EATING IN A CHINESE VILLAGE APARTMENT AS A BLACKMAN, WHAT COULD GO WRONG?!! BLACK IN CHINA
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- Eating in a Chinese village apartment as a Blackman....
In this video, I showed up in a Chinese village and a Chinese elder invited me to eat in her village apartment probably because I spoke the Chinese language with her, had great interactions till a point the invite me to come back again later.
This is how Chinese react react when they see black people?
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4:32
Fel, a gentle reminder it is considered 'rude' and 'impolite' to dip chopsticks with rice into sharing dishes.
The rice residue inside the dish will shortened the shelf life of the dish.
Aside from that, keep up with your good work ! Love hearing your conversations with the locals.
你自己一个人吃的话，除筷子不能插碗中之外，无任何约束。
Xiexie
@@baileyshirleen37 老奶奶嫌棄他讓米飯掉到菜裏了，直接撥給他到碗裏，笑死我了，哈哈，這要是老奶奶自己的兒子，估計直接罵幾句了
你確實要學習中國餐桌文化，因爲中國人很看重的，會覺得你不衛生
The old people in China don't have any caution about strangers. They're so open-hearted and carefree and kind and warm
They live in utopia
All the stranger is good
No harm
So they didn't have cautious wall
China's not soft on crimes like the West or the USA. If you're on Death penalty for a serious crime. You won't live long.
Not all of them are open minded. Don’t put all into one category from a few.
@@tamara_diamonds422I agree ❤. Everyone is different. He just so happened to find good people 😊
This can be said the same for Japan, Philippines and most Asian countries 😊 But of course, not all are like that but there are more people like this than in America.
Its one thing to be welcomed as a stranger snooping around deep in the village😂 but to immediately be invited in for food, thats another level of hospitality. However I have a feeling that the fact that you speak Chinese very well has a lot to do with that. So you've more than earned the treatment. What a lovely lady!!!
This is literally like most African village life where even if you say you are full they will pack it for you to take...very nice to see so much similarities from people thousands of miles away.
“If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his own language, that goes to his heart.”
--- Nelson Mandela
But sadly it's staged and it's makes me think about every other encounter he had...
@@ceronibalsamar5352 how do you know?
This is not uncommon in rural China. Particularly for the old grandma to invite youngsters to have lunch.
shes treating him like her son, its so heartwarming ☺ this is how the world should be, wholesome and loving
The conversation is kinda awkward. Its always the same on repeat, lol.
agree. She's keeping her distance too. Stereotypes are rampart in the countryside@@timurkral3781
Your heart is so UGLY@@timurkral3781
@timurkral3781 not really. This is Chinese culture. It's not like here in the West where we move onto a new topic each time and get offended or annoyed when asked the same questions again and again. In China it's more like you'll be asked the same thing a few times as a way of expressing your feeling. For example let's say you got a girlfriend, they'll talk about that multiple times in a short time frame. Like "Oh she is so pretty" as a side comment if that makes sense. So they are talking without giving it much deep thought, it's an accompanying point to show their emotion. If you go to China and see hospitable people, you'll find people say "chi la" as in "eat" multiple times.
@@yeshuaislord6880 “chi le ma” = "sup"
It warmed my heart when she said "after studying, if you are able, come to China to see me". I really hope he comes back to visit her and brings her something
I believe he did. Brought her gifts too. czcams.com/users/shortsOYbZ-0DlpUs?si=yiuVVq-rjAO87kjh
He does
He did come back and meet her again. czcams.com/video/HmGT_QFlg5Y/video.html
@@Dave-gk8nlbest thing I’ve heard this week. 🥹🥹
After heard she asked this question, i jusr realised he hadn't even mentioned his name yet😂
The reason why one of the first things Chinese people (generally older) asks guests if they've eaten yet is because China went through famine and starvation for a period of time decades ago. They've lived through those years and understand the importance of food. They want to make sure that their guests/friends are never hungry.
Lol.. No man. This tradition goes back thousands of years, not a few decades. Asking if you've eaten as a form of greeting has been practiced across many dynasties.
@@Jkl62200 i think one thing does not exclude the other in this case.
@@Jkl62200 是的，在台灣也是。台灣的問候語，「吃了嗎？」
Asking people whether one has eaten just like saying hi in the past thousands of years, nowadays it's more between older folks who know each other well.
中国人打招呼就是“你吃了吗”“你吃过了吗”，如果你回答“还没吃饭”他们会邀请你去他们家里吃饭，他们做好了你还没有吃饭的准备，他们准备和你分享食物
As a German where hospitality is as rare of an occurence as a train that arrives on time, this is really mind-blowing and heart-warming for me to watch
I know some warm German people but very often the Common Impression is distant and distrust because it can become quiet Dangerous when people make Claims against you!
