Never visited Philippines yet but I lived in Thailand and I experienced some similarities. I felt a peace, like I could let my eccentricities come out, I could connect to people more authentically, I felt less of the political black and white thinking trying to box me in. I was happy there. Every day felt like an adventure. Let’s go for a walk around the town and see what’ll happen. People were friendly and happy to talk to me. Prices were reasonable to the point that I could work less and save more. I felt grateful and people were grateful for me in their life. Life became about connecting to the world rather than struggling for an overpriced, shallow xyz (car, house, education, date, anything).
Excellent! My wife and I watched your video. The one thing I love about the Philippines is the feeling of family. You feel a part of a family that you don't feel here. You feel totally at peace in the Philippines 🇵🇭
Yeah, the first thing I noticed when I first came here back in 1998, was the friendliness and helpfulness of the people. I was a little wary of the people in Manila, but so many people that I met in the hostel that I first stayed in, I opened up to that friendliness, even more so when I visited the Provinces. It's the people that makes the Philippines the great place that it is. Yes, the diversity of the environment is great, along with cultural events, that make the Philippines a fun place to live.
Unlike what you experience in the States, because of the strong Filipino Family, there is a strong sense of loyalty and honesty to be wrong in any part of values within the family. Of course there are exceptions in any situation, but the World has diversity throughout. This Country has a open feeling of honor, truth, and respect. I love it and am proud to live in the Philippines.
Steve I've started carrying around an unlabeled map of the world with me. When a person I'm around wants to talk about Afghanistan I stop them and ask them to point it out on my map. They usually change the subject, Which certainly makes me happy. Haha
The Philippines will never be fully westernised,......the culture and customs are very strong and hard to change no matter how much modernisation there is and that´s a good thing. However, the expats who choose to live there ought to try an assimilate as much as they can within the society rather than just "we" and "them" that way they can experience and understand the best of the Philippines from within.
Hi Steve, Even though I'm sure that the Phillipines is a much more desirable place to live than Massachusetts, for like minded people such as ourselves. There are always going to be some bumps in the road. I like you would choose Nevada over Massachusetts. I am sure that your career was very rewarding, but just for the record, being a custodian ( janitor) is a very respectable, very necessary and under appreciated profession. You said nothing wrong I just wanted to put my opinion about Custodians out there.
Steve, guys ‘our age were pitched the “American Dream”. As opportunity changed along with technology the “Me-ism” and the competitive nature of our society has truly become a “rat race.”. I understand people want the best for themselves and family within any society. The real question then becomes at what cost..?? The cost of time for the hours of work you put in each day, the cost of time you don’t get to spend with your loved ones, the stresses of higher cost of living, medical, food, health care expenses, transportation…….. If you lucky enough to one day step back and a look around and ask…….. what is the end game of living? It certainty isn’t keeping up with the Jones. Are you truly happy??? For some it might be, for others……… Maybe others see life in a different light. And I won’t even get into the politics of American society these days except to say it is sad to see the United States becoming divided by controlling political agendas pushed by the media. Far off lands with lower costs, safer, and a friendly, less competitive society calls to some of us westerners. I have spent time living outside of the US. Is the grass greener on the other side…??? Maybe, and maybe not. Will there alway be hurdles to overcome..?? Of course. But with the opportunity to be our best selves in a more laid back society, maybe the opportunity to achieve a happier, more fulfilled, less stressed live style can bring peace in a world of out of control craziness…….
me to the family is number 1 for us ,i worked in world health org for 32 yrs i ran a medical team in africa-india ,bengladesh philippines when i retired i knew i would marry a filapina and have a family .i never regret devoting my life to phils its where he above wants me to be
Yes main differences is smaller homes, roads are a bit ruff, takes time to fix pot holes. It's allot slower in everything even people move much slower. In the USA most don't really know who lives next door. In the Philippines they are far more loving and friendlier. All around cost is far less. Family is much closer in the PI then in the U.S. I can go on as in my view it's really a difference of night and day. Great video and you just opened up a really talked about topic. Best thing all around is live there in the P.I. is simpler and slower.
I have stopped referring to the US as "home". This is my home now. Over the years I have tried to adapt more to the culture and have done a pretty good job. I have no intention of returning to the US. We parted amicably and have each gone our seperate ways. If something happens here, and I have to leave, I will find another country to call "home".
I agree to your testimony about us pilipino people and the very much favorable environment s we have in our country. My love of my country phiilipines become now much stronger than thinking that leaving phillipines will be bringing better life than living and earning money abroad. Today i can end ud in the ideas that in the foreign land time is a gold while here in the philippines time is for everything. God bless you more...thanks!
True, I have never seen the US more divided than it is today, everyone is at each other’s throats. Me and the wife are looking forward to returning to PI…just waiting for COVID to settle down a bit…
Steve , if you have to go back to the states don’t go to Nevada ! Live there the last 32 years ! Overrun with Californians very liberal and poorly run state ! And very expensive ! I lived the last year before I came here in Spokane Washington , nice town beautiful part of the country ! I’ve been to the Philippines 3 or 4 times in the last 27 years and have been here about a month since I retired . Once you get past the fear of not being like the US and your not a materialistic person you will love this place people are happier here , the stress levels are a lot lower ! It just takes getting used to not having all the fancy buildings and the organization you are used to . The people here are very smart and talented ! You just have to learn to Identify the good from the bad ! Your videos are really helpful for us moving here ! We really appreciate them keep them up ! Would like to be a Facebook friend , thanks !
I have lived in Davao City Since last October I have a 10 and 14 year old and a white American wife we all live here and all love it. My wife has RA and the warm weather really helps Her to feel better and have less pain we love the people and the stress free life.
It's good a move has worked so well for you. I live by choice a simple and uncomplicated life in the US, and it's mostly good. I love the adventure of travel but I also enjoy getting back home. It's really not all doom and gloom here unless that is all you're looking for.
