How to Forget Someone you Love?

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  • čas přidán 16. 07. 2019
  • Struggling to move on after a breakup? Watch Sadhguru talk about the mechanics of a love affair, and how to handle emotional pain, during a conversation with college students.
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  • @sonurathod9477
    @sonurathod9477 Před 2 lety +3341

    Heart break during exam days literally kills

    • @Dummy_donut
      @Dummy_donut Před rokem +17

      Bro never watched Rajkumar's movie

    • @TonyStark-ti6id
      @TonyStark-ti6id Před rokem +15

      Didi dil ki bt kehdi apne

    • @vibhutipatel7635
      @vibhutipatel7635 Před rokem +1

      💯💯💯

    • @parbatipradhan7624
      @parbatipradhan7624 Před rokem +24

      Jo mere saath ho raha 🙂👍

    • @aashu6920
      @aashu6920 Před rokem +46

      Facing the same situation 😭😭,,, I don't know what to do...The thing is I thought she is giving me hints, I loved her secretly, she always thought me as a friend. She now have a bf, N I confessed her, n now she's not talking to me......

  • @vikasmishra2131
    @vikasmishra2131 Před rokem +1045

    "Time doesn't heal anything, it just teaches us how to live with pain" 🙂

  • @SurajKumar-pg6qn
    @SurajKumar-pg6qn Před 3 lety +4273

    What i learnt from heartbreak is that dont love someone so much that it become your weakness

    • @emreevo8
      @emreevo8 Před 3 lety +140

      Like we can help that! It just happens. You can't choose who you'll love.

    • @kingcapricornio1193
      @kingcapricornio1193 Před 2 lety +37

      My strenght and my weakness but weakness won💔🔥👿

    • @shivamvishwakarma1225
      @shivamvishwakarma1225 Před 2 lety +4

      Ye sahi kaha tumne

    • @HemalathaKiniA
      @HemalathaKiniA Před 2 lety +47

      Not in our control .... Easier said than done isn't it ..🙂

    • @shubhtripathi164
      @shubhtripathi164 Před 2 lety +14

      Exactly...cause after its all done...
      It hurts a lot.

  • @thecitizenoftheinternet1077
    @thecitizenoftheinternet1077 Před 3 lety +4999

    Love is simultaneously one of the best and worst feelings ever.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n Před 4 lety +4302

    *True love isn't between two people.*
    *True love is within, true love is for life itself.*

    • @mahakala
      @mahakala Před 4 lety +49

      i noticed you are throwing bullshit under every sadhguru video. keep up the work.
      salutes

    • @Pezerinno
      @Pezerinno Před 4 lety +3

      We meet again

    • @mahakala
      @mahakala Před 4 lety +2

      @@Pezerinno open again

    • @Iamlatha
      @Iamlatha Před 4 lety +5

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me, That's a very high philosophy - later in life & not for the teens.

    • @CanadianPureBlood
      @CanadianPureBlood Před 4 lety +8

      Depression doesn’t exist, people can get out of it if they just love

  • @AnthonyLiccione
    @AnthonyLiccione Před 3 lety +1101

    "A tormented mind wants to forget, what a broken heart will always remember."

  • @tabacc9460
    @tabacc9460 Před 4 lety +1966

    To all the beautiful souls out there reading this if you are feeling the pain of heartbreak. I wish you healing and I want you to know that a great beauty lies in this pain. There was something you had to learn from this phase of your life , acknowledge it and then let go. My heart is completely healed and i have let go of them. It took some painful times but they taught me a lot. Love yourself unconditionally through it all and one day you will heal..trust me. Love you all.❤

    • @rupalisaikia4905
      @rupalisaikia4905 Před 3 lety +5

      Thank you so much ❤

    • @tejubts3468
      @tejubts3468 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you❤️

    • @AditiNatureKitchen
      @AditiNatureKitchen Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @nishigiri418
      @nishigiri418 Před 2 lety +50

      Going through immense pain right now....i can not breathe properly...there is so much pain in my heart right now...but i know i will come out of this soon...and i will forget that person forever

    • @n.007gaming9
      @n.007gaming9 Před 2 lety +3

      Thanks ❤️ I needed it.

  • @EmpressofChrist
    @EmpressofChrist Před 4 lety +5337

    My grandma ones told me (if you love him more than he loves you RUN!)

  • @vavvokilluminati
    @vavvokilluminati Před 4 lety +411

    If someone breaks your heart, betrays you, or suddenly disappears, don't be sad. Accept it.
    Life always brings you what you are. That person is not anymore in your "frequency of being".
    The wonderful and amazing thing is that you don't need anyone to feel completed because you are completed by yourself, and this is the perfect moment to finally realize that, forever.
    You have just to accept it, and stop living in the future or in the past. Live in the present and completely accept it, and you'll find an incredible sense of peace in that.
    Every second that passes, past is dead.
    No one is going to make you happy, no one is going to be yours, except you.
    May this be helpful for someone

  • @mercuryme1375
    @mercuryme1375 Před 3 lety +1581

    The break up, the separation doesnt hurt us, it is humiliation, degradation, and offense to our self esteem that hurts us. So, how to recover from sadness after a break up? Work on our self esteem, take a good care of ourself, and value ourself more.

