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This is actually legit advice. I believe kids who see their parents be affectionate and devoted to each other, they joke like "EWWW!", but on a subconscious level it add security and stability to their lives.
1000% I grew up with my parents never showing love nor affection and I never realize how much it subconsciously changed me as I got older. I truly didn’t know how to act or what to do or how to show love in relationships for the longest time which affected many of my relationships. As I’ve grown I’ve learned it’s just to follow your heart and think of the other first
Very very true!!
100%
i dont now.
Also they learn how its done.
The fact our culture got to a point this has to be taught in a CZcams Reel is unbelievable
Red pill brain rott
Most of us come from disfunctional families (myself included) so while this seems like the most simple advice, I for one never seen my parents do something like this.
Yes
CZcams reels lately have been great.
I was fully expecting to see comments that hid take was somehow sexist…. Because that’s the world we live in now. 🤦♂️
This also has another benefit that the kids will in the future respect their spouse just because they saw their parents do the same thing!
that benifit doesn't exist. america at the moment has the lowest marriage rates ever because women won't want to be moms
Most men are simps which means most men respect women. Why is everyone teaching how to treat women and not women how to treat men?
“Don’t Tell Her, Show Her” (Show Him)!!!🗣️🗣️🗣️💯🙏🏼
The part on the kids respecting the mom is key!
absolutely!
U would never catch a woman giving this type of advice.
@@rrai-real
@houston... Facts, and even though the same exact thing should be said regarding the man... sadly many in modern society doesn't view it as so.
@@rrai-
For real!
When my kids were little, the first thing my wife would do when I got home - not even enough time to catch my breath, leave alone put my briefcase down - was to dump them on me, with "I've looked after them all day, now it's YOUR turn"
The idiot that posted this video forgot to mention this more common scenario.
Yea it’s tough to tell my 3 year old who running and waiting for me at door with excitement to “hold on” 😂
For real. I think my wife might think I was a scumbag if as soon as I came in the door I ignored my almost 3 year old who had been excitedly waiting for his Daddy all day.
Heard that lol having three small children bum rushing you at the door leaves little reaction time for a "hold up real quick" 😂
After that initial greeting it’s a moment where they may want to tell you about their day show you something play and I think that’s where the hold off and wait is
@@LAMBNATION98Right!!! I think he means don’t just get caught up in the kids initially and forget to show that same excitement and interest in your wife first! Then come back to the kids!
🤦 Smh... PEOPLE PEOPLE ...please don't miss the point.
It's sad to see that many in society are so intellectually challenged and refuse to think.
He didn't say that you have to do this all the time. In fact, just doing what he said just once in a while is good enough.
It's just about children witnessing healthy relationships, and that the partners have some sort of respect and care for one another.
And it's good for a child to witness that their mother is loved and cared for.
Just use wisdom people.
It's basically just as simple as that.
Don't complicate things people.
So plainly...
It's good to do what he said but it doesn't have to be done all the time, or even most the time.
Please don't miss the more important messages people.
My husband did this for a week. It was the best week of our marriage. I felt like a rockstar and could take on the world! It made me want to give him the best life. And when he stopped I wanted to give up on everything.
This really is the best advice!!
Why'd he stop?
I'm sorry he stopped. You need to send him this video.
He stopped because you didn’t fuck him. He was doing it because he taught you would put out, but you kept telling him you had headaches instead of fucking him. Now you know why he stopped.
Have you seen a divorce lawyer yet?
@@cmac_415 exactly why men should stop getting married and only have babies out of wedlock. You don’t marry modern w*men
This is 100% truth, the part about the kids witnessing that and having to wait is such an invaluable lesson, it combines many positive behaviours. All spouses should be like that!
This is real advice, my parents rasied us that way but it was my mom who taught us to love and respect our dad, my dad is a extreme workaholic, he forgets everything as soon as he starts working.
Since young, my dad used to work late night, and as kids we were slight unfamiliar with him. Our mom used to always say how much our dad loved us, everything he does is for our future and helped express our love to dad and vice versa. She bridged our family.