@@lovingmontasoccer Me too, but this kind of openness and trust towards a complete stranger, I honestly have never witnessed that.
As an implant from the Caribbean to Germany ( Schwäbisch Alp ) I experienced such hospitality. It depends where you live and I live in a small village.
Generally i agree with you. But i have been living in Germany for a long time myself and i met many generous and warm hearted german here too… german are a bit cold in the beginning but once you get to know them, they are very honest, warm and loyal people❤
@@lovingmontasoccer Germans are scared to speak their minds and be themselves. You can go to prison for certain views.
The way that she kept shoveling food into your bowl and encouraging you to eat was adorable 😂 what a lovely woman
Grandparents gotta love them 😂
This is all staged by the way.
@@FutaCatto2并不是你可以来中国看一看
@@FutaCatto2you’re sick
@@FutaCatto2 🤣 Don't think that what your country looks like, other countries must be like that. Two thousand five hundred years ago, when Confucius proposed benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom, and trustworthiness, and Mozi proposed universal love and non aggression, you Europeans were still wearing open crotch pants.
In the US, my Latina grandmother, God rest her soul, would sometimes invite people walking by her home to come in and eat. Grandfather would ask, “Who is this?” Grandmother would reply, “Oh it’s someone that walked by, they looked hungry.” (Conversation was in Spanish).
These grandmothers though. Hearts of gold. 💛
all the grandmas are same😂❤
Yes. She was explaining to her son who was wondering who came into the house in the early part of video
all the grandmas!
Latino people are also my favorite kind, they are so lovely, kind and always delightful, from a Chinese
there are always nice people everywhere in the world, no matter of country, race, religion, age..of course, bad people also. that is reasonable.
This is what is called old hospitality, and to welcome a complete stranger into one's home for a meal. No special occasion just friendship and hospitality and an opportunity to communicate. A mother's instinct is to feed and nurture and always over cooking and expect you to eat it all. God bless this wonderful mother and gentlemen.
love your comment !
This is so great.Thanks for your talk.
这个情况在中国是非常常见的，我们非常喜欢朋友们到家里来玩
Her son think it's normal too.
reminds me of the first time I went to China. I was at a mall and an old lady came to talk to me and gave me sweets. that was my introduction to China. my experience in China was amazing from then on, I even considered living there. I love and miss that country.
Come back again. Visa application is fully re-openning now.
yeah and people out here in the US trying to make us hate asians and saying they deserve to get beat and be hated cause " They're all racist" I had Black friends go to China and get so much love and warmth...
@@wanwanqusiwhat’s wrong with you?
I need you to tell this story more. Because so many Americans actually would not believe this because they have such a negative backward view of China
@@catsNcode true. I am not American btw
She doesn't smile much, almost looks grumpy at times, but her action speaks louder than her expressions. 😂She's so kind and welcoming, and obviously very proud that they use ingredients they grow to make the foods they eat.
主要是和一个外国人说话有点不适应，有时候还听不懂他在说什么，他还在拍视频，所以略显紧张。
If she was facing a Chinese person, she wouldn't be so nervous, but facing a foreigner, she didn't even sit down and looked very embarrassed.
Such a blessing to feed another woman’s son.
Out of the kindness of her heart.
Makes me tear up a bit.
I love to see it
Me too❤ really touching
your comment made me tear up a bit. so well said
Chinese and black are bestfriends 😂
She loves him like a mother.
It’s clear to see she is a village mother of the old way. She didn’t want to see you hungry or the food go to waste! It was a God sent opportunity for you both to connect and break the stereotypes
She loves him like a Son
@@Go4Broke247 Same fucking thing. 🙄. Obviously she would be like a mother if he is like a son
She's the village auntie who forces you to eat all her good food lol
She just wanted his bbc, dont forget she is human too and also get horny..
As a Chinese who only gets to visit home once every few years; this is an extremely accurate depiction of the more rural regions of the country. The people are immensely kind and many many front doors are just wide open - incredible sense of community. It's quite different from life in the cities - things are simpler and everyone is unbelievably warm. I guess we really do have a culture of feeding people hh. Thank you so much; I was smiling the whole way through the video.
说的道理
That's why i think as CZcamsrs we need to make more videos like this to show the reality in every country of how things really are. i'm just sorry when I lived in China I was too shy to make a CZcams channel. But yes this is the real China
i would love to have this experience just wholesome and being fed by old women makes me feel incredibly safe
@@MissLizaYangonMyanmargo back to your European country coloniser
It's everywhere in the world.