    • @sexymary
      @sexymary Před 3 lety +44

      Kinda. BUT breakup hurts bcuz people cling to something that is not permanent & unrealistic expectations.. Just think that every person that comes to your life, contributes to your increasing awareness & maturity..

    • @Alliviate
      @Alliviate Před 3 lety

      Word💯

    • @Alliviate
      @Alliviate Před 3 lety +2

      Word💯

    • @zaza9237
      @zaza9237 Před 3 lety

      thank you Sir🙏

    • @lionzDen23
      @lionzDen23 Před 2 lety +4

      The separations do hurt as well

  • @ariadnagarcia7490
    @ariadnagarcia7490 Před 4 lety +888

    Love yourself is the real love, love someone else is an extension of love.

  • @rakesh2243
    @rakesh2243 Před 4 lety +3388

    Who is scrolling through the comment in order to know whether he had properly addressed the question or not????😂😅🤣😀

  • @meetsimarkaur8576
    @meetsimarkaur8576 Před 4 lety +612

    unloving someone isn’t as difficult as it is made out to be. you just need to love & respect yourself enough to walk away when the people you ‘love’ just don’t want to be with you anymore.

    • @ishtacandy7414
      @ishtacandy7414 Před 3 lety +3

      Gosh... So true☺️

    • @Corehinduism
      @Corehinduism Před 3 lety +11

      I m suffering can't get outta her

    • @livenow13
      @livenow13 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Corehinduism I’m suffering too. I pray for your healing!

    • @pavangandhi8210
      @pavangandhi8210 Před 3 lety +5

      So outright easy in words, challenging in practice. How about what was good, how to address the challege of live and let live, regardless of our differences and adressing the challenge of preserving a precious friendship as well.

    • @eunikeadjei
      @eunikeadjei Před 3 lety +3

      What if they want to be with you like everyday? But certain things are stopping you from reciprocating those same feelings??

  • @subashkafle6851
    @subashkafle6851 Před 2 lety +758

    It's my 5th day of breakup. We broke up after 5 years. It feels like I am all alone in this world. The first three days were tough. Then, I kept myself busy with my family, friends, and relatives. During the first month after the breakup don't be alone in the house or on your holiday. Go out with your friends, and spent time with family and relatives. Meet with the new person. Go home while you feel asleep. This way you will be able to cope up with your breakup. Just do anything that makes you feel happy. Update (After 3 months) I am doing great and i am focusing more in my health stuff and career. After 3 months she came with an apology and begged me for patchup and guess what that made me move on completely and I ignored her. I request you to just hold on and time will heal you automatically

    • @soundarya1339
      @soundarya1339 Před rokem +16

      My best frnd who means the world to me..whom i share everything that makes me happy, sad ..one who has been the day destination..beacause of whom i felt complete is now changing..not knwoing how to handle this..totally confused and there is lot of silence developing in me🙃 any suggestions?

    • @Sanch333
      @Sanch333 Před rokem +22

      Its wrong 🙂 when my boyfriend cheated me
      My friends also leaved me that tym now I am suffering from mentally

    • @soundarya1339
      @soundarya1339 Před rokem +10

      @@Sanch333 dont alone yourself..the power within you is the most powerful weapon u can use to shape yourself😊..use alone time to shape yourself..carve yourself..ik its hard to implement..everyday walk baby steps dear..there are much better things for u instore 😊have hope..have faith in god😊..much love- a fellow being💕

    • @mylifemyway6064
      @mylifemyway6064 Před rokem +1

      Hey what if I don't have any such friends

    • @mylifemyway6064
      @mylifemyway6064 Před rokem

      Hey what if I don't have any such friends

  • @ifrankenstine8748
    @ifrankenstine8748 Před rokem +398

    Tired of this pain in the chest. When will this end?? When??
    Those memories, Those promises haunts me every single moment. The hardest thing I've ever had to do is to fight with my inner self.

    • @muskantamang2129
      @muskantamang2129 Před rokem +31

      I can feel you buddy we all are here to forget someone we loved unconditionally

    • @vrundsuthar
      @vrundsuthar Před rokem +9

      Same bro Just can’t Resist the pain in chest of those memories

    • @ayushmali5659
      @ayushmali5659 Před rokem +1

      Same 💔

    • @minnatjkhan
      @minnatjkhan Před rokem +3

      Those memories, those promises, they haunt so bad

    • @Dummy_donut
      @Dummy_donut Před rokem +7

      Bro said everything I can't say on social media 👍

  • @nikstar1313
    @nikstar1313 Před 4 lety +380

    Pop a like please too if you're trying to let go of your ex ..🙏 Positive vibes to everyone! xx

    • @jamiehartman3350
      @jamiehartman3350 Před 4 lety

      😔

    • @tanujakhatun4681
      @tanujakhatun4681 Před 3 lety

      😔

    • @jongikhayapotelwa2461
      @jongikhayapotelwa2461 Před 3 lety +2

      How did you do it?

    • @sanjeevhariparsad3953
      @sanjeevhariparsad3953 Před 3 lety +2

      My wife divorced me after 27 years of marriage saying she didn’t love me anymore. I don’t know how to move on. I’m broken inside.

