This is What the NARCISSIST NEVER THOUGHT you would do that makes them regret until they Die
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0:00 Intro
0:44 Discovering Narcissism
1:52 The Narcissistic Cycle
3:41 Realization and Breakthrough
14:38 Conclusion
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Yes I sure do love what I am learning everyday I will not give up I am no quieter amen you help me so much
Ò 6:04 6:05
Amazing,on point
The best thing you can do to a narcissist, whether you left on your own or were discarded is to give them your absolute silence and absence, become totally indifferent to their existence. They can only exist in your thoughts but never in your world. Consider yourself lucky if they have left you alone and focused their attention elsewhere. They're horrible people.
Couldn't have said it better myself. Silence truly speaks volumes, especially when dealing with toxic individuals like narcissists.
Eventually they don't exist in your thoughts either 🫶
This just happened to me after over three years with this guy. The day after telling me he still loved me he then told me he slept with someone else and is moving on with her n blocked me. I'm devastated n feel like I've been hit by a brick but feel relieved the madness is over , I feel sorry for his new girl I know what she's in for cause he almost destroyed me over the years
Happened to me he finally left me and I'm hurt. He's with someone else now after 2 weeks of leaving.
I obtained a restraining order after I found that he poisoned my food and caused me sick. That was a true saver. Life has never been so good after 27 years of marriage.
Narcissists never regret anything...move on
One thing a narcissist can’t beat is your gut feeling- always go with it
True✔️💯
Dont give away your power to anyone.Money is power,time is power,your attention is power.
Amen!! Everything you have that they don't is power. That's why givers end up with nothing but in the long run, eternity we'll have heavenly riches and they'll be in the abyss of Narcissists
Just wanted to say my heart ❤️ goes out to all who have experienced this. I had a four year relationship that just ended. He has literally destroyed me. I am working through it. It’ll be a long road.
Hugs dear.....7 months down,still healing
I understand. It is so bad. I learned the lesson: we can not be too trusting. We need to be aware of these people, they are mean and they are best friends with others who are this way, making their click. Reading the bible and spending time in nature and enjoying your beautiful self is best way to heal.
You're not destroyed. If you're here, you made. Find peace that it was all make-believe. The perfect person you idolized is not real.
They're cowards and manipulative, and when you sit back and watch, they are the weakest people. Don't be afraid to be yourself. Seek therapy to start recovery. Now that you know the red flags. The old saying, "If it's too good to be true, it ain't.
Don't give them so much credit as to say they destroyed your life. They are nasty vile creatures, but they cannot destroy your life! They teach you what you need to learn and you have to work on your healing. Life is beautiful on the other side. So, no, a narcissist did not destroy your life!
I don't even want to think of them let alone talk or see them
I really do think narcissists are demons sent by the devil to screw up good people's lives on this earth. They are on par with psychopaths & murderers. U really have to watch out for them.
They all work in the same ways.
Cunning, charming, manipulative, liers.
I agree
I just left my husband a week ago. This describes him to a t. Every single thing and my body almost shut down because of the stress it was going through. He wasn’t only emotionally abusive, he was very physically abusive as well. He isolated me from absolutely everyone and had me thinking I was the crazy one. I’m doing so much better, even only after a week. I’m so excited for what is in store for me on my healing journey. I pray for anyone who is scared to leave. Because I stayed for way too long because of that fear.
I wish that one day I have your courage. In the moment I’m trying to treat him
With silence and not giving him the attention that he had before… I know he will make a mistake again but I’m prepared. The best i thing to to is to run of the narcissistic people 😔
Stay strong and resolute. Beware of "hoovering". They will treat you WORSE if you go back...because they sense your weakness. Their behaviour is totally NOT acceptable and TRUE love will NEVER abuse you like they did. Go no contact and be careful who you choose next.
Proud of you!! I’ve been gone for a month, visiting my daughter in another state. No contact has been so freeing!
If I could leave I would! But I can't afford to leave! Got no friends or family either.
Stay no contact please 🙏🏾 I’m 2 years in and babyyyy I feel soooo good. We’re divorced my number has changed and I am Free and happy 😊
I was in a constant state of panic and anxiety and depression because of my narcissist husband and I am healed after the discard. I was not educated enough and I have my whole life back now I am finally happy ❤😊
My ex-husband was as evil as evil exists. Caused me to attempt suicide twice, loss of promising future as a single, beautiful 32 yr old. As I reflect back I realize I married a monster. Our son 33 yrs old has become a narcissist to the core. Until I learned I simply absorbed the abuse. No more. It horrifies me that narcissists exist. The damage done to persons who are ignorant is tremendous. My only consolation is I know Justice is coming and harshly by a God who is all-knowing and those who harm His children or anyone are going straight to Hell for eternity.
