Committed But Still Attracted to Someone Else?
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- čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
- While answering a question about sexual attraction and love, Sadhguru delves into Runanubandha and the importance of maintaining the integrity of one’s body.
To watch this video in Tamil - • பல பேருடன் உறவு கொண்டா...
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"There will be pleasure, but there would be no joy in your life.. because you are not at ease." "This is not a question about morality, this is a question about your priorities in life."
Beautiful summary 💕
U havent done and dont try to be veterane
He seems to be talking about getting addicted rather than the act itself.
Right. It's the difference between acting on compulsion or making a willing choice.
@@buddybaldur768 yes
Listen to him.. you can read comments later 😁
😂😂
😂
😅😁👍🏼
Wow brilliant
You are every where 🤦
I'm an admirer of Sadhguru and I like the way he answers every question but sometimes it so happens that while listening to his long explanations I actually forget what the question was about😂😂
Yes, it happens to me too 😂
@@claudiavega8337 😂😂
Because the question isn't needed anymore but the wisdom to imbibe
Really...
😄😂😂😂🤣🤣 one never forgets the words of wisdom
Crazy how most culture in the world has lost this meaning of integrity.
@TAP it! You create the meaning for it, not other people and remember that no one who truly want's happiness for others, will judge you, so don't give power to the close minded people. If you think it's a great thing, then it is a great thing!
TAP it! Yup! we can become a great wizard after saving our virginity for forty yrs ;)
Man, that’s so true. I make a conscious effort to practice Integrity everyday, even if I fall short sometimes. Any time my ego gets the best of me, I will humble myself, acknowledge my behavior and apologize, with the intentions of never repeating that mistake.
@@jonathancarpenter5621 Why does the West make it sound like such a bad thing?
@@amazingrace81
Same, not ashamed
People always eager to eat wisdom but never have the time to digest it
The best thing about Sadhguru is that anyone can ask him absolutely anything. He’s an open book. I can’t imagine anyone asking spiritual masters something like this just 10 years ago. Not that all of them are harsh or anything.
@@rajitchaulagain697 his answers are as an empty coconut shell, look pretty, but does not change anything, (you still thirsty )One of the best showman. ..
Argos Ron you need brains to understand Sadhguru! It’s not your cup of tea it seems!
@@argosron9838 He dosnt answers the question he answers the questioner.😏
Argos Ron you’re talking about the thirst of logic, not the existential thirst of life. That’s where you are wrong.
Anyway my friend, unless you experience anything beyond your mind and body you won’t get it.
When I was doing upa yoga with lots of enthusiasm for 2 months around 3 years back I discovered what spiritual experience is.
And he’s not a showman because if you observe in almost every answer he’s trying to lure you to find your own existential nature which can be done best with yoga. So he has a solution to the existential quest but morons want him to satisy their logic. Unfortunate 🤷🏽
@@AakashTavandikar trueee
I hope you've done inner engineering...
Our body is made of energy. He meant to say that if you keep sharing your energy, there comes a time this energy is going to be no more within you. Choice is yours.
No thanks.
Just like my friend doing studies for banking and public service too.. No wonder she isnt selected from 6 -7 years 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Its about the impact due to the interaction of these energies.
Sharing is a function of love, being with a person without love, the energy only flows out, but when there is love , this energy returns. Loving many person and sharing your body with them , wont deplete your energy, in reality it is when your energy will grow.
E = mc²
If you are committed just be with him/her. That's it. Maintain the memory integrity of your body.
hello
@@Syed_12 go marry multiple wives. youll reach jannat
mostly whoever do this ends up alone..
I dont believe just because a couple wants to experience other pleasures it means they have less integrity
@@charleslukewood8431 try it
In starting u feel like what is being said is not relevant to the question but towards end u realise how beautifully the question has been answerd
hmm
And he concluded with there sentences "This is not a question of morality, it is not that this is sin that is sin the question is what is your priority in your life?
If ur priority is to make this life rise to a higher possibility then u must be a conscious. If u want to somehow live and go."
Agree totally. Amazing!
Always ....
Hahaha he does that always 😂
He always has so much more to share than just what people ask about. Always extra food for thought.
Always ♥️
Yeah because we are always so much hungry and he knows that very well
Yet he explains them soo simply and beautifully
Yes but intention to understand profoundly
Ya, Sometimes he don’t even answer what was asked
❤️ Relationship with parents gets reflected in relationship with life partner. Found some more insights in this video.
Yes this is exactly true because it’s a trickle down effect!!!! It follows you into the next chapter of your life!!!
