How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You

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  • This is how science says you should make someone love you.
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Komentáře • 2,7K

  • @amritkunwar22
    @amritkunwar22 Před 4 lety +2866

    I came here to make a girl fall in love with me but now I've become a historian. Thank you Thoughty2.

  • @DREKflow
    @DREKflow Před 4 lety +3681

    Don't do that...
    Don't give me hope
    Edit: thank you for 3k likes I love you all

    • @Sanguiris
      @Sanguiris Před 4 lety +135

      Too real man, too real

    • @MrSnoozo
      @MrSnoozo Před 4 lety +25

      "You cannot kill hope" To quote Varok Saurfang ;)

    • @DacLMK
      @DacLMK Před 4 lety +39

      Just focus on yourself and stop chasing women. Simple as that.

    • @SneedBass
      @SneedBass Před 4 lety +4

      I hope this is just a funny ironic comment, but you know context and the such.

    • @DacLMK
      @DacLMK Před 4 lety +35

      @McZidanne Looks like you didn't get what I was trying to say. My message was for people that chase women all the time, while their life is shit. I'm 21, single, and after many years of chasing women I realized that life is not all about getting a woman and getting married. I started to focus at finding myself and to start to learn new skills that will become useful in the near future.

  • @doctorvladandhisbluejaysd2802
    @doctorvladandhisbluejaysd2802 Před 3 lety +1141

    Its quite simple:
    Be a protagonist in a Netflix teen romcom, no matter how manipulative, sociopathic, plain or unsympathetic you are.

    • @coraliemalaika
      @coraliemalaika Před 3 lety +18

      Yup, you'll bag everyone that way!

    • @daviedood2503
      @daviedood2503 Před 3 lety +2

      Twisted on ABC worked pretty good. Awesome show. With avan jogia. 😂

    • @yue.3910
      @yue.3910 Před 3 lety +1

      true

  • @zoomermcboomer4771
    @zoomermcboomer4771 Před 3 lety +344

    If embarrassing yourself makes you attractive then I am the most attractive guy in the world.

    • @YeetBoy350
      @YeetBoy350 Před 3 lety +8

      My new religion right there

    • @AntonioBrandao
      @AntonioBrandao Před 3 lety +4

      It’s how you react to embarrassment that matters. If you’re truly, truly not ashamed, you look great.

    • @ftferlo8868
      @ftferlo8868 Před 3 lety +6

      Ladies ladies calm down one at a time

    • @grizzlyaddams3606
      @grizzlyaddams3606 Před 2 lety

      Tiny mushrooms are soooo cute!0)))

    • @YTNNofficial
      @YTNNofficial Před 2 lety

      Me too

  • @meddi4709
    @meddi4709 Před 4 lety +1357

    “purposefully embarrass yourself on the first date” trust me buddy i don’t have so do it on purpose
    edit: my bols is hot

  • @imlikeheroin2
    @imlikeheroin2 Před 4 lety +1112

    "Committing suicide may not sell the idea of being in love..."
    Shakespeare: Bet. 😏

    • @justamanofculture12
      @justamanofculture12 Před 3 lety +37

      Shakespeare: "Instructions unclear, now I'm father of romance."

    • @Zenith_95
      @Zenith_95 Před 2 lety +4

      Shakespeare just declared war on love.

  • @ant6354
    @ant6354 Před 3 lety +158

    “Especially if your usual self is a sack of shit” I’m crying 😂

  • @invisibleman4827
    @invisibleman4827 Před 3 lety +96

    The worst combination is being scared of getting hurt AND lack of self confidence, because then you get nothing. Absolutely nothing.

    • @viking7142
      @viking7142 Před 3 lety +5

      No, the worst combination is having being abused as a child plus having the skin condition called vitiligo. Life on a hell mode ftw

    • @ethitlan
      @ethitlan Před 2 lety +3

      Welp, that's me.

    • @invisibleman4827
      @invisibleman4827 Před 2 lety +1

      @@viking7142 Yeah, that's pretty bad, man.

