What’s It Like Being Black In China in 2021? | Street Interview

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  • čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
  • Can you imagine living as a minority in a largely homogeneous society? We recently had the chance to ask a group of black people about their experiences in Korea and Japan. To conclude this series, today we hit the streets of Shanghai to see what it's like being black in China in 2021.
    0:00 - Intro
    2:07- Concerns prior to coming to China
    4:21 - How has the BLM movement been received in China?
    7:00 - Stereotypes toward black people in China
    9:47 - Challenges of being black in China
    12:15 - Have you ever been discriminated against?
    14:09 - Changes in the perception toward black people
    15:25 - Positive aspects of being black in China
    17:45 - Message
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  • @AsianBoss
    @AsianBoss  Před 5 měsíci +4

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  • @DaraGeorge
    @DaraGeorge Před 3 lety +8228

    "it's exhausting to have your skin be political" sheeshh that's a word

  • @sisssss6827
    @sisssss6827 Před 3 lety +6383

    My experience in China was waaay better then Korea. Idk I’m African but Chinese seemed more educated on Africa. Whereas in Korea, they viewed me pretty low when I said I was African not African American. In China, a lot of the older folks seemed very humble. They understood a lot about poverty and remember what they went through.

    • @mangos1346
      @mangos1346 Před 3 lety +916

      Koreans are maniac about white skins so you know...

    • @presidentjiang6762
      @presidentjiang6762 Před 3 lety +366

      @@mangos1346 Chinese too, I’m not sure who is more obsessed with white skin

    • @pinkcowbluedolphin
      @pinkcowbluedolphin Před 2 lety +377

      @Daruki Neo not sure if you were trying to say that koreans (or most east asian countries, as far as i am aware) worship europeans because of their generally light skin tones or it was for another reason, but if you were implying the first, keep in mind the preference of light skin came from ancient times where it indicated ones social hierarchy; the poor who worked in fields all day were tanned, and the royals who never had to work were pale.

    • @user-pm2zv9fs5r
      @user-pm2zv9fs5r Před 2 lety +424

      @Daruki Neo as a chinese, some of us would worship european people too. it's really scary how obsessive it is

    • @AW-rv6fz
      @AW-rv6fz Před 2 lety +264

      Weibo is scary tho, anytime there's a post about black people trending on there, you can always find some very racists comments with a ton of likes

  • @aijiexi
    @aijiexi Před 2 lety +326

    I was in China 10 years ago. I was the only black person in my district, (my coworker lived in Dahua). The fact that you found this many black people in Shanghai shakes me! Before I left the States, I knew that I was going to a homogeneous nation. Therefore I decided that I was going to (1) speak Mandarin as much as possible, and (2) smile and make friends. When people would stare at me, I would always smile and wave and say, 您好!I had such good experiences and conversations that way. I had places I frequented and I was welcomed and accepted for patronizing their business. When I left, I was honored with gifts of appreciation. I even went out a couple times (I worked a great deal and it was exhausting so this was rare), and I was never shown the door. Listening to jazz at the Long Peace Hotel on The Bund was one of the best experiences of my life. I think it's more exhausting remembering that I should be equal instead of changing the narrative of my difference. I miss Shanghai, I would love to go back.

    • @felisasininus1784
      @felisasininus1784 Před rokem +42

      As a Chinese national witnessing too much racism towards dark-skinned people in China, I'd venture to say, you make an effort to bring in that positivity with you to our country, and it made a huge difference.
      It helped you defeat the odds, and helped you earn a wholesome experience, and I respect you for this achievement.
      The country is definitely becoming more and more accepting and inclusive, to the point that even gay people can mostly be openly gay now. (as long as they don't have monsters for parents)
      Hopefully one day no one in China will bat an eye when they see a half-Chinese half-black person.
      But even if that day doesn't come anytime soon, we'd love to have you back again whenever you want!
      It is a great pleasure to have friends coming from afar! 有朋自远方来,不亦乐乎!

    • @eamoncat
      @eamoncat Před rokem +5

      @@felisasininus1784 You guys are very funny, in a good way. A black person with a name in Chinese Pinyin and a Chinese national with a name in a language I don't recognize, lol!

    • @felisasininus1784
      @felisasininus1784 Před rokem +3

      @@eamoncat Thanks, i guess.
      My handle is in latin, bit pretentious I know... But it simply means 'asinine/stupid cat'.

    • @eamoncat
      @eamoncat Před rokem +1

      @@felisasininus1784 Oh that reminds me the official name of cat felis catus.

    • @kriztoppa
      @kriztoppa Před rokem +2

      Black people tend to stick together in Asia.

  • @youngsuit
    @youngsuit Před 2 lety +74

    i really respect how authentic this is. it doesn't feel like there's an agenda here, moreso just talking about the experience overall including the good and the bad

    • @jameswang362
      @jameswang362 Před 11 měsíci

      I too like that, and didn't realize it it until I read your comment.
      I find that such videos are more useful and powerful when the attitude behind is neutral.

    • @aaronrodgers9202
      @aaronrodgers9202 Před 7 měsíci

      The agenda is them trying to make it look like China is great to the rest of the world lol. They literally can't say how it truly is or their visas will be revoked go wwatch the China fact checkers you will see how disgusting china is right now

    • @KAXSH
      @KAXSH Před měsícem

      If they say only positive stuff then you would say it’s an agenda.
      If it’s negative then it’s more “honest”

    • @youngsuit
      @youngsuit Před měsícem

      @@KAXSH it just makes a person more skeptical. but i have enough Black friends that have been to China to know that they feel treated well there

  • @MrTurtleThief
    @MrTurtleThief Před 3 lety +2034

    Damn, they've been married almost a decade and he hasn't met her extended family as a group... it's the kind of polite disrespect I hate the most

    • @bloodsugar4092
      @bloodsugar4092 Před 3 lety +187

      Yeah I was startled as well

    • @LoyaltyQueen
      @LoyaltyQueen Před 3 lety +245

      thats not even polite disrespect honestly so sad

    • @s1050
      @s1050 Před 3 lety +476

      That is awful and I feel so sorry for that guy. I feel bad because I’m white and my Chinese in-laws treat me really well, buy me things and take me to meet the whole family even though I can’t have a full conversation in Chinese. If I were black I think it would be a different story. It’s racism in the older generation and I hope it changes.

    • @o.g.millennials
      @o.g.millennials Před 3 lety +330

      @@s1050 Of course, it would be different, silly. There's a racial hierarchy and you're on top.

    • @user-pr9vi4ze4j
      @user-pr9vi4ze4j Před 3 lety +296

      This is "cold violence", a common part of Chinese mother-in-law culture.
      When her daughter married a man she was dissatisfied with, she refused to meet. In the past few decades, this kind of thing has happened constantly.
      Even the two of them will run away and stay away from home forever.
      Ancient Chinese novels and myths and legends (seven fairies) continue to have such stories.
      But I am not denying the occurrence of racial discrimination. It's just that the man in the video suffered even more serious "cold violence" because of his skin.
      China’s mother-in-law culture is more typical of thinking that her son-in-law must allow herself to have a "face" in front of neighbors on the street.
      Being rich, filial, respecting the elders, giving birth to many children in the family, having a house, and having to let her daughter go home to see her parents every year, there are many indicators. Many Chinese men are reluctant to get married. This is also a major reason for the low fertility rate and low marriage rate in modern China.
      The mother-in-law has a very high status in the whole family and will directly interfere with her daughter's marriage.
      This black man is a typical victim of mother-in-law culture. Not only because he is black. I have also seen women who married white men. He belongs to the working class below the middle class, and his life is not as rich as imagined. The mother-in-law is a very "realistic" person. She does not allow her daughters and their children to go home to visit their parents. She thinks it is "shameful"-this is a very serious behavior in China that hurts the feelings of mother and daughter.
      The bigger reason is that she will be treated with strange eyes from the outside world. China is a society where people are closely connected, and this kind of problem cannot be ignored. Unless another thirty years.

  • @gzuo5973
    @gzuo5973 Před 3 lety +2728

    I was studying in Chinese high school before, our English teacher was a black man, he is so funny and we all loved him!