This is so true. Just came out of an experience like this, but never thought of it this way.
Absolutely true
Not really your vision is traditional the reality is express yourself
Many years ago my dad said the same thing
the more amount of sexual experiences you have with different partners the more amount of confusion and personality traits will keep on becoming part you without knowing , choice is yours bodily pleasures or a calm clear mind.
This is true! I’ve been celibate for 4 years and I’ve never had more clarity and focus in my life. I’m steal healing!
SUSTAINED MY FRIEND!
It's amazing how he says "Hello" in all of his interactions and the listeners nod. Probably to get listeners back from trance.
I think his "hello" refers to: Are you understanding me, ars you you me,, do you agree with what I am saying? I could be wrong if course, but I have seeing other people do this to make sure that the other person is understanding.
It is the truth - the people who are physically involved with multiple partners, within themselves they are ill at ease everytime.
Just look at weasten countries , what's the percentage of phycological problem & divorce in weasten countries.
There will be pleasures. But No Joy in life.
Yes
Those who chase happiness are unhappy. The more they chase the unhappier it leaves them.
As the Tao Te Ching put it, "One who is content is rich"
This is literally just not true and I would advise you to swiftly shut up about things you know nothing about. You are insulting very sacred cultures across time. Watch yourself.
"You slowly become the person you sleep with"
Simple as that, too many partners leads to too many traits flowing from them to you and vice versa. That's what he meant when he said ease will go from one's life with too many memories.
Precisely true
Soo true
That's why I only sleep with high quality women
@@arvinawotar2357 You will be a high quality woman one day
@@mayankmathur3257 😂🤣
Nobody talks about bodly memory, of course except sadhguru, it is amazing
hello
Shewtabh Gangwar also explained the same thing!
@@sameepkadu4214 Mensutra Army😎😎😎
takit easy myFriend ! there always have been wise Teachers & great Masters
Check the facts firstly , then meditate .. . (and maybee then write a comment ;)
@@sameepkadu4214 what is the name of that video where he described that ?
Answered all my questions and placed peace in my mind, because in the Western culture body contact, embracing , hugging, kissing is considered good for the physiological state of a person even among friends or so.... and if one chooses to be apart from socializing and living alone without companion, feels in conflict by the society that compels him otherwise
It is first time I hear that is better to guard one’s energy and not get physically contacted a lot. It deliberates me 🙏😁💕💕💕
Love you Sadhguru 🌺🌺🌺
The existence of the Corona virus will inevitably help in achieving that.
@@anundbabajee1369 😂😂
I have heard u guys have problems even with smiling or laughing. ----- i read a 'quora' question : do Russians smile back if u smile at them - wtfuck is that bro, huh? 😂😂 . And i have also seen, u guys don't ever react with '😂' in comments in foreigner meme pages. Go In indian meme pages - u will only find : '😂', '😂😂😂' , 😂😂😂🤣🤣' etc. Nowadays it has begun to change though.
Such a beautiful message. So true. The choice is yours and the consequences too.
Well taken!
I think if there is only attachment you will get attracted to someone but if you truly love someone your soul will never get distracted because it's not mere attachment but love...the way we get attracted to new toy in childhood but there is some toy which we love and even if it get destroyed we still love it in that condition and keep it and it has special place in our heart and love it in any condition..So if you truly love someone it's very easy to be loyal and faithful effortlessly but if you have attachment you will easily get distracted
I like the way laughs in between of the conversation. Shows how simple is life and how we complicate it.
Thank you for the reminder to hug my 1st grader more. I forgot that even though he’s becoming more independent and wipes off my kisses, he still needs affection, even when he acts like he doesn’t want it. I needed that. Thanks
Amen sister! Namaste💗
I got my answer.
I always felt like no one should touch me easily,, people said I am conservative,,, strict but now I really know why I used to act and think like that...no one can touch me easily 🙂
Yes, never let anyone just be physically attracted to you. Only mentally and spiritually.
I also don't like someone touch me except a person to whom i love bt i never touched her because she is far. Still waiting to get her touch
@@unbiasedindian2883 you getting it wrong just never act on that thought if it is only for physical pleasure 🙏
I was never touched as a child. It hasn’t made me want more touch yet uncomfortable with touch. Not everyone’s stories are the same.
