I HATE JOY - INSIDE OUT Movie Commentary

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  • @m3rrys0ngstr3ss
    @m3rrys0ngstr3ss Před 2 lety +2206

    I love how every emotion has two sides - Joy is also Mania, Sadness is also Empathy, Anger is also Justice, Fear is also Analysis, and Disgust is also Discernment.

    • @breezy3392
      @breezy3392 Před 2 lety +129

      Well said

    • @MeemahSN
      @MeemahSN Před rokem +11

      Joy isn’t empathy, that’s Sadness

    • @xlanah5034
      @xlanah5034 Před rokem +33

      @@MeemahSN ??

    • @ArwenRO24
      @ArwenRO24 Před rokem +67

      @@MeemahSN they did not say joy is empathy they said joy is mania and sadness is empathy, I think you accidently read that wrong.

    • @imterrifiedofchickens909
      @imterrifiedofchickens909 Před rokem +23

      Fear is Awareness

  • @brotemca8020
    @brotemca8020 Před 2 lety +950

    Joy: I stopped Riley from feeling negative emotions.
    Disgust: You fucked up a perfectly good kid is what you did, look at her. She's got depression.

    • @hello_everyone740
      @hello_everyone740 Před 2 lety

      Riley is a disgusting kid

    • @swoen6321
      @swoen6321 Před 2 lety +6

      Disgust didn't say shit, nobody did

    • @aniiahie
      @aniiahie Před 2 lety +48

      @@swoen6321 sir its a meme

    • @swoen6321
      @swoen6321 Před 2 lety +3

      @@aniiahie its not a very funny one

    • @aniiahie
      @aniiahie Před 2 lety +23

      @@swoen6321 i mean to you it isnt, you didnt have to say anything if you didnt like it tbh

  • @myMelody4life
    @myMelody4life Před 2 lety +2079

    I love the messaging in this movie: toxic positivity is not good; and it's okay to be sad.

    • @danniw3383
      @danniw3383 Před 2 lety +55

      Exactly! My friend was like this. I have depression and she ended our friendship over it.

    • @blazestar4747
      @blazestar4747 Před 2 lety +70

      And it shows how toxic positivity can force you into depression and such.
      It's shows how when it gets really bad, some people experience complete emotional shut down. They feel nothing, but anxiety and they constantly snap at people. And then, when nothing is done to fix it, all emotion is completely shut off. And this is VERY realistic.

    • @jasonchow9379
      @jasonchow9379 Před 2 lety +1

      But the problem is that most male don't express sadness publicly because of society standards. Society depict us men to be manly and doesn't let us show our emotions correctly. Now I'm not saying female don't get depressed but more men gets sad than females. I personally when I would get hurt people tell you to walk it off. No male will show their emotions if no one cares. In result they would keep their emotions inside and not express it at all or properly. Male suicides are 3 times more than females. We just need to teach kids its ok to be sad, its ok to show emotion, its ok to want to cry. We're all human and humans don't deserve to be treated that way.

    • @emmastone8779
      @emmastone8779 Před rokem +4

      @@jasonchow9379females don’t express it that much either bc it isn’t taken seriously, it’s chalked up to pms symptoms. Females are more prone to negative emotions than males. However society will tell males that it’s not manly to cry and theyll tell females that their cries are meaningless. Society has a problem with emotions, period.

    • @adrenalineactivate
      @adrenalineactivate Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@jasonchow9379but those "society" are created by men. The "suck it up" mentality is from toxic masculinity. The "man can't get r4ped" is made by men too. And women can't express emotions either you know, we get made fun off by EVERYTHING. If we get angry "are you on your period?", if we get sad then we're to "sensitive" if we get to excited then we're "fangirling". We get made fun off liking sports, game, kpop, fashion, art, building and literally everything. Plus men aren't allowed to cry but women are consider "too emotional" for expressing ourself. Society sucks for everyone and honestly the mentality of "men can't cry being the hardest thing when it comes to being a men" is kinda laughable because now, you can cry. Even the men in the video says you can cry

  • @memyselfandi7782
    @memyselfandi7782 Před 2 lety +2654

    I hated Joy too to be fair. I am one with Sadness. I was amazed to realize that Sadness was COMPELLED to touch Rileys old memories because it's what Riley NEEDED to heal and grow up, but she was trying not too to make mom and dad happy which it did not. Toxic positivity is always important to talk about and the movie showed that as well

    • @Welchy
      @Welchy  Před 2 lety +314

      True showed it very well!

    • @RhetoricalThrill
      @RhetoricalThrill Před 2 lety +203

      I think if we really look at it, all our happy core memories are tinged with sadness because as we grow up, those moments are gone. We can't get them back, so even if they're happy memories, there's a bitterness to them.

    • @badbabyslytherin
      @badbabyslytherin Před 2 lety +32

      @@RhetoricalThrill very well said 👏

    • @memyselfandi7782
      @memyselfandi7782 Před 2 lety +6

      @@RhetoricalThrill very well said

    • @sammyursula
      @sammyursula Před 2 lety +47

      @@RhetoricalThrill I heard someone call the yellow and blue memory at the end "bittersweet" and I can't think of a more perfect description

  • @MiciousDawn
    @MiciousDawn Před 2 lety +913

    “What did we do to deserve you?” 💖
    “Have sex.”
    That killed me

    • @Welchy
      @Welchy  Před 2 lety +108

      my bad 😂

    • @_evening_268
      @_evening_268 Před 2 lety +28

      rip here lies dawn chamber ,their fucking dead

    • @MiciousDawn
      @MiciousDawn Před 2 lety +20

      @@_evening_268 Here in purgatory and still laughing 💀

    • @reptiliannoizezz.413
      @reptiliannoizezz.413 Před 2 lety +6

      I had the same thought when I first watched this XD

    • @Thebatcavepetfriendlybakery
      @Thebatcavepetfriendlybakery Před 2 lety +27

      theres a theory shes adopted bc when shes a newborn, theyre standing over her. mothers after birthing arent strong enough to stand like that in everyday clothes. the mom would be in a hospital gown in a hospital bed holding her. plus riley has blonde hair and blue eyes, but her parents both have brown hair and brown eyes.