Lots of men in the states are living there Philipine dream life through your channel, keep up the good work. The Phils will open back up one day.... i hope
The BIGGEST DIFFERENCE between living in the PHILIPPINES & USA is ZERO STRESS in the PHILIPPINES....EVERYDAY IS A GREAT DAY...HOSPITALITY, White sand beaches, waterfalls, amazing shopping malls, restaurants, fresh seafoods, barbecue , fresh fruits, coffee shops on every street corner, Most Beautiful Women in the WORLD >> I NEVER HAD A BAD DAY IN THE PHILIPPINES....as soon as YOU get off the PLANE back to the USA, You already feel the STRESS...
Thanks for this boiled down comparison. And glad you are still happy w your Choice to live there, even with all the difficulties right now - and why. My Take away: Trustworthy loving wives, respectful grateful children, peaceful atmosphere, kind people and communities, little or no materialistic selfishness and judgmental contentions. Ppl more content and happy even in struggles. Very Low cost of housing in tropical beauty. These all missing stateside. Is this list right? And Even w heat- bonus-you can never freeze to death during any year! Can be outdoors all year long.
USA now feels like you been chased out with economic broom. I went grocery shopping last week for a whopping $550.00. I couldn't believe it. Since 2016 until now my grocery shopping schedule is once every 3 months. I live alone. Before the pandemic I used to spend $200 or more. Then it went up to $300 or more. The prices is unbelievable high. 10 lbs assorted chicken wings used to $9.99 now it's a whopping $27.99. 1lb 2oz ground black pepper used to be $5.99 now it's $16.99. I took my 2 neighbors to Burger King. We order 3 double cheese burger meal for almost $30. And the fries and drinks were the small size before, now it's the large size. Imagine that. My electric bill used to be less than $30 a month. Now it's $50 a month. Some people said that their electric bill used to be $140. Now it's $400. Go figure.
Agree on most, but your comparing to Massachusetts which is horrible. I love PI, been going since the mid 80s but compared to a state like Oklahoma, there's no comparison.
Steve was there an option to take your health insurance with you into retirement from your school job? My blue cross will work in Phillipines and Thailand
Politics and social media is destroying the USA. I am very proud to be American and loyal to USA but worry the direction here. Hard to watch happening. I never want to just walk away but at age 65 it's time for the younger folk to fight to preserve our republic but sadly I don't think they will here. My heart is in Philippines now and my gf and kids are waiting for me to come back again. Hard to maintain ldr after almost 2 years. God bless you Steve.
Thank you for all your information on the Philippine. I plan to move to the Philippine on November 3rd and living in Manila (I have VA benefits, SSDI,and military retirement). Would like to meet up with you and thank you. Aloha & take care.
Rural life is great in the US👍😊Being outdoors with nature is probably what is nice about the Philippines❤It reminds me of how life is in northern michigan with the campfires, pig roast and chickens. Humid summer. Slower paced😊
I agree about Afghanistan, my son was over there, his patrol got hit by an IED, he is on a disability pension, several of the team lost limbs, he was lucky, must have been closer to the edge of the blast radius but in the end it all seems for nought. Cheers John
i moved to general santos mindanoa in july 2003 i ts abosolutely the place for me ive lived in 7 cities /towns over the years it a lil differet in different towns but it is still so cool
I visited family in the Philippines and I fully agree with all your points. A lot of Americans are focused on their self interest and it really brings the country down. I can even see it in their driving. I came back to the US just recently and I do not miss California traffic
In regards to the attitudes in the US. Sadly it's the media. I think the Philippines is not so tuned into MSM as much. They are more in tune with their communities and families.
family i am accepted and all my filipino kids in family call me pop and are my bestest firends ive ever had ,i am 7 yrs older than y dad n law and 5 yrs older than mom n law you treat them good your set in a good family for ever i actually love filipino food s balut lechone pancit all of it durian though my pino family hates it i need t0 eat durian outside
Let's see how easy it will be to find a life long partner if that divorce bill passes over there and they are allowed to get a divorce. It's much easier to get a divorce when times get tough rather than working through them. I look back on my grandparents at how many rough patches they worked through but you don't see that in marriages any more.
Things are getting even worse here with the cancel culture. People are afraid to talk to each other sometimes. I don't get into conversations with people about current events, politics, religion, etc.
Your hitting the nail on the head! At 50 years old I have had a number of people ask me why I am not married, even Philippine woman. I say to them ' good question but am I suppose to be married..? I also tell them I would have liked to be married but American woman are not interested in me. I am not wealthy, I am not movie star handsome, and I do not have an attitude of "confidence", which is really arrogance. American woman are not interested in me, and I say "that's their issue." I see all sorts of macho rich guys in the U.S. who are not good husbands and lousy fathers. Their wives ultimately hit the 40 somethings and wonder why thy married this man. Well... perhaps I will meet a good Christian woman in the Philippines, God willing.
Everything you said about back home fir you is exactly the same for me here This week has been difficult for me also my granddaughters boyfriend was killed in a auto accident last week ists first time I've felt I wish I was at home But yes I love it here The stress factor I lived in back in australia really pulls you down Here there is no stress climate is great and the people are so different here more friendly you walk down the road they smile say hello in aussie everyone walks past a glum look on their face there is not a lot to look forward too .Liveing here I wa ok e up and know it's going to be a good day I've heard the saying here that it's like stepping back in time liveing here and I must say I agree I have no intention off going back to australia to live see family and friends yes but that's it
My observations of day to day living are more than 20 years old. If anyone goes to the Philippines with a smile, positive attitude, giving spirit and open minded. It will be returned back to you with interest in most circumstances. I would add that my bigger joy was not found in the NCR. That area felt like a grind where the worst in the Philippines was generally on display. If you have ideas on visiting or permanent residence in the Philippines, don't anchor in the NCR.
