Avoid Toxic People & Attain Mental Peace || How To Deal With Toxic People || Handle Difficult People

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  • čas přidán 24. 08. 2024
  • There are always few toxic people around us. They may be in form of relatives, friends, colleagues or any other person with whom we are not at all comfortable. We feel negative vibrations from such people & sometimes we are not able to come out of that negative environment and it may result in sadness, tension, stress, depression or anxiety.
    In this motivational & inspirational video session the author will tell some basic tips to avoid or handle such toxic people so that your mental peace & mental fitness is not disturbed at all.

Komentáře • 539

  • @manaswitadatta
    @manaswitadatta Před 4 lety +260

    When I face toxic people, I say to myself " unse aur umeed hi kya kar sakte hai". And move on.

  • @arpana_1109
    @arpana_1109 Před 3 lety +75

    """"Aapki chuppi bade se bade toxic people ko tod kr rakh degi""".....be non-responsive...
    Thank you sir 😊

  • @the_success_hindi_hub
    @the_success_hindi_hub Před 4 lety +145

    Amazing line:- "Let your hardwork and result speak in front of them"😯🙏

  • @mrutyunjaysinhpadhiyar5474
    @mrutyunjaysinhpadhiyar5474 Před 4 lety +217

    We need collectors like you..

  • @enthusiast9974
    @enthusiast9974 Před 3 lety +51

    I am sorrounded by many toxic people in my life.. I was literally shocked after their masks dropped... Literally this session helped me alot from eliminating them from my life

  • @soul.harsh-instagram
    @soul.harsh-instagram Před 4 lety +104

    While studying again i was said " yeh kr hi kya lega". I kept silent. Spirituality helped me in this character of not speaking

    • @TJ-vi2iz
      @TJ-vi2iz Před 4 lety +13

      Aap apnee Mann ko bolo .
      Is ne kyaa krr liaa.
      And get motivated
      🤗😎

    • @Growtogether-ft1kf
      @Growtogether-ft1kf Před 4 lety +3

      @@TJ-vi2iz correct 🙂🙏

    • @itsmemv0072
      @itsmemv0072 Před 4 lety +11

      while studying,they used to shout at me , to disturb ..i used to laugh at them seeing their jealousy ..they never used to stop ..even when i was silent ..cozx i felt bad if i dont give response to styupid boys as i am not scared of them ...i lost my seat at good govt engg college ..working hard again..coz i know i can do it , no matter what

    • @ganeshrao7526
      @ganeshrao7526 Před 3 lety

      *YOUR Videos Are Toxic*
      _Postivie Thinking Looks Like HOUSE ONE SIDE Mirror_ 🤣🤣🤣

    • @hilarious5047
      @hilarious5047 Před 2 lety +1

      You will become successful

  • @Rohitkumar-xx2jr
    @Rohitkumar-xx2jr Před 3 lety +18

    Focus on yourself
    Stop emitt negative energy
    Emitt positive vibes
    Belive in God
    Ignore negative people
    Stay away from negative people
    Stop respond,and never cares what other think
    Do one thing at one time
    Jivan meh therav lekr aao
    Dhahrav lekr aao
    Be calm be humble do hard work with cool mind

  • @easyway1340
    @easyway1340 Před 4 lety +30

    1)cool mind
    2) patience
    Most imp
    Thank u sir ....

  • @anjalisinha3753
    @anjalisinha3753 Před 4 lety +35

    yes u said it right “u hv to mentally defeat that person”..silence is golden

  • @letstalk2227
    @letstalk2227 Před 4 lety +66

    I don't use platforms like Fb, Twitter, Instagram, except YT , Whatsapp...never use to attend too many celebrations.( Specially family gatherings where not so close relatives come)......have listening attitude instead of speaking....... when ever someone criticize or taunt me for no good reason I use to say in my mind..."wait for that big day baby"😂I cut off from unnecessary socialising... basically I use to avoid such ppl as much as I can..
    Thanks sir...for your guidance .
    Waiting for this session..

