Unveiling the 'Nice Guy' Narcissist: 9 Red Flags in Your Relationship
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- Unveiling the 'Nice Guy' Narcissist: 9 Red Flags in Your Relationship. Discover the hidden truth about so-called "nice guy" narcissists. In this video, we'll reveal 9 red flags to look out for in your relationship to identify a covert narcissist.
Are you in a relationship with someone who seems too good to be true? They may be a "nice guy" on the surface, but underneath they could be a covert narcissist. Watch this video to learn how to spot the signs and protect yourself from toxic relationships.
Are you tired of constantly feeling undervalued and taken for granted in your relationship?
Well, what if we told you it's not because you have bad luck? Rather, you might be dealing with a 'Nice Guy' narcissist. These individuals are masters at hiding their narcissistic nature behind a charming facade.
They seem caring, kind, and generous at first, making it hard for you to suspect their lack of empathy and self-centeredness. Not to mention they don't understand and appreciate your point of view.
So, eventually, you find yourself starting a romantic relationship with this person.
But once you discover that someone you thought was a genuinely nice person is actually a narcissist, it can be incredibly disheartening, shocking, and distressing. It's also a painful realization when you realize that you've developed romantic feelings for someone who has been pretending to be someone they're not.
But perhaps you're not sure if your partner right now is a nice guy narcissist.
Don't worry. By the end of this video, you'll have all the knowledge you need to recognize the 9 red flags that determine if you're in a relationship with a narcissist pretending to be a nice guy.
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I find them to be the worst because theyâre so nice and supportive and compliment you a lot that you start to lose your mind, thinking you must be the problem, and if you begin to dislike them you feel like a bad hateful person.
They really made me lose my mind and then get angry at me for doing that.
It was like they threw me in the water then got mad at me for barely staying afloat while they stood on land and yelled at me.
It describes my situation perfectly
I was friends with and dated a guy like this. It was so confusing.
Confusion is a tool of the devil. It's NOT unintentional; trust me.
Same here.
These types of men are super insecure.
Oh dear,,, itâs too scary to have a relationship⊠better of stay alone ,,
Yep! Indeed.
Negging, started arguments, misspelling and mispronouncing my name and especially gaslighting đźâđš. They deserve NOTHING. Why are you pursuing me to mistreat me? They deserve NOTHING.
Good, I'm just a nice guy after allđ . I dated a woman for a short period and it was an emotional roller-coaster. I did some research after and realized that she was a text book covert narcissist. When she came back a year later, I played along with her games. She can't keep up the fascade for more than three weeks (she actually admitted that once). The mask came off and she had a meltdown and I kept throwing gasoline on the fire. She went down the list of manipulation tactics and I responded by calling them out. She went BERSERK and I'll admit, I was having fun watching her implode, it was kind of pathetic. If she circles back again, it's out of ego because she hates to lose.
My gosh this sounds JUST like the man Iâve been dating the past 7 months. He would BLOW UP impulsively at me whenever I called him out on his bullshit. It was SO emotionally draining and he believed he was such an amazing person, and refused to accept he was emotionally and verbally abusing me. He would never talk problems out; heâd just blow up and talk over me and eventually tell me he canât deal with this anymore and hang up. Heâs 45 years old! Iâm 42. Iâm disgusted that he turned out to be this way and hid his real behavior while securing me into a serious relationship with him. We have been friends since meeting in university in our later 20âs. Iâm so disappointed heâs a very insecure, angry, textbook narcissist.
Iâve been having trouble sleeping at night and having major anxiety at his emotional withdrawal when in the beginning he was very cuddly, sweet and emotionally connected to me. Thatâs what he said and thatâs what I thought. Now Iâm not getting any of my emotional needs met and there is no clear communication with him. He totally changed up on me. I hate his unpredictable nature and dismissal of my feelings. He was not like this at first. Now itâs like a Jekyl/Hyde relationship and Iâm not happy at all.
Because of my voicing my unhappiness with his change up, as well as barely making any time to see me, we havenât been getting along the past couple of months. I think he trauma bonded me. Weâre in the middle of breaking up anyway. Iâm sad but deep down I know itâs the best thing for me.
