How Narcissists React When They Think You're Too Strong
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- How Narcissists React When They Think You're Too Strong. In this video, we're going to explore how narcissists react when they think you're too strong.
Narcissists can't handle strong individuals, which is why they often resort to manipulation and control tactics when they think they're not able to control you. Watch this video to see the different ways narcissists react when they feel they're not in control!
Have you ever wondered why narcissists react differently when you stand up for yourself?
If you've personally dealt with narcissistic behavior, you know how confusing and frustrating it can be when their responses don't meet your expectations. Whether it's at home or at work, understanding their patterns can help us handle our relationships with them more effectively.
But here's where things get interesting.
See, narcissists see those who stand up for themselves as too strong. And they consider them a threat.
Why?
These people radiate confidence and self-reliance, living independent lives unaffected by the narcissist's nonsense. They think, act, and feel for themselves, trusting their own judgment and staying true to their positive self-image. And they don't seek validation or approval from others to navigate life.
Naturally, this isn't what narcissists want in a partner for their mind games.
So, when you start asserting yourself, their behavior takes a different turn.
If you're curious about how exactly they react to people they consider as too strong for them, then keep watching. We'll explore some of their common responses in this video. This way, you'll be able to address them and stand firm against their manipulations.
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The only way to defeat a narcissist is to leave them and never look back.
You have to deal with narcissists everyday all day. You can't leave them all. For me, I have to learn to deal with them.
Hard when it’s your mother,. I have finally accepted she has a disorder, still hard to deal with at times. I have to go low contact or no contact at times.
U can't if they are your parents, spouse or children 😢😢😢😢
Amen 🖤
That’s true, I stood up to a narcissist every day, for decades. It’s soul destroying and ruins your life and health.
Best advice I can give is, nip it in the bud and walk away.
They run away when you stand up for yourself.
they do! thye run and hide for weeks on end!
Nah... my ex looked at as a challenge. I moved away changed my number and didn't look back.
You changed name too?@@tammybarrett2442
They don't run away, they ghost you and spread rumors behind your back before comming back to stab you when you lower the gard.
hmm no, some get mad and start blaming one for stuff instead?
The narcissist becomes not confident, nervous, and restless when they know you're strong.
Now I know why my ex crush being nervous hahahaha
I was called difficult when she's the one acting bitchy and entitled to me 😂
They swing between narcissistic arrogance and codependency.
@@ursularose3270 So true and so well worded
O - O - O YES THEY DO! THEY SURE DO BECOME NERVOUS! I'M TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE! THAT IS THE REASON, WHY I'M LOOKING @ THIS TAPE. THEY JUST HIDE THEIR EMOTIONS, DARN GOOD! WHAT THEY CAN'T STAND IS, W H A T I G O T! PATIENCE AND VERY STRONG TOLLERANCE, TO THEIR FACELESS ACTIONS, AGAINST ME! I WORK AGAINST THEM SO, AND PRACTICALY, I REPELLED THEM, LIKE RAIN, FROM A TRENCH COAT?! WELL, WHO EVER READS THIS, USE THIS TACTIC? IT WORKED & WORKES FOR ME, IT MIGHT WORK, TO SOME OF YOU TOO?!! -HEY? TRY IT, YOU'LL LIKE IT??!
This video is ABSOLUTELY correct when it says that, at some point, they will try to RUIN YOUR REPUTATION.
Funny thing is that, when you don't have a reputation ( why should you? ), they can't destroy it. They just destroy themselves.
@@pascals.4432 Thanks. It sounds great, I can't see how that is true though. But it feels comforting.
Indeed
They only care about themselves. Zero empathy, zero remorse.
The only thing they're sorry for is that people have figured them out for who they really are, and they'll attempt to destroy anybody who could expose their lies and deception, even with solid proof of their actions. They don't care how many lives they have to destroy in the process, including their own children.
And they don't even really care for themselves. Sad creatures.