i did the same married her there then brought her here after about 12 yrs she had almost all divorced filas friends some even divorced 2 or 3 times ,they get nasty mean and bad when they start the multimarriages she got so she said give me money and dont bother me ,i gave here the door and divorced her 2nd filas wife is entirely different i love her shes my soul mate
What a great talk… earnest is the word that comes to mind, insightful. . Steve you go back to “life coaching” you would make bank. Regardless… I was surprised you referred to yourself as a conservative. The values you align with are what I thought was just middle of the road. Politics now is rough.Even in New England, NH, VT have changed big time. You referenced this CZcamsr, #Philipinapea and she put this piece out about culture, using a another CZcamsr critiquing her, the three of you are touching on something…. czcams.com/video/cgmypOdQNTA/video.html
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All you said about the way to live and feel about Philippines I can 100% agree out of my experience. The comparisson with the US is almost the same to comparing Europe with Philippines. Now, the situation with Covid makes it hard to live in the Philippines, compare with western countries.
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nothing wrong with janitors and it's not a thing to attack anyone with. unlike many jobs, they actually provide real value, so it is a totally respectable job. the word would be terrible without their efforts.
Hey Steve, oops ,I temporarily/ accidentally unsubscribe, but I'm BACK! Using my phone app and big thumb can be an issue. So you're thinking of handing the baton of your youtube Channel to another friend? Does this mean your leaving your area? I saw your unit and would like to rent an identical unit in your area, but I saw the loft unit in your complex you showed, that would make middle of the night bathroom runs at our age tough!😂 Your unit is bigger clearly. Is there a complex apartment name at your place? I would love to rent for at least 2+ months if a similar furnished unit to yours was available. Thanks NY DAVID still in Boulder Colorado
Think it's more of what's wrong with the USA than what's right with the Philippines. If not for pensions we wouldn't go there. For me i just feel like i belong there i feel healthier, happier the ppl make you smile, i eat healthier, always on the go not waiting for death to come knocking. Movement is medicine. Some times things do get challenging but i rather live with those than the ones here. Just waiting to be able to travel and this time not coming back. Im worth more to my " family" here dead than alive who wants that . Im still fairly young but no old folks home for me. I could see it already. My final lesson to them going to be nobody gave me shit but grief so i ain't giving yall shit but what yall already got. HAHA Do i love them? YES but exdous 20:12 no longer exist. They better open then gates b4 i go postal lol joke. Time to live for me. I got the best family right there and all professionals never ask for anything.
All that mstters is that you have found what you like and enjoy life. However without the US most ot the expats could not survive if they had to work in the Phklippines. You cant count online work because that is still tied to the US. IF you had been born in the PHilippines there is little opportunity and you would be facing the everyday struggles that eveeyone in third world countries face. I am proud to live in the US and it has done more for other countries than any other nation every created. You cant even speak about politics if you are a foreingner in PI. That is a good way to get deported.
One big difference I noticed is how insanely judgmental people are in the states vs SE Asia... and along with that the ridiculous attitudes of entitlement.. - WW
A small house is called cozy lol . If you have a big house you can anticipate having house guests on a continuous basis. Personal costs will escalate dramatically. Wants and needs come into play. I prefer a modest home and more open space for a work shop and garden area. A sturdy carport or garage is also helpful if you have a vehicle to protect it from the elements. You don't want a place to big as family members may also want to build a home in your compound. Life is unpredictable and you don't want to overextend your personal needs "personal is your emiediate family "so you are able to have an emergency fund stuck away.
then ...Take down the walls :)) I am rehabbing now here in Litchfield County, Connecticut, USA...afterwards when I do the other places I will take ure advice ...a small tiny footprint house w/small outbuildings....BUT w/bigger land is what I intend to do :))
Generally Filipino people have less material things then there Western counterparts and seemingly are more happy on a day-to-day basis Can't wait to get back To the Philippines that's what I liked I've only been back in the US for about 2 months and ready to leave again
How many square feet or square meters do you have of air conditioned space for $80 per month? I’ve seen your videos of your home. You got a great deal.
Only 6 months as a janitor? Come on brother, at least be honest with yourself . You were in the Navy. No matter what your rate was, you were a janitor. Unless you were an O. I know, I’m retired enlisted. Jokes aside, awesome channel. Keep up the great work.
First let’s get realistic, when you relocate there you’re going to be dealing with human beings not better human beings and definitely not worse. Because it’s a respect oriented society leading to high sensitivity thresholds as opposed to a free speech oriented society (Americans are thicker skinned compared to the rest of the world). Can you adjust to walking on egg shells? You will find that almost everyone you meet is a communist. Many don’t know they’re communist but you have to be careful what you say. The rich are communist too (communism for thee but not for me). Lots of great people that do great things for their communities but I stay silent most of the time unless I could be of assistance which does happen. Otherwise I stay silent and keep my ears open. I do learn a lot of useful information from just listening. But there’s only so much sports and celebrity chizmiz I can take so I get out and socialize with non sex patting American ex pats. You will be hit up for money. I finally put my foot down and no more financing a dinner out-yes I’ve been hit up for that but do reach in to help with groceries and lately oxygen.
I agree , never take a Filipina out of her home. She will be missing her family and will feel lonely no matter what you do. You are doing the right thing in that aspect . Slowing down from the rat race is hard enough there but could you imagine her trying to catch up to speed in the states , it would drive her crazy . Note : put mild dish soap in a spray bottle and dilute with water then spray on your plants to help keep the bugs from eating them .
Interesting. You still refer to the United States as "home", as in your references to "back home". In fact, your home is where you are now in the Philippines, not where you came from in the United States. Your 'home' is no longer the United States. Although most of my life has been spent in Canada, I regard my 'home' now as Bangkok, where I have lived for over 25 years and where I am happily married. Enjoy your videos. Thanks.
