Cunning /Toxic People - Best Way To handle them

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  • @devikabhatnagar
    @devikabhatnagar  Před 5 měsíci +50

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    • @manjuladevisivanna5992
      @manjuladevisivanna5992 Před 4 měsíci

      il

    • @johnjoseph9929
      @johnjoseph9929 Před 4 měsíci

      Hallo Doctor, can you please talk about selecting a partner for marriage , what precautions should be taken

    • @pavanyadav2614
      @pavanyadav2614 Před 4 měsíci

      Hello madam, I want tips to stop OVERTHINKING, FEAR...
      I also want tips for "A SENSE OF SUPPORT LIKE MY MOTHER and Father, to reach my GOAL, and make my country proud..,,

    • @user-mc5jy6mc1n
      @user-mc5jy6mc1n Před 4 měsíci

      🙏

    • @seemay7474
      @seemay7474 Před 4 měsíci

      What if the husband deceives?

  • @englishandbiohub6621
    @englishandbiohub6621 Před 2 měsíci +114

    Sorry to say but most of the time it's family members who are toxic

    • @LizaSachdev
      @LizaSachdev Před měsícem +2

      Exactly

    • @geetikarawat258
      @geetikarawat258 Před měsícem +1

      True

    • @JohnTender-sc6lq
      @JohnTender-sc6lq Před měsícem +1

      They are just overcaring ... improve your communication with them & Manage them+Yourself ... u find that they are not that bad ...

    • @LakshiAbayasekera
      @LakshiAbayasekera Před měsícem

      Yes

    • @user-lj8vw1ux9o
      @user-lj8vw1ux9o Před měsícem +4

      I agree with you. They are continue ruining my self confidence . They are Influenced by politics.

  • @sculpordwarf3872
    @sculpordwarf3872 Před 4 měsíci +307

    In my childhood, I was taught by elders, everyone in this world is good. Always tell truth, never lie, help others, care for others...etc etc. There was also a subject called Moral Science in our Primary School. As a child, i genuinely believed in them and tried to enact them. Growing up, it caused so much hurt and heart break. With age i realised all those things are a lie. But i had to go thru so much pain to realise the Truth. Why do they teach children such things? Make vulnerables more vulnerable !!??

    • @blueheaven4838
      @blueheaven4838 Před 4 měsíci +37

      Oh my God. This is the same question I am struggling with....😢 Suffered the same. I blamed my parents for teaching good values. Then I realised one can't play victim. I am a grown up and am responsible for my fate.

    • @manjunathjayaram
      @manjunathjayaram Před 3 měsíci

      My situation is same .world is not black and white .I cannot handle every type of person .I cannot stand shortcomings of psycho people

    • @Maximus_xoxo
      @Maximus_xoxo Před 3 měsíci +26

      This also happens to me, my parents also taught me like this. In my work place, I help every persons, seniors or juniors with the skills I have and after they learn, they will forget and when I seek their help, they act so smart that they will say they don't know, lying straight to my face. So, I often get hurt since I help them when they need but i didn't get any help when I needed the most.

    • @blueheaven4838
      @blueheaven4838 Před 3 měsíci +12

      @@Maximus_xoxo Adapt learn and play the game

    • @agnel47
      @agnel47 Před 3 měsíci

      Schools and parents don't want a strong child, they want a child that can be easily controlled.

  • @wisemanadvices9541
    @wisemanadvices9541 Před 4 měsíci +311

    The moment you kick the narcissistic people and toxic people out from your life. Your healing and growth begins. ❤

    • @8270361507
      @8270361507 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Agreed

    • @user-kc2mv6lt9s
      @user-kc2mv6lt9s Před 4 měsíci +3

      I totally agree with you.

    • @shashikrishna1628
      @shashikrishna1628 Před 3 měsíci +8

      Totally agree ....Kicking part is the most difficult especially if it is your family...😢 need to be strong enough to do that 🙏

    • @atulseye
      @atulseye Před 3 měsíci +1

      True

    • @wisemanadvices9541
      @wisemanadvices9541 Před 3 měsíci

      @@shashikrishna1628 Start with Greystone Technique and then slowly switch it to No contact. Initially it's tough I know but you will not be regretful of your decision in the long run. Narcs are obsessed with their supply,They don't love you. They only need your narc supply to survive, So once they stop receiving the supply, they will do their best to hook you in again.. But If you constantly remain in no contact with them, they will leave you.. And finally you will be happy and kind to yourself,with full control of yourself over your life.