    • @killerdinamo08
      @killerdinamo08 Před 2 lety +1

      Come on, stop being so negative... It all matters on the other person as well 😉.

    • @arrrragon2996
      @arrrragon2996 Před rokem

      @@viking7142 If ur talking about urself, im sorry for u. However, in my opinion, vitiligo if used correctly and with a good enough attitude can actually be perceived as hot these days cuz of all the change and weird stuff going on making everything normal or interesting

  • @hedayetulislamhimel
    @hedayetulislamhimel Před 4 lety +1847

    I got really excited when he said," and definitely have large breasts" . Then he said I have to be a woman 😢

  • @marksilla8276
    @marksilla8276 Před 4 lety +1213

    Crush: I don't know why but I've been thinking about you lately
    Me lately:

    • @roncharlesnicholson7106
      @roncharlesnicholson7106 Před 4 lety +18

      Hahahaha good one!

    • @Tryckert
      @Tryckert Před 4 lety +28

      Crevetta Shrek is love. Shrek is life

    • @p_campbell
      @p_campbell Před 4 lety +18

      Go for the back rub. Shirt gets in the way, break out the oil, bra gets in the way....the rest is history. Works every time.

    • @gloomyfhae432
      @gloomyfhae432 Před 4 lety +3

      @@p_campbell no shit. really?

    • @Aquadood23
      @Aquadood23 Před 4 lety +3

      @@Tryckert except shrek the third. That movie doesn't exist

  • @protocol-11359
    @protocol-11359 Před 4 lety +166

    girl: "let's have a staring contest!"
    me: "it's show time"

  • @milkzealot1260
    @milkzealot1260 Před 3 lety +56

    Thoughty2: Be confident and not defensive.
    Me: I always knew I’d never get someone to love me.

    • @Hofniel
      @Hofniel Před 3 lety +1

      I got the exact same line in my mind while watching.

    • @JUST-UK-JAY
      @JUST-UK-JAY Před 2 lety

      @@Hofniel how so? you look beautiful

  • @tylermcflyer3061
    @tylermcflyer3061 Před 4 lety +1658

    Thoughty2: “however there are some benefits”
    Person: *slowly turns to knife*
    Thoughty2: “love not suicide!”

  • @hughmungas2311
    @hughmungas2311 Před 4 lety +584

    ah yes 5 years later of searching "how to ask out my crush" we are back to this

    • @thijsjong
      @thijsjong Před 4 lety +42

      Step one: ask out your crush
      Step two: crying at the discotheque.

    • @1SmokedTurkey1
      @1SmokedTurkey1 Před 4 lety +7

      Ask
      Be chill if she says no
      Your true colors will show
      If they choose you they're right for you
      If not you weren't for each other

    • @markmolino6091
      @markmolino6091 Před 4 lety +3

      @@thijsjong ,Step Two is get rejected then starts to cry

    • @velxus
      @velxus Před 4 lety +4

      Xeno Phon As the saying goes “If I had a dollar for every time I have been rejected, I wouldn’t be rejected”

    • @maniya6830
      @maniya6830 Před 4 lety +1

      Hugh mungus is the sexist man alive. He can seduce even the biggest of mammals!!!

  • @g.o.a.t5975
    @g.o.a.t5975 Před 3 lety +130

    "Become a musician"
    Me playing piano and guitar for almost a 10 years ; 🤔

    • @bekaeast7346
      @bekaeast7346 Před 3 lety +3

      Can confirm that’s attractive, time to start reevaluating other avenues

    • @2011littlejohn1
      @2011littlejohn1 Před 3 lety +5

      The trick is to get on the stage and also make eye contact whilst playing something. I remember playing Hoochie Coochie man by Muddy Waters which has the the line ''I wanna mess with you.'' and when I got to that line I looked straight into her eyes. it worked.