    • @chiiiah
      @chiiiah Před 3 lety +57

      I have one too haha

    • @JRYin
      @JRYin Před 3 lety +213

      I had an African-American English teacher in high school, he graduated from Yale and worked in UN for many years before he came to China. We all repescted him.

    • @faa1412
      @faa1412 Před 2 lety +64

      @@JRYin Now that's good to know, especially we hear the discrimination stories of how companies are reluctant to hire black people for teaching jobs.

    • @kimjongun5073
      @kimjongun5073 Před 2 lety +14

      Would you still have loved him if he was not funny 🤨

    • @gzuo5973
      @gzuo5973 Před 2 lety +142

      @@kimjongun5073 Well, if he is not funny or he doesn’t have a lovable personality ,we might love him less , but not because he is black. No matter he is white or Asian or black, if this person doesn’t have a nice personality I guess all will be loved less

  • @cooperpan
    @cooperpan Před 2 lety +43

    There's one thing that I always mentioned: China has a population that is bigger than the whole American continent and European continent combined, so even if there're 10,000,000 people that are racist, that's still less than 1% of the overall population. You can't define the whole country based on several racists, just like the same way you won't define the entire western world

    • @zxty34
      @zxty34 Před 2 lety +14

      Yes but you can determine certain patterns based on the cultural attitudes. Regardless whether “1 percent of the Chinese people are prejudice”, the overall Chinese attitude deems dark skin as unfavorable. And people need to address realities rather than deflecting. Same goes for the west.

    • @sir_humpy
      @sir_humpy Před 2 lety +6

      There are a couple things to consider. First, any monoethnic culture is not used to diversity by default and will naturally be diffident towards others. A second thing is more Asia-specific. There is a cult of whiteness or rather your skin being lighter than average in countries like India, Bangladesh, Japan, Korea and China. It's historical, going back thousands of years and related to the fact that whiter skin was an indicator of a more noble status, that you basically don't work the fields for living. Just check the popularity of skin-whitening products in those countries. While European-stock cultures are on the contrary obsessed with having a nice tan.

  • @harii6316
    @harii6316 Před 2 lety +76

    I always come back and watch this video from time to time💜 Thanks Asian Boss for allowing me to be a part of this and share my experiences 💜 I’ve def become more open minded since moving here

  • @shaye7282
    @shaye7282 Před 3 lety +2351

    I’m half black and I really liked this series, I think Asian boss should interview south Asians and south East Asians on what it’s like living in East Asian next.

    • @desibabe18
      @desibabe18 Před 3 lety +25

      I agree!

    • @abandonedfragmentofhope5415
      @abandonedfragmentofhope5415 Před 3 lety +144

      I want them to do an episode of being Black in India.

    • @warcatbattalion
      @warcatbattalion Před 3 lety +54

      >should interview south Asians and south East Asians on what it’s like living in East Asian next
      lol nobody cares about brown asians. people only care about american blacks. why do you think they keep making this "being black in xxx conutry" videos?

    • @psychogenesis6755
      @psychogenesis6755 Před 3 lety +4

      @@abandonedfragmentofhope5415 Black I'm the Philippines? Or New Guinea 🇵🇬

    • @shaye7282
      @shaye7282 Před 3 lety +135

      @@warcatbattalion all you do is comment weird racist things on videos, get a life

  • @jquiizondeck
    @jquiizondeck Před 3 lety +3068

    Thank you Asian Boss for giving me the platform to share a piece of my China experience! It's beautiful to see the positive discussions & takeaways in the comments. 🙏🏾

    • @jquiizondeck
      @jquiizondeck Před 3 lety +64

      @@0x0xcf would be a pleasure, Africa is paradise.

    • @Ben-ob4to
      @Ben-ob4to Před 3 lety +31

      @@jquiizondeck that reply ain’t it man. Really loved hearing your insights in the video 👏

    • @mikeyangyang8816
      @mikeyangyang8816 Před 3 lety +66

      That reply is just a stupid troll. Thank you for speaking out. As a Chinese, I welcome foreigners in China. A lot people, if not all people around me look at foreigners just as everyone else, but that is blocked by language. I see a lot of schools welcome foreigners to come, i think that is a good effort to internationalize China. I understand the troubles that foreigners face in China, but I really feel it is just a barrier. It can be crossed with effort and time.

    • @dipubalamurugan3331
      @dipubalamurugan3331 Před 3 lety +11

      @@0x0xcf BrUH thats seriously insensitive and fked up Man

    • @jquiizondeck
      @jquiizondeck Před 3 lety +8

      @@Ben-ob4to much appreciated, Ben!

  • @alembess9129
    @alembess9129 Před 2 lety +60

    11:22 I started tearing up listening to this teacher's experience of discrimination. Over-all, I love the interviews. And the couple...I love them too!

    • @deroxanlit4181
      @deroxanlit4181 Před 2 lety +5

      A lot of racism started in the west and it spread world wide

    • @Zeila1
      @Zeila1 Před rokem

      @@deroxanlit4181 that's a stupid claim, racism has always existed. you could argue that it's even natural

  • @DamienYok
    @DamienYok Před 2 lety +45

    This is a really good video. I love that you interview these folks and people give you genuine answers what they really think. They don't even do that here in the US. I can't remember last time I saw anyone ask any question about discriminations or how people feel they are stereotyped. People just choose to dodge those kind of things. First time I arrived in the US I asked a friend (she is local) why black students and white students all sit by separate tables. What I got was dead silence and awkwardness that could freeze the air as answers. I then learned not ask any questions regarding racism white or black. I only ever talked about this type of things with a friend who is black. I am Asian by the way.

    • @yusefendure
      @yusefendure Před 2 lety

      Great story. I appreciate your honesty about the dynamics of racism in the U.S.

  • @Tash30
    @Tash30 Před 3 lety +1284

    The guy that said "don't deport me" 😂😂😂😂😭

    • @iliasb2761
      @iliasb2761 Před 3 lety +10

      Ouïghours don't laughed at that one

    • @maccheese8379
      @maccheese8379 Před 3 lety +27

      @@iliasb2761 you must've been to xinjiang i presume?

    • @iliasb2761
      @iliasb2761 Před 3 lety +7

      @@maccheese8379 I have family, I have some brothers and sisters there..

    • @maccheese8379
      @maccheese8379 Před 3 lety +12

      @@iliasb2761 and....?

    • @iliasb2761
      @iliasb2761 Před 3 lety +9

      @@maccheese8379 what do you mean by and ? You asked me if I went there so you want to know if i really know about the situation there... So yes i know..

  • @kaydenpat
    @kaydenpat Před 2 lety +2905

    I love the South African dude. He’s hilarious. “Don’t deport me!” Lol

  • @wyntersteele1a
    @wyntersteele1a Před 2 lety +3

    I thoroughly enjoyed this interview. Each person has an interesting take on their experiences in China. They show that you can enjoy a place despite being different. For the most part, they each looked at ease with their situations.

  • @djungelskog3434
    @djungelskog3434 Před 2 lety +44

    people are fearful of things they don't understand, but why should you be afraid of someone just because their skin and appearances look different from yours? learn to embrace everyone around you and be more trustful, we need more of this in the world.

    • @uhjeff3651
      @uhjeff3651 Před rokem +3

      Yeah right. Surely went great for Sweden, Germany, France, UK, and lots more. The state they are in now for "embracing" and "trusting" these people is awesome, right?

    • @jeffking1976
      @jeffking1976 Před 11 měsíci

      look around

    • @usernhdefjhruhu12
      @usernhdefjhruhu12 Před 6 měsíci

      @@uhjeff3651Okay, Mr. Jeffrey Dahmer

    • @senseikevz2865
      @senseikevz2865 Před měsícem

      @@uhjeff3651why are you scared of German and French people they are all human

    • @uhjeff3651
      @uhjeff3651 Před měsícem

      @@senseikevz2865 I never said that

  • @thisischaniece
    @thisischaniece Před 3 lety +2596

    I get asked A LOT if people in China are racist, and it's a difficult question to answer simply. Being black in China is a very nuanced experience. There is the good and the bad (obviously more good for a lot of us, which is why many of us don't leave after a year or two). There is a lot to take into consideration as well such as how dark your complexion is, whether you are a woman or a man, what country you are from, whether you can speak Mandarin/Cantonese, where exactly in China you live etc etc. Living in Shanghai is a huge advantage, and is probably why most of the foreigners who move to Shanghai stay for a long time. There is more exposure to foreigners and more opportunity. Due to these opportunities, I've found many black people don't tend to highlight their negative experiences as much.

