Yes! We have ONE life to live here. Im 42, mixed race, and have had years of downplaying myself to help make others feel comfortable. I no longer do this and have noticed less women want to be around me when I walk in confidence. I can tell you though, it feels really good to be free in this area ✨️
Same here! I’m over it. Being confident makes others uncomfortable. They try to make us feel like we should “humble” ourselves🤣 I’m 23 and I just can’t do it anymore. I’m realizing having no friends is better than fake ones.
same! and im still so happy for you finally picking you🩷 im 25 not mixed raced but considered an exotical and just made this switch in my heart. it brought me to this channel✨✨
I’m almost 40 and I definitely relate to diminishing myself to cater to others and their insecurities. Not anymore! I’m working on my image and self-confidence and don’t care if anyone feels some kind of way about it!
@@PrettyEyesz Wow thanks sis the motivation i needed. We need to stop letting these jealous insecure demons stop us from reaching our fullest potential just becauae they're jealous
Yes❗ I have also noticed that when you're pretty but not at your fullest potential females are ok with it but when you fully elevate and glow up thats when they turn cold and the compliments stop😂
I once went out to dinner with an associate and she said let's dress casual. When I arrived, she was upset I beat my face and curled my hair. She was like, "I thought we said we were going to come casual?" I said, " I'm wearing jeans. This is casual for me!" She was in a stank mood for the rest of the night. That was my last time hanging out with her. 🤣
Girl I'm the sane way! My "casual" is too dressy for many people. ETA: But you can now see that she was trying to police your image and humble you down by suggesting you "dress casual". 👀
The opposite happened to me. I’m a beauty queen currently in a pageant. We had a brunch outing with all of the queens. The other lady from my area who won her category is very dark skinned and I’m caramel with curly hair and Native American and white facial features. She told me that the other ladies said that they were not dressing up. When I came to pick her up she had on a satin jumpsuit with heels and jewelry. The other queens had on gowns and I wore a casual jumpsuit because of what she told me. Never again! Regardless… I’m stepping out!
The amount of ppl that told me to dress "modestly" so that men dont harass me and respect me is crazy. Ppl will harass and disrespectful WHOEVER they want, it has nothing to do with what u dress. Wish i knew this sooner
I once wore a cute cocktail dress to a wedding with a slit near the thigh. Not too high up but very classy. I showed it to my female cousin and she was like “you look good but you gonna have to put some clothes on if you come to my wedding” 😳…and she was already married at the time so what wedding of yours was I coming to. She is now divorced from her husband with 5 kids because she ran him off with that nasty mouth she got. Talk about humbling..🤦🏾♀️
Edited : I grew up in foster care and I remember my last foster mom my telling and TEACHING me that I was very pretty but one day I came out of the bedroom with a paper bag on my head and she asked me what are you doing and I explain to her that if I'm so pretty than why do the girls treat me so mean she took the paper bag off my head and sat down and told me this "you are not only pretty but you have the IT factor " she said every where you go people love you ...and when you leave my family that's now your family , they ask me wheres the pretty girl . There were times where she would beg me to see my worth , even place me in front of a mirror to show me my face . You taking about how uncomfortable that felt. Again still not able to receive it because of all the bullying I had endured from certain family members added the other pretty girls .. that's right ironically enough I got bullied more from girls who I thought were even way prettier than me. Including my great aunt who was twice my age . Any who , the lady who taught me how to embrace my pretty was very kind and always went the extra mile to help me so much so she had connections to the industry and knew a few producers and would go out of her way to set up appointments for me to meet with prodycers so they could hear my voice , as she discoverd I had a voice and wanted to be a singer , however at the time I was too shy and lacked the confidence to "allow " her to help me follow my dreams. Eventually she eased up off what I thought was pressure , but the truth is that woman loved me and would have done anything to see me win! Keep in mind I was her very first foster child as she could not have children of her own , I only wished I had met her sooner . it took me 7 different foster homes before I finally got to her ! She would LITTERLYtell people how long she was in labor with me and my other siblings lol just for smiles 😀. yes. when I got to her house she's asked if I had more siblings I said yes and she immediately went into doing the process to get my other two younger sisters . As a side note she was absolutely appalled at how the system as a whole worked ! And it made her go even harder for us ! I mean she spoiled the ish out of us !! 😁 Btw all my sister's are Pretty Girls but we struggled deeply to believe that we were loved let alone pretty because of the treatment we endured wayyyy before getting to our last foster mom. She's now gone . And whenever I feel sad about how( primarily black men) have treated me ..I remember what she told me ." Never let a man devalue you ! He has to earn your attention"! There were times shed sit with tears in her eyes pleading with me to raise my standards ! 😞 I'm 47 now and lord knows ..if I had only believed what she said . Therefore I would have believed in my own PRETTY GIRL PRIV & POWER . But nope exploitation, fetishized and used even by my own father is why I still struggle. The irony is that while I'm a woman in the industry, sometimes I feel that's the only place where I can practice my pretty priv WITHOUT putting myself in an emotionally and physically unsafe environment with a man. In other words if I want attention from a man all I do now is log into work. lol ***Rip MS Yolande' Elliot you will forever be loved and missed. Oh! Added Bonus my foster mom was a very pretty woman too and all of her friends from Beverly hills were pretty women all married to doctors, lawyers CEO s so you know her wanting me to raise my standards were high plus she was raised by both parents who were well off too ! So my foster mom didn't get us to have a check she had money ! 😁 js. My foster mom looked Like D.A. FANI 😁 and in her younger years like Laura London minus the dimples. I was blessed to had experience the soft life even considering the cercumstances. Lord knows she tried to make sure we experience all that a pretty girl could , horseback riding , to going to parties with the upcoming child actors at the time in the industry yup ! Major exposure it wasn't an every day occurrence but it was enough to let me see another side of the world and what life could be like for a pretty girl if she would only EMBRACE her own powers ! Even writing this has me in tears .. but it's never too late . Sometimes I just feel like I let her down. 😞 It's bitter sweet really . Any who the best thing I can do is hold her in memory and try my best to honor her by HONORING MYSELF! So tomorrow I'm having lunch in Beverly hills 😁 don't know if Ill fit in but I'll try . That's why I came back to edit. because tomorrow has to be the day I remember her ❤️ . ❤️❤️❤️🙌🏼
Very beautiful & similar upbringing. What a relief thank God she was put in your life ! ❤️ *I hope you are doing better remember you are enough. My bonus Mom says that too ❤
Beauty is maintenance, models do everything they can to keep up their health and beauty. We are all aging as well so of course new insecurities will pop up. It’s definitely a journey.