    • @jamiehartman3350
      @jamiehartman3350 Před 3 lety +1

      @@sanjeevhariparsad3953 it's not easy.. And most people I know are forever scarred from it. Never at 100% again. I think first step is knowing it'll take a long time. Accepting that it'll never be the same. That this is our new "normal".
      Then, most people say, finding a hobby or something you really like, something you can get lost in, is the best way to fill the void. Dragging yourself through it to numb the pain.
      Also, they say, to try to understand the fleeting nature of all things. That nothing lasts forever. Emotions change like the wind. And to not blame ourselves when things go wrong. We can do everything "right" but someone's feelings will just change on its own. Maybe even because everything was so good. They get bored, right?
      That takes a long time to understand...

  • @pannu555
    @pannu555 Před 2 lety +44

    I'm sorry if u have searched this😶🥺

    • @sukalpadeka2983
      @sukalpadeka2983 Před měsícem

      😢

    • @pannu555
      @pannu555 Před měsícem +2

      @@sukalpadeka2983 hey I don't know who u r but I posted this comment 2 years ago and at present just wanted to tell u that now it doesn't hurt as bad as it hurts in the beginning. everything heals with time as well as memories slowly gets blur . don't worry if nothing last forever then this hurt will also not last forever 😊.I'm talking from my experience I think this hurt lead to various positive changes in me.just enjoy everything and also enjoy your heart sinking too because that feeling is so pure and without any manipulation 🤞🏻I hope u heal soon dear

    • @DC-zk5sj
      @DC-zk5sj Před měsícem

      ​@@pannu555 i don't know you, still your experience sure makes me feel a little motivated that even I am at my worst now but sure I will grow and heal ,maybe there is hope for me

    • @priteshwankhade9800
      @priteshwankhade9800 Před měsícem

      😭😭

    • @barwaqahassan0722
      @barwaqahassan0722 Před 7 dny

      Thanks,, it will end soon

  • @ManishKalauni
    @ManishKalauni Před 4 lety +1846

    The question should be How to stop loving someone one sidedly

  • @wonder1584
    @wonder1584 Před 3 lety +79

    I have moved on, not with another person, but with myself and my dreams.
    If you want to be happy in life, let your happiness depend on a calling, a purpose, a dream and your vision not on people.

    • @newjerseycitizen3423
      @newjerseycitizen3423 Před 3 lety

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can also help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @newjerseycitizen3423
      @newjerseycitizen3423 Před 3 lety

      What sapp him:

    • @newjerseycitizen3423
      @newjerseycitizen3423 Před 3 lety

      + 2 3, 4 9 0 6 6 1 8 5 7 3 7

  • @raakkheesinghi9173
    @raakkheesinghi9173 Před 3 lety +201

    When you go through you realise actually what it is.
    Not a single idea or advice can work.
    Every experience for every individual is different.❤️

  • @judgementkazzy42
    @judgementkazzy42 Před 4 lety +3293

    You'll only unlove someone when you find someone you love more.

    • @richardamos5898
      @richardamos5898 Před 4 lety +93

      Thats utterly pathetic you dont know everyone in this world

    • @amademi7471
      @amademi7471 Před 4 lety +142

      It's not unlove . It's you can leave someone when someone is better than the last one you love, if you truly unconditionally loved someone it can't replace. You can have dopamine rushes for sure but it's not unconditional love

    • @gerardo49078
      @gerardo49078 Před 4 lety +78

      You just cannot unlove, period

    • @khushbookumari7476
      @khushbookumari7476 Před 4 lety +6

      Agreed

    • @nakshatramettu
      @nakshatramettu Před 4 lety

      💯

  • @evettwalsh2016
    @evettwalsh2016 Před 4 lety +752

    The thing I noticed is that Sadhguru never gives a direct answer to questions. He wants you to analyse it yourself and find the answer.

    • @arunvignesh7015
      @arunvignesh7015 Před 4 lety +42

      Yes direct answer will lead to more irresponsibility. The universe don't have a single answer to anything and so should our human problems. And things don't always work. So his answers are more directed at giving a sense of clarity and direction ... like a guiding light showing the pathway full of holes...he can only show and that's all he wanna do. I guess in someway he must know, giving a strict this is the way answers ... acts as a hindrance to life process itself.

    • @bibtii9691
      @bibtii9691 Před 4 lety +2

      Akanksha V I would really like to read the gita. As I was becoming more open minded towards other cultures and religions. I am interested in the knowledge of others - trying to create a picture/perspective on life and the world, with the thoughts and wisdom of different parts of the world. (I am sorry for justifying myself why I want to read the gita, as I really don’t want to disrespect you in any way) I just wanted to ask if the translations are accurate?

    • @shivammehta8284
      @shivammehta8284 Před 4 lety +12

      @Akanksha V yes because hinduism does not give commandments it is based on self realisation

    • @shivammehta8284
      @shivammehta8284 Před 4 lety +1

      @@bibtii9691 iskcon version is good u can buy that

    • @mikediamond2199
      @mikediamond2199 Před 4 lety +8

      Direct advice can be dangerous. People take it differently

  • @awk6003
    @awk6003 Před 4 lety +131

    "if you do what is being done in the movies Nobody is going to love you"

  • @OpenMind3000
    @OpenMind3000 Před 4 lety +2665

    This is the second video of him, I watch about heartbreak and both weren't satisfying... in both cases he doesn't address the question properly.

