How To Deal With Toxic People? Gaur Gopal Das

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  • čas přidán 29. 12. 2018
  • A young employee once approached the HR Head to discuss his decision to quit because of toxic people, politics and negative talks in the organization. Would a change of job or change of situation help? The HR Head asked him to do one last thing before he would quit, which changed his decision.
    About Gaur Gopal Das
    Gaur Gopal Das is an Electrical Engineer, having studied at the College Of Engineering, Pune. He has been speaking at various prestigious academic institutions and corporate firms in India and abroad for over 2 decades and has even spoken at the United Nations & British Parliament. He has spoken at many charity events to raise funds for social initiatives in the field of education and rural development. His motivational videos are viral having reached around 1 Billion views. With over 13 million followers across all social media platforms, he is known as the urban, online monk.
    He has been the recipient of several awards including the most prestigious Dadasaheb Phalke International Film Festival award, Lokmat’s most stylish international life coach award, an Honorary Doctorate by KIIT university and many more in recognition of the work he has been doing. Based on the timeless wisdom coming down from ages, his talks make the audience think deeper and find simple solutions to difficult problems.
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Komentáře • 6K

  • @aindrilaghosh7944
    @aindrilaghosh7944 Před 3 lety +3357

    When this toxic is within family, it's very difficult to ignore.

  • @levolevo5369
    @levolevo5369 Před 4 lety +2874

    Toxic people support you when you do things according to their likes, they start criticizing you when you don't

  • @saunaknandi1814
    @saunaknandi1814 Před 2 lety +681

    Point to remember - " When you focus on your priorities
    You dont Have the time to see all the dramas around you,
    the mistakes of other, gossip and the negativity "

    • @ranii2303
      @ranii2303 Před 2 lety +3

      Agree

    • @sathyaanoop
      @sathyaanoop Před rokem

      True

    • @shivangisharma8410
      @shivangisharma8410 Před rokem +8

      Ya I agree to some extent but what if they target you , bully you and makes fun of you due to jealousy or envy or hatred whatever so you name it 😬

    • @gritskennedy5007
      @gritskennedy5007 Před rokem +2

      ​@@shivangisharma8410 if you are being targeted bullied and harassed you should immediately report this to human resources and make police reports if at home if at school see the school Dean or Principal because this act of bullying and targeting is illegal and no matter what your age is a crime and should be reported and documented to hold accountable and to list clearly the event and persons committing such a disgusting attention seeking game played by the mentally deficient and insecure jealous individuals if on the internet that is called cyber bullying and should be screenshots and report to local authorities who also will take report and get you in touch with the federal telecommunications and global internet department and they will make reports investigate and possibly prosecute depending on all the facts MOST IMPORTANTLY REMEMBER THIS IS ABOUT THEM BEING INSECURE JEALOUS OR ATTENTION SEEKING TO GAIN APPROVAL OF PEERS AND TRUTH IS THEY ARE TERRIFIED NO ONE WILL ACCEPT THEM SO THEY DO EVERYTHING THEY CAN TO FIND SOMEONE THEY CAN MAKE THE TARGET SO IT ISNT THEM. REPORT THIS THEY ARE UNSTABLE MENTALLY AND YOU DONT HAVE TIME OR THE EXTENSIVE PSYCHIATRY EXPERIENCE TO SORT OUT THEIR PLETHERA OF MENTAL ISSUES AND INNER CONFLICTS JUST DONT EVEN LOOK AT THEM OR IF U DO SAY LOOK I DONT EVEN KNOW YOU AND YOU ARE OBSESSED WITH ME EVERY DAY YOU STARE AT ME ALL DAY LONG AND BECAUSE I DONT ENJOY YOU CONSTANTLY WATCHING ME EVERY MINUTE EVERY DAY YOU GET ANGRY AND DO THE SAME THING START SAYING INSULTING THINGS TO ME BECUZ U HAVE BEEN REJECTED IM NOT INTERESTED IN ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP WITH U SO PLEASE STOP STALKING ME IVE ALREADY MADE A POLICE REPORT OR IVE ALREADY REPORTED THIS TO HUMAN TESOURCES OR IVE ALREADY REPORTED THIS TO THE SCHOOL DEAN OF DISCIPLINE AND THE SCHOOL DISTRICT ..AND remember they are trying to make u feel as bad as they feel about themselves it's a pity feel sorry for their mental deficiencies get counseling and never keep it to yourself

    • @paredbhi
      @paredbhi Před rokem

      See those toxic people even bully me every time but I remember that this is just a part of life not the whole people will let u down until u down yourself work on yourself leave them or just I can say ignore
      Maybe keep a little distance
      Because I hear somewhere that krishna said
      Jo accha lagta hai usse karo aur no nahi usse bhool jayo chahe vo thinking , Karma , people

  • @JyotiSingh007
    @JyotiSingh007 Před 10 měsíci +65

    It’s a beautiful lesson. It is also advisable to just get tf out of the toxicity and find better people instead of putting unrealistic pressure on yourself. There are better people, trust me. Choose your peace ☮️

    • @DesipetsoIndia
      @DesipetsoIndia Před 5 měsíci +1

      I think this is the best and only solution

    • @SindhuBuddhavarapu
      @SindhuBuddhavarapu Před 3 měsíci +1

      So well said. I think this is the best solution for people who JUST REFUSE to change even after repeated attempts. Putting undue pressure on ourselves to act correctly even when others around us are acting wrong, and to react properly even when others around us are giving us constant negativity, is EXTREMELY difficult and maybe.. might even affect our health in the long run.