You are so right…it don’t matter how long and thick our real hair is.. if we like extensions so what. My hair is really healthy and long, but because I’m super curvy long hair looks great on me so I go for long flowy drawstring ponytails and waist length hair. Compliments my body and face! I love when you say “ Who Gone Check Me” 😂
Policing yes I have noticed that it triggers people's insecurities when your secure within your own skin and Chili is caramel and the fact that she was attacked and called a colorist is absurd 🍷
Wearing a full face beat today with bows in my hair, I swear i just heard a hroup of women talking shift about me, saying it doesnt look good. Its funny because minutes before that someone ( bit in that group) complimented me and said I look cute 🥰, realized idgaf, im conceited I got a reason. All UABW
A hour long video to boost my self esteem???? YES!!😂 Honestly I am happy with how i look but if i lost this gut you couldn't tell me shit! That and some braces 🦷🦷
I’m not exotic, I’m Slavic woman and I love your Chanel! Lots of your content applies to women in General! Thank u for your work Lady! For me personally my biggest bully was my own mother.
You don’t owe sharing with strangers!! So, you can ignore their questions completely or play a celebrity and say: yes! Natural! It’s not their business anyway! You should only share with your closed ones if you wish
Hey! This is a very interesting topic and you articulated your points very well. I’m an African woman and I’ve always felt pretty. My mother definitely tried to downplay my beauty by not allowing me to explore fashion, etc when I was younger and make me feel bad when I tried to experiment with what I had. Now I’m 27 and I’m enjoying figuring out what looks best for me. I’ve gotten breast augmentation, I play around with different hair colors and I did grey contacts in the past that got lots of compliments. I love myself in every way I chose to express myself. Color hair is my favorite and I’m so excited for this cute blue and black color Im about to do next. I hate that people police women on how they like to look. I’m not multiracial, but I think your channel is good and important for multiracial people!
@@ExoticalsUnited I love blue as well! I did a bright cobalt blue in the past but this time I’m toning it down a bit with a blue-ish black base and lighter blue highlights! Rose gold sounds like it’s going to look so cute. Definitely go for that! 😁
Yessss 👏🏽👏🏽 this video is important. Growing up conservative, my beauty has been policed since day one. Your channel is helping me get out of that mindset.
Fun fact for the people that lost their mind over ‘caramel’ If you’re mixed with Indian or natives of Americas your skin color can vary drastically depending on how much sun you get And since she’s part Indian, her skin did that It was extremely racist for all the women in the comments on your video about her to be talking nonsense and stupidity When they don’t even know this is an extremely common trait of an ethnicity they don’t have!
That’s crazy I just said this exact same thing yesterday and decided *time to change* . I realized I will sometimes put myself down to make others feel better about themselves . Or for example, if I know I’m going to be around a friend of mine who’s a bit overweight I’ll try to dress down and cover my body a bit more so she doesn’t feel bad. Like why tf do I do this?? I’m not stuck up and don’t judge others or talk myself up at all, I don’t ever want to be that chick, but at the same time I take it too far and shouldn’t be literally covering myself up and putting myself down in any way bc of others insecurity . Men don’t do that shit. Whyyyy do so many of us women??!!
Chili is mixed with Native American and Indian so I’m not sure why she wouldn’t look the way she does. She’s a woman of color cuz she black and Indian/native so ppl are slow
@Diana-mm5yo I remember when I was 18, this guy was older than men he was 31. He tried to rub my mole off my face, thinking it was fake. Then had the nerve to say " you're pretty but I seen better " but I told him well my mother said you are supposed to get nothing but the best why waste time with little ol' me. There's the door now hit it.
Yeah I never let myself be my own beauty standard which made me have trouble even accepting myself. I realized I’ve always felt threatened by women because I was just insecure in myself and would compare for no reason. I’m learning to let go of that and decide I am beautifully created the way I am. “Other peoples beauty is not my lack “ My self image and self esteem has been a big factor in recognizing my beauty.
I absolutely absolutely agree with you and I am so glad you said it .someone has to . These old dustys running around being all in womens business about what we wear and how we look like when first of all we aren't their women they don't own us or ain't paying no bills . They should only be concern with their own witch . Period
I’m sorry but I’ve been in situations where unambiguous girls are enjoying their beauty then when an exotical walks in, their whole mood changes their not smiling and happy anymore.
You make a very good point especially in regards to colour seasons and colour theory. I have neutral warm tone and i still enjoy wearing silver earrings, necklaces. According to the colour season I'm a deep autumn and obviously rich vivid colours look phenomenal on me however I also try to wear cooler toned colours and work with it. Never ever limit yourself ever when it comes to beauty. Surprisingly i never limited myself when it came to clothing, jewellery choice.
When I started wearing makeup at 16 my mother told me she didn’t like me wearing it so she forbade me. I am now 18 and I noticed that she uses manipulation tactics to make me feel bad about wearing it. She tells me that the only reason I wear makeup is to attract boys. Which is false. She says that me wearing makeup distracts me from school because I am focused on men. Which is also false. She tells me that she is trying to protect me by not allowing me to. I avoid wearing it in front of her because when I do she goes on long rents (which I don’t want to hear). She says stuff like “You think you’re grown, just because you’re 18”. She has been a good mother to me, but when it comes to me looking good and attracting the male gaze as the result she gets very protective. She tries to police my looks and it’s annoying. I have to constantly hide to wear makeup and dress nice since I still live with her. It’s draining.