I live in the USA but I don't try to keep up with the Joneses. I am happy the way things are. I love my home, love my job, though I am now worried about my son because he is moving to NYC. A celeb stylist gave him the job he applied for (my son has made a name for himself as a hairstylist, has made finals in North American and global competitions and was actually under this celeb hairstylist when on his first day of licensure he found himself being one of the stylists doing hair for a fashion show in NYC), so now he is making preparations to move. He will be assisting at New York Fashion Week in September, so he is excited (celeb stylist already gave him the invitation). He's voluntarily starting at the bottom to learn more (he has climbed as high as he could where he currently is, so to get out of the plateau he is in, he wants to learn more). I am happy for him (he once sent me a photo he took of model Clint Mauro wearing the batwings leather coat that was going to be auctioned in the AmFar Inspirational Gala fashion show, as well as his photos with Canadian model Connor Moxam). Keeping up with the Joneses is also in the Philippines (more so than in an American small town). Just be one of the known families in the provinces or Manila. I came from that background, so I am aware of it. Not just among families but also within families. (Just remember that I immigrated to the United States thirty years ago because I wanted to make a life for myself as nobody. Instead of being the granddaughter of a Philippine statesman where things came easily to me, I wanted to be nobody and work for what I wanted and needed. I started without money, living out of motels because I didn't have credit, crying from hunger, etc. I am just happy that my son made a name for himself through hard work from when he was 16. He bought his home (which he is selling for his move) at 21, got financing for his car at 19 without any parental help, became the youngest technical trainer at 21, Design Team at 22 or 23, traveled for the Design Team and make presentations, appear on videos, TV (was guest in Fox and NBC morning news programs to give advice on beating summer frizz), magazines, etc., became a mentor. He was also the district and state winner in the Cosmetology division of Skills USA (when he was in high school), which earned him a trip to the Nationals. That was his very first competition, and he won. Some customers have given him really good reviews for fixing a lot of hair jobs that were botched by other salons, especially the color jobs. He is, however, a precision cut designer, so in NYC, he will specialize in cuts, not color, once he gets promoted from assistant to stylist.)
0:59 I found it even harder to find a stable life-long lover in the PH than in the USA, especially if you bring her to the USA; enabling her to stop putting out and get a windfall of money. So, it all boils down to financial control over hypergamy; not love. Initially, I thought the PH was an oasis for romance, but I quickly realized it was only a mirage. I love my Western lifestyle, I just wish I could have a hot lover here who is not family oriented. Only the diving was more fun in the PH, but it's closer to get that in the Caribbean. Peace.
As for looking for a hot lover people age out as does the hot lover. People get sick as does the hot lover so much for the life long hot lover. Cultural differences, disappointments all have to be dealt with as in every relationship. I’m with my wonderful Manila wife for decades. We go through sickness and health together. For a life long endeavor I suggest being well-paired more or less age wise and values ie finances, debt, religion, charity etc. just like a new car doesn’t stay a new car neither do people which is why there is love and friendship.
@@WAdelstein True. You speak of intimacy (being like minded) on important topics like income, debt, family, religion, etc. Intimacy is a necessary metric of romantic love. You need to find your match. Dr. Helen Fisher, behind the Chemistry and Match dating sites describes a Builder personality that is conventional, family oriented, usually religious, etc. I fall into a completely different category that is unconventional, free-thinking, STEM oriented, disinterested in family, etc. So, finding a suitable partner in SEA is very difficult. They mostly seek financial security for traditional gender roles and are often religious. It seems most who are successful, as you were, have more traditional thinking. Peace.
i dont care about the west im in philipines never go back to the west i mean europe u know my wife and family from philipines respect and respect back u have problem with me u have a problem with my all family in philipines if i had a problem in europe with you my family there they dont care fix your own problems that is the different from familys
Never visited Philippines yet but I lived in Thailand and I experienced some similarities. I felt a peace, like I could let my eccentricities come out, I could connect to people more authentically, I felt less of the political black and white thinking trying to box me in. I was happy there. Every day felt like an adventure. Let’s go for a walk around the town and see what’ll happen. People were friendly and happy to talk to me. Prices were reasonable to the point that I could work less and save more. I felt grateful and people were grateful for me in their life. Life became about connecting to the world rather than struggling for an overpriced, shallow xyz (car, house, education, date, anything).
I agree with you 100%. I still work here and USA and I can't wait to retire in the Philippines, Greetings from San Diego, California.
Excellent! My wife and I watched your video. The one thing I love about the Philippines is the feeling of family. You feel a part of a family that you don't feel here. You feel totally at peace in the Philippines 🇵🇭
Yeah, the first thing I noticed when I first came here back in 1998, was the friendliness and helpfulness of the people. I was a little wary of the people in Manila, but so many people that I met in the hostel that I first stayed in, I opened up to that friendliness, even more so when I visited the Provinces. It's the people that makes the Philippines the great place that it is. Yes, the diversity of the environment is great, along with cultural events, that make the Philippines a fun place to live.
where did U go after Manila? what provinces? did U try & stay in Luzon?what's it like?Thanks...
Unlike what you experience in the States, because of the strong Filipino Family, there is a strong sense of loyalty and honesty to be wrong in any part of values within the family. Of course there are exceptions in any situation, but the World has diversity throughout. This Country has a open feeling of honor, truth, and respect. I love it and am proud to live in the Philippines.
Steve I've started carrying around an unlabeled map of the world with me. When a person I'm around wants to talk about Afghanistan I stop them and ask them to point it out on my map. They usually change the subject, Which certainly makes me happy. Haha
Most people would be hard pressed to locate any "stan" country. For ex military it's stamped in your brain.
Good idea….
The Philippines will never be fully westernised,......the culture and customs are very strong and hard to change no matter how much modernisation there is and that´s a good thing. However, the expats who choose to live there ought to try an assimilate as much as they can within the society rather than just "we" and "them" that way they can experience and understand the best of the Philippines from within.