  • @tarannumvohra1667
    @tarannumvohra1667 Před 4 měsíci +214

    Your words r 100% true, but for sensitive person it is very difficult to cope up.

  • @Ra-rg1vk
    @Ra-rg1vk Před 3 měsíci +96

    Never confront toxic people. Avoid like crazy. If you can’t avoid, don’t talk be mild don’t interact at all. They will use your words as ammunition to fire on you😂

    • @Youvibes07
      @Youvibes07 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Correct bro

    • @user-bv9ye2mr3k
      @user-bv9ye2mr3k Před 2 měsíci +1

      ❤vey much practical

    • @kshitij_kaithal
      @kshitij_kaithal Před měsícem +2

      Yes they will provoke you and you will act on it... The moment you act on it they will blame you and hence you will become the culprit...

    • @DEEPAKKUMAR-xq7vb
      @DEEPAKKUMAR-xq7vb Před měsícem

      Run Away....

  • @Doctorayu
    @Doctorayu Před 4 měsíci +191

    I had a friend, she was very sweet from outside. Showed as she cared for me, I didn't know her much initially. She used to come to me all the time to solve her problem, but gradually I realised she never helped me when I asked for help. It hurts a bit but I started avoiding her! She was so manipulative to get her work done!!

    • @Maddy-bl6hy
      @Maddy-bl6hy Před 4 měsíci +28

      That’s how many people are. Many of my so called friends tell all their problems to me. I listen very patiently and try to give suggestions what I think are correct. But when i try to tell my problems, they simply try to avoid the topic or act as they are not listening. Really getting sick of such people 😠.

    • @wisemanadvices9541
      @wisemanadvices9541 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@Maddy-bl6hy Because India is a highly Narcissistic country.

    • @dushanicorera282
      @dushanicorera282 Před 4 měsíci +12

      Yess there are PPL like these everywhere, even in my family. But with family is difficult to handle when you living in same house. Don't know what to do

    • @wisemanadvices9541
      @wisemanadvices9541 Před 4 měsíci

      @@dushanicorera282 Go No Contact or have very less access from them.

    • @PrasannaKrisna
      @PrasannaKrisna Před 3 měsíci +4

      These kinds of complaints are also toxic brother.. don't expect back when you are helping others. Try it except for lending money 😅

  • @infokites3994
    @infokites3994 Před 4 měsíci +304

    5% are genuine, its correct 100%. Its the lesson I Iearned from life of 40 years

  • @user-ix4fi3rz3l
    @user-ix4fi3rz3l Před 4 měsíci +43

    1) Check whether they are repentant, repentance is the Key. Toxic people are arrogant, non- repentant and dont want to make the first move.
    2) Identify them. That is most important. For the first few months observe, keep smiling. Don't be an open book.
    3) Mind management. Dont keep thinking why they behaved in the way they did. Focus on your work, your many priorities. Very important to be happy.
    4) Give time to yourself..Have pleasant hobbies.

  • @soumya941
    @soumya941 Před 4 měsíci +93

    Yes I know them… atleast met 80% such people in my life they played with my mind, insulting, manipulation, stabbing etc

  • @shraddhasingh7425
    @shraddhasingh7425 Před 4 měsíci +75

    Feeling relaxed Ma'am, yes, toxic people are everywhere.They hurt again and again and show they care for you.

    • @wisemanadvices9541
      @wisemanadvices9541 Před 4 měsíci

      The people who show fake empathy are Covert narcissists. Please learn about Covert Narcssissm.

    • @samualsata2442
      @samualsata2442 Před 4 měsíci +3

      So very true. So frustrating

  • @Mesmerising_Eyes
    @Mesmerising_Eyes Před 2 měsíci +30

    I am a Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist. It's so evident that whatever she said is purely out of her expertise and years of experience. Very accurate and authentic. I am delighted to fall into that 5% of population because I am the one mostly ending up hurt cuz of being gentle, kind and polite. I know how it feels to be around toxic people so I have promised myself that I shall never be a reason for someone else's sadness. Thank you for this beneficial video. God bless ❤
    Love and prayers from Europe.

    • @Blueberry-111jk
      @Blueberry-111jk Před 2 měsíci +2

      U have my admiration

    • @user-ed1zi2wh4e
      @user-ed1zi2wh4e Před 2 měsíci +1

      If 95% people are toxic,it is impossible to avoid them,i think most of the people are basically good, that's why we enjoy socialiding ,enjoy partying.

