I'VE MOVED BACK HOME...YEAH. STORY TIME!
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- čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
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There are MANY of them that love black men but hate black women, don't let their mixed kids fool you! Protect your space and your energy, we thank God you have parents to go home to!
I’m not going to skip past ‘My video editor’ and ‘My assistant’ LEVELS HAVE CHANGEDDDDD AND IM HERE FOR THE CHANGEEEEEE 🥳👊🏾🙏🏽
I'm glad you moved out. One thing I must say is, make sure you're moving out for you and not because you feel pressured to live this independent lifestyle where everyone on social media is popping up with 'My new house tour' etc. You are independent even if you live at home. I think it's smart to live at home if the environment is healthy. I do believe you want to flat share for you, but please don't feel disappointed that you've left. Feel glad that you made the right decision, no one looks at you differently whether you're living at home or not. We just enjoy your content.
You've literally written everything I was thinking .. I love her transparency
Yesssssss!
Yes, that’s if you leave in a healthy home environment.
Not everyone is blessed with that, although moving from one unpleasant environment to another isn’t any better...
This lady sounded very difficult and awkward to live with, like others said "Why did she advertise for a lodger?" besides getting rent obviously if she causes all this hassle . Don't feel bad about moving back home. It doesn't make you any less independant. Life is all about ups and downs and London is such an expensive place to be living in too. Remain positive and at least you don't have to put with them people now 👍
Baz Banter93 this is so kind. Thank you!
Lovely comment !!! 💕💕
Baz banter93
@@danielle2034 Thank you :)
His absolutely right
LIVE IN LANDLORDS ARE THE WORST EVER. DON'T MAKE THAT MISTAKE PEOPLE.
and to top it off she technically had 2 line-in-landlords!! 🤦♀️
I would stay with my parents until I moved out of the country. After college I realized that if I wasn’t in my parents home I would live alone. People are difficult for no reason! When I left my parents home I moved into a small apartment in Atlanta. I know its’ more economical to have roommates/flat mates however my peace is worth every penny.
Please stay with your parents until you can get your own place.. WTF...
Sharing a home with strangers is not easy especially if the home is theirs, girl! I just cannot.
the spirit you carry is disturbing her, don’t mind her it’s the spirit behind her x
Oghosa: This is coming from someone who after using the toilet doesn't wash hands loooooooooooool
Listen this is stressful to watch, i know the pain! Living with ppl is an extreme sport!!
She disrespected you because you allowed her the first time she shouted at you. If you had shouted back at her she would have never continued to disrespect you. Sometimes people take your politeness for weakness and she definitely did my love.
I haven't heard a good story from anyone thats lived with a landlord. You can get bad housemates, but the extra layer of ownership that landlords have make them think they have the right to move mad, this is my house that "I OWN" .
I have had really good experiences but maybe I think it's because I trust my vibes and emotions around people.
My first one in uni back in 2010 is now one of my close friends bless her. She was like a sister to me back then.
My second one was a psychotherapist and alternative therapist and I struggle with chronic headaches - I couldn't afford acupuncture at the time costing £50/60 at the time. She gave me over 15 - 30mins or so sessions free of charge. I was unwell at some point and stranded and had emergency services out to me, informed my family and my manager etc. Even when I moved out her and her husband kept in touch.
My recent one was amazing too. Literally answered to our every need etc.
People need to have discernment, trust their vibes and not pick something out of desperation
My fiancé had food poisoning and it was with oyinbo people. I don’t think I’ve had food poisoning before. Maybe because we west Africans will over Cook/boil everything 😂
Facts.
Medium rare who? 😂😂😂
Blossom the Creativist exactly 😂😂😂😂😂😂 my grand auntie would make sure that the meat is burned black at BBQs before eating it
And the spices!
🤣🤣🤣 facts especially the ones back home they can eat food that wasn’t kept in the fridge for days with no issues
This is disgusting. Imagine paying rent and having to live very restricted and with someone who sounds very arrogant. thank God you moved out 👏🏾👏🏾
She was doing the most! The only way she could get food poisoning if the raw chicken came into contact with the cooked chicken (cross contamination) and SHE ate it. But as she doesn’t eat meat she would not be affected if that did happen. If she said the grease from you chicken was dripping onto her vegetables or you left the food in the fridge for 3days+ plus then I would get her frustration but 1 day? Glad you’re out of there, peace comes first!
