Can we also talk about how some of them get so obsessed with us that they copy us to the T??? and I mean the mannerism, the EXACT outfits a couple of days after they see you, they act like you in front of your common friends, copy literally YOUR CAR. Ugh, I have a story... I had to block her, I would post a picture a certain way, two to five days later she would wear almost the exact same thing. She went out of her way to buy MY SAME CAR! Used my same 4 emojis in THE SAME ORDER (the crown has been a big thing for me since I was a teen because of my name), she literally did her birthday party CROWN THEMED and made every body around us believe she loved crowns. I would post a song I love, she would then make a video singing that song saying its her favorite. Made her bedroom look similar to mine, GOSH we're ADULTS! SO ANNOYING. One day, I remember I wore a long black bodycon dress with leggings, boots, and a beautiful vest on top of the dress to church. After service when I came home, and one of our mutual friends called me to tell me that (the copycat) was sad, and that she came up with an idea to model and do a photoshoot to make her feel better, but she wanted to do it with me. Apparently she was comparing to me, and how she didn't feel good about the way she looked, and something about her confidence. So I was like okay, we can do that photoshoot, I'm down (we never did it, but I found so strange that our common friend felt like calling me to tell me this) Literally next week she was wearing THE SAME OUTFIT I WORE THE PREVIEWS SUNDAY with different colors. after many months of me being annoyed, I blocked her and stopped going to the church I used to go to. I felt like slowly she stole my identity, my different outfits, my personality, I felt like she made everyone believe she was that way (the way I am). I even started looking online because I felt like she went to the extreme with it, and then I found out online that it's a mental personality disorder that it's called "narcissistic mirroring", that creeped me out! After that, I made sure no one in that church knows about me anymore 🤣 and our common friend keeps messaging to me, to shape her curls, or to go out and I keep giving excuses... cause I feel like if she has access to me EVERYONE THERE WILL HAVE ACCESS TO ME. On the other hand, my tenants (who have been my friends for many years and who moved to the first floor) LITERALLY COPIED MY ENTIRE HOUSE DECOR TO THE T. She always loved dark decor, but after she came to my house a couple of times after she moved in, she started changing everything on the first floor to white, and not just any white BUT RUSTIC WHITE like I have in every corner😩. Adding the plants like I have, same couch arrangements, wall decor... she then showed me how she changed everything, and then said "I'm only missing the white fireplace tv station that you have" 😭😭😭😭 I wanted to die. My husband just tells me I should feel proud, but I DONT. Why does it annoy me so much? I don't know, but I hate it 😭 I like being different and having things my way 😫 I hate it, I feel like I'm a magnet to people, and sometimes that's more negative than positive cause I've also had men(friends) having a weird obsession DESPITE the fact that I'm literally married and the OPPOSITE SEX. It's SO WEIRD!
Spooky. My husband literally saw a lady at the store with an outfit of mine incl the boots. So much so he called me cause he thought I was following him or something! lol 😂 we had a good laugh about it. I’ve had people copy my hairstyles like literally a few days later. Even braids. I mean how? Wigs? It may be flattery but it’s just plain creepy sometimes.
For so long I beat myself up trying to figure out why random women who I had never met gave me dirty looks or treated me rudely when I had never even said one word to them. As I got older I realized it was their jealousy. Now I don’t get upset by it. You’re so right, they just can’t help wearing their jealousy all over their face.
Same. After finding this channel I started thinking back on why some people were just so aggressive with and I didn’t even speak to these people. I can’t be around people like that. I’ve never had that problem with women who were beautiful. Even when they were a little insecure about one or two things (naturally we all are, we’re juman after all) there was always support for each other I can’t do ugly people (inside and out) 😂
Same with me. I could never understand why most women don’t like me and don’t know me. JEALOUSY. They can’t help it. Let’s just enjoy our beauty ladies while we still got it!
I went through a lot with females. I remember one girl tried fighting me at work. then one day she told me mmm it’s a shame I like you and your daddy. Sexy chocolate. I was like huh wtf. So some are jealous and secretly fantasying about you.
Some people do small things they feel you won’t notice like abruptly cutting in front of you, nudging while moving past you, speaking to you in a rude tone, blatantly ignoring you when you ask a question or speak to someone (especially when you rádiate class and elegance). I always make sure to let them know it’ll come back ten fold should they try me 💅🏾
Hey ladies!! Been dealing with this my entire life. It is exhausting lol But one day I flat out told them what their problems was...I said "I know what the real problems is, your just upset because Im pretty" with a straight face. The following week all of my car windows were busted out. Be safe out here with your pretty selves ❤
sounda about right! im so sorry. youre not alone. i have had drinks thrown on me multiple times for rejecting guys or being seen as too confident as well.
@@ExoticalsUnited Thank you! Woke up and this channel was on my feed. So refreshing to not be alone. It can seem a bit delusional because ppl are soooo slick with their hate. Oh, and let me not get on the men??? Very disturbing 😕 Thank you for all you do!! 🥰
People will literally sit and have round table discussions and conversations about the pretty girl’s life. I’ve experienced this, and I actually thought something was wrong with me. I never connected it to the way I looked
Just know if you’re considered beautiful you will always have haters and people will exclude and treat you bad to lower your self esteem, always. Why it’s important to love yourself and always keep your appearance flawless
Idk if I’m making all this up in my head but I had this coworker who didn’t wear makeup till I did and this new cute manager started working with us. Then after she quit and I’d say hi to her, she’d just look at me and give me a strange look. We were cool at first so I was confused. Oh yeah and that manager wasn’t worth anyone’s time, I ended up dating him and he was just a sloppy f boy. I say sloppy bc he sucked at keeping his business a secret or to himself.
I relate to a lot of what you said. I have had women try to say I was sleeping with a lot of men just because I went on a lot of dates but the truth is that men just want beautiful women around. I would get invited to parties, yachts, VIP sections etc for being pretty and thin and I was not sleeping with those men. Simply being around beautiful women raises men's status. And yes I was told by black people that I was too skinny but I definitely feel I get the most privilege, take the best pictures, and can wear anything I want when I stay a size zero. The guys who like "thick" women usually don't have the lifestyle I want anyway.
@12:40 - That’s why I’m thankful to now have a job where I work from home. It is peaceful. ☺️ You are so right about what happens in the workplace. I had to quit a job last year, then was blessed with my current job.
