFE TOO. OR PUT THEM IN DANGER.
OK that's some serious premonition skills 😂😂😂 43:05
I have seven sons and I would never be happy if they were not speaking to each other
I keep wondering how much of these rumors are true and how much drama was generated by the press.
For example, I missed my nephew’s last birthday party. It was scheduled about a week later than I anticipated. Months earlier, I had scheduled something else that weekend and couldn’t cancel it. If I were a public figure and some rumor mongers were looking at the situation from the outside, they could have easily speculated that there was a rift in my family and I was snubbing them.
Me, too.
Megan is the one who made the claim that they were racist and treated her badly. Truth be told the woman is a narcissist. She doesn't have any close friends and she has effectively isolated him away from his family now. Megan thinks the Royal rules don't apply to her, but also expects exceptions to the rules for her.
Omg Samantha you said it!! You are absolutely correct! If a person is not strong, social media could break them, depress them and possibly make them suicidal. That’s why it all boils down to knowing our worth and who Christ has created us to be. Our worth is not determined by external factors.
@@ValGen1and17 Preach it!✝️🙋♀️
Exactly....I gotta say, a lot is media, I bet....but there may have been some animosity. William may have been counting on Harry to help him when Charles passes and he moved to the US, which I totally get because of the paparazzi and his mom. They will work it out. Time, all things change with time. ✌
When Brothers Marry everything Changes.
Harry remained close and friendly after William married Kate. They grew apart only after Meghan came into the picture.
Specially if said woman is a social climber.
@@captlanc This is why i said that when Brothers Marry Everything Changes because They have the influences of their wives.
@@captlanc exactly. They clearly are not pleased that she is a black woman.
First of all Megan is not 100%black she's mixed and she is a very beautiful woman. But she did not understand that her husband came from a whole different life. And no I am not saying money . I am saying royalty , he loved his family . I still believe he does it is so sad that this rift need not be. He is mourning the death of his grandmom and he is also mourning the separation between him and his brother, father family !! Megan ,I'm sure not by design but ignorance stepped in where she had no business stepping at very least I am hoping they all can come together as family . Harry & Megan can stay in US if that is where they need to be but hopefully the family can gather from time to time just as family
Harry is almost 40 and upset that the "best sandwiches and most chocolately biscuits" went to William? Really?
👍🏽💖💋thank you so much for all that you do.
It's sad when siblings aren't close, it would make any Mother sad.
Cain and Abel.
One can’t help but wonder how much of the various “rifts” described are media-exaggerated and/or media created.
Regardless of all this skepticism...they're still brothers who shared the same womb & will always love each other forever 👍💯
Harry reminds me so much of my older brother. He used to be so fun, so happy! He and I were so incredibly close. I admired him more than anyone. In the past 10 years though, he's grown bitter and distant and just so unhappy. No matter how much he tries to tell people he's happy, he very clearly isnt... Sadly over here in America it mostly has to to with politics. My parents and my other siblings can think one way and be fine, but when he starts to think a different way he becomes so bitter and downright hateful, even though he's supposed to be a part of the accepting and loving people. My poor mother cries ever day over her first born son drifting away without words to us. And I miss my happy go lucky close brother so much...
Trump divided so many families. My mother and brother think Trump is wonderful no matter what he does. It's disheartening to see.
@Gaeliclass trump definitely isn't a perfect man and sure as hell ain't no savior, but damn if those weren't the best years financially for my family and myself. I'm glad I voted for him. But that's why my brother hates us and yet we still love him so go the fuck figure I guess
@aricaNewsome3023
You do realize that policies that are implemented by one president usually don't affect finances for several years? Obama pulled us out of a deficit and Trump put us into one. Other than that, I don't wish to get into a debate. I don't vote for what a candidate can do for me specifically, but what they can do for are whole country. Never voted for a Clinton, I supported Bernie Sanders, he's one of the few who is not corrupt.
@@GaeliclassWell said!
How can politics make a family come a part?
Some siblings grow apart. I think Harry realized being a staunch competitor that he really had nothing of his in the Monarchy. It was always William for the Monarchy. Harry needed something of his own. I think he understands by stepping down he doesn't get to do Royal stuff. Go Harry. We love you♥️ and your choices💪
I love Harry and William too as they are the most adorable son's of our very own Princess Diana. I hope that their closeness will be put back as they need each other more this time.