Hi Steve,
Even though I'm sure that the Phillipines is a much more desirable place to live than Massachusetts, for like minded people such as ourselves. There are always going to be some bumps in the road. I like you would choose Nevada over Massachusetts.
I am sure that your career was very rewarding, but just for the record, being a custodian ( janitor) is a very respectable, very necessary and under appreciated profession. You said nothing wrong I just wanted to put my opinion about Custodians out there.
I agree
There is polarization in the US now.
Steve, guys ‘our age were pitched the “American Dream”. As opportunity changed along with technology the “Me-ism” and the competitive nature of our society has truly become a “rat race.”. I understand people want the best for themselves and family within any society. The real question then becomes at what cost..?? The cost of time for the hours of work you put in each day, the cost of time you don’t get to spend with your loved ones, the stresses of higher cost of living, medical, food, health care expenses, transportation…….. If you lucky enough to one day step back and a look around and ask…….. what is the end game of living? It certainty isn’t keeping up with the Jones. Are you truly happy??? For some it might be, for others……… Maybe others see life in a different light. And I won’t even get into the politics of American society these days except to say it is sad to see the United States becoming divided by controlling political agendas pushed by the media. Far off lands with lower costs, safer, and a friendly, less competitive society calls to some of us westerners. I have spent time living outside of the US. Is the grass greener on the other side…??? Maybe, and maybe not. Will there alway be hurdles to overcome..?? Of course. But with the opportunity to be our best selves in a more laid back society, maybe the opportunity to achieve a happier, more fulfilled, less stressed live style can bring peace in a world of out of control craziness…….
Jack Eisman: You just nailed it Jack. Good one!
I know I cannot keep up with inflation if I stay in USA
Cool glasses Steve 😊👍🏻
simple living in philippines give u peace of mind until your old age
Very well said. When i can travel to the Philippines, I'm gone. Helping each other and being kind and nice. No drama. Namaste🙏 from Canada.
me to the family is number 1 for us ,i worked in world health org for 32 yrs i ran a medical team in africa-india ,bengladesh philippines when i retired i knew i would marry a filapina and have a family .i never regret devoting my life to phils its where he above wants me to be
Yes main differences is smaller homes, roads are a bit ruff, takes time to fix pot holes. It's allot slower in everything even people move much slower. In the USA most don't really know who lives next door. In the Philippines they are far more loving and friendlier. All around cost is far less. Family is much closer in the PI then in the U.S. I can go on as in my view it's really a difference of night and day. Great video and you just opened up a really talked about topic. Best thing all around is live there in the P.I. is simpler and slower.
I have stopped referring to the US as "home". This is my home now. Over the years I have tried to adapt more to the culture and have done a pretty good job.
I have no intention of returning to the US. We parted amicably and have each gone our seperate ways.
If something happens here, and I have to leave, I will find another country to call "home".
I agree to your testimony about us pilipino people and the very much favorable environment s we have in our country. My love of my country phiilipines become now much stronger than thinking that leaving phillipines will be bringing better life than living and earning money abroad. Today i can end ud in the ideas that in the foreign land time is a gold while here in the philippines time is for everything. God bless you more...thanks!
My filapina wife and I are moving to Batangas from California in December. I can't wait.
Nice video
True, I have never seen the US more divided than it is today, everyone is at each other’s throats. Me and the wife are looking forward to returning to PI…just waiting for COVID to settle down a bit…
Steve , if you have to go back to the states don’t go to Nevada ! Live there the last 32 years ! Overrun with Californians very liberal and poorly run state ! And very expensive ! I lived the last year before I came here in Spokane Washington , nice town beautiful part of the country ! I’ve been to the Philippines 3 or 4 times in the last 27 years and have been here about a month since I retired . Once you get past the fear of not being like the US and your not a materialistic person you will love this place people are happier here , the stress levels are a lot lower ! It just takes getting used to not having all the fancy buildings and the organization you are used to . The people here are very smart and talented ! You just have to learn to Identify the good from the bad ! Your videos are really helpful for us moving here ! We really appreciate them keep them up ! Would like to be a Facebook friend
, thanks !
For the privacy in the deserts
YES enjoyed the talk today...thanks
I have lived in Davao City Since last October I have a 10 and 14 year old and a white American wife we all live here and all love it. My wife has RA and the warm weather really helps Her to feel better and have less pain we love the people and the stress free life.
Thank you bro'for loving the Philippines 🇵🇭
It's good a move has worked so well for you. I live by choice a simple and uncomplicated life in the US, and it's mostly good. I love the adventure of travel but I also enjoy getting back home. It's really not all doom and gloom here unless that is all you're looking for.
Lots of men in the states are living there Philipine dream life through your channel, keep up the good work. The Phils will open back up one day.... i hope
The BIGGEST DIFFERENCE between living in the PHILIPPINES & USA is ZERO STRESS in the PHILIPPINES....EVERYDAY IS A GREAT DAY...HOSPITALITY, White sand beaches, waterfalls, amazing shopping malls, restaurants, fresh seafoods, barbecue , fresh fruits, coffee shops on every street corner, Most Beautiful Women in the WORLD >> I NEVER HAD A BAD DAY IN THE PHILIPPINES....as soon as YOU get off the PLANE back to the USA, You already feel the STRESS...
Thanks for this boiled down comparison. And glad you are still happy w your Choice to live there, even with all the difficulties right now - and why. My Take away: Trustworthy loving wives, respectful grateful children, peaceful atmosphere, kind people and communities, little or no materialistic selfishness and judgmental contentions. Ppl more content and happy even in struggles. Very Low cost of housing in tropical beauty. These all missing stateside. Is this list right? And Even w heat- bonus-you can never freeze to death during any year! Can be outdoors all year long.