I just laughed at the time. I was more of a doormat. And by the way someone said that when I was doing a modeling gig of course (it was one of the black girls who was helping with styling etc)
I experienced this often when I used instagram more frequently. I would get a negligible amount of likes and comments compared to less attractive women. But I was able to see that several people would have saved and sent my posts 🙄
@@ExoticalsUnitedPRETTY PLEASE 🙏🏽 the way people will watch your IG content & be the first to see your pics/story but don’t wanna support it’s really weird 🙃
They don’t like to like our pretty photos cuz they psychologically want to make us think we are not all that. It’s WEIRD.. That so many people do it at the same time!!
Yes girl please do! I used to take it so personally but then I started to notice the trends of less attractive women receiving all the hype. I even had a friend (now ex friend) send me a picture of a beautiful mls girl saying that she was “doing too much for [just] 100 likes…” but the gag was that she was actually gorgeous In real life! And that’s what I said 😂
Agreed! I rarely post on social media. Because sometimes I feel like people want to be in my business. Sometimes I wear a mask to avoid getting hit on. But the up side is sometimes I get free stuff like food and drinks.
Is it cringe wearing a mask nowadays? If I could I would do it everywhere I get tried of being Judged by my looks. During covid whenever I removed my mask I could see the jealousy stare mostly from women and smize from men
I want to make a suggestion..A really good movie for MLS women to watch is Malena. It's an Italian movie about a beautiful woman who faces bullying from the entire town for several years just for being beautiful. At the end of the film, the women left her alone when they noticed she had aged and put on weight. That movie includes most of the humbling tactics discussed on this channel.
A movie the resonants with me is Legally Blonde. The main character is so nice and goes out of her way to be kind but, because she is pretty and prissy, she is hated and talked about. I have watched that movie so many tines! Before this You Tube Channel, it was the only thing I had that reminded me of what I go through. Wow!
@sAMiAm1 Well that would make sense, but I have social anxiety and trauma after the bullying and mistreatment so I hate the attention and being perceived 😂.
Facts! And so are skinny women! And for men, it's the ones whose bodies are lean or muscular. It is what it is. Unfortunately, we live in a 3D paradigm - and people go off of what they see FIRST and then everything else comes second. I don't hate. I simply use THAT as inspiration to better myself physically.
Exactly. And for the people who say “looks don’t matter” , that beauty pedestal is not going anywhere. Pretty privilege is not going anywhere . so SOMEONE is going to get that pedestal whether you think it’s fair or not.
5:57 that Alicia Keyz example made me think of how people ridiculed Mariah Carey at her low moments as well. Her being that gorgeous AND talented is too much for *insecure people to handle… just finished her memoir & it is sooo good! Highly recommend
I've had so many girls tell me "I thought you were pretty but didn't say anything because I thought you were mean or stuck up" 😂. Like what?? I've had a fake twitter and Instagram page made of me, I've been followed home and in public, etc and I have felt lonely my whole life and no one really gets it. I had a old friend who only wanted to be friends because of me being pretty to her and she only wanted "pretty friends" but her personality was garbage. Like you said "my beauty is not in competition with another woman" and that's how I always felt. There are plenty of pretty girls so I hate the hate that happens with being pretty.
@@ExoticalsUnited my fake IG had a whole boyfriend who dmed me and called me the fake one 🤣🤣🤣. I even sent him a real time photo of me holding a fork and he said I was still lying 😭😭😭
One woman almost got hit by a car staring at me so hard today and she was snarling. I was like look lady, uour daughters are waiting for you to cross the street.
We do cause chaos. Every male ive associated with on an aquaintance level for business has destroyed friendships with their business partners. They flirt, compete and turn on each other.
yes omg! men will start turning on each other and trying to embarrass the other one in front of you, girlfriends will get mad at their boyfriends, you'll be accused of flirting etc. its complete chaos
Great idea!!! I feel that so much. I have a couple good friends (one lives abroad and another quite far away), and some casual acquaintances, but other than that … it is so hard out here!!! I’ve had to distance myself from so many people due to their oddball behavior. I would also love to see a video about pretty girls feeling lonely!
@@ExoticalsUnitedI’d rather be skinny too but more on the fit side. I love seeing the light definition in my upper body and the bulge on my legs when walking. I get the whole skinny trend is very late 90s early 2000s but I feel like we should be ashamed for wanting to be and look smaller. Could you make a video on this? I’m living for this content ❤️
Being a pretty woman is like walking around with a target on your back, you attract narcissistic, superficial men and spiteful jealous women. Im happy just being basic now, i've done the pretty girl thing and it didn't bring me happiness, I don't like attention and i'm an introvert.
@@rediettadesse2828i do the same downdress and look like a homeless woman on purpose. And i have a jealous husband so i don't want men to talk to me when hes around.
I find it a group psychosis honestly. Most of the positive benefits only exist when you are young - so enjoy it while you can. *So* many people have that mentality you described of being "the one" to put us in our place that as you age it just becomes A LOT of cruelty and violence you face simply for not being ugly. I have even gained some weight and stopped doing makeup and still receive the negativity. It is beyond draining bc I am a veteran diagnosed with ptsd and these ppl are so obsesssd with the external meanwhile i got a lot going on really wish they woukd just be silent most days it takes everything in me to not go postal. But yes it was hella fun from 19-23. I receive no positive benefits from men anymore so the jealousy from women just makes it so hard and isolating. I want normal friends like everyone else. I want to be able to go outside without being followed or commented on. But it never ends. It's been like this for years.
Yep being dark skin with curly long hair my whole life ppl really whisper if my hair is my own or a curly perm Smh. Like I’ve literally worked in McDonald’s at one points and my coworkers and managers were whispering amongst themselves to see if my hair was mine because I flat ironed it. One bold person came and asked and I said Yeah. Showed my scalp and all And in high school girls wanted to fight me for no real reason( was a cheerleader but in the middle ground not popular but not lame. Nice as hell to everyone) all because they wanted to pull my hair. But my friends and teammates dead that cause I bothered nobody. And my mother’s in laws all ask me is my curls and hair fr fr mine…been natural 10 yrs. And always had long hair before I went back to my curls. My family knows im in a relationship they stay asking bout it. He’s handsome and I’m pretty but I keep us private. Not ready to introduce him full throttle yet. But they throwing opinions when they know nothing. They just see him when we are out and they call me on FaceTime And my family always say I’m lucky to have curly hair or ask bout my weight( I’m a size 5-8 with a nice butt ) My sisters literally say I can’t talk bout black hair politics cause of my texture being looser . And one would buy wigs whenever I’d come into town to mimic my hair ( she’s light skin green eyes and pretty but my hair triggered something idk) I get dirty looks often in public . Like I’m on high alert when I ride the bus . Like I seen one girl look at me dirty as if I wanted. Her man 😂 he’s so not my type. When I start jobs I purposely do not come in full glam ( I’m an mua and content creator with niches in beauty and lifestyle/hoping to go full time with it all ) because that when I get treated really mean. Hoping by summer I. Do not gotta work a regular job. Currently I’m a hostess and love being one because I just be pretty I’ve had all my exes try humble me. I love my currently because he adores me and call me beautiful gorgeous and his Barbie doll. He doesn’t sexualize or withhold compliments.