    • @pandawalker404
      @pandawalker404 Před 7 dny

      Most of the time, people who think others as toxic are toxic themselves. Learn to be self satisfied and calm even in solitude, others' opinions wont matter anymore

  • @NishiSingh22
    @NishiSingh22 Před 4 lety +4732

    Toxic people are everywhere even in family. This formula can be applied there also.

    • @aishwaryadharmik9873
      @aishwaryadharmik9873 Před 4 lety +444

      But what if a toxic member of your family put their nose in your every work and you can't stop them and Their behavior's effects on your life

    • @sweetydal3723
      @sweetydal3723 Před 4 lety +162

      Yes I have one in my family. I ruined my life bcoz of her

    • @sweetydal3723
      @sweetydal3723 Před 4 lety +193

      @@aishwaryadharmik9873 yes people have become so dangerous they use their brain too much to bring you down

    • @aishwaryadharmik9873
      @aishwaryadharmik9873 Před 4 lety +79

      @@sweetydal3723 whole family has to suffer because of this 😑😑😑

    • @lakshmi9432
      @lakshmi9432 Před 4 lety +178

      The sad truth is every one believe toxic people rather honest people

  • @menonksa
    @menonksa Před 3 lety +1627

    I have one more thing to add here; make sure you are not that toxic person for others.

    • @hemlataponnada
      @hemlataponnada Před 3 lety +12

      True !

    • @yugabharathi6447
      @yugabharathi6447 Před 3 lety +12

      Definitely I won't ☺️

    • @menonksa
      @menonksa Před 3 lety +19

      @@yugabharathi6447 If every person makes sure of that then there are no toxic people but unfortunately, the human world is always toxic if we look back 6000 years it is the same.

    • @yugabharathi6447
      @yugabharathi6447 Před 3 lety +7

      @@menonksa Just got bullied in college 1st day ,tats y came here tho

    • @menonksa
      @menonksa Před 3 lety +8

      @@yugabharathi6447 Oh! - we are born into a toxic world but you seem to be a positive person so no worries I'm sure you will overcome it!

  • @PriyankaSingh-or6sr
    @PriyankaSingh-or6sr Před 2 lety +115

    There is only positive and helping people in my life, especially in my family.I live in joint family and I am very thankful to God for giving me such a amazing family.

  • @shabnam_khalid2684
    @shabnam_khalid2684 Před 2 lety +26

    You just left me speechless and a sudden smile appeared on my face when i got the moral.. Thank you 💜

  • @aishwaryadas1122
    @aishwaryadas1122 Před 3 lety +718

    " If you keep your attention focussed on your goal , you will never notice the obstacles and pitfalls along the way . "
    U re great Sir 🙏

    • @user-uq6ic8pw8x
      @user-uq6ic8pw8x Před 2 lety +14

      Well some ppl are determined to put obstacles and snub u down. I think it's not that easy as the video mentions. There is one solution u run away. But if u r inside their toxic approval cycle only God can save u. Easier said than done.

    • @brightstudiosofficial
      @brightstudiosofficial Před rokem

      @@user-uq6ic8pw8x yes I agree 👍

    • @RahulUpadhyay-xj2cw
      @RahulUpadhyay-xj2cw Před rokem +1

      @@user-uq6ic8pw8x yes ignoring is not any solution.

    • @waitforit7696
      @waitforit7696 Před rokem

      I agree, not easy to ignore .What if that person is taking credibility of your work , taking up your work and doing them .Then what is it that you wanna focus now ? Are you going to focus on the toxic guy because that person is eating all your work.Easy to say , difficult to follow. Best is to move out of such situations , run away as quickly as possible .

    • @kalpanabhate9557
      @kalpanabhate9557 Před rokem

      Yes in my office lot of politics is there
      Every one is pulling other legs and lots of other things then how can i focus

  • @shwetaarya7140
    @shwetaarya7140 Před 3 lety +962

    today i realised why guru is necessary in life

  • @gayathrimuraleedharan.5717
    @gayathrimuraleedharan.5717 Před 2 lety +10

    Right time I see this video
    .Everyday I am thinking about how to escape from my frustrated surrounding And toxic people. I can't concentrate on my studies due to alot of negativities around my home. This video is the most appropriate video I ever seen in CZcams. Thankuu soomuch

  • @abstractgirl1971
    @abstractgirl1971 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank u so much!! I was really disturbed Because of toxic people and their comments on social medias. You're absolutely right, I should just focus on the things I love without caring about what others think of that thing!!

  • @Sheetal00723
    @Sheetal00723 Před 4 lety +639

    Toxic ppl will remain toxic, can't change them, rather we should focus on ourselves

    • @sachintendulkar2356
      @sachintendulkar2356 Před 4 lety +30

      They start putting there nose everywhere like a mosquito then?

    • @nimsayaniaable
      @nimsayaniaable Před 4 lety +9

      My boss is toxic.. stuuiuuuuuuuuuuuipid idiot bosss... very stupid.. i wish him bad things

    • @ellejae1821
      @ellejae1821 Před 3 lety +2

      I totally agree with you.