    • @AmanVerma-qu7if
      @AmanVerma-qu7if Před 4 lety +9

      Same brother .I am more happier now after quiting social media as I observed these were the only cause of frustrations and depression as well as jealousy...

    • @letstalk2227
      @letstalk2227 Před 4 lety +3

      @@AmanVerma-qu7if keep focusing on your life.... Gud luck

    • @letstalk2227
      @letstalk2227 Před 4 lety +2

      @@astral7919 yeah...now u can focus n work upon urself.

  • @tekbssync5727
    @tekbssync5727 Před 3 lety +28

    *Toxic people makes me work more harder towards my goal* ......... but they don't understand this 😂

  • @sohinimukherjee4838
    @sohinimukherjee4838 Před 4 lety +89

    Sometimes toxic ppl deliberately continue to taunt you and try hard to portray you as the culprit....in some cases ignorance may not always be the soln

    • @coolstar3783
      @coolstar3783 Před 2 lety +8

      Yas True

    • @coolstar3783
      @coolstar3783 Před 2 lety +9

      I feel same

    • @srconsultancy9071
      @srconsultancy9071 Před 2 lety +9

      Haa yaar.. sahi kaha.. Kuchh log aise hote hai.. worst tab hota hai jab wo aapke family me ho..

    • @viny9171
      @viny9171 Před 2 lety +3

      @@srconsultancy9071 aise logo ki bate ko ek kaan se sunkr dusre se nikal do unki importance khtm kr do detachment kr lo

    • @kajalkarn6021
      @kajalkarn6021 Před 2 lety +2

      True

  • @vibhishnagul
    @vibhishnagul Před 3 lety +22

    Thank you sir i was so disturbed with the people around me . I cried every day , searching ways how to deal correctly with these negativity i get everyday right from i wake up in the morning. Now i found way out.😢🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @tekbssync5727
      @tekbssync5727 Před 3 lety +2

      Arre bhai , tum accha kaam karoge to wo bolenge aisa kyu kiya , tum bura kaam karoge to phir wo bolenge ye kya kar rha , unka kaam hai bolna. [ ye samaj me madarch** logo ki kami nhi hai , ignore them 😂] And don't cry for such fu*king people. Enjoy your life as you want

    • @sannifunacct.986
      @sannifunacct.986 Před 2 lety +1

      Relax..there is nothing to cry and get disturbed. U r not alone in this sister. Many of us go through the same. Don't be so sensitive, vulnerable to hurt 😊 Remember at the end of everything only we will be responsible for our lives so better don't spoil ur mood because of others. Stay happy

  • @shubhisings3333
    @shubhisings3333 Před 4 lety +37

    I think I am late to watch this video..already wasted my 4 years of preparation because of such people. Now trying to recoup and trying to focus on myself and hopefully I will become successful one day.

  • @ajaykumarpandey5705
    @ajaykumarpandey5705 Před 4 lety +35

    I found the answer to my question that was bothering me from last one month , thnq so much sir ❤️

  • @SONIAflotsamdiamond
    @SONIAflotsamdiamond Před 4 lety +26

    Helpful session indeed... People use to compliment my friends while criticising me. But i take their words for granted.

    • @sidharthm35
      @sidharthm35 Před 4 lety +3

      Uda de unhe kisi ko supari dena 😂😂😂

  • @pujabhosale2771
    @pujabhosale2771 Před 4 lety +7

    Yes sir ✌️ yeh Maine follow Kiya hua 1year hua ab Mai bhut khush hu aur phle Mai bhut crazy , rhti thi ese logo se but mujhe yehh mere mentors Dr.geetendra sir ji ne btaya aur Maine turant adapt Kiya mere life Mai sach Mai sir mujhe preshan krne wale hi khut preshan ho Jaye hai 🤣🤣
    Aur Mai tohh cool mind se apna scheduled follow krti hi din ka
    Aur mentally Nd physically bhi fit hu ✌️
    Aur mujhe joh sir guide krte hai aur Biology pdhate hai neet ki wohh khud World topmost diabetalogist hai I am very lucky Nd thanx to god to give mi world best teacher Nd awesome parents ❤️❤️
    Aur mere sir ji ki wife bhi ek IAS officer hai joh ab Mumbai Mai hai
    Unki thinking bhi apki trh Best 👍 hai
    ThnQ 🙏 so much respected Nd lovely Er.gaurav sir Ap Hume guide krne ke liye ❤️❤️
    🇮🇳jay hind 🇮🇳