The people in rural area have exceptional love and respect to others also hospitable.
It looks like money and materials brig out the worst of human kind
When she asked you to come visit her after you graduate - thats a true human connection right there. Very touching.
I love that even though his Chinese tonal pronunciation is not always perfect, he's got SO many of the little mannerisms of speech down. The many non verbal gestural sounds and more casual native phrases. I suspect it reflects how much he committed to learning Chinese by embedding himself in the culture rather than simply book-learning. I really respect that, as it shows a kind of respect to culture and language that's rare nowadays!
Much love and respect from a Chinese brother!
I love her, she is feeding him like it's her grandson lol. He has a new grandma now.
@@restlessfae2407 What? Bruh we ourselves were slaves.
At least read something before commenting
@@restlessfae2407 if you pay taxes to the government then you are a slave to the government owners!😊
@@restlessfae2407 Slaves have existed since the beginning of civilizations, you didn't have to make it about african slaves specifically, the chinese empires have had eunuch slaves which had been kidnapped since young and castrated to serve the emperors for eternity. Asians have always had it worse.
@@Waterbug1591 people will always make it about African slaves even tho slavery existed in every part of the world 😂
@@Waterbug1591 不是的，太监不是被绑架的，太监几乎全是自愿的，因为在古代做太监是可以衣食无忧的
Do not forget to repay the kindness.
If possible, take the time to visit again, and bring some souvenirs, such as frui or anyting else, before you leave the village.
Not a must, but just to show your gratitude, and will be able to forge a better relationship in the future.
Great idea
When that lady said she was 70, i yellled loudly "WHAAAAT?" ....She doesn't look like a person with 70 years old. No way!
I would give 40 years old or something like that.
Chinese elderly people like to dye their hair to make themselves look younger
for asian standards i would have guessed 60. 70s was a shock for me too!
Not 40, I'm 43 and I'm far from looking like an aunty lol. But I'd say 50 to 55. My mind is blown as well.
The part where she tells you to pick up the bowl to eat. PRICELESS. Her side eye made me chuckle so much. You definitely made her day I bet.
Im Zambian and I lived in China for 6 years and I can’t count the number of times I was invited to eat with strangers !! The older ones always ask if you have eaten and are so quick to feed you😂… racism still exists in China but such people make it a better place ❤
Those uneducated Chinese (she mentioned she can't read in the video) can be the most simple people you can find. It is sad racism still exists, especially toward the black.
yes
have you ever met racism？from kids or men？
first time ive seen a zed commenter in a youtube video 💀
@@wakkaka yes I have,the most racist people in China are male… and I’ve experienced it from kids too but it’s passed down to them,otherwise it’s not intentional with the kids
2:50 makes me almost wanna cry. That warm question "你吃饭了没有？没吃我们家有饭吃“ (Have you eaten? Not eaten yet? We have food at our home here". This simple greeting culture that shows how a nation that been through starvation, but continue to generously offer food for anyone because they knows how it feels like to have no food and starved...
😢
Wow. Thanks for enlightening us with this information. While I am sorry that they had to go through such horrible times, I am likewise almost in tears seeing that such love and generosity came out of it. I hope they may enjoy health and prosperity. What a beautiful culture.
It’s true. Back in the days of my grandma and grandpa, ppl starve becoz of war. Even my mother is not well fed when she was young. 8 ppl living in an insane tiny apartment in Hong Kong. When I go to primary school, invited my school firend some of them are Indian and Italian. My mom made a ton of food and force them to finished it😂
是這樣的 因為中國人真正經受過饑餓 所以現在一些農村的人們見面都會互相問：吃了嗎？
你不懂不要张嘴就来行不行，混账玩意@@user-sw7gq3di7d
In China, if you go to a convenience store to ask for money, you are likely to be seen as a scammer. But if you say you haven't eaten for several days, then you will be overwhelmed by the food. When you leave, they will also bring you enough food and water.
Bro I just went to China for the first time 2 weeks ago and came back to New Zealand last week and the hospitality there for people who look like us (I'm Fijian) is insane, like I feel more like a human in China than I do in New Zealand, especially when I'm in the white areas. In China, they treat you like a human, and it seems like it's the case for all of China. They're aren't divided about skin color, race, religious differences, gender, pro nouns, and politics unlike the west which explains why they've become so much more advanced than the west. We can take a lot of notes from the Chinese people. I have Chinese bloodline from my great grand father so I just feel a deeper sense of loyalty for China at this point. The hospitality I received despite communication barrier is making me want to learn mandarin, and do business with the Chinese.