I feel like men in California REALLY CAN TELL if/when you've had work done. They are pretty judgy about it too. Very interesting video and thought provoking as always. Very educational :-)
This is spot on! When you are invisible you can just live life in peace. I gained 20 lbs and although I still get shade from jealous/insecure folks, it has definitely calmed down a lot. Right now I am a bit apprehensive about leaning out again because I'm low key traumatized from the negative attention I received from being a physically fit attractive woman. It was very odd having people (even strangers) obsess over me. I could not share with anyone how I felt because they thought i was self absorbed. I suffered in silence and became a recluse some days just to not be objectified. Thank you for sharing this topic!
NEVER let people allow you to let yourself go b/c of their self hate. I’m really fit and I take very good care of my hair and skin. As many compliments I get I’ve also received a lot of hate but the hate motivates me as it should you.
I know that I am changing because these type of videos no longer trigger me 🩷 I was super skinny my whole life and I loved it , I got with a man got pregnant and got skinnier once I had our baby , he cheated with a thick woman , and it seemed like around this time 2020 being thick was in . I forced my body to gain a bunch of weight and I got super thick , my butt was huge and I did t like the attention I got from men , it was all sexual vs when I was skinny , I asked myself do you like this?? Or did you do it for something else? So I began losing a bunch of weight for my 25th birthday which is next week and I feel so light and sexy 🙌🏾this video is everything
Nice! And congrats on your level up journey sis ! the world is not a nice place so I want the pretty girl club to be equipped to deal with it ! None of us are perfect over here and we are all working on ourselves! I’m typing this while I’m on a cycling machine at the gym trying to get my booty snatched into being smaller ! 😉
I'm loving these long videos! I can definitely relate a lot to some people trying to nickpick anything about me or just trying to humble me out of nowhere. For instance, I cut off a guy that was interested in dating me a while ago because: Anytime I would say something positive about myself, he would try to demean it in some sort of way. When I mentioned being harassed once by a coworker due to my looks, he started saying that I am not all that and that I am just cute even though he said I was gorgeous beforehand. In the summer (I biked in the sun to commute), he told me I could pass as mixed, but said I was getting dark in a negative tone like it's a bad thing. He pointed out when I had acne and said that he wishes he could just pop it. Randomly brought up that my nose is bigger than his (it's not btw). Randomly told me that his celebrity crush is Margot Robbie. Also told me he would want to get with my cousin and told me a random woman on the street had an attractive body....
It’s giving extreme humbling tactics . he was mad that he didn’t measure up to you and he wanted to take you down a notch in hopes that you’ll try to win his approval.
I can't directly relate to having this level of pretty privilege. However, one of my friends in university, who was the traditional looking black and white mix, was considered to be the pretty girl, and I just remember all the hate she received from darker skinned black women. They would scrutinise her to another level! I felt so bad for my friend but luckily she was confident enough not to let it get to her!
I tell you what. I love this channel. My daughter here is making me want to do the same for mature women of MLS who need to hear this that maintaining PP continues no matter our age. Girl you are a breath of fresh air and so eloquently spoken content. You deserve a million subs ❤❤❤❤
I receive a lot of compliments from strangers and distant relatives but None from my parents, "friends" or siblings . In fact my mom called me "fat" [ I am not ] 😢
To be honest, people aren't afraid of weight loss surgery, some people can't afford it nor the insurance they have doesn't cover it. They do the same to Lizzo
This. Honestly I believe like I did not receive job opportunities because the woman was envious of me. She posted about buying a home with someone else, knowing we talked about it. She was my friend, but after that I'm like there's no other reason why she would not use me. People will be TRIFILING.
I appreciate your videos so very much. Thank you for posting this type of content especially for it being intended for those who can relate to it. From the depths of my heart I think what you are doing is extremely valuable. It is such important information for women who struggle with these dynamics in life. I have a daughter who harbors just as much and so much more of the beauty that I have and have carried throughout my life especially in my younger years of my teens and 20s when females who fit the beauty standard are most thirsted for on a mass scale. I try to often pass on all of the life lessons that I have learned and struggled with to my daughter because I know the hardships and the actual heart ache that she is going to feel by being extremely hated, criticized, obsessed over, copied, competed with, the levels of jealousy she will experience, just all of it. It’s a heavy burden in so many ways which I think really overshadows a lot of the pretty privilege. There’s so much heartache. There’s so much loneliness. So Often you don’t know who really loves you when it feels like everyone is just trying to get some thing from you whether it be your sex, proximity, your secrets, what have you. People go to dangerous lengths to have your life or get a part of it. The friendships that you lose or discover were never real. I mean I can just go on and on. I try to really let my daughter know ways that she can handle it and cope mentally and emotionally because there’s going to be no escaping it for her. Just like there was no escaping it for me. I tried to hide throughout all my 20s. I wore raggedy old clothes I wore old man clothes all in an attempt to hide myself from the onslaught of attention and harassment that came with being a young female who fit the main stream beauty standard of the time. And even then people would still see through those efforts and it was exhausting. I am older now and I am a mother, my body has changed, I am more fluffy and I don’t garner the same hysteria that I used to when being out in public. Which honestly is such a relief in many ways. I still get all of it in smaller doses especially when I dress up, but nothing like when I was younger. But I’m scared for my daughter. I am legitimately scared for her. So again all of this to say that I truly thank you for putting out this information. I will be having my daughter watch your videos. Because it’s important. It really is. I especially appreciate the way you break down what’s going on from a psychological perspective. The way the psychology and subconscious social behaviors play into it all really tops the cake of all this. Bravo! And it can truly help and save young women’s lives to know how to cope with it. If I had known how to cope with it in healthy ways and utilize it to my benefit rather than trying to hide from it my life would be so different. Because I was in a constant state of flight of running from all of the attention and energy that was thrown my way I feel like I self sabotaged a lot of the opportunities that I had in my hands. Videos like yours can help other women Navigate through the pretty girl life dynamics. ✨💗👗👠
This is such an indeph explanation of this topic❤❤❤❤. Great vid! Ive had a random girl asking her man what he thinks about my body ( back in 2016). They were in earshot.I was really slim and he told her that i had a petite body. Then the girfriend said "thats what i want to look like. " So i found it strange that she would ask her man that. And yes women can be inspiration to others by what they look like. Yes they will ask others about what they think of you.