    • @daniellestevens2068
      @daniellestevens2068 Před 3 lety +1

      This works

    • @efektyve2035
      @efektyve2035 Před 3 lety +3

      I hAvE bEeN pLaYiNg pIaNo AnD gUiTaR fOr TeN yEaRs...

    • @hydrolito
      @hydrolito Před 3 lety +3

      Ariel Castro played the guitar but he got girls by abducting them.

  • @yassermahfoud7332
    @yassermahfoud7332 Před 3 lety +19

    "You want the closeness but too afraid of the vulnerability that comes with it"
    Damn it

    • @trueredpanda1538
      @trueredpanda1538 Před rokem

      Meanwhile I am here like "nah... thats not it, I just like being lazy, and that shit is not attractive!" 🤣

  • @SwGuru
    @SwGuru Před 4 lety +317

    "Falling in love that is, not suicide"
    'Puts the gun down'
    I'm glad you cleared that up

    • @Ella.46667
      @Ella.46667 Před 3 lety +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂LMAO

  • @greengreen110
    @greengreen110 Před 4 lety +1117

    4:38
    39% of lovers meet online
    27% at bars
    20% friends
    11% at work
    9% in education
    and 7% in Alabama

    • @holo6883
      @holo6883 Před 3 lety +62

      r/HolUp

    • @walidfakhfakh3660
      @walidfakhfakh3660 Před 3 lety +35

      @@holo6883 r/ihavereddit

    • @jessicaaprilshepherd5954
      @jessicaaprilshepherd5954 Před 3 lety +12

      i met my husband in an improv/theater group. it's a hobby. In what category does that fit in?

    • @Jazzmaster1992
      @Jazzmaster1992 Před 3 lety +22

      @@jessicaaprilshepherd5954 probably friends or work.

    • @alberteinstein127
      @alberteinstein127 Před 3 lety +2

      @@jessicaaprilshepherd5954 friends or online, how did you hear about this hobby? Through a friend or family member or perhaps you read an article online that said it would change your world...

  • @bojack4840
    @bojack4840 Před 3 lety +32

    "When your personality is sack of shit" "cats and ice cream" man... its all me 😃

  • @MeCJay12
    @MeCJay12 Před 4 lety +41

    "And 7% through family"
    I've seen that one...

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache Před 4 lety +2713

    All jokes aside, his mustache probably attracts a lot of women. He's got it well groomed and stuff.

    • @theace8502
      @theace8502 Před 4 lety +147

      By God, you and all your clones or whatever the crap are everywhere. I'll find everyone of your comments, I swear if it's the last thing I do.

    • @wanabiakihiko1449
      @wanabiakihiko1449 Před 4 lety +89

      *clears throat* THIS DUDE IS IN EVERY DAMN VIDEO I WATCH!!!

    • @jaibadon3842
      @jaibadon3842 Před 4 lety +9

      hi lol

    • @marclenraymagdaraog691
      @marclenraymagdaraog691 Před 4 lety +41

      Ahh the legend has spoken once more... this video is now blessed.!

    • @LaverniusTucker2410
      @LaverniusTucker2410 Před 4 lety +61

      Sounds like something a guy without a mustache would say.... oh.

  • @yoofee1642
    @yoofee1642 Před 4 lety +478

    thoughty2: have extremely large breasts.
    me: well well well, time to *shine*
    Thoughty2: this one is definitely if ur female
    also me: *looks of disappointment*

  • @secondjulia
    @secondjulia Před 3 lety +19

    "...You'll be resigned to a life of cats & ice cream."
    I'm in.

    • @nodoboho
      @nodoboho Před 2 lety

      Cats...check. BRB. Gotta run to the grocery store....

  • @JustWhattaRuLookinAt
    @JustWhattaRuLookinAt Před 3 lety +139

    Lol CZcams be like: “You’re so bad at it that I need to recommend you a video demonstrating how to get someone to love you.”
    *That was a great burn*

  • @Davums
    @Davums Před 4 lety +499

    I usually dont buy into these kinda things but when it's my boy 42 I'll buy it.

