SHOULD YOU MOVE ABROAD? | Adjusting to life abroad, making friends
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- čas přidán 22. 07. 2024
- Chatting and answering a few questions on my experience moving to France. Advice to current and future Au Pairs and Expats on adjusting to life abroad, building a community in a foreign country, and whether or not you should do the same!
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Looool at “thinking about the husband I just made up”. This is so accurate, the confidence and just knee jerk “yep I’m married” is a mood
Natural bo Hahahaha it hassss to be done sometimes!!!😂😂😂
Hi gal I live in Senegal 🇸🇳 but I have a French fiancé the I have to come and base there
Cool cool cool- midway through I thought " This girl is so dope! I hope we cross paths when I'm living in Paris." By the END, I thought ' Right so, we about to be the best of friends." hahah That guy approaching you was freaking priceless and with noooooo hesitation, your reply when he asked if you were married??? So prime. You are a legend among us, frfr
supppsyl THIS MADE MY NIGHT! I HOPE WE CROSS PATHS AS WELL💗💗💗💗 you rock
Ahh! this video was great! Lowkey felt like you were speaking to me since I'm deciding if I should move to France in a few months lol
the answer is YES!
Move fam! That's so exciting!
Ah this video is so helpful. I’m literally moving to Barcelona with a host fam in a month!!
Raisa Baptiste Congratulations! Have fun. im glad i could help
Sis! We need your checklists!! I'm binge watching your videos and now I'm considering going as an au pair instead of as a student
omg!! gonna film another au pair advice vidéo next week. if you have any questions let me know and i will incorporate them!❤️❤️
@@TylahAli Please do!! Which visa did you apply for?
I feel like I would love to move to a new country, change my life, visit new places, new restaurants, new activities and things to do... BUT IM LEGIT SCARED to end up alone... not being able to make new friends and all that stuff its what's stopping me from doing it... oh and also the fact that im 15 lol and im still in high school but ive been thinking about moving abroad when I finish high School but like I said im scared of ending up alone... anyway cool video Tylah! I just discovered your channel like 20 minutes ago and it is AMAZING!! you're so funny and charismatic!
Camilo Franco the fact that you are 15 and are thinking about this is already so amazing. you will be fine :) i know it! it is such an amazing experience i wish i knew about at your age, it will change your life. you will never be alone. there are people to meet everywhere you go. and on the odd chance that you are alone, you will find peace in that. i always went places alone, got lunch at restaurants by myself etc. and i fell more in love with myself than i ever had before. no matter what happens you’ll come out a better person. one you didn’t know existed before and one you will never let go of again♥️
Tylah Ali oh wow... that actually helped me feel more chilled and relaxed about it... and i guess you’re right. There are people ready to meet me and I will learn lots about myself and I will love me more... thank you so so much Tylah, you really made me feel less stressed and anxious about the whole situation🙏🏻🙏🏻
Camilo Franco Just think that if you are going and starting new in a country, there are so many others who will be doing the same! you’ll meet people from all over. and so many who want to make new friends. you’ll never be alone :) i’m glad i can help 🥰
Tylah Ali yeah that’s true. Thanks you so much!!♥️♥️
I was also an au pair but I came from Brazil to USA . Loved your video !!!
I think I got used quick, the weather in Sn Diego helps a lot :D
I love this video
My favorite CZcamsr!!🤩🤩🤩
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new subsciber!! you literally inspire me so much, I want to move abroad to Europe one day!! while I'm learning french in college, I'll be living vicariously through you and your videos😂💛
renée _ thank you sooo much! if you have any video recommendations please let me know. thank you for subscribing it means so much!
Love your zest for life and yes people are people. =) I'd suggest that choosing your host family is most important, ask them everything! You will work and live with these people for a year or more.