  • @Ankit-mq6em
    @Ankit-mq6em Před 4 lety +34

    Muje Bolte tu gate pass nhi kar skta Aur Maine first time me Abhi 53 marks leke agaya ,abb aur jyada marks launga next year than IIsc jaunga

  • @darkhorse2584
    @darkhorse2584 Před 4 lety +25

    Such a good human being you are. Every session of yours brings a lot of positivity in many lives.

  • @yogeshbharadwaj855
    @yogeshbharadwaj855 Před 3 lety +6

    Silence Is Better Than Words 👍

  • @MeenalNechaniya
    @MeenalNechaniya Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you sir for saving my life
    Jab bhi andar se tutane wali feeling aati he aapki videos mujhe wapis khade uthane ki himmat deti he
    So a big thanks

  • @anonymous-fw8ib
    @anonymous-fw8ib Před 3 lety +7

    This world is like a mirror to us 👌

  • @tulsisharma73
    @tulsisharma73 Před 2 lety +3

    this men is like sidhi baat no bkwas 😁😁😍i always watch your one video in my morning tea time so that i can start m day by earning some good habits 🤩thank you sir 😍

  • @rajatkumar5262
    @rajatkumar5262 Před 4 lety +7

    Just keep quiet.. everything fill be alright ❣️
    conclusion of lecture.

  • @akshatvikramsrivastava1786
    @akshatvikramsrivastava1786 Před 4 lety +24

    Sir the topic about which you are talking about can tackled in a best way by "Joining a Fitness regime in our life " It works as a magic : personal exprience 🙏🙏.. 😊😊

  • @mahatigawande7124
    @mahatigawande7124 Před 4 lety +5

    Thankyou for your suggestion because I'm very unstable now I'll try to be stable and Ignore my padosis

  • @Romanticvibes1432
    @Romanticvibes1432 Před 3 lety +7

    A lots of thanks to you sir I was too much needy for this advice. This will help me to regain my mental peace.
    I was completely disturbed but thanks again

  • @perahshaikh8564
    @perahshaikh8564 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you 😊 it was really helpful I was very sick of certain toxic people and you gave me a very good way out

  • @ViratSigma
    @ViratSigma Před 4 lety +5

    Gaurav Sir im a fan of yours you are my true inspiration,so i have kept my self appart from Intoxication ,video games and girlfriends and fully focused on studies and Fittnest....

  • @ubuntu5776
    @ubuntu5776 Před 3 lety +10

    In my case he is my DAD itself...its really tough😞😔

    • @dreamit4278
      @dreamit4278 Před 3 lety +2

      i think its very painful sister 🙏🙏dad kese kr skte h yesa yar

    • @KapilYadav-hv3mj
      @KapilYadav-hv3mj Před 3 lety +6

      @@dreamit4278 sahi kah rahi h vo....mera baap bhi bahut sar dard aadmi h....kuch b krna chaho to esa bolta h kya collector lagega tu...ab aap btao kya kare ese logo ka...

    • @satyajitsahoo5851
      @satyajitsahoo5851 Před 3 lety +1

      I can feel same 😂

    • @smrutiranjanmohapatra5487
      @smrutiranjanmohapatra5487 Před 3 lety

      Mine too

    • @hammadkhan9043
      @hammadkhan9043 Před 3 lety

      in my case my hubby

  • @ThunderLightStrikes
    @ThunderLightStrikes Před 4 lety +2

    Sir ye self introspection wala point kaafi sahi hai 🌝
    kabhi kabhi hum hi galat hote hain or dusro ke nazriye smjh nahi paate...leads to conflict and tension between ppl
    Thank you bhaiya,u r a life coach.