"quit expecting to be enough for people who aren't even enough for themselves"
We are already smarter than they are. The key is to not allow what makes us more evolved, our emotional maturity, cause for us to have so much empathy for them that we allow for them to abuse us. Most times, it is this empathy that gets us in trouble. We don’t respond the way we should at the first sign of misconduct because we assume that we are incorrect in our judgment. We are smart enough to know that if someone is damaged they are going to act out and mistreat others. So, we are more patient with them. This is where the problem comes in. Our caring and ability to identify with a person’s pain causes for us to fall victim to their callous behavior. We move the boundary for them because we believe if we do, we can help them. We believe that all they need is love. The problem is, they don’t really want it. They just wanted us to move the boundary. They literally want to see if they can continue to make us do things we not wish to do. They want to see if they can cause a reaction that is out of character. They want to watch us unravel. It makes them feel powerful. Moreover, if you feel sure that your husband might never cheat on you, you might have to rethink. Most wives in marriages are shocked when they find out their husband cheating, and it happens more with people who never thought they would cheat. This is why you have to take the tiniest suspicion carefully. If your husband is cheating on you, the best and probably the only guaranteed way to catch him is to spy on their phones. However, spying on a phone is not something you can do without any external help unless you have the James bond level of spy skills. In such case you will need an expert phone spyier Metaspyhub@gmail. com for the purpose,,,
Spot on.
Toddler like temper tantrums when caught lying, they hate it when you call em out, they thrash and flail like fish on a hook 😂 they throw things, yell, even try to attack you, and hate when you take the moral high ground, dont sink to their level, and you will be in control
YES, EXACTLY. - IT WASN'T EASY, BUT SLOWLY & EVENTALY, I GOT RIDD OF THEM. GENTLY & SLOWLY, BUT I DID IT! SOME TOLD ME, I WAS TOO TAXTFUL, TO MUCH OF A GENTLEMAN. COULDN'T CARE LESS / MORE, BUT - BUT IT WORKEDFOR ME! + NOW FOR OVER 41/2 MOTHS.USE MY STYLE, IN TH NEXT TAPE, SOME HOW? SOME MEY GET A USE OUT OF IT??!
They get real jumpy & panic, over-react & can't wait to talk bad about you with someone else. I have a "sister" like this. What's up BECKY.
Hahahaha the greeting a the end killed me!
Omg this is exactly how my sister acts when I come around her ! All the time I’m so sick of it !! Sarah ,777
I just did battle with a narcissist for 6 months. Her name.....Becky.
I don’t know Sarah, Becky’s not on the Internet trying to get sympathy points from strangers🎉
@@Handle70770 I don’t think she’s seeking sympathy, healing feels amazing
They will enlist other people to be their allies by saying bad things about you to them.
You are absolutely right... And at the end their behaviour make their allies to run away too
🐒 flying monkeys
Boundaries are everything, only you can PSYCHOLOGICALLY SEE THEM.
Yes, I can still see narcissists staying in my life because they want to express their low self-esteem to me and their hate speech. I have so many good things going on because I worked hard. And I guess that's their hard work in talent. Oh well. Nothing I can do for them. :(
- EM1
This is why you just RUN AWAY.
They are hollow people
Agree I did it like that
YES, IT IS A GOOD ADVICE, TO RUN AWAY, BUT I CIFRONTED THE PROBLEM, HEAD ON! CALMLY, VERY LITTLE TALK - AND CONSISTANTLY, I SAYED THINGS, AS THEY WERE & ARE?! WOOHHH? THEY ALMOST GOT HIVES FROM ME! THANK GOODNESS, I'M A CALM & PANTIENT NATURED PERSON. THEY GOT VERYUPSET, AND LATER, THEY - THEM - THEY ACTUALY WANTED TO AVOID ME, INSTEAD OF, TARGETING ME?!! - THIS STYLE COULD / SHOULD WORK FOR SOME OTHERS TOO. YES, HERE ARE SOME GOOD ADVICES HER. THANK YOU.
I was too strong for my ex narc. I would throw him off balance. I never depended on him for anything. I finally dumped him and he couldn’t accept it. Always trying to compete with me, He really was ridiculous
You do notice that you sound just like a narc?
No they don't. Independence is not a narc trait.
@@1985reeza Gtfo you need therapy 😂
She doesn't sound like a narc
Same. I’m the person who always spit out the truth. He can’t stand it and broke up with me, said emotionally only i need him, he doesn’t, he wants his freedom back. So I let him go peacefully. He aggressively blocked me.
