Exposing Malignant Narcissists and Sociopaths Blackmail Tactics

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  • čas přidán 25. 05. 2024
  • In today's video Jill goes into detail describing the Malignant Narcissists and Sociopaths most common blackmail and dark psychology tactics that they use on their targets. #malignantnarcissist #blackmail #sociopath #psychopath
    Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she has endured years of parental alienation, has repeatedly been targeted by narcissists throughout her life. She has an intimate understanding of all aspects of narcissistic abuse and Cptsd. She uses her experience and what she has learned to help educate others and bring awareness to narcissistic abuse. She is also a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach and works with clients all over the world heal from the trauma of narcissistic abuse, parental alienation and Complex Ptsd.
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Komentáře • 89

  • @barrydixon7944
    @barrydixon7944 Před měsícem +92

    Never believe they don't know what they're doing....they get off on your pain and confusion

    • @hasansarhan9296
      @hasansarhan9296 Před měsícem +3

      100%

    • @zaidarivas7152
      @zaidarivas7152 Před měsícem +4

      All narcissists just want to see you break. My ex was a narc. I did not break and left. Rumor has it he was devastated. Could care less.

  • @barrydixon7944
    @barrydixon7944 Před měsícem +46

    They cry out in pain as they strike you...

    • @Sweetpea-2023
      @Sweetpea-2023 Před měsícem +4

      Omg! That is the most brilliant statement about narcissistic people! Especially for coverts.

    • @karifoto
      @karifoto Před měsícem +2

      Well said!! Really sums it up succinctly

  • @dajanamuse
    @dajanamuse Před měsícem +30

    Law enforcement and the Department of Labor Trafficking did absolutely nothing to help me. So don't hold your breath

    • @ks0969
      @ks0969 Před měsícem +2

      Me either. I contacted several agencies, including Section 8, DSS, OPWDD( have a disabled person in my home). Two agencies took reports, did contact housing n were lied to

    • @dajanamuse
      @dajanamuse Před měsícem

      @@ks0969 I'm very sorry to hear that. I'm glad I had my ancestors and the Divine to help me get to safety. I had to witness protect myself... while they slandered the real reason why I ghosted everyone and everything. I was in major danger... and no one helped me at all. No friends... family nor business networks. It was a nightmare... and I'm STILL being stalked 😆

  • @HarmonySoldier-mg7sw
    @HarmonySoldier-mg7sw Před měsícem +34

    I’m in shock daily as I awaken.

  • @hasansarhan9296
    @hasansarhan9296 Před měsícem +21

    Those people are sadistic that’s why distance is most important thing dealing with those people

  • @bobtaylor170
    @bobtaylor170 Před měsícem +20

    You are so right: these people are demonic. I am so sick of hearing about the traumas these people have suffered in early life. Who hasn't suffered a trauma in early life? Yet, most of us have consciences.

  • @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
    @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht Před měsícem +12

    Theyve been monitoring me for years but im not scared of any of them and i will continue to stand up for myself and dont care whether they are cops or not.

  • @Coolingfin
    @Coolingfin Před měsícem +10

    I wasn't terrorized when I noticed my cat missing. I looked on Craigslist and the fool posted a picture of herself and my cat inside her mother's house. It pays to be able to ask LEOs for help.

  • @sunlightprism
    @sunlightprism Před měsícem +19

    I'm so sorry to hear what you've been though. I'm currently being gang-stalked and it's awful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and helping embolden humanity.

    • @miladydewinter8551
      @miladydewinter8551 Před měsícem +2

      Document everything
      The way you prove it is that you have no links to the stalkers - they do
      Why would unknown ppl stalk a random person
      That means incitement
      The person who incites with a smear campaign hides in the shadows puppeteering the marionettes.

    • @JackNance22
      @JackNance22 Před měsícem

      @@miladydewinter8551 100%

    • @indowGriffs420
      @indowGriffs420 Před měsícem +3

      Stay strong

    • @sunlightprism
      @sunlightprism Před měsícem

      @@miladydewinter8551 Will do, thanks.

    • @sunlightprism
      @sunlightprism Před měsícem +2

      @@indowGriffs420 Thanks, I have faith in God and I'm scared of no one.

  • @lourenciamiesner4570
    @lourenciamiesner4570 Před měsícem +11

    In a country where we can't trust the police, where do we go?

  • @Healinglove
    @Healinglove Před měsícem +7

    After the RAGE?????
    I was done. IT knew it.

  • @navydogsadventures3500
    @navydogsadventures3500 Před měsícem +9

    I feel on eggshells at all times anymore!

  • @fallon7616
    @fallon7616 Před měsícem +11

    I'm an Alienated Mom and it hurts.
    New Subscriber

  • @337BLOOMLEE
    @337BLOOMLEE Před měsícem +8

    If I shared my experiences... it make 1 puke if they would/could even believe it. Sadly the gov, cps, law, legal were all apart of then & now.

  • @luv2fly745
    @luv2fly745 Před měsícem +8

    Jill, you should've told your future ex husband and his parents," I'm actually getting OUT of Hell by getting a divorce!"

