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Hey ya'll! We are reacting to some LIARS that got shamed online. Have you ever seen people that got caught lying on the internet? There's an entire Reddit thread dedicated to calling out and shaming social media liars and we are going to make fun of them today.
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Unpopular opinion, you don't have to text anyone back. Ever. Just because someone wants to get in touch with you, doesn't mean you owe them a response 🤷🏻♀️ (spoken like a true hermit)
I'm so happy for my MIL, she invited me out last minute but apologize because she knows how much anxiety that usually gives me. 😭❤️❤️❤️
I feel this though 🤣 and im a social butterfly but... like in person not via text lol
Facts! If people can't call, they can wait until I feel like texting back.
When Charlotte said 6 hours I about dropped my phone! 6 days maybe.
I feel like humans aren't meant to have this constant social connection. For a hundred thousand years we didn't have instant communication technology; we had to be there in person. Now we have this tech, and there are unrealistic expectations that come with it.
The sad thing is that the lady at the beginning who said she wasn't drunk actually hit a man on a bicycle shortly before being pulled over and she didn't even realize she did it!! So horrible!
And then got arrested for straight up refusing to do a breathalyser test and taking an incredibly long time to the intoxication test. The worst part is her kids were apparently in the back of her vehicle for all of it!
What's even more messed up is she knew she hit him. She fled the scene because she had been drinking. She claims she thought she "hit a sign". I believe the cyclist suffered fractured vertebrae too.
She was well aware she hit a person, if you watch full vid, at some point she sips and asked if HE was ok then quickly changes to “I hit a person?”
NO. She KNEW she hit him. She chose to drive off. She said she hit a sign and you could see she was caught in that lie when the cop called her out on that being impossible.
she KNEW, she even asked if HE was ok......the cop never said a gender
How fast I ran to the comments when I saw this!! I saw this on Boze's channel and was immediately upset someone just made this into "ha ha drunk tiktok" like NO she hit someone and her kids were in the car!!!
I love that the violin lady was so done with this guy that she hauls out her violin down the street just to call dude's fraud out.
The devil came down to that corner
As someone with ADHD I frequently forget to reply to texts I’ve read or seen- if you know someone like this- don’t take it personally!!! And it’s always okay to text them a little ‘hey did you see my text?’ After a while to make sure they got your message. I let my friends and new friends know ahead of time that I struggle with conversation via text and that it’s okay for them to text me reminders or check ins and it actually helps so so much.
MEEEEEE
Nobody owes you a reminder if you saw their their text or not. That's selfish to expect them to double text you just because you left them on seen, even if it is because of your condition.
@@not.so.social you’re right but that person is just saying that it may be a reason why certain people don’t text back.
@@not.so.social sure but then if you text someone with ADHD and they miss it you can't be mad at them when you refuse to be accommodating 💁♀ only fair
I usually miss texts when I happen to get them in the middle of doing something else, and I'll check my phone on autopilot without actually registering what I'm looking at, or passively think "cool, I'll get to that when I'm done here" after which of course I will forget, because my brain isn't wired "correctly"
It never happens bc I don't care or don't respect someone else's time.
AWWW PERIOD, i feel so seen
That violinist is AMAZING who called him out.
4:33
not only is she wrong for doing it because she's not a real victim, BUT she ALSO just put her uncle out there like he is a predator!!! she's implying that he's victimizing her and that could cause him a lifetime of trouble with work, police, society and even family... SHE DID HIM WRONG!!!
News flash: it’s okay to tell people you’re not in the mood to go out/hang out at that moment.
I’ve also told my friend that it’s okay for her to say she already has plans which is way better than her ignoring me completely. Our friendship can be rocky but we always talk through things and that’s why we’ve remained close friends.
Let's not shame people who find it harder to reply to texts or emails than scrolling and reposting stuff. Sometimes I can't even *look* at a message for days.
The woman in 2:45 hit someone with her car while drunk driving and with her kids inside the vehicle too, she got arrested after
I love the violin clip!! As a fellow violinist, that was amazing!! Love seeing fake violinists being called out
It was so satisfying to watch I didn't know what to do with myself.
i've seen people doing the same but with singing
How did he use the bow without the strings making a racket over the music track?
I believe the whole exchange was fake. She wasn't even moving her fingers while playing a complicated piece and who was recording her? Maybe they should have gotten a better shot of her actually playing.
It’s like a stolen valor thing. Waste of time and only bothers the people who play it. No one else cares. If you’re actually good, you won’t care either
Stuff about the lying about hanging with your friends or texting someone back makes me so glad my friend group has this thing where, if we wanna hang out/wanna talk and know it'll be a long discussion, we usually start off by saying "do you have the mental space for this? / How's your social battery right now?" and we move forward from there
You have an awesome friend group! I have anxiety issues & used to make up reasons for not going to my daughter's house or for her to visit me when asked. She lives 40 minutes away. She finally said, 'Mom, I know you don't always have the oomph. Just tell me that. I understand.' By her saying that, I find it's less stressful and can say yes more often. Mind you, I've always said yes to watching the grandsons for a date night with her husband(who is a Godsend!) But I won't sleep over. They come home, I go home. No matter how late it is.