People always tell me I don’t look like my family and I’m black just like them but I could pass for Dominican or Puerto Rican . My father is from Jamaica and my dad’s mother looks more West Indian . My cousins father’s are African American. They would always make fun of my dad being Jamaican and would try to use a fake Jamaican accent to be funny but they were just jealous and all the guys always liked me and not them. They would even try to fight me because of it and I knew that was why. When I was a teenager they would steal my clothes and wear it to school so that I would approach them about it so they could fight me in front of the guys who likes me 😂 I stay far away from them til this day. Whenever I do run into them I can still see the jealous look on their faces it’s spooky and weird because I’ve always been nice and soft spoken and they are loud ghetto and masculine
My sister and I walked into a party the other day and every girl in the room gave us dirty looks it was so weird 😅 I just smiled 🧐 we trying to have fun too 😂
Oh and celebrity treatment is kinda scary really on my part I consider myself a 5 but I tend to capture attention of a lot of people when I walk into a room even of different races but girls in college are kinda withdrawn from friendships which I don't understand
Funny I had experiences like this on just entering university especially the humbling of like pretty woman like on the get go the guy wants to play around but he wanted me then went on to try gaslight and force like a one sided relationship or situation ship where I wouldn't agree and he'd be like oh no I wasn't asking like those are your thoughts your like already like with me, then like want my full attention but I didn't want that . I'd love to give the full story on storytime but I don't know where to exactly. But I blocked him it's toxic and dangerous and he's like 24 and I was 19
I don’t feel like I fit the type of beauty your channel is targeted towards. I’m talking about as far as racially ambiguous woman. I don’t look mixed but I do have brown skin, that people always compliment me on. smaller features like my nose/ skinny etc. but I def can relate to a lot of the things spoken about in this video and other videos on your channel. So many people always and still inquire about many areas of my life. Many people’s favorite question is do I have a bf. 😵💫 Like why is that any of your business? Even my former church used to call me celebrity. 😵💫 in which I never did anything for attention, I literally used to just show up for service. It’s really crazy the comments and the treatment pretty woman go through when all we ever do is MIND OUR BUSINESS. 😩 it’s really crazy how much ppl obsess with our lives and we’re not thinking of those people but our own problems/life.
My personal beauty standard is to have nice clear skin, smell nice. I want to be slim thick with a good amount of muscle. Kinda muscle mommy. Straight hair. Also... Losing fat and gaining muscle is hard! If lipo wasn't so expensive I'd have done it years ago
Can we also talk about how some of them get so obsessed with us that they copy us to the T??? and I mean the mannerism, the EXACT outfits a couple of days after they see you, they act like you in front of your common friends, copy literally YOUR CAR. Ugh, I have a story... I had to block her, I would post a picture a certain way, two to five days later she would wear almost the exact same thing. She went out of her way to buy MY SAME CAR! Used my same 4 emojis in THE SAME ORDER (the crown has been a big thing for me since I was a teen because of my name), she literally did her birthday party CROWN THEMED and made every body around us believe she loved crowns. I would post a song I love, she would then make a video singing that song saying its her favorite. Made her bedroom look similar to mine, GOSH we're ADULTS! SO ANNOYING. One day, I remember I wore a long black bodycon dress with leggings, boots, and a beautiful vest on top of the dress to church. After service when I came home, and one of our mutual friends called me to tell me that (the copycat) was sad, and that she came up with an idea to model and do a photoshoot to make her feel better, but she wanted to do it with me. Apparently she was comparing to me, and how she didn't feel good about the way she looked, and something about her confidence. So I was like okay, we can do that photoshoot, I'm down (we never did it, but I found so strange that our common friend felt like calling me to tell me this) Literally next week she was wearing THE SAME OUTFIT I WORE THE PREVIEWS SUNDAY with different colors. after many months of me being annoyed, I blocked her and stopped going to the church I used to go to. I felt like slowly she stole my identity, my different outfits, my personality, I felt like she made everyone believe she was that way (the way I am). I even started looking online because I felt like she went to the extreme with it, and then I found out online that it's a mental personality disorder that it's called "narcissistic mirroring", that creeped me out! After that, I made sure no one in that church knows about me anymore 🤣 and our common friend keeps messaging to me, to shape her curls, or to go out and I keep giving excuses... cause I feel like if she has access to me EVERYONE THERE WILL HAVE ACCESS TO ME.
On the other hand, my tenants (who have been my friends for many years and who moved to the first floor) LITERALLY COPIED MY ENTIRE HOUSE DECOR TO THE T. She always loved dark decor, but after she came to my house a couple of times after she moved in, she started changing everything on the first floor to white, and not just any white BUT RUSTIC WHITE like I have in every corner😩. Adding the plants like I have, same couch arrangements, wall decor... she then showed me how she changed everything, and then said "I'm only missing the white fireplace tv station that you have" 😭😭😭😭 I wanted to die. My husband just tells me I should feel proud, but I DONT. Why does it annoy me so much? I don't know, but I hate it 😭 I like being different and having things my way 😫 I hate it, I feel like I'm a magnet to people, and sometimes that's more negative than positive cause I've also had men(friends) having a weird obsession DESPITE the fact that I'm literally married and the OPPOSITE SEX. It's SO WEIRD!
omfg, im not surprised at all.
Okay exotical storytime!! 😂😂😂 What a crazy story! Definitely stay away from those people at all costs.! So creepy!
Yikes!!! 😳
Spooky. My husband literally saw a lady at the store with an outfit of mine incl the boots. So much so he called me cause he thought I was following him or something! lol 😂 we had a good laugh about it. I’ve had people copy my hairstyles like literally a few days later. Even braids. I mean how? Wigs? It may be flattery but it’s just plain creepy sometimes.
OMG girl same! Thanks for that new vocab "narcissistic mirroring", I will look that up. I have copycats too, and it irritates TF outta me!
Most people get ALOT OF PLEASURE when a pretty or beautiful woman is going through some type of tragedy.
Facts!
And its sooooo weird. I just let them be ughhhh
I feel like they work hard to keep us perpetually living in tragedy. I can't even explain it to therapists they hear don't get it...
For sure! It gets them off!!
Sad but true
Girl… being beautiful we are FOLLOWED like the paparazzi follow celebrities! Someone’s ALWAYS watching us.