If you're in college, get a part-time job and get an apartment with 3 other roommates. It can even be a studio apartment. Just utilize bunk-beds for your sleeping arrangements. The only other thing you ladies need is sofa to lounge and a table with chairs to eat. Just do your studying at school or in the library for quietness. You don't NEED to stay at home after 18yrs of age but you also shouldn't be alone. That's why having roommates is ideal for young people. Living away from your mom during these transitional years when you're growing into your full beauty potential can be great for your own personal development. I know you've stated that your mom has been a good mother to you but she appears to be jealous right now. In these type of situations, living apart can actually save the relationship, which I'm assuming you'd like to do. Coming home to policing and degradation every day and hiding who you are literally growing into can cause long-lasting damage to not only you, but to your relationship with your mom as well. Maybe it's time to spread your wings, sweetheart. It's okay to get a place with young ladies of your own age group who are growing through the same phases that you're growing in. You can still love your mom and visit her when you like. I'm not recommending this as a means to be spiteful or vengeful at all. This is just a way to alleviate something that is causing you daily stress while also allowing you to form a close friend group that is in the same age group as you. Remember, ONLY CHOOSE PRETTY GIRLS AS YOUR ROOMMATES. 😄💛😘💛🤩💛
@@BlossomingWoman I really don’t think it’s jealousy. I come from an African background where eating makeup equals seeking attention from men. Many Africans people view it as a bad thing and you wanting to be grown. For instance me and my siblings are naturally pretty and she would complement us on our features. I noticed she says things like (you look better without makeup), which could be a manipulation tactic to make me want to wear less makeup. I know I look better with makeup from my experience and how people treat me. I think she is just obsessed with the idea of natural beauty and she always says stuff like « I never wore makeup when I was young, why are you trying to ». She is trying to live through me which I hate. She wants me to be like her. And to her wearing makeup means that you automatically view yourself as ugly and you have to cover up. She thinks I wear makeup because I’m insecure.
@@Un-packedthat’s what they’re taught as if it came in a pamphlet or something. For me it was the lipstick. I love lipstick but to Africans or Caribbeans or Indians lipstick=whore lol 😅
It definitely requires a lot of inner strength to comfortably carry one's beauty. Jealousy from others has been disheartening But I now love and embrace who I am on an authentic level inside and out. One word of advice ... Never ever put yourself down to make someone else feel better about themselves. We're all responsible for our own sense of self worth ... Both internally and externally.
You have validated my feelings, I cannot tell you enough. I did not know how to verbalize my feelings or explain to ppl what I was experiencing. This channel has offered me a great space to just relax and breathe. You have managed to verbalized everything so effortlessly. I live alone in my community and let me tell you, the wives here hate me for wearing shorts and enjoy my beauty. I was told that I am wrong for their husbands being attracted to me. I dnt consider men that are married at all. I dnt date married men, so I wud never look at their husbands but it doesn't matter to the wives. They tried to spread a rumour abt me the other day that i was with one of the wive's husband and I there was an old lady that I talk to who also is single and prefer to be single, defend me and told ppl to leave me alone. These wives tried to destroy my reputation because I choose to be single, and enjoy my body and beautiful features, all because they feel threatened. I honestly think that these women wud love if i was hurt by men, or ridiculed by them. This makes me hate insecure women.
Excellent video. This is definitely your gift, you are able to explain such a topic in such a perfect way. My whole life I have talked to God about my beauty. I’ll be 40 this year. I’m finally walking in freedom in my beauty despite people’s opinions. I focus on being beautiful on the inside, and I change up my beauty on the outside frequently to keep my enemies away from me. I’ve noticed if I downplay my beauty at all, they come closer and knash their teeth at me, accuse me, and attack my character. I now use the versatility of changing my makeup, hair, nails, jewelry etc. to literally keep them away. They do still make comments, but I make sure they know I don’t do any of it for them, I do it for me.
Thank you so much! I feel so blessed to have discovered this channel and this positive supportive community. I have let so many define my beauty… this year, today I will take baby steps to be beautifully me. Thank you all for encouraging me (and others) to do so. Sending much love. 💗
How do I respond when people say "You're not that pretty, you're not that light skinned, i've seen pretter [girls], your eyes/hair is fake, you have makeup on", etc all these remarks made to humble us pretty girl exoticals? Can you please make a video on this because im not quick witted to think of comebacks in the moment 🙈
them: "youre not that pretty" me: "and you ARE?!" them "youre not that light skinned" me: "and youre not that confident if youre obsessed with MY skin tone." them: "ive seen prettier girls" me: "and i dont give a fuck" them:" your hair is fake" me: "not as fake as your jealous ass personality" 😀 I could go on and on..... 😂
One time a guy in a bar told me, “You’re cute, but you’re not THAT cute.” I told him, “I don’t respond to negging, but nice try, pumpkin!” And I booped his nose and walked away 😁
I just recently got blonde hair and I used a green eye filter (that’s me in my pfp) and I’m a brown skinned bw. I’ve been feeling confident and really pretty and I had a UABW harass me recently and tell me I’m “trying to be white” and “hide your dark skin”. Pretty girls can’t just be pretty in peace or explore our beauty without jealous haters having something to say abt it. Also I was wayyyy darker a few months ago but I’ve been staying out of the sun and I’ve lightened up especially due to the season change
I really enjoyed your message. I remember when I first went blonde an old best friend of mine kept saying for me to change it because I'm "trying to look like a white girl". Why can't I just like blonde hair because I like it? I'm still black at the end of the day. Doesn't even matter, now I'm a ginger❤😂
I needed to hear this right now. I usually wear a clean face with a red lip. I try to limit my sun exposure to maintain a brighter tone year round. You channel is a great source empowerment.. Stay pretty ladies..
@32:31 I agree with you 100 percent. Whether it is from a positive or negative perspective, you have still achieved your goal because people are still talking about you, they have taken time out of their day to talk about you while you baring even notice their presence. They only talk about you because they notice you, and often, they resent themselves for noticing you, and most of times, you may not even have noticed them because they is nothing special about them, so they try to bring you down by insulting you loudly, just to ensure you hear it. Imagine being in a grocery store filled with hundreds of people of all ages, including those your age. Then, you overhear someone talking negatively about you but not just under their breath but very loudly. They may think they are bringing you down a notch, but what that actually tells me is that among all these people in the grocery store, you singled me out to insult. If I didn't stand out, you wouldn't have noticed me to insult me; I would have been invisible. No-one insults those they deem not be attractive because they are pretty much invisible.
Enjoy the video. It help me out tremendously. I had people get me at high cheekbones, freckles, eyebrows that is not unibrow, etc. But i learn to take control of my self and i dont like copying anybody. Ironically, my cousin try to cope beyoce and it didn't work.