We do this in my friend group too and it’s genuinely so relieving to know that any one of us can say no and they’ll understand. There’s usually 1 or 2 of us that have the mental space to talk whenever it happens, so it’s never a huge deal when someone else does back out. It really helps to just cement boundaries in general and know what you prefer/expect in newer friendships and relationships
This! My friend group and I also have a standing thing that no pressure to text back cuz we all got different energy levels, social batteries, and lives we are living. If you get back a week later so be it. If we need things within a time frame we let each other know that. Otherwise, do you, get back when ya want to, no harm no foul.
That sounds so refreshing, honestly. Not a lot of people in my miniscule circle understands that that is necessary.
"social battery" - my favorite new phrase 😂
It is true that dj's play pre recorded sets a lot of the time, but it is usually the festival organisation that demands a pre-recorded set so the light show can match. One of my friends is a dj and he wishes he could just always play live, but sometimes the organisation won't let him. Also organisations are afraid you might mess up so if you're on a really big stage you're also not allowed
Mental health allows you to prioritize what matters. Not every text is crucial to someone who is mentally struggling, whereas posting might be therapeutic and a stress reliever for them. After my husband died I had no emotional energy to have conversations, I only went online for a distraction, it’s been 5 years and I still do this when I’m too overwhelmed raising our 3 kids alone, real friends understand. If it’s an emergency I’ll be there but I don’t always have the mental or emotional time/capacity to have conversations about nothing. I think in a romantic relationships it’s different as your partner should be a priority.
Well said!
This is also true for those who are neurodiverse, responding to a simple message isn't always so simple 💛
Also depends on what you've told your friends (and romantic partner!) - everyone important to me knows that I will not see a text as important and not always answer it. If you need me and there's any time constraint or urgency, call me because text don't always get seen, remembered, or answered.
Fair. Honest. & understandable.
I work a truly exhausting job (9 hours per day, if u include lunch). & it both emotionally & physically taxes me. Mostly, physically now, only.
I don't always have the emotional energy to properly respond to a text in a cogent or engaged manner.
I want to..but I end up having to wait for a day off. & usually I sleep all day..on my days off.
My occasionally stress-induced insomnia doesn't always help, either. So it might b a week or so b4 I check my texts.
I also have it on Do Not Disturb all the time so I don't get constant phone calls from:
telemarketers, some fool strangers that have "the feels".. or even "wrong numbers"..etc.
[I also can't have it on at work, disturbing me at my job.
We're not allowed anyway..if we're on-the-clock & not on break.]
I only communicate by text, generally. Unless it's business. Or the doctor's office. [I'm having some physical mobility issues too. Hence, the body drop, exhaustion.]
I can screen easier, texting..
w/o the weird disengagement I feel talking on the phone when I can't see their facial expressions.
I generally do face to face, one on one, best.
Plus, I'm sometimes very very shy. So there's that.
So..I truly understand.
& u being a single parent. Absolutely, bone-wearyingly exhausting, some days.
& I only experienced that babysitting another person's kids a few times
(b4 my neurological incident, thn caused me mobility issues)..
so, hats off to u! U r doing great.
Esp. saying u need a break, or time to decompress. Or r too beat to deal w/anyone but the kids r now.
I believe it's important to self-care.
& btw, in MY job...I deal w/ppl ALL day, & need the downtime from all of tht.
So, understand tht u truly DO need to grab those times & replenish the well, b4 u can throw yourself back into the flow of things. 👍
Lots luv, girl! I feel ya... ❤
Chill. W/a passion. 😎
Self care. Like it's goin' outta style.. 💁♀️
I'm right there with you on the mental part. After my mental breakdown it was hella difficult
Love the blue eyeshadow and winged liner!
@@Amy-ky5wr Yes they do! They also do those weird tests to test people's motor functions. Ie, it's hard af to walk in a straight line when the world is tilting with you, you have a hard time touching specific spots on your face (like the nose), counting or reciting the alphabet, etc. They're extra clues that make the cops go "hm. You're on something." Plus breathalyzers can give a false-positive result, so it doesn't hurt to check in other ways if the person is drunk or high or something.
@@jellysharkbat Also, and this isn't common, but some people seem pretty sober but end up finding out they have auto-brewery syndrome, where their own gut bacteria makes alcohol and makes people intoxicated. Those breathalyzers end up giving people a head's up so they can get treated properly.
Yes she refused to take it.
@@skylarjaxx2399 Refusal requires an arrest with going to the station for a blood alcohol. (In most cases and states) It is also a separate charge that goes on your record.
@@Amy-ky5wr We should but not every cop has one on hand. But also it doesn't pick up if they've had drugs or popped pills.
As someone who only has so many spoons a day due to chronic illness - communication and texting are always the first to go because eating and taking care of shit that needs done has to come first. I’ve never gotten the hate not replying gets. We have lives, we have shit that goes on, and all other kinds of shit. Doesn’t mean we don’t love our friends any less
With the whole texting back thing, it's not always possible to text back immediately even if you see the message. I use my phone a lot for work, so I will see personal messages come in but can't respond in the moment as I am in the middle of something either time sensitive or that needs my full focus. I can't try and hold personal conversations and be able to focus on my work at the same time. Sometimes, that means I don't answer until I'm off work and at home. And even then sometimes I'm too exhausted to start what looks like it will be a long conversation so I put it off until the next day. Unless it's something urgent, no one is owed an immediate response. I've never understood why people get so upset if someone doesn't reply quickly.