  • @DoranGale
    @DoranGale Před 2 lety +1018

    Joy is grating… but the concept was brilliant.
    Missing/Unbalanced = Disorder
    All-Island Shutdown = Depression
    Joy/Joy = Ecstasy
    Joy/Sadness = Melancholy, Nostalgia
    Joy/Disgust = Intrigue
    Joy/Fear = Surprise
    Joy/Anger = Righteousness
    Sadness/Sadness = Despair
    Sadness/Disgust = Self-Loathing
    Sadness/Fear = Anxiety
    Sadness/Anger = Betrayal
    Disgust/Disgust = Prejudice
    Disgust/Fear = Revulsion
    Disgust/Anger = Loathing
    Fear/Fear = Terror
    Fear/Anger = Hatred
    Anger/Anger = Rage

    • @kaiburrus3190
      @kaiburrus3190 Před 2 lety +45

      Emotionmon: Nostalgia I choose you!
      It was supper effective.

    • @danniw3383
      @danniw3383 Před 2 lety +6

      She’s still a horrible character but you make a good point

    • @m3rrys0ngstr3ss
      @m3rrys0ngstr3ss Před 2 lety +19

      Good matching on the combos! I would have thought that Joy/Sadness in the case was specifically Catharsis.

    • @tobsonasanya4765
      @tobsonasanya4765 Před 2 lety +4

      @@danniw3383 nah

    • @dhnation4975
      @dhnation4975 Před 2 lety

      Wouldn’t sadness/anger be just nihilism?

  • @user-pt5cl2ro6f
    @user-pt5cl2ro6f Před 2 lety +1133

    Youre right on with Riley not knowing how to handle her emotions, since she's always relied on the positive and the good memories, and when she couldn't find that, it just kept building up until she cracked.

    • @Cardiax
      @Cardiax Před 2 lety +104

      Parents didn't know how to help either because Riley's core emotion was joy... so when she finally started showing other emotions more fully, they were confused and surprised until Riley was able to voice her problems and talk about it at length.

    • @nottoday3561
      @nottoday3561 Před 2 lety +28

      @@Cardiax Not only that, it seems like they actively pressured her to be happy all the time so they could rely on her to boost everyone else's mood.

  • @dlweiss
    @dlweiss Před 2 lety +741

    I love how this movie says: sadness is often the key to sympathy and empathy, because without it we can't "feel bad" for others, or let others know that we need their help. If you force yourself to be "happy" all the time, you'll just end up miserable.

    • @meanya4687
      @meanya4687 Před 11 měsíci +4

      That... makes a lot of sense. Joy was a very upbeat character, but she had no empathy for Sadness or for Bingbong. She was more concerned with securing the core memories and getting herself back home than she was with the wellbeing of Sadness _or_ Bingbong... until she cried. When she cried, when she let her own sadness out, only then did she realize what sadness meant. And it was that moment where she finally allowed herself to be sad and have someone else help her that let her grow enough to mourn Bingbong, bring Sadness home, and let her turn every core memory nostalgic.

  • @joce-in-stitches
    @joce-in-stitches Před 2 lety +822

    The Pixar formula: What if toys had feelings? What if bugs had feelings? What if cars had feelings? What if feelings had feelings?

  • @kirapiazzi
    @kirapiazzi Před 2 lety +751

    Welchy being like "crying is so good" and five minutes later "I'm not gonna cry" lmao what now?! but also same

    • @Welchy
      @Welchy  Před 2 lety +170

      Damn, you so right actually 😂

    • @k49821
      @k49821 Před 2 lety +25

      Came looking for this comment 😂

  • @parttimesaint3165
    @parttimesaint3165 Před 2 lety +242

    A therapist and his child started talking about emotions as colours after watching this movie together.
    This movie is a great tool of communication between visual learning and complex feelings.

  • @BloodylocksBathory
    @BloodylocksBathory Před 2 lety +173

    I appreciate how the nightmare clown isn't demonic or evil, it's just being a clown, except up to 11.

    • @Jerepasaurus
      @Jerepasaurus Před 2 lety +7

      I thought the clown reminded me of Bing Bong. lol

  • @memyselfandi7782
    @memyselfandi7782 Před 2 lety +261

    It all actually went wrong when Joy tried to stop a core memory just because it was sad. I understand why, but that caused this.

  • @myMelody4life
    @myMelody4life Před 2 lety +328

    "There's nothing better than a good cry." THANK YOU! I AGREE 100%! There's something so healing about a good cry.

    • @hishamrashid5293
      @hishamrashid5293 Před 2 lety +11

      Even tears have a job, cleaning for the next smile.
      Some quote i heard on the internet-

    • @lulub517
      @lulub517 Před 2 lety +8

      Yes. Yes. Yes! Crying when you need to is so healthy and it gets your emotions out in a healthy way. Keeping them in is always going to end in disaster.

    • @raebaby4600
      @raebaby4600 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@lulub517I saw a video of a girl in walmart earlier who had suppressed her emotions for too long and got so upset that she peed all over the store floor.... so basically yeah 😅 don't suppress your problems

  • @ParadoxFreak
    @ParadoxFreak Před 2 lety +293

    I always thought this film should have ended with a flash forward to the future where Riley became an astronaut and was on the moon. Then she would faintly hear Bing Bong’s song 🥺

    • @jewelminess
      @jewelminess Před 2 lety +32

      AWWWW MY GOD

    • @heartsforsayori
      @heartsforsayori Před 2 lety +29

      If that was real, I'd cry. (bc it'd be sad and cute at the same time)

    • @Gongasoso
      @Gongasoso Před 2 lety +15

      Thanks a lot, my eyes needed an extra lubrication. The Bing Bong fade scene and the family hug scene weren't enough.