The boundaries one is so key! I dated a guy who pushed my physical boundaries. He said he found it attractive when I told him ânoâ. But whenever I said ânoâ, he would back off. He made it seem like he was respecting my boundaries in the moment, but he would always try again (so the respect was only a temporary facade) until he wore me down.
I regret that I let him cross boundaries, but in the moment, I was being manipulated. And in hindsight, Iâm more aware of what red flags to look for.
Damn, Bingo! Just broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I subscribed!
This is a learned behavior.
Like a bag of tricks.
Watching these videos leaves me the impression that some narcissists are so good at deception, you will think they are nice normal people for years and years and years. Or maybe they really are nice normal people.
really well explained
đ đș đ covert narcissist to a T
If you notice them while they are looking themselves in the mirror you will hear their voice said "my looks is very beautiful(handsome ) I am in love with me.đ
This video is so right on I have experienced these behaviors in the toxic relationship sign Cynthia Smith
I have a covert narcissist in my family, he is always nice and friendly, eveyone ask him to do something for them. He is the best. But he speaks not so nice of his woman, she drinks alcohol, always is she cranky, but she is my best friend and i hear lots about him, that is provoked to argue with here. She is really the nice, i new here from kindergarten, is a little bit shy and is always a happy girl. But the day she married this guy, he turns is character say nothing to here for days, comes not home for dinner on time, let here sit by here self, evening after evening, nobody is good for here, only his friends, and family. When she started having kids its get worse, when she says to the kids that they most behave, he go to the kids and say that she is always angry to everyone. She get so sad. Hope that one day she see what he does to here.
Sneaky person.the pro sociale narc
What should be done if someones husband is this and she has a kid?
Excellent content! I subscribed â€
A lady who works helping sex workers..( I am a sex worker), and she was so sweet, but so full of issues...you think she is going to fall apart just right there(extrem pity ploits), but overdone...always promising what she can not give...but spiritual abusive too...I am christian and she basically overlooked my believe and spoke bas with me about christianit,(putting you against you, typical).
She created confusion with one of her coworkers...and I took the opportunity to block them both...as much as somehow she inflated her efforts, she is getting paid...trust me...just run while you can...I think they are the worst type...as long as you are still believing their act is real friendshipđ đ
I subscribed
I personally met more women from the nice girl narc type than men.
I would completely concur with that statement, and the over riding narrative of narcs just being men is BS....this video clearly points one finger at the male
That's usually the experience of a man.. just like the experience of a heterosexual woman would be to come in contact with nice guy narcissists. Unless you're gay I don't get how this video applies to you the title says it all..
You quickly overlook a covert narcissist . Hard to spot
@janettekreulen54 not once you become an educated empath they are astonishingly easy to spot - just listen to what comes out their mouth the first 15 mins of meeting one you realize and understand narcissism is like autism - it comes in many variables, types, degrees, and range from subtle and barely noticeable to "trump" level narcissism, where it's totally obvious and they have zero shame...unfortunately you have narcs calling others narcs all over CZcams and every other platform muddling up the waters even more
I agree, but this video is about men. Go find one on female narcs. There are plenty of them out there.
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*Why focus on males?*
Literally all of the traits described in this video can just as easily be prescribed to narcissists of both sexes...
I'm so sick of societies constant vilification of men and boys, and this is yet another example. I found it hard to listen to.
Women are also perfectly capable of these traits, and there are MANY videos out there about just that. You're getting upset for absolutely no reason.
#ElonMusk > you aren't a bad person. We all need education
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This has to be a feminist channel only feminist uses narcissist
What on earth were you trying to say?
You have never gone thru hell both men and women experience narcissist abuse.Dont judge in less you know better.Donât compare that feminist bullshit how dare you
God almighty wouldnât want your foolhardy ignorance broadcasted
@@sundown2221 I agree I wonât say all but I am implying most get the picture? Most women nowadays are malignant narcissist the worst in history men donât really do that you entice and devour what you can then toss aside like a toss salad on a platter seems to be it or am I wrong nowadays?
@@sundown2221 I guess you didnât like my message or maybe Google deleted it nonetheless itâs true nowadays women are categorized by malignant narcissist the worse kind to put guys in a box you do best entice and destroy to put in nicely either that not sure really up to you want you want to do not me and honestly I donât care.