The mom absolutely cackling about her daughter saying she pays her bills sounded so much like my late abuela that it brought tears to my eyes. I replayed it over and over. 💗
Her cackle was 💀🤣🥴 Gotta love mama! You can't fool her, one wee bit😅. I have tried fooling my mom a few times and she called BS! And your late Abuela will always be with you my dear❤️🥰 no one is ever truly gone!
The girl lying about wether or not she was in danger is pure evil. The things people will do to get clout smh 😔🤦
The guy on ig hypothetically saying “you’re just insecure” while actively contributing to the insecurity is so accurate it hurts me
Sometimes ppl make up excuses because some people don't take a no for an answer. You can say "I'm too tired, maybe next time" and they'll just guilt trip you or continue to push until you do say yes. It's easier to say "I have unmovable plans" than to deal with someone who just won't accept no. This isn't limited to friends either.
I've always tell my kids, if you're doing something you think you have to lie about.. you probably shouldn't be doing it. I hate liars.
I lie quite a bit 🫣. Not to hurt anyone, but bc I don’t want to reveal some things about myself eg bouts of anxiety & depression.. grief 🥹. I’m getting better about it with therapy & what not, but still I find myself “fibbing” sometimes. Making progress for sure, tho.. gotta start somewhere & lasting change doesn’t happen quickly.
I grew up hearing this from my grandma and now I tell my kids, if you have to hide it , you probably should not do it.
@Anna Rosen telling people about your bouts of depression and anxiety should never be hidden from the people who love you and care about you. They are the ones to help, listen and support you.
@@Sandi.Beyette that's really terrible advice. You are not obligated to reveal your anxiety to anyone you don't want to even if they love you.
@@Sandi.Beyette there are times when it is appropriate to lie.
About the "no time to text you back" I do this to people because I have no clue what to say.
That, or I have 0 energy to figure out what to say, then by the time I get to it again, it stresses me out that it took this long between texts and now I feel like my text needs to be more than a simple response, but also can't be too much.
Then I wear myself out again trying to formulate a response.
I have some sort of anxiety but don't have the funds to go to therapy to help figure it out.
He could have said this then
One golden rule: you should never shame people who feed you for not cooking. They are paying for your food, so enjoy it, what do you care whether they made it or not ? Another rule of course, is that if you didn't cook but bought it, be proud of it and say it ! After all, you are kind enough to buy for everyone so people should be thankful !
Don’t worry about slipping into a southern accent. When I first found your channel, I would binge watch your posts at night and fall asleep listening to you. For like a month, I spoke with your accent and couldn’t stop. It was really confusing for my coworkers, but I literally forgot how I normally talked. I had to stop watching you for a while, so I could get my southern accent back.
It honestly really depends for the texting thing. I'm notoriously bad at texting people back, but it's solely because I don't have the social energy to manage all my connections in the time that they want my attention, especially because my job saps my social battery. I've set up an emotional system with my friends, where if they send certain emojis in their texts I know its more urgent and requires my attention, that way no one feels like crap when they're waiting.
As long as the people important to you know what your relationship with texting is anything should be fine. I always have my phone on silent and try to not look at it as much... So for anything urgent people need to call, not text (calls get through on sound). Texts sometimes take hours, sometimes days to answer, sometimes I forget. That's not because the person is not important, it's because texts don't register as important. Everyone important knows this so there's never any hard feelings
My daughter hates phone calls. I'm not fond of texting. We make it work. She'll sometimes call me on her long commute home(hands-free, of course!) She understands if I'm not prompt on replying to her texts unless they need immediate attention. The one text I always respond to right away is her, as we jokingly call it, 'Are you dead?' text. I'm in my late 60's and live alone. She worries. So, every day she texts 'Good Morning!' at the same time. I respond immediately with the same. I love her so much!
@@crazycatlady4551 I love that your daughter just checks in with you every day. She must like you or something.
@@sbrown9281 I guess she must! I feel very blessed to have her as my daughter.
@@crazycatlady4551 That's just like me and my mom with the good morning thing! I live overseas and she's sick and in her 70s, we have a very similar system. So nice to see other families making it work 💜
There is a difference in expectation between a DJ and a street musician. Everyone knows a DJ plays music by other artists. Arif you see a street musician you expect they are actually playing their instruments or singing with their actual voice.
I think pre recorded DJ show he prepare for the gig. Live artist, thats different
And that’s what makes the difference. People won’t give money to someone who just sits there playing someone’s else’s music, but they will give money to an artist
We have tons of these violin fakers in my town
6:35 I would argue that people dont owe you a response. Especially if you're gonna be some clingy weirdo that gets mad about not getting a response right away. If it's about something really important or serious, sure, I could see being upset about getting ghosted. But if they just didn't respond to casual conversation, who tf cares? Maybe they were busy, or maybe they just don't feel like talking to you. Or maybe they just don't feel like being social for a while?