Botox is a preventative treatment as well. If you start getting Botox before you get wrinkles you will prevent and slow down aging and look younger as you age
I have nice hair. Been keeping it short, but trying to let it grow out now. I have a specific style I wear with my short hair. Popping coils and layed edges. I get compliments allllllllll the time ❤ But, i can't wait till my hair gets longer, I'm gonna look even prettier 😂❤
OMG I JUST BOUGHT SOME NEW EDGE CONTROL YESTERDAY I FEEL LIKE A BADDIE 😂 I’ve never really cared about slicking my edges but I tried it yesterday for fun . It was giving a 90s vibe!
I love your discussion on taking your beauty / privilege back i came to the same realization a few years ago that a lot of self love especially about your body comes from what you deem attractive and if you embody that yourself and find your own way of doing it so it suits your body/face self love will follow. I also think thats a big problem is understanding how to emulate for you and how your body looks and the structure of your face
I love your voice it is so soothing to me and I 😊Love this video ❤- i also grew up in a strict Christian household where my dress was policed heavily. I also love to be as thin as possible due to my short stature and curvy shape- my ideal size is size 2- I felt most confident than In terms of others opinions, I especially notice this when it comes to my weight- they will keep saying oh your FINE when you gain weight than when it really gets out of control people would tell me- Wait WHAT Happened?! 😂 you know yourself better than anyone else and also you can also say “grow some ovaries” 😂
I had bullied by girls in highschool because i was too sexy if i wear outside. Er chill girls, it was only a profile pic. Im not even all ears of their lives. Let me do mine. But im 29 now, so i am glad i didnt drop my consistency of my skin care routine.
46:36 This is something I definitely relate to...I get told every now and then by people that I look like the Tia and Tamera twins when they were younger or when they were in the show sister sister. When I was a teen, it really used to annoy me, but now I take it as a compliment.
This is my new favorite video from your channel. I'm so happy to see someone to be thinking like me. I have a mix of 4A 4B and 3c hair it is waist length when straightened. I am curious as to how you might analyze my unambiguous black but cuban family (I know it is not your context but I find many similar pattern) telling me that they do not like my hair when I put it in thick Rihanna like faux locs which made my hair look even more afro like. I apologize if I maybe should not ask but it is interesting. By the way I am the lightest in that side of my cuban family. I for the Cuba context am mulata like you would be and many other in this channel would be and I think I am dark I am caramel colored.
I love how you mentioned Botox because I’ve mentioned this about wanting to get it in my forehead before and folks tried to make me seem like I’m crazy.
thin privilege to me is an after thought. I really go into a bad vibe zone when I am not my normal weight especially with bloating, it's really difficult to feel good when you're not healthy. I used to run so when I cant run, it makes me sad. But one thing is some people tried to make me insecure about small t- while they tried to be thin themselves, but now that I am away from all these people, I realized how much I like my small t-. It's just me. Btw do you get peels?
I agree with the thin privilege being a 12/14 is a struggle even while still being pretty ! Mind you I’m an “all the right curves” curvy so I can only image how much more things I would’ve been passed on if I was boxy
WOW….All my life BP esp BW have told me that I look like Aaliyah or Sade. I had one bw as a kid - -7 yrs old stick her finger into my hair at candy store to see if it was real, and back then my hair was in pigtails esp after her baby’s daddy kept asking her my age- was I at least 12? I got so scared I ran out of there and my mom would have my older bro take me to store. I also got the “She looks like my 12th cousin’s aunt’s grandmother’s best friend’s who was mixed daughter!” 🙄
Interesting perspective. I feel like the problem is when we try to police other people. Like you said about body types, thin privilege etc it would be a problem if you were to tear down women who value thickness or a more athletic type. I am human so I catch myself doing it too 😂 but yeah we gotta learn to exist with different beauty ideals/goals
just heard about it and looked up beyonces instagram a second ago. i have no thoughts on it yet but if you see any interesting links or comments can you email them to exoticalsunited@gmail.com
If beauty wasn’t important, pretty girls/women wouldn’t face so much violent opposition from others.
Let that sink in 💡
You hit the nail on the head!!!!!!!!
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Yes! We have ONE life to live here. Im 42, mixed race, and have had years of downplaying myself to help make others feel comfortable. I no longer do this and have noticed less women want to be around me when I walk in confidence. I can tell you though, it feels really good to be free in this area ✨️
Same here! I’m over it. Being confident makes others uncomfortable. They try to make us feel like we should “humble” ourselves🤣 I’m 23 and I just can’t do it anymore. I’m realizing having no friends is better than fake ones.
same! and im still so happy for you finally picking you🩷 im 25 not mixed raced but considered an exotical and just made this switch in my heart. it brought me to this channel✨✨
I’m almost 40 and I definitely relate to diminishing myself to cater to others and their insecurities. Not anymore! I’m working on my image and self-confidence and don’t care if anyone feels some kind of way about it!
I can relate.
@@PrettyEyesz Wow thanks sis the motivation i needed. We need to stop letting these jealous insecure demons stop us from reaching our fullest potential just becauae they're jealous
Yes❗ I have also noticed that when you're pretty but not at your fullest potential females are ok with it but when you fully elevate and glow up thats when they turn cold and the compliments stop😂
Omg yes !
I once went out to dinner with an associate and she said let's dress casual. When I arrived, she was upset I beat my face and curled my hair. She was like, "I thought we said we were going to come casual?" I said, " I'm wearing jeans. This is casual for me!" She was in a stank mood for the rest of the night. That was my last time hanging out with her. 🤣
Omg I can’t stand when people do that 😂😂😂😂
Girl I'm the sane way! My "casual" is too dressy for many people.
ETA: But you can now see that she was trying to police your image and humble you down by suggesting you "dress casual". 👀
@@meredithgrey777 my mother does the same…”you look pretty without makeup!” Ma’am I didn’t ask you! 🥴
Same 😂 i do the same.
The opposite happened to me. I’m a beauty queen currently in a pageant. We had a brunch outing with all of the queens. The other lady from my area who won her category is very dark skinned and I’m caramel with curly hair and Native American and white facial features. She told me that the other ladies said that they were not dressing up. When I came to pick her up she had on a satin jumpsuit with heels and jewelry. The other queens had on gowns and I wore a casual jumpsuit because of what she told me. Never again! Regardless… I’m stepping out!
