How Not to Let Ugly Situations Mess You Up | Sadhguru
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- Responding to a question on the negative influence of growing up with quarreling parents and in an atmosphere that is bereft of love, Sadhguru says that we cannot determine what life throws at us, but what we make out of it is entirely our choice. He also adds that especially if your parents have lived badly, you must ensure that you never ever commit the mistakes that your parents committed.
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"You cannot fix a yesterday, but you can create a tomorrow".. something so simple, yet so powerful. Thank you Sadhguru 🙏
Q1
There is no dreams if there's no sleep... go to bed !
I ❤️ you
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Fact
“When pain, misery, or anger happen, it is time to look within you, not around you.”
- Sadhguru
This is so true. You have a choice in whether to continue becoming ugly or use it as an experience to become wise.
I believe so based on experience
Wow! That's deep. I needed this. Thank you.
Truee
How
Sending love from Scotland. Love your sari. I grew up in violence and I was always very shy. At 16 I got pregnant with a 40 year old and took on a step son and 3 step daughters. I have been loyal and committed for 29 years, but since turning 40 I have been coming out my shell realising that shame I’ve carried all my life wasn’t mine, through yoga and self love I have been healing myself and a year ago today.. I walked away from 29 years. I have spent the last year re parenting myself and forgiving abusers. I have constantly been working and living wage to wage but I know that I will be okay and I am grateful I have this chance to change my life 🙏
Well you have got it hard from quite tender age..hope now u can be at peace 🙏
Much love to you and your work that you are accomplishing!!!
god bless you
Wish if i could hug you
Kindly share the path and journey of healing through yoga meditation. it would immensely benefits many in need of it
Jai Guru dev
Aum Sairam
I recently realized that if you don't react to negative situations for 10 minutes, your perspective of looking at it will automatically change and you will react in a much better way... Thank you!
But how do I stop reacting?
so very true, here in America, everyone has an opinion and for some reason feel the need to express it, even when not asked. i feel ppl do this out of loneliness and desire for connection. often times it can lead to conflict because they don't realize its ok to have a difference of opinion, this doesn't mean they can be friends or just quietly accept what the other person is saying as simply a different perspective.
@Tarun Goyal how you control your reactions? Some tips?
@@AuthorpreneurIITian express them through your breath instead of your actions..
@@abhishekghosh4384 that riles some people up when you sigh though. but i agree this is a great way to let it pass through you.
I'm so happy I found this man at 20 years old. Changing my life
God bless you
You are very lucky. Please make use of all this.
@@xaviersson5825 🤣🤣🤣 Are you really??
@@truthseeker550 😝😝
Me at 25 years
Life is 10% what happens to us, and 90% how we react to it ✌🏽
If you did not react, you are same as a dead person. Its depends on good things happens to you or bad.
Mr. Kan
Response exists* keep your unpopular opinion into your pocket.
@@lover9568 do I care my opinion popular or not ?? Dont mock yourself here. I'm saying things will happens, sometimes you really have to react.
exactly the opposite, but those 10% makes a key difference
So true !!
I needed this. Been hurt all my life. No support. Toxic family toxic people toxic life. I have no one to hold my hand. I have me. Watching sadhguru has really opened my mind. This is life. Not heaven.
Life is actually heaven, you have good food good music to groove and even beautiful girls all the qualities in which heavens are described ...taking you dont belong to a country which is constantly at war then its a different story ...love
"There is no way you can fix a yesterday, but you can create tomorrow" I'M BLESSED TO WATCH THIS VIDEO
Yes or no? Isn't it? Hello?
@@ianshillina9461 😁✌️
Thats it
Words...just words...
@@ianshillina9461 ¹
It's almost frightening how often one of his talks is released at just the right moment in my life. Probably everyone's lives, the whole world is a volatile situation lately I suppose. Much love to you Sadhguru!
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same here!
I agree.
Feel you man on this. I hope things improve for you!!
Same here.. going through my worst phase
" what the world throws at us is not necessarily your choice, but what you make out of it is entirely your choice. "
“ Don’t keep on looking at the rear-view mirror for ever “. 🙏
Lol 😆😆😆😆😆😆mate
My brother told me anxiety is from the future depression is from the past present is a 🎁. Stay present 💞
That's a zen saying. It's quite famous.
Past is memory future is imagination and present is experience-. Sadhguru
Some things are more complex than this.
This guy is the man .....
Today is brother's day... Or Anna's day.... Happy Anna's day to all the Annas🔥
😃💐👍
Anna
@@Vivek-mq1gf 😀
Happy brothers day Anna 🎉🎉🎊
Same to u Anna🙏
“What the world throws at us is not our choice but what we choose to do with it is our choice”.
This is exactly the wisdom I wanted to know
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Me tooo
Sadhguru knows what his followers want.