My dad left his workaholic life when i was in grade 6-7. He had a UN miss in south sudan where he saw too many deaths making him realise how precious his time was. Now he tries his best to spend time with us, and mom. Take her out on and see life above work.
Same goes for Mom. Love environment creates loving relationships
This works my dad always treated my mom like this we thought it was weird as kids but now I build my relationship of the love I saw ❤
Do you see women telling other women to treat their men good? No! It’s all me, me, me.
All the time.
incel
That is great point
You are speaking of the very thing that allows men like Andy to become a better version of themselves.
#WhatWouldWeDoWithoutWomen
Take the first steps and don’t feel bad about yourself. Love your wife and give her your all. You’ll get it back when her love bank is full. FILL IT UP. LOVE HER. Who cares what “women tell women”
Thats what my Dad did and i distinctly remember that. He'd acknowledge me but be like "hey be patient, I will get to you."
Also, acknowledge that raising kids and being a good wife and mother is hard work and valuable. Tell her she is doing a good job and thank her for the work she does. She will be happier and more thankful if you show her some support.
It begins and ends with the Man.
My parents got divorced when I was young 12-13. I don’t remember any time they were affectionate towards each other. During their divorce I said something remotely disrespectful about my mother trying to cheer my father up. He smacked the shit out of me and told me never to disrespect my mother. I may not have ever seen love but I was taught respect and it has taken me a few relationships but I am truly happy now and I am so thankful for how I was raised. Some people hate their parents and it makes me so sad.
Awesome what your father did
That’s abuse he should be in jail
@@ginosko_ liberal sissy
Good parents🔥💪
And some people don’t understand that some parents are just horrible and unlovable, and it makes me feel sad.
Your wife should run to you. If she isn't running to greet you when you arrive home, she probably didn't miss you. If your kids run to you and your wife runs to you, you are loved in your household. If they don't, something is broken in the family system.
True
Your wife is not a child, if she has kids she was busy with them, that is hard work, and if she has a job on top of that, she probably deserves for you to go up to her and show her love and appreciation. If you have a good wife the love and appreciation you give will be reciprocated. It's not complicated, you're not a kid either.
@@imlost2748 If I'm coming home after a 14 hour work day to the house I pay for, with dinner in my hands that I had to pick up on the way home, and only my kids greet me, I'd seriously question my marriage. "Kids are hard work" yeah. So is working 2 jobs to pay bills, rent, buy food and clothing for the family, including the kids. Then being a parent ON TOP of that. But yeah, no... being a stay at home mom is so much harder. Yeah, nap time, juice, cookies, Paw Patrol .... SMH...
A man that works hard for his family and is greeted by his wife and children when he comes home from work is BLESSED. If asking your wife to greet you after a long work day is too much, then she's the problem and it isn't a healthy marriage.
No. Just no. @@imlost2748
Don’t tell her how much you missed her show her. 4 seconds later. Tell her how much you missed her. Got it!
You should do both. Tell and show. Statement + argument
For real, why is “put your phone down” even a thing.
You just got home, get in here with me and help and slapping my ass is for you not for me.
I have kids pushing and shoving and taking from me and my body all day. The last thing I want immediately is for you to stop what I’m doing to cop a feel or give me a word of affirmation quickly before going back and leaving me here.
😂😂
That is exactly what a MAN, Any MAN is supposed to do... Show your kids, Hey I love your Mom. I wish men genuinely understood how important it is for your children to see that. ❤
You can do that without being a whore.
Shitty advice.
Same goes for mothers showing kids that they respect dad. There are way too many women willing to disrespect their husbands in front of their kids. Then they wonder why their kids are disrespectful and misbehave. For a marriage to work as intended, the husband needs to love his wife, and the wife needs to submit to her husband
Excellent point. AND your children will know what a healthy relationship looks like. It will secure their futures.
And this is why my children don't respect me. Their dad acts like he could care less if I'm in the room.