  • @evish26
    @evish26 Před 4 lety +441

    The main key is to not give the power to someone else weather you are happy or not

  • @DESIBOY-fe7nm
    @DESIBOY-fe7nm Před 4 lety +336

    Most simple way is
    Just keep breathing.
    Focus on career. (This will be most difficult)

    • @singhexploring5640
      @singhexploring5640 Před 4 lety

      👍👍👍

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    • @karthikgaming2277
      @karthikgaming2277 Před 2 lety

      Nah why it's difficult

  • @asimafatima2173
    @asimafatima2173 Před 4 lety +209

    Love yourselves enough that any other love just adds a cherry on the cake

  • @ANONYMOUS-ni5jm
    @ANONYMOUS-ni5jm Před 2 lety +60

    To the all ,who came here to watch this I can understand your feelings even everyone of us can understand .be happy you all ❤️

  • @Blackphyre
    @Blackphyre Před 4 lety +136

    It's impossible to "un-love someone". Can you unring a bell? No! Once it's happened, the only thing you can do is be prepared for the next time it rings.Your perspective about that person and your experience with them, has to change, and then we will see it as the gift that it was. Wasn't the reality of that feeling amazing? Then cherish that, and keep it moving. The most intense loving experience I've ever had ended, however, I would NEVER want to undo that blissful experience, because some will never get to know that kind of love. The good and the bad about loving someone is, if it was true love, it will leave an impression on your heart forever-and that's the good part.

  • @thatblueskyfeeling3861
    @thatblueskyfeeling3861 Před 4 lety +236

    I loved the way he said.. *Idea behind building relationship is two people can do better than one *

    • @harshal343
      @harshal343 Před 4 lety +4

      Yes that's what true friendship or true relationship is all about In my view

    • @akashhazarika2782
      @akashhazarika2782 Před 4 lety +4

      Which is actually wrong what he meant at the end

  • @saroj3607
    @saroj3607 Před 3 lety +51

    No one literary no one can unlove someone whom they love so so much🙂

  • @angelinaj.3903
    @angelinaj.3903 Před 2 lety +18

    I have experienced, that building your ego while downgrading the person you love(d), can only temporarly help you with your hurt. But the real healing starts when you accept. It starts when you stop seeing yourself as a victim, when you start loving yourself and the other person. When you start to see things as for how they are. When you look into your own behaviour and how you can get better. I accepted that i will always have love for that person but sometimes things don't work out. As simple as that. But real love liberates you. Love the people around you and keep that attitude. The pain after a breakup is attachment, it's not love. Love doesn't hurt but your ego does.

  • @robgoodsight6216
    @robgoodsight6216 Před 4 lety +605

    If I love someone...there is nothing that will cancel that love.
    There is always a place for the ones I loved. What can change is me showing that.
    The heart breaks are the failed expectations...
    If you want to love, love...and don't expect anything in return.

    • @archana3092
      @archana3092 Před 4 lety +3

      Rob Goodsight

    • @robgoodsight6216
      @robgoodsight6216 Před 4 lety +1

      @@archana3092 🙏

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 Před 4 lety +1

      Rob Goodsight Well said!

    • @karma-cw9fn
      @karma-cw9fn Před 4 lety +33

      Dont expect...that is a very good thing....
      but being a human being emotions r there....
      we expect atleast five percent in return when we do so much....
      yes expectations breaks heart....

    • @amansinghbhadauria2818
      @amansinghbhadauria2818 Před 4 lety +4

      Not ecpecting and output is just not human nature. How can it be commanded?

  • @shoegal7
    @shoegal7 Před 4 lety +248

    "We're endangering everything ". How very sad and how very true.

    • @shoegal7
      @shoegal7 Před 4 lety +1

      @jigga jaw there won't be anything left TO endanger if we keep going the way we are going. We are destroying everything.

    • @shoegal7
      @shoegal7 Před 4 lety

      @jigga jaw long before what?

    • @shalinishalu4487
      @shalinishalu4487 Před 4 lety

      Love you universe thank you so much 💕💞🌌😊🙏

    • @shalinishalu4487
      @shalinishalu4487 Před 4 lety

      111 👍

    • @lostnfound7977
      @lostnfound7977 Před 4 lety

      And how inevitable. Every one of our pleasures is built on someone else's pain

  • @omnificent15
    @omnificent15 Před 4 lety +111

    "In love is when your intelligence is hijacked by your hormones..":):)
    Sad h guru:)

  • @sezginer7880
    @sezginer7880 Před 5 měsíci +5

    He answered everything about love except how to forget someone you love, delightful!

  • @sourabh_mishra
    @sourabh_mishra Před 4 lety +508

    How to unlove her-
    know her.

  • @anabreseneuman
    @anabreseneuman Před 4 lety +128

    Heartbreaks are cleansing and allow us to wake up and realize that there is no one out there, then unconditional love arises for all, and even if they leave you, you will still love them.