Helicopter Fans!!! 😂😂😂
It's frightening and frustrating. Wish the authorities would help us out but they seem just as creepy as these peeping toms at times:/😢
People will literally stop their car when you’re walking down the street just to smile & wave to you
For so long I beat myself up trying to figure out why random women who I had never met gave me dirty looks or treated me rudely when I had never even said one word to them. As I got older I realized it was their jealousy. Now I don’t get upset by it. You’re so right, they just can’t help wearing their jealousy all over their face.
Same. After finding this channel I started thinking back on why some people were just so aggressive with and I didn’t even speak to these people. I can’t be around people like that. I’ve never had that problem with women who were beautiful. Even when they were a little insecure about one or two things (naturally we all are, we’re juman after all) there was always support for each other I can’t do ugly people (inside and out) 😂
Same with me. I could never understand why most women don’t like me and don’t know me. JEALOUSY. They can’t help it. Let’s just enjoy our beauty ladies while we still got it!
@@heyyyyyy2546😂😂😂😂😂
I went through a lot with females. I remember one girl tried fighting me at work. then one day she told me mmm it’s a shame I like you and your daddy. Sexy chocolate. I was like huh wtf. So some are jealous and secretly fantasying about you.
@@Neesha242HEAVY on the “secretly fantasizing about you” part 🤦🏽♀️
It’s soooo creepy when it’s a female acting so obsessed with you 😑😑😑
Some people do small things they feel you won’t notice like abruptly cutting in front of you, nudging while moving past you, speaking to you in a rude tone, blatantly ignoring you when you ask a question or speak to someone (especially when you rádiate class and elegance). I always make sure to let them know it’ll come back ten fold should they try me 💅🏾
This is so true!
Being just pretty is one thing....have a sexy body with wide hips and butt with small waist and its very much so tough
facts no one likes me 😂😂😂😂😂
Ooooooh we need to talk about this ! When you have some sort of “ideal” body type (flat stomach, waist and hip ratio, nice butt, no wrinkles etc )
Facts, when I was younger I had a manager call me a home-wrecker and she didn’t even know me 😂
Never can keep a friend.
Hey ladies!! Been dealing with this my entire life. It is exhausting lol But one day I flat out told them what their problems was...I said "I know what the real problems is, your just upset because Im pretty" with a straight face. The following week all of my car windows were busted out. Be safe out here with your pretty selves ❤
sounda about right! im so sorry. youre not alone. i have had drinks thrown on me multiple times for rejecting guys or being seen as too confident as well.
@@ExoticalsUnited Thank you! Woke up and this channel was on my feed. So refreshing to not be alone. It can seem a bit delusional because ppl are soooo slick with their hate. Oh, and let me not get on the men??? Very disturbing 😕
Thank you for all you do!! 🥰
No literally. The compliments are nice, but the hate is real & they dont even know me 🤧😮💨
People will literally sit and have round table discussions and conversations about the pretty girl’s life. I’ve experienced this, and I actually thought something was wrong with me. I never connected it to the way I looked
Omg yes! People will have whole group chat conversations about you and everything 😂
Legitimately insane!😂
Just know if you’re considered beautiful you will always have haters and people will exclude and treat you bad to lower your self esteem, always. Why it’s important to love yourself and always keep your appearance flawless
@@Helenodraculusabsolutely!!!
A coworker always asking the guys what they think about me, obsessed 😂😂😂
Idk if I’m making all this up in my head but I had this coworker who didn’t wear makeup till I did and this new cute manager started working with us. Then after she quit and I’d say hi to her, she’d just look at me and give me a strange look. We were cool at first so I was confused. Oh yeah and that manager wasn’t worth anyone’s time, I ended up dating him and he was just a sloppy f boy. I say sloppy bc he sucked at keeping his business a secret or to himself.
And God forbid you are slim/lean and pretty and have long hair AND are dark skinned
I relate to a lot of what you said. I have had women try to say I was sleeping with a lot of men just because I went on a lot of dates but the truth is that men just want beautiful women around. I would get invited to parties, yachts, VIP sections etc for being pretty and thin and I was not sleeping with those men. Simply being around beautiful women raises men's status. And yes I was told by black people that I was too skinny but I definitely feel I get the most privilege, take the best pictures, and can wear anything I want when I stay a size zero. The guys who like "thick" women usually don't have the lifestyle I want anyway.
Friending other beautiful women is a good thing/a win, if they’re loyal/authentic.
I’ve had someone use my instagram pictures as a catfish before. They got sloppy and accidentally liked one so I found out lol.
Wow 😂😂😂
this happened to me and the page had a whole boyfriend but never met me and the "boyfriend" dmed me saying I was the fake one 😂😂
@12:40 - That’s why I’m thankful to now have a job where I work from home. It is peaceful. ☺️ You are so right about what happens in the workplace. I had to quit a job last year, then was blessed with my current job.
“Haven’t decided if you’re cute yet” 🙄 how did you even respond to that absurdity? I can’t think of a good clap back 🤭
I just laughed at the time. I was more of a doormat. And by the way someone said that when I was doing a modeling gig of course (it was one of the black girls who was helping with styling etc)
“And I already decided that you aren’t” 💅🏾 Happy roasting 💁🏽♀️🫶
@@heyyyyyy2546that would get their ass together 😂👏🏼
@@lorrainesmith.4995 😂 love it
@@heyyyyyy2546 😭😭😭😭
Finally a channel that doesn’t make me think I’m delusional… it’s scary how I can relate to most things.. and I’m glad I’m not alone🙏
I experienced this often when I used instagram more frequently. I would get a negligible amount of likes and comments compared to less attractive women. But I was able to see that several people would have saved and sent my posts 🙄
This! I’ve experienced the same
OMG I NEED TO MAKE A VIDEO ABOUT THIS
@@ExoticalsUnitedPRETTY PLEASE 🙏🏽 the way people will watch your IG content & be the first to see your pics/story but don’t wanna support it’s really weird 🙃
They don’t like to like our pretty photos cuz they psychologically want to make us think we are not all that. It’s WEIRD.. That so many people do it at the same time!!
Yes girl please do! I used to take it so personally but then I started to notice the trends of less attractive women receiving all the hype. I even had a friend (now ex friend) send me a picture of a beautiful mls girl saying that she was “doing too much for [just] 100 likes…” but the gag was that she was actually gorgeous In real life! And that’s what I said 😂
Agreed! I rarely post on social media. Because sometimes I feel like people want to be in my business. Sometimes I wear a mask to avoid getting hit on. But the up side is sometimes I get free stuff like food and drinks.
Is it cringe wearing a mask nowadays? If I could I would do it everywhere I get tried of being Judged by my looks. During covid whenever I removed my mask I could see the jealousy stare mostly from women and smize from men
@@llsss777 I live in nyc. A lot of people are still wearing them.