“oyibo people over share for no reason” lol-this is true. some will talk your head off if you can’t escape lolll.
Looks like she was looking for a live-in,paying ‘housegirl’. Happy you moved out!!!
This.
This whole story time had me stressed out! There is no price on peace. I am glad you have left that toxic environment.
Never rent & live with the landlord. Nightmare! Try to live with young working adults as you’ll have your peace & keep the same working ethic.
This reminds me of my uni room last year lived with a crazy family !!! Please don’t live in uncomfortable places these landlords know what they are doing !!!! I need to do a story time 🙆🏾♀️
Donna Eva 100% a few comments on here are like ‘see that’s why I don’t live with landlords’ excuse me. You know housemates can be mad too. It’s very hard finding a compatible living space !
Sis my landlord husband use to open my door 🙅🏽♀️ after that I packed up and ran !!
Donna Eva wow. What a creep
This woman sounds MUADDDD like why is she acting like your her man, or her daughter? She clearly has some issues and it's not the one. Well done for getting out that situation!
you may just have a business idea there. reviewing landlords
She. Was. Doing. The. Most.
I don’t understand why she welcomed a tenant, when she evidently didn’t want one 🤦🏾♀️
Dani Nicholls money. 🙄🙄
Those are the kind of landlords that do five day let's and want you out during the weekend.🤦🏽♀️😂 They want the money but not for you to actually use the amenities you pay for.
I’m a live in landlord... wow you’re experience is quite sad. That’s definitely crazy!
I’d say one thing - as she stayed in the property you were a lodger so technically you could leave after a month (difference between a tenant and lodger) - as with a lodger there’s no fixed term.
Hope this is your last negative experience!
Funny that she can talk to u like that but can’t do anything about her daughter
Thenaturalbaby96 SIS.
Thenaturalbaby96 soo true
I hate that even in your own bedroom you could not have peace and tranquility. You set quite reasonable boundaries and she crossed them unnecessarily for what? Conversations that could wait?
It’s super clear that this woman has a lot of different issues within her own life and she’s taking it out on you like you’re not a whole adult paying rent.
The only downside to this whole thing is that you were so excited to move out and have your own space and independence but I really don’t believe you’ll lose that with your parents, because like you say there’s an element of comfort and freedom even under your parents’ roof.
Thank goodness you’re safe now!
I said “huh” what the alert came on my screen!!!!
So glad you know your worth and said nah I don’t need to put up with this
SIS IM SAYING 'HUH' AND I'M LIVING IT LOOOOOL
And thank you so much sis!
@@SincerelyOghosa Good for you. Never let anyone disrespect you. And Yes it was above you now 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤
'Do Not Disturb' sign for what? Are you in a hotel? It's a HOME.
Its good to have that on your door, especially if you are living in a shared space.
Just to let your flat mate know when you are sleeping so they minimize the noise.
Growing up I always thought of myself sharing a house with someone but noooow 😬😬 I’m gonna wait right here in my parents home until I’m financially stable to move out in my own house. Can’t trust these crazy people around
Yess my motto has always been
"No money or time is worth lack of peace"
Peace is such a key factor to a happy and healthy life!
XxDebxX yaaaaaaasssssss
She seems to be projecting a sort of relationship she wishes she had with her child on to you.
Honestly I really do wish you cussed her out like honestly I hope she sees this video and feels embarrassed, like the caucasity of it all. But we thank god you made it out of there
Oh my days, I am on my fourth house share and it just makes me realise, self contained independence can be lonely but is beautiful. All the very best with future accommodation, it gives incentive to get your own self contained place sooner, be it rent or purchase. Some of the most successful people, their biographies state how they had to move back home, sleep in their cars... eg Sir Alan Sugar, Simon Cowell. Peace of mind is key, God bless your future xx
I have my own apartment that I don't share with anyone and it's not cheap but the fact that I can just use my toilet and bathroom and kitchen whenever I want without fail makes it worth every penny.
Peace of mind is the real bag.
My former house mate and her must be related 😂. What, i lived in a prison cell than a home. I was always anxious, let me tell you even when I went out for a morning run, she would wake up to see. 😂
“I was raised well I wasn’t dragged”👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Live in landlords are NOT the one!
this was hilarious, the way you told the story was very engaging
Tabathia Jones loooool thank you sis !!!
Please no more roommates hunny! Pls live alone when ur ready to move out so much better
Are you gonna pay my rent to live alone in London?