But after the day we broke up, he unblocked me and started trying to get my attention back, sent me messages about something funny. I just ignored him. Cause he is a jerk. 5 days after, he sent me a message “so you don’t want to talk to me anymore, babe?” I responded “who gave you the right to call me babe? I would kick yo ass if you do this again.” And he said,” I want to be friend with you”. I still ignored him.
He started to invite my girlfriends to hang out, 1 rejected, 1 went with him and started to meet him every single day. She has a boyfriend, started to date him and cheating with him, talking about me on my back with him, but pretended that she was still my friend. Guess what, she’s narc too.
I just kicked her out and blocked both of them.
No matter what you do w a narc = a disaster. Narcs are ridiculous.
Move on and start over. Cut your losses and start again.
Narcissist attacked me for saying no. He went to HR. Today, I waltzed in to work, good mood, unbothered. I couldn’t be bothered dealing with the attention seeking narc. He’s pathetic. I’ve started looking for another role, I cannot waste my life trying to work with this loser.
Watch your back.
If your lucky they will find some shiny new friends to give them supply and they won't even give you a backward glance, count yourself lucky and pick up the pieces, don't take them back under any circumstances.
So true
God I hope so. I don't want to fight. I just want to move on and live.
Shiny new friend😂 so true😂😂😂 exactly what happened
‘When that shift happens, you won’t miss it’ - spot on
My mother the covert narcissist, plays the victim, runs smear campaigns on me and all the things that narcissists do.
Mines is the same way. She won't be getting a happy mother's day from Me this year. NO WAY 🚫
Same. I didn’t say happy Mother’s Day at all this year. Mine is very vindictive. She posted something on social media about how happy she is celebrating with her other daughter. lol
Wow 😲 really ! She did that. That's why we start treating them the same way they treat us I didn't tell my mother happy md neither and I don't fill at all bad about she didn't wish me a happy birthday 🎂 or nothing when my birthday came yet her & my 2 sister s always go out to eat and exchange gifts when ever there bday come around. I am so done with kissing they a** and I feel SOOOOO GOOD that I don't play into there bullsh** anymore. What go around come back around 💯 I'm only doing to them what was done to me for many years now I just stay far away from them and I'm much much Happier now 😁😁😁
Mine too.
Mine too.. I move to live with my grandma
Narcissist are quite weak, they are in actual fact the co dependents too needing others to survive (but finding co dependents who they get in a relationship with, then plunder them) , because if they have no one, they implode.
They need you more than you need them.
Masters at putting on a front
Absolutely.
SILENCE is your greatest weapon, observe
They'll feel even more threatened when you call them on their bullshit in front of your mutual boss, by telling your boss, "The reason I was doing X using method A instead of method B which you suggested was because coworker told me method A was faster regardless of portion spec." Narcissists hate being thrown under the bus.
Spot on. They will even have you stalked on false pretense.
And take your mail, open your mail, have you looked upon as crazy so as to ultimately deny you your constitutional right to a trial; attempt to frame you; take over your life and right to choose for yourself; harass you; traffick you; withhold information;smear campaign; contact your contacts; scapegoat you; identity theft and fraud; reroute your calls; and much much more.
🎯 sending their flying monkeys to spy on you, the innocent survivor.
Yes, I spotted that too.
@@allthingsnewlife are you one of the stalkers?
@anotherday8106 why, are you? I'm an innocent survivor...
The armor of God and Alcoholics Anonymous 12 step program protects me now from these sad humans. I thank God for my empathy. Being raised and surrounded by Narcissists was not easy. The narc fleas are gone too. I pray for all who are suffering.
This is amazing! I'm currently having issues with a roommate's boyfriend. My gut told me, immediately, he was BAD. He's got everyone else here wrapped up in his crap, but he's never been able to get anything over on me. He only talks down to me when no one else is around. Then tries to make me look crazy, after he's baited me. He's about to find out what happens when he pushes me too far.
Do not give him your reaction, just ignore or gray rock. it is better and it feels even better to not react to these people.
If his ain't on the lease....