    • @Mesmerising_Eyes
      @Mesmerising_Eyes Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@Blueberry-111jk Likewise ❤

    • @Mesmerising_Eyes
      @Mesmerising_Eyes Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@user-ed1zi2wh4e Yes, interesting observation. It's possible that in general people are polite at the beginning. However, when we actually start spending time with them, that's when they show their real personalities

    • @bsr7473
      @bsr7473 Před 2 měsíci

      @Mesmarising_Eyes Nice presentation of your comment, sir are you know Telugu, can you send your email ID, I have doubt n needs clarity solution pls. Otherwise I will put my mail id, pls you send a test mail, I don't know how much busy you sir, at your convenience pls reply thanks in advance sir 💐🙏

  • @wisemanadvices9541
    @wisemanadvices9541 Před 4 měsíci +25

    If you are in any of the Toxic Relationship, Whether it is husband/Wife relationship, Parents/Child relationship,Relationship with Siblings, relatives etc. Remember, To get cheated and manipulated is also a sin. To kick those toxic people out of your life becomes your Dharma.

    • @SY27196
      @SY27196 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Very difficult to identify when part of family'

  • @BalancedSoundscape
    @BalancedSoundscape Před 2 měsíci +7

    I identified my mother as a toxic person. Her words are always negative. I am not able to work from home. Whenever I left home for work, I used to be happy and more active at work. She always find a victim to curse on daily basis. She always find a way to fight with me or my younger brother on daily basis. It feels like torturing us mentally. She always make sure the tasks that we do daily must be executed according to her rule book. After death of my father, most of our relatives stopped to keep in touch with our family. I am not able to handle the situation mentally

    • @ntnblr
      @ntnblr Před měsícem

      Give some moral books to read

  • @Cat-es9rq
    @Cat-es9rq Před 4 měsíci +13

    It's hard when this toxic person is your husband. I'm so done with all the lying, cheating, manipulation and gaslighting! On my way to family court after 1 year of marriage, but been together only for 2 months.

  • @sivabhaskarreddy3529
    @sivabhaskarreddy3529 Před 4 měsíci +42

    Madam, Thank you for your useful advice. From my experience of more than four decades, concentrating on the Almighty GOD is the best path, best medicine & the best solution to almost any problem.

  • @enigmalemos9424
    @enigmalemos9424 Před 4 měsíci +26

    Dont trust anyone.but god .rest things are temporary.thank u madam

  • @akkinenilakshmisai661
    @akkinenilakshmisai661 Před 5 měsíci +61

    Mam really i felt very happy because yesterday only i faced these problem actually im staying in pg yesterday one friend fought with me because of some other reasons so from yesterday im felling very sad and even im not able to concentrate on my work but after watching these video i felt like my mom is telling all these things Thank you so much madam 🙏🏻💗i felt her as my friend mam but i dont know wt happened to her yesterday she scolded me and i was really shocked and even i cried a lot and even now when im writing these comment also im crying but its ok now i understand her true colours so from now i wont think about her 😢😢

    • @devikabhatnagar
      @devikabhatnagar  Před 5 měsíci +45

      Don't be sensitive, be rough & tough to handle such incidents.
      Deviate your mind & focus on your tagets. 🙌

    • @haripriyam9577
      @haripriyam9577 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Thanku mam

    • @akkinenilakshmisai661
      @akkinenilakshmisai661 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@devikabhatnagar Ok mam Thank you so much 🥺🙏🏻for replying to my comment

    • @manoharikankanamage5949
      @manoharikankanamage5949 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Thank you for advising

    • @breakthroughmoment1647
      @breakthroughmoment1647 Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@akkinenilakshmisai661 I can totally relate to your story. Same thing happened to me with a work colleague a long time ago (and sometimes I still think back to that time wondering why she did a 180). She scolded me and called me a name, and I was SHOCKED because she had always been so gentle and kind and even-tempered. I ruminated about it thinking what did I say? What did I do to trigger her like that? From that day on, we still spoke, but I was much more guarded. According to this video, I should have just erased it from my mind and kept a calm mind. I’m so grateful to have this information now. Peace & Blessings.

  • @vk274
    @vk274 Před 4 měsíci +36

    I am 💯% in agreement with your advice. I came to the same conclusions after 65 years of life experiences. I could have saved many years of troubled life if I had formal training in identifying and avoiding toxic people. 🙏

    • @user-dw1rj5sn5l
      @user-dw1rj5sn5l Před 4 měsíci +2

      I also suffered 65 year . Every time I used to blame myself , I should hv not done this things could hv been better . It affected my physical n mental condition .