    • @dieloser5685
      @dieloser5685 Před 3 lety +48

      You have an awesome channel. Subbed!

    • @ctynwbraygalm
      @ctynwbraygalm Před 3 lety +2

      You live there? Why is noone wearing masks?

    • @defsoulzhao784
      @defsoulzhao784 Před 3 lety +239

      @@ctynwbraygalm because there has been no report of the covid case in shanghai for a long time and almost everyone has got vaccinated... it is not a must for Chinese to wear masks right now. I am living in Beijing and it's totally free wherever you go as long as you don't do abroad...

    • @Future-me23
      @Future-me23 Před 3 lety +13

      racism one of the black experience i this world, what does that tell about the world we live in. immature is word that comes to mind. intolarent people always act out.

    • @CrimsonEclipse
      @CrimsonEclipse Před 3 lety +114

      Shanghai is definitely foreign friendly. Some other parts of China not so much.

  • @hoodrobin4397
    @hoodrobin4397 Před 3 lety +1544

    Most Asian impressions on black are from American movies, both good and bad.

    • @angel-cy6fh
      @angel-cy6fh Před 3 lety +5

      @Asìan Boss get out no ones wants your whatsapp

    • @ima.m.1658
      @ima.m.1658 Před 3 lety +84

      And from centuries of colorism

    • @victorhuang3896
      @victorhuang3896 Před 3 lety +30

      and the same the other way around, so much that i've heard of simple, family-owned Chinese takeouts and Vietnamese or Korean nail salons referred to nastily rather than as products (food) and services (nails are a service, no?). Somehow, the family-owned liquor store is an oppressor...,but not the large banks that refused you your loan or the developer that redlined your neighborhood.
      both our communities have it rough and so much of our hate towards one another has been conditioned by outside forces.

    • @willyang4487
      @willyang4487 Před 3 lety +23

      You forgot to mention NBA

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 Před 2 lety

      @@willyang4487 yes but a lot of whites are basketball players than black people

  • @MamaCeesay98
    @MamaCeesay98 Před 11 měsíci +12

    You guys are the pioneers. Let that sink in. It’s not always easy being the first, but you all opened the door for generations to come. Future generations will have it much easier because of the barriers you’ve broken. Thank you for that.

  • @anthonyb7571
    @anthonyb7571 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm getting cultured and educated just from watching this video... Thank you for posting!

  • @evalees3394
    @evalees3394 Před 2 lety +782

    I am a Chinese living in China over 20 years and I graduated from a black historical university in the United States. So I see both sides. And I hope more people can understand that we are all human beings. Regardless of what skins we have, we pursue happiness. We all study hard, work hard, and want to find the best place to live and enjoy our lives. I strongly believe that when we get to know more of each other, stereotypes can be removed!!

    • @gamegamer9523
      @gamegamer9523 Před 2 lety +23

      True, I believe there are politicians of both countries trying to divide us using the media. However, it won’t always work

    • @swannoir7949
      @swannoir7949 Před 2 lety

      @@gamegamer9523 Why an HBCU? You couldn’t get a legacy admission?

    • @swannoir7949
      @swannoir7949 Před 2 lety +4

      @@ryanbrown4618 Please. When the 2nd out break hit, the Chinese government was evicting Africans from their homes on sight, accusing them of creating the new wave from Africa. And let’s not forget the their yearly award show where they do skits in Blackface. You don’t watch other news media that tell these stories, but I do, so I can’t sit here and front. But the woman who posted this will not admit this, because she lives in China, and China people aren’t allowed to talk bad about their country.

    • @ryanbrown4618
      @ryanbrown4618 Před 2 lety +4

      @@swannoir7949 It was Chinese government not people but in America racism is in their blood

    • @wycessasmall3936
      @wycessasmall3936 Před 2 lety +6

      Interesting interviews....I would not want to be involved with someone and be rejected by their family because of my skin color. You don't have to put yourself in that situation where you are maligned and treated less than. Know your own value and worth. The warning should have been at that couple's first meeting when she exclaimed " I dance like a black girl!" Really...? Bye! Just be yourself and love yourself!

  • @PumpkinMozie
    @PumpkinMozie Před 3 lety +1600

    I definitely agree with the guy who said he hates driving...haha it sounds silly but when you hate driving (like me too) living in a place with good public transit is an absolute game changer!!!

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Před 3 lety +36

      i hate driving too , i am always wandering in my mind . i only drive when needed but generally i am unbothered alo.

    • @BiGSmoke-.-
      @BiGSmoke-.- Před 3 lety +1

      @@PHlophe How was it for you when you got your driving license?

    • @nofood1
      @nofood1 Před 3 lety +12

      I hate driving but love cycling.

    • @dannytadashi4235
      @dannytadashi4235 Před 3 lety +12

      In America’s ANTI ASIAN HATE CRIMES committed by black and mostly black and white are getting worst . It has been increased over 200 % if I am not mistaken from California to New York . Anyway, over 1200 cases anti Asian hate crimes committed by American all Over the c country since the COVID PANDEMIC!!! The most b B vulnerable are v the c Asian older folks and Asian women . Being Asian living in America or any western countries are a very dangerous to live compare b with any South Asian countries . Some older Asian folks even got killed and murder by black peoples and white . So far I have heard any black Or white got killed by Chinese living in China or any Asian countries. So America and Europe’s are a FK UP COUNTRIES IN GENERAL !!!!

    • @marcelrodriguez2067
      @marcelrodriguez2067 Před 3 lety +6

      I hate driving but also hate being around so many people so its a lose lose lol

  • @ej164
    @ej164 Před 2 lety +11

    All of the interviewed but especially the guy from New York and the girl with the twisted hair, thank you sooo much. You are such beautifull people!. You guys made me feel better just by being you.
    I am sorry for what black-skinned people have to go through and I pray future generations will embrace different people and different cultures much much more!.
    Black is beautifull💕

    • @bbukutan5375
      @bbukutan5375 Před 2 lety +1

      Black or tanned skin is sexy, exotic and beautiful than reddish skin

  • @db2184
    @db2184 Před rokem +4

    The most important thing is to be able to separate yourself from others, and be at peace with what you are or what you are becoming. Having an unbreakable inner peace within yourself is the greatest thing you can offer others. Also, accepting people who are different while not compromising your security and peace within yourself because there are many who have done the same for you.

  • @Itsacamlife
    @Itsacamlife Před 2 lety +1761

    To that man who is a teacher and wanted to teach...my heart breaks for him knowing that he can teach and is capable of teaching and it's hard for him to find work because of his skin color I feel so sad for him...

    • @sigerlion8608
      @sigerlion8608 Před 2 lety +229

      It's the same here in the US. My father is Asian and holds multiple PHDs in Spanish but no university would hire him because he's a Chinese teaching Spanish.

    • @holangie4978
      @holangie4978 Před 2 lety +38

      @@sigerlion8608 hope your father doing well!!

    • @sigerlion8608
      @sigerlion8608 Před 2 lety +71

      @@holangie4978 He became a civil servant instead of a Professor and has been retired for years now. Never got over the disappointment of his wasted efforts but it's all water under the bridge.

    • @jesslu1966
      @jesslu1966 Před 2 lety +35

      Recently a case in Ningbo, China of an African professor raped + murdered his student so you can see how that can sparked racism although he is one individual that doesn't represent the rest of the community. :(

    • @riahmatic
      @riahmatic Před 2 lety +57

      ​@@jesslu1966 it takes one person if the society is racist

  • @dickidsrip5262
    @dickidsrip5262 Před 3 lety +2687

    Nice to see the perspective of non Americans as well. No offense meant but yeah other perspectives.

    • @sw36jl
      @sw36jl Před 3 lety +177

      @kook Mostly because most Africans in Korea and Japan are from the USA. These countries like it when your passport said good old USA. China is more accepting of Africans from the actual continent because of their foreign policy.