The girl that was lying to see her boyfriends reaction was so funny to watch. They both seem so sweet and the way he was just saying “don’t lie it’s not nice” while she’s can’t even keep a straight face is absolutely adorable 😂❤
I feel for the salad lady. My husband once did that with roasted purple potato fries that not only I made, but GREW myself! It traumatized me, I don't think I'll ever forget it. Lol
Damn, that violinist tho.
What a badass.
That violinist was badass! I learned Irish fiddle and it’s hard. She was playing bluegrass but she obviously has many years of playing bluegrass. Respect ✊
She woke up that morning and chose... violins.
Does Irish fiddle or bluegrass require fingering the strings while playing like a violinist does? Because she doesn't!! Hmmm!!
@Dave Dixon 😂 😂 😂
@WishIWasCatLadyVivian different styles require different techniques. Both bluegrass and Irish fiddle requires double stops and heavy bow work. I was classically trained so scales, bow technique, and vibrato were part of my training. All three have different rhythms.
I learnt very early on that I’ll get in way less trouble if I don’t lie. I once broke a window in school music room. My friend asked me to pass the bottle and I was too lazy to walk so I threw it and he can’t catch it. Teacher came in and asked in stern voice “who did this?” And I was like “Oh, it’s me. Unintentionally tho, you can call my mom for compensation. Everyone was stunned, the teacher was like “Did you try to cover for someone?” 😂😂😂 I ended up paying nothing cause the room will be renovated next month anyway and the teacher praised me for being honest 😂😂😂 she was like “See, if everyone is like this when they did sth wrong then I won’t have to yell so much”
I was accused of not txting/chatting enough by a friend. I literally hate phones and am uncomfortable using them. I am autistic, but this was such a deal breaker that she now hates my guts. At the time she was living under my roof, eating my food, wearing my clothes, and spending my money because she had none. Then went on a holiday on a beach side tropical resort alone for 2 weeks, while I had no money ... I cant even ...
That’s so fkn rude!! She’s such a b
You srsly did not deserve it!!!
¨Dont lie, dont lie, its not nice!¨ High quality guy right there, really wholesome reaction.
Mental health has truly altered my ability to keep in touch with people.
Anxiety can affect the way I will be able to answer right back or not.
Like really I feel terrible about it and hearing you say that people who dont answer hate you... feels bad .
I know it's meant to be light hearted but it hit me good.
On another note thank you for your videos they really help. They bring a little but necessary laughter .
Have a great day 💜
Please don't take her words to heart. You are not a bad person for not having the spoons to be able to reply within a nonsense arbitrary timeframe and if the people around you don't understand that, then they're not really being supportive friends. Nobody is owed a response from you, and this "joke" showed a distinct lack of empathy (or at least thought). Sadly, ableism is a common thread through society, and it's exhausting. Hang in there.
Find an emoji that you can return with to say you need 24 hrs, All my friends know my ⏳⏳⏳ time emoji is that I can’t answer right now and to check on me later..it lets me get calm again and doesn’t hurt their feelings. ❤ If it’s an emergency I tell them to literally call not text me 📞. Try it and gain some independence from the stress of replying right away and keep your friends happy 😃
@@MrsStevenBrown thats a really good advice / jacl thanks a lot 💜
@@MrsStevenBrown That sounds like a good suggestion to try, but sometimes even THAT can be too much of a demand because it means you have a deadline you have to meet to "deal" with whatever's making it hard to respond. Maybe it's different for allistic (though not necessarily NT) people, but I know for myself and most of the other autistic folk I know, that extra pressure would make it worse, not better because, for many of us, demand avoidance is a very real part of our wiring.
@@JustAnotherBuckyLover The number of hourglasses is the number of days I might need, or if I do clocks, its hours. The instant reply releases me to not worry about it, as THEY will get back to me, not me get back to them! so 3 ⏳⏳⏳means 3 days from now contact me if I haven't gotten back to you, and 3 clocks🕰🕰🕰 is 3 hours from now contact me..as I will forget as soon as something else pops up and they know that abot me.. find the way you can be comfortable and send an emoji to say you got the note at least, this has saved SO many of my friendships!
As someone that developed an anxiety disorder (with adhd) that gives me fear to answer texts/emails directly and then makes me forget the existence of such texts and emails, and then remembers and proceeds to feel like shit for not answering in weeks and then goes through the shame phase and starts thinking everyone hates me, I can say ITS COMPLICATED. But hey, if its your partner and its not a pattern and its SUSPISH it's a different matter.
WE LOVE YOU CHARLOTTE, YOU AND YOUR FAKE ACCENT
I'm in this comment and I don't like it XD
We have a number of scamming "violinists" who play Lindsey Sterling's music through a super loud speaker that disrupts an entire parking lot.
Makes me really sad because on the opposite side of the city, there's a guy who's been playing original songs on his guitar for years now. And like, he's not set up in a safe spot, but it's just a good example of genuine performing vs scamming.