The amount of ppl that told me to dress "modestly" so that men dont harass me and respect me is crazy. Ppl will harass and disrespectful WHOEVER they want, it has nothing to do with what u dress. Wish i knew this sooner
I once wore a cute cocktail dress to a wedding with a slit near the thigh. Not too high up but very classy. I showed it to my female cousin and she was like “you look good but you gonna have to put some clothes on if you come to my wedding” 😳…and she was already married at the time so what wedding of yours was I coming to. She is now divorced from her husband with 5 kids because she ran him off with that nasty mouth she got. Talk about humbling..🤦🏾♀️
I am not mixed. I am a dark skin black woman. I agree with you 100% .
Edited : I grew up in foster care and I remember my last foster mom my telling and TEACHING me that I was very pretty but one day I came out of the bedroom with a paper bag on my head and she asked me what are you doing and I explain to her that if I'm so pretty than why do the girls treat me so mean she took the paper bag off my head and sat down and told me this "you are not only pretty but you have the IT factor " she said every where you go people love you ...and when you leave my family that's now your family , they ask me wheres the pretty girl . There were times where she would beg me to see my worth , even place me in front of a mirror to show me my face . You taking about how uncomfortable that felt. Again still not able to receive it because of all the bullying I had endured from certain family members added the other pretty girls .. that's right ironically enough I got bullied more from girls who I thought were even way prettier than me. Including my great aunt who was twice my age . Any who , the lady who taught me how to embrace my pretty was very kind and always went the extra mile to help me so much so she had connections to the industry and knew a few producers and would go out of her way to set up appointments for me to meet with prodycers so they could hear my voice , as she discoverd I had a voice and wanted to be a singer , however at the time I was too shy and lacked the confidence to "allow " her to help me follow my dreams. Eventually she eased up off what I thought was pressure , but the truth is that woman loved me and would have done anything to see me win! Keep in mind I was her very first foster child as she could not have children of her own , I only wished I had met her sooner . it took me 7 different foster homes before I finally got to her ! She would LITTERLYtell people how long she was in labor with me and my other siblings lol just for smiles 😀.
yes. when I got to her house she's asked if I had more siblings I said yes and she immediately went into doing the process to get my other two younger sisters . As a side note she was absolutely appalled at how the system as a whole worked ! And it made her go even harder for us ! I mean she spoiled the ish out of us !! 😁 Btw all my sister's are Pretty Girls but we struggled deeply to believe that we were loved let alone pretty because of the treatment we endured wayyyy before getting to our last foster mom.
She's now gone . And whenever I feel sad about how( primarily black men) have treated me ..I remember what she told me ." Never let a man devalue you ! He has to earn your attention"!
There were times shed sit with tears in her eyes pleading with me to raise my standards ! 😞
I'm 47 now and lord knows ..if I had only believed what she said . Therefore I would have believed in my own PRETTY GIRL PRIV & POWER . But nope exploitation, fetishized and used even by my own father is why I still struggle. The irony is that while I'm a woman in the industry, sometimes I feel that's the only place where I can practice my pretty priv WITHOUT putting myself in an emotionally and physically unsafe environment with a man. In other words if I want attention from a man all I do now is log into work. lol
***Rip MS Yolande' Elliot you will forever be loved and missed.
Oh! Added Bonus my foster mom was a very pretty woman too and all of her friends from Beverly hills were pretty women all married to doctors, lawyers CEO s so you know her wanting me to raise my standards were high plus she was raised by both parents who were well off too ! So my foster mom didn't get us to have a check she had money ! 😁 js. My foster mom looked Like D.A. FANI 😁 and in her younger years like Laura London minus the dimples. I was blessed to had experience the soft life even considering the cercumstances. Lord knows she tried to make sure we experience all that a pretty girl could , horseback riding , to going to parties with the upcoming child actors at the time in the industry yup ! Major exposure it wasn't an every day occurrence but it was enough to let me see another side of the world and what life could be like for a pretty girl if she would only EMBRACE her own powers !
Even writing this has me in tears .. but it's never too late . Sometimes I just feel like I let her down. 😞 It's bitter sweet really . Any who the best thing I can do is hold her in memory and try my best to honor her by HONORING MYSELF! So tomorrow I'm having lunch in Beverly hills 😁 don't know if Ill fit in but I'll try . That's why I came back to edit. because tomorrow has to be the day I remember her ❤️ .
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I was like this, I needed to hear your story.
Very beautiful & similar upbringing. What a relief thank God she was put in your life ! ❤️
*I hope you are doing better remember you are enough. My bonus Mom says that too ❤
Beauty is maintenance, models do everything they can to keep up their health and beauty. We are all aging as well so of course new insecurities will pop up. It’s definitely a journey.
I’m white af and I adore this channel!! 🙌🏼✨
Yay! 😀 thanks for watching !
You are so right…it don’t matter how long and thick our real hair is.. if we like extensions so what. My hair is really healthy and long, but because I’m super curvy long hair looks great on me so I go for long flowy drawstring ponytails and waist length hair. Compliments my body and face! I love when you say “ Who Gone Check Me” 😂
omg im OBSESSED with drawstring wigs!!! I LOVE how they look !!!!
Policing yes I have noticed that it triggers people's insecurities when your secure within your own skin and Chili is caramel and the fact that she was attacked and called a colorist is absurd 🍷
And they are going in on her hair and her non black boyfriend, typical behavior! 🙄
Wearing a full face beat today with bows in my hair, I swear i just heard a hroup of women talking shift about me, saying it doesnt look good. Its funny because minutes before that someone ( bit in that group) complimented me and said I look cute 🥰, realized idgaf, im conceited I got a reason. All UABW
I left a comment on someone's channel welcoming Chilli to the Caramel side with open arms ... girl it was removed!! 😂
that is a crying shame people have to be severely color blind to not see that Chili is a caramel frappuccino 🍷
Omg 😂😂
Wow 😂😂😂
Omg 😭😭😭
You had to know it was going to happen.
A hour long video to boost my self esteem???? YES!!😂 Honestly I am happy with how i look but if i lost this gut you couldn't tell me shit! That and some braces 🦷🦷
I’m not exotic, I’m Slavic woman and I love your Chanel! Lots of your content applies to women in General! Thank u for your work Lady!
For me personally my biggest bully was my own mother.
Thanks for watching ! And yes unfortunately the bullying starts in our own families!
@@ExoticalsUnited Yes! And its the hardest lesson ever! In the end its amazing opportunity to learn from each other. Have a nice Day Queen 🤍💫
You don’t owe sharing with strangers!! So, you can ignore their questions completely or play a celebrity and say: yes! Natural! It’s not their business anyway! You should only share with your closed ones if you wish
Oh yeah- especially since you’re never even going to see that person again? Like, who cares what they think?! Lmao
This resonates heavy as a light skinned Ethiopian the policing of my features,hair skin…
can I just be?