    • @SuperBhavanishankar
      @SuperBhavanishankar Před 3 lety +3

      @@nimsayaniaable i wish you well my friend

    • @TariQ-nx3uz
      @TariQ-nx3uz Před 3 lety +4

      Or change the toxic environment....

  • @Tammy-SophisticatedGlamGurls

    I learned how to deal with TOXIC PEOPLE, I don't deal with them. I say a prayer and keep it moving. The best remedy for them is to leave them alone. run

    • @winnieamar9368
      @winnieamar9368 Před 3 lety +24

      The best way to deal with toxic people is to leave their play ground,don't play.

    • @Jam.S.
      @Jam.S. Před 3 lety +6

      This is impractical and doesn't look at any effects a toxic workplace can do to a very intelligent and focus oriented people.
      Haven't you come across situations where you were minding your own business but a jealous coworker still tried to ruin it or outsmart you in wrong way?
      So in this example, if someone purposely came and hit you to have that glass of water spill on you or even worse push you with that water on your boss.
      That's real toxic workplace and the approach he is suggesting here won't work at all. May be only if you are not human but a robot then this approach would work for you.
      Think guys! Stay Human!
      Corporate toxicity is real

    • @junior29557
      @junior29557 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Jam.S. true that.

    • @tj-ny4dh
      @tj-ny4dh Před 2 lety

      @@Jam.S. happened to me

  • @ruchijain9662
    @ruchijain9662 Před rokem +1

    A big THANKYOU GURUJI . I was really affected by the negative behaviour of my colleagues .This video made me cry. My work is my focus and my worship too. Thanks again for this great help.

  • @nilighosh158
    @nilighosh158 Před rokem +6

    Thank you. Dealing with toxic people is something we all have to confront in our lives at one point or another. Narcissists, manipulators and those wallowing in self pity are just a few examples. Toxic people always find a way of worming their way into people's lives. Often they apply a divide and conquer strategy.

  • @alpharohann
    @alpharohann Před 3 lety +782

    If toxic people are in family. It affects a lot I mean a lot.

    • @kamrun2918
      @kamrun2918 Před 3 lety +37

      agree with you...me too suffering

    • @sonaligharat2149
      @sonaligharat2149 Před 3 lety +16

      Think plus points about every family members. Change your thoughts about them situation will change automatically.

    • @surajprakashthakkar1672
      @surajprakashthakkar1672 Před 3 lety +3

      Yes... Agreed

    • @akshitatiwari1891
      @akshitatiwari1891 Před 3 lety +67

      @@sonaligharat2149 this is only possible in talks...
      when u r regulary tortured u dont even know how does it feels??;

    • @akankshaakanksha9450
      @akankshaakanksha9450 Před 3 lety +19

      Same Here.Not A Day Passes When I Don't Feel Lyk Quitting😰😢

  • @ishitadey5101
    @ishitadey5101 Před 3 lety +312

    Most of the time the intolerable toxic people are in the family for whom the utmost goal in their life is to destroy you inner PEACE

    • @yujibestboi
      @yujibestboi Před 2 lety +11

      Exactly

    • @Chapa24.
      @Chapa24. Před 2 lety +19

      I found this video while searching for videos on how to deal with toxic parents.

    • @anupamabogati7646
      @anupamabogati7646 Před 2 lety +2

      True

    • @ureshimataro6624
      @ureshimataro6624 Před 2 lety +10

      It's my mom... I ccant believe

    • @noorayesha9108
      @noorayesha9108 Před 2 lety

      @Neha
      Plz speak to yr mom.....keep yr side then decide
      Rarely v find toxic mothers dear

  • @NimishaKhairnar
    @NimishaKhairnar Před 2 lety +2

    Wowww❤❤❤

  • @mohammedimran-zd3sy
    @mohammedimran-zd3sy Před 2 lety

    Thanks alot guru ji

  • @smysmile5870
    @smysmile5870 Před 5 lety +416

    Such *calmness tranquility and wisdom* in his words. I sleep peacefully every night listening to anyone of his videos.

  • @ankitasinghrajput4024
    @ankitasinghrajput4024 Před 4 lety +230

    I also stay away from toxic people... because I know what I'm doing....I do my work with honesty doesn't matter what people think of me...

    • @vasanthar4533
      @vasanthar4533 Před 4 lety +13

      Absolutely I too keep myself away as much as possible..but still somewhere somehow I do get disturbed why people behave like this..why can't I be like them..then again I tell myself this is what I am .. unique special in my own way,I don't need anyone's opinions as long as am true to myself.

    • @nimsayaniaable
      @nimsayaniaable Před 4 lety +4

      How about boss believe other peoples gossip about us n blame us n put so much negativity on me n say i am bad... it hurts so bad

    • @atharvak6459
      @atharvak6459 Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/huGMsGGIzBc/video.html best video

    • @ankitasinghrajput4024
      @ankitasinghrajput4024 Před 3 lety +3

      @@nimsayaniaable yeah but self love is the best medicine for all these rubbish gossip 🤗

    • @Travelmoments
      @Travelmoments Před 3 lety +5

      work need to be done with honesty. But such people is really everywhere and hard to manage and they only put you down by complaining about you.