The thing about kids lying has been a real struggle for me. One of my step kids has autism, ADHD, OCD, and ODD. ODD makes him have no sense of consequences for his actions and so he lies all the time without really understanding it's not a good thing to do. For a long time I took it personally and it hurt my feelings because he only lied like that with me, not his dad or biological mom, but then I realized they weren't as hands on as I have been with his scholastic success, therapy, etc so he wasn't used to it. It's gotten better over the years, but it's opened my eyes in so many ways. Taught me way more understanding of individual limitations. It's been a continual life-changing lesson on communication, support, and forgiveness. Maybe it's just evolving as a parent in general, but before all of this I would have punished my kids for lying, but now it's an opportunity for both of us to grow and talk it out. Made me appreciate him on so many other levels. It's crazy how life works out sometimes
That real violinist is freakin Fantastic!!
Growing up in my house you got yelled at if you lied and got yelled at if you told the truth. So...to my family it didn't matter which way you chose so it became what's the option to make sure no yelling happens. =P Messed up a lot of things actually.
Same. Unless everything is 100% perfect... you're getting yelled at.
EXACTLY!! This is how it was in my house too and it was frustrating bc even if it was as small as not putting a cup back not the cupboard I would be too afraid not o even say anything. Its really ruined my ability to be honest and truthful about so many things.
10:30 It took me YEARS to finally get with this. IDK why, but I would always panic and spit out an obvious lie - but I eventually started correcting myself and apologizing immediately before telling the truth, which actually got me into LESS trouble than I would have been in because my folks were impressed that I was making the effort to change. It was a good lesson to learn.
I have a ton of screen time b/c I put youtube on while I work. I genuinely keep my phone silent and don’t check or reply to texts, calls, or emails more than once or twice a day, sometimes not at all for a weekend. Maybe it’s adhd, maybe social anxiety, idk. We late repliers do exist, though, and I’d reckon at least most of us really care! 😅❤
The texting back thing…. Everybody has their “own time”, especially if they are neurodivergent. If I text back within 24hrs, that’s a win! 6hours? It must be very important! 😂
Exactly!!! The thing is, no one should ever give a reason why they didn't text back. I've read so many comments where people have stated their medical reason. I have had anxiety and panic attacks, mood disorder and depression for years but I've never used it as a reason to apologize for my not getting back to someone. I'm 55, I lived through the pre- cell phone years AND answering machine/voice mail years. You had to leave message and wait until someone came home to get it or just call in the evening and even then, sometimes people didn't answer because they were not home or outside. We didn't always have cordless phones either. You text or call when you are ready to. Someone on here said, "the cell phone is for MY convenience, not yours". So true.
I'm in a phase where I don't text back anymore unless it's extremely urgent or when I'm texting with my immediate family. I stopped worrying too much about people not responding to my texts too. I sent the message, that's it. It's up to them to respond or not. I don't do follow-ups anymore. The only time I get concerned about not texting back is when I try to check on my mom and she doesn't respond for hours.
After hiding it and lying about it for a long time, i finally just started being honest about depression and how shutting down for sometimes days at a time and then thinking about what would be built up on my phone by the time i felt better...i hate that it makes me an unreliable person but being honest about it and dealing with THAT guilt is much better than all the bs i used to go through to make up excuses and have people worrying about where i was and what was going on
I feel like it’s not an unpopular opinion that we don’t have to text anyone back immediately after we see the message. Sometimes I don’t feel like a conversation and I’ll leave it unopened for when I’m ready for contact with other people lol
Charlotte your eyeshadow and eyeliner combo are KILLING IT today💗💗💗
So love your sassyness. You say what a lot of us say in our head. Your one of kind hun, love your videos.
That lady stopped for drunk driving..lol.. shielding her eyes from the sun, with sunglasses on her head 😂😂
7:15 hold up Charlotte. As an neurodivergent introvert it is incredibly taxing for me to do social conversations outside a social context. Sometimes I end up not replying to my friends for days because of how mentally draining it could be, especially if the convo is an ongoing on. I understand that this is a joke but just because I don't respond to someone it doesn't mean I hate them. I feel like if people hear this it could give them some anxiety around their friends when they might just not be as social as them. Other than this, great video!
A text for me is like a message on the answering machine, I'll see it eventually. I can go over 24h without touching my phone. I only use it when I am out of the house.
Me too. I enjoy my time too much to have a digital parasite with me all the time.
I'm the same way. And there are absolutely times when I CANNOT text back - driving, working, sleeping, etc.
The girl who did that to her uncle is sick. She could've gotten him in serious trouble.
I'm ADHD, so I will legitimately forget for months about texting or messaging someone. Out of sight, out of mind and all that. It works for relationships too! Doesn't mean I hate them. But I will always make an effort to answer if it's time sensitive.
6:50 yeah... having the mental and/or emotional capacity for scrolling and reposting is ENTIRELY DIFFERENT than for maintaining a conversation. Especially for people with anxiety/adhd/autism etc.
First of all, LOVING the blue eyeshadow and earrings - you're looking fierce today, Charlotte! Secondly - my parents taught me repeatedly that I would get in far, far less trouble if I told the truth than if they found out I lied about something. That proved to be true a couple times and that was enough for me. Admitting you did something wrong is hard. Getting caught lying is 1000 times worse.