American Aupair Host Mom Thank you :) and yes that would totally be the biggest tip from me too!☺️
I just found your channel and I'm already obsessed! I'm considering studying abroad in Paris (through my university) and becoming an Au Pair to cover housing expenses. I would love to see more Au Pair videos such as how to budget and how much money we can expect to earn❤️
Maria F. Meza I’m just seeing your comment but thanks for watching!! I’ll make this video this week and let you know when it’s up. ☺️
The issue is that I'm NOT scared. I would leave at the drop of a hat plus a boot tomorrow I just want to finish up school (I'm in community college) and scrape some money together so I can afford to live somewhere nice plus the hold visa process etc etc but yeah I'm down to going to France
I don't know why I forgot for a second that I can't leave the US until my contract with the Army is up 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
It's good to venture out to new places
Relax and Chill agreed!
hey girl you should do a q&a :) i would love to learn more about how you took the initiative to move abroad and start traveling like how did you save money to go abroad? im currently in college and really want to take a year off to reevaluate what i really want to pursue and i’d love to learn more about navigating that
xxcruiserlove26xx feel free to ask any more questions you have and i’ll answer them in my next video about it 💌
Tylah Ali heres a little list i made haha 😌 -how would you describe your au pair experience and would you recommend it to others?
-how did you budget and save enough money to live abroad and travel to other countries?
-do you have any plans to leave the united states again and would you ever move out indefinitely?
-what are some tips/tricks you would recommend to people learning a new language?
-what are some other countries you would love to visit?
-did you ever go to college/what did you study? If so, did you ever do study abroad?
-do you have any tips on dealing with home sickness?
-where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
xxcruiserlove26xx omg this is great!! I know a lot of other people have the same question so I’m going to film this this week! it should be up by Sunday night just make sure you turn on my post notifications so you see when I upload 🥰
God why don’t you have more videos 😭. You are literally goals 💖
ahhh thank you so much! more videos soon :)!
and if you ever have a video request leave a comment and i’ll get to it❤️❤️
@@TylahAli omg you actually replied! Honestly you have a really nice speaking style. This and the one about you being black in Paris was my fav. I’d love to hear more about the Paris lifestyle, what to do, what’s it like there , likes dislikes cost of living friends dating! It’s so interesting and it’s honestly you’re so motivating to make a rash decision and move to Europe haha 💖🙏🏿
I would literally binge any Paris vids you have! ( or any other travels)
Fullonflowers_ ahh thank you! my next video, will be out sometime next week (turn on post notifications!) and then i will totally consider your suggestions as well. means so much to me that you watch, cant wait to keep creating for you guys❤️❤️❤️
Hit me when you come back from France
I’m French and now lived in Miami Beach FL
I want to be an au pair but I have a 7 year old daughter with me so idk if that’s possible
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He was pretty respectful and Good looking. HMMMM. How soon can I move there. Lol
Justin phillip Not soon enough! Paris is a dream :) The men aren’t too bad either 😉
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Great video! Which camera do you use?
Dee hi! in this video i used a canon g7x - but a lot of times i film on my iphone 11 if it’s a vlog :)
@@TylahAli Thanks!
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Quel voulez-vous dire par "je me sens plus en sécurité ici qu'aux Etats Unis ?", c'est lié à votre couleur de peau ?
What do you mean by "I feel safer here than in the United States?", is it related to your skin color?
Oui, exactement!
Et vous craignez qui ou quoi ? Les gens, la police ? C'est étrange car nous avons en France des gens de couleur qui se plaignent de racisme et là un américaine qui se sent plus en sécurité que dans son pays.
Hello! What agency did you use?
Chloé Grace I didnt use an agency! I went through Au Pair World. But Au Pair Buttrfly is a good agency too
@@TylahAli Thank you!
I’m interested in being an Au pair this summer and I looked into your videos and saw that you choose Au pair world. I was wondering why you choose that company and how did you know if they were scamming you. I started using this website called “Global work and travel Au pairs” and my parents said it seemed like a scam so I cut contact. I don’t want to run into that again so I was wondering if you could help.
Thank you!
Chloé Grace I chose APW because I knew 2 personal friends who had became Au Pairs through that website. When it came to verifying my host family I honestly just trusted them since I facetimed the whole family before. I looked my host parents up on linkedin to make sure they were real people 😂. I met so many other people after moving to france that also went through APW so it’s definitely reputable. The families have to pay and the au pairs applying dont
@@TylahAli Thank you so much!! Do you get a referral credit, because I am going to check them out and would love to give you credit.
Chloé Grace Aw no I don’t but I do appreciate the fact that you asked! 😃 If you have any more questions let me know! Good luck :)
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