  • @babakazi2760
    @babakazi2760 Před 2 lety +2

    This is the best lesson bcoz the main reason of failure and negativity is 'log kya kahenge'

  • @mist3314
    @mist3314 Před 2 lety

    Am almost crying, this words of wisdom are insane. It touched my heart with pain, thank u so much dear teacher

  • @nikkeepriya258
    @nikkeepriya258 Před 3 lety +524

    Toxic people will criticize you more when they don't want you to achieve your goals. Some people will demotivate you because they think that you can achieve whatever you want but they can't. So we must take that as a compliment.

    • @Burningtissue786
      @Burningtissue786 Před 3 lety

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    • @invisibleperson-cy3uf
      @invisibleperson-cy3uf Před 3 lety +1

      👍

    • @hanupawandwivedi6613
      @hanupawandwivedi6613 Před 3 lety +1

      Truee

    • @bhavanabmbhanu8326
      @bhavanabmbhanu8326 Před 3 lety +8

      It's absolutely a test of our patience 👍👍
      There is a saying by our Master
      If a situation is avoidable -walk out of it
      If it is unavoidable-tolerate it
      Let's not misinterpret here
      This really strengthens us ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
      Viveka is needed to distinguish these situations and respond accordingly

    • @creativitiesofkareenakbind6852
      @creativitiesofkareenakbind6852 Před 3 lety +5

      You are right main to sirf apni criticize hi sunti hun dusre ke muh se
      ,Sab log mujhme Kamiyan hi nikalte rahte hai ,Aaj v nikala bhut Bura lagta hai dukh is liye nhi hota hai ki wo kamiyan i Nikal rahe hai mujhme balki isliye hota hai kyunki wo log khud Ko secure feel karne ke liye dusro Ko criticize karte hI

  • @seemamishra6711
    @seemamishra6711 Před 3 lety +193

    I seriously don't know how this popped in my recommendation but I just sat furiously thinking about the toxic people I faced just right now. Thank you. A very nice vision.

    • @Burningtissue786
      @Burningtissue786 Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/34taa3RupqU/video.html🌞

    • @marybassit8246
      @marybassit8246 Před 3 měsíci

      Omg this video pop right when I was thinking of quitting a toxic workplace.

  • @lokeshareddy.h9697
    @lokeshareddy.h9697 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks guru ji

  • @AU_Vlogss
    @AU_Vlogss Před rokem +1

    There are many videos to deal with the same issue. But this one is so calm and full of positivity❤️

  • @MusicMustee
    @MusicMustee Před 3 lety +822

    Thanks . I was about to quit my job.

    • @Igotmeforlife_
      @Igotmeforlife_ Před 3 lety +43

      Same.
      I'm so done with my colleagues.
      I work in mnc as software engineer. Here every day people play dirty games. It's difficult to evn get a leave. My team lead treats me as a slave . Sick of this job.

    • @n.c.7641
      @n.c.7641 Před 3 lety +9

      @@Igotmeforlife_ start your own business bro

    • @monalisakumar6010
      @monalisakumar6010 Před 3 lety +2

      Me too.

    • @explorer4587
      @explorer4587 Před 3 lety +4

      Same here.

    • @drrameshshrink
      @drrameshshrink Před 3 lety +11

      Whatever u do, dont take advice from sanyasis. Because you arenot going to be one!
      There are toxic people who dont interfere and who do. Not all understand this. Still the best solution is 'To Let go'.

  • @NatureVlogs77
    @NatureVlogs77 Před 5 lety +249

    2018 is ending with your blessings sir
    Thank you a lot

  • @duttaversedy5124
    @duttaversedy5124 Před 2 lety +1

    Whenever in distress or anxious....
    Whenever lose hope, feel tired...
    Gaur Gopal Das is the last destination to find solutions ❤️ to heal mental injury, to calm the storm of unrest mind ❤️❤️❤️❤️✨✨✨

  • @Logno-says
    @Logno-says Před rokem +3

    Thank you prabhu 🙏
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @neerajarora4920
    @neerajarora4920 Před 4 lety +57

    U are telling Sir , that we should focus on our priorities/job/studies/work .............
    But what I feel is , after a certain period of time or when the line is crossed there is a need to teach all of them a good lesson because , If we didn't not take action then , they will think/take our calmness as our weaknesses . Like in today's world a innocent person is considered as dumb or weak , but actually it's not like that !
    And they form habit to tease us and put there nose in our personal matter , because they know that we are not going to take action .
    So what i feel is , we should ignore toxic people , but when the line is crossed then we should must take action !

    • @winged4924
      @winged4924 Před 3 lety +1

      Well said .

    • @TT-ls1yz
      @TT-ls1yz Před 3 lety +20

      Neeraj.... No. We don't need to take action against toxic people. They are not worth our time and effort. No use to get twined into their drama!
      Instead we must focus on us and rise high like an eagle🦅, these cawing crows trying to fly with us, won't be able to catch up with us as we are flying very high like eagles reaching our goals. They will fall out on their own😃 Also time will teach them the lesson they deserve.
      Saying:👇🏼
      "Being rude is easy, it doesn't take any effort and is a sign of weakness and insecurity. Kindness shows great self discipline and strong self esteem. Being kind is not always easy when dealing with a rude person who destroyed us.
      Kindness is a sign of a person who has done lot of personal work and has come to a great self-understanding and wisdom. Choose to be kind over being right and you will be right everytime because kindness is a sign of STRENGTH"

    • @arinbose6366
      @arinbose6366 Před 3 lety +4

      @@AneeshaRao100 You are correct, the video is telling dont let you inner peace be destroyed by such people.You take action when line is crossed but dont let your inner peace of mind be destroyed.