Yep but you need to enforce this as well. Like if they say you get into less trouble if you don't lie but then punish you either way, that's not gonna make kids lie less. To the contrary, punishing kids for making mistakes even when they own up to them is only gonna make the kid a better liar. Speaking form someone who knows and is an excellent liar as an adult because I could never tell my parents anything growing up.
@@ellabellaswe the first step is admitting it..and you're doing good as far as I can see..Just try to do better now. Not everyone deserves the repercussions of your upbringing.🤷🏼♀️🤣❤️
Happy Morning Everyone! I’m buying a car! Miss Toocus is excited for puppy rides!!!
Wonderful! Congratulations!
Congrats!! Love new car smell. My frenchie loves car rides too ❤
Congrats ❤ as someone that desperately wishes they could ever afford that at 23 I love to see it! Yes! GO YOU!
Congratulations! Are you gonna be stopping to get Miss Toocus a pupicino?
Congrats enjoy the rides with your puppers
As a person who's always on their phone, I barely ever answer texts although some of them are literally my best friends, but sometimes it's just so overwhelming and my anxiety gets the best of me which leads to me ignoring my friends without wanting to ignore them
I say this with love:
Having the time to text someone back doesn't mean someone has the spoons to do so, though. We need to consider mental health and disabilities. If my friend was hurt that I didn't respond in the time frame they thought was acceptable, and they don't accept my reasoning, I'd have to tell them that they are entitled to their feelings, so they should find a different friend who can meet their expectations. Bc I need friends who support my mental health.
Being on social media does not require as much energy as a back and forth conversation with a friend.
The funny part about the woman who was drunk/not drunk is that there are cases of someone getting 'drunk' because of a physiological condition that causes fermentation in the stomach when they eat too many carbs which leads to the drunkenness even when they literally have not had a drop of alcohol. But the condition is extremely rare and that woman was legitimately drunk.
Also extremely low blood sugars. Diabetics that are in ‘diabetic shock’ or severe hypoglycemia can smell, sound, or act drunk, even though they aren’t. Hyperglycemia (high blood sugar) can also seem like that, but the lows are the main culprit.
It’s because the brain is quite literally processing information at a different speed. Not always slower, even. Just… at a different speed, or in a different order. It makes things come out weird. Half the time, the affected person doesn’t remember what happened.
…I ended up under my bed one morning, with no idea how I got there, a lump on my head from when I hit the floor, and my roommate attempting to do a blood check, but I wasn’t letting her grab either of my hands… so she grabbed my foot. Looked up how to do a blood check via a toe, even!
Your look today, hair shade, eyes, all of it is such a vibe.
The group chat I have with my 2 best friends is the best thing ever. There'll be times when all 3 of us are chiming in nonstop, times when 2 of us are having a convo and the other one is ignoring it, and times when it's just silence from all of us. Lol
I'm gonna have to respectfully disagree with the texting thing... A lot of people will see a text, think "I'll answer later" and forget (I'm one of those people lmao), others genuinely just dont enjoy texting, could be in a depressive slump and avoiding others, anxious if they didn't answer fast enough and so on. While I would def be a bit concerned if someone I'm close to and in regular contact with stopped responding to me, I'd rather send another text letting them know I hope they feel better soon and to let me know if there's anything I can do, than get upset they didn't respond. If work shouldn't harass you after work hours when you're at home, then wanting to avoid people and be alone should be just as fine imo. Sometimes people want to be alone, they don't owe anyone a response.
I'm the same way... sometimes I'll go weeks without texting people (my husband and mother excluded) just because I don't have the emotional energy to respond.. my two best friends understand this and have a group chat where they basically talk to each other and I respond when I feel able but can keep up with their lives regardless.. texting is hard and it should be more acceptable to not respond
I get tired of people assuming that I must have time to read texts & reply, even though I work all day - my phone goes in phone jail while I work, otherwise I’d never get anything done… I have ADHD, so if I stop to reply, it’s very difficult to go back to what I was doing before.
"If they don't text back after six hours, they hate you."
Unless they have ADHD and/or crippling social anxiety, like me. Where I tend to either see a text, put it down with the plan to answer it later if I'm currently busy and then completely forget about it for like a day, or I'm just too anxious to answer right then and there. It doesn't mean I hate the other person. It just means that I'm forgetful or not in the right mental space to be social.
I understand you said that as a joke and it was funny on some level, but you didn't have to go for the throat, lol. Still love you though!
Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.
I have adhd and do this thing where I respond in my head and not actually respond so I think I responded lol. So my 3 friends know what it means when I say mentally responded😅
The general rule for me... I'll answer when I feel like it. Idc who it is. And that's IF I feel like answering. I have a right to not talk to people. Just because my phone is always on me(for emergencies), doesn't mean I have to socialize with anyone. 😁
Had one of those fake violinists making the rounds where I live last year. Was so obvious, especially when he stopped mid-song to take someone's money, and the violin music kept playing. 😄
Totally fell for the violin thing. Not in an I have them money. I just thought dude was playing 😂
I love that she couldn’t even get through it and started laughing before he even said “don’t lie” 😂
I used to notice a guy in his 20s(maybe 30s) playing violin unaccompanied in front of a Grocery Outlet. He was literally always 5' away from the entrance/exit. Never once had a speaker or anything electronic next to him anytime i saw him playing. Some of the most beautiful sounds.