You are correct, the physical memories of intimacy you have in you cud be minimal you can say . so your intellect doesnt identify it as a need. Like untill u dont try something how wud u recognise that as a to do or not to do.. So ultimately these are all memories that we identify as need being showered to us over a time. it us who has to consciously choose what memory we are going to integrate to this system. 😊 🙏
"I'm sorry if i discouraged"... the last punchline... 🤣😂
Pranaam Sadhguru...🙏🙏🙏
😂😂😂 Yes! Absolutely!
this is the answer
😂😂😂he is the best
😂😂😂
Confirmation of what I have been saying for a very long time. Unfortunately where I'm from I am considered weird or odd. I love to hear The Guru speak truth/wisdom. Great start to my day! Be well all 😁
@Allie X 😂😂😂😂 yeah something like multiple orgy
Same.. Even some ppl feel we r narrow minded or weird.. Sometimes i feel if they come to live better life or just trying to be modern nd others as narrow minded
Like wise, we're all in this moment, together, be blessed kind souls 😁
Same, sis!
One thing I know is if you truely are in love with someone, you will choose to stay with that person in love and you will find no one else attractive than the person you love. Also, I believe celibacy is really one of ways to get to know if you truely love someone and if you're loved. However, sticking to one partner shows you love your life and that you respect your future.
SO PROFOUNDLY AND POWERFULLY SAID! THANKS FOR SHARING THIS THOUGHT PROCESS MY FRIEND!
SUSTAINED MY FRIEND!
@@lurettagarner9670 It's my pleasure.
Concept of runanubandha is imp. And should be taught to everyone
And what's this concept abt pls
For the purpose of non Indians
Thank you
To think that freely giving out hugs is a unconscious response to not having given enough attention in childhood - Absolutely mind blowing. I wonder where you can learn such secrets of human behavior.
What I understand he said "Integrity" means Wholeness in us. When we become whole within us, the love we love around people becomes whole and no need to use love to fill up, your message is so wise enough to understand
it is all about integrity...
- know separation, know joy
- no separation, no joy, short-lived pleasure may be :)
Very nicely comprehended!..🙌
So well put
Yoga means union, union is joy
👏👏well sorted
Hope a person who believe in second line dont ruin A person who believe in first line ..
Someone can stay committed to a loved one when they are sexually attracted to another by realizing first that being sexually attracted to another is normal and a way of life. However, this is not to confuse that it is ok to dwell upon as it will feed the desire that is desired. Conflict then will arise within that person, isn't love more powerful than anything? Yes and no, love can not take away your natural way of life, it can only help you to do what is right instead of doing what feels good. So, love has nothing to do with desire, love gives and desire takes. It's ok to do either, but not at the expense of the other or at the expense of anyone. So, realize what's right and wrong for oneself instead of making rationalizations. Be willing to experience how you feel, but follow what is right to what supports morality, value, and meaning, and let your guide be to do what is right instead of how it will make you feel; otherwise you will loose yourself to being whatever you want instead of being a way that makes you important.
that's an absolutely correct. we think about what is right instead of how it will make you feel.
Excellent sir
Unbelievable wisdom!!!!! Thank you so much
So underrated comment, very well said👏👏👏
You're not wrong i just wish I could get over feeling undesirable cuz my body isn't what my partner finds appealing.
The worst thing is to be in a relationship with someone whom you do not desire as much
*Like a prison*
yes i was going to comment the same, i see this guy everywhere.
@MR Now no you should not force yourself to desire someone. It must come natural. It is the only way
Hahaha...you again. Good to to see you friend. I hope your work is goin fine
Get out now! Lol
O'SSÉIN you’re just here to seek applause and praise you preach your words but you just seek self glorification..✨✨🌺🌸🍄🌞🍄🌸🌺✨✨
The essence of life is to maintain of substance of character 😇 If U truly love someone definitely U wont get attracted to someone else 😊
Vry true
True 🙏💅
It's true
100% right
What? Are we looking at a different videos? Atleast from the perspective as an audience as anonymity, see the agreement that choices are choices, if people are interested in getting to know me just say high or be straight up, cryptic doesn't fair well in real engagements,for some all it takes is starting the conversation, for real, I'm sick of always feeling u authentic or misread...geuss it's my fault. For real though. 😉Don't judge a book by their cover, assuming sets us up for "preemptive" mess ups, if something doesn't sound right call people out on it (if you care) most don't until I'm off to my own adventures 🙏😕😉
Isn't it interesting how in many classrooms, there is assigned seating but then people want to naturally sit somewhere else? Then there are others who are so adamant about their seat, they write their name under the seat of the chair? As a child, I was always fascinated to see different children's names on a chair or table who have sat there throughout the years as if they owned it.
🤣🤣🤣
Right. i seen it as a way of them leaving their mark in the world. 😂🙄😩
I think it's cool. Doesn't last forever, Eventually things get replaced or the school is so old it's abandoned or repurposed.