Funny. Sounds like people don't have common sense. My upbringing was horrible and surrounding but I'm the most loving carrying ever. People just randomly act what they learn instead using brain
Or you're comparing the respect you get, to that of your man. Realistically, it would never ever be on the same level. No matter how good of a husband he is.
And that's why you stay... if he acted like he says... like I treated my ex wife and ex gf... you would be banging the neighbor looking for a way out..
Agreed your wife should always go first even before your kids because when your kids turn 18 more than likely, they’re gonna be long and gone living their own life but your wife is still going to be there for the rest of your life. That’s your lifelong partner, and no one should be above her under any circumstances.
Nah you are wrong your kids will always be your kids your wife can easily become just your baby mama with a pice of paper
@averyjoseph6045 maybe if you're of culture and use the term "baby mama"
@@chocolatecharley99and in my culture God comes first then your kids
No that's stupid. Your kids come first.
God,wife,then kids
There's actually a strong correlation between good moms and supportive partners.
Don’t know who he is - but legit advice.
we need more of this stuff taught in everyday life. have boys see what a man is supposed to be & what he can be. continue learning more everyday online, and from conversations, than i have ever in school about living life. who would’ve thought…that living life & seeking knowledge from others makes you live better (rhetorical).
Everytime I see a video of this guy he’s talking about how great his wife is and I love that for him
I grow put never seeing my parents showing love to each other. My father disrespected my mother many times in front of us. Now I'm terrified of man! Terrible!
Coming from a stay at home mom, yes yes and yes!! Men have no idea how much that means to us.
It’s very much true. Gotta teach the kids, not spoil them.
Yes, fabulous advice to take on board ❤
Good damn advice for every man! It needs to be told often to remind us all
Great advice Andy
That doesn't work when your wife is a narcissist and devalues and emasculates you constantly.
Run to your kids and love them first and foremost.
Yeah but in that situation, the first thing you do is, remove yourself from that situation.... Not good for you or the kids that see that happening everyday & will grow up thinking that's how a relationship is meant to be
@@Dys_123 That's a lot easier said than done, when removing yourself from that situation means losing access to and critical time with your kids while they are little. It's a decision between a rock and a hard place... sometimes you just gotta deal with the hard place.
Fake it in front of your kids, my brother
@@edbradley6815 Yep 🙌 Fake a whole relationship & life, Great atmosphere for the kids to grow up in 🤦♂️ You think they don't pick up on the underlying hatred you have for each other?
@@Linksta22Then why did you marry her? Didn't know her before marrying? I know it's messed up but I think you should do something, if not divorce. Talk about this very seriously, without caring how it ends. It's your dignity after all.
Excellent advice!
My parents were not openly affectionate with each other but win lose high low those two would kill me and the whole family before they’d ever hurt each other and that’s tough on me because I can’t find anyone to be with like that plus they were so busy being on each others back the rest of the family kinda starved for some kind of affection so you know the grass is greener from a perspective
Big facts and very important ! 💯
Great advice!!! 😁
Solid advice
Great advise
THANK YOU
Great advice!
Another mental note taken, thanks!!
This guy is Mr know it all
This is the best advice ever! 🙂
Wow some great advice love this ❤
I was told early on that a good family starts with the parents loving each other more than they love their kids. I was told that most kids who turn out to be addicts are enabled by parents who put their kids above their spouses. I never really believed it fully until i grew up.
Seems you still don’t understand
@@averyjoseph6045 good to get the opinions of the addicts. Thanks Avery!
😂😂 true@@averyjoseph6045
Very solid advice
Finally some good advice on the Internet
This is why after work everyday and even on days off...I turn my phone off. And spend time with the family without any disturbance. It helps so much and makes family life awesome.
That is solid advice. 👌
Respect the hell out of this man
Hes right
Only he has to do it because he wamted and wants to...so its complicated to most people
I have never seen my parents kiss unless it was forced. They hated eachother. I think the instability in the house may have affected me as i have severe generalised anxiety now.