I've been studying Chinese philosophy for almost a year. And I'm pretty sure that all the love they have in them come from some of their ancient philosophies, especially Confucianism.
Their virtue is based on treating others better then yourself, and only then would you be consider a human being. To be human, is to engage with love towards another, and only then you can become a human being and understand who you really are.
It just shows us how much loveable Chinese people can be despite the still bad facade that we often and sadly sees from medias.
Very interesting, thank you for the comment.
it's true and the west wants to make China sound evil. No China is not the best but neither is a lot of other countries!
I am Chinese and I welcome you to travel to China and experience its unique culture.@@bodhi2350
i am chinese , and most of what you say is true, but just to temper your expectations a little bit ,there will always be some people who aren't that friendly with you.
Thank you for telling the world the real China. The people of China are warm and hospitable, not as disgusting and evil as some countries say.
There is good and bad everywhere
Village people are probs much nicer
nobody thinks the people are overall bad its the government
@@rafiqtsm1451 there is MOSTLY BAD in western countries
Bro when I watched this, it gives me hope in humanity. I can't imagine in Western countries people opening their doors to total strangers, specially for foreigners and showing gr8 hospitality. One day I would love to visit China!
As much hate and evil that is being pushed through the social media stream I still believe in love because of this video right here. She invited you in and asked if you’ve eaten yet 💙 The world and all of these different cultures are so fascinating and beautiful 🙌🏼
Big Time
@@ChenyangGao-zw3tp My goal is to go to China and experience it myself 🙌🏼 One day
Believe in God 🙏🏿
@@kudzai63 Of course bro 🙌🏼
@@kudzai63 has nothing to do with god. 50 million chinese people died during the great famine so their greeting is 'have u eaten yet'? has nothing to do with a sky fairy.
As an asian person, the auntie fed you like how she would feed family, thats amazing. What honest character, really soul touching
She was extra nice. Just next time, don't double, triple, quadruple dip in all the food. Scoop all of your food in your plate, then eat. She tried to hint at it by saying "If there were an epidemic, I will not invite you to eat!" Then she shoved all the food on your plate. The family that eats after you has to eat with with your saliva on their food. Just a pointer if you want to keep getting invited for food. ❤
I was thinking exactly the same thing 😂
Yea that is right but a lot of the Asian folks be eating like that so I think it’s normal
@@danielchheng2958if you are family yes that's fine. But for someone you don't know, mono is real and also if you have herpes. Not saying he does at all but those things you gotta be more careful.
fr even if you are quite literally going to be eating food straight from the plate, you still give a show of bringing your chopsticks to your bowl before eating because it’s seen as rude to eat straight from the plate like it’s your own when others are eating from it. no worries tho ppl r still learning ❤
As I chinese, you may dip in food many times. But don't leave the rice on your chopstickes to the dishes. That's not good table manner in China.
My heart would be leaping through my chest but maan you've grown more balls while still being respectful to local people and culture!! Thanks for representing us Africans out there with your charm and good manners. Many African CZcamsrs have decided to be disrespectful and call it fun just to get views.
我是中国人，没有种族歧视，欢迎其他国家有礼貌的人来中国旅游工作❤
来中国，我请你吃饭
@@user-bz9pi4cn8s 真的吗
我今年 10 月要来中国度假 3 周哈哈哈
@@ningguo3207 中国有三种人，一种是爱包括黑人兄弟在内的所有外国人，一种是只爱白人外国人，一种是不爱任何一种外国人。
@@ningguo3207nah discrimination is everywhere.
Confucious said: It's a pleasure to have friends visiting from the far away. The village people abide the traditions more than city people.
The gentle way she asked immediately if you had eaten.. aaa so sweet. “We have food here” and not “what are you doing here in a random village” :”)
This lady is sooo sooo sweet. I’m so happy there are kind people in China willing to invite us as blacks in thier home to eat a meal and treat us as human beings.
The last I heard Africans were being forced to sleep in the streets. I was so sadden by this.
Watching from the USA 🇺🇸 as an African American.
I Love this lady.
Bro,before 2012, Chinese people were not hostile to foreigners. Due to changes in the international situation, this hostility only appeared in the past ten years. The media in every country is deliberately cultivating prejudice and hatred... For a long time, Chinese media and textbooks have been calling black people "our African brothers"
Media is controlled by the gov. All politics are evil doent matter which country they represent! Human are kind politics is what make people evil
I'm in Montreal Canada watching a man from Western Africa eat at a grandma's house in a village of China and I'm fascinated.
Thank you for sharing this great cultural experience !
lmao im from mtl and im chinese
Internet is wonderful, isn't it?
Salut! I'm in Montreal at the moment as well! Montreal summer is the best!