    • @naziyavempalle7886
      @naziyavempalle7886 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Same ..I suffered a lot with toxic people ..now I aware of

    • @banoomakoojina641
      @banoomakoojina641 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Thank you❤

  • @comfortsarebadteachersofli4020
    @comfortsarebadteachersofli4020 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Do not get hurt ( be happy that you recognized who they really are), be busy with better things and focus on people who love you. Don’t trust everyone but respect everybody (for peace of mind)

  • @nagalakshmi6804
    @nagalakshmi6804 Před 4 měsíci +17

    Madam
    आप तो एक मां की तरह हमें अच्छी बातों को शिखा देती हैं। God bless you .

  • @user-pi2fk8hn5f
    @user-pi2fk8hn5f Před 2 měsíci +6

    Why didn't i watch this video long back. I needed it so much. I am a very emotional, sensitive and helpful person. I got hurt many times. Now i have changed myself to stay away from all toxic people. I have only good people now. I lost weight due to too much thinking about them. Now iam focussing on my career and hobbies. So peaceful life iam living now.

  • @samualsata2442
    @samualsata2442 Před 4 měsíci +44

    It’s extremely hard to deal with close relatives manipulative, can’t go away from them

    • @aksharayadav6916
      @aksharayadav6916 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Yeah, some people are defenceless, some people are voiceless.....whereas some are senseless, creepy. Such creepy people exist even in some powerful positions.

    • @wisemanadvices9541
      @wisemanadvices9541 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Go No Contact. Learn about Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

    • @seetahariharan4089
      @seetahariharan4089 Před 3 měsíci +1

      True... Impossible to react because lived ones will be hurt... And difficult bto tolerate.. They make us go mad with their talks and thoughts.. We don't give it back to them because of our upbringing and education.

    • @wisemanadvices9541
      @wisemanadvices9541 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@seetahariharan4089 Learn to stand for yourself. Internally don't get triggered,Just leave them. When you are in a toxic relationship, To leave the relationship becomes your dharma, because then only your soul will fulfill its true objective and live up to its true potential.

    • @mnayak9348
      @mnayak9348 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Toxic everywhere , don’t runaway but since it has worst consequences if u break then best is ignore and pay attention to your health and carrier, respect everyone no matter how bad they behave . But you do right thing and ignore others anger and dominant , ego behavior. Go up above and blossom like lotus . It will not make any difference in you decide how others behave.

  • @rooparoopa-xz9vj
    @rooparoopa-xz9vj Před 4 měsíci +24

    As u said majority in the society we can see only negative self centered people around us. Their hearts r filled with jealousy. If something's beautiful in others then they can't take it. Im experiencing & trying ro avoid negative ones.
    Thanks for your advice. Fod bless you & your family ❤

  • @Blueberry-111jk
    @Blueberry-111jk Před 2 měsíci +10

    Best way to observe people is to see .....how they treat others...specially thier parents......any animals and poor people......how they thinks about others

    • @sculpordwarf3872
      @sculpordwarf3872 Před 2 měsíci

      Seen a man treat his wife like a queen, spend loads of money on their pet dog, and then treat his own old parents like Trash 🗑️🙄

    • @Blueberry-111jk
      @Blueberry-111jk Před 2 měsíci

      @@sculpordwarf3872 if he treats his parents poorly then he is toxic .....thats what u have to observe ....

  • @suruchis.5351
    @suruchis.5351 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Truly speaking, societies are filled up with cunning and toxic people.we should always keep this thought in our mind.

  • @tilwani3003
    @tilwani3003 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I recently overcomed one toxic frnd in same way but yes initial days I was very hurt .. sooner or later I am glad I saw ur video. I love u mam

  • @KaushikChatterjee-jg6fu
    @KaushikChatterjee-jg6fu Před 4 měsíci +19

    Liked it very much। Toxicity is increasing so fast that the others are feeling stifled

  • @roshankarna1954
    @roshankarna1954 Před 2 měsíci +10

    Cunning and toxic people are most paapi and karma returns to them, they become ill or meet accident after some time

  • @mamtasharma8710
    @mamtasharma8710 Před 5 měsíci +22

    When people hurt me i disturb my mental health, always think about them and spoil my work also but now after watching ur video will stop doing it..😊

  • @KhalidKhan-hu4qi
    @KhalidKhan-hu4qi Před 3 měsíci +3

    In my career, most of colleagues(new joinees) tried to degrade my work, tried to manipulate my thought process by pointing out my mistakes to compete me. Unfortunately they succeeded and got the promotion. Results of being nice guy in office.