    • @jibinjose2973
      @jibinjose2973 Před 3 lety

      I am agreed with the fact u mentioned there .If we behave in a holistic manner , certain people think that we r fool.

    • @just4gaming786
      @just4gaming786 Před 3 lety

      Agree 100%

  • @Queenofkitchen
    @Queenofkitchen Před 4 lety +87

    Namaste guruji, when I started my cooking channel on CZcams, everyone at home made fun of me. Everyone discouraged me. But as I had this passion, I wanted to keep up with it. Somehow got everything done well, though in a small amount. But then, they all started discouraging me, by asking how much I earn on CZcams and all other sort of things. I tried explaining, I was not here to earn, but to happily share my recipes, have wonderful friends around me. But again, ended up with all negative response from them. I kept on complaining about all this till now, until I saw this video. Now I know what I have to do. How I have to overcome this. Cannot thank you enough for this eye opening video. Koti koti vandhane guruji 🙏🙏🌸🙏🙏, a big thumbs up to this video.

    • @atharvak6459
      @atharvak6459 Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/huGMsGGIzBc/video.html must watch

    • @ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926
      @ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926 Před 3 lety +3

      Keep it up,please ignore all toxic people and all negative people also,to make sure our own life feels happy and feels enjoyable only.

  • @WorldofLP
    @WorldofLP Před 2 lety +1

    Finally, a much needed advice... This relates to me very much.. I often get bothered by negative talks going around us... I think I need to implement this in my life 🤗

  • @anjalirohra271
    @anjalirohra271 Před 2 lety +2

    Today I was feeling the same and couldn't understand how to handle the situation but this video helped me alot... Thank you so much 🙏🙏

  • @riyatripathi7023
    @riyatripathi7023 Před 3 lety +187

    But unfortunately..it is not that easy as it seems to be...

    • @chinmaykalmankar1404
      @chinmaykalmankar1404 Před 3 lety +13

      You are absolutely true.Toxic people have problem with our ability to focus on priorities.They just want drag you down.

    • @parthvasoya3562
      @parthvasoya3562 Před 3 lety +4

      Yea agree, but as with every other challenge, not impossible 🙂

    • @HimanshuYadav-uw2po
      @HimanshuYadav-uw2po Před 3 lety +14

      Lets change this situation, what if someone tries to hit him so that his water should spill out, then what that guy is supposed to do,
      Thing is we know our priority and we are focused, but what if someone is harming us directly and ruining our work, then its difficult to deal with such people.

    • @karanjokerfromhollywood4041
      @karanjokerfromhollywood4041 Před 3 lety

      Should remember that easily said often comes from hard experience s
      ...the word comes from easy is not be trusted ..but the work you can rely on which comes from the act of hard...😄(correct me where necessary)

    • @avagamah7547
      @avagamah7547 Před 3 lety +1

      It depends on you friend, whether you make it easy or more difficult

  • @ilyashamid7427
    @ilyashamid7427 Před 4 lety +95

    I will always remember about that full glass of water. Thats mind blowing. Thanks Sir

    • @vishalpawar3677
      @vishalpawar3677 Před 4 lety +1

      Ya

    • @vishalpawar3677
      @vishalpawar3677 Před 4 lety +3

      Great inspirational that glass example only

    • @souravsahoo1582
      @souravsahoo1582 Před 3 lety

      That glass don't do anything on your life..stop listening these fake emotional videos.. real world is very critical and full of toxic people

    • @souravsahoo1582
      @souravsahoo1582 Před 3 lety +1

      @KaNaK you are toxic..it's proved by your word..toxic person spotted👍

    • @souravsahoo1582
      @souravsahoo1582 Před 3 lety +1

      @KaNaK i don't need your suggestions..you start it..i don't know you..so don't talk👍

  • @sragdharadey_25
    @sragdharadey_25 Před rokem +41

    I would never know so many people dealing with toxic parents until I saw the comment section😥

  • @YourGirlPratiksha
    @YourGirlPratiksha Před 2 lety +6

    Everytime i feel triggered by the toxic people around me, i listen to this and i find my peace. 🥺 This is my 12th-15th time here and each time i listen to this it makes my thinking more clear and brings me peace. Reminds me of my actual goals and helps get rid of distractions. Thankyou so much for putting this up♥️

    • @deepugeorge2851
      @deepugeorge2851 Před 2 lety +1

      Ya i feel you, why people are interfering in other's life, i have some toxic friends and currently trying to avoiding them, i know it willl not happen suddenly and takes time and the process is hard and it is essential to avoid them to get a good future.

    • @ankushdhawale4628
      @ankushdhawale4628 Před rokem

      i totally removed toxic people from my life deleted blocked ghosted

  • @amitsavran
    @amitsavran Před 3 lety +108

    As a kid we were taught that "a rotten apple spoils the barrel" and now we also learn that when u r too much concentrated into ur own world, u won't see any disturbances.
    Conclusion - life is a puzzle 😓😓

  • @Vaani1023
    @Vaani1023 Před 4 lety +276

    Thanks a lot sir, unfortunately I'm facing this problem, this might be an inspiration to me 🙏😇

  • @sanjoydas_kali4060
    @sanjoydas_kali4060 Před 3 lety

    Thanks Gopal da, as I am also going through this, now with your speech, I will change my goal to success only.