@@anishaadhikari6789 nahi yr, he knows what is right to live this life to our utmost brilliant experience
@Abdullah Ali Khan I’m glad to hear that brother
You can't control what people do to you but you can control your response and your action to the situation 💖
Very brilliant, Sadhguru 🙏
thank you Sadhguruji 🙏🙏🙏
That’s true we cannot blame the situation ... best thing possible for us ... is to find the good things from the bad that happens to us ... if u sense a problem give your fair share of try and if nothing is working 1. Sit and analyze.. 2. Learn from mistake 3. Then make a plan b... this will keep u diverted for some time 4.divert from ur low energy cos no problem is worth spoiling our life ...5.move on for the better
Love from NEPAL sudhguru..🙏🙏
His words sometimes make me cry..Thank you and love you Sadhguru
I've realized that there's only 3 things I can control in my life:
1) what I focus on (what I'm looking at)
2) what actions I take
3) how much effort I put in
Everything else is out of my hands.
It reminds me of Gandalf explaining to Frodo, while they are deep inside a dark cave.
Frodo:
I wish the ring never came to me, i wish none of this would happen.
Gandalf:
So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide.
All we have to do, is to decide what we will do with the time that is given us❤️🙏
Make this one belief, that life happens for you..Universe is always working out for your ultimate good..🙏❣️
Not true
If u face ugly situation u will also become ugly or choose this as a manure to blossom into a wonderful flower. Choice is ur. There is no ideal situation.
Sadhguru❤️🙏🏻
Pretty amazed at how the right video finds you at the right time. This is just what I needed to hear at this moment
Always
Less than 2 minutes in and I see what he’s saying. It’s up to us how we feel and what we do. The choice is ours. Simple but true.
“There is no way you can fix a yesterday, but you can create a tomorrow” I pray for strength to hold onto this wisdom 🙏🏽
Sadhguru .... this is apt for my day thank u so much
" Life is a process, not a problem. The question is only, have you prepared yourself for the process or not." - Sadhguru 🙏
Where there r 2 people there is an issue..What a line...🙏
Maybe you’ve been assigned this mountain to show others it can be moved 🏔
Being constantly so frustrated, when I move mountains with less.
💯💯💯
Love this
I teared up reading that.
No
This is really really really important especially in the US, so many kids just blame everything in the past and don’t change. And then they lose faith and belief based on past experiences!!
I was going through harsh situation then sadhguru 👣🛐 come with this video 💛
And now your life is even worse....
Muje lgta he...... unlike krne wale log guru ji se jyada smart he ya english smj ni aTi....
That’s such a good point. Recognizing when someone else isn’t living well but I didn’t realize the irony of not being mindful in my own life. Thanks for your video
This explanation come at the right time.
I had to hear this this morning.
Thank you ⭐🌻
Wonderful words of inspiration for a monday❤️🥰
I and i alone am responsible for everything i feel.😇
Tune in the beginning.... Uffff... It's in the end of an another video of Sadhguru (titled- learn to be alone)
It's just .... 🙏🙏🙏
if you find some where, react to msg
Sadhguru said something that would be a PERFECT response to someone who is arguing with you in bad faith, or is blaming you (playing the blame game which is not effective communication, a waste of time), where they bring up past things YOU did to deflect what they did, when the discussion is about something in the present, they do this to avoid admitting a mistake or taking responsibility for their own actions - A great reply to make them stop and think would be: *"There's no way you can fix a yesterday, but you can create a tomorrow."*
"The privilege of being a human being is the fact that we have the intelligence to determine what our experience in life should be. Other creatures are in a natural instinctive state of compulsive reaction. ... most humans are also in a compulsive state of reaction."
-Sadhguru.
That's powerful!!!
Thank you Sadhguru 😇🙏
Shimla hai ghar mera 😅
Yes or no? Hello?
I am so happy I came a cross you Sadhguru thank you so much 🙏🏻😇
Thank you, you always put perspective life, I wish I found you as a teenager, but I am over the moon that I found your wisdom now. Love to everyone all over our beautiful world.
Shiv Shiv Mahadev Shambho..😌🙏
totally agreed, though it is really hard in certain circumstances...still
Thanks guru i am sri lankan buddhist. You are so wise. I like you very much. I watch daily your videos.
Although this applies universally idk how but this was exactly what I needed to be reminded about and sadhguru team posted on the same. Amazing how life finds expression and things just make sense at the right time with the right context to it.🙏🙏
Omg the wisdom that Sadhguru gave in this talk is far more than what title says. He gave a wonderful insight on how to live a lives. Your perception is totally happened within you, and ONLY YOU can decide whether it's joyful or miserable. Thank you Sadhguru!
Sadhguru Shambho 🙏❤️
Be wise or be wounded is the most profound thing I've heard in a long time
I dont think we can thank this guy enough for the wisdom he has imparted in us
Thankyou Sadhguru ji🙏
@Muhammad Nazeem we welcome you brother❤
Mam so glad to see you here
You can't fix yesterday, but you can create tomorrow..Very wise and true statement...Thank you wise man.🙏🏽
Healing power in his words is unbelievable. You are great Sadhguru Ji! 🙏🏼
Blessed are those who came across this soul!