    • @kiaevans7142
      @kiaevans7142 Před 3 lety +57

      @@sw36jl regarding your last point, the news during the COVID pandemic said otherwise 🤨

    • @sw36jl
      @sw36jl Před 3 lety +69

      @@kiaevans7142 Of course the COVID pandemic is an aberration. I am talking about it in general. Now Japan and SK are also not so welcoming of tourist from the USA, just as the USA is not so welcoming of people from India etc.

    • @kingace6186
      @kingace6186 Před 3 lety +35

      @@sw36jl couldnt of said it better my self, China.... has some interesting ties with Africa

    • @o.g.millennials
      @o.g.millennials Před 3 lety +39

      @@sw36jl If they're from the USA, they're not African.

  • @CollinSamatas
    @CollinSamatas Před 2 lety

    You always find very insightful, well-intentioned people for your videos, it's refreshing.

  • @RoRo-bi5nm
    @RoRo-bi5nm Před 2 lety +2

    Wow! I've learned a lot. I'm still interested in going to Asia: China, Japan, & South Korea. I've got to watch this again. But the guy in the black polka dot & tan shirt was good. Love his personality. They were all enlightening. Thanks for sharing this video. God bless you all.

  • @sylveemoonfaye8533
    @sylveemoonfaye8533 Před 3 lety +466

    I hope her family accepts him, that must really hurt, he clearly loves her and been together for years its heartbreaking they wont even try to get to know him.

    • @Basuko_Smoker
      @Basuko_Smoker Před 3 lety +137

      After 8 years of marriage i'd be done with her family tbh

    • @Blakberi73
      @Blakberi73 Před 3 lety +15

      @@Basuko_Smoker I 2nd this thought.

    • @quentinmims9400
      @quentinmims9400 Před 3 lety +19

      Making a Asian family like you is very hard sometimes haha
      My current gfs family dosent like me period all because I am not Asian

    • @quentinmims9400
      @quentinmims9400 Před 3 lety +4

      @JenculeLesPorcsDeRacistesOccidentaux Lmao yes very true thankfully my family has excepted my Asian gf

    • @quentinmims9400
      @quentinmims9400 Před 3 lety +2

      @JenculeLesPorcsDeRacistesOccidentaux Lmao I am sorry to hear that

  • @psychogenesis6755
    @psychogenesis6755 Před 3 lety +915

    So glad you asked them for positive aspects of being black in China. I didn't want the episode to be completely depressing.

    • @dw7401
      @dw7401 Před 3 lety +75

      Scared of the truth

    • @littledudefromacrossthestr5755
      @littledudefromacrossthestr5755 Před 3 lety +87

      @@dw7401 lol nope

    • @JackY-qn9fd
      @JackY-qn9fd Před 3 lety +24

      Then show ur part of truth cuz by speaking it u add nothing but put a conspiracy label on the life black people have in China.

    • @JackY-qn9fd
      @JackY-qn9fd Před 3 lety +162

      @@dw7401 scared of what? Scared of not being marginalized and brainwashed by pure propaganda and bias towards China and Chinese people? Do ur research before u pass those disgusted thoughts to ur kids cuz that is dangerous

    • @dw7401
      @dw7401 Před 3 lety +10

      @@JackY-qn9fd I've done my research to include the FACT that YOUR opinion doesn't matter💯✔

  • @marilyndaniels9562
    @marilyndaniels9562 Před 2 lety

    Asian Boss I applaud u for your courage to do such an enlightening interview about the most misunderstood people on this planet earth.谢谢你。

  • @jameswang362
    @jameswang362 Před 11 měsíci

    Well done. I love these street interviews, esp. when I get to hear personal stories.

  • @haokaiandtaylor8182
    @haokaiandtaylor8182 Před 3 lety +214

    My Chinese husband says the reason some Chinese may assume you are from Africa is because many students in Chinese Universities are from Africa.

    • @user-qf3hf9ey8d
      @user-qf3hf9ey8d Před 3 lety +23

      Especially in Guangzhou.

    • @karankapoor2701
      @karankapoor2701 Před 3 lety +1

      @@user-qf3hf9ey8d is university In china expensive

    • @huas5350
      @huas5350 Před 3 lety +18

      @@karankapoor2701 Not expensive, even very cheap. China's universities are not completely commercialized. There is a unified government plan for tuition fees. Regardless of the fame of the University, it costs only a few hundred dollars a year.

    • @karankapoor2701
      @karankapoor2701 Před 3 lety +9

      @@huas5350 really , as an Indian I wanna do my MASTER'S from there

    • @arbs3ry
      @arbs3ry Před 3 lety +10

      I think the main is that most blacks are still living in Africa, the number outside Africa is quite small comparing to Africa. It's like when you meet an Oriental you first assume he or she comes from East Asia.

  • @krishnansrinivasan830
    @krishnansrinivasan830 Před 3 lety +914

    Why feel separated when everybody can speak the universal language SMILE. ! Beautifully said :)

  • @knowledgeiskey1319
    @knowledgeiskey1319 Před 2 lety +9

    In case people want more content like this, there is a *whole channel called "Black in Japan"* dedicated to interviewing and documenting black peoples experiences all over asia. The quality of their content is AMAZING. I highly recommend.

  • @AlphaEarth
    @AlphaEarth Před rokem

    Fantastic and fascinating video, but the conclusion 19:06 ... wow! It was such a beautiful, moving statement to end this video on. Thank you.

  • @dontdrinktapwater6194
    @dontdrinktapwater6194 Před 3 lety +788

    That couple is so cute!
    "But it's not only because you're black, you are just you!"

    • @BigGnigga
      @BigGnigga Před 3 lety +9

      I don't rike brack

    • @johnnydoe2672
      @johnnydoe2672 Před 3 lety +32

      such a beautiful thing to say

    • @yukiji9774
      @yukiji9774 Před 3 lety +8

      Thank you, haha

    • @themaincat85
      @themaincat85 Před 3 lety +22

      She was big time cool for saying that.

    • @yys6253
      @yys6253 Před 3 lety +32

      And she is very beautiful even from a Chinese point of view.

  • @mydogisbailey
    @mydogisbailey Před 3 lety +645

    “Where my mans hopped in a washing machine and came out Chinese” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @littledudefromacrossthestr5755
      @littledudefromacrossthestr5755 Před 3 lety +31

      Lol.... didn't u see the commercial?

    • @Octobre1986
      @Octobre1986 Před 3 lety +56

      That example is so misleading when you know the older Italian version where a white man turned black. It's a stupid advertisement in general.

    • @lbvg1013
      @lbvg1013 Před 3 lety +17

      @@Octobre1986 yikes😬there's an Italian version?

    • @lbvg1013
      @lbvg1013 Před 3 lety +3

      @@littledudefromacrossthestr5755 that advert was low, really low!

    • @Ray-gu2sd
      @Ray-gu2sd Před 3 lety +99

      yup. as a Chinese, I apologize for such a stupid ignorance... it was plain stupidity from the company and the public

  • @San-rl5yy
    @San-rl5yy Před 2 lety

    This has got be one of my favourite Asian Boss videos!

  • @millicentalango7960
    @millicentalango7960 Před rokem

    I watched this at the right time. I now know what to expect. very useful information indeed.

  • @naut_nigel
    @naut_nigel Před 2 lety +151

    "Something you can't control might affect how people see that smile."
    WOW. That was a powerful way to put it.

  • @bijulithapa3944
    @bijulithapa3944 Před 2 lety +152

    Living in countries like China, a day seems like a minute, because of how preoccupied your mind is on the culture shock, learning of the language, writing, exploring the geography, trying new foods, seeing new places, new people, different time zones, Much More

    • @k3lvinsWorld
      @k3lvinsWorld Před 2 lety +2

      Wow! I dream to go there one day

    • @bijulithapa3944
      @bijulithapa3944 Před 2 lety +3

      @@k3lvinsWorld You need the money ...

    • @yipengguo2732
      @yipengguo2732 Před 2 lety +4

      For American, China is like the other side of the world. Geographically and culturally.

    • @aoeu256
      @aoeu256 Před rokem +1

      @@bijulithapa3944 Digital nomads/remote workers can save money going to cheap areas. You can also do homestays.