    • @Thebatcavepetfriendlybakery
      @Thebatcavepetfriendlybakery Před 2 lety +10

      you just made me cry and i will never forgive you

    • @verysaltyperson
      @verysaltyperson Před 2 lety +9

      Pixar called, they are hiring! They seemed interested in you

  • @almsy8625
    @almsy8625 Před 2 lety +265

    Seeing the depiction of the core memories turning sad at the end and having the understanding that "yes, these memories aren't happy for Riley anymore, and that's okay," followed by her breakdown, and finally Joy & Sadness pushing the button together to bring Riley a feeling of catharsis & comfort... THAT is peak cinema.
    Also PS, I think your glasses are great, Welchy. Keep being awesome!

    • @WhitneyDahlin
      @WhitneyDahlin Před 2 lety +4

      CORE MEMORIES. My dad is a computer and robotics engineer and my earliest memory is playing video games LMAO seriously I couldn't have been more than 2 or 3. And video games have always been a hobby of mine. I especially love Elder Scrolls, COD, and Dark Souls (Bloodborne, Sekiro, Elden Ring ). My dad also is big into working out and we've had a home gym for my whole life so whenever my Dad was watching me he would move the baby swing into the gym. And I grew up loving all athletics and sports. Wait a second! Now that I'm thinking about it I wonder if my Dad purposefully programmed my personality like he does with his computers!! He turned me into him!!!! Now I know why we're so alike interests and personality wise

    • @meanya4687
      @meanya4687 Před rokem +2

      Oh, you're right... I always saw how Joy handing Sadness the memories was her way of getting past her fear of joyful memories turning sad, which is what got them into their mess in the first place.
      But you're right, those memories are core to Riley's personality, but are distant from her now and will forever have a sad, nostalgic edge around them. That's why she needed to hold all of them.

  • @mahnameisj
    @mahnameisj Před 2 lety +178

    On this day, I watched a grown man ask me to cry on command and I sat here like an idiot actually trying it 😂

    • @Welchy
      @Welchy  Před 2 lety +24

      😂😂😂

    • @C0deB1u3
      @C0deB1u3 Před 2 lety +5

      We're you successful?

  • @RhetoricalThrill
    @RhetoricalThrill Před 2 lety +238

    My five year old daughter has an imaginary friend. She calls it Coconut, and I'm sure she'll forget it someday, but I won't. Coconut is funny as hell and sometimes I wish we could do an exchange program.

    • @kittycatmeowmeow963
      @kittycatmeowmeow963 Před 2 lety +8

      Did she ever tell you what it looks like?

    • @RhetoricalThrill
      @RhetoricalThrill Před 2 lety +30

      @@kittycatmeowmeow963 I never asked. But apparently they mostly phone and text, she doesn’t come over. 🤣

    • @raebaby4600
      @raebaby4600 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@RhetoricalThrillthat is the best thing I've heard all day

  • @sentientglowcube
    @sentientglowcube Před 2 lety +85

    What I also loved is when we were looking into the mothers and fathers head, saddness ran the mothers head and anger ran the fathers head. It shows what emotions Rileys parents controlled their personalities.

    • @yay29823
      @yay29823 Před 2 lety +8

      And even so, the father's mind is still more emotionly stable then Riley's

    • @nadox5259
      @nadox5259 Před 2 lety +7

      @@yay29823 because she's a teen? Teens aren't as stable as adults.

    • @yay29823
      @yay29823 Před 2 lety +2

      @@nadox5259 If you didn't tell me I wouldn't know ;-;

  • @RhetoricalThrill
    @RhetoricalThrill Před 2 lety +401

    I don't know if it comes from being a psych major but this movie always makes so much sense to me. Sadness is my driver but I think Anger and Disgust try to suppress it and it comes out as sarcasm and dumb jokes. Maybe I should have gone for the doctorate and I'd understand myself better.

    • @ajmalaika1287
      @ajmalaika1287 Před 2 lety +17

      Yh, you're right they talked to a lot of psychologists especially child psychologists to help write the movie and convey these points to children

  • @maggie_knolastname
    @maggie_knolastname Před 2 lety +108

    Disgust is my favorite of the emotions in this movie. She’s adorable, sassy and ironically looks like broccoli (I hate broccoli too)

  • @moonlitskylight5740
    @moonlitskylight5740 Před 2 lety +161

    This is a hard movie to watch when you've been dealing with depression, because they get it right.
    Also with the bus driver, small point, but you don't need to be of legal age to ride one so he wouldn't have a reason to check her ID.

    • @Welchy
      @Welchy  Před 2 lety +31

      Yes, but where I’m from if you’re going on a coach you NEED some sort of iD

    • @xxcoolguyxx3275
      @xxcoolguyxx3275 Před 2 lety +27

      @@Welchy That's really strange for here in America. I'm from Minnesota (y'know, the place Riley's from) and I take the bus every day to get to school. As long as you pay the fee, you're allowed on. They don't ID anyone unless you need it for disability/senior discounts

    • @jakeystarsuper
      @jakeystarsuper Před rokem

      but you do have to pay obviously

    • @JenCrystal
      @JenCrystal Před 10 měsíci

      From my experience If it’s a regular city bus (travels only within the area of that city) you don’t need an ID but Riley was specifically getting on a Greyhound bus I think (Travels across cities and state lines) and for that you need to show an ID to purchase a ticket at the booth

  • @benarts2271
    @benarts2271 Před 2 lety +270

    “All of the friends I had back in my high school days, all gone now.” I can personally relate 💔

    • @realglutenfree
      @realglutenfree Před 2 lety +12

      Memories, especially of old friends are always a bit sad, even when the experiences were happy

    • @RhetoricalThrill
      @RhetoricalThrill Před 2 lety +4

      That kind of surprises me. I finished school before social media was a thing (barely, but still), so I lost track of pretty much all my friends after that. But I always assumed that since social media exploded that wasn't as much of a thing. I figured if it had existed then we would have kept up with each other, but maybe it's just a natural progression of growing up.