    • @bibtii9691
      @bibtii9691 Před 4 lety +3

      Rahul Singh yeah there is such kind of love- you might not have realised it yet. it is not always in a romantic way. But you can love your family unconditionally, your own children, your friends and especially yourself. If you love yourself unconditionally, maybe someone will come and will love you unconditionally on a romantic level too 😊 give it time and do not expect too much. It’s okay if you do not fully agree to what I say. But I understand that, everyone perceives life differently.

    • @angeludeithier4985
      @angeludeithier4985 Před 3 lety

      When you love it's for life, there is no Unlove ,you just dont love enough to stay together

  • @piotrwolski6650
    @piotrwolski6650 Před 3 lety +45

    Every broken relationship is meant to teach you something. I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago. It still hurts. But I only was with her cause I did not want to be alone. That taught me that it is better to be alone than in a toxic relationship.

    • @piotrwolski6650
      @piotrwolski6650 Před 3 lety +1

      @@markpeter3026 she does not even know how to be a friend, she always has some business in connection with others. Only cares about herself.

    • @piotrwolski6650
      @piotrwolski6650 Před 3 lety +1

      @@markpeter3026 thanks a lot man, but I dont want to be with this girl. She is cold as ICE. I am over her.

    • @Trippyricky69
      @Trippyricky69 Před 3 lety

      @@piotrwolski6650 you cool dude,anyway i can talk to you?

    • @samridhisharma1459
      @samridhisharma1459 Před rokem +1

      I broke with my toxic bff. I am all alone I have exam next month. And i can't focused. I want new friends to talk with 🥺💔

    • @SakshiSharma-wn3qi
      @SakshiSharma-wn3qi Před rokem

      @@samridhisharma1459 you can talk to me

  • @AnkurRDutta
    @AnkurRDutta Před 2 lety +37

    Love is the best feel when it succeed, and it is the worst feel when it failed!!!
    And fact is that most people coming in second one💔

    • @bbb23308
      @bbb23308 Před rokem

      When it's failed its never called “Love" 🥀

  • @indranilsarkar1346
    @indranilsarkar1346 Před 4 lety +310

    Sadhguru is a gem which India and her youth badly needed in this era..

    • @belleswithlove9778
      @belleswithlove9778 Před 4 lety +5

      India also needs infertility for the citizens. I pray that 90% of the population stops giving birth. It's sad to see the crowded living situations in India. You guys can only achieve this when you stop reproducing and encourage others to do so as well if they truly do have the heart and brains to understand why.

    • @princessofnada87j25
      @princessofnada87j25 Před 4 lety

      Hate that accent arggh other than that excellent advice.

    • @KARTIKEYA007
      @KARTIKEYA007 Před 4 lety

      @Tushar Kashyap this is great in itself, we dont need to watch someone else.

    • @NITHYASHREEKSPGP-Batch
      @NITHYASHREEKSPGP-Batch Před 2 lety +1

      He didn't even answer the question

  • @ravishankars6707
    @ravishankars6707 Před 4 lety +71

    You don’t need to undo the love. It’s attachment that is bothersome and never love. Love is pure. At the human level it’s never without attachment.

  • @pinaysaomansamahan
    @pinaysaomansamahan Před rokem +11

    Once someone broke your heart it's hard to fixed again,

  • @nibhasingh5459
    @nibhasingh5459 Před 3 lety +23

    Love yourself. Don't expect anything from anyone

  • @nunusameera1523
    @nunusameera1523 Před 2 lety +20

    Thanks Sadguru. It's easy to break the heart by someone. It's a huge struggle to heal it alone. When we love we trust their words and promises. It's where we get wrong. But, they have their own plans in mind. What we should do is forgetting them and letting them go as they wanted. Never follow. Because we should have dignity and self confidence. Respect them. Never hate. Let them go. Smile and move on.

  • @praveenbhati941
    @praveenbhati941 Před 3 lety +23

    How do you fall in love ?
    When you get attracted toward someone you follow that person and think about them again and again so it becomes a habbit of someone..
    If you stop yourself of thinking and following that person the very first day you saw the person it automatically gets erased from your mind...
    Mind never think about anything itself,
    It is you who just want to think about that attracted think..
    You never like to think about a bad thing so you forget that bad thing very soon..
    Love is just a habbit of someone..
    Its never made only in one day, you repeat it again and again so that get a

  • @rupalivarun3782
    @rupalivarun3782 Před 4 lety +6

    I am heartbroken and I saw sadgurus video come in front of my eyes. I feel healed . Thanks Sadguru🙏🏼

  • @drenzlife
    @drenzlife Před 2 lety +12

    I feel broken.. And watching this video heal me a little.. thank you.

  • @lexiemaep7930
    @lexiemaep7930 Před 4 lety +200

    To unlove, stop viewing people you love as your property. We lament the lost love because they were "ours". We say "my love" "love of my life" however if you accept their free will and fate, walk away, knowing it just wasn't meant to be and accept it.