USA now feels like you been chased out with economic broom. I went grocery shopping last week for a whopping $550.00. I couldn't believe it. Since 2016 until now my grocery shopping schedule is once every 3 months. I live alone. Before the pandemic I used to spend $200 or more. Then it went up to $300 or more. The prices is unbelievable high. 10 lbs assorted chicken wings used to $9.99 now it's a whopping $27.99. 1lb 2oz ground black pepper used to be $5.99 now it's $16.99. I took my 2 neighbors to Burger King. We order 3 double cheese burger meal for almost $30. And the fries and drinks were the small size before, now it's the large size. Imagine that. My electric bill used to be less than $30 a month. Now it's $50 a month. Some people said that their electric bill used to be $140. Now it's $400. Go figure.
Hey boss September 10th , Cathie just sold 138 million in Tesla, l guess that's not much in high finance, but that was in 2 days God Bless
She hasn’t backed off Tesla. She trades in and out after big moves.
Agree on most, but your comparing to Massachusetts which is horrible. I love PI, been going since the mid 80s but compared to a state like Oklahoma, there's no comparison.
Massachusetts is horrible that’s why if I went back I’d go to Nevada.
Love is priceless
yes it is true sir here, the people are great in love and family
Steve was there an option to take your health insurance with you into retirement from your school job? My blue cross will work in Phillipines and Thailand
Yes, but mine don’t work here
Politics and social media is destroying the USA. I am very proud to be American and loyal to USA but worry the direction here. Hard to watch happening. I never want to just walk away but at age 65 it's time for the younger folk to fight to preserve our republic but sadly I don't think they will here. My heart is in Philippines now and my gf and kids are waiting for me to come back again. Hard to maintain ldr after almost 2 years. God bless you Steve.
Thank you for all your information on the Philippine. I plan to move to the Philippine on November 3rd and living in Manila (I have VA benefits, SSDI,and military retirement). Would like to meet up with you and thank you. Aloha & take care.
Rural life is great in the US👍😊Being outdoors with nature is probably what is nice about the Philippines❤It reminds me of how life is in northern michigan with the campfires, pig roast and chickens. Humid summer. Slower paced😊
I agree about Afghanistan, my son was over there, his patrol got hit by an IED, he is on a disability pension, several of the team lost limbs, he was lucky, must have been closer to the edge of the blast radius but in the end it all seems for nought. Cheers John
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i moved to general santos mindanoa in july 2003 i ts abosolutely the place for me ive lived in 7 cities /towns over the years it a lil differet in different towns but it is still so cool
I visited family in the Philippines and I fully agree with all your points. A lot of Americans are focused on their self interest and it really brings the country down. I can even see it in their driving.
I came back to the US just recently and I do not miss California traffic
In regards to the attitudes in the US. Sadly it's the media. I think the Philippines is not so tuned into MSM as much. They are more in tune with their communities and families.
The USA is a materialistic society where as the Philippines is a family oriented and traditional society.
family i am accepted and all my filipino kids in family call me pop and are my bestest firends ive ever had ,i am 7 yrs older than y dad n law and 5 yrs older than mom n law
you treat them good your set in a good family for ever
i actually love filipino food s balut lechone pancit all of it durian though my pino family hates it i need t0 eat durian outside
Let's see how easy it will be to find a life long partner if that divorce bill passes over there and they are allowed to get a divorce. It's much easier to get a divorce when times get tough rather than working through them. I look back on my grandparents at how many rough patches they worked through but you don't see that in marriages any more.
30% of the married population seems to be married but separated
Homes there are uncultured. American homes are stuffed. Less is best. Waiting for quarantines to be lifed to meet face to face with my gf of 2 years.
Things are getting even worse here with the cancel culture. People are afraid to talk to each other sometimes. I don't get into conversations with people about current events, politics, religion, etc.
Your hitting the nail on the head! At 50 years old I have had a number of people ask me why I am not married, even Philippine woman. I say to them ' good question but am I suppose to be married..? I also tell them I would have liked to be married but American woman are not interested in me. I am not wealthy, I am not movie star handsome, and I do not have an attitude of "confidence", which is really arrogance. American woman are not interested in me, and I say "that's their issue." I see all sorts of macho rich guys in the U.S. who are not good husbands and lousy fathers. Their wives ultimately hit the 40 somethings and wonder why thy married this man. Well... perhaps I will meet a good Christian woman in the Philippines, God willing.
Well said friend. In the UK you're judged on what BMW or Audi you're driving!
Everything you said about back home fir you is exactly the same for me here
This week has been difficult for me also my granddaughters boyfriend was killed in a auto accident last week ists first time I've felt I wish I was at home
But yes I love it here
The stress factor I lived in back in australia really pulls you down
Here there is no stress climate is great and the people are so different here more friendly you walk down the road they smile say hello in aussie everyone walks past a glum look on their face there is not a lot to look forward too .Liveing here I wa ok e up and know it's going to be a good day
I've heard the saying here that it's like stepping back in time liveing here and I must say I agree I have no intention off going back to australia to live see family and friends yes but that's it
My observations of day to day living are more than 20 years old. If anyone goes to the Philippines with a smile, positive attitude, giving spirit and open minded. It will be returned back to you with interest in most circumstances. I would add that my bigger joy was not found in the NCR. That area felt like a grind where the worst in the Philippines was generally on display. If you have ideas on visiting or permanent residence in the Philippines, don't anchor in the NCR.
I'm really proud of you for the job you used to do buddy. Not a lot of people are like you, keep it up.