    • @ronweber1402
      @ronweber1402 Před 2 lety +4

      @@RhetoricalThrill It is. I have lost touch and drifted away from all of my high school friends but the friends of my early 20's have remained surprisingly close. Even after a couple of decades apart most of us found each other again over social media and we now keep in touch. I think it's because we experienced a lot of firsts and coming of age events together that keeps us close after all this time.

    • @TransparentEclipse
      @TransparentEclipse Před 2 lety +7

      Yeah, this is mostly accurate. I’m 20 and I only keep in touch with a handful of my high school friends even tho I’m only a couple years removed. I still have most of them followed on Snapchat and Instagram but we haven’t had an actual conversation in years.

    • @artsysabs
      @artsysabs Před 2 lety +3

      Same here. It's been ten years since I graduated and we drifted apart. After being out of school for me it was incredibly hard to make friends. In fact, all the friends I did make (although a lot went downhill) and the few I still have now i all met online. I'm anti social and awkward so idk if I'll ever make friends around me irl. But hey, i was able to meet my spouse online and after 6 years of a long distance relationship were together now since December 🥰

  • @knighjoy9883
    @knighjoy9883 Před 2 lety +250

    OMG FINALLY SOMEONE REALISED IN THE MIDDLE OF THE MOVIE THE MAIN MORAL OF THIS, enjoy to listen your thoughts about sadness being important too

    • @kittycatmeowmeow963
      @kittycatmeowmeow963 Před 2 lety +3

      What are you talking about? A lot of people understood it. I understood it.

    • @knighjoy9883
      @knighjoy9883 Před 2 lety +3

      @@kittycatmeowmeow963 oh right I was watching your reaction on this how could I forget that you got this

  • @AmberyTear
    @AmberyTear Před 2 lety +84

    There was actually a lot of research behind this movie. It is a very good metaphor for child psychology and the development of people's personality.

  • @danailmarinov7299
    @danailmarinov7299 Před 2 lety +42

    I'd say Joy had good intentions but was heavily misguided. While Sadness had the right hunch on how to help Riley heal.

  • @MTTT19
    @MTTT19 Před 2 lety +25

    Riley getting upset in school: “I’m not going to cry”
    Bing Bong disappears: “I will not cry”
    Riley comes home and expresses her sadness: “Dammit! I’m crying!”

  • @MeemahSN
    @MeemahSN Před 2 lety +15

    I think many people hate Joy. She’s the embodiment of toxic positivity and anyone who grew up with the idea that they weren’t allowed to express any negative emotions can resonate with Sadness

  • @user-pt5cl2ro6f
    @user-pt5cl2ro6f Před 2 lety +44

    Dreaming of falling and waking up panicking is so relatable 😭

    • @Welchy
      @Welchy  Před 2 lety +5

      Day is already ruined when that happens

    • @diamond9030
      @diamond9030 Před 2 lety +3

      How about when you wake up after falling, but you never started your dream in the first place?

    • @lulub517
      @lulub517 Před 2 lety +2

      All the time. Even worse when you’re starting to fall asleep and your brain goes “Ooops you tripped” and you jolt awake thinking you actually tripped over.

    • @indigo4801
      @indigo4801 Před 2 lety +1

      @@lulub517 oh yeah, hate that

  • @0Quiwi0
    @0Quiwi0 Před 2 lety +190

    The "Joy is the antagonist" thing that everyone has is true... BUT that's part of growing up. When you are an infant you don't need complex emotions. When you are happy you are doing fine. When you start getting older you need to understand sadness too or you end up as a sociopath. For the same reason Binbong had to be forgotten for Riley to grow up without imaginary friends sticking around as that's kinda psychotic if it goes on for too long

    • @kittycatmeowmeow963
      @kittycatmeowmeow963 Před 2 lety +29

      I do understand that class scene though. Riley was the new kid. Joy and the rest had to stop sadness from making her cry in front of everyone so they wouldn't make fun of her and she can have friends. That's what we human beings do. We suck up our feelings so we don't cry in public. Or that scene where her parents were fighting. Joy made her stop them from doing it because Riley was scared that they were going to get a divorce.

    • @xmant8842
      @xmant8842 Před 2 lety +16

      I don't even see joy as the antagonist. Heck, if someone can consider joy the antagonist then they better consider riley's parents the main antagonists because her mom was the one who made joy think she was the most important. But I wouldn't consider anyone the main antagonist because imo there isn't one. In fact, that's one of the things I love about the movie. There isn't really an antagonist and that helps everything the characters go through feel natural

    • @kittycatmeowmeow963
      @kittycatmeowmeow963 Před 2 lety +11

      @@xmant8842 Exactly. Joy did it because her mom told her to stay happy.

    • @0Quiwi0
      @0Quiwi0 Před 2 lety +19

      Antagonist doesn't mean villain by the way

    • @breezy3392
      @breezy3392 Před 2 lety +10

      @@0Quiwi0 Glad you pointed this out. A lot of people confuse these terms

  • @alyssabullock6421
    @alyssabullock6421 Před 2 lety +28

    "PG" just means Parental Guidance. So this is a movie that can be watched by kids, but by default is advised to be shown to them alongside parents who can guide their children through the stories, because movies like this are meant to open kids to the real world and relatable experiences :)

  • @softsquishysuga
    @softsquishysuga Před 2 lety +14

    14:57 “Wait… something’s happening.”
    The satisfaction once you figure it out is just *chef’s kiss* 😭