Oh Thank you so much !! All this love for free.. Much appreciated 🙏
My Guru... My-master🙏❤️
Thanks so much for everything 🙏🙏🙏.
A very wise man saying wise things as usual !
"You can't fix your past" I got it 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
That is so true!!🙏You have the choice, how to react..☯️
You have a choice to act, you don't have a choice when you react.
You cant fix a yesterday but u can create a tomorrow
Very powerful thought. Thank you.
Im speechless! thank you for your wisdom, presence and existence. My heart is full with love and gratitude
This friend is her and I admire that she is willing to address it. I wish I had this courage
You are my true Bhagwan , Sadhguru ji
Doing exactly just this...the lady s speech is spot on.Thank you Sadhguru❤️❤️❤️👍💐👍💐🙏
Yes... my upsetting past ( out of my control) has weighed heavy on my outlook of misery, I resented so much and so many people who actually put me there in that misery one way or another... I’m now 60 years old and hopefully finally realising that if I make a conscious efforts to avoid people who are negative or remind of those unhappy times...my turning point was to start new roads, meet new point and avoid situations that want to reopen old wounds . Thank you , acceptance that my parent’s were victims of their miserable past too...I did put that on my son I’m sure as a child, but I’m so lucky he’s well adjusted and happy ....I’m aware that my attitude to past my rubbish and past negative people are exactly that LEFT IN THE REAR MIRROR. Thank goodness ☺️
What a video this was Sadhguru 🙏🏼 .... SO INSPIRED
I choose happiness ❤️
Good be happy! Bless
You know, I’m going through some difficult situation and this is something keeps me away from reacting to the situation and instead thinking and responding to it 🙏🙏
Though I'm almost 70 years old, but still luckily not too late to learn some things valuable to my coming years, thanks U very much!!
This is one of best sessions.
Soo profound... External input is not always equal to internal output under conscious state of mind, trying my best to maintain this balance... Thank you Sadhguru
This video opened my eyes and mind so much! My perspective has change unbelievably. Thank you, Thank you! 🙏❤️
I love you Sadhguru. I hope more people listen to you and find their alignment. Thanks you for enlightening the world with your light and wisdom 🙏
Your words are exactly what I have said...I loved my parents. But I've always been determined not to live as they did.
What eye opening words of wisdom. These challenging lessons about life that Sadhguru throws our way are gifts from the heart. This positive energy has improved my will being tremendously!! Thank you
Sadhguru day starts with you and ends listening to you. Everything echoes whole day and empower me! Also feel your presence every moment and energised like a shield around me!
What a beautiful world we would live in if everyone on the planet had to learn from such a wise Yogi like Sadhguru, just imagine. This man is legend. ❤️🙏🏾
Thankyou mere pyare Sadhguru ji......ashirvad dijiye.....
True Sadhguru sometimes our own choices we choose are wrong but start blameing our own choices whatever it is. Instead of solution for that we still go deep into blameing!
I love listening to your wise words and guidance 🙏
I am grateful to have you impacting so many lives at scale. The same scenario was also there with me but thank god I chose to not to become same.
Love you Sadhguru I will remember this words always
“It’s taken millions of years of work of evolution to get you here, to the planet of evolution on this plant.” Thanks for reminding us how lucky we are to live on this planet🙏
Sadhguru Forever ❤️❣️♥️❣️♥️❤️
Thank you!! ❤🙏Love, peace, joy & Bliss with you all...
Thankful that I came across this video. Much love for wonderful giving. I try to find my way to listen Sadhguru whenever I get disturb to remind myself that I should be the person who I am. And not what others want I to be.
GG Today’s angelic number 1 encourages you to have determination. Keep on your path. You are going the right direction. Don’t let doubt make you waiver. Remain steady and continue to move forward Thx u Oasis
Wow... I needed this, and the world answered. Thank you. Love from Sydney
Wonderful Sadhguru. With your grace I am ready to create the next moment and the next moment and the tomorrow the way I need.I am blissed out and grateful for ever. The world needs this bliss and people have to experience the bliss beyond their small framework of their body and mind. Thank you for rubbing in your bliss on to me Sadhguru.
so refreshing to hear sadhguru say things like they are, no bullshit and no excuses
how does he always know just what wisdom we need ❤️
@Lina Fedorova,
Because he's a Bodhisattva;
they choose to return to this life, not for their own sake, but for our sake. They point the Way....whether we choose to take the Path is up to us.
Thank you.
@@OceanSwimmer thank you that makes a lot of sense actually
thank you for your wise words and wisdom 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much Sadhguru ji🙏🏻🙏🏻
So much truth in this 🙌🙏 Become strong and make positive choices
Just what I needed today...thank u sir
You're most influential person in my Life sir
I am blessed living the same time and being able to see and listen Sadhguru. He gives answers to my questions. He makes us stronger.
Always moves me... Always touches me... and most important... Always reminds me. Thank you Sadhguru.