As a violinist, YES this busking scam is fucking infuriating. I’ve had close friends of mine fall for it too and when I point out to them that they’re fake playing, they get mad I’m ruining a good wholesome moment. Like what lmao. Sorry.
10:55 I hate husbands that are NOT clear when they DON’T want to take lunch! It won’t hurt our feelings instead we’re more happy that we have less to do and that we’re not wasting food on little sh!tholes that won’t eat it. At least be honest seriously it’s makes a huge difference 🤣
We have a husband and wife scammer/fake violists outside my work and they follow you and beg for money. It’s shameful. They pretend to be out of luck musicians with several kids and no money for rent and food. I cannot stand liars like that. This burn was epic.
Dear Charlotte and all similar minded people, read this and memorize it:
We can see other people's texts and yet have no obligation to text them back, untill we feel like it. Just like we don't have to f with you but yet can have solo fun or f with someone we do want to. Can order food home but don't have to go to have pizza with you. Deal with it. My life is mine, you don't get to choose when I should do something I don't feel like doing. Being an introvert is not a crime and freindships are no ownerships.
if "I had other things to do" is not good enough reason to you, then learn to deal with reality. You're the main character of your life only, not mine. I don't owe any explanations about it to you, bc it's something everyone should understand on their own.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I was having a crappy work day, but laughing at idiots with you made it better. Thank you, Charlotte! 💖
That mom's laugh was the best ever! She's like, "Yes, please, mija, let this lie manifest itself into life!"
My mom used to say
I won't promise you won't get in trouble if you tell the truth, but I can promise you will get in twice as much trouble if you lie.
My quick statement about texting back. My adhd ruins my texting habits. I will literally respond in my head and assume I texted that and continue on my adhd or my brain just won't do it. But I genuinely will just not be looking at my phone. My computer is where I'm at 90% of the time
That color of eye shadow looks phenomenal! I am not usually the biggest fan of blue eye shadow, but wow, not today.
That violin bust was so satisfying
Love you and your channel Charlotte! I hope your vacation was amazing and you and your staff got tons of rest! But I can't wait for daily videos again the lack of Charlotte to finish off my days has really messed me up lol 😅 Appreciate yall!!
The woman in the third video, the one who was claiming she was drunk, allegedly hit someone with her car and fled alongside driving under the influence with her children in the car. To my knowledge the biker she hit is alive but had to be hospitalized. Please fact check me on the biker’s status if I’m wrong.
Where did this happen at? I'm trying to find articles about it so I can see the rest of the video but I can't seem to find it anywhere..
It wasn't allegedly. She served 1 year.
@@hayleycorwin7084 I saw more of the video here czcams.com/video/xdDN86b5H5A/video.html
Ok. So she was already in the hole 😂 I was like, "you dumb b. Why did you say you were drinking yesterday 🤦♀️" but it makes sense now. Karma 🤣
the sad reality is that a lot of people in relationships who say they're "too busy to text back," are actually saying, "I want you to chase me around so I can feel desirable, and so I can feel like I have power over someone." I've been through that way too many times. What's fun is when you turn it around and don't chase them, and don't reach out at all. They have no idea how to process that.
A few years ago, I dated someone who said he was too busy with work to see me because he was "so tired." However, multiple weekends in a row he had weekend-long Pokemon-Go raids, and then cooked all of his friends dinner. He still looked at me as the same person from college who he could get to chase him around, even though I had told him that girl was dead and gone. When we finally hung out (after weeks of me having not reached out, and instead hanging out with friends, working in my office, and doing my own thing) and he saw how productive I had been, he was shocked
Exactly. I’ve experienced this as well. Dated someone who was seemingly always unavailable, played the hot and cold game with me constantly. After a few months he ended things with me over the phone and I told him I understood but he better stick to that decision. I honestly felt relieved and started seeing friends more and generally just doing me. Wasn’t long before I started getting unhinged texts and late night phone calls talking about how he felt like his best friend abandoned him lol!??!! Like no sir, you are just shook that I haven’t been sitting around crying over you and begging for your attention.
"I'm too busy" translates to you aren't a priority to me.
I will often not text people back. I will pull the ADHD let me think about how I wanna respond, write the text in my head and then forget to actually type it and send it
Those earrings are the best. They turn your air pods metal af! Love ya girl, keep up the entertainment you provide. It's brilliant and is helping me with my current dark cloud!
I was one of those kids who would lie because it didn’t matter if I lied or told the truth I was still getting the same punishment
I love the videos with the people lying to tiktok in front of their partners. These always make me laugh
You are absolutely correct about owning your mistake. My kids knew that honesty and accountability would always save their butts. The punishment for lying was always the worst.
6 hours without replying and they hate you? Geez Louise, I must really hate all of my friends since I go for way longer than 6 hours without reaching for my phone on the daily. Calm down, Charlotte. There's a plethora of reasons as stated by a ton of people already. And while at it, since it seems to be a recurring theme: it's "bad enough" that you're checking out other people on social media? People have different kinds of relationships but this level of jealousy seems rather extreme.