    • @devikabhatnagar
      @devikabhatnagar  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Don't worry, but remember always be alert with those guys & need to be smart in this competitive world.
      Past is lesson, good luck 👍🙌

  • @ramunidamarthy768
    @ramunidamarthy768 Před měsícem +1

    No ENEMITY, No FRIENDLY............... Excellent to manage TOXIC individuals. 👋👋👋🌹

  • @jyothiyagnik1894
    @jyothiyagnik1894 Před 4 měsíci +17

    I must try this definitely madam.. Neighbors, n in laws r very jealous and dnt like growth of a woman.. Causing my brain to overthink and looks like il fall sick because of them only.

  • @SoSweetKitchenByBhartiSharma
    @SoSweetKitchenByBhartiSharma Před 5 měsíci +9

    धन्यवाद मैडम इतने जरूरी विषय पर आपने इतनी अच्छी तरह समझाया 🙏पिछले दो दिन से मैं इसी बात को लेकर बहुत परेशान थी यहां तक कि कल तो मैं बहुत रोई हूं कुछ लोगों के व्यवहार को लेकर पर फिर मेडिटेशन किया और खुद को समझाया कि ऐसे लोगों के लिए परेशान नहीं होना जिनको हमारी कद्र नहीं है।
    आज आपका बातें सुनी और अब मैं सिर्फ़ और सिर्फ़ अपने शौक, अपने काम पर ही अपना 100% लगा दूंगी।

  • @anthonynoronha7636
    @anthonynoronha7636 Před měsícem +3

    Thank you for sharing these wonderful tips about handling toxic people. In my life, I trusted people blindly and I would open up to anyone or everyone. Now I understood my consequences, May God Bless You, Devika Madam. This is Anthony from Mumbai.

  • @dr.priyankagupta
    @dr.priyankagupta Před 13 dny +1

    Use your mind not your heart ! It's difficult bur just a little mindfulness can make you well equipped to deal with those toxic people and their agenda...
    Best way is to have a purpose mentor who can fill your mind with all goodness and value 😊

  • @ocean_1812
    @ocean_1812 Před 17 dny +1

    What she said is very true. Everyday I try to do this. Thank you so much madam
    Greetings from Sri Lanka ❤

  • @shreedevisdinesh5207
    @shreedevisdinesh5207 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Dear ma'am,
    I am working under a person who is a narcissist.
    Two decades of honest service, best professional award but now facing this toxic person sitting at the helm holds a personal vengeance towards me. He is Deliberately harassing and a kind of rude gesture. Don't feel like working at all. He has killed the spirit of working.
    Yes, some of your points are relevant and I am already following it. It is indeed worth listening.
    Thank you.

    • @devikabhatnagar
      @devikabhatnagar  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Don't worry. Handle it carefully & smartly👍🙌

  • @Sandhuji.
    @Sandhuji. Před 5 měsíci +7

    Thanku mam, Mai hairaan ho k mai kaise aap ki sari bate smj jati ho.kyo k muje to english proper aati nhi hai, aap buht aaraam se aur easy words me smjati hai. Buht ashi baatein kahi aap ne, Thx again.

  • @pratapagadi7219
    @pratapagadi7219 Před 4 měsíci +32

    I guess every viewer of this video come under those 5%.

    • @Mystory4473
      @Mystory4473 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes ... that's why

    • @nitinsomanathan88
      @nitinsomanathan88 Před 2 měsíci +1

      There may be range of toxicity aswell. So even the toxic people might find others toxic who might be more toxic.