Thanks Tim
i did the same married her there then brought her here after about 12 yrs she had almost all divorced filas friends some even divorced 2 or 3 times ,they get nasty mean and bad when they start the multimarriages she got so she said give me money and dont bother me ,i gave here the door and divorced her
2nd filas wife is entirely different i love her shes my soul mate
What a great talk… earnest is the word that comes to mind, insightful. . Steve you go back to “life coaching” you would make bank. Regardless… I was surprised you referred to yourself as a conservative. The values you align with are what I thought was just middle of the road. Politics now is rough.Even in New England, NH, VT have changed big time. You referenced this CZcamsr, #Philipinapea and she put this piece out about culture, using a another CZcamsr critiquing her, the three of you are touching on something…. czcams.com/video/cgmypOdQNTA/video.html
just in time 4 U to come back to New England winters...currently wet basement, damp...can't get a plumber for an entire month X many months to put in a new boiler...can't find a worker (why work when they can stay home for free till OCT?) ...snow coming just in time 4 U to shovel it X 9 weeks on/off ure ROOFS (remember there R plenty per house :)) ... HUGE BUGS that will bite the skin off of U....little bugs that go in ure nose eyes...etc...non stop...Oh...mosquitoes R unreal...this year ! I threw discs in the yard N pellets all around ...I kept spraying the yard since March for ticks N bugs every other week etc...rainy ever since Spring...non stop almost on/off...I feel as if we have a year of monsoon weather....& nobody to fix ure car or change ure tires "2 weeks maybe 3, we R taking appts to change tires this Fri & on " etc... oh don't forget the nasty check out ppL... our counts R climbing ppL NOT wearing masks...(so everything is aok )just trying to remind U what U left behind... :)) (15secsadbuyFordnow,mustangmachE;1,53minsAddifinity0rg)
All you said about the way to live and feel about Philippines I can 100% agree out of my experience. The comparisson with the US is almost the same to comparing Europe with Philippines. Now, the situation with Covid makes it hard to live in the Philippines, compare with western countries.
nice steady keep it simple no surprises retirement life...or full time life there...still stuck in nyc metro area...Litchfield County, CT (etoro,tradeBTC54secsAd;buyFordnow,mustangmachE30secsAd)
nothing wrong with janitors and it's not a thing to attack anyone with. unlike many jobs, they actually provide real value, so it is a totally respectable job. the word would be terrible without their efforts.
I agree but to say I was a janitor before when I wasn’t is just false. I just wanted to correct the trolls. Lol
Hey Steve, oops ,I temporarily/ accidentally unsubscribe, but I'm BACK! Using my phone app and big thumb can be an issue.
So you're thinking of handing the baton of your youtube Channel to another friend?
Does this mean your leaving your area? I saw your unit and would like to rent an identical unit in your area, but I saw the loft unit in your complex you showed, that would make middle of the night bathroom runs at our age tough!😂 Your unit is bigger clearly.
Is there a complex apartment name at your place? I would love to rent for at least 2+ months if a similar furnished unit to yours was available.
Thanks NY DAVID
still in Boulder Colorado
I’m staying here and will still be on the channel
Think it's more of what's wrong with the USA than what's right with the Philippines. If not for pensions we wouldn't go there. For me i just feel like i belong there i feel healthier, happier the ppl make you smile, i eat healthier, always on the go not waiting for death to come knocking.
Movement is medicine. Some times things do get challenging but i rather live with those than the ones here. Just waiting to be able to travel and this time not coming back. Im worth more to my " family" here dead than alive who wants that . Im still fairly young but no old folks home for me. I could see it already. My final lesson to them going to be nobody gave me shit but grief so i ain't giving yall shit but what yall already got. HAHA Do i love them? YES but exdous 20:12 no longer exist. They better open then gates b4 i go postal lol joke. Time to live for me. I got the best family right there and all professionals never ask for anything.
great vid
How is safety there? Theft a problem? Good people is important.
No issue in most places
Since when did you immigrate become an immigrant to the Philippines
4 years ago, but I was here before and formerly married to a Filipina.
All that mstters is that you have found what you like and enjoy life. However without the US most ot the expats could not survive if they had to work in the Phklippines. You cant count online work because that is still tied to the US. IF you had been born in the PHilippines there is little opportunity and you would be facing the everyday struggles that eveeyone in third world countries face. I am proud to live in the US and it has done more for other countries than any other nation every created. You cant even speak about politics if you are a foreingner in PI. That is a good way to get deported.
One big difference I noticed is how insanely judgmental people are in the states vs SE Asia... and along with that the ridiculous attitudes of entitlement.. - WW
A small house is called cozy lol . If you have a big house you can anticipate having house guests on a continuous basis. Personal costs will escalate dramatically. Wants and needs come into play. I prefer a modest home and more open space for a work shop and garden area. A sturdy carport or garage is also helpful if you have a vehicle to protect it from the elements. You don't want a place to big as family members may also want to build a home in your compound. Life is unpredictable and you don't want to overextend your personal needs "personal is your emiediate family "so you are able to have an emergency fund stuck away.
then ...Take down the walls :)) I am rehabbing now here in Litchfield County, Connecticut, USA...afterwards when I do the other places I will take ure advice ...a small tiny footprint house w/small outbuildings....BUT w/bigger land is what I intend to do :))
Hello may I know what age did you retired in ph
55
Generally Filipino people have less material things then there Western counterparts and seemingly are more happy on a day-to-day basis Can't wait to get back To the Philippines that's what I liked
I've only been back in the US for about 2 months and ready to leave again
algo :)
How many square feet or square meters do you have of air conditioned space for $80 per month? I’ve seen your videos of your home. You got a great deal.
Not sure of the square footage
Very good and encouraging Vlog. Thank you for the good vibes.
Thanks 🙏🏻
Only 6 months as a janitor? Come on brother, at least be honest with yourself . You were in the Navy. No matter what your rate was, you were a janitor. Unless you were an O. I know, I’m retired enlisted. Jokes aside, awesome channel. Keep up the great work.
Actually as a Cook I was very lucky in that respect. I rarely ever mopped a floor. Lol
Steve, maybe sometimes you should include your filipino family in your vloggs i think it's nice...