It sounds like you've been through an incredibly difficult and painful experience. I'm sorry to hear that you've had to endure such trauma. Recognizing and breaking free from abusive situations can be a long and challenging journey, but it's incredibly brave of you to prioritize your well-being and safety. It's important to remember that you deserve love, respect, and happiness. Take care of yourself.
SAME GOT RID OF MY NARC EX AFTER 40 YEARS THE CHEATING ABUSE FINANCIAL MENTAL TOO MUCH TOO TAKE GOT OUT SET MYSELF BACK UP IT WAS BRUTAL MY SON STARTS HIS CARRY ON EXACT SAME BEHAVIOUR AS HIS FATHER TO THE EXTENT HE SERIOUSLY ASSAULTED ME N THERE THEY BOTH WERE IN COURT I FELT NOTHING WHEN MY SON NARROWLY ESCAPED JAIL HES LOST A REALLY GOOD JOB APARTMENT THE LOT & HAS A TAG ...NEVER SAW THIS IN MY SON TILL I GOT OUT ITS ALL OVER NOW HOW KIND I WAS TO THAT MAN & BOY N THATS THE THANKS I GOT BUT IM SO GRATEFUL MY OTHER SON IS NOTHING LIKE THEM ...I HAVE NOT UTTERED 1 WORD IN 5 YEARS WHEN I GOT HIM GONE THAT WILL REMAIN IN PLACE TILL I DIE AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED THEY DO NOT EXIST WHAT TYPE OF SON HITS HIS MOTHER ON THE HEAD WITH A CHAIR 😢 I WISH U WELL ON YOUR JOURNEY 🌟
Malignant Narcissism is Satanic.
Hell is waiting.
It took me going to another state for work to finally break free! I knew something was wrong during the live bombing stage but couldn’t figure it out. After the constant trauma bonding and cheating I started searching for people that acted that way. I’ve been watching videos on narcissists ever since! I’m still healing.
i am glad that you have already started your healing journey. Just remember you are not alone, on this channel we all are one family. thanks for sharing and take care of your mental health.
Bruh….. you never stop healing! This shit changes you completely. Once you start doing research and going on youtube you know for a fact there is a problem
Thank you for sharing your story, RecThaRebel. Your resilience is truly admirable. What advice would you give to someone who might be in a similar situation but hasn't yet recognized the signs of narcissistic behavior?
Brothers you are not stupid or weak !! You were targeted!! Breaking free is half the journey, healing is slow and strenuous but its worth it when you come out the other end. My narcissist has used every trick including my 8 years old daughter to get back with me. And the answer has always and always will be no can't do. God bless the people that made videos about narcissism it was a massive help
@StoicSpirit1 good question
You’re so spot on. Being with one was the most miserable time of my life. I’m glad I escaped and healing. I don’t wish them on anyone. Why can’t they just date and marry fellow narcs and leave other sane people alone. They’re poisonous.
Trapped in a narcissistic haze for 60 YEARS. My brother and father are narcissists. My mother and sister are malignant narcissists. I almost died five times because of my family.
Oh my god! Are you alright now?
I believe you. I'm working in a family business but it was a trap for me to have my success smothered by being under someone's control. They sold me on the whole idea that the entire thing was noble and everyone would come out on top blah blah but I would end up stuck on the bottom working like a slave buried in menial meanless work set up by them was what they left out. No I've realized that my entire life has been an escape plan.
I believe 💯you. I hope you are okay and found your life.
Hello........ Truly & seriously,. U need to break free from your family. Surround yourself with loving positive people to have in your life.
Your family don't care or love U. They've used you.
You should move on to better your life & live happily.
Good luck to U.🙏💗
Word for Word same deal for me
Sometimes the only choice is to leave. Leave them all. Aloneness is not loneliness.
Hello,..... It takes time to heal. The deeper the hurt & trauma the longer it takes to heal. It took me 6mons to a year.
But once you've healed,. u know what to look out for. Don't let it happen again!!!!!!!