Hey! This is a very interesting topic and you articulated your points very well. I’m an African woman and I’ve always felt pretty. My mother definitely tried to downplay my beauty by not allowing me to explore fashion, etc when I was younger and make me feel bad when I tried to experiment with what I had. Now I’m 27 and I’m enjoying figuring out what looks best for me. I’ve gotten breast augmentation, I play around with different hair colors and I did grey contacts in the past that got lots of compliments. I love myself in every way I chose to express myself. Color hair is my favorite and I’m so excited for this cute blue and black color Im about to do next. I hate that people police women on how they like to look.
I’m not multiracial, but I think your channel is good and important for multiracial people!
Nice! Omg I’m obsessed with blue ! I also want to try rose gold hair one of these days !
@@ExoticalsUnited I love blue as well! I did a bright cobalt blue in the past but this time I’m toning it down a bit with a blue-ish black base and lighter blue highlights!
Rose gold sounds like it’s going to look so cute. Definitely go for that! 😁
Yessss 👏🏽👏🏽 this video is important. Growing up conservative, my beauty has been policed since day one. Your channel is helping me get out of that mindset.
Yes! Thank you!
That's right. I never dressed or looked a certain way for men i never did!!! I just decide on something and do it!!
Fun fact for the people that lost their mind over ‘caramel’
If you’re mixed with Indian or natives of Americas your skin color can vary drastically depending on how much sun you get
And since she’s part Indian, her skin did that
It was extremely racist for all the women in the comments on your video about her to be talking nonsense and stupidity
When they don’t even know this is an extremely common trait of an ethnicity they don’t have!
Taking my month old braids out now cuz all these pretty girls curls inspiring me rn
Great video, I have a habit of dimming my light to make others feel comfortable
That’s crazy I just said this exact same thing yesterday and decided *time to change* . I realized I will sometimes put myself down to make others feel better about themselves . Or for example, if I know I’m going to be around a friend of mine who’s a bit overweight I’ll try to dress down and cover my body a bit more so she doesn’t feel bad. Like why tf do I do this?? I’m not stuck up and don’t judge others or talk myself up at all, I don’t ever want to be that chick, but at the same time I take it too far and shouldn’t be literally covering myself up and putting myself down in any way bc of others insecurity . Men don’t do that shit. Whyyyy do so many of us women??!!
Chili is mixed with Native American and Indian so I’m not sure why she wouldn’t look the way she does. She’s a woman of color cuz she black and Indian/native so ppl are slow
I just had someone tell me to humble myself 😅, to which I said no
That's right ✅️ you don't have to humble yourself. They on dome bs
@@universaleducationsystems2722 exactly...it's a form of being put down
@Diana-mm5yo I remember when I was 18, this guy was older than men he was 31. He tried to rub my mole off my face, thinking it was fake. Then had the nerve to say " you're pretty but I seen better " but I told him well my mother said you are supposed to get nothing but the best why waste time with little ol' me. There's the door now hit it.
@@universaleducationsystems2722 I'm happy you stood up to him!
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Thank you for addressing this topic. Never dim your light for others comfort. Life moves fast, so enjoy it to the fullest! 💗 🌺🎉
Yeah I never let myself be my own beauty standard which made me have trouble even accepting myself. I realized I’ve always felt threatened by women because I was just insecure in myself and would compare for no reason. I’m learning to let go of that and decide I am beautifully created the way I am. “Other peoples beauty is not my lack “
My self image and self esteem has been a big factor in recognizing my beauty.
Whew!! This channnel is sooo refreshing. The plights of high maintenance/attractive women! Ty ❤
You are so welcome!
I absolutely absolutely agree with you and I am so glad you said it .someone has to . These old dustys running around being all in womens business about what we wear and how we look like when first of all we aren't their women they don't own us or ain't paying no bills . They should only be concern with their own witch . Period
I’m sorry but I’ve been in situations where unambiguous girls are enjoying their beauty then when an exotical walks in, their whole mood changes their not smiling and happy anymore.
You make a very good point especially in regards to colour seasons and colour theory. I have neutral warm tone and i still enjoy wearing silver earrings, necklaces. According to the colour season I'm a deep autumn and obviously rich vivid colours look phenomenal on me however I also try to wear cooler toned colours and work with it. Never ever limit yourself ever when it comes to beauty. Surprisingly i never limited myself when it came to clothing, jewellery choice.
Love this ❤
When I started wearing makeup at 16 my mother told me she didn’t like me wearing it so she forbade me. I am now 18 and I noticed that she uses manipulation tactics to make me feel bad about wearing it. She tells me that the only reason I wear makeup is to attract boys. Which is false. She says that me wearing makeup distracts me from school because I am focused on men. Which is also false. She tells me that she is trying to protect me by not allowing me to. I avoid wearing it in front of her because when I do she goes on long rents (which I don’t want to hear). She says stuff like “You think you’re grown, just because you’re 18”. She has been a good mother to me, but when it comes to me looking good and attracting the male gaze as the result she gets very protective. She tries to police my looks and it’s annoying. I have to constantly hide to wear makeup and dress nice since I still live with her. It’s draining.
She's just jealous of you she's not trying to protect you.
If you're in college, get a part-time job and get an apartment with 3 other roommates. It can even be a studio apartment. Just utilize bunk-beds for your sleeping arrangements. The only other thing you ladies need is sofa to lounge and a table with chairs to eat. Just do your studying at school or in the library for quietness. You don't NEED to stay at home after 18yrs of age but you also shouldn't be alone. That's why having roommates is ideal for young people. Living away from your mom during these transitional years when you're growing into your full beauty potential can be great for your own personal development. I know you've stated that your mom has been a good mother to you but she appears to be jealous right now. In these type of situations, living apart can actually save the relationship, which I'm assuming you'd like to do. Coming home to policing and degradation every day and hiding who you are literally growing into can cause long-lasting damage to not only you, but to your relationship with your mom as well. Maybe it's time to spread your wings, sweetheart. It's okay to get a place with young ladies of your own age group who are growing through the same phases that you're growing in. You can still love your mom and visit her when you like. I'm not recommending this as a means to be spiteful or vengeful at all. This is just a way to alleviate something that is causing you daily stress while also allowing you to form a close friend group that is in the same age group as you. Remember, ONLY CHOOSE PRETTY GIRLS AS YOUR ROOMMATES. 😄💛😘💛🤩💛
@@sophiam9886 thanks for the advice!