@@matthewlynch903We had one who wasn't an owner in the building bullying owners. He legally could have been barred from owners meetings.
My husband behaves like this . He talk so bad in alone and he behaves so good in front of others that no one believes me
@@HinaTariq-hg5ssI hear you my spouse is a narc too
This was very informative and 100% true. No contact is mental protection for our minds. Good luck.😊
I wish so much! We have 3 kids together 😔
Hey, Greg. I’m still here, rich, and laughing at you.
Well done ❤
😍
Greg can suck it! 😂🖕
This video is 100% accurate it both reaffirms things to me and teaches me about.. some of my questions. Unfortunately I am surrounded by them because it can run in families. Keep away from any that you suspect because you may well have their family after your blood aswell
💯 They live in the matrix and will fight to protect it. 0:20
Tell me about it. Women can be pieces of work.
Just to add...I completely understand why most women hate themselves. If I were to think like most females, I'd hate myself too.
...and what they will do to a woman they feel as though they can't compete with...the devil has nothing on them.
Agree. I have a family next door like this. Mother and twin daughters are all like this. Absolutely no reason for them to consider themselves superior to others. If anything not that bright, rich or attractive etc. They also marry narcissists or a sucker. Fake as f...
I have to be careful about setting boundaries. Explicitly stating boundaries can be used by them as a roadmap to laser-focus their needling. So I try to be just inconsistent enough that my boundaries can’t be defined. I’ve found that stealthily withholding attention and attributing it to something else that doesn’t center the narcissist works best (they want to be centered, positive OR negative it doesn’t matter)
Don’t state targets are attracting perpetrators into their lives. That’s victim blaming and as bad as telling sexual assault victims it was what they wore that caused the attack. The only thing that makes people violent is the choice to be violent. There are plenty of people around humans with the same feelings or frustrations, yet don’t attack. The difference is their decisions.
There is some truth to this. I think its a compliment. They are attracted to people who do well so they can try and take credit for your success
We should be aware of this narcissistic sociopath
Awareness and boundaries is important
and when possible ignore them completely or just ran away .
Spread love ❤ not hate…. If someone doesn’t recognise true love then leave as it is
Absolutely.
I completely agree. - But narcos, D O adjust to circumstances, very quick & very well. It's nothing nwe, but cut down the discussing to minimal, once a while controdit them or say it's the other way / not so etc. That came in, to me. It does work,maybe ina long shot? but it does work! Try it?
Everyone's kind and loving. If anyone leaves, it's about compatibility, in my opinion. Conversation is also about compatibility. How brain is wired and degree of so many things... Relationship is quite complicated.
@@alfredbenedek3398 Relationship is not a math science. Lol
When u don’t feel respect from anyone for who u are.. tell them karma is like position 69.. it comes back..
Since I like comedy very much, & I combined the situatin with it, I just told to this narc. - hey darling? i miss you as much as a - G - in my lasagna? they didn't get it, only I met with her, i abot 4 days, and she told it to me. Yet I ignored her, totaly!! I guess, she got my point by now??!
This video absolutely describes my covert narcissist mother and brother with strong narcissistic traits, learned from our mother.
Thank you for describing my situation for the past 20 years, I always knew this behavior was not normal and I for sure know am not crazy. Everything you exposed here has been done to me by a man who claims to love me. I just removed my rings and earrings, all gifts that my partner has given me throughout the years as a symbol of my freedom. I just broke the chains that kept me with him, he did it last night to our daughter, who took a stand for me and her, he was simply unable to recognize the truth and unwilling to accept his responsibility in hurting our family with his strange behaviors, trying to put the blame on her who is 13. That’s when I woke up. Also feeling the support of my daughter gave me the strength I was lacking to put and end to such a toxic situation, I thought leaving him would hurt her but I realize staying has done so probably more than it was necessary. I am grateful for this content which reassured me of what I have always known to be the truth.
Don’t look back
My exact story. Also with my 13 yr old daughter and 16 yr old daughter who has been ready for me to get away from their own father
I gave up everything for my peace. Its so worth it. It also showed me weak relationships in my life. while they are trying to create a lying image of you. Once you win against them, beware, they will take any opportunity for the rest if their lives to get even. Cut them and anyone connected in any way. No exceptions. It is hard but possible and so worth it
I agree 💯, I'm at peace with it all , I love myself and have God in my heart, I'm free.