  • @Nivanyarathod
    @Nivanyarathod Před 9 měsíci

    Thanks a lot guru ji...Truee... example 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @paritoshattri672
    @paritoshattri672 Před 3 lety +162

    plot twist:the HR used to be a monk in his teens😂

    • @Burningtissue786
      @Burningtissue786 Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/34taa3RupqU/video.html🌞

    • @doc11sadhana
      @doc11sadhana Před 3 lety +1

      😅😅😅

    • @army_forever3431
      @army_forever3431 Před 3 lety +1

      😂😂😂

    • @britneythao
      @britneythao Před 3 lety +3

      What made him change? Did he deal with toxic people? He should have taken a full glass of water first before quitting his career as a monk😆😆😆

  • @sannygulshetty8741
    @sannygulshetty8741 Před 3 lety +12

    Most toxic people are surrounded in a family and this words changed my view of observing and facing

    • @ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926
      @ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926 Před 3 lety +2

      Please keep avoid all negative people and all toxic people also because they all same like virus that killing ourselves slowly until we died.

  • @pragyamahour4016
    @pragyamahour4016 Před 2 lety +1

    I really needed to hear this, thank you, I the people in my college are so negative, always gossiping and no one is passionate about their work and it really bothers me but after listening to this , I know what I can do

  • @antaraseal1586
    @antaraseal1586 Před 4 lety +340

    What a coincidence Guruji!!! Today some of my toxic relatives have come to our house and tonight I see this video! This must be a cosmic tip for me! 🙏
    Edit- didn't expect so many likes!! Thanks everyone 🤣

  • @sabeer3808
    @sabeer3808 Před 4 lety +24

    I was about to change my job’
    Now I changed my mind
    Thank you 😊

  • @indhumanthena3486
    @indhumanthena3486 Před rokem

    Thankyou guruji

  • @susmitachakraborty2891

    So nicely depicted sir...really we must focus on our priorities and growth only then we will outgrow and overcome all the negativities and toxic people who are there in our own family...there is no scarcity of such people.

  • @rishabcreator
    @rishabcreator Před 3 lety +160

    I am surrounded with toxic people that is making me toxic as well, sometimes i feel like murdering them but bcoz of jail fear i am not doing it 😔

    • @rishabcreator
      @rishabcreator Před 3 lety +8

      @KaNaK ofcourse i can't murder them bcoz of jail thing but i feel like doing that🙏

    • @rupkatha5
      @rupkatha5 Před 3 lety +13

      Nt just you ........every one silent ly murders in mind someone else out of anger anxiety and disgust

    • @pkb8178
      @pkb8178 Před 3 lety +8

      I can understand you brother. You may ignore them. Because, people are weird.

    • @sandhyavijay2299
      @sandhyavijay2299 Před 3 lety +2

      How to ignore. People

    • @Savna06
      @Savna06 Před 3 lety +9

      😂😂😂

  • @that._.1guy732
    @that._.1guy732 Před 3 lety +136

    Whoever watching this video,, can we all Join together and Make our own Toxic free Society?🙃

  • @kiaa459
    @kiaa459 Před 6 dny +1

    When toxicity is within family, within our team, and mainly within ourself, its really tough to deal with 😢

  • @kabitachetri8127
    @kabitachetri8127 Před rokem

    Thanku guru ji . M feeling better now.

  • @ravindradatt9809
    @ravindradatt9809 Před 5 lety +187

    I am just 12 years old but love your lessons guruji you are awesome......

    • @ravimusical6339
      @ravimusical6339 Před 5 lety +5

      I am 15 years old 😒

    • @LEONLOVESMUSIC
      @LEONLOVESMUSIC Před 5 lety +4

      I am 12yrs old and going to be of 13 on March.😊😊😊😊😊

    • @CharleneTupas
      @CharleneTupas Před 5 lety +4

      Keep learning and keep growing! You're doing an awesome job! 😊

    • @ArpitTiwari-nr6sx
      @ArpitTiwari-nr6sx Před 5 lety +10

      You guys are future of country keep up the good things in life

    • @siddhichamat3294
      @siddhichamat3294 Před 5 lety +6

      Congo that u have access to smart phone I didn't have. I'm 18 now

  • @maayavi09
    @maayavi09 Před 3 lety +99

    Nowadays this decade, even parents are more toxic when they don't hear their words after child's wedding life.. they become as if they are third person

    • @priyap6912
      @priyap6912 Před 3 lety

      Such parents should be left in peace, better to talk to third persons for help

    • @kushwanthsai49
      @kushwanthsai49 Před 3 lety +1

      I mean They do love you. It's just wrong ideology. So you should try and forgive them especially if you have been raised for 18 years by them

    • @andrewsonstony7710
      @andrewsonstony7710 Před 3 lety +1

      I am in such a situation and my parents are same like toxic.i think leaving them completely is not possible in india because i tried this but i am not successful.