  • @viny9171
    @viny9171 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks sir itni achhi tarah se smjhane ke liye👍🙏

  • @harshydv001
    @harshydv001 Před 4 lety +6

    Sir you are really motivated i am doing upsc and i get distract sometimes but by seeing you viedo i went back to my track Thank you sir...😊

  • @shashisharma4813
    @shashisharma4813 Před 6 měsíci +1

    अमूल्य सलाह देने के लिए आपका ह्रदय से आभार।

  • @anilpal3265
    @anilpal3265 Před 4 lety +1

    Sir apki bate Bhrma Kumaris ,,peace of mind se milti hai,,,,,,,OM SHANTI 🙏❤️

  • @Mainak_Sarkar
    @Mainak_Sarkar Před 4 lety +16

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @eternalshine5555
    @eternalshine5555 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanku so much Gaurav sir 😊I need this advice Today 👍

  • @palkii2300
    @palkii2300 Před 4 lety +8

    Thank u soo much sir dat u hv addressed d most difficult problem f my life. I wd try my level bst . ☺

  • @yASH69969
    @yASH69969 Před 2 lety +3

    “Patience” Is Every Thing

  • @nishantsinghal6832
    @nishantsinghal6832 Před 4 lety +28

    Sir how to tackle these Toxic people when they become bullies? And start influencing through external medium also, because if we stop responding, they resort to other tactics

    • @niyasatali4801
      @niyasatali4801 Před 3 lety +6

      Bhai Bully ka sirf ek hi ilaz h tum bhi comments maro agar mental peace disturb hoti h tho phir police complaint kar do ........ya aysa nahi kar saktay tho tum bhi baar baar comments karo khul kar jo muh may aaye wahi daro mat ,tit for tat hi ek tarika h jaida se jaida kya hoga samnay Wala ladai karayga tum bhi maro kucch nahi hoga agar darogay tho wo tumhare sir par chad jayega baki tumhari marji.........

    • @nathanmanju5232
      @nathanmanju5232 Před 3 lety +2

      U either fight verbally or physically I suggest physical fight if same gender

    • @DailyDoseOfMemes96
      @DailyDoseOfMemes96 Před 3 lety +3

      @@nathanmanju5232 well if u r outnumbered to one and enemies r in thousands u have to take steps patiently. Becoz they have upper hand, u have to wait for right moment to show who's the real gangsta.

    • @shashikantpatel281
      @shashikantpatel281 Před 2 lety

      First give them warning and if they don't listen then lodge an FIR with police with evidence

  • @ariensabuj7484
    @ariensabuj7484 Před 3 lety +6

    Super practical advice....... Love it. Helpful for me.

  • @meghabhagat4972
    @meghabhagat4972 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you Master ..really needed session 💕💕❤❤❤

  • @sumitpawankumar585
    @sumitpawankumar585 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you sir.
    Thank for your constant support.
    Jai hind

  • @birjukumar1447
    @birjukumar1447 Před 4 lety +6

    Sir mujhe to lagta main hi toxic people bn Gaya hu, bhut depressed hu sir, jeene ka bilkul Dill nhi h

  • @satviktripathi7263
    @satviktripathi7263 Před 5 měsíci +1

    very rghtly said sir.

  • @AbhiSharma-il9nj
    @AbhiSharma-il9nj Před 4 lety +7

    Awesome sir... Am your big fan. I also want to achieve a big success along with passion like you.

  • @mukul9436
    @mukul9436 Před 4 lety +11

    Sir please make a video on that how to take deep sleep because many time our eyes gets opened during our sleep time. And because of this next day there is a feeling of being lackadaisical and sleepy.

  • @Maram-tz1sd
    @Maram-tz1sd Před 2 lety +1

    I was dealing with this...tnk u Sir for this valuable video.