I gave him so much love and trust, and he put me down.
He lost a good lady. 😊
He is a lonely lost soul, that will never be happy.
I feel sorry for his son, but 1 day he'll see it.
This video feels so appropriate for me. Thanks CZcams gods for connecting me with such information. It really is amazing sometimes.😊
Best question ever, "How Narcissists React When They Think You're Too Strong?". The video dived at the end, but the question is good. Self powering, believing in oneself "If you don't love yourself, how can you love someone else", it's healthy narcissism? Knowing yourself and knowing what you are good at, as well knowing things where you are bad, it's healthy narcissism? I'm not a psychologist, but it bothers me that the word narcissism always means bad. There is healthy narcissism (self-esteem) and then there is sick narcissism?
A difficult topic, but knowing yourself and understanding your worth does not mean a sick narcissist? I know my shortcomings, i know my strengths, what someone else says about it doesn't matter. How to know if a narcissist is healthy, well I'm not perfect and I have a lot to improve and I know how to apologize? Strong means I know myself. Strong means that I know myself even where I'm bad and I don't need anyone's approval.
Set boundaries
They treat boundaries like assault courses
There is only one limit with a covert narcissist - no contact (no at all). Everything else is BS. You can't draw a real line for a psychopath. He doesn't care about your bondaries. If they listened to you temporarily, they would start abusing you in another way. They are very resourceful.
They don't care about boundaries, they don't recognise them
Good video.. especially the end conclusion regarding healing, and setting boundaries. The healing/recovery process may take awhile...but well worth it. ✌️
Thank you,that was helpful.
THANK YOU SO MUCH. I LEARNED A LOT.
This is EXACTLY my current situation with my college teacher.
Narcissists nonsense! You hit the nail!!
This is so funny to watch my friend helped me with a narcissist, she was really strong and stood up for herself, the narcissist in the end had a mental breakdown and huge foot stamping tantrum showing their true colours just because she couldn't manipulate my friend and by extension me, thankfully the narcissist is out of my life forever
the only way to deal with the narcissist is to just be you and if you know yourself than you know how to walk away from them or even if they are around just be you and ignore them... we can¨t change them, and the choices is always your own.
I subscribed and find this information invaluable for dealing with some people in my life right now. Sadly!
Amazing. Concise. Precise.
Study the connection they transfer as they speak. If it breaks down when it's your time to reply....beware.
I subscribed!!
Awesome video!! ❤
Thanks for the information, and have a Nice Day 😉👍
This is very good.
Even though, way at the beginning, thats what he liked about me…I had “spunk” was what he said. Eventually, when I became accomplished in something, he NEVER was supportive.
Never! Or even if they try it’s almost impossible for them to get out the words of even being fake nice.
So many comments following the emotional push to run away, which may be for the best, but often it may be better to study emotional development and meditate to understand yourselves better and grow, then yeah leave if they’re aggressively resistant to positive change.
There is very little out thee about convert narcissism as it is less spottable and more complex than overt narcissism. This is a very concise explanation of their behaviour.
Great content!🎖
They'll over play their own hands. No contact
I love this video!
nicely presented the true picture of narcissists.
Definitely 💯 true.
I subscribed. THANK YOU!! Trying to break away now!! Almost there. :) Looking forward to the peace!!
Hey I am also dealing with covert narcissist, hope I you and me will be able to left this narcissist
I subscribed! Thank you
passive- aggressive people are narcissists themselves.
Great video... describes everything I am dealing with to a "T".. facts 💯
I subscribed!😊
Same here
Glad you found the video relatable! Thank you for subscribing!
I subscribed 😊 very informative video
I felt bad because i thought i was not good enough for him. But Because he was mirroring me. I realized i was too good for him, for him to have to change to be like me to like him. Then he showed his true colors. Then i realized i love me not him. That me it easy to live for me not for evil.
This is all absolutely correct...happened to me last week!!! I blocked her and walked away....
Hit it on the Nail.