@@yiyang6559 I have the same Chinese name as u
Hey I'm from Montreal as well. Salut mon ami
The hospitality of Chinese people in general is real (especially countryside). Very open and giving. I'm so glad you got to experience that exchange.
This goes for many rural communities, not just in China.
你好！我是洛杉矶的David，你的中文很棒！我很惊讶！点赞！👍
为什么评论区大多数是说令人反感的英语的？英语连翻译功能也没法用。
Thank you for making this wholesome yet educational video to show the world the true Chinese hospitality that many do not get to ever see unfortunately. I nearly forgot myself as a Chinese American from a very similar village myself. This brought back so much emotions.
This was super wholesome. Things like this make me realize that life is still worth living for
Exactly
If you get a chance, travel overseas in a poorer country. You get a lot of good experiences which help you appreciate your life.
This was a propaganda piece, especially since he is from "Ghana". They are definitely investing in Ghana because of the resources currently. I would bet half these people commenting are bots.😊
@@drunkeroc and you are?! A sad and mindless bigot? Can you just crawl back to the dark corner where you are from and just STFU with all your negativity.
@@drunkerocsmh. Get help with ur western propaganda bs. This is really common in their culture, whenever ur hungry they will invite u to eat at a restaurant or at home.
I love the fact that it is a common way to greet people by asking "have you eaten yet" in China. And I really like that how she really worried about his hunger. What a lovely people and culture.
most of thousand years in our history , people were suffered from hunger , so keep everyone has food to eat is the most important thing in our culture. giving food to other ones is the best virtue, but wasting food is the worst behavior
Well, he did pay her soo….it’s staged dude….
@@maxitosh8465 proof
It’s right there in front of you….for example: when the husband walks in and talks to the Aunti …. what they say to each other doesn’t reflect a chance encounter. It’s staged dude. Even if you don’t speak Mandarin it’s quite obvious…not trying to disrespect the video or creator, just pointing out the abundantly clear fact that this wasn’t a chance encounter.
So where's the proof? Actual proof? Thi sis only your guess bruh she askedvfor proof not how you came to that conclusion. Do you know what proof means? PROOF
Nearly teared up watching this, she’s so sweet. I’m working on my Chinese but you’ve inspired me to get good faster so I can travel.
I am Chinese and I welcome you to travel to China and experience its unique culture.
You don’t need to speak Chinese to travel in China
As a Chinese person, I can tell you are still learning Chinese, because some of the translations are hilariously wrong 😂 but I love how open and friendly you are, and how honestly good your Chinese is for a foreigner. Love it, man. Keep up the good videos!
China is very nice and this generosity is wonderful
What’s the best way to learn?
@@MiaMya396 You may try watching old dramas, not the new one, the old TVB drama
Are you from mainland china?
As a non Chinese person, anything chinese sounds fluent to me 😂😂😂
This video shows why many men love old traditional ways & cultures. Hes seen her for 4 min shes already offering him food like a family member. This guy has inspired me to learn as kuch Mandarin as possible
villlage girls > city girls XD
Take care that is not common at all in China. ( well is not common anywhere ... )
@@luthier78 Common in Brazil.
@@luthier78 Very common in parts of asia, eastern europe too...inviting stranger in home to eat is completely normal.
@@luthier78 yes, huge metropolitan cities are contaminated with Status, greeds and selfishness, unless you are in a real tight group of people, whom may help each other, even that, it is not like “Simple Villagers” especially in China. Villagers are simple, they welcome guests and will help anyone in need or less fortunate than they are, it is in Chinese philosophies and teachings for thousands of years.❤️from 🇨🇦🇨🇳🇭🇰
With so much divisiveness going on, beautiful, wholesome videos like these are more crucially needed! I'm sure Auntie was super happy to feed you and not have food go to waste!
Grandma will never be defeated bro. No matter the language you can't defeat her and her urge to feed you. I like what you are doing and can't waith for more content.
❤️🥂
I've never been to China 🇨🇳 but I have extra respect for this beautiful woman for letting a complete stranger into her house.
I just thought of something I shouldn't say because of your comment, let it lie down where it is then.
easy girls😂😂😂
Well she's obviously not doing that alone her son is right there😂
@@ziyuanhe860脑子是个好东西，可惜你没有
She kicked right into mom mode the second u walked in, seriously some of the most genuine love a human can give is to make sure others are fed and healthy, hope you and this awesome lady live long prosperous lives!