    • @leenanande8345
      @leenanande8345 Před měsícem

      😂😂

    • @ncs7836
      @ncs7836 Před měsícem

      Not all, only those who continue to watch after first 30 seconds. Those who are cunning, they will just look at the title and not open at all or even if they open they will not stay beyond 30 seconds

  • @leenajoshi1341
    @leenajoshi1341 Před 4 měsíci +3

    U r a humble soul n teacher should b like u only

  • @Nikhitha91478
    @Nikhitha91478 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Mam listening to your words we feel like listen to mom , like feeling coming amma❤😊☺️☺️🥰🤗🙂😌😊🤗

  • @pranitashinde6811
    @pranitashinde6811 Před 5 měsíci +11

    very important subject.thanks

  • @ShikhaSingh-fx2so
    @ShikhaSingh-fx2so Před 4 měsíci +12

    How sweetly you have explained the scenarios, practice to live life 😊.
    Much love 💕 n thanks 🙏

  • @Maximus_xoxo
    @Maximus_xoxo Před 3 měsíci +2

    I agree with you ma'am. I am having lots of mental breakdown in my work place because of some people which I really wanted to get out of my mental head, because of this my carrier is not growing and struggle a lot to finish what I have started, now a days people including the boss ghosted me. I pray to God to help me to get over this situations and move forward in life happily and successfully. I hope, God listen to my prayer so I stumble upon your video. Now I have full confidence that i will move forward in life happily and successfully. Thank you.

  • @singhvivek11
    @singhvivek11 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Really appreciate your wisdom...my 36yrs of experience matches ur wisdom...thank u mam.

  • @mr37562
    @mr37562 Před 5 měsíci +14

    Very Informative video...I want to ask to you...How to protect yourself from toxic people when they are continuously harming you in all kind of ways

  • @dasa3000
    @dasa3000 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Wonderful video.
    What you mentioned happened repeatedly to me and it took lot of time and anguish before I eventually decided to keep distance from such people and not to have any good expectations at all from them. Not very easy to get such a realisation in our mind specially if the issue relates to close family but we have to be firm that our peace of mind is more important than anything else in our life.

  • @premapathak1513
    @premapathak1513 Před 4 měsíci +3

    This video will helping many many people, who are very honest ,senstive n helpfull 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @mallika4525
    @mallika4525 Před 4 měsíci +8

    After acouple of bitter experiences..I have started to adopt ur method..it really really helps..

  • @vidyascooking.5256
    @vidyascooking.5256 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thanks mam. This is what now I am doing.this video is like a revision of what happened and what I am doing. With God's grace I am good. Trust in God and Trust in your self.

  • @sheyf7562
    @sheyf7562 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Hi Doctor. Thanks for these great tips and advice. Much appreciated. Don't know how the video referred me here. But I'm thankful. Not an Indian origin, but I got this same experience with an Indian friend, which really hurt. The same thing as you explained happened, and now he's ignoring and replies in a blunt way. Unfortunately for the trust that the person gave to me, I opened too much which I'm regretting but as you said, yes now I'm in the healing journey as I can't show any arrogance to the party.

  • @animetsystudio9841
    @animetsystudio9841 Před 2 měsíci +3

    These people are called as narcissist who are worst to even encounter. They will go so low beyond our imagination and will ruin our life. What important is how to learn to heal from them and set very strong boundaries they can be your close ones (any family member or friend)

  • @angelaandalvina9648
    @angelaandalvina9648 Před 5 měsíci +8

    You are so sweet Mam instead of listening to you I see your charming face because my face is having black spot I feel my face should be like yours Thank you so much God bless you 🙏❤

  • @mistersaffron
    @mistersaffron Před 4 měsíci +5

    All we need is just good company, be nice to each other. Once you vibe with the right person, take it to the next level. Touch is very important to connect with people. A pat on the back, a hug or a simple "How are you, did you eat?" For the last hundreds of years, people have forgotten all this & all they dream of is just materialistic things. If you take a step forward and express your niceness genuinely, others think that you are weak. Seriously fed up of all this but such is life. At least we all die alone anyways so no point in socializing when you are alive.

    • @Blueberry-111jk
      @Blueberry-111jk Před 2 měsíci +1

      Only toxic people will think kindness as weakness........and do we care about toxic people.....not at all ........care about good people......they won't take your kindness for granted

    • @davisvincent3247
      @davisvincent3247 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@Blueberry-111jk I have always cared about people thinking they are good, however they turned out to be bad

  • @bhartipatnaik
    @bhartipatnaik Před 3 měsíci +5

    Hi ! Mam, This video actually helped me in dealing with certain issues I am facing in my life.
    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @dineshidias8927
    @dineshidias8927 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you Dr. Devika for giving solutions to a real problem. Many people only can identify the problem but are lost when looking for a way out. I would love to hear more from you.

  • @ajitramachanddran4754
    @ajitramachanddran4754 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Grateful thanks ❤for your practical guidance. God bless.