“I don’t have time to deal with mental illnesses 24/7 “ 👏👏👏
I want to make a suggestion..A really good movie for MLS women to watch is Malena. It's an Italian movie about a beautiful woman who faces bullying from the entire town for several years just for being beautiful. At the end of the film, the women left her alone when they noticed she had aged and put on weight. That movie includes most of the humbling tactics discussed on this channel.
yes thats like the story of our lives!
More MOVIE RECOMMENDATIONS please. I saw Black Girl on Amazon Prime and I just said “Wow”! 😱🤯
i never watched it in full but it put fear in my heart. people are wicked.
Excellent choice! I’ve watched Malena so many times! We are her!
A movie the resonants with me is Legally Blonde. The main character is so nice and goes out of her way to be kind but, because she is pretty and prissy, she is hated and talked about. I have watched that movie so many tines! Before this You Tube Channel, it was the only thing I had that reminded me of what I go through. Wow!
I get stares all day from other women. It’s the craziest thing!
Yes, why do they do that? It’s so uncomfortable and weird.
@@jasminedover5893 well some of us are just gay lol
@sAMiAm1 Well that would make sense, but I have social anxiety and trauma after the bullying and mistreatment so I hate the attention and being perceived 😂.
@@sAMiAm1that’s not an excuse!! Been harassed by othe females as if men are not traumatizing enough…
I compliment other women all the time , and I determine my own value .
Facts! And so are skinny women! And for men, it's the ones whose bodies are lean or muscular. It is what it is. Unfortunately, we live in a 3D paradigm - and people go off of what they see FIRST and then everything else comes second. I don't hate. I simply use THAT as inspiration to better myself physically.
Exactly. And for the people who say “looks don’t matter” , that beauty pedestal is not going anywhere. Pretty privilege is not going anywhere . so SOMEONE is going to get that pedestal whether you think it’s fair or not.
Yes
Yes skinny privilege is real!!!
Wooow I’m skinny but here where I’m from women’s thickness are celebrated more.
It’s sad women get treated better when they are slim
5:57 that Alicia Keyz example made me think of how people ridiculed Mariah Carey at her low moments as well. Her being that gorgeous AND talented is too much for *insecure people to handle… just finished her memoir & it is sooo good! Highly recommend
I've had so many girls tell me "I thought you were pretty but didn't say anything because I thought you were mean or stuck up" 😂. Like what?? I've had a fake twitter and Instagram page made of me, I've been followed home and in public, etc and I have felt lonely my whole life and no one really gets it. I had a old friend who only wanted to be friends because of me being pretty to her and she only wanted "pretty friends" but her personality was garbage. Like you said "my beauty is not in competition with another woman" and that's how I always felt. There are plenty of pretty girls so I hate the hate that happens with being pretty.
Omg are we twins?! The instagram thing happened to me before too 😂 people would use social media to try to bully me ☠️
@@ExoticalsUnited my fake IG had a whole boyfriend who dmed me and called me the fake one 🤣🤣🤣. I even sent him a real time photo of me holding a fork and he said I was still lying 😭😭😭
I naturally attract a lot of attention when I’m out, even if I’m dressed down. How can I feel more confident & safe to go out by myself? Tips please
One woman almost got hit by a car staring at me so hard today and she was snarling. I was like look lady, uour daughters are waiting for you to cross the street.
😂😂😂
Omg 😂
She probably liked what she saw. Some of these women are gay/bi.
We do cause chaos. Every male ive associated with on an aquaintance level for business has destroyed friendships with their business partners. They flirt, compete and turn on each other.
yes omg! men will start turning on each other and trying to embarrass the other one in front of you, girlfriends will get mad at their boyfriends, you'll be accused of flirting etc. its complete chaos
@@ExoticalsUnited yessss thats so true. Its like everyone starts to get triggered and needs to prove themselves.
People tell me i look like a celebrity alot. Or they dont believe me when i tell them i have a 25 and 22 year old.
Can you do a video on pretty girls being lonely ?
thats a great idea!
Finding girlfriends is difficult as many women feel insecure around you and men don’t want friendships only so it can be very lonely!
Great idea!!! I feel that so much. I have a couple good friends (one lives abroad and another quite far away), and some casual acquaintances, but other than that … it is so hard out here!!! I’ve had to distance myself from so many people due to their oddball behavior.
I would also love to see a video about pretty girls feeling lonely!
Where have this channel been all my life lol.
Yes!! 👏🏼the fact that they discuss you, even in a negative manner, whereas you don’t think of them at all 🙌🏼😂
What I appreciate is that you own that you prefer being skinny ❤
Yup! I’m not apologizing for what I think looks most beautiful on me 😍
@@ExoticalsUnitedI’d rather be skinny too but more on the fit side. I love seeing the light definition in my upper body and the bulge on my legs when walking. I get the whole skinny trend is very late 90s early 2000s but I feel like we should be ashamed for wanting to be and look smaller. Could you make a video on this? I’m living for this content ❤️
Being a pretty woman is like walking around with a target on your back, you attract narcissistic, superficial men and spiteful jealous women. Im happy just being basic now, i've done the pretty girl thing and it didn't bring me happiness, I don't like attention and i'm an introvert.
@@rediettadesse2828i do the same downdress and look like a homeless woman on purpose. And i have a jealous husband so i don't want men to talk to me when hes around.
I find it a group psychosis honestly. Most of the positive benefits only exist when you are young - so enjoy it while you can. *So* many people have that mentality you described of being "the one" to put us in our place that as you age it just becomes A LOT of cruelty and violence you face simply for not being ugly. I have even gained some weight and stopped doing makeup and still receive the negativity. It is beyond draining bc I am a veteran diagnosed with ptsd and these ppl are so obsesssd with the external meanwhile i got a lot going on really wish they woukd just be silent most days it takes everything in me to not go postal. But yes it was hella fun from 19-23. I receive no positive benefits from men anymore so the jealousy from women just makes it so hard and isolating. I want normal friends like everyone else. I want to be able to go outside without being followed or commented on. But it never ends. It's been like this for years.
Thank you for your service, beautiful lady ❤
I had a rhino and have hair extensions, love being skinny like you that’s my beauty standard. Do you pretty is a thing ❤
Yup, it’s your body- enjoy your new privileges 🤷🏽♀️ it’s not our fault we live in a shallow world.
My internalized beauty standard is a thin/slender body too. I didn't think this was a thing anymore with the whole BBL trend.
Girl. Yes, I have felt like a celebrity many times. And to add to it I'm naturally slender. And I have self confidence. When you have that too...yup.