Good luck to you in your life. 👍🙏
I finally left my Trauma Bond. Now, I start the road to heal.
The Dark Empath. Don't mess with them.
So you've met my ex-husband. ... Everything you say is accurate, but so incredibly frightening and debilitating to live through, especially when you learn that much of the harm they do is intentional and well-planned. And they experience no remorse. It's evil. Satan must be the Grandest Narcissist of all.
Hey, I am sorry to hear that. Hope you are taking of ur mental health now.
Once you know, you know. The only other thing left to do, is start formulating a discrete strategy to make your exit.
It may take several attempts, Lord knows it surely took me several, before I made my permanent move, yes with children. I wasn’t planning on leaving any behind! The children MUST come first by any means necessary.
Go and live your lives good people. We weren’t meant to fix anyone, nor.. can we! Imagine trying to fix someone who’s slowly killing you?
Go.
Your words hit home. Remember, you deserve happiness and peace too. Take care.
Physic hugs and sooo much love chickie!!! Your survival story will help OUR younger generation!! ❣❣❣
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Well said.
A good question to ponder,,,can't fix evil,,it's above our pay grade..
Very true! I think something should start being taught in school about it. So many people go their whole lives and never know anything g about it.
I’m 67 yo. I learned of this mental disorder three years ago. My first husband was an extremely abusive narcissist which set me up to repeat the mistake with another one. He’s worse than the first one. I was love-bombed and after successfully being thrown in a cage, it was over. He moved onto the next. These women seemingly came out of the woodwork, more than happy to fulfill his needs. So now I stay locked in my room. I stayed thinking he most likely wouldn’t live past 70 but remembered too late that psychopaths/sociopaths never die. I’m sure I’ll cry when he’s gone but hopefully they’ll be tears of relief and peace. ❤
I've learnt a lot watching these videos. I didn't know what a narcissist was untill I started researching about it..
Thtankyou so much. Subscribe and stay tuned for more such videos 🙂
When he realized I had nothing more to offer, he slithered away.
That's when I started researching and found out exactly who he was I blocked and deleted.
He has tried hoovers in different ways that I do not respond to.
I want nothing more to do with this individual.
It's great that you were able to recognize the situation and take steps to protect yourself. Stay strong!
Thank you for sharing your experience, Hibbertsh. It sounds like you've made a powerful decision for your well-being. What strategies have you found most effective in maintaining your boundaries and moving forward after cutting ties with this individual?
@@StoicSpirit101 Costantly reminding myself this association was more toxic than it was worth.
I am enjoying being isolated while I heal from this experience.
At the time this all blew up I was undergoing chemo and radiation treatment which was extremely draining as it was.
My home is my sanctuary, I feel safe.
@@hibbertsh Thank you for sharing your experience, Hibbertsh. It sounds like you've created a safe and healing environment for yourself. What strategies or practices have you found most helpful in maintaining this sense of sanctuary and peace during your recovery?
I overcome the abuse
I’m one of those stuck in a narcissist grasp and want out!
Please run . Run for the hills like mad . .
38 years for me looking for an out but am not well enough yet
That day will come. I was stuck in an off and on relationship for 6 years with this narc. Dec 28 2023, I got one more disrespect and I was like I was through. I blocked them went no contact and never looked back
One day, something you often overlook or often forgive will strike you as odd and disrespectful. Opening your eyes that you need to leave this toxicity
Walk away now or you will never and if you do you will lose your integrity and dignity for yrs
@renaissance5300 please stay in prayer as I too kept My vows for 32 yrs but I reached out to a therapist last yr and helped inform me of awakening from manipulation as he never thought I would ever learn and leave and file for divorce. I have 3 grown children 30,28, 19 just graduated high school and now all those years of hurting and with God made a breakthrough and the divorce is the best thing.
And my kids and I are survivors and now he is the new addition's problem and she has 3 kids and God continues vengeance. NO CONTACT BOTH EMAIL AND SOCIAL MEDIA AND PHONE. IT WORKS
I left mine narc a month ago and I still have nightmares about him , but I want to protect my sanity and peace! I haven’t been this happy in a long time ❤❤
I am just barely getting out of an narcissist relationship. Everything that is spoken her is punctuality & stride & so very true!
Me too and I’m very hurt and feel sad but I know it’s for the best.
Priorities one to ten when dealing with a narcissist is protecting boundaries at all cost. Only then you can protect your piece of mind and calm
A chronic Narcissists if they have devalued and disregarded they have emotionally gone… they literally do not care… The End.