  • @falguniwaghela4208
    @falguniwaghela4208 Před 5 měsíci +8

    Thank you for your support. Please make more such video on handling people because these is also a kind of disease which can be cured with your guidance❤

  • @jitendrakumar-nd9oj
    @jitendrakumar-nd9oj Před 3 měsíci

    After listening this beautiful lady with sweet voice my mind is free from toxic thoughts and now feeling amazing and more strong❤

  • @neelapraveen2002
    @neelapraveen2002 Před 3 měsíci +3

    This is a very very important message needed for this generation. Thank you for sharing. All this comes only with experience.

  • @pradnyalanke9659
    @pradnyalanke9659 Před 5 měsíci +3

    You are so nice mam just like a mother n guide to us in todays social media world it is very imp how to behave n how much connect with people Thanku mam❤

  • @reemachakravorty0l
    @reemachakravorty0l Před 5 měsíci +6

    Ma'am really very nice video in today's world the way u have explained is so real , really needed this kind of advice thank you souch and God bless you ❤

  • @asmath5564
    @asmath5564 Před 2 měsíci

    Madam,
    The way you speak is soothing to listening without any exaggeration. You speak as if though others may be toxic, but we should never lose our goodness, facing the trouble but with win win attitude. Good to hear with simplicity. Thank you

  • @vijaymundane3776
    @vijaymundane3776 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Thanks for advise madam.I think best way is focus on ur own personal work which u can do in ur solitude. Introvert and uncommunicative person becomes victim of office politics.

  • @dineshkalavagunta4682
    @dineshkalavagunta4682 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Thank you so much అమ్మ

  • @nehagrover4025
    @nehagrover4025 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Thank you so much for guiding us ma'am... the world is full of toxic people... now they will not disturb our life... Thank you once again..

  • @navinar9623
    @navinar9623 Před 4 měsíci +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏maam U are God for your observations. 95% of ppl are like this and family and friends...and only if you are blessed you meet that 5% good souls!

  • @yangerpongen7286
    @yangerpongen7286 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wow wow wow ma'am you nailed it.....thank you for the lesson... It's very important lesson in our daily life...🙏🙏🙏

  • @shaikraziyabegum9565
    @shaikraziyabegum9565 Před 4 měsíci +4

    This is precious to everyone 🙏

  • @Vaa195
    @Vaa195 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Thank u so much mam. I am facing toxic people & had trouble in handling them. I feel very relaxed now. Plz make a video on how to handle these toxic people if they keep on taking revenge on us in different ways.

    • @Anika0970
      @Anika0970 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Just ignore n focus more on u self development n spend more time on u r health n exercise.have a hobby n work on it daily.

  • @AlishaPocketStories
    @AlishaPocketStories Před 4 měsíci +4

    Very good lessons we get from you Mam.
    Many many thanks to showing right path and help us to recognise the cunning and toxic people

  • @prakashvemula8534
    @prakashvemula8534 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Great video. Though there are many such people around us, playing with our mind/ irritating us, no one is making meaningful videos on the topic. Thank you, ma'am

  • @moumitasaha1886
    @moumitasaha1886 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Wonderful expression just like my mother.Mind impressed comments

  • @queensunaina9276
    @queensunaina9276 Před 14 dny +1

    You are so sweet Dear Dr devika bhatnagar 🥰and you are doing Such a nice Job....👏💯 God bless you.....👍🤗

  • @user-fw9jl6zf7p
    @user-fw9jl6zf7p Před 2 měsíci +1

    You are cent percent right mam.Despite education people become toxic a lot due to their vested interest.People must be educated by souls for being genuine and honest.I am great ful to your exploration mam

  • @vinithasanjeev6873
    @vinithasanjeev6873 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Wonderful message Ma'am.. Thank you so much 🙏🏼

  • @chanakyachinna4317
    @chanakyachinna4317 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Your words and voice are working like medicine for me

  • @SuperMahification
    @SuperMahification Před 4 měsíci +1

    absolutely correct more than 95%. each and every step in our daily life.