I can't decide if it was 'mom mode' or 'we don't want to waste food mode'
@@neepers both
This is mind blowing ! She’s so nice and you’re showing China at a whole new level that we’ve never seen before !
this is so beautiful. People definitely open up their hearts to you when you speak their mother tongue. Not to mention country folks are universally trusting and kind usually. Thanks for sharing 💖
I love how she’s so nurturing the universal language for grand mothers, mothers and aunties world wide.
🤣🤣🤣 I don't like being nurtured although it doesn't hurt. It makes me feel like I owe the person.
@@Accuface2000you have issues
@bluBlaq33 - You are autistic. Take a chill pill. It's so scary you don't have a sense of humour.
@@Accuface2000be meek and mild. Lowly. Humble. Thankful and authentic.
@dontdie777 - If you had an above average IQ you would get what I mean. That's why school is important. Maybe you are used to welfare checks and freeloading. Most likely you wouldn't dish out loads of food to a stranger in your country, you just want to take advantage of other people. Beggar mentality is toxic. Self discipline is very important. I refuse money and other stuff when I don't need it, and I make sure to pay back everything that I owe. I certainly don't like being dependent on other people. How long will you stay in your mum's basement, grow up. People are not attracted to beggars, they are attracted to people with values.
In the United States, they would have called the cops on you, and you probably would have lost your life.
yeah sadly
In some states, they just shot strangers because of their 2nd amendment rights😂
Sad but probably true.
So who is more civilised
China.
Thank you Fel. Because of you I know how is the life in a Chinese village. Good and friendly people. I must say thay your video invites me to go there. Plus you got healthy food. The best. Cheers from Mexico 🇲🇽
You speak so well and your mannerisms of being humble is awesome!
Thank you so much
She's one of those mothers that likes to watch people enjoy her good cooking❤
So this lady just invites a total stranger in and just... feeds you a feast. This is mind blowing hospitality!!!
We are put on this earth to love and care for one another. This is great to see.
Oh man the beauty is so profound. Blessed to have witnessed this. Thank you for sharing.
Man's living the dream, walks into the village, gets a homecooked meal. Big ups to him for learning the language so well, people appreciate that.
Wow, language opens so many doors. Imagine traveling the world and being able to speak to anyone, they'll always warm up to you easily and feed you amazing food.
It'll be possible soon with AI
So hilarious. Grandma grabbed the Chopsticks and served him the sides onto his rice bowl....DUDE, for a reason. Like, dude, stop sticking your chopsticks in all the plates 😂 grandma looks disturbed. Now he just stuck his Chopsticks in the other plate in what she did not scoop any of that food into his Rice Bowl. Then he put the meat back in the plate as she walked over to it, giving it a deep stare. LOL I am dying laughing over here.
你是对的，兄弟😂
😂你一定是一个观察仔细的人，中国人吃饭有很多餐桌礼仪，老太太有点诧异，但是中国人一般不会当面指出这一点，何况他是一个外国人，对这方面不了解可以原谅。
lol😂😂😂
我的天作为中国人我都没有意识到😂😂😂
But putting back a meat to a plate is tabooo not just in china, but all over the world 😂
Wow this is amazing & excellent hospitality. God Bless her!
Wow, you are awesome. I hope my Chinese can be as good as yours soon, Fel. That Chinese lady is so kind. Village Chinese people are the best. I had this interaction while living in a village during my first year in China.
Hi Sabrina! Good to see you here. I love your channel too!
Fel was under tremendous pressure to eat the full meal.
Thanks for bringing us this content.
Yes, the older generation in China is particularly afraid of waste because they have experienced hunger. In the past, they had no food and could only eat bark, wild vegetables, or even soil. When I was a child, if I wasted food, I would be beaten by my parents
It is like that for every granny haha
@@cloudwithwind574 it;s like that in lots of countries.haha
You are very humble mate, good luck with your channel!
This is the wholesome stuff I like to see on CZcams. Basic living is sufficient for many folks in the world and they are some of the nicest.
I felt it when he said “A black man getting this treatment Bruh!” This warmed my heart to see that not everyone see us all the same! Respect to this Auntie and her family
Isn’t this a normal thing? …..
@@LiyueHuman unfortunately no
@@LiyueHumanwish it was man
Where I come from we are brothers as long as a person is good and kind. Color doesn't matter.
For Chinese people, black people, white people, hispanics (actually, to us, hispanics are just white people unless they have darker skin then they're black people lol... to us, there's only Asian, i.e chinese, korean, japanese, white and black) - they're all just foreigners. They're all the same, because there is no history of enslaving a foreign race (based in color) in chinese history.
Chinese people have always shown me kindness here in the US. I am Trinidadian-American, so I shop for and know the food. People really appreciate when you respect their culture and food. Can’t wait to one day visit China!