5:52 I DETACHED. I OBSERVE instead of ABSORB.
But getting out!! Never experienced this till now
I have this In my life now. But i feel rejuvenated this second for i will wake up to a new me within hours! I have broken free without feelings of guilt or shame. I am forever grateful 🙏 for this guidance and pure wisdom ❤
Hey, I am glad that you found it helpful. Please consider subscribing for more such videos. 😌
I have no words for what I hear. Everything I hear in this video is exactly how I experienced it all. I This guy hits the nail on the head!!😮
Yes, drain resources, discard, move on, his surprise I found 8 other women. Exposed him to everyone. He's a "professional victim". He finds his victims on Tinder. The devil's playground.
Sorry to hear you went through that. Hopefully, your experience will help others recognize the signs of manipulation and avoid similar situations. Stay Strong.
Same, my ex would use Facebook and TikTok to find new victims!
Thank you for sharing your experience, Goodie2shoes-lb9jf. It sounds like you've encountered a challenging situation. How did you navigate the process of exposing this behavior to others, and what advice would you give to someone facing a similar situation?
Always have more than 1 phone. Late nights up searching for "supply.' Always want your schedule to know where you'll be and not to go. Like chaos and will put you in different chaotic situations and stand back and smile. They thrive when they give to people around you and exclude you.
End of the day, be you. Live for your well being not for anyone else. Stay positive. God Bless 😁😊🍀🌞🐕🦺🐾💐
@@dawnmccarthy3276 Thank you for sharing your insights, Dawnmccarthy3276. It's important to prioritize your well-being. What are some specific practices or habits you've adopted to maintain your positivity and sense of self?
24 years in now with this relationship. I thought I was crap for many years way before i ever was
Married. Finally about 15 years ago i was enlightened to this reality. One
Day at a time, many good days , as well as bad weeks. Knowing what’s going on and being able to witness the textbook behavior, it can be managed carefully. The crash can be very negative but always educational upon reflection. Know if your gonna express any wrong done by
Them, there will be very serious negative toxic consequences guaranteed
25 yrs and it blew up. That's when I found out that he was narcissistic. 15 yrs ago I found out he was borderline and was despondent about the relationship. Agreed with therapy the marriage can be managed but sure as hell it ain't a healthy relationship. They don't want to change, there's no accountability. They won't even take responsibility for birth control. But they want sex on demand. Calling them out has serious consequences. My narc groomed his former divorce client and rode of into the sunset. No more financial support for me and the kids. It's as if we never existed
I'm absolutely fucked up rn. But time will heal.
Same. I hope
And you will sister just hold on God got you.
At one point , I doubted my self. Later on I learned without let him know my knowledge . Now I laugh at his ways of manipulation and engaging in arguments. . It does not affects me anymore .
Why stay for abuse,even being there to laugh at them is your energy lost. You can choose to laugh with someone who laughs with you..at the good things in life....
So true I was in that situation and still struggling to get over...
I was in a very short narcissistic liaison, only 2 months, but now I'm in the haze of the aftermath, one year later.
Two months? Wow!!and that much damage?😮
Move on. Go no contact or gray rock if you have to share custody. Become happy and successful. Genuinely be happy. They can sense if it’s real or not.
I deal with depression and anxiety and it’s brutal, she’s been taking me down the last two years, never really met one till I was in my 40’s and what a mind bender, the simplest things aren’t so simple, I’ve never had anyone talk to me this way, but I set boundaries quick and never let her get away with disrespecting me, she’ll stop whether she chooses to or I choose to pull the plug. Tired of losing sleep night after night stressing over a woman that offers not a lot more than heartache and stress, I love her and I think she loves me a little maybe, but not enough to not want to insult, criticize and exploit my flaws to a point it hurts. I treat her like a queen, I cook clean and work, fix everything etc. still mo value or credit
you are 100% right....thank you with all my heart in Jesus name...God bless you....i'm ok now thank God...and people like you
Thank you for your heartfelt comment, Lennyluzitano8920. It's wonderful to hear that you're feeling better. What specific insights or advice do you find most helpful in your journey towards healing and well-being?
I was with narc for 25years.he made my life hell.i did not know what narc was.everything was my fault.i was terrified of him.i left and my life is great finally i had peace.please talk more about narc on your program.i wish i would of heard u sooner.i would of left sooner.mine was evil.