  • @mitulshivyogi380
    @mitulshivyogi380 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thankyou,Maam,You explained so well,it's true ,almost everyone is corrupt in this Kalyug......so true .......really positive talks

  • @bgopalrao1154
    @bgopalrao1154 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I relaxed with your words mam. I have bitter incident but now okay.. Thank you lot

  • @wmandapalliyernamma4857
    @wmandapalliyernamma4857 Před 5 měsíci +5

    thank you so much mam for telling like this you are telling like my mother nice to hear you mam

  • @radhad4040
    @radhad4040 Před 4 měsíci

    Your suggestions are100% right. Ur video is worth-sharing. Thanks a lot❤

  • @mchitra2165
    @mchitra2165 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Very nicely said madam. I will share this with my daughter who is 23 years old and is sometimes upset in the company of toxic Freinds.❤

  • @sandhyaranisatapathy9319
    @sandhyaranisatapathy9319 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Namaskar.Your videos are always useful to me mama ,pl continue posting new videos

  • @drsehque
    @drsehque Před 3 měsíci +2

    Around me everyone is toxic ... Especially my sister in law . 😅 Very very true !!

    • @devikabhatnagar
      @devikabhatnagar  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Don't worry, try to handle the situation.
      Be cool always & don't give space in your mind for such people 🙌

  • @neelamsamarth1164
    @neelamsamarth1164 Před 4 měsíci +1

    So nice guidance Ma'am... After listening this video I am trying to train my mind. You truly said that sometimes they are our siblings also

  • @VDhanush
    @VDhanush Před 5 měsíci +5

    I felt what you said is absolutely true mam. Your Mantra is really the need of the hour. All Indians are brothers and sisters. We should respect and help each other, but at the same time we need to be maintaining decorum and limits of depth in any relation except that of parent-child relation.
    That's why our elders say: Matra Devo Bhava, Pitru Devo Bhava, Acharya Devo Bhava, and then God. Only these 4 entities are our true well-wishers. Jai Hind mam

  • @subajajulie2534
    @subajajulie2534 Před 4 měsíci +3

    It's very good talk, what you have sald it's true, thank you so much.

  • @SamWalker0001
    @SamWalker0001 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Absolutely my God ma'am you spotted our real problem, and litterly solved our problem's.😂🎉

  • @atulseye
    @atulseye Před 3 měsíci

    You are divine. You give the power of healing

  • @shivanipatel4369
    @shivanipatel4369 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thank you! ❤

  • @sandhyaavinash3173
    @sandhyaavinash3173 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thanks maam for nice video. You have reduced my anxiety ❤

  • @HeavenlyMilestones
    @HeavenlyMilestones Před 3 měsíci

    You are so right!! Thank you so much for sharing this....I have a colleague who keeps on spreading negative things about me and during one meeting she was so aggressive and rude ..and left three times and entered back in that meeting...and was asking me why you want to make peace?...why you want to be the great Mother Teressa always...I am still recovering from negativity of that person..

  • @hemahari240
    @hemahari240 Před měsícem

    Your words are really empowering. I was very empathetic. My own family members took me for granted.
    Now i understand how to deal.
    Thank you so much for sharing

  • @Myviews2007
    @Myviews2007 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Yes I hve learnt my lesson madam.

  • @bvkusuma6369
    @bvkusuma6369 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Hello Mam, Really Mam this video helped me a lot. MY mother & my siblings their mind always fluctuate. NOW I am 50. My kids r grown.. I am unable to bear.

    • @samualsata2442
      @samualsata2442 Před 4 měsíci

      How do you handle them. I have been experiencing no matter how much I do for grand kids, help them physically as much as I can. But they manipulate and lies lot. I m extremely tired

    • @sandhyashastry2741
      @sandhyashastry2741 Před 3 měsíci

      Hello mam, from my childhood I tried to be too honest, my daughter only like this, not she is 20 who hurts me lot, always fighting and ego, arrogant, I only should always bend, what to do, my mother and sister are same like her only, when ever I scold my daughter she go to there house, so i can't open my mouth at all, just tolerating, my husband is good person.. We both facing lots by this, please reply

    • @SY27196
      @SY27196 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@sandhyashastry2741pls look into source of problem! Is it difference of opinion or a personality disorder
      Also never let others pamper your kids particular when they do something wrong !
      Consult a psychologist and see if counseling helps

  • @see2saw
    @see2saw Před měsícem +2

    I ignored her and was so relieved..so peaceful now..

  • @richardk9700
    @richardk9700 Před 2 měsíci +1

    👏Thankyou Devika -Ji for Sharing your BLESSINGS to the World. These are Real-issues faced in a Human Life. GOD🙏Bless You, Family & work each New-Day.🇮🇳👍😀

  • @SuperMahification
    @SuperMahification Před 4 měsíci +2

    what about if we have toxic husband who doesn’t understand you and know that we are getting hurt but still they continue to do the same?