  • @brianalambert1192
    @brianalambert1192 Před 2 lety +63

    I say a lot every time I ever speak about this film so I'm going to try and keep it short this time. I have had serious depression on and off since I was a teenager. The mistake that I think a lot of people, and I blame media for this, is that people think that depression is an excess of sadness. While I think sadness is a major part of depression, I personally spotted three metaphors in this movie that captured what depression is even better. A) forgetting joy; you forget how to be happy and can't bring yourself to feel it B) when they're in the pit of forgotten memories and you see these memories of a happy child fading away in addition to the personality islands (I personally think a certain amount of depression is losing the identity that you had) C) when Riley gets that idea and her emotions can't make her feel anything so she goes on autopilot. My personal experience is that depression is being unable to feel anything. You want to feel something, but can't. I also think the concept of an idea stuck in your head that your emotions can't break out of is suicide in a nutshell. Every story I've ever heard from people who survived a suicide attempt is that they instantly regretted it. It's an idea you can't get out of your head and your brain can't break you out of it.
    I often use this movie as a test for me, because I inevitably cry at this movie whenever I watch it. Both in the moments I mentioned and when sadness finally turns the core memories sad. I find that the more shit I'm dealing with, the more I cry uncontrollably at this movie. It becomes a bit of catharsis and I am suddenly at piece once I've done so. Pixar Nirvana shall we call it. The worse my depression is, the more of a release this movie becomes. But I have to consciously think about it as the cure I need for the time, but it's a cure that I find to be incredibly effective

  • @jacintacapelety9600
    @jacintacapelety9600 Před 2 lety +64

    Speaking as someone who refused to wear her glasses for a solid year despite desperately needing them because I felt really self-conscious about how I look in them, trust me when I say no one looks anywhere near as bad in glasses as they think they do. It's mostly a matter of getting used to seeing yourself in them when you see your reflection, or in your case, a recording of yourself (also getting used to the sensation of having them resting on the bridge of your nose, and remembering that they're there when you go to scratch any part of your face near your eyes, that takes some getting used to also). Honest opinion, I'd say you look about the same with your glasses on. Personally, I found it a bit easier to accept wearing glasses when I thought about how I could do the anime glasses thing (ya know, where the lenses of the glasses gets completely whited out by light for dramatic effect). No one can feel uncool when doing the anime glasses thing.

  • @Renikee
    @Renikee Před 2 lety +14

    I just love the metaphor when Sadness touches the core memories, they could be also the nostalgic moments.
    And the fact that Joy didn't let Sadness do anything, meant that Riley was bottling up her feelings, and that's why Sadness could save her, after Riley lost her emotions and became depressed.

  • @evebond905
    @evebond905 Před 2 lety +28

    Welchy: "Nah she's lying, I'm pretty sure she's gonna throw him into the forgetful pits" about bingbong
    Me: 👀

  • @Bjjbhcoa86
    @Bjjbhcoa86 Před 2 lety +16

    I love that mother's emotion that sits in the middle is Sadness. Says a lot.

  • @DovahkiinMaster172
    @DovahkiinMaster172 Před 2 lety +22

    Whenever I need a good cry, this is the movie I watch. Bing Bong’s death and Rylee’s break down to her parents are too very raw scenes emotionally that always get me.

  • @RivalReacts
    @RivalReacts Před 2 lety +5

    ''That's a bit sad... and a bit weird... I like it." i'm crying 😂

    • @Welchy
      @Welchy  Před 2 lety +2

      I can die happy now 😂

  • @lulub517
    @lulub517 Před 2 lety +12

    As soon as Joy gently gave Sadness the memories, my eyes started to water… and then you said “Plot-tits” and now I’m crying with laughter

  • @caylenmosley2990
    @caylenmosley2990 Před 2 lety +12

    This movie is a great example of why the "iT's JuSt A kIdS mOvIe" excuse is just plain out wrong.

  • @darkmelodies2694
    @darkmelodies2694 Před 2 lety +12

    Me: Crying as Riley expresses her sadness
    *NICE SHOT*
    😭😳😂😂😂😂

  • @bugkillah9389
    @bugkillah9389 Před 2 lety +49

    If you havent noticed yet, Joy's hair and eyes are blue which points out to the fact that there cant be joy without sadness or that to reach joy you have to be sad and let it out

    • @bugkillah9389
      @bugkillah9389 Před 2 lety +9

      @iKandy i didn't even copy this i just knew from a fan and just spreading it since i know that some people love to know those details if you have no constructive critic than please ignore this and move on if it doesn't affect you personally also i never "claimed" anything i just wanted to share this cool information i mean that's what movie reactions and commentaries are for and if you don't like this then i guess 12 others liked it maybe they learned smth new bcuzz of me so if you don't like this you could have just ignored it. Good day

    • @fredericksaxton9782
      @fredericksaxton9782 Před 2 lety +19

      @iKandy Just because someone says the same idea, doesn't mean they are copy pasting. What? Multiple people can't talk about things? Once one person says it, that's it? Then I guess f**k theories, can't discuss or talk about them! Better not say anything, someone else might have posted it! 🙄

    • @nines3703
      @nines3703 Před 2 lety +7

      @iKandy normalise you shutting up 😐

    • @briarbeautyfan
      @briarbeautyfan Před rokem

      Or maybe it was just a color choice

    • @bugkillah9389
      @bugkillah9389 Před rokem

      @@briarbeautyfan nope it can’t be cuzz every other enotion has its own color but only joy has blue eyes and hair it was no coincidence. The message behind this is that you cant feel joy without sadness but you can feel sadness without joy.

  • @mlp4infinity252
    @mlp4infinity252 Před 2 lety +18

    18:19 what everyone ive seen reacting to this movie says as soon as anger said that they should run away
    15:53 what welchy says as soon as anger said they should run away

  • @ajandrianjafymusic
    @ajandrianjafymusic Před 2 lety +96

    I had an imaginary friend, until my older brother sat on him and killed him😂 I was 5, I’m now 21 an still pressed about it

    • @user-is7xs1mr9y
      @user-is7xs1mr9y Před 2 lety +10

      Man that's sad. I don't know how true this is, but I remember watching a tv show where a little girl had an imaginary friend. She was the youngest of her siblings by several years, and her mom died when she was a baby, so she was kinda lonely. Later on, her dad gets a nanny and she's loving and caring, so the nanny accidentally killed the imaginary friend. The girl's therapist said that this was due to the child not needing an imaginary friend anymore because she was basically not lonely anymore. Personally I wouldn't know because my little brother and I are just 1 year and 5 months apart, so we would always keep each other's company and play together all the time.