@@BlossomingWoman I really don’t think it’s jealousy. I come from an African background where eating makeup equals seeking attention from men. Many Africans people view it as a bad thing and you wanting to be grown. For instance me and my siblings are naturally pretty and she would complement us on our features. I noticed she says things like (you look better without makeup), which could be a manipulation tactic to make me want to wear less makeup. I know I look better with makeup from my experience and how people treat me. I think she is just obsessed with the idea of natural beauty and she always says stuff like « I never wore makeup when I was young, why are you trying to ». She is trying to live through me which I hate. She wants me to be like her. And to her wearing makeup means that you automatically view yourself as ugly and you have to cover up. She thinks I wear makeup because I’m insecure.
@@Un-packedthat’s what they’re taught as if it came in a pamphlet or something. For me it was the lipstick. I love lipstick but to Africans or Caribbeans or Indians lipstick=whore lol 😅
OMG the title alone just set me free
It definitely requires a lot of inner strength to comfortably carry one's beauty. Jealousy from others has been disheartening
But I now love and embrace who I am on an authentic level inside and out. One word of advice ... Never ever put yourself down to make someone else feel better about themselves. We're all responsible for our own sense of self worth ... Both internally and externally.
I really like this channel.
So articulate & empowering - I can imagine you are a threat to the other side in real life 😩
Keep it up girl 🩷
I almost screamed out loud this one! People make you feel evil for just existing
Right!
You have validated my feelings, I cannot tell you enough. I did not know how to verbalize my feelings or explain to ppl what I was experiencing. This channel has offered me a great space to just relax and breathe. You have managed to verbalized everything so effortlessly. I live alone in my community and let me tell you, the wives here hate me for wearing shorts and enjoy my beauty. I was told that I am wrong for their husbands being attracted to me. I dnt consider men that are married at all. I dnt date married men, so I wud never look at their husbands but it doesn't matter to the wives. They tried to spread a rumour abt me the other day that i was with one of the wive's husband and I there was an old lady that I talk to who also is single and prefer to be single, defend me and told ppl to leave me alone. These wives tried to destroy my reputation because I choose to be single, and enjoy my body and beautiful features, all because they feel threatened. I honestly think that these women wud love if i was hurt by men, or ridiculed by them. This makes me hate insecure women.
Enjoy it I shall! Thank you for another banger video Exoticals United. 🤩😍🤩😍🥰😘😇🤩
"Grow some boobs" stealing that😂
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I had fillers in my cheeks to bring in my 30’s best investment EVER
Nice !
Excellent video. This is definitely your gift, you are able to explain such a topic in such a perfect way. My whole life I have talked to God about my beauty. I’ll be 40 this year. I’m finally walking in freedom in my beauty despite people’s opinions. I focus on being beautiful on the inside, and I change up my beauty on the outside frequently to keep my enemies away from me. I’ve noticed if I downplay my beauty at all, they come closer and knash their teeth at me, accuse me, and attack my character. I now use the versatility of changing my makeup, hair, nails, jewelry etc. to literally keep them away. They do still make comments, but I make sure they know I don’t do any of it for them, I do it for me.
Thank you so much! I feel so blessed to have discovered this channel and this positive supportive community.
I have let so many define my beauty… this year, today I will take baby steps to be beautifully me. Thank you all for encouraging me (and others) to do so. Sending much love. 💗
How do I respond when people say
"You're not that pretty, you're not that light skinned, i've seen pretter [girls], your eyes/hair is fake, you have makeup on", etc all these remarks made to humble us pretty girl exoticals? Can you please make a video on this because im not quick witted to think of comebacks in the moment 🙈
them: "youre not that pretty"
me: "and you ARE?!"
them "youre not that light skinned"
me: "and youre not that confident if youre obsessed with MY skin tone."
them: "ive seen prettier girls"
me: "and i dont give a fuck"
them:" your hair is fake"
me: "not as fake as your jealous ass personality" 😀
I could go on and on..... 😂
@@ExoticalsUnited 😂😂 you're so funny, thank you. I screenshotted this to put in my arsenal lol
One time a guy in a bar told me, “You’re cute, but you’re not THAT cute.” I told him, “I don’t respond to negging, but nice try, pumpkin!” And I booped his nose and walked away 😁
I just recently got blonde hair and I used a green eye filter (that’s me in my pfp) and I’m a brown skinned bw. I’ve been feeling confident and really pretty and I had a UABW harass me recently and tell me I’m “trying to be white” and “hide your dark skin”. Pretty girls can’t just be pretty in peace or explore our beauty without jealous haters having something to say abt it.
Also I was wayyyy darker a few months ago but I’ve been staying out of the sun and I’ve lightened up especially due to the season change
You remind them of their limits 🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨🫨 🎯 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
I just LOVE the titles of your videos ahahahahaha you always speak the truth girl ❤️
Am Asian and I love your channel ✨🙏❣️
yay! thanks for watching! 💕
I really enjoyed your message. I remember when I first went blonde an old best friend of mine kept saying for me to change it because I'm "trying to look like a white girl". Why can't I just like blonde hair because I like it? I'm still black at the end of the day. Doesn't even matter, now I'm a ginger❤😂
I am not an exotical but I’m loving this information.
I needed to hear this right now. I usually wear a clean face with a red lip. I try to limit my sun exposure to maintain a brighter tone year round. You channel is a great source empowerment.. Stay pretty ladies..
@32:31 I agree with you 100 percent. Whether it is from a positive or negative perspective, you have still achieved your goal because people are still talking about you, they have taken time out of their day to talk about you while you baring even notice their presence. They only talk about you because they notice you, and often, they resent themselves for noticing you, and most of times, you may not even have noticed them because they is nothing special about them, so they try to bring you down by insulting you loudly, just to ensure you hear it.
Imagine being in a grocery store filled with hundreds of people of all ages, including those your age. Then, you overhear someone talking negatively about you but not just under their breath but very loudly. They may think they are bringing you down a notch, but what that actually tells me is that among all these people in the grocery store, you singled me out to insult. If I didn't stand out, you wouldn't have noticed me to insult me; I would have been invisible. No-one insults those they deem not be attractive because they are pretty much invisible.