Confirmation
💯💪Keep going☀️🌞🌅😎🕶️
You’re Shining & that’s when they have to throw Shade 🤭✨
My father passed away a few days ago. And when he was in a hospital, he showed up in my dream during sleep. He taught me how to shoot a hunting gun because his hobby was hunting. And the bullets in that dream were strangely nails. And I nailed in that dream. Dreams come true.
We thank us,
- EM1
I subscribed… because your report was so concise and complete, correct and yeah, correct… Thank you for that…
You’re not genuine. Especially if you think life is a competition.
competitve people are the sickest because of the undermining tactics that represent furthering themselves in an inauthentic means to a ways.
@@jenamirgholi6004 You are competing for no reason whatsoever since I don’t give a shit. But hey continue I’ll just have a gaming bash since it is actually interesting.
In both ways life is about equations.
Sounds ugly, and I'm an optimist, but yes - yes life is a competition. when - i/ or for that matter, over c ome, their manipulative manuverings, - i or for that matter, you ; we are the winners / above them! That answers that!
That is for sure..
Peace is the goal, anything charming or trying to be convincing wants to break that. Protect your peace at all costs.
I subscribed! ❤
I have a boss like that...she tries to discredit me dayly,but she will not get rid of me,without a fight
Don’t bother fighting, find a better job and tell them you are leaving for a breed job.
Their weaknesses are the same as ChatGPT. Probability talk gives you the right to fight back.
Yes, they will and they will send a psychopath your way!
God will come in a LARGE way for them when they least expect it!!
I pray for them ALL, that they will change their hearts and it’s not too late!
Glory be to God!!🙏🎚️❤️🕊🎶🌟
True my frind, very true, but we the targeted people, we also have to use the blessings, and use them, against those, who are trasspassing against us?!! I'm sure, you mean well. give it a very strong try? out psiche them??! -
Amen ❤
Glory be to God Almighty 🙏🙏
This is all a long list of aggressions against a victim. Why would anyone want a narc to see them as strong? It starts a campaign to destroy you. Isn’t it better then for the narcissist to not see you as strong and lose interest?
They will destroy you either way if you’re close to them.
Thing is, if you are strong and authentic you cannot seem timid unless you are disloyal to yourself and become as false as them.
If you’re weak or they think you are they’ll bully you and demolish your self esteem with that too. They don’t care
I subscribed !
Initiaating self preservation low vibration mode Now!
I have a freind who's ex husband is a narcissist. He blows up every time he sees me. He will throw out threats like I know people who will make your life hell. I just look at them and say OK and. He loses it all over again. I know one of these days he will do this in front of the wrong person.
I also want to learn to read peoples mind by seeing Instagram photos correctly so that my mind will be aware of those person whether to be friend with them or not
You can learn to dowsing with a pendulum, then you can decide very fast if someone is a good match for you or not 🙏... Everyone should dowse 😂.. Could even Change the energy of narcissistic people that way. Check out Raymon Grace if you're interested. 👍
I sought civil restraining order and was granted In court. Upstairs neighbor thinks I'm his property and I shall tolerate his biligerant foul mouth. Temper tantrums and violence is what he's into and he's got zero maturity at age 59 as well as substance abuse. He's finally evicted this month
For people saying you can’t walk away from a narcissist if they’re a family, my question to you is why not?
The only way I would continue to deal with a narcissist is if they’re a minor child, but once that child is an adult you should say goodbye.
Smoke and mirrors
GODDAMMITT !!! More and faster please! I am disabled and my Narc. Wife is taking full advantage ! I need tools !
3:50 "Like Devil himself"
We are too strong for the weak narcissistic. Everyone says leave them, but I choose to see them live their regrets.
True
They try to break you . Only think to do is leave
After watching this video, I think I need to change my living environment. Those narcissistic traits fit, more or less, pretty much everyone around me at any job I take and why I can't get a cue about anything anybody does around me. When interacting with someone, I always felt that I am never on the same page with anyone and I tend to get some sort of "brain error" while talking with people. This error comes usually in form of thoughts, like: "is this guy serious or just trolling me?", "bro, I literally have no idea what do you want from me" and then I tend to look at them like one would look at something that caught his interest and trying figuring them out. I was told that I am just antisocial or retarded but I never actually took that as an insult (I mean, one cannot take seriously such words if he has similar feelings towards a person that speaks such word towards him, am I right?). Thanks for this video, I think I found some new information that I was lacking. I hope you have a great day, cuz you've certainly made my day a bit better!
