AU PAIR Q&A | homesickness, bonding with the host kids, how much do au pairs make

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  • čas přidán 8. 07. 2024
  • ✩ Topic Timestamps ✩
    2:08 What is an Au Pair?
    4:29 How did I save money to go abroad
    4:57 How much do Au Pairs make?
    7:53 How did I take the initiative to move?
    8:39 Tips for learning a new language
    11:11 Dealing with homesickness
    12:29 My most embarrassing au pair story
    14:36 Tips for bonding with the host kids
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    ✩ Intro music by Jack McCoy

Komentáře • 53

  • @chococat178
    @chococat178 Před 3 lety +7

    The embarrassing Au Pair story was hilarious, LOL! So glad that your host family was cool about it. I hope you do get to go back because I would LOVE to hear about your next adventures in France :)

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      LOL i’m so grateful for it as well😂 I 100% will be returning and I can’t wait to make more videos when I return!! thanks so much for watching 🤍

  • @alijanku5413
    @alijanku5413 Před 3 lety +1

    so helpful love this!!

  • @AmericanAupairHostMom
    @AmericanAupairHostMom Před 3 lety

    Good insights, being honest especially when your wrong is an awesome mature one!

  • @meamade
    @meamade Před rokem

    I am so in love with the rain on the background 🥰

  • @azulblu8463
    @azulblu8463 Před 3 lety +1

    I love you channel so much✨ I’m truly considering being an au pair in France, and your videos are really helping :)

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      ahhh this means so much thank you!!!❤️ i’m glad it’s helping. if you want advice on anything let me know and i’ll make a video!

  • @ashleyanne.p
    @ashleyanne.p Před 3 lety +1

    love this, love you!!!!

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      Ashley Anne thanks girl! love you too🥰🥰

  • @justanobody8470
    @justanobody8470 Před 2 lety

    its the intro editing for me , you go sis absolutely loving the content !! most def a new subieee

  • @ursulamaloka2548
    @ursulamaloka2548 Před 3 lety +2

    Would you mind doing a video interviewing with your potential host kids? Or tips on questions to ask?

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      Dimpho Maloka Sure! Ill try to make that in the next few weeks🤍

  • @besiahfahngon6113
    @besiahfahngon6113 Před 3 lety +1

    This was super informative! Sidetrack: what lipstick are you wearing?

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      Besiah Fahngon I’m wearing Paramount by Mac ☺️

  • @serenawhosings
    @serenawhosings Před 3 lety +4

    this is soooo helpful thank you SO much. i’m an au pair in the Netherlands right now about 40 mins from Amsterdam. i’ve been realizing it’s a pretty small (i don’t wanna say boring) country, struggling with the covid measures that don’t allow me to see other countries yet (i know you didn’t have to deal with too much of that but it’s still a struggle haha), and trying to figure out what my daily schedule should be since i’m not studying and i have all this free time during my days and weekends that i want to make the most of. any tips/suggestions on finding activities/places?

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety +2

      Hi! Sorry for the late response, I hope you're well. During this time, I find it especially imperative that we all find time to connect with nature. I would def get to any parks or gardens, if you're able. Im not sure how strict your lockdown is right now, but if you can go to any museums that would be great! I spent my time in lockdown reading a LOT, playing animal crossing, meditating, and studying french. I also took that time to journal a lot. Although i remained positive for the most part during those 2 months in the house, I wish that i didn't get so down about it. Its still an experience, and taking extra time for yourself is invaluable. Even when theres not much to go see or do, there is beauty in the basics :)

    • @_.dynamatee._
      @_.dynamatee._ Před 3 lety

      I wanted to go to Netherlands too, but dicided to go with Belgium.. Any say on that?

  • @polinashrayber7926
    @polinashrayber7926 Před 3 lety +1

    Well traveled queen

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      polina Shrayber 😀❤️

  • @Five-uy6xn
    @Five-uy6xn Před 3 lety

    whats the process?