Okay!
I love loooooooking good😂❤ I swear I wanna look good 24/7.
However, I try not to seek perfection..I just focus on what I can change ❤
I love this! Hearing the voices of this space is empowering. Keep it up!
Yay! Thanks for watching and let me know what you want to see next !
Wow thank you!!! I love your channel btw
Thank you for watching !
Enjoy the video. It help me out tremendously. I had people get me at high cheekbones, freckles, eyebrows that is not unibrow, etc. But i learn to take control of my self and i dont like copying anybody. Ironically, my cousin try to cope beyoce and it didn't work.
this channel is so relatable. i like how i am and love it more & more everyday♥️💋
Glad you enjoy it!
Botox is a preventative treatment as well. If you start getting Botox before you get wrinkles you will prevent and slow down aging and look younger as you age
Im glad yall have a safe space to discuss what y'all go through. Im learning.
Thanks for watching ! ❤️
Congrats on 14k🥳
I have nice hair. Been keeping it short, but trying to let it grow out now.
I have a specific style I wear with my short hair. Popping coils and layed edges.
I get compliments allllllllll the time ❤
But, i can't wait till my hair gets longer, I'm gonna look even prettier 😂❤
OMG I JUST BOUGHT SOME NEW EDGE CONTROL YESTERDAY I FEEL LIKE A BADDIE 😂 I’ve never really cared about slicking my edges but I tried it yesterday for fun . It was giving a 90s vibe!
Thank you for making this content! 🎉🎉❤❤
Chilli never was dark in my opinion
This channel is giving me life ❤
I love your discussion on taking your beauty / privilege back i came to the same realization a few years ago that a lot of self love especially about your body comes from what you deem attractive and if you embody that yourself and find your own way of doing it so it suits your body/face self love will follow. I also think thats a big problem is understanding how to emulate for you and how your body looks and the structure of your face
I love your voice it is so soothing to me and I 😊Love this video ❤- i also grew up in a strict Christian household where my dress was policed heavily. I also love to be as thin as possible due to my short stature and curvy shape- my ideal size is size 2- I felt most confident than In terms of others opinions, I especially notice this when it comes to my weight- they will keep saying oh your FINE when you gain weight than when it really gets out of control people would tell me- Wait WHAT Happened?! 😂 you know yourself better than anyone else and also you can also say “grow some ovaries” 😂
Yes!! I’m working on that now like y’all don’t care about me why should i?
I had bullied by girls in highschool because i was too sexy if i wear outside. Er chill girls, it was only a profile pic. Im not even all ears of their lives. Let me do mine. But im 29 now, so i am glad i didnt drop my consistency of my skin care routine.
This video touched me in so many ways. thank you so much for expressing exactly how I feel inside. You have given me strength
46:36 This is something I definitely relate to...I get told every now and then by people that I look like the Tia and Tamera twins when they were younger or when they were in the show sister sister. When I was a teen, it really used to annoy me, but now I take it as a compliment.
This is my new favorite video from your channel. I'm so happy to see someone to be thinking like me. I have a mix of 4A 4B and 3c hair it is waist length when straightened. I am curious as to how you might analyze my unambiguous black but cuban family (I know it is not your context but I find many similar pattern) telling me that they do not like my hair when I put it in thick Rihanna like faux locs which made my hair look even more afro like. I apologize if I maybe should not ask but it is interesting. By the way I am the lightest in that side of my cuban family. I for the Cuba context am mulata like you would be and many other in this channel would be and I think I am dark I am caramel colored.
My people 🇨🇺❤
Hi ms exotical can you do a video for plus size exoticals? Thanks
I love how you mentioned Botox because I’ve mentioned this about wanting to get it in my forehead before and folks tried to make me seem like I’m crazy.
Can you make a video about “decentering unhealthy family members and friends as a MLSW”
So much knowledge here
thin privilege to me is an after thought. I really go into a bad vibe zone when I am not my normal weight especially with bloating, it's really difficult to feel good when you're not healthy. I used to run so when I cant run, it makes me sad. But one thing is some people tried to make me insecure about small t- while they tried to be thin themselves, but now that I am away from all these people, I realized how much I like my small t-. It's just me. Btw do you get peels?
Soooooooo many truths in 1 short video. Love how my experience is so well explained and communicated. Who raised you!?
I agree with the thin privilege being a 12/14 is a struggle even while still being pretty ! Mind you I’m an “all the right curves” curvy so I can only image how much more things I would’ve been passed on if I was boxy
WOW….All my life BP esp BW have told me that I look like Aaliyah or Sade. I had one bw as a kid - -7 yrs old stick her finger into my hair at candy store to see if it was real, and back then my hair was in pigtails esp after her baby’s daddy kept asking her my age- was I at least 12? I got so scared I ran out of there and my mom would have my older bro take me to store. I also got the “She looks like my 12th cousin’s aunt’s grandmother’s best friend’s who was mixed daughter!” 🙄
I don’t know how those lines got into my comment but read between the lines…🙏🏽
Yup same ! I used to get Aaliyah all the time when I had black hair with a side bang 😂
And yes I got those same exact comments . “You look like my (cousin, sister, brothers baby mama)” etc
Thank you
Interesting perspective. I feel like the problem is when we try to police other people. Like you said about body types, thin privilege etc it would be a problem if you were to tear down women who value thickness or a more athletic type. I am human so I catch myself doing it too 😂 but yeah we gotta learn to exist with different beauty ideals/goals
I love your videos so bad
1:29 Rip to her, she committed suicide.😢 she was bullied online.
My ex husband would police my beauty
Hey pretty Girls ❤
You should put that on a t-shirt *I'm a pretty girl and who goan check me 😂❤❤❤❤
YASSSSSSSSSS ❤
espeically when they compare you bro calling you fat and ugly and shit when you even arent
Hey EU could you talk about Beyoncés hair care line if you get the time x
just heard about it and looked up beyonces instagram a second ago. i have no thoughts on it yet but if you see any interesting links or comments can you email them to exoticalsunited@gmail.com
I LOVE THIS CHANNEL 💕🫶🏼
"Grow some boobs" 🤣Love that term 💛
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You know you sound like Arnell
I will never confirm or deny my identity on here lol
@@ExoticalsUnited quiet as kept 😂❣️
What age is too young for Botox? 26?
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