  • @psicologiajoseh
    @psicologiajoseh Před 2 lety

    This was wonderful! Thanks for creating this content.

  • @WorriorXD
    @WorriorXD Před rokem +1

    PREACH EVERYONE MADE GOOD POINTS! ❤

  • @PharaohofVibes
    @PharaohofVibes Před 3 lety +436

    big props to the chinese girl whose dating the guy. her mom and her family dont like that hes black, they been together for 8 years and shes still with him.

    • @SiliconValleyMommy
      @SiliconValleyMommy Před 3 lety +103

      They're married! ❤️😭

    • @PharaohofVibes
      @PharaohofVibes Před 3 lety +24

      @@SiliconValleyMommy theirs lots of pressure from the family it seems, i dunno what the divorce rules are in China, but she could break down and leave from the pressure and she hasnt

    • @user-cc4rn6om4i
      @user-cc4rn6om4i Před 3 lety +15

      No ew interracial

    • @ariwilliams130
      @ariwilliams130 Před 3 lety +108

      @@user-cc4rn6om4i um ew? That's a bit rude and racist, don't you think?

    • @TheMagnificentGman
      @TheMagnificentGman Před 3 lety +51

      @@user-cc4rn6om4i don't be jelly. Props to the brother

  • @MaioParlato
    @MaioParlato Před 3 lety +353

    friendly guy: yeah, Shanghai checked all my boxes: public transportation, low cost of living...
    me: moving to Shanghai and crying tears of blood after noticing that rent is 300% higher than other cities in China
    ç__ç

    • @yiluis1316
      @yiluis1316 Před 3 lety +22

      To be fair, there is a lot of Tier 1 or Tier 2 cities out there that are cheaper than the famous Shanghai. Even some Tier 3 cities are looking very very modern right now compared to other cities of developed countries and the cost of living is ridiculously low.

    • @willengel2458
      @willengel2458 Před 3 lety +12

      can you afford to work and live in new york city or central london? what you want and what you can afford are two different matters.

    • @qjtvaddict
      @qjtvaddict Před 3 lety +1

      Like in all global cities

    • @rainman5428
      @rainman5428 Před 3 lety +5

      Although it is low cost of living in other areas, you cannot get the same salary in other areas

    • @LuckyNeffy
      @LuckyNeffy Před 3 lety +3

      Compared to his old city (Los Angeles) much cheaper.

  • @buddhajesuschrusthole
    @buddhajesuschrusthole Před rokem +1

    This is a very helpful video! I feel like I am learning a lot.

  • @divinemyystic..withlove4790

    I am proud of the interview. Very eye opening ! Maybe one my skin won’t be as political!💜🧿Peace love & light for all

  • @ChristopherCricketWallace
    @ChristopherCricketWallace Před 3 lety +533

    Korea, too. Clubs playing American hip-hop music won't let black people in. It's silly.

    • @kiaevans7142
      @kiaevans7142 Před 3 lety +155

      Yea I watched their video on that yesterday. It’s so crazy. Love the black culture, but denounce the idea of actual black people.

    • @Future-me23
      @Future-me23 Před 3 lety +5

      racism one of the black experience i this world, what does that tell about the world we live in. immature is word that comes to mind. intolarent people always act out.

    • @altagrace9066
      @altagrace9066 Před 3 lety +17

      @@WakaiOjouSama 시끄러!

    • @altagrace9066
      @altagrace9066 Před 3 lety +51

      @@WakaiOjouSama you should be ashamed of yourself.

    • @SaraLovesTea
      @SaraLovesTea Před 3 lety +118

      Kpop has literally copied black culture for the past 10yrs. This is insane 🤦‍♀️

  • @elledumble
    @elledumble Před 2 lety +477

    The girl with twists said mostly positive things! I love her final statement about our bodies being political! I'd love to read her poetry

    • @bluedreams209
      @bluedreams209 Před 2 lety +13

      And she's so beautiful

    • @mzmasim8449
      @mzmasim8449 Před 2 lety +3

      @@bluedreams209 yeah she is

    • @Jr33dc
      @Jr33dc Před 2 lety +13

      That’s my little cousin! So proud of her

    • @pcl1559
      @pcl1559 Před 2 lety +8

      She mentioned people stare, but I think they stare because how beautiful she is. I am really impressed how she puts her hair up!

    • @BombsAwayMineCraft
      @BombsAwayMineCraft Před 2 lety +1

      @@pcl1559 yeah, she's gorgeous

  • @gasorelectric
    @gasorelectric Před rokem

    I love this video. Well done Asian Boss.

  • @Army_Brat1980
    @Army_Brat1980 Před 2 lety

    I LOVED EVERY SECOND OF THIS!

  • @leiyue1411
    @leiyue1411 Před 3 lety +524

    Wish that couple has a good life. Love can conquer any obstacles.

    • @ChristopherCricketWallace
      @ChristopherCricketWallace Před 3 lety +45

      mom will change her attitude about that man when she's super old and needs help and funds for elder care. THEN he'll be family all of the sudden. That cash will be family.

    • @churblefurbles
      @churblefurbles Před 3 lety +5

      the single motherhood rate is the most extreme with certain pairings, so no on that trite saying.

    • @anonymouso7478
      @anonymouso7478 Před 3 lety +14

      @@churblefurbles shush, Churble.

    • @yukiji9774
      @yukiji9774 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you

    • @leiyue1411
      @leiyue1411 Před 2 lety

      希望大家都能和自己爱的人不太想理我,祝您二位生活顺利

  • @rhoda4621
    @rhoda4621 Před 3 lety +491

    It's so sad hearing about the negative experiences, especially the guy who can't get hired bc of his skin colour. He genuinely seems really passionate about what he wants to do. best of luck to him 💗

    • @lynth
      @lynth Před 3 lety +7

      To be fair, he speaks with a thick accent. "I been teachin' for a while" just isn't proper standard English that people want their children to learn. Non-native speakers have clearer diction than that and they can teach grammar, etc. just as well (in fact, probably better than a native speaker).

    • @sao8069
      @sao8069 Před 3 lety +71

      @@lynth I guarantee you he would be formal in a classroom setting, its just slang bro he has a journalism degree I guarantee you he is aware that isnt perfect grammar lmao

    • @h1inc816
      @h1inc816 Před 3 lety +47

      @@lynth plus the vast majority of Americans, especially outside work, don’t speak proper. There are a ton of nuances, slang, and tonal differences that people who haven’t grown up in the US won’t understand, like sarcasm

    • @mikec.4519
      @mikec.4519 Před 2 lety +4

      @@lynth aahahâah right; he also said I am an English teacher HERE.

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 Před 2 lety +1

      @@h1inc816 because its been confirmed china and india will start an apocalypse after 2030

  • @bluedreams209
    @bluedreams209 Před 2 lety

    All of you living out in China are bad ass.i admire u guys wish I could see how some of your lives out there.Unique individuals u are and I find it so cool to experience another country.

  • @thewatcher33
    @thewatcher33 Před 2 lety

    Hi, I love your channel and the contents you provide for world viewing. Great videos. Thank you

  • @lbvg1013
    @lbvg1013 Před 3 lety +246

    Shout out to my mans from Johannesburg South Africa 🇿🇦, ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mcebomaziya3299
      @mcebomaziya3299 Před 3 lety +7

      Thanks my man 🙏

    • @thandisilec835
      @thandisilec835 Před 3 lety +2

      @@mcebomaziya3299 oh my it’s you! I’d subscribe to your channel, you seem sussed😊

    • @ConanBayBay1738
      @ConanBayBay1738 Před 2 lety +3

      @@mcebomaziya3299 so glad they didn't deport you😂🤣.

    • @morairskosana
      @morairskosana Před 2 lety +4

      @@mcebomaziya3299 sending love from Sandton 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦😭😭😭😭

    • @kenshix7902
      @kenshix7902 Před 2 lety +2

      @@mcebomaziya3299 VIVA MZANSI VIVA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🤙🏽🙏🏽🔥🔥🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @abbytrapp8258
    @abbytrapp8258 Před 3 lety +482

    Being a foreigner in Shanghai is a very different experience than being a foreigner in China as a country.