欢迎欢迎
Yes, Chinese Trini food is amazing.
Showing the world about the spirit of chinese hospitality. Subscribed!
Thanks for recording this! It's great for learning Chinese haha. I kept going back to look at the 漢字。
I’m about to cry watching this. I wish the whole world can be like this. ❤
I second this. It's heart warming moments like these that makes God proud of us and puts a smile on his face.
@@evanurena8868amen 🙏
It is known by everyone in China , but not by many in the west ! Chinese researchers did DNA and ancestry tracing and found that Black Africans founded China , so this Aunty is feeding her cousin from Africa ! One Love ! Africans Unite!
@@rykson161yes it's true, I always thought that some Chinese have humility like in Africa they are like a family like for example in Morocco the elderly people are very humble in Europe for example this is hard to find
Unfortunately most can't be trusted
I love this video: Fel just has a way that makes me smile a lot and makes me wanna learn Chinese too. What a super cool video;
This lady was so sweet.. she could have been any of our grandma's the love is universal always begins with have you eaten, then immediately putting food in front of you .. bless her soul..
Auntie is an international hostess sensation!
I really like how she dignified her guest by making sure he was comfortable in her home without reservations.
Thank you! 😊
She is an example of a beautiful soul.
Your comment is one of the most beautiful ones. 🕊
I actually watched the whole thing. Awesome clip. Welcome to China🎉🎉
kindness from strangers are always heart touching and in China you will receive a lot of warm feelings from people.
Bro! This is so wholesome! I live in NYC 🇺🇸 and I envy the life you live lol. To be able to walk around small villages like this and meet locals and have that connection with strangers. You speak and understand the language so well. I hope one day I can get fluent like this. Blessings brotha! 👊🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Ha can you imagine this happening in NYC?! In all likelihood YOU will be the meal 😂
Wellcome to China anytime
Is New York very unsafe? I'm not sure. I'm Chinese.@@bookaltd
Welcome to China and you won't be disappointed.
I randomly came across this video. So heartwarming to see this grandma invite a total stranger into her house and feeding you like you're her grandson 😂
❤much love for this lady. She has a pure heart and truly wants to help others. :) she was very welcoming and loving as a individual which is rare to find these days!! Many people are not as trusting or welcoming. But she definitely has a great ❤️
You deserve all the kindness from this lovely auntie and her family
This video is very important. Because the Western media is claiming that China discriminates against other races because of the box office problem of the Little Mermaid. In fact, there is no concept of racial discrimination in China at all.
I don't like this movie, I don't discriminate against black people, but I hate this political correctness.
I live in Canada 🇨🇦 and I too will not watch it. Yes, canada too, has too much political correctness.
The American media become rubish
Only saying things to hurt china
中国没有种族歧视，我们认为56个民族是一家人，一家人为什么要歧视，甚至在互联网还没普及的时候，我们中国人都不知道有种族歧视这个词
Racism is more common in the western culture. This is why these western media like to point finger at others because they project everyone is racist like them. To divide and conquer has been part of western colonial tool. People are not born racist. But the society make it ok to discriminate. Just like the little mermaid movie is trying to promote certain political correctness values. But I rather prefer a society promote values such as hard work and dedication than the skin color.
This is wholesome. Im from NYC and this would never happen. A stranger being invited into someones home for food is almost impossible, people arent trusting and they dont care about anyone elses story. Everyone is self absorbed and too afraid to act this way and its a shame. This is refreshing and i love how genuine the interaction is. Sweet aunty, gives me a different perspective on people.
The woman is just so caring and full of love. Just as a mother will treat her own son. Nice video
Watching your channel too Mike, trying like heck to figure out where you come from. I've never heard an accent like yours, the closest I can think of is New Zealand.
@@BobKnight-mm2ze Thanks for following me Pal.
@@mikeraynaldo3454 Listen, man, I appreciate what you do. Love your cute girlfriend, so natural and friendly. I just watched your video from the 3 days ago, just NOW. And you're from Cameroon? Wow, there's a guy I communicate with in Russia who has a channel, you and he sound nothing alike. So I need to learn more about Cameroon.
7:41 if you noticed, she pushed the parts that he touched with his chopsticks and dropped rice into the dishes. normally, you would not use the utensils that made contact with your saliva with the main dishes unless you’re going to finish it all. Otherwise it may go bad.
She was just let him eat more.I am a Chinese.
it's a kind way，The old lady just want him eat more.