Sure.. please stay connected for more such content..
Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde…. that’s what I use to say about ex. I kept thinking… what did I do wrong, I was not enough, good enough, thin enough, smart enough, and did not contribute enough money. Sex was pathetic….I know somehow, I was “saved” when he left…. healing has been painful only because of how I was left feeling about myself. On the flip side of this “thinking” , I have found people, teachers, love, support, nurturing and even financial support ever since he left. When I beat myself up, which is a bad habit, I remind myself how fortunate I have been with all that has come into my life….. even the reality of narcissistic abuse. What a lesson! I am grateful for awareness of this behavior and hope others who suffer or have from it get the help that is being offered by the realization that it exists and there is help.
I can’t stress how important it is to journal wake up in the morning. First thing you do write down what you’re thinking start there and then once things start to be easier to identify and construct what exactly you’re feeling right Moor and you’ll find yourself writing things that are surprisingly Clear and present, but you’ve been manipulated for so long that you’re just in this dysfunctional state that you can’t think or constructive thought to save your life, but I am telling you every day with one journal entry every morning do it I am telling you it’s going to work like magic like magic Get a journal book. Keep it open. Get a pen. Leave it on the journal from waking up to writing in your journal. Should be one step cut everything in between off get up. Go to the journal right down if it’s a pen that you have to click get a pen that’s already ready to write. That’s how much you need to cut the steps from waking up to writing inside of your journalshould be taken that seriously
What exactly will this do?
@@kyleross5019 it takes the thoughts out of your mind and puts it on paper. If you just do that first couple of weeks, you already noticed the difference you maybe notice a difference even after the first journal entry it has some kind of decompressive effect.
I journal for yrs & it helped me to objectively see I had a trauma bond, see patterns of breadcrumbs, disappearing acts, & what i was doing to enable them. It's hard listening to this video
@@user-hd6fc6hb7lone day past it is another day farther. Glad it’s out of your life!
PRAY FIRST THING IN THE MORNING, THEN JOURNAL...
She discarded me 4 weeks ago after a year of living in a limbo ..... still feel love but going no contact ...... my brain is racing every day and nightmeres every night ..... I hope I can survive.
Yes ...You will, you need to start looking for yourself, and trust me i have gone through the similar phase, these hard times just makes you stronger and let you know that you are brave. don't think much, its her loss, not yours.
You will
Jesus is the light of the world & his word is a living force. It's the only thing that Freed me was the blood of Christ an his word. Narcissistic behavior is 100% demonically Influenced. My Story & Testimony Is Supernatural & now so is my Faith. What the enemy AkA dark forces used for evil, the one True Living God Jesus-Christ used it for good & Awakened Me spiritual an to my Calling an Purpose. Witchcraft is real and most Narcissist person use Witchcraft, both knowingly & unknowingly. The Bible Says Manipulation, stubbornness & Rebellion is as the sin of Witchcraft. The key to Freed an Renewing of the mind is the word & Jesus-Christ. Iam living breathing Proof Jesus-Christ Saves, his word is truth & that Demons Are very real. God bless. Jesus-Christ Is the key you all seek trust me an choose eternal life. We are Created a Lil lower than the angels. We are God's creation so think like it, talk like it & live like it. We have royal blood runic through our vains. Most of the time, the chosen rare breeds are targets of the darkness, ending up a victim of Narcissist Manipulation.
14:19 read the book of psalms,,exercise,take up a hobby.read..get therapy..
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Look into codependency my friend. If you put in the work to acknowledge your part in the dynamic, you'll gain greater power and awareness over yourself than ever before.
My only choice was to leave and I left many times and I went back many times. This time it's truly over.
Im glad I left…….. As much as I wanted to stay and be there for my children, be the father to them i didnt receive I couldn’t. Over time it got worse and quickly. This person made me feel like I was a narcissist myself. I found myself responding and reacting the same way she was which made me feel like I was the actual problem. Being a people pleaser I accepted blame for everything while she got a kick out of me losing my mind. After I left the alienation started and now im at odds with my own legacy. She’s acquired flying monkeys in my own family members using my past with the stories shes been told against me. The court system is just as bad as she also has them in her back pocket. Its all about control and dominance. 3 yrs later i feel alot freer as going no contact has been an important choice to move closer to being a better version of self. It is not easy being lied on and watching those you love be manipulated however I understand the necessity in it all. One day my children will be curious and because I didnt loose my mind fighting a fight that is undefeated it would be a relief to guide them through the process of my experiences
I salute your courage.. please keep thriving like this..take care of yourself.