    • @vijayalakshmialagappan7488
      @vijayalakshmialagappan7488 Před 4 lety +4

      Thank you for ur wonderfull explanation

    • @sand-and-asmr
      @sand-and-asmr Před 4 lety +4

      You are so intelligent

    • @pawadeshdevarmani8504
      @pawadeshdevarmani8504 Před 4 lety +1

      I don't agree wit you, when i consider the other as my property then only I can love.. otherwise I may not give 100%.. otherwise relationship will be like between u and me.. u r my good friend.. no expectations.. what you say?

    • @lexiemaep7930
      @lexiemaep7930 Před 4 lety +6

      @@pawadeshdevarmani8504 people are not property. Everyone has their own path.

    • @bibtii9691
      @bibtii9691 Před 4 lety +5

      Pawadesh Devarmani To love someone is to let them live freely with their own paths and ambitions, without trying to change someone.
      I agree to some extent that love towards family and friends is different compared to the love for a love interest/partner.
      To Love is to let go.

  • @phoenixstar6151
    @phoenixstar6151 Před 4 lety +3

    Namaste Sadhguru. "two people can do better than one person - that is the idea" Thank you for sharing your wisdom. PEACE&LOVE

  • @Son-km3rt
    @Son-km3rt Před 4 lety +1

    'Conduct your needs in a dignified manner'. Profound use of words!

  • @shantie66
    @shantie66 Před 4 lety +228

    You cant unlove someone whos been in ur life and touched ur heart their imprint will last forever. Therefore you can only change your mind and how you choose to percieve that love and how close you keep them to you, that is the only way.

    • @vgvlogs
      @vgvlogs Před 4 lety +1

      Perfectly said I am doing the same ....

    • @renujakharpuri
      @renujakharpuri Před 4 lety +1

      Perfect answer

    • @KeilyHD
      @KeilyHD Před 4 lety +7

      I like that. I clicked on this video like “but I don’t want to unlove them” it’s not the love that hurts, cause love is beautiful. It’s how you choose to view it💗.

    • @poojajaiswal8912
      @poojajaiswal8912 Před 3 lety +1

      @@KeilyHD I agree love is the most beautiful feeling but how to handle the rejection, bcoz it's painful it gives you the numbness.

    • @melis7472
      @melis7472 Před 3 lety

      Agreed

  • @ramnathnayak985
    @ramnathnayak985 Před rokem +19

    Got my heart broken 1 hr ago. Although I am a biotechnologist and I know that everything I am feeling are just hormones. Still I am not able to control my shivering and frustration. The person whom I used to love is a good person by nature and whatever she’s done was also a play of hormones. Its strange how love can transform one’s perspective about someone is just a blink of an eye. Your respect for someone is gone within seconds. I think its not love. Its the expectations that you have from the person that hurts you the most. Hence in the new year. The only person with whom I can have expectations are me, myself and I.

  • @genesisj7384
    @genesisj7384 Před 2 lety +8

    I always like how sadhguru answers questions. He just say couple of things and makes u think for your self. He isn't trying to entice anyone by preaching perfection... much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤

  • @anannya8192
    @anannya8192 Před 2 lety +35

    We should love our parents the most who always support and never leave us ..❤

  • @be_positive9947
    @be_positive9947 Před 3 lety +26

    NEVER BEG❌ TO BE LOVED BY SOMEONE.🖤

  • @husttlearvind5369
    @husttlearvind5369 Před 4 lety +101

    Relation have expiry date don't love someone 100% keep atleast a 10 % to yourself so that when they break your heart you can atleast heal.

    • @vanessaalbacite4599
      @vanessaalbacite4599 Před 3 lety +2

      I agree to it. It is called self-preservation for growth and development

  • @banda_de_musica_de_adoraci8227

    You can’t ‘unlove’ anyone you love, if the love is real it stays even after you’ve moved on.

  • @debdipsaha2226
    @debdipsaha2226 Před 4 lety +19

    We can unlove someone when we can learn to love ourselves.

  • @vickysam77
    @vickysam77 Před 2 lety +9

    A person's true color can only be seen at Breakup 💯

  • @skpandeypandey2030
    @skpandeypandey2030 Před 3 lety +24

    I heard this quote somewhere, "dil tootna bohot zaroori hai, kyunki zindagi wo hisaab hai jise peeche jaakar sahi nahi kar sakte, isiliye behetar hai ki yahin se sahi kare aur pichle ko experience ke taur par lete chale" we can just hope it was for the best because maybe if you were together, there might come a time when it won't feel the same and things change

  • @MsAnnvy
    @MsAnnvy Před 4 lety +33

    True.. serial heart breaks and it's pain never allow you to trust anyone again. Because you are aware the expiry of the relationship. I am in a state where I built walls around my Mind so that I don't cross the limit of loving anyone more. Earlier it was a different case. Now your previous painful experiences stopping you from loving anyone new that deeply.

    • @ranahelenhawa571
      @ranahelenhawa571 Před 4 lety

      Very well said

    • @notallabouttarot5194
      @notallabouttarot5194 Před 3 lety +1

      I definitely agree here. I feel we all were loving the wrong way. Letting our emotions rule us. The heartbreak happens to show us how to love

  • @vishthapa4970
    @vishthapa4970 Před 2 lety +9

    The same love never comes twice

  • @myrahouse2368
    @myrahouse2368 Před 4 lety +50

    Serial heart break leads to paranoia spot on!
    The thing is it takes a while to move on I believe love is hard to find.