  • @anupama5109
    @anupama5109 Před 2 lety

    Sir aapne bahut badi baat kehediya, mere jindagi mein asli villain mere saas aur mere husband hai, mai chahakar bhi indono ko aviod nahi karpavoongi per mein himmat nahi harnewali tqu so much🙂

  • @intuitivepeace6470
    @intuitivepeace6470 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank u sir for suggestion , I will try to do it 2nd step

  • @YogeshKumar-ej6lx
    @YogeshKumar-ej6lx Před 4 lety +3

    Eye opening message

  • @stylish469
    @stylish469 Před 4 lety +4

    Wow sir I need this very strongly

  • @saranshsaini960
    @saranshsaini960 Před 4 lety +3

    u r absolutely right sir ....from chandigarh !! just a new aspirant of UPSC CSE !

  • @sumitpawankumar585
    @sumitpawankumar585 Před 4 lety +26

    Sir please make a video on the topic
    How to stay cool and calm like you are.
    How to tackle low phases or when we are mentally disturbed. Jai hind!!

  • @ludwigvanbeethoven3896
    @ludwigvanbeethoven3896 Před 4 lety +6

    Half of the negativity from my friends, half from me lol. Equal equal.

  • @abhishekchaturvedi3677
    @abhishekchaturvedi3677 Před 4 lety +3

    Sir first time apke channel pe aya really u r a great person..if I clear upsc then definitely I want to meet u sir.

  • @praveshkumarsingh2081
    @praveshkumarsingh2081 Před 4 lety +3

    Good sir thank you for your making such type of videos, god give you a long age

  • @nancysaluja3539
    @nancysaluja3539 Před 2 lety

    Very nice video thank you for sharing this. I have a very close family member who constantly brags about herself and scoffs at everything I do constantly taunts , I’ve started hating her so much , I’ve developed so much anxiety and stress because of her. I used to be so happy so confident so cheerful always earlier but since these last 4 years I don’t even recall when was the last time i was happy.
    But this video has really helped. Thanks a lot.
    God bless you 🙏🏻

  • @rajshekharsingh5862
    @rajshekharsingh5862 Před rokem

    Maine isse jyada relatable video apni life me nhi dekha hai... Thank you sir for such guidance

  • @beinspire4600
    @beinspire4600 Před 4 lety +2

    Awesome sir thanks for always guide us

  • @divyanshitiwari9484
    @divyanshitiwari9484 Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you so much sir...i needed this session.....

  • @livinglife700
    @livinglife700 Před 4 lety +2

    Sir you are all rounder having enriched knowledge of so many subjects, m inspired from you 🙏🙏

  • @bhoopendrasingh675
    @bhoopendrasingh675 Před 3 lety +1

    Sir... you are great for million minds .... I Salute ....

  • @poweredbymistake9664
    @poweredbymistake9664 Před 3 lety +2

    It's very difficult situation when toxic people in our home24/7

  • @anubhabdas3856
    @anubhabdas3856 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you sir...your words are really helpfull

  • @aisharathore4503
    @aisharathore4503 Před rokem +1

    "SIMPLE IGNORE THEM"

  • @ahanaroychoudhuri
    @ahanaroychoudhuri Před 2 lety

    Tysm sir 🙏. I was feeling very low for some time because some mean girls in my class used verbal abuse on my friend and I felt really bad and couldn't understand how low some people can stoop. I will be sure to avoid them and focus on my goals because it's not worth wasting my mental peace on them and instead do something positive with my life because it's not even worth thinking about them

  • @prateekl968
    @prateekl968 Před rokem

    If someone are really toxic then other people will also know then you can team up against toxic person . And many times they are the one whose actually insecure and miserable people so forgive them and mind your own business and be the bigger person
    Keeping yourself busy so you don't have time for them . I am going through this situations and I'm getting better at understanding human behaviour , collect all the data, life will teach them lesson

  • @rafatali1170
    @rafatali1170 Před 3 lety

    I agree with you 101%. Do believe it really works. Those who are suffering with depression can apply this method and increase confidence.

  • @Ahmedmollasakil72
    @Ahmedmollasakil72 Před 2 lety

    so beautiful VIDEO..AND VIDEO TOPIC IS SO GOOD💕💕....BIG FAN ALYWAS 🔥🔥❤️❤️..........…ALL VIDEO ARE SO NICE...

  • @mahitalapatra4481
    @mahitalapatra4481 Před 4 lety +14

    We all needed this video. Thank you sir.

