Finding your coping mechanism | Joseph Lewis | TEDxFoggyBottom

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  • čas přidán 21. 05. 2018
  • People who encounter policeman Joseph Lewis are confused by his habit of smiling whenever in danger, a coping technique he developed during his difficult childhood in Liberia and homelessness in the United States. By developing genuine gratitude for others, Joseph believes we can all react more positively to fear in any form.
    Joseph Lewis is a law enforcement officer for DC Metro, a community advocate for the Lutheran Immigration Refugee Service, a seminary student, and a former refugee. Born in Liberia, he lived a normal life up until 1989, when a civil war broke out in the area. After facing multiple setbacks for the remainder of his childhood and the beginning of his adult life, Joseph migrated to the United States where he settled into a life of homelessness. Encouragement from those in his local community inspired Joseph to go to college and earn a degree. Through his experiences, Joseph has become a key community figure and source of inspiration, actively telling his story and encouraging others to do the same.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 34

  • @Butterf1y-effect
    @Butterf1y-effect Před rokem +11

    I discovered I'm not actually addicted to social media it's just my coping mechanism to avoid reality , to avoid stress ...
    But , this coping mechanism isn't good as social media gives me more stress and depression.
    I really need to find some effective and good coping mechanism.

    • @strawberribubbletea
      @strawberribubbletea Před 3 měsíci +1

      I found having a routine helped me a lot. Getting up at the same time and sleeping early everyday helps a lot. Going out and doing small things you enjoy helps too.

  • @handsomelove1
    @handsomelove1 Před 6 lety +35

    Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. I am so proud of you Joe. Good words of encouragement.

    • @TheMailforbishop
      @TheMailforbishop Před 6 lety +3

      Hey brother, much appreciation for your kind gesture. Please do not hesistate to it share it.

    • @EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher
      @EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher Před 4 měsíci

      I don't quite understand that one, or rather I haven't felt that to be true.

  • @HabitualLover
    @HabitualLover Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks so much for this Ted talk. And for continuing to cope during unimaginable hardship. I find one of the hardest things is to not look like you've ever struggled when you have and still may be struggling to the core of everything in you. So awesome for someone who looks perfect to tell such a sobering story of the reality behind the smile. So great. Big thanks.

  • @abilaremgius8590
    @abilaremgius8590 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You have motivated me to conquer my fears. Many thanks

  • @DarKNess1111x
    @DarKNess1111x Před 2 lety

    Greatest calling, greatest power. Outshine the darkness, outlove the fear and hate. Those are the greatest shows of strength

  • @michaelbasgall8924
    @michaelbasgall8924 Před rokem

    Thank you. This helps bring peace to me.

  • @HILEYWOODTV
    @HILEYWOODTV Před 2 lety

    Man that was excellent! My coping mechanism is gratitude as well.

  • @user-lb1fl7sh8m
    @user-lb1fl7sh8m Před rokem +1

    Fear Taught me to smile, and smile taught me to be grateful !

  • @thisisntallowed9560
    @thisisntallowed9560 Před 5 lety +18

    I think that if you open yourself emotionally to people, people will come to you and open themselves to you too.
    ''fear itself will drive you to a greater calling'' I like his conclusion

    • @KamaloExp
      @KamaloExp Před 2 lety +1

      Yes. I think so too. We need to express our emotion necessarily.

  • @CandyAppleMomo
    @CandyAppleMomo Před 9 měsíci +1

    Such a powerful message 🫶🏾

  • @ebufi7957
    @ebufi7957 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Great talk, very inspiring!

  • @richieduran_
    @richieduran_ Před 2 lety

    One of the better stories Ive seen

  • @francoliberian
    @francoliberian Před 6 lety +6

    Hey Bishop i am proud of your powerful and articulate speech.

  • @neverendingjourneystilllea5271

    Thanks

  • @gmnboss
    @gmnboss Před 6 lety +5

    Excellent talk Joe. Well done!!

  • @kizzymulcaster6057
    @kizzymulcaster6057 Před 4 lety +6

    Brilliant thanks for sharing

  • @itsdevgarg
    @itsdevgarg Před rokem

    Inspiring, Love from India. 🙏🤗

  • @user-lb1fl7sh8m
    @user-lb1fl7sh8m Před rokem

    Χαμόγελο και Προχωρούμε δυναμικά αισιόδοξα και χωρίς να παραπονιούμαστε.

  • @KamaloExp
    @KamaloExp Před 2 lety

    Beautiful

  • @rupandita2683
    @rupandita2683 Před rokem

    Me encantaaaaaaa 🎉❤

  • @theetamtamadun
    @theetamtamadun Před 2 lety +1

    Obsessed with his accent

  • @Aeon.S.J
    @Aeon.S.J Před 28 dny

    No mirror smiles first.

  • @woodenwinds9629
    @woodenwinds9629 Před 4 lety +2

    dang

  • @shanalee8469
    @shanalee8469 Před 4 lety +18

    Wrong title!! Absolutely nothing talks about coping

  • @meetcharan4288
    @meetcharan4288 Před 2 lety +1

    Drugs sare a bad coping mechanism i guess, but it do work

  • @KamaloExp
    @KamaloExp Před 2 lety +1

    Dang i hate auto generated subtitles 😂