😢this moment, when you realise your are to old to experience these things 😢 and that you have lived your life the wrong way😢
First time this guy has given good advice!
Very true
Not to long ago I met a lady and we had the most incredible romantic time. I thought we were going to be together forever. Then about a week later right out of the blue, she leaves me a John deer letter. So I called her up and she gave me a bunch of crap about me not listening to her enough or something, I mean I don't know I really wasn't paying attention. But the thing that hurt the most is I think she was seeing another guy ...... I never did find out who.
This is such a good point! Pity I don't have the option to do this nomore! 😢
Good solid manly advice 💪🏼
Best Advise and Wives do the same❤
I hate on you Andy for some of your old school sales techniques but you’re spitting 100% facts
No B.S.! Basic True Love & Masculinity - Men Lead Women Follow - It's the natural order of human relations and the type of relationship that has the greatest likelihood of happiness wealth success and fulfillment in all areas and in all endeavors of life! 💪
My kids would always run to me as soon as I came through the door, my now ex wife would duck out the back door with her phone like it was a shift change...
Even now when I pick my kids up from school, they give me the biggest hug.
You’d be surprised at how some peoples home lives are off screen. You have no idea what they’re dealing with, only what they tell you. And since this guy has a brand, it works in his favor to speak well of his situation even though it may be the opposite. He may do the right things, but is he treated the same in return?
I used to be all for marriage with my former SO, laughing out how difficult some couples make it and then I saw for myself, that once you’ve lost leverage, either thru having children or marriage etc. the true inner qualities of your SO will mean everything from there going forward, meaning if they’re a piece of shit at the core, you’re in for a bumpy fucking ride, and you’re paying for it.
First of all, really appreciate your genuineness and openness.
Second, I haven't been married and I'm really curious like how the life is gonna be with the SO when you're both at the worst situation. And since you said 'former' I guess it didn't go very well. But here's the question: haven't you noticed those true inner qualities earlier? Like, weren't those qualities manifested in some situations before you married/had kids? Because then, how can you choose a partner if you don't know when/if they are gonna show their true self?
Perfect advice.. I'm gonna follow that..
Thank you.
U sr are the man i started doing this and it has changed my life and my kids...
Thank you sir.
Great advice 👍
On point❤❤
I approve this message ❤
He just described my husband ❤
Great advice😊
Best advice I ever heard from this guy no cap
Thank you! Unfortunately narcissists are always first. I tried to explain my husband how he should be treating me as I have had a great example from my dad. Nope, he knew exactly what hurts me, he would never kiss me when he came home. When he did, it was after the abuse for being a good girl. 😢
Sounds like a good man good luck
Love the message!.
love this.
Good advice
Facts playa!
Might be the smartest thing you’ve ever said
Thank you*
Amen to that ,that's love to another level❤
This goes vice versa too!
Great mature advice ❤❤❤.
Doesn’t work when the love isn’t reciprocated
Very well said
He's actually spot on with this!
Love this 🤌🏼
Amazing man, so inspiring.
I love how he set does the boundary setting ✅, positive encouragement 🌟, and physical attention 💕 to her.
Also, I appreciate how in the beginning he referenced and said:
" _If_ your wife is a Mom" instead of assuming the wife is _also_ a mom, just _because_ she's a wife 💒💍✒️💯. 👏🏾
Love this❤
Makes more sense brother thanks 💯💯💯
My man does this & it feels amazing🤍
Andy Eliott sales life coach 😂😂
Love this
This is the truth. People are ‘putting the kids first’ like it’s noble or smart and then the original bond (that started it all!) suffers. Which is crazy.
Dude said don’t say you miss her then say tell her you miss her 😂
I think we are at the point where women need this message and they really only need to do one thing.
Wives, respect your husbands
Yah, and I taught my baby to say MAMMA not dada. That way in the middle of the night when babys crying you can say: "HE WANTS YOU! HES CALLING YOUR NAME
Good man, good logic
Spot on facts