🙄🙄 AW I’ve An ex friend of mines was a complainer, a classic narcissist & always denied it when I’d call her out for it.. the type of person who thinks they’re opinions & voices are more valid & true than everyone else’s.. they’re also prone to bullying (not me, bc I’d not stand for it, but others who have a little less self esteem maybe & due to that think that it’s normal for folk with bitchy attitudes to belittle you in front of others.. Not me, I’m more the type who would ask the victimised person if they’re ok & then tell the person, usually right in front of the shy/traumatised individual, it’s not ok to do that to someone/speak to someone like that.. You’ve no idea what they’ve went through today, or even in the last 24 hours leading up to coming here, to then be met with you’re bombardments of bitchiness. There’s just no need..🤨🤨
Also & quite often, when it was me & her she was awfully NICE.. but the minute there was ANYONE ELSE she could use that as “an audience” & out came those same mean nasty jibes.. But the best of all, was I’d ALWAYS CALL HER OUT ON IT.😊 Oh & she did not like that.. I’d get threats, like “if you want us to stay friends, then you should learn to button it Jen” 😆 So I’d say “Yeah but you were nice as pie to me before so & so came in,,& that’s not right” She’d usually reluctantly apologise.. 😆 But like I’ve mentioned above,if she was giving someone abusive or bitchy comments in my presence, I’d get warned for that too. With “what right have you got to but into that conversation-you’ve no rights to undermine me in my own house” so I’d say stuff like “yeah, I’m sorry but he/she was clearly upset& I was just letting them know it’s ok & not to be scared, or whatever” 🤨 BUT THIS WOMEN I SWEAR TO GOD HAD AN ANSWER FOR EVERYTHING,, THE OTHER THING WAS MOST FOLKS WOULD PANDER TO HER CHILDISH BITCHY & IGNORANT BEHAVIOUR.. (folks would usually say to me, Jen, how are you not scared of her, how do you do that, meaning stand up for myself & others.. my answer would usually always be the same.) Remember at school there’d be a bully, usually surrounded by their minions..who usually didn’t rlly like the bully person but where too scared to stand up to them bc then they’d be outcasts & No1 wants that in school, every kid wants to be pals with 1 of the popular kids..😊 BUT IF YOU RLLY KNOW YOURSELF-LIKE MY MUM TAUGHT ALL OF US.. NO1 CAN TELL YOU THAT YOURE ANYTHING OTHER THAN YOURSELF.. IF THEY TRY TO INTIMIDATE YOU, WALK AWAY OR EVEN LAUGH AT THEM..😊 LETS FACE IT WHATS THE WORST THATS GONNA HAPPEN, THE POPULAR KIDS WONT LIKE YOU, BUT I BET ANY MONEY SOME OF THE GROUP WILL SECRETLY ADMIRE YOU, BC YOU’VE HAD THE GUTS TO STAND FIRM IN YOUR BELIEFS OF KNOWING YOURSELF.🥰
The other & main reason I stuck around was bc id been friends with her since our kids where at preschool together, so I’d known her a very long time.. I watched her health slowly deteriorating & to me, as a caring sort of person..(who’s not so caring, I wont take anyones shit)..but she WAS ELDERLY & GETTING MORE INFIRM & I always remember a rlly bit of good advice my gran gave me, always help others Jen, and if poss try to encourage them to help themselves.. (so,in case your asking WHY DIDNT I JUST ABADON HER) well, I did her house work, went grocery shopping with her & other places like to the doctors surgery etc., bc she did have huge swollen leaky legs..I’m sure it’s called cellulitis, a nasty infection in the deep layers of skin & also needed to use a walker & was about the age of my own mother.. (also all my other family lived over 50 miles away)..So when I did eventually move closer to my family, some may think I’ve no place in doing this, but I had stern words with both of her adult sons, who both have cars & live very close by to their mother.. Also, I didn’t feel guilty bc I know there where other girls as well as her sons wife’s mother, who was very close to her also & for about 2-3 years before I’d left she was great at helping her, as much as I did..