I used to love seeing names on desks and chairs! It was expressive and likely therapeutic too! Now, its VANDALISM!🤣
@@invisiblewoman9684 They also left the legacy of their gum. 😂
He explains everything so nicely. Any person from any background can relate to him. 🙏
At young age we feel thats all bullshit , but with time and age one realises and reflects upon what he really means !!
Sadhguru is just awesome ! !!
SUSTAINED!
When you are in need of wise words, encouraging thoughts, clear mind and heartfelt comfort.....he's the one....I love BK Shivani also...... It's amazing how these ppl practice what they preach..... Many Blessings!
He changed everything in life made me realized who i truely am
How beautifully you've answered this. With touching every aspect of it....
I would love to just sit by this man a listen to him speak about everything..very wise..
He explains everything from its root so no question left n we get complete answer.. Well explained how this cycle works n this starts since childhood 🙌🙌
Never could have thought there are logical answers for such questions. And moreover, this answers are embedded in our culture and practices..An inch of an inch of our practices are based on science. Just that West and westerns of Bharat haven't been able to prove so, that they keep maligning our practices and think they are 'cool'.
I aspire to gain knowledge, wisdom and understanding of our practices, culture, traditions and so all such related things, just like Sadhguru did and does. Thank you Sadhguru. You instill sense of understanding within me (I cannot describe it in better words). 'Intellect' is not the only eye. If at all it is in singularity, it is sharpest knife, which we often don't need but we keep it applying.
Kudos to girl for asking this question. Kudos to the audience.
true bro
U know Einstein is quoted as saying as far as his most valuable gifts, a tributes creativity not IQ...
SUSTAINED MY FRIEND!
He always provide a wise prospection .
A proud Hamalyian soul.
Thank You... A lot of logic and reasoning..!! HELPFUL STUFF.
Five minutes of listening to Sadhguru can change your entire life.
I think no
YES INDEEDY! I LOVE IT!
Namaste, the young lady who asked the question, is so beautiful. I love her question. Life, karma is so complicated. Bless you all with emotional strength and divine guidance. Love you all. Stay safe. Om Shanti
Love the the way sadguru interpreted the importance of physical contact.
Love from Nepal ❤
What an insightful process on to our body journey ... Only sadguru can channelize this to our consciousness with such integrity...
Agreed...Conscious Decision Vs Compulsive Decision😇🙏Beautifully explained Sadhguru🙏🌺
Sadhguru is a very wise person, and really love how he is connected with his own culture 💙
Sadhguru is blessing in my life🙏He is our real Guru (teacher). Schools teaches us only Mitchochondria is power house of the cell.
This is by far a much better answer than I could’ve ever anticipated after seeing the caption, never in a million years I’d of come to that conclusion on my own🙏🏻
If you are committed to the person whom you truly love, you would be so content that you can hardly get attracted to someone else. Because being honest and loyal to the love of your life is so blissful pleasing .
Relationships , breakups everything on one side. Being in love with someone (getting the same reciprocated) is same as mindfulness.
Make sure you actually love someone and recieve the same energy back from them before you declare yourself committed.
m a Christian but I love Sir Sadhuguru's mindset 💖💖
Knowledge is universal, has nothing to do with church domination
I am Christian too but I love watching his videos. Lots of wisdom.
Needed this🙏🏻 thanku so much for that
So so wise. The explanation includes psychological, science, philosophy and spirituality. A true profound guru.
Holy smokes this is in another level kind of deep. So to maintain your commitment the body must stay connected to keep its memory therefore you are Not vulnerable to other things.
Always truth is mingled with power and some learning. Thank you guruji. Your words are heavy power and best learning. 🙏
😍Sadguru's answer is beyond the question........ Thankful for realised us the sensitive things and thoughts......It is great to be Indian with several tradition for easy life
Simply speechless on how much sense & wisdom when he says "Biological Integrity"..wouldn't even have ever understood the importance of the 'why' behind it, if it was not for Sadhguru. Really.. thank u🙏💖
Sadguru is an epitome of wisdom.... He is the destination to many questions which crop up in our minds.... He answers them soooo wisely.... Amazing.... Loved it...
SUSTAINED SISTER!
If you're so called committed but attracted to someone else, unless you are also attracted to who you're already with you will never be happy no matter what you do and so it is best to leave.
Sadguru makes me smile everytime I watch video
Will power, Intuition and Living in Truth🙏🏻
For one question, u have given us a lesson. Yes, u have influenced me, sadhguru! Priority makes lives better. There is no such great sin in life when a person finds joy in fulfilling his/her priorities. There is no life if one lives to satisfy others. Excellent discussion.
