The Narcissist's Secret Weapon Exposed
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- čas přidán 29. 06. 2024
- In today's video Jill explains the biggest tool that all Narcissists use in order to gain power and control over the lives of others. #narcissisticabuserecoverycoaching #malignantnarcissist #npd #financialabuse #coercivecontrol #gaslighting
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A Covert Narcissist will steal your wallet and than help you look for it!
Excellent statement! Accurate!
😂 yes they do.
It actually happened to me !
Yes, excellent comment.
FACT
Spot on. Never ever be financially dependent on a narcissist and the number one reason why victims stay in abusive relationships with narcissists is money. And narcissists know this and love money more than anything in this world. Disgusting 🤮
Love of $$$ is the root of all evil.
wise words from Jill as ever - one of the main things I remember from personal experience was:- if you're doing better than them financially then it will not be beyond this person to stage, manufacture or engineer a crisis in order to snatch your money off you. It's as much about you not having it as them having it.
A narcissistic parent is not going to want one of their children doing too well financially as it removes them from the all-powerful role of dishing out the sweets and deciding who gets what. Narcissitic/toxic people love to 'play God' and decide the outcomes of others, reward and punish. Money is central to that.
Thank Ms. Weiss. So true .
My narc husband stole my identity and opened numerous credit cards in my name. Thankfully I found out. However it took me months to fix the mess. He charged approx 9K. It was a nightmare. I confronted him and he was just so arrogant about it and acted as if entitled.
This is a very accurate description of narcissist and their love of money
My mother! After having enough of her cruel baiting & constant threats of disinheritance, I told her to ‘stick it, I didn’t need her money.’
And just like a true narcissist she flew into the most spectacular rage and accused me of doing the very thing she was doing. She said I was trying to control her life!
You could not make it up. 😂😂😂
I knew a guy who used money to buy extravagant gifts for girls and if they accepted those gifts, he would think he owned them. One girl took the gifts because she didn't want to hurt his feelings and when I found out, I told the girl to hurt his feelings because he won't stop until she rejects him.
This has been my experience dealing with these creatures🦁🌟
💯🎯 Welcome to the neighborhood.
My husband has narcissistic tendencies, but isn’t full blown. Money has never been a problem, thankfully. He is just superior, can make no mistakes, holds bitterness & is full of pride. I manage all the bills and money and he takes pride in not even knowing how much money we have. I pay the tab at the restaurant. I think he thinks of himself as being in control of me by having me be in charge of our finances. It’s a strange angle of control. I’m waiting on him in many ways as he acts like he doesn’t know how to do things as well as I, and am doing it all except mowing the grass and doing home repair. He is very proud of himself that he has control over those things. Thankfully this video doesn’t explain his actions. There are other videos that do pretty much to a “T”.
A narcisst will "provide" what you can normally provide for yourself, in order to justfy control. If they can pay for you, you are indebted to obey them in return. My parents were like this. Normallly parents give children independence. Mine made it extremely difficult to leave.
Thank you Jill ❤for this conversation. People like Harvey, Epstein, R Kelly, P Diddy and more….
Soooo true!!!!
So right on ! Economic empowerment is essential to regaining freedom. Without it a person may be trapped in an abusive relationship.
So do appreciate the wisdom from Jill.
100% my experience. And he loved that I was/am frugal.
Sounds like my father and his flying monkeys.
Same. My father would complain about money but keep paying my "brother" to tell him where I'm at, what I'm doing with who.
#2 is spot on - one person I knew whom I believe is a narcissist not only liked reminding me that he was doing better than me financially but also liked telling the whole world - he is no longer my friend and I don't have any contact with him
Absolutely. That's why she kept trying to ensure I either got fired or remained unemployed while she collected welfare based on a fraudulent disability claim. Control and keep me from leaving. I managed to keep fighting for my right and I'm out. But it's never over because she has our son.
My ex narc remarried. And I still have to pay her alimony till the day I die! 😢 narcissists are pure evil to the core!! Thank you Jill !!!
I've had my share of narcissists in my life; however, when your first narcissist is your mother, it's something you can't get over. 6 years ago, I asked my mom for money so I could go home and she said she would. However, when she didn't after an agreement, I said to her "You win Mom". And she said, "Of course I do, I have all the money."
This is Very True! Nice Work Mrs. Wise!
Thank you!
I hate shopping with my partner. I am never allowed to choose anything,even with my own money. He is just really wierd about m9ney. I have always earned my own, and paid my share for everything.
At least you can walk away since you aren’t bound by marriage. I’d get out of that relationship YESTERDAY!!!!
❤ this was so good! You are on fire Jill !!!
Thank you so much!!
Every chance he got to help me out he helped someone else out instead. The neighbours gave us food. He had the lot and as i didnt say thank you to the neighbours they said i had bad manners. I didnt know the food was for me too because he ate it all. I went hungry lots of times whilst he got bigger and now has diabetes 2. Hope it was worth it
thanks for all that you do
My pleasure!
That is extortion and extortionists will not enter Jesus coming kingdom
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I need to keep my currency to myself once I start making it. I need to financially independent as soon as possible and keep my currency from being stolen by the narcissists I interact with.
These are Absolute FACTS about them 💯!!!!!🚨🚨🚨-Xclusyph Icon
He stole my money and my dental implant bar, screwed in a very old and worn bar and sent me home with a slanting bar and slanting teeth and when I left his room I saw him smiling, he has lied and lied. He said he was a CDT, he isn't, he made me NHS dentures and I paid for private. He charged me 500 pounds for an ordinary X-ray. His dentist took the X-Ray, saw half my bone was missing, never told me and told the technician who conned me that my bone and implants were sound. I put them both in court, after 8 years I need a bone graft. Oh and he asked me for more money for doing my teeth to perfection.
My Mother
but ... *_I_* love money! 😭
You're not gonna forget it. 😮
Your dad helped you long term by having safe boundaries built for you- so get it out of your mind that a kid can grow up without having guard rails -
That’s precisely what dads are supposed to do - protect their kids and set limits for their kids.
I agree a fathers job is to provide and protect their children, however my father was an abuser. And part of what he required of me in order to be provided for, was to accept and allow full blown child abuse. So I absolutely disagree with you, NO CHILD SHOULD BE ABUSED BY THEIR PARENT FOR ANY REASON EVER. It was constant and continual CHILD ABUSE AND EXTREME NEGLECT. Absolutely not, you are dead wrong.