How To Face The End of A Relationship Gracefully? | Sadhguru Answers
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- čas přidán 6. 10. 2022
- Sadhguru looks at why the end of a relationship often causes pain and explains how to gracefully move on with life in such a situation.
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😊Breakup is painful, but when u lose someone and find urself,... It is beautiful😊live life to the fullest..
Yes!
It's so hard to do. I have a hard time letting go. But I am doing good now.
Thanks..but it truly is difficult when you love & miss which once was.
but its so hard
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I have tears in my eyes while watching this.... fighting to forget about someone once meant the world to me 😔😶
I hope everyone including me be strengthened to bear the pain...afterall pain is only real thing in our lives rest everything is in our minds ✨💫🌹💯🙏🏻
I lost mine yesterday 😢 not gonna allow someone else to enter my life now.
but behna.. I hope you meet love of your life soon.
😭😭😭😭😭😭
Hello ka i loved a girl so much i,from thed first day of love i called her wife... but though I gave such a unconditional love she slept with someone....and she hided this i got to know im literally heart broking..feeling like dying..she slept with someone but still she loves me how should I take my situation im dying ,
I feel your pain...it takes time, but in the end, everything will be just fine.
How are you now?
Break up is always painful but it is part of relationship
When both people are not in synchronization
Different needs different wants
Different desires
Right person but wrong situation
And the hard part
If you are in a relationship for a long time
You develop attachment to the person
But for 2 people to still respect
Each other and say
That the relationship is not working is a sign of strength
Yes we grieve
We cry but later on we accept
That being not together
Is freeing each other again
To be happy and free
I always believe this
Let go and let God.
Thank you for your words 🙏
That's why they say "Two different person being together"
Have to let go of a 15 yr marriage
It’s so hard to move on from her. She loved me and I took her love for granted and now I’m facing the consequences. I love her so much. Il never find love like hers.
Relationships thrive on - mutual respect, mutual trust, reciprocity, and fellow - feeling ! When that trust is lost, everything is lost !
sadhguru says dont use big words like trust , trust means lettingn people do what they want to do and you still love them
Perception varies from person to person ! Propriety demands that one shouldn't think someone's perception as everyone's perception ! The world is, infact, very beautiful to look at ! However, it's entirely dependent upon the viewer and one's perspective - as to how does one look at it ! That's it !
So very true
@@koppisettisunilkumar603 if trust was lost, sadhguru says it was never there
Always always end a relationship kindly but firmly. It’s unbearably painful enough to tear yourselves apart without making it worse deliberately. You may feel incredibly angry but don’t express it, just say, “Look I’m sorry it just isn’t working out for either of us it has to stop now. I really wish the best for you.”
I agree, bcuz there is no beautiful parting...
Awesome words
Easy for you!!!
Hahahaha sorry but I wish !! I'd fall on my desperate face right after saying that. LoL. 😂 I wish I was that strong. 🙏😳
@@lauralittle6899 you can make any face, tears, sobbing but you gotta say it if you feel things are falling apart and you two have had tried to save or fix things, but nothing seems right and you two or maybe one of you are just out of love, hard pill to swallow but you gotta do it or you just need to be strong if they come and say those hurtful things to you, pick up yourself and move on. Give some time, nobody can tell you how long you wanna grief. You're not gonna be sad all the time, just like, you're not gonna be happy all the time...
What does one do with all the love they have for the person that is gone? You get so used to living in that state of love, embracing it, showing it, receiving it. And suddenly now you have to live with it suppressed
I have been trying to treat my sisters passing few weeks ago in a transcendent process as best as possible. It's elevated a lot of my grief process. I know she has not finished her journey whilst I continue on mine. But my love for her and her love for me still lives on.
Be that content within yourself that you accept who comes and goes out of your life undisturbed 👁
Devastating 💔😭🥲
My husband ended up being a Narcissist
I never knew these beings existed!! 12 years 😢 I left after it was revealed to me that there was something wrong going on
1 year ago. Time to let go, and keep moving forward towards the light and love 🕊❤️🙏
One of the greatest principles i have learnt from you and from the Yoga education is that i now HAVE THE ABILITY TO BE ALONE, WITH OUT Loneliness. It has equipped me with the proper knowledge of how to feel at ease in any committee of human beings. So much so that even when I'm left alone by anyone, I'm well composed.📚🌎🔥🏆💕📚🌹👁️
Well said...this is what I am going through in my life now....a great transformation!