    • @Pollicina_db
      @Pollicina_db Před 7 měsíci

      @@user-is7xs1mr9y Same, never had an imaginary friends because I had my sister and mom that was a stay at home.

  • @saturnzhornetz44
    @saturnzhornetz44 Před 2 lety +7

    Y'all wanna know something funny
    My sister and I had just gotten back from the movies with our aunt, and we were talking about our favorite characters (mine was fear, my sister's was disgust) and my mom interjected and said "Aren't the negative emotions the bad guys?" Pretty ironic, isn't it?

  • @sparrowanimates1084
    @sparrowanimates1084 Před 2 lety +6

    I think it's interesting that while Riley's main driving emotion was Joy, her mom's was Sadness and her Dad's was Anger.

  • @lll.24601
    @lll.24601 Před 2 lety +7

    I CAN'T BREATHE DURING THE PART WHEN THE ANNOUNCEMENT SAID NICE SHOT. In a part of a sad bit.

  • @BestFriendsWhoLiveTogether
    @BestFriendsWhoLiveTogether Před 2 lety +15

    When I was a teenager (and still a great deal now) whenever I got home from school I would cry for hours - I didn’t talk to anyone, my parents were both at work until late, it was simply crying that got all the pent up emotions out and made room for happiness - sadness is the best way to be happy

  • @kalakedavra9618
    @kalakedavra9618 Před 2 lety +5

    I remember that I watched this movie with my little sister in cinema when it came out and I sat next to a little kid and half way through the movie the kid just turns to his mum and says: "Why is this so sad? I wanna go home.". Later on I rewatched it and it made sense to me and it felt relatable but it's not really for kids, it's just too deep.
    ALSO man I HATE onions too omg it's so good to hear someone say it lmao

  • @milo_thatch_incarnate
    @milo_thatch_incarnate Před 2 lety +5

    This movie is one of the best Pixar has ever made, easily. But my favorite thing of all time about watching people _react_ to it is every guy who sees the scene with the boy’s brain yelling “GIRL. GIRL.” and they’re like “yep, accurate” 🤣😂

  • @bell-collector5772
    @bell-collector5772 Před 2 lety +3

    Every time I watch the “Go take care of Rylie, take her to the moon for me” scene. It’s just rips out my heart and stomps on it. Bing Bong deserved so much better

  • @jaistashu1560
    @jaistashu1560 Před 2 lety +27

    Ahh this one is one of my absolute favorite Pixar movies along with Soul. Without fail, I always tear up/cry when I see Riley sigh with relief after she cries in her parents' arms. It illustrates such a powerful message, and it's so healing. I also cry during a similar seemingly-simple moment in Soul. I think I'm a sucker for loving moments which show life through a realistic/romantic lens. (Romantic as in loving the little/real moments of life rather than person/person romance.)

  • @AJ07765
    @AJ07765 Před 2 lety +4

    Am I the only one who has always thought Rylee’s screaming at the beginning (1:43-1:44) sounds exactly like Boo’s screams from monsters inc when she was in Sully and Mike’s apartment

  • @jonnycola86
    @jonnycola86 Před 2 lety +4

    Bing Bong was the hero along with sadness. The voice actor saying the last line was tearing up saying "take her to the moon for me" there is a song dedicated to Bing Bong

  • @andigarnett2859
    @andigarnett2859 Před 2 lety +6

    I feel like someone keeps throwing all my memories into the void because I can’t remember anything from my childhood 😂

  • @KiraMahMan
    @KiraMahMan Před 2 lety +13

    my first time watching this movie was in a science class when I was still at school, my 14 year old self loved it and went to re-watch it again as soon as I could. It's one of my favourite movies of all time, the message it creates really gets me because I was always expected to be happy and that crying is not for boys so I have not cried for a while until around the time this movie came out. I made me cry at the end, and it still does to this day, though I suppressed it at school when watching it there.

  • @thisfeelingatnight859
    @thisfeelingatnight859 Před 2 lety +86

    Loved this video as always! 🤩 I think this is one of the deepest children's movies Disney has ever done.

    • @Welchy
      @Welchy  Před 2 lety +18

      Grateful for your support 😊

    • @azuroslazuli6948
      @azuroslazuli6948 Před 2 lety +2

      Not Disney, Pixar! Disney was never as genius as Pixar!

  • @Draconis_Eltanin
    @Draconis_Eltanin Před 2 lety +5

    It was such a good movie...
    Even after years just the first notes of "We Can Still Stop Her" are instant tear material...

  • @Abel-lt5nr
    @Abel-lt5nr Před 2 lety +5

    This movie makes me cry so much everytime I watch it, I have been planning to watch it with my parents. All my childhood my dad was the type to tell you "be happy, you have nothing to be sad about", he never realised how bad that was or how his toxic positivity affected me.....he has changed since then but I really want him to watch this movie and maybe understand a little bit more.

  • @ashleypenn7845
    @ashleypenn7845 Před 2 lety +21

    You're adorable, Welchy. Never change.

  • @miaow0706
    @miaow0706 Před 2 lety +64

    Your reactions are honest so enjoyable

    • @Welchy
      @Welchy  Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you so much!