Yep being dark skin with curly long hair my whole life ppl really whisper if my hair is my own or a curly perm
Smh. Like I’ve literally worked in McDonald’s at one points and my coworkers and managers were whispering amongst themselves to see if my hair was mine because I flat ironed it. One bold person came and asked and I said Yeah. Showed my scalp and all
And in high school girls wanted to fight me for no real reason( was a cheerleader but in the middle ground not popular but not lame. Nice as hell to everyone) all because they wanted to pull my hair. But my friends and teammates dead that cause I bothered nobody.
And my mother’s in laws all ask me is my curls and hair fr fr mine…been natural 10 yrs. And always had long hair before I went back to my curls.
My family knows im in a relationship they stay asking bout it. He’s handsome and I’m pretty but I keep us private. Not ready to introduce him full throttle yet. But they throwing opinions when they know nothing. They just see him when we are out and they call me on FaceTime
And my family always say I’m lucky to have curly hair or ask bout my weight( I’m a size 5-8 with a nice butt )
My sisters literally say I can’t talk bout black hair politics cause of my texture being looser . And one would buy wigs whenever I’d come into town to mimic my hair ( she’s light skin green eyes and pretty but my hair triggered something idk)
I get dirty looks often in public . Like I’m on high alert when I ride the bus . Like I seen one girl look at me dirty as if I wanted. Her man 😂 he’s so not my type. When I start jobs I purposely do not come in full glam ( I’m an mua and content creator with niches in beauty and lifestyle/hoping to go full time with it all ) because that when I get treated really mean. Hoping by summer I. Do not gotta work a regular job. Currently I’m a hostess and love being one because I just be pretty
I’ve had all my exes try humble me. I love my currently because he adores me and call me beautiful gorgeous and his Barbie doll. He doesn’t sexualize or withhold compliments.
I feel like men in California REALLY CAN TELL if/when you've had work done. They are pretty judgy about it too. Very interesting video and thought provoking as always. Very educational :-)
They're too busy studying women and our ways
The Hollywood/Beverly Hills factor.
Oooh that’s a good point about California lol. I guess if you do have any work done and the guy doesn’t like it he will just have to kick rocks then.
THEY REALLY DO LOL @@meredithgrey777
This is spot on! When you are invisible you can just live life in peace. I gained 20 lbs and although I still get shade from jealous/insecure folks, it has definitely calmed down a lot. Right now I am a bit apprehensive about leaning out again because I'm low key traumatized from the negative attention I received from being a physically fit attractive woman. It was very odd having people (even strangers) obsess over me. I could not share with anyone how I felt because they thought i was self absorbed. I suffered in silence and became a recluse some days just to not be objectified. Thank you for sharing this topic!
NEVER let people allow you to let yourself go b/c of their self hate. I’m really fit and I take very good care of my hair and skin. As many compliments I get I’ve also received a lot of hate but the hate motivates me as it should you.
I know that I am changing because these type of videos no longer trigger me 🩷 I was super skinny my whole life and I loved it , I got with a man got pregnant and got skinnier once I had our baby , he cheated with a thick woman , and it seemed like around this time 2020 being thick was in . I forced my body to gain a bunch of weight and I got super thick , my butt was huge and I did t like the attention I got from men , it was all sexual vs when I was skinny , I asked myself do you like this?? Or did you do it for something else? So I began losing a bunch of weight for my 25th birthday which is next week and I feel so light and sexy 🙌🏾this video is everything
Nice! And congrats on your level up journey sis ! the world is not a nice place so I want the pretty girl club to be equipped to deal with it ! None of us are perfect over here and we are all working on ourselves! I’m typing this while I’m on a cycling machine at the gym trying to get my booty snatched into being smaller ! 😉
People are obessive over me as well i just be like maybe its just me but nah this shit gets deep
I'm loving these long videos!
I can definitely relate a lot to some people trying to nickpick anything about me or just trying to humble me out of nowhere. For instance, I cut off a guy that was interested in dating me a while ago because:
Anytime I would say something positive about myself, he would try to demean it in some sort of way. When I mentioned being harassed once by a coworker due to my looks, he started saying that I am not all that and that I am just cute even though he said I was gorgeous beforehand. In the summer (I biked in the sun to commute), he told me I could pass as mixed, but said I was getting dark in a negative tone like it's a bad thing. He pointed out when I had acne and said that he wishes he could just pop it. Randomly brought up that my nose is bigger than his (it's not btw). Randomly told me that his celebrity crush is Margot Robbie. Also told me he would want to get with my cousin and told me a random woman on the street had an attractive body....
It’s giving extreme humbling tactics . he was mad that he didn’t measure up to you and he wanted to take you down a notch in hopes that you’ll try to win his approval.
@@ExoticalsUnited That's exactly what I thought! It almost got to me.
I feel like this is a reason nara smith gets hated on
I can't directly relate to having this level of pretty privilege. However, one of my friends in university, who was the traditional looking black and white mix, was considered to be the pretty girl, and I just remember all the hate she received from darker skinned black women. They would scrutinise her to another level! I felt so bad for my friend but luckily she was confident enough not to let it get to her!
I tell you what. I love this channel. My daughter here is making me want to do the same for mature women of MLS who need to hear this that maintaining PP continues no matter our age. Girl you are a breath of fresh air and so eloquently spoken content. You deserve a million subs ❤❤❤❤
I receive a lot of compliments from strangers and distant relatives but None from my parents, "friends" or siblings . In fact my mom called me "fat" [ I am not ] 😢
To be honest, people aren't afraid of weight loss surgery, some people can't afford it nor the insurance they have doesn't cover it. They do the same to
Lizzo
yes ive noticed people shame others who have had surgeries, meanwhile if they had money they would get the same thing done
I get giddy when I see these timestamps!
Aw yay!
No lies told here🙌🙌👏👏👏
Someone hacked into my old instagram account one time that shits scary i had to make a new one
This. Honestly I believe like I did not receive job opportunities because the woman was envious of me. She posted about buying a home with someone else, knowing we talked about it. She was my friend, but after that I'm like there's no other reason why she would not use me. People will be TRIFILING.
I’m conceited period 😊
#prettygirlclub 💅🏽💅🏼💅🏾💅🏿💅🏻💅
😂😂😂😂
I appreciate your videos so very much. Thank you for posting this type of content especially for it being intended for those who can relate to it. From the depths of my heart I think what you are doing is extremely valuable. It is such important information for women who struggle with these dynamics in life.
I have a daughter who harbors just as much and so much more of the beauty that I have and have carried throughout my life especially in my younger years of my teens and 20s when females who fit the beauty standard are most thirsted for on a mass scale. I try to often pass on all of the life lessons that I have learned and struggled with to my daughter because I know the hardships and the actual heart ache that she is going to feel by being extremely hated, criticized, obsessed over, copied, competed with, the levels of jealousy she will experience, just all of it.