I just love seeing more and more people break stereotypes. I grew up moving countries and was met with a lot of ignorance but also racism. Two different things and I think ignorance leads to people saying racist things, especially when they're angry or upset. But truly, they don't HATE us or them or whoever we're talking about. I was a brown man always in places where my people didn't exist. Maybe one other South American but never a Colombian. And I heard all the jokes. I lean into them now. Because I learned to not be offended. Especially in Colombia, they give you nicknames, tease you, joke around a lot, so you have to have thick skin or you get offended and hurt every day pretty much 😂.
Anyway, thank you once again. So beautiful to see people try to be open and see it's ok and breaking their own perspectives and old ways of seeing things.
I love that lady. If I was rich I would bless her with alot of money. No one here in the USA would welcome someone into their home for a meal like that. I love Chinese culture and this makes me love it even more. 🇨🇳 🇺🇸
I know you mean well with the "reward" but really it's not even about that. Just love and learn and be open, I bet she would love if you took those lessons with you and applied them to your own life over some money.
You will get a bullet in USA
因为在我们中国大陆没有种族歧视 也不排外 治安非常棒 是个温暖安全的地方 我们不会给黑种人和白种人取蔑称 外号😊 来到这里都是客人 我们非常欢迎
@@user-di7hi6pj6cbing chilling, bing chilling!
@@user-di7hi6pj6c尼哥是不是外号😏
I felt the hospitality too. Good for you man. Auntie is so warm, very motherly when she invited you to have lunch.
It was so heartwarming how she just asked you if you ate and she fed you. All that food looks so delicious!
I love how she keeps saying eat eat , such lovely and warm reception 😀😀
As a Chinese, I have to admit that there are plenty of my fellow countrymen who are unapologetically racist. (at least when observed online)
I am certain Fel here must have experienced some level of racist aggression.
That is why I am even more grateful to his videos, as he has made a conscious choice to embrace the goodness from the people of my country, to celebrate it, and tell the world about it.
You deserve all the kindness and more my friend.
Thank you.
谢谢你，朋友！
this is paid promotion video
@@rvansteensel420 How do you know?
@@felisasininus1784 cause china pays off influencers all the time
@@felisasininus1784 they pay for the flight and stay and pay em for saying good stuff about china
@@rvansteensel420 How do you know any of this? Do you have a source of information?
I remember I went to visit Xi Shuang Ban Na, Yunnan province. I was cycling through a village, then got invited to a wedding and had lovely food with beautiful local people ❤❤
Hard to believe this is real. I live in a European country as foreigner ... one of the richest in the world ... never it happens to be invited spontaneously. All what people have in mind is filling their own pockets, living like in a gated community only focussing on own family. To meet friends it needs weeks to plan in advance. Time to pack my stuff and find a place where people still have an open heart
Such an adorable and friendly lady. ❤❤ I love good hearted people.
After knowing some of the Chinese culture, you may start to understand why China can develop so fast.
He didn’t even know Chinese drink soap and porridge everyday after living in China so long
I'm sure it has nothing to do with the communist government jailing & killing people for not going along with their plan. Mao knowingly killed millions of people on purpose in the name of speedy progress. Don't get me wrong, I love Chinese people & culture, I really actually do..... But let's be real here.......
@@weizhang2834 SOUP not SOAP you funny guy, we Chinese don't drink soap, we use soap to clean. Don't mess around man!!!!
this is actually normal in China. The majority of Chinese people are very hospitable, especially if they see you are making an effort to be respectful.
most places are its just that their government is insane.
From inviting him to her home to offering a seat at her table. To serving him her food and encouraging him to finish dishes... I was touched at her kindness and generosity. Fel says he is not proficient with chopsticks, but I disagree. I love how he has the "when in Rome" approach.
Very well said. Thank you
In fact, in most parts of China, the way to greet someone is: "Have you eaten? What have you been busy with recently?"
If one is in America walking around, he/she would have been welcomed with bullets instead of love!
The beauty of these Chinese people are they will give and share with people, especially when others are less fortunate than themselves (villagers) and No matter how poor themselves (villagers) are. 👏❤️👍.
Thanks for showing this unique side of Chinese Culture and Traditions. It is in the Chinese philosophies and teachings, revealed in a Socialist managed society. ❤️from 🇨🇦🇨🇳🇭🇰
@@olubibabalola Haha, true!
They can call the police, then the state agent sends an innocent person to the cemetery and life goes on.
😂😂😂 that's true especial in Chicago n Brooklyn
CHINA IS HEAVEN ❤❤👍
america IS THE WORST PLACE ON EARTH
This is another level of respect and generosity. I love this very similar to my culture, Brazilians are like that out of the big cities. Lovely lady.
This is a prime example of how beautiful humanity can be
Omg. Love the experience for you. Happy for you. Good eats and safe travels. ❤❤❤