  • @JCHB322
    @JCHB322 Před 2 lety +24

    I'll say it again... I really like the glasses. You should wear them! 🤓
    It has been a long time since I have seen this film... and yes, it really is a lot more deep than people initially gave it credit for. Did you know there were originally a lot more than the five core emotions in the early drafts of the script? Besides the five we know, there was also supposed to be: Gloom, Greed, Hope, Envy, Guilt, Love, Irritation, Shame, Embarrassment... plus another 12! The majority of these were cut simply because they overlapped: Despair, Depression, and Gloom would have shared lots of the same territory with Sadness, and it might have proven difficult to suitably differentiate the characteristics of Pride, Greed and Envy. Ultimately, they were happy with the five that they ended up with.

  • @videohistory722
    @videohistory722 Před 2 lety +3

    The memory dumpers weren't just getting rid of stuff she doesn't need. They're getting rid of stuff that was associated with the island that was just destroyed.
    And for the record, if at any point you've ever said, "I'm not a kid anymore.", that's how you know YOUR goofball island has been destroyed.

  • @Rubydafreakingweirdo
    @Rubydafreakingweirdo Před 2 lety +8

    Let’s be honest: Disgust has got to be one of the best characters in the movie

  • @izzycorn_temmie9493
    @izzycorn_temmie9493 Před 2 lety +2

    8:30 I like how it shows them playing soccer (football) in the European version, because in America, it showed them playing hockey, which isn’t really popular in Europe

  • @tobywood9156
    @tobywood9156 Před 2 lety +2

    just so you know, theres a reason songs get stuck in your head so easily. out of all the parts of the working memory, musical memory is usually the strongest and last to fade. this is why people with dementia can instantly get brought back to their past if a song they listened to plays (look up the ballerina who danced to swan lake, its really interesting). theres lots of people who make up little songs to help remember something, or listen to music to study, and why a lot of commercials have jingles because those get stuck in your head. the downside is when you get something stupid stuck in your head, like a commercial or a joke song, and cant get it out for hours at a time

  • @Orion_TheyThem
    @Orion_TheyThem Před 2 lety +44

    Noooooooooooooooo I love Joy. She's just trying her best to keep Riley happy. She definitely grows and gets better. Being someone who suffers from Depression, I relate to both Joy and Sadness.
    Edit: also, something can be said about the fact that the first thing Riley's parents tell her is that she's a little bundle of joy. There's definitely something to be said about parental expectations and the reinforced idea throughout this movie that Riley is the happy girl and keeps her family happy. That's a lot of pressure to place on a child. And why joy feels the need to control everything. And why we see everything that happens and at the end joy (and Riley's parents) learn that sadness is good and addressing that Riley has other emotions is also good.
    Edit 2: 10:30 that my dear Welchy is ✨ depression. ✨

    • @kittycatmeowmeow963
      @kittycatmeowmeow963 Před 2 lety +2

      And, after they moved to their new house, Riley's mom told her to stay happy. And in the class scene, Joy stopped Sadness from making Riley cry so nobody would make fun of her. I mean, I wouldn't want to do it if I was the brand new kid in class.

    • @Orion_TheyThem
      @Orion_TheyThem Před 2 lety +1

      @@kittycatmeowmeow963 the movie is Not supposed to be based on puberty. That button literally doesn't get added until the very end. LMFAO

    • @yay29823
      @yay29823 Před 2 lety

      And I can relate to Joy

    • @yay29823
      @yay29823 Před 2 lety

      @@Orion_TheyThemThe movie based on growing up, even if it isn't puberty, people grow up every second not just in puberty

    • @41052
      @41052 Před 2 lety +4

      Toxic positivity

  • @Jimin-ci4ed
    @Jimin-ci4ed Před 2 lety +3

    it would be so great to have a part 2 ,when new emotions get explored as she grows up

  • @aprilbluebird8327
    @aprilbluebird8327 Před 2 lety +11

    I watched this when it first came out and I didn't notice A LOT of important things that I did rewatching it now. Like WHY Sadness was the hero, why would she was doing was helping, a lot of emotions shown in the movie and even that Joy was being too controlling almost and not allowing other emotions to do their job. I never noticed that before I was just like, yeah Joy is perfectly good. Made the ending so much more confusing lol. I like the movie so much more now.

  • @MistyBubble1
    @MistyBubble1 Před 2 lety +6

    I haven’t watched this movie since probably when it came out in 2014 of Maybe 2017 or something like that, rewatching it with you was really deeper then I remembered, and I love how much message and deepness of emotions are, in my expience, I am a very moody person, I always stumble about with being sad, emotionless and toxic positivity to get through the day.

  • @Jemini4228
    @Jemini4228 Před 2 lety +11

    Hey Welchy, for what it's worth I think you look great in glasses. I felt weird about needing them when I got my first prescription but honestly you get used to them pretty quick if you wear them a lot. They certainly made taking down notes at school a lot easier! Wishing you the confidence to wear them with pride! :)

  • @thefattestdragon8451
    @thefattestdragon8451 Před 2 lety +14

    I has something like those stars on the roof, they came from a little light-up ladybug that had shapes cut out so there would appear to be stars and moons wherever the direct light touched, you could also change the colours of them too. I didn't use it often but now I realize how cool that is and how I should've used it more (it's broken now)

    • @user-pt5cl2ro6f
      @user-pt5cl2ro6f Před 2 lety +3

      Oooh! The lamp cut-out thing! Those are soo cool.

  • @Suchega_Uber
    @Suchega_Uber Před 2 lety +5

    Holy nonsense, I never noticed Remy. How could I have missed him? This is a top 5 animated film for me.

  • @CLAANG00
    @CLAANG00 Před 2 lety +11

    A move is never easy, I moved 22 times in 18 years, it is normal to feel sad, when I was a child forcing myself to be happy was much worse, processing sadness was better.

  • @reptiliannoizezz.413
    @reptiliannoizezz.413 Před 2 lety +2

    I do very much agree on having a good cry. See, my grandpa died earlier this year, and that just *devastated* my uncle. So at the funeral after the casket was lowered we encouraged him to just, let it all out. Next day, he was feeling much better

  • @matcha_zuki5597
    @matcha_zuki5597 Před 8 dny +1

    I can't wait for your reaction to Inside Out 2!!! saw it in cinema a few days ago its soooo goooood.
    LOVE YOUR REACTIONS!!!!!! Glad you're enjoying Helluva Boss!

