How to Discipline Your Kids (Part 1) | Lesson 3 of Moms of Men | Lisa Bevere & Havilah Cunnington

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  • čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
  • Havilah and I offer several practical tips and outlooks that will help you establish healthy boundaries and discipline in your home. Most importantly, you must know you are in charge and do have a role in discipline. In this lesson, you will learn several tools to do this in a healthy way.
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    Chapters:
    0:00 - Lesson Teaser
    0:15 - Creating Boundaries in Your Home
    4:51 - Thinking Through Consequences
    6:30 - Hassle Time
    7:35 - Carry Your Load
    9:01 - Dealing with Entitlement
    9:37 - “Obedience Is All the Way, Right Away, in a Happy Way”
    16:22 - You Are an Authority
    17:04 - Your Action Step: Have the Conversation
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Komentáře • 23

  • @biancahotca3244
    @biancahotca3244 Před rokem +12

    Sometimes you have to be the father and mother if you are a widower. I have close relatives, acquaintances who's spouse has passed away suddenly from illness and they have 5 or more young children and they have to run the whole show by themselves. It's not easy, but they get it done, strong, Godly people.

    • @janetjean1412
      @janetjean1412 Před rokem

      I think what they meant is no woman can teach boys how to be men...only a father figure can...so literally you are just their mom...

    • @milicavelickovic2968
      @milicavelickovic2968 Před 11 měsíci

      Exactly. There are many single parent households.

  • @natalyajohnston8387
    @natalyajohnston8387 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Great job mommas!!!❤❤❤

  • @alexg7472
    @alexg7472 Před rokem +2

    Man, this is teaching me everyone has to learn to submit
    I like the all the way ,right away ,with a happy heart
    Realistic disciplines, not out of angry
    They speak what they did wrong
    Authority for protection provision and direction of kids

  • @samanthaschwartz7553
    @samanthaschwartz7553 Před rokem +1

    I love the phrase you use, "obedience is right away, all the way and with a good heart/attitude." Im adopting it.🤍

  • @rowenatuason5482
    @rowenatuason5482 Před rokem +2

    PRAISE GOD. I ASKED GOD TO TEACH ME HOW TO BECOME A GODLY MOTHER TO MY CHILDREN. WOW! HE LED ME TO YOUR VIDEOS. THANKFUL TO GOD. HOPING TO LEARN MORE.

  • @dawnbarret3873
    @dawnbarret3873 Před rokem +1

    Thanks so much for doing this ladies I’m a single mum of four boys and I’m really struggling with discipline and feel very low and tired x

  • @saracarpenter244
    @saracarpenter244 Před rokem +1

    This was so good! I have 2 boys, 4 and 2, and this was really helpful guidance. Thank you!

  • @tanyastorm4860
    @tanyastorm4860 Před rokem +1

    Thank you 🙏💕 This came out just as I prayed for help. I'm having this conversation today with the kiddos. Thank you for putting this out there and being so honest

  • @bridgetintheukraine
    @bridgetintheukraine Před rokem +2

    Its amazing how scripture directs your discipline reasons... Principles that you want to instill

  • @mB-hk7jh
    @mB-hk7jh Před rokem

    Powerful. Yes to part 2, 3, 4, 5 and on. Love yall and so excited to see Lisa next Friday

  • @84AnnieK
    @84AnnieK Před rokem

    Ha I’m in the crazy mama stage; one little 6 month old girl who’s breastfed and 3 boys ages 2-6 😂 I can so relate to this talk. This has been super convicting and gave me lots of practical tips to implement.

  • @ambermendenhall638
    @ambermendenhall638 Před 7 měsíci

    This gave a lot of validation in what I'm doing wrong and right ❤ thank you.😊 deffinatley would love more sessions on this topic. ❤😊

  • @rmathisministries
    @rmathisministries Před rokem

    Great teaching! Very applicable! Thank you

  • @skyracer7878
    @skyracer7878 Před rokem +1

    THIS! THIS is what I have been praying for. 2 girls and 2 boys and this knowledge applies to both! Forehead slap for not seeing it before to take away the toys - that are IN the room! I have been wanting to get to the HEART of one of my girls but her toys have been distracting her SO MUCH from being able to even talk to her. She gets LOST in them and possessive. How did I not THINK of that before? Thank you for your hearts for the Lord to encourage other moms - boys and girls! I love the "hassle time" concept and the happy heart expression but I find if I say the latter too much (becasue it needs to be repeated often) that they actually start getting angry at me for saying it - not just annoyed. Any suggestions for how to respond to that? And I agree that this needs a second part!! God bless you both!

  • @lorenalindemer2167
    @lorenalindemer2167 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you🙏

  • @ariadnehendricks9529
    @ariadnehendricks9529 Před rokem

    ❤️🙏💥

  • @milicavelickovic2968
    @milicavelickovic2968 Před 11 měsíci

    And if we are single moms ? Can you make specific videos for single moms ?

  • @user-hr3cz2ym4y
    @user-hr3cz2ym4y Před rokem

    A mom is enough. You cannot be both mom and dad no matter who you are. Even if you’re a full-time or part-time single parent, you can never be a dad. You’re also not a supermom. You are simply a mom and some of us have much heavier loads than other moms but we are no more and no less than the mom. Being a woman first and mom second helps give that clarity and give no attention to the things that don’t matter. Build your priorities and modify as needed.

  • @malinaarp2551
    @malinaarp2551 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Really great video except for the spanking part.. Really do you guys spank your children?! That is not neccesary, you can disciplin without being physically violent with your kids. There are loads of great kids psykologists who can give you tools if you dont know how

  • @dawnbarret3873
    @dawnbarret3873 Před rokem

    Thanks so much for doing this ladies I’m a single mum of four boys and I’m really struggling with discipline and feel very low and tired x