It will contaminate you and make you feel like your the problem. Intellectually I know I’m not, the problem but I feel like I am . It’s part of their distortion of situations and truth
Oh I so can relate im so sorry
He knew that he kept saying that I would leave him. He was so abusive that he kicked me in my sleep for snoring, I have sleep apnea and he refused to let me have a cpap machine. I left and he can't drive or get anywhere, I moved 3 towns away because he threatened me if I left he'd hunt me down and hurt me. Thank God I have been out over 4 years 🙏 🙌
Oh my god... that must be too harsh...I am glad you are out of it now...God bless you ❣️
My parents are monsters... I have wasted ten years and lot of money for their love........ Now i have completely realized
Never came across a narcissistic person until I married my Gemini husband from Africa. It took me a few years to figure this out. I experienced isolation, loss of monies, family, etc. fortunately I am strong but an empath which is not compatible with a narc.
I’ve walked away and fighting for return of my assets which he has tried to embezzle. Soon, very soon you will be gone from my life! Move on to your next victim. I’ve learnt some hard lessons and yes he is very angry that I chose not to contact and to end the marriage 😊
What’s the solution for a narcissistic spouse? I’ve been married for over 10 years without realizing that she was a narcissist until recently. After a few months of marriage, I thought she had a mild intellectual disability.
Here are some of what she does: 1. You don’t listen to me
2. We don’t have the same goals, you need to do what I’m doing.
3. You don’t go to church, and when I go to church on regular basis, then she will say “ We need to pray at home at least once at home. If we do that, then she start questioning or challenging my Christianity or she will say “ You can’t be a Christian if you don’t read the Bible “.
4. Complaining about everything
5. Lack of consistency
6. Creating chaos for no reason. For example “ You don’t take care of me” etc.
99% of my advice to her is rejected, even if she asks me for an advice. Sometimes when I ask her to ask her best friend for advice for the same issue, and if her friend tells her the same thing that I advised her then she will start questioning or challenging her friend’s integrity. So what are your thoughts on this?
See any relationship is built on a proper communication.. you need to talk it out with her.. making her realise that if it's not sorted out ASAP, it can make your relationship in danger. If she truly loves you, she will definitely try to listen to atleast what's important for you or what's bothering you...i can't comment on the Christianity part bcs that is a very sensitive topic and I don't prefer talking about it on social media. If nothing works.. I would lastly suggest you to seek professional help.. everything depends on her perspective. If she is afraid of loosing you a little bit, I am sure she will definitely try to understand the main issue in your marriage.
And thanks for commenting, we all are a family here, I am sure people will try to help you in their own way... We provide strength to each other...stay blessed and don't loose trust in your God, I am sure if you truly believe him, he will make a way for you my friend.
you've described this man as though you have been with me every step with him.
ive just today made up my mind to save myself from his demonic . being with him is like buying a new home and being broken into daily you just don't know when
more power to you.
Kids by a married woman killed everything even my feelings !
I'm sorry to hear that, it sounds like a tough situation.
What I find odd is that I always second guess and question myself.
Then when I listen to the descriptions of the stereotype for one it makes total sense.
My take on things is that whatever force we believe in GOD or universe etc etc
I have this notion that we all have blueprints
We come in as empaths...or narcs....or any other type of person...
It's almost like two sides of the spectrum.....
The older you get the more you see them.
The more apparent it becomes so much so that when youve met dozens carrying the same traits there really must be a blueprint at birth !
While genetic imprints certainly exist, I think there is also the added affect of environmental toxins on our neurological systems. regardless of the source, anything introduced to our blood stream not designed to be there will yield negative effects. Matters not if it's glyphosate from the food supply, aluminum from aerial spraying, or mRNA from the recent sh*ts, it will cause deranged behavior.
Great video !! Totally truth and facts !! They thought I'd never leave but I did and now they're cut off not able to contact me or see me Period !! Thank God for getting my Joy and Peace back !! Life is Good these days !! ❤️❤️
Although I can see that she is this now, I still feel sad seeing her sabotage herself and wreck her own life..