  • @miriamalonso3959
    @miriamalonso3959 Před 3 lety +1

    You have a great adventurous spirit! Notice you took French lessons every weekday- how much were the lessons? As an older woman I’d like to finally learn French.

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety +1

      I went to a school where it was only €35 for the whole year! Thanks so much for watching! I recommend iTalki for online language lessons :)

  • @chandraa5976
    @chandraa5976 Před rokem

    I would like to au pair in Lille, France. Which all websites should I apply on?

  • @priyelicious
    @priyelicious Před 3 lety +1

    yes more au Pair stories please...also what is your level of French now?

  • @sarahe7221
    @sarahe7221 Před 2 lety

    I’m hoping to become an Au Pair after I graduate high school so I’ll be 18 this year. Can 18-year-olds do a lot in France? Would host parents trust/ allow 18-year-olds?

    • @annabaret1382
      @annabaret1382 Před rokem

      Hi ! I'm a french 17 years-old. In France majority is at 18, which means you can buy alcohol, drive alone, do anything without your parents' consent from the moment you turn that age. I was able to find a long-term babysitting job (with a legal contract) when I was 16. As long as you're able to show that you're a mature and responsible person who's able to take initiatives when needed, parents will trust you. So basically when you're 18 you can do anything an adult can do, and if you prove you're trust-worthy there should be no problem :)

  • @norahj6331
    @norahj6331 Před 2 lety

    Can u help me to come

  • @ackajessica7802
    @ackajessica7802 Před rokem

    How would you become an AU PAIR?

  • @aesthetic6121
    @aesthetic6121 Před 3 lety

    How can you stay to live there when your worktime with your family is end?

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      Arantza Sky you can find a new host family, to can au pair up to 2 years, become a student, or teach your native language abroad!

  • @jassyl.2211
    @jassyl.2211 Před 3 lety

    how did you discover this au pair job, did you go to school to become an au pair??

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      there are websites such as aupairworld or aupairbutrfly that can help you find au pair jobs :)

    • @jassyl.2211
      @jassyl.2211 Před 3 lety +1

      @@TylahAli oh ok thank you very much, off the topic i swear if kerry washington was to do another movie you can play like a younger kerry washington or you can play her teenage daughter

    • @nhlalirose
      @nhlalirose Před 2 lety

      @@jassyl.2211 You know.😁

  • @kleanandkier
    @kleanandkier Před 3 lety +2

    Is it difficult to get hired as an au pair in Paris?

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      Holistic Kier no! there are definitely more families out there than au pairs :) someone’s always looking

  • @africanandproud6792
    @africanandproud6792 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm from South Africa, let me also join your town. New subscriber here . Thanks for the awesome video. 🙏🏾

  • @alanabluepro101
    @alanabluepro101 Před 3 lety

    i wanna live in this community and grow plants together so bad

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      Amanda i am manifesting this community more and more each day❤️😭

  • @nairobitoombs3140
    @nairobitoombs3140 Před 3 lety

    what service did you use to find your family?

  • @AnaCatarina-k8q
    @AnaCatarina-k8q Před 5 hodinami

    which platform did you use to apply to the au pair program? i'm thinking about being an au pair in the US but there are so many websites... Do you think they are all trustworthy?

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 5 hodinami

      @@AnaCatarina-k8q I used au pair world

  • @MUSICSWIMLIFE
    @MUSICSWIMLIFE Před 3 lety +5

    ended fran drescher

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety

      this comment 😭😭😭

  • @Michira
    @Michira Před 3 lety +1

    is Tylah in college?

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety +4

      small big person no, i’m not right now! if i go back to school i want to go to university in france :)

    • @Michira
      @Michira Před 3 lety +1

      can't wait for more Paris videos😁😍

    • @TylahAli
      @TylahAli  Před 3 lety +3

      small big person so excited to make them!

  • @_.dynamatee._
    @_.dynamatee._ Před 3 lety

    I also want to be an au pair,, and convert my channel into au pair..