    • @hadassahapolot1203
      @hadassahapolot1203 Před 2 lety +15

      Underrated comment 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @Sunshine_Hime
      @Sunshine_Hime Před 2 lety +5

      Why? I'm genuinely curious to know.

    • @abbytrapp8258
      @abbytrapp8258 Před 2 lety +168

      @@Sunshine_Hime Shanghai is very international and far developed compared to other regions of the country. Foreign people have always lived there and it's known globally for its import/export business. The amount of diversity that exists in Shanghai is the largest amount in the country. It's not hard to find someone from your country with your language or skin color in this city...at all. A large majority of Chinese here know English or try to speak with foreigners. However, that's very different than being the only foreign person in a rural village in China. Hope that clarifies.

    • @Sunshine_Hime
      @Sunshine_Hime Před 2 lety +6

      @@abbytrapp8258 thank you very much😊

    • @xh1205
      @xh1205 Před 2 lety +72

      It‘s like to be an Asian American in NYC is a total different experience than in the other regions of the USA!

  • @velmasablan2290
    @velmasablan2290 Před 2 lety

    Final comment was a good way to wrap up this clip 😊♥️

  • @tammygriffin5658
    @tammygriffin5658 Před 2 lety +2

    ugh! I miss living in China! By Far one of the highlights of my early twenties!

  • @rachaelagyapong8448
    @rachaelagyapong8448 Před 3 lety +130

    you guys need to start putting the subtitles in Mandarin or whichever language is spoken in the country for the people there to see how we feel and how to at least be respectful towards a black person (touching hair)

    • @anzai5552
      @anzai5552 Před 3 lety +1

      @AlexlionTC lmao

    • @dionydonny
      @dionydonny Před 3 lety +40

      @AlexlionTC This is a stereotype of the internet era. The Chinese government has banned youtube from providing services in China, but not banned people from accessing youtube, so there are many people using VPN to watch youtube.

    • @coolorochi
      @coolorochi Před 3 lety

      This happened everywhere.
      Because there's no personal space before the culture become modernized.
      There's no need to tell younger generation, and this sort video is not reaching older generation.

    • @auroral9777
      @auroral9777 Před 3 lety +5

      @AlexlionTC I'm literally Chinese, I exist you know? Oh and not all chinese people live in China thanks.

    • @sonofben3322
      @sonofben3322 Před 2 lety

      @AlexlionTC vpn?

  • @joaozhang3694
    @joaozhang3694 Před 3 lety +163

    When I was in university, I chose Amharic as my third language. And my professor was from Ethiopia. She was just amazing and got beautiful eyes like deer. She taught us dancing at class, invited us to her apartment to dinner and took us to Ethiopia Embassy in Beijing. She really give us excellent memories! By the way, Amharic is the hardest language I have known. I v almost forgotten everything of Amharic language.
    Now I am working in Mozambique, Aftica. I mean, when I meet more people, black or white, young or old, I realize that there are much more common things between peaple than differences, our smiles and tears, happiness and sorrow. We are just human being. We share the exactly feelings about the world, family, friends, nature.
    No offence, we have differences. That's why I still envy black bro's athletelike body. Here in Mozambique, almost every boy can do somersault.

    • @joaozhang3694
      @joaozhang3694 Před 2 lety +7

      @Beny A Yes. BFSU, BEIJING FOREIGN STUDIES UNIVERSITY. My teacher is Ninna. I missed her so much.

    • @Jordan-xg4pn
      @Jordan-xg4pn Před 2 lety +4

      Man that's so cool! What do you work with in Mozambique? ANd do you like it? I speak the sister language of Amharic which is like the harder twin fusion language of Amharic and Arabic lol.

    • @piazzastudios4251
      @piazzastudios4251 Před 2 lety +9

      Such a lovely comment xiè xiè.. I wish my Amharic teacher was as cool as yours :). There are many Chinese ppl. in Ethiopia and we ❤ the ppl., food & culture & I'd assume the same sentiment resonates across Africa despite all the propaganda Western medias are spewing

    • @marilynmonheaux6356
      @marilynmonheaux6356 Před 2 lety +3

      That’s amazing. I’m dying to go to Mozambique. What should I do there? What do you recommend

    • @canaldepraticadejesus6600
      @canaldepraticadejesus6600 Před 2 lety

      功成同学是你吗?

  • @ShanghaiDistrict
    @ShanghaiDistrict Před rokem

    I like how straight forward Chinese are and won't hide it I like the honesty and their just curious in knowing more about others that are different from them

  • @BeautifulNaturalDramatic

    A fascinating and informative video - fingers crossed 🤞 that the Younger Generations in all Countries around the World will help their Politicians, Communities, Older Generations etc to dismantle Prejudice and Discrimination - leading to People having a much greater experience as a Foreigner in different Countries, regardless of their Skin Colour, their Features, the Language they speak etc 👏

  • @muudcatt9541
    @muudcatt9541 Před 3 lety +880

    Here's a suggestion for Asian Boss when conducting interviews of this kind. Rather than drilling interviewees on specific negative and positive questions, ask them to summarize their experiences in an objective way. Equal incidents of positive and negative things don't necessarily mean that they cancel each other out, and certainly don't mean objectivity without considering the magnitude of how those specific experiences add to the overall experience

    • @kingace6186
      @kingace6186 Před 3 lety +90

      I disagree, you cant summarize a personal experience objectively, only subjective. Plus these type of question was done purposefully so we viewers can sympathize and/or empathize with the interviewees

    • @letsthink8245
      @letsthink8245 Před 3 lety +2

      Don't you think people would think that they would only be wanting positive experiences for something?

    • @lynth
      @lynth Před 3 lety +36

      @@kingace6186 Yes, when it comes to China, Asian Boss always tries to focus on the negatives and tries to lead people into expressing negative views. It's very blatant.

    • @allen3339
      @allen3339 Před 3 lety +25

      @@lynth I would disagree. Personally, from my experience and the testimonies I think it's about the individuals. Actually, from some of the interviewees I was told much of what they had to say negatively was actually cut down quite a bit. I don't think the interviewer was trying to steer the conversation to a negative focus but rather this is how they felt. Again, feelings are subjective.

    • @thisischaniece
      @thisischaniece Před 3 lety +3

      I prefer interview style. That way you can compare and contrast answers. Smoother watch.

  • @LKelz
    @LKelz Před 3 lety +135

    The girl in the flower dress is so whole some I love her attitude

    • @christinathakkar1690
      @christinathakkar1690 Před 3 lety +6

      Yes! Flower dress girl, thank you for inspiring us with your manifestation of inner beauty!

  • @cerealbeforemilk8976
    @cerealbeforemilk8976 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @l3luel3xus
    @l3luel3xus Před 2 lety +4

    16:20 that touched my soul
    This guy is a great dude, I could just see it.

  • @frostforest7241
    @frostforest7241 Před 3 lety +67

    that girl in black outfit with blue flower on it is so adorable. so energetic and got very positive attitude. Remind me of my english teacher when im in middle school. always with a smile on her face. Maybe will come across you somewhere in the street of Shanghai.

  • @yeetian2774
    @yeetian2774 Před 3 lety +620

    “Low cost of living” would never be a trait of Shanghai.

    • @madeline569
      @madeline569 Před 3 lety +93

      He said he moved 4 or 5 years ago tho, and probably at that time even if for you or me shanghai is still really expensive, it was probably still better price and quality of living than most big American cities

    • @rl3969
      @rl3969 Před 3 lety +144

      compared to New York

    • @ryancolquitt5379
      @ryancolquitt5379 Před 3 lety +152

      Living in shanghai is cheaper than almost any city in America. Americas cost of living is extremely overly inflated compared to the people’s public

    • @bingu2491
      @bingu2491 Před 3 lety +89

      Among all the world-class cities (Tokyo, Hong Kong, New York, London, Singapore, Paris, Dubai, etc.), the first-tier cities in China are still the cheapest ones to live in. That is for sure.

    • @sarahlee8985
      @sarahlee8985 Před 3 lety +28

      @@ryancolquitt5379 Wrong. Buying houses in China big cities will cost all ur life time. The rent in Peking and Shanghai is unreasonable!!

  • @WJKPhD
    @WJKPhD Před 2 lety

    Amazing insights into Chinese culture. Thanks for excellent vid!