The brothers still love and respect each other. William is the oldest and his birthday is June 21st. William will always be there for him. I believe in the both of them.
I love that. Thank u for sharing your heart
❤!!!
I agree. It was William's adamant desire and request to have Harry there at their appearance together to thank the people at Windsor Palace
Paul Burrell was SPOT ON re Harry and his wife! Impressive 👍
They were taught that "Royals" do not show emotion in public
Paul Burrell was very intuitive. He called it right. Harry and Meghan said we quit, they are living in another country (for Harry), they sat on Oprah's couch.
Indeed, he did call it perfectly. There’s a lot that we will never know, but Harry protecting his wife and now two kids, will always be his top priority. It is sad that he’s lost the privilege of wearing a uniform to formal events. Andrews’ situation is completely different from Harry, yet they have been lumped in now as outcasts together. And I recently discovered that of all the Senior Royals, only Andrew and Harry saw combat in uniform. Ironic that these two are now prevented from wearing them. Ugh, sometimes their “protocols” stink.
I wish them all the very best, and hope the brothers will find their way back eventually.
@@louisemassie protecting his kids by monetizing and trashing the RF..Give us a break. He knows what he has done when the Queen and Prince Philip ws still alive. i hope he will continue to live a miserable life away from the RF..THAT'S KARMA.
I came here just for this comment!
Right? It was like H&M saw this documentary and said "let's do exactly that!", incredibe... he was his mother's butler, he knew them since childhood.
@@livelife4222 fuck the royal family. what makes them so special? y'all only talk about harry cuz he married a black woman
Let us look at our own relationships within our family, friends, colleagues etc.
Mend any rifts and strenghten our bonds with them.
Exactly.... because tomorrow isn't promised to anyone.💯✝️🙏👍
Nothing to say but love them hope everything is well what a beautiful presence
The Fab 4 was the Beatles. No one else can pull that off.
When my siblings and I were young, my aunt said ‘your siblings relationship and bond is strong and beautiful now. But when you all grow and settle down, your spouses may not like each other. Worst it may tear you all apart. But remember and keep at heart that no matter how bad their relationship is with each other, you siblings love & bond must not change by a new comer. The family will get stronger and the drama will fall into the wilderness’. Love rules!
I wish ,but some are so stubborn or elitist that they can't see beyond their nose
Wise words
So, were you telling them to dismiss their own feelings and passions for the good of the "Family"? If so, why? Why not be happy in your life -- we don't pick our family members
@@B_Bodziak you missed my point. One should be the bridge of uniting two families coming together thru marriage…not join or worst give the new member a free hand to burn everyone. When you get married, you not only marry your spouse….you marry the whole family if not the village. In their case, you marry the people of the UK. And that’s ethical and religiously taught.
not true for most ppl. Doesn't matter how tight they were growing up etc. The adult world has ways of tearing things apart or changing a person a lot of the times for the worse. Events & situations happen to everyone. As you start your new life as an adult you are no longer thinking like a kid. The line of work & it's demands. Mving away from family etc. You each experience life in a diff. way. Many unplanned pregnancies being fired,parental issues esp. as they age & so on. The blood is thicker than water is a falsehood as it has not one thing to do with it. You can chose your friends,spouse etc. you are stuck with family. Many times choosing friends who then become family to you & so on. William & Kate have a special bond & love. Hazmat is a spoiled brat period. What he did to the Queen & Wiils,Kate to include his niece & nephews is just wrong! Charles needs to move past family his priority needs to be the country just like it was for his mother. If he can't do that he needs to abdicate to William period.
I really don’t think they are at odds, they just have separate lives and there’s nothing wrong with that. 97 created a bond that will never be broken period
I agree, they are both grown men and now have separate lives and there is nothing wrong with that.
They’re at odds.