I keep my family off CZcams for obvious reasons
First let’s get realistic, when you relocate there you’re going to be dealing with human beings not better human beings and definitely not worse. Because it’s a respect oriented society leading to high sensitivity thresholds as opposed to a free speech oriented society (Americans are thicker skinned compared to the rest of the world). Can you adjust to walking on egg shells? You will find that almost everyone you meet is a communist. Many don’t know they’re communist but you have to be careful what you say. The rich are communist too (communism for thee but not for me). Lots of great people that do great things for their communities but I stay silent most of the time unless I could be of assistance which does happen. Otherwise I stay silent and keep my ears open. I do learn a lot of useful information from just listening. But there’s only so much sports and celebrity chizmiz I can take so I get out and socialize with non sex patting American ex pats. You will be hit up for money. I finally put my foot down and no more financing a dinner out-yes I’ve been hit up for that but do reach in to help with groceries and lately oxygen.
I agree , never take a Filipina out of her home. She will be missing her family and will feel lonely no matter what you do. You are doing the right thing in that aspect . Slowing down from the rat race is hard enough there but could you imagine her trying to catch up to speed in the states , it would drive her crazy . Note : put mild dish soap in a spray bottle and dilute with water then spray on your plants to help keep the bugs from eating them .
Interesting. You still refer to the United States as "home", as in your references to "back home". In fact, your home is where you are now in the Philippines, not where you came from in the United States. Your 'home' is no longer the United States. Although most of my life has been spent in Canada, I regard my 'home' now as Bangkok, where I have lived for over 25 years and where I am happily married. Enjoy your videos. Thanks.
Do you get bored? Life is too slow there?
Never
I’m retiring in 2 years and plan to retire in the Philippines, would $5000.00 a month enough in the Philippines
You are above the sweet spot and will be very well off here and be able to save and invest if you wish.
I live in the USA but I don't try to keep up with the Joneses. I am happy the way things are. I love my home, love my job, though I am now worried about my son because he is moving to NYC. A celeb stylist gave him the job he applied for (my son has made a name for himself as a hairstylist, has made finals in North American and global competitions and was actually under this celeb hairstylist when on his first day of licensure he found himself being one of the stylists doing hair for a fashion show in NYC), so now he is making preparations to move. He will be assisting at New York Fashion Week in September, so he is excited (celeb stylist already gave him the invitation). He's voluntarily starting at the bottom to learn more (he has climbed as high as he could where he currently is, so to get out of the plateau he is in, he wants to learn more). I am happy for him (he once sent me a photo he took of model Clint Mauro wearing the batwings leather coat that was going to be auctioned in the AmFar Inspirational Gala fashion show, as well as his photos with Canadian model Connor Moxam).
Keeping up with the Joneses is also in the Philippines (more so than in an American small town). Just be one of the known families in the provinces or Manila. I came from that background, so I am aware of it. Not just among families but also within families. (Just remember that I immigrated to the United States thirty years ago because I wanted to make a life for myself as nobody. Instead of being the granddaughter of a Philippine statesman where things came easily to me, I wanted to be nobody and work for what I wanted and needed. I started without money, living out of motels because I didn't have credit, crying from hunger, etc. I am just happy that my son made a name for himself through hard work from when he was 16. He bought his home (which he is selling for his move) at 21, got financing for his car at 19 without any parental help, became the youngest technical trainer at 21, Design Team at 22 or 23, traveled for the Design Team and make presentations, appear on videos, TV (was guest in Fox and NBC morning news programs to give advice on beating summer frizz), magazines, etc., became a mentor. He was also the district and state winner in the Cosmetology division of Skills USA (when he was in high school), which earned him a trip to the Nationals. That was his very first competition, and he won. Some customers have given him really good reviews for fixing a lot of hair jobs that were botched by other salons, especially the color jobs. He is, however, a precision cut designer, so in NYC, he will specialize in cuts, not color, once he gets promoted from assistant to stylist.)
0:59 I found it even harder to find a stable life-long lover in the PH than in the USA, especially if you bring her to the USA; enabling her to stop putting out and get a windfall of money. So, it all boils down to financial control over hypergamy; not love. Initially, I thought the PH was an oasis for romance, but I quickly realized it was only a mirage. I love my Western lifestyle, I just wish I could have a hot lover here who is not family oriented. Only the diving was more fun in the PH, but it's closer to get that in the Caribbean. Peace.
As for looking for a hot lover people age out as does the hot lover. People get sick as does the hot lover so much for the life long hot lover. Cultural differences, disappointments all have to be dealt with as in every relationship. I’m with my wonderful Manila wife for decades. We go through sickness and health together. For a life long endeavor I suggest being well-paired more or less age wise and values ie finances, debt, religion, charity etc. just like a new car doesn’t stay a new car neither do people which is why there is love and friendship.
@@WAdelstein True. You speak of intimacy (being like minded) on important topics like income, debt, family, religion, etc. Intimacy is a necessary metric of romantic love. You need to find your match. Dr. Helen Fisher, behind the Chemistry and Match dating sites describes a Builder personality that is conventional, family oriented, usually religious, etc. I fall into a completely different category that is unconventional, free-thinking, STEM oriented, disinterested in family, etc. So, finding a suitable partner in SEA is very difficult. They mostly seek financial security for traditional gender roles and are often religious. It seems most who are successful, as you were, have more traditional thinking. Peace.
i dont care about the west im in philipines never go back to the west i mean europe u know my wife and family from philipines respect and respect back u have problem with me u have a problem with my all family in philipines if i had a problem in europe with you my family there they dont care fix your own problems that is the different from familys
That's correct Steve don't need big fancy house no keeping up with the Jones A my and love my partner son like my own son and maybe more😁
So you were law enforcement? SRO school resource officer?
We dealt more with issues in the school. Truancy, out of control kids, etc
Glad your conservative Bro.!!!
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Theirs nothing wrong working as a janitor........everyone believes being........(you add)
No there isn’t, but the person saying that was trying to paint me in a demeaning way by stating I was a janitor when I was not. That was the issue.