  • @onlygroovefans
    @onlygroovefans Před 9 měsíci +1

    Very insightful video. Thanks for sharing this.
    Hoping the talented man who is a teacher has an opportunity to teach. He is very gifted and as its quite sad that he is being judged based on his skin colour. Also the other man who mentions his inability to party in nite clubs. Hoping this situation has now changed given that this video is 2 years ago.
    Looking forward to watching another street interview on "What’s It Like Being Black In China in 2023? . I have now subscribed to your CZcams channel

  • @Mar-tm7tc
    @Mar-tm7tc Před 2 lety +193

    “I’m afraid ppl were gonna stare” *literally everyone in the background staring as they walk by” 😭

    • @JohnPierre-lz6vb
      @JohnPierre-lz6vb Před 2 lety +18

      Being stared at is a every day thing when you're black. Wherever you are. Except in a mostly black country.

    • @donderstorm1845
      @donderstorm1845 Před 2 lety +51

      well they're being interviewed with camera and everything.

    • @landmerry_6742
      @landmerry_6742 Před 2 lety +13

      But it's an interview! Means yr going to be on media. Lots of people in China think that's a big thing, I'd stare too if I saw this

    • @adamzz9908
      @adamzz9908 Před 2 lety +12

      @@landmerry_6742 I mean it’s normal for Chinese people to stare at foreigners and I can understand that. China is a very populous country with very few percentage of foreigners. As a black man who lived in in China since 2016 I’ve met many Chinese people most of whom it was their first time talking with a black man. So I can understand the curiosity in there

    • @ghostlym856
      @ghostlym856 Před 2 lety +7

      Check other vids, people just naturally look at ppl whos in a interview beside the street

  • @jcjr.2140
    @jcjr.2140 Před 2 lety +152

    I wish I can read the African-American/Chinese couple’s mind when they speak on how they met and how their relationship came about. Their facial expressions are hilarious.

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 Před 2 lety

      Its been confirmed china and india will start an apocalypse

    • @ilmoon7252
      @ilmoon7252 Před 2 lety +7

      @@estelaangeles2346 原来你就是预言家呀😅

    • @cooldriver7236
      @cooldriver7236 Před 2 lety

      @@estelaangeles2346 where is the research? Lol

    • @Linkx16
      @Linkx16 Před 2 lety

      It’s actually gross

    • @pinklenny5860
      @pinklenny5860 Před rokem +3

      @@Linkx16 ?

  • @jadenfunkin6604
    @jadenfunkin6604 Před 2 lety

    Thankyou thankyou thankyou for making this video

  • @KaiusKing
    @KaiusKing Před rokem +1

    Good Video! Very insightful.

  • @MIXooNooMATCH
    @MIXooNooMATCH Před 2 lety +257

    I’ve lived in China for about 3.5 years and Imma need folks to stop exclusively attributing racism in China to ignorance. Being curious and asking questions is ignorance. Calling me names, discriminating against me in hiring or when serving me at a restaurant is HATRED. Telling your child that you’d prefer she marry a white man (theyre no more informed of white people than they are black people) to a black man is HATRED. Everybody doesn’t act or think this way. But branding all of these things as a simple fact of “lack of exposure” is harmful.

    • @thesagebears
      @thesagebears Před 2 lety

      Thank you. People disrespect Indigenous (Black) culture bc some of us desire so bad to be accepted that we will take abuse like the man that married into a racist family. All this gas lighting in the comments is crazy. Folks hate admitting that they have racist family members.

    • @meme101RE
      @meme101RE Před rokem +8

      Exactly!!

    • @meme101RE
      @meme101RE Před rokem +12

      Also something people ignore, these “ignorant” things people do in China are offensive in their own culture. Like if you meet someone who is from an “alien planet” as an American I wouldn’t do things to this unfamiliar being that are considered rude where I’m from. Not to sure if I made sense but that annoys me. Like you can’t claim “ignorance” when you are doing things that are considered rude in your own culture!

    • @MIXooNooMATCH
      @MIXooNooMATCH Před rokem +24

      @@meme101RE totally. Some Chinese people will see you and immediately pull out their phone to take video and photos that they plan to share in their group chats and on their social media. But pull your phone out in return and they immediately get shy, blush, say “meishi meishi”-because they don’t like the same energy directed towards them. If I make squinty eyes (god forbid, I would NEVER cuz that’s vile), nobody in China questions that that’s highly disrespectful; but if they make allusions to monkeys around me, then suddenly I need to laugh it off as “ignorance” and a “joke”. Most know it’s not nice to be treated that way; it’s just that some don’t have the instinctive impulse to treat us with the same compassion and consideration they expect to be treated with (or even treat white people, in comparison).

    • @willliamnash4855
      @willliamnash4855 Před rokem +4

      @@MIXooNooMATCH maybe you have just found out what its like to be a minority in a country where there is basically one ethnicity and one culture

  • @mengyangliang6388
    @mengyangliang6388 Před 3 lety +256

    That couple are so cute and brave! Being a Chinese and my fiancé also Chinese, I still sometimes find myself somehow hard to be accepted by my future mother-in-law. They must have overcome so many obstacles, and love and courage eventually prevailed.

    • @imprezabob
      @imprezabob Před 3 lety +13

      Your English is great! I think you meant to write "courage" though. Have a lovely day!

    • @yukiji9774
      @yukiji9774 Před 3 lety +8

      加油

    • @mengyangliang6388
      @mengyangliang6388 Před 3 lety +5

      @@imprezabob Haha. Thanks for pointing out. Probably got typing too quick and auto-corrected by iPhone. Luckily CZcams allows me to re-edit it. : )

    • @mengyangliang6388
      @mengyangliang6388 Před 3 lety +1

      @@yukiji9774 啊!得到了本尊的回复!好荣幸啊~真的好为你们开心~

    • @yukiji9774
      @yukiji9774 Před 3 lety +4

      @@mengyangliang6388 哈哈,哪里,居然有人给我们很正门的评价是我们的荣幸。我都没打算入镜,因为毕竟是采访黑人。我老公拉我进来。其实大部分时间都是他在讲,片段就剪了我说话的那几个部分。可能大部分在中国都没有结婚,我的加入可以提过多一个角度吧。

  • @drewbranch7700
    @drewbranch7700 Před 2 lety +6

    “Don’t deport me”,he so reminds me of my cousin in South Africa and his sense of humor.

  • @MrRhomas913
    @MrRhomas913 Před 2 lety +1

    This was a nice set of interviews.

  • @indiraconnolly2889
    @indiraconnolly2889 Před 3 lety +151

    I want to be friends with all of the people you interviewed in this video. They seem super interesting, well-spoken, globally-minded and worldly. Wish I could also sit down, have a coffee with them and listen to their stories.

    • @Aikunle78
      @Aikunle78 Před 3 lety +6

      The guy with the Africa Toto T-Shirt was super cool

    • @sarahlee8985
      @sarahlee8985 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Aikunle78 feel the same 🤝!

    • @bluedreams209
      @bluedreams209 Před 2 lety

      Yes I wish I was rich enough to visit each one of them I would

  • @ragtaghero84
    @ragtaghero84 Před 2 lety +21

    A great episode. Really thoughtful responses from the interviewees.

  • @lacm64
    @lacm64 Před 2 lety

    Loving your channel, great interviews, I subscribed.

  • @ezradegreat
    @ezradegreat Před 2 lety

    I hope to visit China soon and maybe live there. I really enjoyed this video. Thank you

  • @yellownigga4247
    @yellownigga4247 Před 2 lety +104

    China isn't a perfect country but definitely not as evil as the western media described!

    • @lebogoldvevo6797
      @lebogoldvevo6797 Před 2 lety +2

      That's wassup man👊👊👊👍

    • @pavithrap8805
      @pavithrap8805 Před 2 lety +3

      The government .

    • @cedriceric9730
      @cedriceric9730 Před 2 lety +1

      The government system is undeniably evil but that stops there

    • @ammanite
      @ammanite Před 2 lety +5

      @@cedriceric9730 while I'm not a fan, in many ways their government is still better than the US government...