  • @inaina4535
    @inaina4535 Před měsícem +9

    I feel so tired and can't get any energy!
    I never asked them to stop. I got a psychosis and took my life, but survived. And after that I just got more and more tired.

  • @AlmightyAmateurs
    @AlmightyAmateurs Před měsícem +19

    🎯 thank you for another great video! I lived through most of these things. It was absolutely terrible and terrifying. I watched the dog get strangled to death right before I had something very important to do. That's when I realized this person was a monster.

  • @winifredokolo1861
    @winifredokolo1861 Před měsícem +3

    Putting their fist in your face, threatening you .Yelling, controlling, they want to destroy you and get off of it

  • @HarmonySoldier-mg7sw
    @HarmonySoldier-mg7sw Před měsícem +10

    I identify with all these. My big brother had his gang play football with my 6 week old kitten and left for me to find when I got home
    That began the transformation of Frankenstein’s monster
    A few years later my mum said she knew my brother was the instigator of everything he destroyed me with. SHE KNEW.
    Gosh. I got a narcissistic trauma recovery therapist few weeks ago and the frozen block of ice has begun to defrost
    The feelings are demonic sardonic and pure evil.
    Scared

    • @sandradamen-fw4zy
      @sandradamen-fw4zy Před měsícem +1

      I understand you are scared, but go on! It will not be easy, but it is doable. And it is all worth. ❤💫

  • @michellehumphreys
    @michellehumphreys Před měsícem +15

    This explains alot!!! Im saving this video!!!
    Suddenly, things that never made sense...DO!
    Major light bulb moment!
    Thank you 💗 I needed this!

  • @kloassie
    @kloassie Před měsícem +8

    Great thumbnail for this topic 👍

  • @williampicton7072
    @williampicton7072 Před měsícem +4

    I'm happy that my ex narc remarried!!

  • @ks0969
    @ks0969 Před měsícem +3

    Ah ha.. ty... NPD has been going on about losing her voucher, having her sanity compromised.. has been trying to threaten and sabotage recertifications, claim i " have to be driven crazy".. everything you talked about. Told her " i don t sell out, see ya." Power control and ownership

  • @CharysseSepiaBlackman11
    @CharysseSepiaBlackman11 Před měsícem +6

    Thanku for doing this video. This Diddy situation is triggering on so many levels.

  • @fireupyourheartfortruth
    @fireupyourheartfortruth Před měsícem +4

    Thank you for this teaching. So disturbing this type of black mail styles.

  • @AllNicTaken
    @AllNicTaken Před měsícem +2

    When people threaten to expose your past, to bend unto their will or blackmail u, remember this : every saint has a pass, every sinner has a future.
    If u truly have repented, apologized, made reparation & moved on, why live in fear of their threats ?
    Before they expose u, make your past & your repentance & apology & any reparation with victim public. Own up & make good.
    Then hold your head high & set your face like flint with godly confidence & continue to live a righteous life.
    Don’t bend to the wicked in fear of your past. Pray & God will help u thru

  • @101iswhatsup
    @101iswhatsup Před měsícem +2

    I just feel for everyone that "feels". The way some people strip life from others. Sheesh

  • @Kim-nl1ql
    @Kim-nl1ql Před měsícem +6

    He did this LONG BEFORE I knew what was going on, setting me up, controlling me, remotely controlling the house, my phone, my everything! Yes, surveillance, watching me suffer his delivered hate actions & enjoying it! What he’s done to me, along with his evil helpers, are unbelievable & that in which most do not believe! I do not have enough life left to tell my nightmare & all it’s entailed! Never did I know the hate that I feel for him could ever exist! Nor did I ever know that a monster from hell, that he is, could ever exist! He’s taught me evil, he’s taught me everything I never wanted to learn. Only those who have lived this horrible abuse believe what he’s done. And, my daughter & her boyfriend, meth addicts, joined him to destroy me, my house, vehicle, steal, called the cops, lied accusing me of abuse, getting me arrested & put in jail! Never, ever, have I abused ANYONE! MY GOD, all I want is to be free of his insanity! After the years of fighting, suffering……I do not care how I’m set free, as long as I am free!

    • @RB-pf6dz
      @RB-pf6dz Před měsícem +1

      I understand yr pain.😢

    • @joduncan8235
      @joduncan8235 Před měsícem

      I have experienced all what you are talking about. My ex husband just got married for the third time. Just waiting for the bad news.

    • @joduncan8235
      @joduncan8235 Před měsícem

      Totally understand.

    • @Kim-nl1ql
      @Kim-nl1ql Před měsícem +1

      I hope that you are at least free.

    • @joduncan8235
      @joduncan8235 Před měsícem

      @@Kim-nl1ql yes i am free but he has started doing it to his new wife.

  • @xtianrondow3881
    @xtianrondow3881 Před měsícem +11


    Thank you Jill

  • @dazpearce2096
    @dazpearce2096 Před měsícem +1

    great job Jill - most of these people are barely human. Some aren't at all.
    I'll add - they'll create an adversity for you that they can then swoop in and 'rescue' you from, have been on the end of that one...