  • @amaanalikhan9450
    @amaanalikhan9450 Před 2 lety +1

    thanks a lot sir👏👏

  • @upscaspirant6828
    @upscaspirant6828 Před 4 lety +3

    Jb se upsc prepration start kia h 99% log bhot dis krte the par aaj aapne bhot kuch btaya sir..contact hi khatm kar deta hu..jai hind..thnkuuu sir

  • @ramsaravana
    @ramsaravana Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you so much sir... Just wanted someone to guide me through this same problem.. I will make best out of your guidance sir.

  • @BVMore
    @BVMore Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you sir for this lesson. I am also facing this problem. Jay hind

  • @billionaire711
    @billionaire711 Před 3 lety +2

    SILENCE IS THE BEST ANSWER IN ANY SITUATION

  • @vaideesful
    @vaideesful Před 2 lety

    Awesome explaining

  • @dbarman5286
    @dbarman5286 Před 4 lety +4

    What a great session!....God bless you sir💓

  • @vishalmallick8835
    @vishalmallick8835 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you sir.... I always come to watch your video and this investment give me 1000 times valuable return.. that really changing my way of perceiving life...
    Thank you so much ❤️
    JAI HIND..

  • @tirthaghartimagar1939
    @tirthaghartimagar1939 Před 3 lety

    You said very true sir.
    Log khud jaisa hote h waisa hi sochate h.

  • @skyfly2325
    @skyfly2325 Před 2 lety +1

    Ghar parr hi haiii toxic people 🥺
    Difficult to deal with

  • @marjanadarvesh298
    @marjanadarvesh298 Před 4 lety +2

    Incredible Incredible Sir
    Stay blessed

  • @RahulPatil-zj8xo
    @RahulPatil-zj8xo Před 2 lety +1

    Nice sir

  • @cool_blue6422
    @cool_blue6422 Před 4 lety +1

    very good video sir... helps a lot especially for working professionals

  • @AkshaySonone______99_99
    @AkshaySonone______99_99 Před 4 lety +2

    Very true sir..

  • @rimadey321
    @rimadey321 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you sir

  • @rakesh5847
    @rakesh5847 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you sir........and I will surely implement this in my life...........

  • @letsknowitwithharshita

    Best suggestion in all youtube videos on this topic.

  • @harapriyananda7097
    @harapriyananda7097 Před 4 lety +1

    Sir there are a lot of distractions and toxic people. I try to ignore but my parents get affected and they feel bad. This in turn makes me upset.

  • @Noname-uo5sy
    @Noname-uo5sy Před 4 lety +10

    When you say Jai hind ❤ ... I subscribed you

  • @anjalmahi111
    @anjalmahi111 Před 3 lety +1

    Really thanks for this video sir
    After watching this video i feel calm and compose.
    Amazing video sir 👌

  • @anu3291
    @anu3291 Před 4 lety +1

    Simple words..effective solutions:)

  • @dr.sweetsharma7552
    @dr.sweetsharma7552 Před 3 lety +5

    Yes be strong ...psychologically❤️❤️

  • @RISHABHKUMAR-us5ez
    @RISHABHKUMAR-us5ez Před 4 lety +1

    sir mere college me ase bhot se toxic collegue he aur batchmates jo irritate karte he mujhe aur mere se jalte he ..sir thank you for this video . i will follow your words..thank you sir.. this video is helpful..

  • @pashupathinath6639
    @pashupathinath6639 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you sir. Right video came in the right time

  • @jyotikadwivedi12
    @jyotikadwivedi12 Před 2 lety

    much needed advice thank you bhaiya

  • @gaganrana1350
    @gaganrana1350 Před 4 lety +1

    Priceless video

  • @kesukushwah7133
    @kesukushwah7133 Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks sir 🙏

  • @ignitingmindzz453
    @ignitingmindzz453 Před rokem

    I am really impressed. I will do it

  • @dr.sweetsharma7552
    @dr.sweetsharma7552 Před 3 lety

    Sahi kaha
    ....😀😀😀😀
    Better not give attention 😀😀