Yeah for sure yet they don’t give a fckkk bout us
I'm right there with ya buddy
It is so disappointing that there are people like this… My soon to be ex wife used me until I broke, trapped me with my children and then after she depleted my GI Bill she took them and falsely accused me of abuse… She did this Dec 15th last year… a very hard time for me having PTSD… I had to call the veterans crisis hotline for the 1st time and then many times over the months… she socially isolated me and then left me alone to die. But she underestimated my will for my children, they are more important than me and I need to get them away from her. By the way I am the 3rd person in her cycle of destruction
That's a very tough road you have been on. Stay strong buddy.
I spent a year plus feeling sorry for this person, thinking their trauma was blinding them. I finally decided I need to walk away, the only way I could do it was by blindsiding her and saying the nastiest things and telling her I’d call the cops for harassment if she contacted me again. Strangely I feel empty and still feel sorry for her, and I feel drained I really need self compassion
Was engaged to a narcissist in college. She started playing games and it took me a little bit but I soon saw what she was doing. I was out of town for the weekend and had time to just sit and think. I was older, having spent six years in the military. I decided even if it hurt initially I needed to walk away and not look back. I returned that Sunday and a friend called me and told me she was planning to break up with me. As I mulled that over she called. She told me she thought we should call off the wedding and break up. After she did all the talking I said “Ok, I was thinking the same thing.” She started floundering and I said, “ I need to run, see you around.” I hung up and called a friend of hers I know liked me and asked her out. I told her we broke up and I had always wanted to take her out. The ex freaked out, called, left notes on my car and front door. Her mom called me trying to get us back to get her, she called my mom. For several years she would reach out off and on. She couldn’t handle it. She had never been rejected, she never lost the upper hand until me.
Sweet karma.
Lots of what you say is true. I was so hurt by a relationship. I got very sick and while she was supportive for a while then she got very enraged.
I took space.
No apology on my part was enough. . no more or very little good stuff anymore. So much control. So angry. So mean so callous and so unemphatic.
There was good in the relationship but over time so much nastiness.
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For sure this describes my last 4 years of a relationship with somebody that I thought was my true partner and best friend she never worked when I stopped engaging she got violent now I was discarded it hurts so bad it is getting better she has moved away 80 miles I think I'm strong enough to tell her no when she calls if ever
It took me 6 months to figure him out
I knew something was off. Then I began to take notes.. I really didn't want to believe it
However, I spent 3 weeks solely with him. That man couldn't stay home even if u paid him
I had to run .when I say no, he gets very upset
I think of myself as lucky and fortunate because plenty of people have NO idea about Narcissist
Loved this content 💜🙏🥰 Keep it coming!! Thank you!
On point my brother, so true 🙏🏾❤️💟💪⭐🌹
Thank you very much for this insight! You have described a relationship in my life to a tee! Repetition is indeed key to let these lessons take root
Absolutely!! Thanks for being here, take care of yourself.
When he started telling me what God to worship,I exposed him to his friends,family,business partners & the WHOLE NEIGHBORHOOD WHEN HE ASSAULTED ME & WENT TO JAIL!!!!
I am sorry you went through all that..hope you are taking care of your mental health now..
I wonder how many of us are talking about the same man or woman in our lives. 😂 We are probably all dating the same people.
😂
Hahahaha lmao
It sure sounds like it!
Weird...everything that was said about the surgeries,and manipulating was exactly what she did also domestic violence against our children and myself...finally healing after 2 1/2 years
Im 12 years and 2 kids into a relations with and adult child?narcissistic mother? Co dependent narc? Who ive helped find proactive information relevant to help us grow as a family and build her self esteem to become a good mother...
Being dragged up and having complex ptsd due to toxic manipulative family environment from early age! my existence and life long struggles are so painful that no matter where i go i cant help but to talk about it!!! Over whelmed and riddled with many life threating medical issues!
10 years of journaling thanks to my psychologist and tools he gave me has helped get it out and on paper when its floating thru my head... Now im Going after the so called family who caused all the damage! And im finding more & more a very similar pattern a Generational Curse incapable of change! Very exhausting not for the faint hearted beleive me.
Your support means so much in this difficult dark period of my life❤
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How insightful and precise.
Devil forever searching for mommy now run 🏃♀️
After hearing this I am living with one😂
Get out YESTERDAY!!
Please leave silently ASAP!!!!!!’ I speak from experience.