No save up or continue to live at home till ur married. I can’t do roommates
Fol A after 4 years of horrible roommate situations I decided I’m never doing roommates agAin. Maybe I’m picky but I can’t live with other people unless it’s family
Aw sorry you went through this. Thank god you had your parents house to go back to. Living with other ppl after a certain age is hard...ppl be crazy! Maybe try a studio flat or living by yourself even though it cost more. Best of luck, its trial and error with these things. Ultimately I know I will live by myself when I move out of my mums place.
Thank you for posting this. This is real life and it gets like that sometimes. God bless you x
Brownie-pie this is it. We’re all about honesty on this channel !
I was this close to moving in to a home as a lodger, with live in landlord. But they made it very clear that i was not allowed to use the washing mashine, use the hob, cook meal, wear shoes indoors, use wifi(even my mobile data), no streaming. The only thing i was allowed to do was enter from the back door, landlord could enter my room with his key without having to ask for my permission. Needless to say, i did not agree to their ''rules and regulations'' and i am pretty happy now renting through hmo. Better safe than sorry, trust me it is not worth going through so much stress!
I am legit crying in public 😂😂😂. Loved this storytime. Btw the amount of patience you demonstrated towards this woman deserves an applause.
Schekinah Dn say it again
When you share an apartment with people the kitchen and bathroom is always an issue. I can never share an apartment with anyone outside of family it's too much. Sounds like she is anti meat eaters.
She eats meat quite frequently I later found out
@@SincerelyOghosa WHAT!! Oh she's just crazy good thing you're out of there. I bet if you had spoke to the other house mate she would've confirmed that lady was nuts.
hey ya'll! Welcome back. Sorry this upload was LATE! Videos usually come out on sundays at 10am but OBVIOUSLY given my ma-HUSSIVE life change...it's been hard to get videos up as usual but i'm BACK in a stable headspace now so videos will be going up on sundays and wednesdays as usual. Honestly what I've learnt from this situation. 1-have standards and stick to them, 2-be brave enough to state your boundaries, 3-if people don't respect or appreciate your boundaries-they're probably problematic and disrespectful. 4-its okay to walk away from a situation you wanted so badly. 5-sometimes saying no is the BEST thing you can do. 6-God is always in control, even in what *looks* like a mess.
Any comments I see, implying I’m to blame for any aspect of this. I’m telling you I will block you from my channel. God bless.
ThAts WhY I DoNt LiVe WiTh LaNdLoRds.
Do you know how hard it is to find compatible housemates? I’ve lived with a landlord and I’ve lived with housemates and they were all mad.
Chile reading through your learning points sounds like it can be applied to dating/relationships too!!
What you went through sounded so so bad I'm glad you got out of there. Nothing is worth disrupting your peace. Where you live should be your own safe haven so to have to deal with all that crap before you go to sleep and when you wake up is horrible for your mental health😥 Reminds me of my first 2 years of uni where I had a terrible flatmate situation - so I know how you felt!
Boundaries are so important and I'm learning that more everyday!
Giiiirl! Omg sorry to hear but wow flat share can be so crazy.. I’ve got loads of experiences like this as well from when I lived in flat share. Would you consider something self contained next time? I honestly think it’s so hard to find people that live in the exact same way as you... and if you can’t find that.. there will always be disagreements like those you had. Also, she was clearly crazy 😭 I’ve come across people like that too.. good luck for your nxt place x
After this I wanna hear some more story times. On another note though.. @sincerelyoghosha in good time you'll get peace in your own place that'll be bigger and better!!
Seem like this person wanted someone there who she can talk to when and how they liked and to also do the things/work her daughter won’t and refuse to do.
I'm getting irritated just listening to this lol. Doesn't even WASH HER HANDS AFTER TAKING A DUMP NOOOOONONONONOOOOO
It’s not the end of the world, so don’t take it to heart💕 Just keep searching and PLEASE make sure the landlord lives out... they are stressful to live with.
You’re blessed to at least be able to go back to your parents, you get the time to view rooms and potential neighbors carefully... Take it at your advantage🤗
She sounds toxic.
Count it all joy.........
Trust me Sis..God will allow you to go through the most foolishness to put fire in your belly, to allow you to see what is in you and you will and will not stand for.
Push this into your writing, and your acting. This is all part the journey xxx
THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH SIS. Honestly I'm laughing at the comments in a way because I'm actually FINE. I'm making more money than ever, God has my back and I'm going to Nigeria to live my best life soon. I am OKAY. But this is definitely juice for my creativity that I can use. Thank you so much sis!