    • @karishmakarel4126
      @karishmakarel4126 Před 2 lety

      Umm..I seriously don't kno wat situation you are into but I can assure you one thing that sometimes the decisions or words of the parents might be wrong but their intentions are ALWAYS right...they never want to hurt you...and if you feel that they are being toxic...don't so things which will make them more toxic or annoy them...instead of leaving them...you should have taken a positive approach by talking it out or trying to spend some time with your family together...meaning with your parents, siblings, spouse, children...They might be feeling left out or they just want to spend some good time with you guys...be postive and deal with them positively rather than harshly...their ideologies may not be right but always remember that their intentions towards you will NEVER be wrong....They just don't want to lose you...I hope u understand

    • @kushwanthsai49
      @kushwanthsai49 Před 2 lety

      @@karishmakarel4126 yea but I know most of parents aren't bad but some of them might be like example some people's father who has addiction to alcohol.Few of them might be wrong but overall you should try and respect them,I agree with that

  • @prisha88
    @prisha88 Před 2 lety

    Thnku so much

  • @nzanshitiri9305
    @nzanshitiri9305 Před 2 lety +1

    He just changed the way of my thinking...
    I will do that❤️

  • @mainakdatta7417
    @mainakdatta7417 Před 5 lety +105

    This made my day.. thank you Sir ❤😘

  • @shubhvijayaphalguna1125
    @shubhvijayaphalguna1125 Před 3 lety +9

    I tried this for years with toxic HR head & authorities. I was costing my health & peace. I finally came out of situation by quitting.
    Sometimes, you must know that some situations can be handled but when you can't anymore you better quit. It's not worth of loosing your energy hanging around toxic people., especially when you know you can't anymore!!

  • @manjulakulkarni9325
    @manjulakulkarni9325 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Guruji for presenting it in such an easy way😊

  • @SheetalPare
    @SheetalPare Před 2 lety +1

    Ok,this is what I need to hear at this moment..🌸🌺

  • @Mohit4156
    @Mohit4156 Před 5 lety +53

    Superbly explained and how easy to understand, each word ☺
    🙏Hare Krishna Guru ji!!!

  • @yusufjamadar8043
    @yusufjamadar8043 Před 5 lety +718

    256 dislikes the real toxic peoples 😑

    • @prashanthireddy9694
      @prashanthireddy9694 Před 5 lety +12

      They r not Toxic people I to have one doubt ok if we don't bother others we will do our own work eventhough the people will surround us then....how can we get in....

    • @Kingmaker0301
      @Kingmaker0301 Před 4 lety

      Now it's 396 always toxic creaters raises

    • @Kingmaker0301
      @Kingmaker0301 Před 4 lety +1

      @@prashanthireddy9694 just concentrate on urself sis why u bother

    • @gangaganga9043
      @gangaganga9043 Před 4 lety

      yusuf jamadar 😂😂

    • @abhishekrajeev2814
      @abhishekrajeev2814 Před 4 lety +4

      @VK get the Fuck outta here

  • @93krithika
    @93krithika Před 2 lety

    Wonderful explanation Prabhuji.. Hare Krishna . Jai Sairam

  • @swpankumardas1477
    @swpankumardas1477 Před rokem

    Thanku sir

  • @jhanusherly5820
    @jhanusherly5820 Před 5 lety +36

    I just had a fight with a toxic person and this helped😩🙏💫

  • @jonam2589
    @jonam2589 Před 5 lety +154

    Holy shit, a big thank you to you Prabhu ji,you know I was thinking to leave my job😲😲😲😲god made this video for me at the right time!!

    • @bishaldhar9467
      @bishaldhar9467 Před 5 lety +2

      Same here...

    • @Urbancutsbarbershop
      @Urbancutsbarbershop Před 5 lety +2

      cheng zemin same here brother

    • @sabyasachirimpa
      @sabyasachirimpa Před 5 lety +1

      Was the reason exactly the same?

    • @timepassvlog2405
      @timepassvlog2405 Před 5 lety +1

      Same reason 😦😧😧me too

    • @bhagwatijangid530
      @bhagwatijangid530 Před 5 lety +1

      क्या आपको फ्री "ज्ञान गंगा " पुस्तक चाहिए ?
      वो भी फ्री डिलीवरी के साथ।
      अगर चाहिए तो अपना नाम, पता और मोबाइल नंबर भेजे ।
      हर किसी के मन में एक प्रश्न उठता रहता है और वही प्रश्न बचपन से मेरे मन में उठता रहा कि आखिर इतनी बड़ी इस सृष्टि की रचना करने वाला कौन है जब मुझे ज्ञान गंगा पुस्तक मिली तो मुझे पता चला कि वास्तव में इस सृष्टि की रचना करने वाला ं कबीर साहेब

  • @sweetypatel3829
    @sweetypatel3829 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much.... Swamiji... I really really need it in current situation.... My family is super toxic n now I have to be super focus towards my peace.. My goal

  • @Rainbow-jk8hd
    @Rainbow-jk8hd Před 2 lety

    Wow!! Needed this badly. Thank u so much. 😘🙏🙇🏻‍♀️😊

  • @sujathakallaje2508
    @sujathakallaje2508 Před 3 lety +30

    I wish all youngsters look through this video to have a better life. Thank you Guruji🙏

  • @bbaecw.m2877
    @bbaecw.m2877 Před 3 lety +45

    Thank you. I was completely affected by the way my brother's wife and her sisters taunting and pulling me down whenever they meet me. When I am doomed, I heard this speech sir. It relieved me from that stress created by them. Thank you

    • @ryvlsc
      @ryvlsc Před rokem

      Ohh! Feel the same way- lets talk!