I wish I was that way
@@liliancheboi7641 Changing ourselves is the most difficult thing to do but the most rewarding....you can do it
How did you master doing it? What did you do to make yourself able to be alone without lonliness
Its been 14 long years but still it is damn difficult to move on..
I will craft my own things. Very good things. Blissful and great things. Tremendous possibilities of things.
Let's start ending relationships before they get to a breaking point...
i am a student , actually my best friend is not believing me , he told let's not talk anymore hereafter , but i didn't do any thing , one of frd has created or framed something and made such a big diaster problem , i can't control myself from crying , i want to prove that i am innocent but he is not listening to me , i pray god to get back eveything normal , i wish i can control in studies
Many of billions of couples go through this heartbreaking situation but ultimately it's the choice made by either of the couples to detach eachother but the harsh reality of this world that every human being takes birth alone and dies alone all that happens between is experiencing the life so devote much time in being compassionate and gaining the power to move in life without anyone's existence
Hi sadhguru i am a self centred man who love my mom and dad and my aunt and does not care about anyone.
Sadhguru is so inspiring.
Always beautiful wisdom, enlightening!
"Thank you for this experience I know I wanted this" I'm looking forward to what's next!✈
True love settle down and get married. Buddha do not want people to be lonely. Must have companion.
Buddha support his disciples if they want to get married. Buddha have a very good heart.
"You must have a wonderful relationship with everyone around you because of who *you* are, not because of who someone else is." 🙏🏻🤍✨️
Agreed
Ofc but always remember to not just be yourself bc of their proximity either... sometimes being recessive is the only option.. especially w angry or disturbed ppl
Reciprication is just as important than just imposing yourself n energy onto another Even though YOU KNOW its good.)
Some people want you to become toxic
That's tough to due the different circumstances in life. Example there an 80 year Grandmother that loves to drink eventhough her body cant handle the liquor, she over weight, wont exercise, and has health isuues. To make matter even more depressing, she's still mourning her husband 20 years disceased and dont want to make new memories for fear of losing the ones she has. As her children and grandchildren you have to monitor her drinking giver her unhealthy food, and pick her up, clean her because she's drunk.
The Children are scared to move her in with them in fear of ending her will to live.
How do you be you and allow them to be them when it's an pain existence and you can not walk away?????
YOU HAVE A PURE SOUL WHO HAS A HEART OF GOLD.💖💖
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In my humble opinion we feel the pain from the heart. When we think of something its the heart that makes us feel emotion be it sad, angry, love or hate etc. Our minds already work out that the person doesnt love me but the memories when we think its the heart that makes us feel. Thats what I think. In time it doesnt go away but with time we tend to get accustom to it that it fades....idk could be wrong
But the heart only pumps blood. 🙏
Ur right.. exactly how the heart feels pain from memories.. uve written it literally..
It's basically memory working out at the level of mind and emotions. When the pattern gets rigid we tend to become compulsive. The need is for awareness to break free from this self created pattern of sadness and pain.
Head heart, what it does it matter, I say that if u dont ever the feel the pain you never really loved .
such wise words - love like there's no tomorrow regardless of tomorrow. Giving and wishing love to all is a cure for any loss.
Sadh Guru ji really.
Change the life
U kinda know when a relationship is over so the best thing to do is a preemptive breakup, put urself in a stronger position
you must have got that from George on Seinfeld!!
@@coopthescoop100 no. It's just understanding human psychology and use it to ur advantage
I was in a relationship. We were in deep love. Everything was perfect. She got BDS selection and gone for her studies in a city. After 1 year she changed exponentially. She cheated on me with one of her classmate boy . So she broke up with me. I was not able to control myself from depression. I always stayed in home. It was like end of my life. After few weeks I decided to spend some time with my friends. So I went out with my friends and I met a road accident. Because of the accident my spines are broke and I am a paralyzed person now for the rest of my life. Sometimes I wonder why so much pain in my life. There is no cure for spinal cord injury till now.