  • @Maria_Nicola_Ward
    @Maria_Nicola_Ward Před 25 dny

    Honestly, doll, you are really really describing my worst experiences in true detail. And I am so grateful that I found your channel. Its helping me so much

  • @friendoftheocean
    @friendoftheocean Před měsícem +1

    My ex wife literally did everything you described like a fingerprint! I’m betting I’m not the only one who feels that way…this seems to be a pattern. In my case I ended up with full custody and the judge slapped her with a restraining order but my heart goes out to those who have to co-parent with these monsters. Mine was a happy ending resulting with a well rounded, happy daughter who’s flourishing… but to those still in the fight hang in there! Your kids need you ❤

  • @zaidarivas7152
    @zaidarivas7152 Před měsícem

    I haven’t run into a malignant narcissist yet. Maybe I have but I stay away from evil. The minute I sense evil, I run.

  • @RobertAyers-er3qp
    @RobertAyers-er3qp Před měsícem +3

    Very well articulated.

  • @christinecronk9234
    @christinecronk9234 Před měsícem +4

    Going thru it with a sibling now❤

  • @lancedresden6509
    @lancedresden6509 Před měsícem

    What's shocking to me was just how many of these tactics were used on me by my ex wife - a beast of a narcissist. Thankfully, I divorced her and have gone no contact since. It was absolute insanity run amuk! I waited to even think about dating / relationship-building for a few years. Then, I met a wonderful woman. Married her. We make a great team! 15+ years of blissful marriage since. So, yes... Things can get better after being subject to narcissistic abuse. ... And for me, have indeed become much much better.

  • @StaciSchubert
    @StaciSchubert Před měsícem +1

    Hi Jill. I am wondering when you will be doing a live or group chat for members? I just joined as a member. Is there a member perk page that i can read? I didn’t see anything on the site or I can’t find it. Thank you again for your important explanations and exposure to these personality disorders. Your insight is helping so much. Knowing there are others out there with the same circumstances makes me feel supported.

  • @ReaganRosee
    @ReaganRosee Před měsícem

    Blackmail is the weakest! Narcs are weak! Stay strong!

  • @Mrsvragica666
    @Mrsvragica666 Před měsícem +5

    That was spot on. Thank you.
    The person who seconds ago you trusted hits you with your most vulnerable confidential information is nefarious. Believe them every word; they will devour you if you dare expose them. You did not know the darkness before this person.
    I remember watching a video from Dr. Ross Rosenberg on the dangers of calling out a covert narcissist/sociopath behind closed doors. And I am grateful to all who educate us on this topic. Confronting these individuals is the most unsettling experience one could imagine.

  • @ft7504
    @ft7504 Před měsícem +1

    Very well put together

  • @meloneymoore8856
    @meloneymoore8856 Před měsícem +2

    These are absolute FACTS!!!!!💡💡💡-Xclusyph Icon

  • @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
    @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht Před měsícem +3

    Sure they have something on me but i also have a whole bunch on them.

  • @brigitelazarica9673
    @brigitelazarica9673 Před měsícem +4

    All my life my father 😢 47 years... MOM died 4 months ago 😢 nobody belive me... everyone think je is nice man and mom and me are monsters... mo mama to just hug me all alone ... think all time of suicide 😢

    • @maggiesalle2256
      @maggiesalle2256 Před měsícem +4

      Both of my parents are diagnosed narcissists too. Please don't end it! I left narcissistic abuse too. You can leave! Keep going and plan your way out.

    • @NaomiRWestGarvin
      @NaomiRWestGarvin Před měsícem

      God cares about you, psalms 83:18, calling his name, he will hear you.

    • @user-pi5nn1rs8y
      @user-pi5nn1rs8y Před měsícem

      Please think that the most important person in your life is YOU

  • @Neter328
    @Neter328 Před měsícem

    What a great video ❤thank you for this

  • @amyteurlife9408
    @amyteurlife9408 Před měsícem

    Jill so sorry for you. I had coaching with you and really was helped by it I have not talked with my family in a while now my mother reached out to me telling me my granddaughter was near death or could lose her vision due to a sinus infection that went into her brain after that I reached out to my son and I got ignored and my mother never told me anymore. I was checking the obituaries every day to see if my granddaughter was in there. That was several months ago and I've not heard a thing

  • @bis4bs172
    @bis4bs172 Před měsícem +2

    I love you

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 Před 21 dnem

    They best response is your crazy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂lol

  • @jessmason2112
    @jessmason2112 Před měsícem +3

    ❤ 💯🎯

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 Před 21 dnem

    Sold my home 35 years hell no remove yourself this is your movie 🎥 your the director ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤run

  • @bubblerings
    @bubblerings Před měsícem

    Pee Diddy just films you doing things on drugs at his parties.

  • @Soul-On-Fire-4-Truth
    @Soul-On-Fire-4-Truth Před měsícem +3

    Pit bull attacked me in my yard on the Narcissist birthday

  • @thebestgame9151
    @thebestgame9151 Před měsícem

    Why Do I Miss My Narcissist EX
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