  • @exotic_memer09
    @exotic_memer09 Před 5 měsíci +1

    really ! people of this era will be grateful for gopal das dedication toward humanity😊

  • @hruaizelachhangte2051
    @hruaizelachhangte2051 Před 4 lety +59

    Sir but its so hard to tolerate them when they speak to us and say toxic things.....i couldnt focus on anything else other that my anger

    • @RAKESH-qn6xr
      @RAKESH-qn6xr Před 4 lety +10

      Once you are receptive to them they will taking your piece of mind. How we block some persons on social media. They send msges but we are not receptive to it. So negative people dnt change and problem arises when you try to change them. Gandhi ji said be the change you wants in others.

  • @raavanwithearphones1657
    @raavanwithearphones1657 Před 5 lety +67

    Dear employee we both sailing in the same boat!

  • @zairagasimova5110
    @zairagasimova5110 Před rokem

    Such a great and practical video. I have experienced always being focused on yourself is the one and only way to survive from toxic environment. Your life’s all about you, people! 🚀🚀🚀

  • @aarikamaheshwari9165
    @aarikamaheshwari9165 Před 2 lety

    Much needed video...thank you Guruji

  • @goodboysunny1
    @goodboysunny1 Před 5 lety +40

    Your videos are life changing, whenever I feel upset I prefer to watch your videos and after that I start feeling so good.

  • @deepabhojwani3702
    @deepabhojwani3702 Před 5 lety +22

    Ohhh god I'm feeling u listed my mind today frustrated with nagative people around me ur this speech is peace to my mind thank you guruji 🙏🙏

  • @anabelpico4909
    @anabelpico4909 Před 8 měsíci +1

    This message was so need in my life, I’m going through the same thing at work, but I just need to focus on my work 😊

  • @michaelarturo6735
    @michaelarturo6735 Před 2 lety

    Absolutely Beautiful Brother!!!! God Bless U🙏🙏🙏🏻🙏🏽🙏🏾🙏🏿

  • @yogeshdesai5999
    @yogeshdesai5999 Před 5 lety +21

    This was very much needed. thank you guru ji. 🙏🙏

  • @prithaganguly7938
    @prithaganguly7938 Před 3 lety +16

    But at times, the toxic people affect you in a harmful way. What if someone pushed him while he was carrying the glass. He couldn't have completed his job then

    • @debjitdas3911
      @debjitdas3911 Před 2 lety +1

      "re-start"

    • @user-uq6ic8pw8x
      @user-uq6ic8pw8x Před 2 lety +1

      Well said. Toxic ppl just don't mind themselves they go out and sabotage others especially ones who are more intelligent and empathetic. Toxic ppl just depend on someone else empathetic nature. Very hard to overcome. Have to run away. It's very narcissistic abuse.

  • @manjubhargavi8352
    @manjubhargavi8352 Před 4 měsíci

    Much needed at the right time. Thank you

  • @comiccapsules7495
    @comiccapsules7495 Před 2 lety +1

    I don't know what to say this is kind of a refreshing medicine for me i was literally suffering by being alone also tackling with unwanted persons. Thankyou so much sir for this motivation chip.

  • @srushti928
    @srushti928 Před 5 lety +45

    U always give very clear explanation to every problem 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊 Pranam Guruji....Thanks for enlightening our mind.... May ur videos reach to everybody

  • @theinzwin
    @theinzwin Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for your wise teachings. I radiate my love for all people and all living beings 💚💚💚 Namaste

  • @venkatp3413
    @venkatp3413 Před 2 lety

    Jai guru ji nicely explained 👍👍

  • @blessing9316
    @blessing9316 Před 2 lety

    Thank you, I needed this, God bless u

  • @S-D76
    @S-D76 Před 4 lety +8

    Sir really I was in this situation, God Damn I wanted this vedio.Everything matched with my life.Thanks a lot teacher.Your way of speaking is something that no one can byepass listening.Do continue with these sort of videos.

  • @munu9394
    @munu9394 Před 3 lety +15

    That's exactly I'm surviving and thriving in my family because I have nowhere else to go.

    • @yujibestboi
      @yujibestboi Před 2 lety

      How are you now.? Stay strong, one day you will be free from them

    • @munu9394
      @munu9394 Před 2 lety

      @@yujibestboi I'm doing good. Thank you for your kind words

    • @deepikaawasthi2158
      @deepikaawasthi2158 Před 2 lety

      Same here bro.... Just keep calm and going 👍👍👍

  • @Abhig3012
    @Abhig3012 Před rokem +5

    Moral of the story👉👉 : you can change the world, just by changing your mindset. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @peacepeace4256
    @peacepeace4256 Před měsícem

    Beautiful. I needed that.Thank you.

  • @rush_n_cakes
    @rush_n_cakes Před 5 lety +13

    Sir I was totally demotivated ..after listening to this I feel motivated .. thanks to you sir🙂

  • @ScienceSeekho
    @ScienceSeekho Před 3 lety +21

    We all good people watching this video! ❤️ May all your dreams come true ✨

  • @sahana8503
    @sahana8503 Před 2 lety

    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 i was feeling this for myself...my story.... You've changed my mindset sir

  • @harshadpatil6694
    @harshadpatil6694 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you prabhuji🙏🙏

  • @karanpatel2869
    @karanpatel2869 Před 4 lety +5

    I needed this so badly... showed the best solution in the most simple way. Thank you

  • @jyotid8330
    @jyotid8330 Před 4 lety +4

    If such toxic people are in our family...how can v even shift our view..I cant even concentrate on my children