U must first try relieving the pain , try contacting any best surgeons in foriegn or ur home country and tell them u will pay the fees for surgery once ur spine gets better..love works
We are in kaliyuga. It's not like innocent or rather victims will be relieved from pain. Sufferings and blessings are just random . Had not it been...lakhs of innocent lives would not have been lost in wars . Just do what is needed now. Get best medical help from wherever possible . Don't think or lament on what had happened. Neither think that just because you were the victim something will happen good automatically just by God's grace.
I have also stopped thinking that bad people are punished for their actions. It's JUST RANDOM.
John, I truly wish the best for you. I'll keep you in my prayers . I don't want to sound unrealistic when I say God is good. Because I know you may not see this way now. I've never been in a situation like yours, so I must confide that I'd be also down if I were on your shoes, however when you go to sleep and wake up, this is proof that God is right there with you wanting to give you existence and ways of making something with what you have now. It doesn't have to be much. Just little steps per day, a thought or a feeling that can change your perspective about life. It's not because you're paralyzed that your life should be miserable and you stay in depression forever. There are ways of being happy with the current situation. Look for someone to talk to you and who can listen to yourself. If u can't find it, talk to you in the mirror. Say to yourself how much you care about you. You have your choice. Your inner voice, regardless all. Your voice cannot be silenced. Also look for videos about self love and care (Louise Hay) and be in peace, my friend. We have never seen each other but you're my brother and thus fraternity is real. God bless.
@@praveenprakash9756 it is not random...there are laws within laws within laws....all is karma
Wishing you the best !!
Always a pleasure to listen to Sadhguru and be in his company :) Grateful for the videos being made available here! Thank you
Getting divorced after 4 years and having my first child who’s 21 months old. Now my daughter will be part of a broken family just like me. That’s what hurts to most..
Charan Sparsh, Gurudev. Thank you so much for your priceless presence in this world with us.
Very nicely explained Gurudev. Thank you ♥️♥️
Thank You for this lesson. I was looking for this answer! Recently, I had gone through a negative experience.
Amazing. Moment of Truth !
It’s really hard and painful but even more when you have child/children together!
🙏🙏🙏 i have released the beast in me... but thanks to this video... i have tamed the inner beast in me... 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for your lessons of life
Very true. I can't lose myself in somebody else. Neither can you,Hauser.
Sadhguru is a great man for the world.🙏🙏
No one would want this topic more than me.
❤️🥲 your words don't go into head. They Pierce through heart 🔥
Kindly share the full video links always in the description
Namaskaram
Thank you! 🙏🏻
Always sucks when children are involved gets 10x harder😢
Thanks so much Sadhguru!🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for this, you have no idea. ❤
Great explanation as always...Pranam Sadhguru
Thankyou Sadhguru ♡ my relationship broke up I think. I want it to continue...
Trying to understand That One without knowing This One is a folly 🙏💗
his contrasting language is hilarious:
People are not able to grasp this distinction: either they become ruthless philanderers; or, they become so sappy and lost they are not able to enjoy their relationships.
Have good relationship with everyone because of who you are not what they are its a choice you have to make more wisdom sadhguru👏👏👏👏
Namaskaram Sadhguru Ji.
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Hello Sadhguru , your words help many . You look tired, I hope you are keeping well . David NZ
Beautiful
This is great
I'm American 🇺🇸 but I love Indian ❤️ culture Jai Shri Ram 🕉
Jai shree Ram 🛕
That's great!! 😊
😢😢😢 I’m going through a divorce. I felt it was a one sided love one sided marriage. I’m heart broken. My spirit my soul my heart feels shattered. It hurts so much to see her with some one else so fast. 😞😞😞 I want to stop this feeling . It hurts.
Thank you, with you in Spirit/ from America'
I hope everyone heals
How does one craft his/her psychological structure consciously???? Especially when we are bombarded with tons of information through multiple sources????