Wow,He explains so nicely and smoothly.
One of the few wisest man living on the earth
Every youth of the world MUST watch this and such other videos of Sadguru 🙏🏼🕉🙏🏼
Wisdom & spirituality so simplified.
I loved listening to your answer Guruji. Hillarious presentation with a serious depth.
I believe This lines from sadguru changes to a whole new level of parenting and bringing up their childs ✌👌
I love Sadhghuru teachings..Thank you sir for the great knowledge and teachings
Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪 🇰🇪🇰🇪
I have to say that from all the videos I’ve seen from him this one was one of the best. It was so specific into somthing that people barely mention in life and the same time somthing extremely important❤️
Really enlightening....for pepole who are feeling its ok to keep changing partners.
His knowledge and understanding of every aspect is so profound and today I got my answers of my questions.
Wow that is eye opener,why relationship many times fails
this speech is amazing, i loved the part about memories
I totally understand and agree.. You are a gift from the heavens 🙏
I just love the way Sadhguru says hello 👋 love it.
I loved how he used the analogy of motherboard with integrity.
What a wonderful explanation 👍🏻👍🏻
Sadhguru have enough wisdom for anyone to last a lifetime!!!! I love it!!!:))
Much gratitude I Guruji🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😘🕉🕉🕉🕉🕉🕉🕉🕉🕉🕉🕉🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
"If you want to somehow live and go it is ok" Otherwise be conscious ❤
Wow, right up till the end, pure awesomeness
Beautifully explained....namaste sadhguru🙏
'IF YOU WANT A PARTNER, CHOOSE CONSCIOUSLY' !!
An individual has various needs i)psychological, ii)emotional iii)physical, iv)social v) financial vi)other
If you look at them carefully there is a scope for to fulfil all these needs except physical needs without changing a person !!
So when you have to choose you must follow your dreams, this is how u can maintain
enormous integrity both mentaly n physically !!
Never seek for all the things in 1person there r no perfect ppl in the world.
If you find someone you r lucky🙏
Pleasure n peace guarantee..
Joy has scope ! It is in ur hands !!
I think Sadhguru has answered it well... And if you still feel confused. Please rewatch it. But please don't contaminate what one can learn. Every individual is different and he/she can imbibe what's needed. Thank you and Namaskaram
When you love someone is unconditional..no expectations...just feel happy to be around that person.If they don't correspond you ,your love for that person shouldn't change....right?you say follow YOUR dreams? so a person is a Basel that you enter to satisfy your dreams? sound egocentric.not loving..
I really dnt think you ppl understod what i'm saying 😀
@@ajaygautam4076 watch other videos 🙏
Sadhguru, I'm the kind of person who used to question the traditions which I used to see been followed. But after coming across your videos and inner engineering course, I realised our ancestors introduced those rituals, beliefs and traditions because there are scientific reasons behind it beneficial for us.
Thank you so much. Love from Pune❤
There is nothing wrong in questioning...when you question u get to know the reason behind
Amazing and directed in precision explanation for the question!
Fascinating answer, and avoiding moral rigidity and shame, guilt, social disgrace.
Genius squared times a million! 👏🏼👏🏼
How lucky we had Sadhguru in our Northeast! I wish I had been been there. 🙏🏿
Excellent Explanation by Sadhguru.
Such a splendid explanation Sir. Thank you.
I’ve learnt quite a new thing today. The ‘Runanubandh’ 😁🙏🏻
Wonderful explanation only sadhguru can do this 👏🙏
Amazing knowledge and explanation. I bow to you in obeisance 🙏
The only man I have ever seen!
What ever may be question he will answer it infact he will not just answer our questions he will just prove it by realising it ourself....
He's a dwan of konwladge
No bias no confusion he is such a man with infinite set of solutions with abandoned knowledge!
*What a golden word he has...he has a knowledge full of tank*
cant help it dude..hahahaha..please dont mind could help.."knowledge full of tank"
Lol
Yes and his followers also have knowledge full of tank as well
@@iAMJaws u also seems his hardcore follower 😀😀👍
@@iAMJaws like you...you also are his follower that is why why you saw his video 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Meditate and exercise daily, live your passions, love your friends and family, be kind to others. Do better every day.
SUSTAINED!!
He absolutely right he puts it in a very intelligent Way.This man is wise his words are wise and if you listen you will become wise!!
This is a special advice from you..thank you so much...🙏🏻