(also bc she was her daughter in laws mother aka her sons mother in law-yeah strange set up) but I do remember a few deep conversations with her on me planning on leaving..WHICH HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH OUR FRIENDSHIP..IT WAS DUE TO THE FACT THAT I WAS DEEPLY LONELY BEING OVER 50miles away from my family,,also due to my partner passing away after a long continuous illnesses, the main 1 being TB, which he got in 2011- then bronchiectasis, which was horrific he was constantly in & out of hospital for sometimes days, other times weeks to try multiple medications/procedures etc to stop him from coughing up blood every day,. 🥺🥺 Clearly they couldn’t & bc of his daft attitude against stopping drinking he was just a ticking time bomb..so obv the cirrhosis of his liver got worse..Then kidney problems started & at 41 his body just couldn’t take it all anymore.. 💔💔💔 OBVIOUSLY ILL NEVER FORGET SCOTT-as defiant as he was he was my best friend as we knew each other since high school..went our sep ways+ had daughters to other partners & then in 2001,we reunited❣️ The rlly sweet thing regarding his death was our street was a new build (after they had dismantled & regenerated my whole local area) So our new street was made & we all moved in 2009 & twas sweet bc most folks had already been neighbours from the blocks which where demolished) So on the day of Scott’s funeral all the cars came into our street which was a rlly cute cul-de-sac & all of our neighbours stood on their doorsteps, some even brought flowers over,just before all the family gotten into the funeral cars,,I felt so touched by that, as a few of our closest neighbours also came along to the service.Which Scott would’ve liked..
(🙄 SO SORRY I WENT WAY OFF SUBJECT THERE..)But the ONLY REASON I LEFT MY ADORABLE & TBH, EVERY DAY I STILL MISS IT & sometimes feel I’ve made a huge mistake,,but the 3bedroom house,which was a brand new build, like I’ve mentioned..It was for me,Scott,my daughter who was 15,almost 16 & the other spare room was for his 2 daughters..who are 1 & 2 years younger than mines.. 💞💞
SADLY THO, & AGAIN IM SORRY IVE TYPED POSS WAY TOO MUCH INFO. AS THIS WAS MEANT TO ME JUST A REPLY ON NARCISSIST EX FRIEND!!! 🥰 So thanx to you all who did take the time I’m reading this,esp the extra personal bits of info at the bottom..🥰 As much as I do, on most days miss my 3bedroom front/back garden house, on the outskirts of Edinburgh. My man’s no longer there & my daughters & step daughters have all moved on with their lives. 2 are married & 1 travels the world, I think she writes travel blogs,, it’s been a few years since I last spoke to them. But the plus side of all of this IS IVE SURVIVED NARCISSISTIC ABUSE (as some like to call it).. And I’m now living in the same town, in the beautiful Scottish Borders within walking distance to my 4 brothers, my mum, my daughter & my 4 nieces & my nephew is at Uni.. 🥰🎊 SO ITS ALL TURNED OUT THE WAY THE UNIVERSE INTENDED IT TO BE..🥰 WHOEVER YOU ARE- WHATEVER LIFE THROWS AT YOU, REMEMBER TOMORROW IS POSS GONNA BE A BETTER DAY..❣️ (ONLY LOOK BACK, IF YOUR REMEMBERING LESSONS LEARNED & YOU TAKE SOME OF THAT FORWARD ON YOUR YET TO LIVE JOURNEY) 🤍 SHARE LOVE FOLKS-THERES TOO MUCH HATE IN THE WORLD🤍
100% true
I ve been stuck in an abusive friendship for a very long time. Every time I try and distance myself or say my part it results in this person being very abusive and invalidating. I end up doubting and questioning my own reality. I don’t know how to put a final boundary that is clear
I feel gaslit by the last few words 😂❤
OMG toxic narcissistic MIL - so relatable.
They destroy you and what is more, they make you feel guilty for their destructive behaviour, they never apologize and they show they didn't do anything wrong and the victim is the one to blame.
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My sister to a T
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Can you please do a video about narcissistic teenagers..I subscribed