  • @uttamrathod004
    @uttamrathod004 Před 4 lety +35

    Loving and unloving becomes as easy as playing a game of life if one starts to see thing objectively. For a moment put aside emotions, feelings attached to the situation and you will come to know the actual reality. It will greatly help you understand the situation you are in.

  • @rupalikajohri9170
    @rupalikajohri9170 Před 4 lety +20

    THANKYOU EVERYONE FOR SUCH A GREAT RESPONSE TO MY QUESTION.
    🙏❤️

  • @eessa1727
    @eessa1727 Před 4 lety +9

    Relationship is two individuals accepting eachother as who they are and supporting eachothers emotional and physical well being. Most of all being kind to eachother and thats where love grows..🙏❤

  • @mukeshadwani4695
    @mukeshadwani4695 Před 4 lety +16

    Heart never breaks it's always the ego which is hurted always...
    Anger abought rejection etc..
    And in love affair initially all is good good but when another aspect of coin comes the problem starts .
    That's why love needs one quality
    Patience,tolerance..
    Then when u accept other as he or shei is with all negative,positive,
    Then miracle happens
    Possessive ,domination ,etc starts disappearing,and love changes into friendliness,where u care others space,individuality,

  • @SunnySophiaChildren
    @SunnySophiaChildren Před 4 lety +140

    A relationship is ment to be with two people that have the same Energie so that it will harmonize perfekt.
    But the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself ♥️🙏

  • @samyukthas1092
    @samyukthas1092 Před rokem +3

    From his speech I understood that love is not really difficult. Its the hormones, it's the obsession and the expectations that making us hate love. When you give your everything without expecting anything in return and can feel happy there is the beauty of love. And it will make us grow.

  • @manishsahu3529
    @manishsahu3529 Před 2 lety +3

    Everyone here will be after their heartbreak and will be again thinking to talk with the one who did it but try to leave them behind and show them attitude take the revenge and chase success which will make us a powerful person. But never break any true love because true love from both the side is more powerful.❤️😢🔥

  • @kanikagupta5190
    @kanikagupta5190 Před 3 lety +15

    To all those people finding ways to unlove someone darling there is no way to unlove someone except a sip of self love and motivation each day and yes wait for the right time. Time will heal☺have a good day🙋‍♀️

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      @giftv8736 Před 3 lety

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      IF.. you.. need ...help ..message.. him on ...whatsApp.. 😍😍😍😍😍

    • @giftv8736
      @giftv8736 Před 3 lety

      + 2⃣ 3⃣4⃣ 9⃣0⃣5⃣ 6⃣ 2⃣ 1⃣4⃣ 1⃣1⃣4⃣

  • @Mano12345ish
    @Mano12345ish Před 4 lety +45

    Every 15 yr old should watch this video till it hits him/her...

  • @abhishekbhagat5344
    @abhishekbhagat5344 Před 4 lety +34

    he didn't address exactly on How to Unlove but told the basic thing, to avoid the situation by understanding why it happens and go beyond that. Been there, always one thing being in my head that costed me my sanity and trust on anyone. Sadhguru is really someone to look upon at any time for anything 🙏

  • @lexiemaep7930
    @lexiemaep7930 Před 4 lety +118

    When you love completely, when the relationship ends you can walk away knowing you did everything you could and it's easy to walk away. So open up and love deeply and completely, get it all out so that when it ends you dont have unrequited love.

    • @rebecachavez6267
      @rebecachavez6267 Před 4 lety +4

      Lexie Mae yes! I completely agree! No regrets you tried all you could!!!

    • @jaquelinespinal1263
      @jaquelinespinal1263 Před 4 lety +10

      Lexie Mae Completely agree, it’s exactly what I’ve done . The last try was my last try ... was my closure and I feel satisfied to move on bcs I confirmed myself that I gave my all. That’s the best way to avoid heart break .

    • @jenniperkins4260
      @jenniperkins4260 Před 4 lety +1

      Lexie Mae agreed

    • @starimanie7547
      @starimanie7547 Před 4 lety +2

      Got to be at peace with ourselves and our decisions. The only way to move forward. You can only control yourself. Namaste.

    • @sand-and-asmr
      @sand-and-asmr Před 4 lety +2

      Beautifull 😍

  • @Dantetheoneatpinnacle
    @Dantetheoneatpinnacle Před 3 lety +25

    My grandpa once told me if you love her more than she loves you then it's better to run and stay away from her because for u she is the world but for her you are just an option

  • @gautamupadhyay6480
    @gautamupadhyay6480 Před 4 lety +4

    Love❤️ is within Us!!! Not Outside !!!!

  • @d.jsinha839
    @d.jsinha839 Před 4 lety +20

    Not satisfied. Only lovers can feel the pain when the other person doesn't love

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  • @akshatsinghakshatsingh1323

    Your harmones are hijacking your intelligence . Heart touching line

  • @generationtvafrica8438
    @generationtvafrica8438 Před 3 lety +4

    You make me smile and feel more worthy,big love from Africa, Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @azimulislam9563
    @azimulislam9563 Před rokem +3

    One should always refrain from possessiveness in love. Our parents are the beautiful ppl made on this earth..pray to god ..he will bestow his blessings and will definetely heal the pain of heartbreak. Indeed it leaves us devastated but time is the best teacher and it teaches us that they were not made for us because god didnt want anything bad to happen with us. (Toughest days)

  • @xdadev
    @xdadev Před 4 lety +169

    *If you're thinking too much & your memories aren't going away*
    “A man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other people’s business.”