It’s a heavy burden in so many ways which I think really overshadows a lot of the pretty privilege. There’s so much heartache. There’s so much loneliness. So Often you don’t know who really loves you when it feels like everyone is just trying to get some thing from you whether it be your sex, proximity, your secrets, what have you. People go to dangerous lengths to have your life or get a part of it. The friendships that you lose or discover were never real. I mean I can just go on and on.
I try to really let my daughter know ways that she can handle it and cope mentally and emotionally because there’s going to be no escaping it for her. Just like there was no escaping it for me. I tried to hide throughout all my 20s. I wore raggedy old clothes I wore old man clothes all in an attempt to hide myself from the onslaught of attention and harassment that came with being a young female who fit the main stream beauty standard of the time. And even then people would still see through those efforts and it was exhausting.
I am older now and I am a mother, my body has changed, I am more fluffy and I don’t garner the same hysteria that I used to when being out in public. Which honestly is such a relief in many ways. I still get all of it in smaller doses especially when I dress up, but nothing like when I was younger. But I’m scared for my daughter. I am legitimately scared for her.
So again all of this to say that I truly thank you for putting out this information. I will be having my daughter watch your videos. Because it’s important. It really is. I especially appreciate the way you break down what’s going on from a psychological perspective. The way the psychology and subconscious social behaviors play into it all really tops the cake of all this. Bravo! And it can truly help and save young women’s lives to know how to cope with it. If I had known how to cope with it in healthy ways and utilize it to my benefit rather than trying to hide from it my life would be so different. Because I was in a constant state of flight of running from all of the attention and energy that was thrown my way I feel like I self sabotaged a lot of the opportunities that I had in my hands. Videos like yours can help other women Navigate through the pretty girl life dynamics. ✨💗👗👠
This is such an indeph explanation of this topic❤❤❤❤. Great vid! Ive had a random girl asking her man what he thinks about my body ( back in 2016). They were in earshot.I was really slim and he told her that i had a petite body. Then the girfriend said "thats what i want to look like. " So i found it strange that she would ask her man that. And yes women can be inspiration to others by what they look like. Yes they will ask others about what they think of you.
Interesting discussion. I have experienced this my whole life. I have just found your channel. Keep up the good work.
The honesty of this channel is refreshing
You’re 100% right this happens with men in different ways as well.
Oh I 100% agree. I saw my brother being treated like this when I went with my siblings to the bar the other night 😂
Yasss love the model look you have 😍 as a petite
Thank you so much for making this channel. I feel seen
yay! thanks for being a part of the pretty girl club!
@@ExoticalsUnited ❤️❤️❤️
I needed to hear all of this! Thank you!
OHHH MY GOSH 8:00-8:15 I felt that so hard in my soul !!!!
Another great upload keep up with the great work so spot on!! what I go through every day ❤
Glad you enjoy it!
@@ExoticalsUnited I love your channel you literally speak the truth and your helping me not feel alone in this. Really enjoy listening to you. 💖
People always tell me I don’t look like my family and I’m black just like them but I could pass for Dominican or Puerto Rican . My father is from Jamaica and my dad’s mother looks more West Indian . My cousins father’s are African American. They would always make fun of my dad being Jamaican and would try to use a fake Jamaican accent to be funny but they were just jealous and all the guys always liked me and not them. They would even try to fight me because of it and I knew that was why. When I was a teenager they would steal my clothes and wear it to school so that I would approach them about it so they could fight me in front of the guys who likes me 😂 I stay far away from them til this day. Whenever I do run into them I can still see the jealous look on their faces it’s spooky and weird because I’ve always been nice and soft spoken and they are loud ghetto and masculine
Guess I’m not as pretty as I thought
You are right babes ❤❤. Investing in yourself is worth it
Period! ❤️
This is my first video I see in your channel 😊 and your are like the big sister that I never have ❤ thanks for your work 🙏🏻❤️
Facts!!!!!❤❤❤🎉🎉
Mother ate from 00:00 to 42;09 straight 💯🙌❤️
True facts yeppp 🔥🔥🔥
💯💯💯💯💯 well put together hun.
so exhausting. this was the video that lead me to this channel. just UGH.
My sister and I walked into a party the other day and every girl in the room gave us dirty looks it was so weird 😅 I just smiled 🧐 we trying to have fun too 😂
This helps when it comes to being real with ourselves and our self image
You have look at your chart too to see whats actually there
Oh and celebrity treatment is kinda scary really on my part I consider myself a 5 but I tend to capture attention of a lot of people when I walk into a room even of different races but girls in college are kinda withdrawn from friendships which I don't understand
GOSPEL TRUTH and the story of my life.
#IONLYCompeteWithTheWomanIWasYesterday
This was great
Totally unrelated but can you do a video on why men get upset when a pretty girl rejects them or they start acting up?
Funny I had experiences like this on just entering university especially the humbling of like pretty woman like on the get go the guy wants to play around but he wanted me then went on to try gaslight and force like a one sided relationship or situation ship where I wouldn't agree and he'd be like oh no I wasn't asking like those are your thoughts your like already like with me, then like want my full attention but I didn't want that . I'd love to give the full story on storytime but I don't know where to exactly. But I blocked him it's toxic and dangerous and he's like 24 and I was 19
Thank you for this !! I thought I was going crazy smh
I don’t feel like I fit the type of beauty your channel is targeted towards. I’m talking about as far as racially ambiguous woman. I don’t look mixed but I do have brown skin, that people always compliment me on. smaller features like my nose/ skinny etc. but I def can relate to a lot of the things spoken about in this video and other videos on your channel. So many people always and still inquire about many areas of my life. Many people’s favorite question is do I have a bf. 😵💫 Like why is that any of your business? Even my former church used to call me celebrity. 😵💫 in which I never did anything for attention, I literally used to just show up for service. It’s really crazy the comments and the treatment pretty woman go through when all we ever do is MIND OUR BUSINESS. 😩 it’s really crazy how much ppl obsess with our lives and we’re not thinking of those people but our own problems/life.
My personal beauty standard is to have nice clear skin, smell nice. I want to be slim thick with a good amount of muscle. Kinda muscle mommy. Straight hair.
Also... Losing fat and gaining muscle is hard! If lipo wasn't so expensive I'd have done it years ago
We Are!
Great video ❤
Beautiful ladies🤩
Are you on social media? Can we follow you?
I am not other than this channel
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And cosmetic surgery is the same as natural beauty.