@@SincerelyOghosa Amen, we thank God!
Looking forward to more sketches..
Babe well done for being so honest, I really admire that about you and your channel. What I would say though is that it can be so hard living with family/parents when you strive for independence. But it makes no sense to move out and rent with strangers. Especially if your not doing it in a different city or for work. This woman seemed very rude and just so inappropriate. Don't worry you'll be fine anyway x
Low-key she's was right though. Keeping uncooked meat together with cooked food is not good. Was the chicken uncovered? Taking up a lot of space in a shared fridge with an awkwardly shaped pot is also rude. And leaving my own pots dirty is different than coming home to use something and someone else has dirtied it up. But it's ok not everyone is meant to live together. Just establish concrete rules and expectations before moving out again.
THIS IS LEGENDARY!!
That sounds like my ex landlord, he will get mad for little things, he was filthy, 2 cats, the garden was a jungle, I stayed just 2 month and then peace out! Yep he was white too...
I'm so sorry this happened to you! Some people are just too difficult, this is why I'm renting a studio at uni and will never share a place with anyone because people can be a lot PERIOD
At her big age! 😳
When doing spare room always look for a live out landlord, it makes such a difference.
Actually really enjoyed this😂 sucks that things didn’t go to plan but no amount of stress is worth your sanity! I don’t know why people like this get tenants. 🤦🏾♀️
TIFFAFO they like Money. And it was actually really cathartic 😂😂😂🙌🏾
SincerelyOghosa I really hope her new tenant finds this video 😂😂
Eugh don’t beat yourself up about moving in with people who just aren’t right to live with! I’ve had the exact same situation a few times now, houseshares are so difficult. I lived in one house share and I left a piece of broccoli in the sink (didn’t realise) and then at midnight got a message on the house WhatsApp saying meeting in the kitchen now. To find the suspect of the broccoli leaver 😩🤦🏻♀️ some people are wild hahaha. Just do what’s best for you!!!!
Omg what??? That's so sad and pretty. I wouldn't have responded to that nonsense text. I am glad I live alone.
OMG sounds like a nightmare! I couldn't stand someone chat chat chat chatting to me every minutes. Would drive me mad. I would need a lock on the door and I ain't opening it. KEEP KNOCKING MY FRIEND.
I nearly used spare room as well a month ago, im glad I watched this , I will defo be asking past tenants 21 questions lol.
Stuff like this "scares" me, that's why I never really wanted to rent from somebody( but I get why people do it). I just hate feeling uncomfortable in my own space, it's a big no no for me. I feel for you, she was an idiot...she shouldn't be renting out if she can't mix well with other people.
After my experience living with Irish girls in uni.... if i have the option of living at home with family... I always would. It wasn't the worst experience but for me, I'd rather be with my stressful family, than deal with any strangers. It's different if you don't have the choice e.g you don't have any family to live with or you moved away but if you do, then always get as much info about the living environment before you move in. And depending on your circumstances make sure that the contract is in your favour
When you said she replied I'm going to disregard your message because you should have spoken to me in person..... what in the entire world!! From when somebody is raising their voice and your calm.....The bible says we wrestle not against flesh and blood
exactly. It's not everyday fight. I don't even have the energy. Truly. If ive had conversations about boundaries and you're still disrespectful i will just move. There's no need for drama. My father's house is open to me anytime loool.
@@SincerelyOghosa 100%. Seemingly, she had already parted with reason and did not respect your boundaries. And to even tell you about previous housemates, for what? How can you feel entitled over a perfect stranger who is paying you? Anyway, glad you're back home and hopefully she'll improve and develop boundaries her own self for the sake of everyone around her 🤷🏾♀️
Boi! This is actually problematic! I moved out last year and if my flatmate was like this then I don’t even know lmaooo so sorry this happened to you man
looool "but when you're a Christian" I love this
This was great to listen to. Lesson learnee
Exactly!
Leaving chicken in the pot doesn’t cause food poisoning 😒
Oh no, was so happy when you shared that you had moved out, o well something better will pop up. You cannot be paying rent and living under such stress better living in peace, life is too short.
This woman sounds crazy tbh, sorry this happened to you. Hopefully you’ll find a new better place where you’ll be able to be comfortable.