It makes complete sense. The media frenzy around their supposed "rift" not only feeds the media but Harry's bank account and the whole Royal Family's public image as well. It's in the media's favour to pit the brothers against each other because this way people buy their magazines and click on their online articles but the brothers are actually beneficiaries as well. Harry can write his memoirs and film his documentaries while in the UK the Royal Family, even QC Camilla has never been more liked, even loved by the public before because their people feel a sense of sorry for them for Harry's public remarks on them.
I raised two daughters and tried to always be fair and treat them relatively similar. Impossible. Not only did they have their very different personalities, but they were 20 months apart.
Thats what competition and fight for power does to people
Brothers always grow apart when they are an age of marriage and starting their own families, then they come back together later in life, this is normal.
Thank you to the press for easygoing treatment of the Royals. Understand the public prefers when all are getting along. Wish media would stop creating problems.
The media is very distrusted of the family.
wha..... well without problems, what are the media to do?!? talk about productive matters? nonsense! 😭
Was William supposed to skip university and just hang around waiting for Harry to decide what he wanted to do?
Going back even further, Princess Margaret was a rebel, while her sister Elizabeth was being a good girl, with a strong sense of her destiny and her duty.
Freeze frame at 30:45. The look on Queen Elizabeth's face. Nothing got past that woman.
Hahahahaa
Time will tell, and experiences will be shared and bring the siblings together as the years pass! God bless all.
It is heartbreaking to watch the boys have such a huge rift. I truly pray they mend their pains and be there for one another, that would make both Princess Diana And Queen Elizabeth II so very happy, as well as the rest of the world. Life is short don’t waste it on hurting each other, rather stand together.
Thank You.
So sad that the family is back to a Elizabeth and Margaret situation. Being seen as 2nd is never easy. Harry handles it well. The media is horrible
This is handling it well? Whingeing about his brother yelling at him? What is he? Five?
Dont his wife yell at him all the time?
Handles it well ??He didn't and doesn't till now.
More like Harry handled winging , whining and mouning very well. Meghan is the jinx. 🤨
Both Princes deserve a good life. Both Princes should try to find as much peace and love as possible. God Bless, God Speed.
The deeper the love
The more bitter the rift
I have two boys and my younger son always looked towards his elder brother. My elder son was always down to earth but my youngest was a bit of a rebel. Our eldest son always said that his younger brother got away with things that he never could but they love each other deadly which I have always told them that this was so very important.
Yes, the eldest is more mature and the youngest is driven with their heart. This I know.
I wonder if Harry's resentment toward the RF in general starts after they lost their mother. Prior to that Princess Diana treated both of them equal, and more so treated Harry a little extra. When she died, Harry blamed his father and Camilla for causing all these problems. And now he probably felt the gap between himself and Prince William has becoming wider given the new title and prospect of becoming the future king.
It is sad to watch...
Diana did harry a disservice when she made him think he and william are equals. Harry will never be equal to william and will always defer to the future King. Same way Margaret was never equal to QE2, and anne andrew edward will never be equal to Charles.
Diana was wrong. They were not equal.
So jealousy?
Imo, your analysis of the sibling's relationship with their mother and the boys' roles in the royal family is astute and appears more than accurate. Very similar to Elizabeth and Margaret .As an American I was unaware of the historical relationships within the royal family and how siblings were perceived to be and were treated as "less than" to the heirs to the throne. That could certainly make you feel second class. How difficult to grow up in someone's shadow.
@@void_gamer2222 They may not be equals politically, but I don't think she did them a disservice in regard to showing them their importance as humans. I think she was trying to show Harry he was valued as well, despite his not going to end up being king. Wm's importance is based on luck. That's it.
No one deserves to be treated the way Prince Harry has been treated .People should be more kind at least.I don't think Diana will be happy to see almost everyone in the UK against him. No one is perfect.
The brits are the furthest ppl from "kind". Theyre mean as snakes.😂
He trashed his whole family. He's a traitor.
AWESOME HISTORY OF TRUE LOVE BEING SHARED...TRIANGLE LOVE ENDS WITH BROKEN HEARTS AND IS MIND BOGGLING, ESPECIALLY FOR THE ONE WHO REMAIN LAST ON LIFE'S JOURNEY!!❤❤❤
Little George and Charlotte are so cute,and well behaved ...
Great role models for little Louis