  • @rickie5150
    @rickie5150 Před 2 lety +1

    Sadhguru is a knowledgeable man... who should've comically asked "Why would you want to forget about someone you Love ??"... then explain the idea of adolescent mentality and unrealistic perspectives which bring about this "pain in your heart" when you don't get something that you want. In this case... a person... and it's NOT LOVE !!! People feel these "pains" because they are playing with things that they are not ready for. Similar to falling off your bike while learning to ride it. Consequences follow all actions. So be patient and know that these things will come in time. Find God and Live His Word. Prepare yourself for the one who is worthy of sharing this Life with you. Be worthy yourself !! Amen !!!

  • @sesailaym
    @sesailaym Před rokem +4

    Never wrap your whole identity around another person. Love wholly and fully, but save some love for yourself.

  • @projectprospero3218
    @projectprospero3218 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for your videos, I’ve found them so helpful!💫💫💫

  • @prasannaprasy950
    @prasannaprasy950 Před 4 lety +14

    finally i end up with the question how to undo love!!🙄

  • @christinagerstner5816
    @christinagerstner5816 Před 4 lety +2

    I took it that way, I think with his statement he means that it is not about the fact that you really need this one person, but that you are looking for something that completes us because it is the nature of everything and we only believe this feeling to have found this one person because this person apparently gave us this indescribably beautiful feeling of being a whole because it was a good trigger for us. When this person leaves us, we develop fear never to be able to get this nice feeling from another person again, but the feeling has always arisen in yourself only you have interpreted it into the other person because they themselves could well reflect you and you strong together and been a whole. This is how it felt to you in your own way. I think that's why there is jealousy because it hurts when the half who supposedly completes us suddenly no longer loves us and goes away. Because of this, don't feel left alone or not loved find a way to create that feeling yourself without needing anything else and you will be able to love everything.

  • @blessedamooti1371
    @blessedamooti1371 Před 2 lety +2

    So nice
    I needed this right now
    Stay blessed Mr sadhguru👍🏾🙏💖

  • @tadhghayden8440
    @tadhghayden8440 Před 4 lety +82

    the love of God ..is the highest deepest most enduring and sublime romance!!...all else, are but 'approximation's!..

    • @puja6685
      @puja6685 Před 4 lety +1

      Nice lines.. N true indeed!!

    • @musicrelativity5791
      @musicrelativity5791 Před 4 lety +6

      My thoughts exactly. Only Divine love can truly satisfy the heart.

  • @aniahammoudi9569
    @aniahammoudi9569 Před 3 lety +5

    Love isn't being hijacked by hormones, heart break is very real and yes I will never let myself cross that line again

  • @sagarrai9245
    @sagarrai9245 Před rokem +1

    maybe this heals someone who got heartbroken

  • @yourbestteacherisyourlastm6847

    Answer is still pending behind many true facts spoken by Sadhguru Ji

  • @manishgusain6855
    @manishgusain6855 Před 4 lety +12

    Please upload the full session, sadhguru.

  • @neogbfe3587
    @neogbfe3587 Před 4 lety +6

    Love those, knowing it may not workout. Our love will expire or we may want a break. Though love takes no breaks and we must understand nothing is forever. We enjoy our time in someones life, accept the time given, build memories and move on. Worst things we can do is stay with those who no longer love us or think of us as an OBLIGATION.

  • @vibhutisahu5376
    @vibhutisahu5376 Před rokem +2

    I learnt many things and still moving on with this phase but the standard and most important thing that I learnt is that in your life never ever give anyone the key to your happiness be the own boss of it without any guilty😊

  • @gokulsmbalic
    @gokulsmbalic Před 3 lety +1

    Start loving urself is the best way !

  • @jeromeeppinger1976
    @jeromeeppinger1976 Před rokem +9

    I will never allow myself to fall in love again! Loving someone is very difficult and it always seems like that the moment I start to care for them they stop loving me. Never fails!!!😢

  • @Nikks-hf2jm
    @Nikks-hf2jm Před 4 lety +4

    If it has happened and you didn't decide it, try to open bout it, set your emotions free, i know its not easy but give your everything and then forget about it, if another person doesn't feel the same whatever is the reason stop there. That's it, don't ruin your time and emotions on that. We have to keep moving, you'll find someone else not him/her again but you can't control other's emotions so do that on yourself. I don't know what I'm saying but currently I'm in the situation so whatever coming straight I'm writing. Trust me you'll be alright.

  • @rajeevrawat304
    @rajeevrawat304 Před 2 lety +1

    Make your heart big and give that person a small corner. Cherish your memories..Memories are not shackles..Whatever we resist, always persist.

  • @namisha_002
    @namisha_002 Před rokem

    We may not love the person afterwards but the memories are the ones which make us cry