Thank you for sharing your story. I went through something VERY similar last year, slightly different context, but the behavior sounds exactly the same! Well done for prioritising yourself and self-care and not letting ego tell you have to stay there to save face! love this x
So sorry you had to go through that. Good for you for remaining graceful 👏🏾
Some people are really mad 😒. It's a blessing that you could freely go back into your parents house and not be stuck living there. When you said no money is worth your peace yesss 🙌. For me, I would like to try moving out soon to have my own space and all! For now I'm just thinking let me just try stack up as much p's as I can at home.
''That's on her mum init'' - that knocked me out!! Hang in there girl, you'll find your dream living situation soon!
Sharing with ppl can honestly be a headache. My recommendation is to stay at your parents and save for your own property.
Just hearing how she was behaving, is aggravating me.#Rude.
No respect for your time. No respect for you. I feel disrespected because you were disrespected and I dont even know you!
Looool @13:55
I'm so happy you removed yourself from that situation. We should never compromise our peace of mind. 🙏🏾❤️ Also this is the best story time 🎉
I am so sorry u needed to pass through this. People are so MAD most times and it's never easy to find a good flatmates in this life. Though, I am not living in London but I believe the way it happens in Spain that's how it is in London. Moreover, some people don't get to understand the word RESPECT. Never feel bad moving back to ur Parents home. It's always the best place to BE obviously. Lots of hug
"This is before I realised everyone was mad" 😂😂😂!!!
I really love this natural look. It looks so much better than the other ones. Wow, you look and shine so beautifully! (Focus on skincare, not makeup, you don't need any, trust me) 🥰👍👏
Please start a podcast I could hear you talk for daysssss
The way I'm scratching my head😂
My housemate experienced the same thing. She was actually mad. Only difference is, she didn't have a child. But the pettiness was ridiculous. Luckily I was moving and she moved with me.
So ladies & gents DO NOT LIVE WITH LIVE IN LANLORDS/LANDLADIES!!!!!
I love your honesty honestly xx
So sorry to hear this wahala. Tbh I was ready to fly the nest and only after I left did I realise some people are mad and they have no one to tell them. I hope the next place is better and there won't be such a need for conflict resolution. It's not easy to keep your cool with cantankerous people , especially when you want to be doing gentle Jesus meek and mild. I pray you get better people in the future or even a place to yourself and the funds to sustain it.😊🙏🏾
Morayo it’s true some people are defo mad and have no one to tell them 😂😂😂
This landlord sounds like a lunatic, i feel your pain. I lived with a live in landlord and never again!
Glad you talked about this. It’s going to help people in a similar situation know what to look out for. You brave girlll, she was barking mad!! Maybe God was testing you or reminding you of your standards 🙏🏾
This IS WILD!
Oh wow the landlord sounds crazyyyyyy... Don't worry girl God will take you from glory to glory... Moving back home will give you time to save up and you'll move somewhere you call your own and home in God's timing ❤️‼️... 😂😭But girl the oyinbo talk too much bit I was like yasssssss I agree
I clicked so fast. First!
welcome!!
You’re a fantastic storyteller! That landlady was doing too much. Obviously you know best, but didn’t think it was a race thing. I think it’s more she was ignorant to the foods you were making and the unknown can scare people. That being said, that might make it a race thing. Lol
Thanks for watching hun. I didn't say it was a race thing. I just said it was something I hadn't considered as a factor. And tbh there were microagressions, I just didn't include those in the video.
Bless you, babes, thank God for the sanctuary of your Dad's house.
Try Christian flatshare next time.
I just checked it out as I am looking for somewhere, thank you.
The silver lining is that now you can save up and look for a new place. I hope your next place is perfect.
I'm sorry you went through this. I have been in a similar situation. Glad you moved out.
Sis, that landlady is straight up cra, cra 🤣🤣🤣🤣 crazy!
Keep your head up qween ❤👑
Hey sis, I fully get where you are coming from. See if you can consider an affordable studio flat as your reasons for moving out were valid.
OMG I feel for you girl thats just a lot honestly to loose your peace of mind, no one deserves that kind of stress in their own home and coin is coming out naahh. Glad you've moved back home. I honestly believe (I might be wrong) but seems like she she has some sort of bipolar affective disorder from the behaviours you've mentioned and the changes from manic(hyper) and depression (feeling low).
I honestly Stan you so hard
Your dad is a legend I went through a similar thing with a landlord and his whole family in Cornwall , it was hell.