Namaskaram Sadhguru : )
If you can keep the fish on the line to eat another day why not 😂
Personally I just absolutely quit physical relationships completely, however I’m very friendly and social with everyone, but I have no personal needs anymore, I’m either spiritually advanced or mentally fucked, and to be honest I’m not sure which one I am 😂
Thank you Sadhguru
Embrace the change and look for new dawn...
Pranam Sadhguru 🙏🌸
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you sadhguru❤
Sadh guru magic master controls the mind and earth
today im goin through this ...😢
Break up is really painful and it is a part of relationship on repeated times two people are not in synchronization...maybe right person but wrong situations...but the bitter truth is when u r into a relationship for a long time..u develop a feeling of attachment...for the person....but for the two people still having the same respect to each other and to say that relationship is not going well is a sign of immense internal strength of the relationship....we may cry..we may miss each other...but the power is to accept that not being together is freeing each other once again to be happy and free. This is nor a win nor a loss....it is the love, strength and the mutual respect for each other that wins.
Right 👍
Sadguru love you 😍🙏🙏
🙏 Shiva Shambho ❤❤❤
U are my hero
Love you sir
NAMASKARAM SADHGURU SARANAM🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Shambho!!
Naman Guruji 🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is actually an interesting concept, it’s weird, it’s interesting, the truth but it has so much depth . What you said can be applied to many aspects of life . How you let the world and experience shape you from situation to situation .
Every interaction in life has two sides . Negative and positive, and when we experience negative, we tend to let the negative mold our thoughts..
It’s possible to learn from negatives and tough situations, but often negative clouds the mind and creates bad energy.
What you said is, we must learn to be who we are and love unconditionally because of who we are.
Sometimes we love, and go through trauma and that created negative energy. Each traumatic situation has a different effect on the mind which varies from small to large, and it makes us become bitter and un trust worthy.
I feel like media promotes certain negatives and turns it into good 🍽💭
Is there not also the detached-perspective where things simply are what they are ? Where everything simply 'IS' with no 'fight' of emotion or mind . David NZ
@@kdsowen2882 I believe I would describe that as neutral . There are options in fighting called jing. There are tons of kings, from neutral, negative, positive , ect. Jing, It's a choice of how you direct your energy. We can allow things to just be what it is by letting the flow decide for its self .
When we choose to do nothing, the universe plays around that with a unique undisturbed natural flow.
Being neutral or passive is the effective because it allows you to observe and pick when to move, act, or you can simply observe and accumulate knowledge on a perspective by allowing everything to flow while you sit still .
This requires patients because we must observe and allow the world to flow.
And when it flows , we can respond accurately when the time is right .
Please don't add music in background when Sadhguru speaks,🙏
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sadhguru🙏🙏
Such a beautiful content here! Keep it up my friend! You're allowed to scream, you're allowed to cry, but don't give up! Keep going! You are great with what are you doing! It deserves all success around and I don't forget to give my full support for you!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘❤️❤️
Sometimes you are not allowed to cry or scream.
What is name of flute music that is being played at last part of video?
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Champions aren't made in the gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them-a desire, a dream, a vision.
Yes... Difficult
I am currently living happily with my family because of Sadhguru and kriyas like Shambhavi mahamudra. I am very grateful to Sadhguru and Isha.
Sorrow and depression -> Joy
Resistance -> Acceptance
No one can predict the perfect amicable end of relationship one party may be able to the other no, no matter of intentions its never smooth.
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Hard but possible.
Im crying now.., to be who is me now that i dont know or who?! :(😢
Jay sadguru
💛🌏💛 seek an you shall find. Paz 💜
श्री गुरुदेव दत्त.
पूजनीय गुरुजी हम आपकी spirituality और आपको संदीप महेश्वरी के show मे देखने के लिए बड़े उत्सुक हैं ।।
Sadhguru ke paas aati hai duniya
No one should go thru what I badly experience which may look simple as we hear many easily leaves their partner 9r change partner with reasons or after a big disagreement. My story is a big unexpected pain
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I'm going through it Now 😭😭💔
Does anyone know the title of the background song?
Oh I just really love this song 😖