  • @gabsrants
    @gabsrants Před 2 lety +13

    0:14 - that did my OCD soooooo much good
    edit: the glasses look good on you, but you have to change the lighting

  • @Uni_op
    @Uni_op Před 2 lety +3

    I was moving when this movie had come out and when that end scene came on I cried, I loved this movie and it’s honestly my favorite to this day just because I’ve become like emotionally attached to it in a way
    This movie hits different when your actually going through this stuff-

  • @kieunguyen8730
    @kieunguyen8730 Před 2 lety +10

    I love this movie. When i saw this movie for the first time i didnt watch the trailer or anything, didnt know what to expect, and the movie surprised me in a positive way. We love it.

  • @SkwithOv
    @SkwithOv Před 2 lety +3

    i'm 26 and my apartment is covered in glow stars

  • @laradewit1154
    @laradewit1154 Před měsícem

    The moment she has that little smile on her face when she cries and hugs her paretns, it just always get me😢

  • @raebaby4600
    @raebaby4600 Před 3 měsíci

    7:20 "Uhhh... emotions, complication! It's genius!" Love that 😂😂😂

  • @lilycourgette
    @lilycourgette Před 2 lety +8

    Rip to Bing Bong 😭

  • @freemovies411
    @freemovies411 Před 2 lety +4

    Yes, I just think of a hot guy when my BF pisses me off. Lol
    It's so hard not to tear up watching or watching a reaction to this movie.
    The deep shit of, "I need to be happy. Everyone needs to be happy," is so good.

  • @secretformulathief910
    @secretformulathief910 Před 2 lety +2

    Oh boy i was just recommended your videos and now I'm watching them all, inside out is better now that I'm older tbh, it's one of those films you actually need to connect to your emotions and life experiences, I didn't do that when it first came out

  • @agrippinafofanova4891
    @agrippinafofanova4891 Před 2 lety +5

    I love this movie. This is one of my favourites of Disney.

  • @user-pt5cl2ro6f
    @user-pt5cl2ro6f Před 2 lety +14

    A GOOD CRY _IS_ UNDERRATED. The say it releases your emotions in the form of salty, liquid crystals that falls from your eye sockets.

  • @JenniferPinto
    @JenniferPinto Před 2 lety +2

    I find it interesting that the Mom has sadness as the leading emotion, while for the dad it is anger who is the leader

  • @irescabatuan8241
    @irescabatuan8241 Před 2 lety +11

    It perfectly says "it's okay not to be okay"♥️

  • @umbreonhyperdream
    @umbreonhyperdream Před 2 lety +2

    I watched it with my family and I sent the whole movie ready to throw hands and that didn't change at the end

  • @RPGLover87
    @RPGLover87 Před rokem +1

    In a way this movie is basically about the complete restructuring of Riley's neural pathways to prepare her for pubescence - those initial 5 islands are too simple, if she'd been stuck with them for too long she never would have progressed as a person. The emotional breakdown causing the islands to collapse was a necessary evil as Riley needed room to make new core memories that had more complex layers of emotion so that she could navigate more complex ideas. Out with the old, in with the new. There's a reason sadness and joy started acting out NOW. Riley's hormone levels are EXPLODING.
    Also crying really does help physically, not only is it a good way to communicate to others that something has gone horribly wrong (in come cases badly enough that language is not an option, plus it predates language itself) but also there is a small chemical in tears that acts as a painkiller, so it physically makes you feel good because it has a mild doping effect on you (in a similar way to your tissues swelling around the bone when you break a limb - it sucks, but it's your body's way of making sure you don't do anything stupid like moving that arm and making it worse, plus acts as a natural but less effective splint).

  • @digirec5469
    @digirec5469 Před 2 lety +1

    at 5:53 when he is talking about dreams and falling, i have those, and ones where i feel like someone grabs my back while i see the hand in my dream

  • @PlagueCrow1
    @PlagueCrow1 Před 2 lety +2

    I just found your youtube today and your becoming one of my fave youtubers, thanks for keeping me happy while I'm sick :)

  • @trishatalaroc2968
    @trishatalaroc2968 Před rokem

    It's so good that you cry every time you see this movie because it's so real and relatable.

  • @ConvenientlyShapedUsername

    My god I wasn't even sad in the slightest but when Riley cried my tear things immediately started making tears wtf- That's how good they were at replicating real crying in animation

  • @spectorcsm
    @spectorcsm Před 2 lety +1

    Dude I haven't seen this movie in years and I forgot how much I stinking LOVE it and wow the amount of this I never fully processed as a kid- This movie is so dang deep and I love it so much

  • @mrsfahrenheit
    @mrsfahrenheit Před 2 lety +32

    Oh man you should definitely watch „Soul“ next.. that movie hit deep on a different level ! This actually gives you existential crisis (or helps you out of it..)
    it’s really good

    • @dat_jenasaisquoi
      @dat_jenasaisquoi Před 2 lety +3

      Yes! I was about to comment this it's even deeper than inside out!

    • @mrsfahrenheit
      @mrsfahrenheit Před 2 lety +1

      @@dat_jenasaisquoi yesssss

    • @lulub517
      @lulub517 Před 2 lety +2

      Watching that movie gives me less anxiety of the future tbh. It has a really great message imo

  • @Sovreign071
    @Sovreign071 Před 2 lety +5

    There were originally more than 5 emotions, but it got overcomplicated quick!

  • @paulakurzawinska8654
    @paulakurzawinska8654 Před 2 lety +1

    oh god, I started crying so much here. Like, I wouldn't expect it, I was watching it when I was a kid and it didn't happen... but like damn, it's deep.