    • @TheBigAzzTree
      @TheBigAzzTree Před 2 lety +2

      @@cedriceric9730 the chinese government is the farthest thing from evil

  • @bklyncrook
    @bklyncrook Před 2 lety +151

    It's great that the gentleman from South Africa put a perspective about how the central government in China doesn't like protest in general or big gathering of people about any thing political. So, therefore, it's not necessary people being generally anti-Black (not that there isn't any in China), but, just how the citizens have to operate things a bit more low key since they don't have the same Western ways and rights to assemble/protest.

    • @CannibaLouiST
      @CannibaLouiST Před 2 lety +1

      The PRC is a modern government though, entirely Western style.

    • @amemusicvideo4512
      @amemusicvideo4512 Před 2 lety +18

      Nominally Chinese people have the right to hold large-scale protests, but the premise is that they must apply to the police station and choose an address. But it's hard to say whether the application will pass, and the Chinese don't do it either. There are also many protests in China, but the media rarely reports it. Moreover, the way of protest in China is different from that in the West. Westerners will protest in the streets. It is impossible in China, you can go to the government gate. But if you go to the street to protest, let's not discuss whether the police will arrest you. People on the street would beat the protesters first. Because the Chinese also advocate freedom, but that is collective freedom. Protesting on the street affects traffic and affects the freedom of most people. So if someone protests on the street in China, even if the government and the police don't care, passersby will care. And if the people of the country know about it. That's even worse. Everyone will isolate these people and maybe fly over and beat the protesters.

    • @amemusicvideo4512
      @amemusicvideo4512 Před 2 lety

      There are also protests in China, but they usually take place in the square in front of the government.

    • @user-ve8rx8zd1p
      @user-ve8rx8zd1p Před 2 lety +4

      When China centre government has something like a new law or new policy would affect normal people, it would been widely discussed and gathering opinions in public before implement. Or it would practise in some city first, then some province and finally implement in whole country.

    • @ohsehun6470
      @ohsehun6470 Před 2 lety +4

      chinese version of protests is different, people dont organize a large crowd to go out onto the streets and protest. In china, collective good is advocated, so any protests usually happen on the internet.

  • @pablo12250
    @pablo12250 Před 2 lety

    Just discovered this channel. What an awesome channel!

  • @cloudlove1
    @cloudlove1 Před 2 lety

    Such beautiful brothers and sisters, I'm so inspired by their style and beauty. My girl in the baseball cap, omg steez

  • @IKNFLY666
    @IKNFLY666 Před 3 lety +389

    I operate an English training centre in Shenzhen, I wouldn’t hesitate to hire a Black native English speaker over a White non-native speakers with heavy Russian or Eastern European accents. The sad reality is, Chinese parents would frown at the sight of Black teachers, which is very disheartening.

    • @dbrzy8989
      @dbrzy8989 Před 3 lety +51

      tbh alot of these companies hire white people just so they can attract business from the "white population" its not because of anything special. Its a marketing tool

    • @sagitta2012
      @sagitta2012 Před 3 lety +99

      Same thing, u would rather learn Chinese from an Asian-looking person than an Arab-looking guy no matter how fluent that guy can speak Chinese... basically, 90% Chinese parents can’t tell if the teacher is a native speaker of English, they don’t even know the difference between British and American accent

    • @bishop51807
      @bishop51807 Před 3 lety +15

      @@dbrzy8989 A token white person. Ive seen that in a Japan ads too.

    • @calvinli5767
      @calvinli5767 Před 3 lety +40

      This is sad! I have a Chinese American friend who speaks perfect English got denied for a English teaching job because he is Asian…

    • @semiramisubw4864
      @semiramisubw4864 Před 3 lety +6

      I think that is more of an older cultural thing and that doesnt only applie to China

  • @thisisntsergio1352
    @thisisntsergio1352 Před 3 lety +202

    11:21 "I am a native speaker. I was born and raised in the U.S. and I am a journalism major. I am more than qualified to do a teaching job. To not even be considered for no other reason than this trivial thing called skin color kind of hurts."

    • @bubbles9766
      @bubbles9766 Před 3 lety +17

      Yeah, it's suspiciously similar to affirmative action.

    • @pennypie923
      @pennypie923 Před 3 lety +10

      Ugh that made me sad. Poor guy, I hope more doors open for him and people stop judging based on superficial qualities but on character and credentials.

    • @BigB0ss00
      @BigB0ss00 Před 3 lety +43

      White boys and girls get the teaching jobs. Not even Chinese Americans born and raised in the U.S. are considered before those colonizers

    • @damienmarsic
      @damienmarsic Před 3 lety +11

      This kind of advertisement is illegal in China. He could sue the company and win.

    • @tc2334
      @tc2334 Před 3 lety +2

      @@bubbles9766 ZING!

  • @pebbletrees
    @pebbletrees Před rokem

    This was a nice video. Loved the girl in the flowery dress, so smart.

  • @ms.janwms4724
    @ms.janwms4724 Před 2 lety

    I enjoyed this segment.

  • @ashleykenny5135
    @ashleykenny5135 Před 3 lety +64

    WOW! so encouraging. These people have such beautiful stories and messages. Thank you for this incredible series

  • @zzzaaannnn
    @zzzaaannnn Před 2 lety +49

    they're all models or something? omg they're all so good looking

    • @ammanite
      @ammanite Před 2 lety

      For real, I noticed the same thing lol

    • @penguinpenguin4058
      @penguinpenguin4058 Před 2 lety +2

      The girl at 3:26 truly looks like a model, stunning.

    • @iorilamia
      @iorilamia Před 2 lety +3

      Black peoples are generally beautiful

  • @markart157
    @markart157 Před 10 měsíci

    Very nice documentary thank you!!!

  • @minormadeit
    @minormadeit Před rokem +3

    I just want to say thank you for doing so many interesting and important interviews. It is our duty as competent citizens to understand the effects of our government and media. As an African/Native American, having dated a wonderful woman from China, these videos provide closure to a most pure love lost due to the beauty standards, and psychological impact forced upon the world by colonization and unfair men of "fairer" skin tones.

    • @wegood563
      @wegood563 Před rokem

      Whites are just naturally beautiful. It’s not a matter of colonialism. Even back prior to colonialism light skin and bigger noses were desirable

    • @user-zk5ox8kg8o
      @user-zk5ox8kg8o Před rokem

      @@wegood563 No, it's just that white people promote the idea of white supremacy and white beauty through TV shows, stories, and novels, but every race has its own beauty.

    • @wegood563
      @wegood563 Před rokem

      And speaking of unfair men of fairer skin tones, we are by far the least cynical and unfair race in the history of the world
      You’re black, you guys are the complete opposite of fair. You guys do not care about fairness more than us, which is why you guys cause problems and atrocities everywhere you go - raping, pillaging, murdering; you also scapegoat white people for your problems and defend criminals and evil people who are in the wrong. Like often black moms would be defensive of their negro sons who were clearly in the wrong, saying he “dindu nuffin.” You guys are monsters and my fellow Asians hate you and love to gossip with me about negros how they violent brutish beasts that cause misery and pain.

    • @abcdefg-oj5wn
      @abcdefg-oj5wn Před 6 měsíci

      @@wegood563 if you are crazy, seek help.

  • @kevindst
    @kevindst Před 2 lety +38

    Great interview, hope humans can treat each other according to their souls rather than appearances, wealth, etc.

  • @jordanleopold93
    @jordanleopold93 Před 3 lety +61

    Great interviews! I'm a Black man in USA and I've always been interested in hearing people's experience living in very homogeneous places around the world. I've considered leaving the states, so hearing these conversations are really insightful!

    • @lordblazer
      @lordblazer Před 2 lety +3

      I use to live in Japan..... hmmm, it is a step up from the racism in the US.... but then because you're a foreigner it's harder to have mobility in places like Japan.
      I would say being Black in Singapore is much better, but Singapore is a multicultural society so it doesn't answer your question.

    • @bbukutan5375
      @bbukutan5375 Před 2 lety +2

      China is multiracial and multi cultural country

  • @riddlezastra1496
    @riddlezastra1496 Před 2 lety +3

    keep up the good work guys, I feel like this is a first, namely trying to bridge cultural gaps between the West and East, if not just simply helping us understand how the people think as opposed to how the media would have you think of them.. which is weird because half of the World's Population lives in this continent 😂