My husband gave me a pair of Charlotte’s “Petty” sweatpants for Christmas and now I want to live in them! They are so bougie! 😭😭❤
I disagree that if you tell the truth you'll get in less trouble. I stopped lying when I was 18 cuz I was caught in a lie and figured it isn't worth it. However, even though I now tell the truth all the time...people still don't believe me and accuse me of lying. It's especially difficult if someone lies about me. Usually they are convincing or use bits and pieces of what I said against me. This is so frustrating cuz I have lost jobs and friends over this and it makes me worried for the day to come when there will be legal consequences if I cannot prove the truth. Also if you tell someone the truth about themselves or try to hold someone accountable but they don't want to hear it, they often come after you to shield themselves. This is particularly relevant in politics if you speak truth to power. So in theory you are right, but in practice it is way more complicated.
It's the "boy who cried wolf" scenario. You apparently told some whoppers before 18 that no one believes you anymore. You have some awesome people in your circle if you have lost jobs, etc because if it. I think I would find a new circle of people who aren't so judgmental and throw you under the bus. Start fresh and don't break the law!!!
@@WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone No it's nothing like that. I was still very honest before 18 but told a lie about going to a girl friend's house when I went to a guy's house. My mom went to pick me up at the girl's house and I wasn't there. She told me she got worried and I realized it wasn't worth the lie. Most of the people who don't believe me now didn't even know me prior to 18. Plus I went from a good kid who told little white lies sometimes to an adult who never lies unless it is to protect someone's feelings. I think the truth of a situation is sometimes just harder to believe than a convenient lie. You can still get in legal trouble if you didn't break the law. I once had a bf strangle me and I fought back by punching him in the face which made him bleed but he still didn't let go until the cops came. The strangulation didn't leave a mark so I was unable to prove I hurt him in self-defence so the cops sided with him cuz he had visible injuries. It is very scary when you know you can't prove the truth.
Yes, if it's more convenient to them to believe you are lying, they will. The people you come to know won't, but others will.
I am handicaped since 13-year-old or something, it is invisible. Every adults or older people in hierarchical positions over me WILL think I lie, EVERYTIME. Not one time did they believe my words, and even with medical proof there was still doubt. The only people who never doubted me like that were people my age or younger, adults who have that type of handicap/ know someone who has it already, or work in the medical field.
@@lisamartin9831 I'm really sorry that happens to you. It's awful!
@@JuxJacy Well I mean it doesn't happen that much anymore, I don't tell people about it now and deal with it as it is. I can do that now that I am not dependant on my worth (like school or post-high school diplomas). Not working a desk job helps a lot too. I am not insured nearly as much as if I was, but the trouble of dealing with this everytime was too much tbh. Worked better to ot have the situation happen at all for me, but I could afford to.
I can't even imagine what other discriminated people have to go through when things like that are not enough for a lot of people. Like how do you justify being poor ? Not having the time to do homework because of family problems ? Even more invisible or harder to diagnose handicaps ?
As long as it is an "inconvenince" to people to help others, it will stay that way.
LOVE the Violin player calling out the fake! :)
I saw someone playing the violin and he dropped the bow and the music was still playing 😂
This has been the longest month, I've severely missed my daily dose of Charlotte!! Looking forward to the new month and daily videos again 😀
I watched the full video of the woman driving drunk, and that situation was particularly heinous because she was responsible for a hit-and-run in which she seriously injured a pedestrian, prompting her to be later pulled over by authorities who recognized the description of her car. She claimed at the time she didn't know it was a person and thought she'd hit a road sign, but didn't stop driving because she was "late to pick up her kids from school". 😒
The cop had her do standard alcohol testing but she refused to do a breathalyzer and was later arrested for DUI.
Yesterday, I watched the whole Code Blue Cam video of the horrific woman at 2:50 . She hit a cyclist and just drove off because she had to pick her kids up from school. He was seriously injured - and yes, she is very drunk according to the sobriety test she later did. The only thing I will say is that she was extremely concerned about the cyclist's welfare after she got caught (she said she thought she swiped a sign, not a person). She actually seemed very upset and concerned about him and not the fact that she was caught like most people would in this situation. She is still a bad human.
I've never been so happy to see the food in someone's mouth. That mama, at the end, was great!🤣🤣🤣
I prefer a text over communication over an app. I have in-laws who only communicate through Facebook messenger or Snapchat or whatever and it drives my husband and I crazy because we don't always check apps or even respond on apps but if you text us, we will respond.
As somebody with adhd who regularly feels overwhelmed by too many texts (or just forgets to text back), I guess I hate literally everyone in my life... 💁
as someone with add in can get into a scrolling addiction forgetting the time and responsebilities. yes i am on social media sharing pictures, but i cant get out of it.
As a person with adhd I forget to text bck all the timd luckily me true friends understand & send me reminders 🙂 😊 ❤
OMG, the look on his face when the violinist started playing for real
He would make more money if he was a stand in for Patrick Mahomes!!!! LoL!!!
My family is glad i answer their texts with a "k" in 24hrs. Trying to be in constant contact with people is tiring and stupid. Dont have much to say after all. Just having general gist of whats going on is more than enough