Such a well orchestrated video. I had these beasts all over me, two different types of narcissists, my X husband on one side and my mother on the other. I broke free from both of them and took my children with me, no contact. They were enemies trying to both claim me for their ownership, but then became drinking buddies when I filed for my divorce.
Thank you so much for this video. This explains the relationship with my mother perfectly.
Oh! Thanx for sharing, I hope you are taking care of your mental health properly.
16 years of the abuse .
This is so crazy she had me looking up narcissist for myself i didn't feel i was one asked other people around me in they were like um no but after she broke up with me broke the family apart lied constantly sbout shit she shouldn't have tol lie about still paraded me around her family and wouldnt go away just was hovering exaclting dominants over my new place then came the one min lets work on our family the next minute they go cold i would get so angry and curse her out like no other not knowing she loved it my angry hurt was her fuel after the upteen lie i finally saw it for what it was i literally very calmly asked her too stay away oh yea and she came back after getting put in jail yup it was i love you i miss you my dumb ass let her back in 2 weeks later back at the point i was before
Every word you say is exactly what he put me through. I was clueless about what I was dealing with. But I’m thankful to have figured it out and educated myself on these types of people. I still listen to and continue learning. I went through hell with this one and he lives across the hall from me. I go in and out very quietly and quickly. He’s always looking for my car and followed me. I thank god for learning exactly what I was up against .
I'm glad you found the strength to deal with such a challenging situation. Keep learning and growing!
its a difficult situation i find myself in
As I am learning more and more of this behavior, the more I understand my stepson's behavior and actions.
This video is so true because I am pretty sure it happened to me
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best video ever thanks again....i'm healed.....
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You are speaking correctly
That's exactly all THEIR charater
Weldone
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Mine got physical kept me away from everyone ,broke my arm twice,threatened me if I tried to leave
My family is full of them from generations of alcoholism. I've got help over the years but they never did. Many of them I've walked away from and some I'll distance myself for awhile if they won't respect me. I don't go into anything deep and I grey rock many of them. They think I'm boring but can't handle the criticism over small things.
Setting boundaries and prioritizing your own well-being is important, even if others may not understand or agree with your choices. Remember to focus on what's best for you and continue to prioritize your mental and emotional health. If you ever need support or someone to talk to, there are always resources available. You're not alone in this journey.
Thank you so much for your time and effort
Have been in these relationships more than once 😢 please help thinking horrible thoughts on my self
I walked away trapped between two toxic individuals, first one I thought was a friend team up with his enemy or ex to get revenge 🤔 only time first would try to get physical was all ways in front of second they thought stole their prize. Never tried one on one!
All ways trying verbally in front of other to get me cornered using verbal communication but not directly. I walked away first followed me and showed up many times. Just refused to go away.
Very accurate 🌞💙
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I experienced all these things. 😂 But I'm out, done a bunch of research on NPD and know exactly why this particular relationship was difficult.
You were like her it took you forever to smarten up.
I got away from her and ot was the best thing I could have done
I am officially almost 2 months after breaking free...🎉 but it was very challenging and I was pulled away by sheer force. But I’m glad it’s over, and moving away to another country will make me feel much safer. Im really glad.
Yes I’m free from Narcissistic talk about when you have kids with them they don’t care about them kids never ask to get them for no summer winter spring or fall
True that's my situation now
Thank you. Your video is full of excellent insight and useful advice. You are helping many victims of abuse. God bless.
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Wow yes I also went to work iin 3 different states and here I am again!!!Everything the person making this video is 1000percent on target!!!!!Every single word is exactly how it is!!!!!Took 10 years before I figured it out....Jeckle &Hyde is right one....Thank you and all those who are exposing them .....God Blessssssss You For This ...Your saving and HELPING EVERY SINGLE PERSON THATS SEES THIS ..PLEEEEAAAAAsssssseeeee DONT STOP DOING THIS. PLREEAAASSEEE
Permanent damage 💔
Do not claim that mine overmatter
Omg this is sooo accurate. I guess I'm not crazy after all, after over a year. My health has even been impacted. I left last week and i feel like a different person already.
Yes, their toxicity is like a physical and mental infection. It takes time to heal. Best wishes on your journey to a better life!
Amazing video I'm so glad I watched it till the end ,my mother was toxic it was like reliving my life again, I'm now 57 and have walked away from her, my life is much better its been a year so I'm doing well, thankyou for this video. ❤
Wonderful! I am happy that you got this! :) Stay blessed.
Thankyou you too ❤