  • @icefrout
    @icefrout Před 4 lety +57

    Points Summarized:
    1. Be Confident, but vulnerable.
    2. Make eye contact.
    3. On a first date, go somewhere warm and let yourself be embarrassed
    4. Make small physical contact (e.g. forearm)
    5. Don't act desperate.
    6. Try to ask Arthur Aron's 36 Questions.
    7. Try to be the best you
    Be funny; have a good social life; connect with your partner; be assertive; smile; be kind; have a nice living space; dress well; lose weight
    Males: have a dog; be a musician; have survivalist-like hobbies
    Females: Wear red
    8. Understand your own insecurities

  • @adamgadek2972
    @adamgadek2972 Před 3 lety +72

    Thoughty: Just invest in a dog and let him do the seducing for you
    Me, a person who is allergic to dogs and really wants a big cute doggo: What a great idea, why didn't I think of that?

    • @RAP1DCL1CKS
      @RAP1DCL1CKS Před 3 lety +4

      You should get a type of schnauzer. They're my favorite dog breed and also happen to be hypoallergenic. There are mini schnauzers, standard schnauzers, and giant schnauzers.

    • @loneneotank.5687
      @loneneotank.5687 Před 3 lety

      well,what avout a kitty?

    • @evzevz06
      @evzevz06 Před 3 lety

      @@loneneotank.5687 Sure, If he wants to get himself a crazy cat lady

  • @michaeljaquish9708
    @michaeljaquish9708 Před rokem +3

    I have to say, I can personally attest to the truth behind all this. Throughout my dating life I have practiced eye contact, confidence and openness to being vulnerable and it has repeatedly given me the power to attract almost any woman I desired (and quite a few I did not. LOL). That being said, after years of discovering that long term relationships come with many strings attached, I have chosen to simplify my life and back away from romance and I am now am very content being single and enjoying my cat and ice cream in my later years. :-).

  • @AlfieCasson
    @AlfieCasson Před 4 lety +1762

    Can’t describe how much I rate the effort and time you put into every video you make, and how often you post👌

  • @randomboi2587
    @randomboi2587 Před 4 lety +1921

    People meet there partners by 7% through family
    *Let me guess, Alabama*

  • @noone-tq7cs
    @noone-tq7cs Před 3 lety +56

    As an introvert, that whole video sounds like a joke to me

    • @nannuky1128
      @nannuky1128 Před 3 lety +5

      you meant to say, "as a socially awkward and socially anxious person"? cause I, for one, am also an introvert and I see nothing in this video that wouldn't be doable

    • @noone-tq7cs
      @noone-tq7cs Před 3 lety +2

      @@nannuky1128 I've never said it wasn't doable

    • @TaijaT76
      @TaijaT76 Před 3 lety

      @@noone-tq7cs what do you even mean then?

    • @stonerawks9882
      @stonerawks9882 Před 3 lety +6

      I think @no one was crystal clear. You either aren't an actual introvert or you just had to go ahead and make baseless criticism to make yourself superior.
      Socializing requires high energy for an introvert. It doesn't matter if one is confident, insecure, has social phobia or any of that stuff. Doing so requires stepping out of the comfort zone (their own mind).
      For lazy people getting up from couch to grab the remote is a nuisance, that's not to imply lazy people are insecure about getting up. They'd rather not do it, is all.
      That conclusion was so shallow.

    • @nannuky1128
      @nannuky1128 Před 2 lety

      @@stonerawks9882 lmao, I didn't say it was easy, I said it was doable

  • @justamanofculture12
    @justamanofculture12 Před 3 lety +16

    *My Crush:* "He must be a playboy."
    *Me:*

  • @richardtrump2544
    @richardtrump2544 Před 4 lety +81

    Just to throw an exception into the statistics, my wife and I met in an AOL chat room in 1994, discovered we lived 160 miles apart, long-distance dated a while. Moved in together and got married. We moved from the US to Mexico a year ago to retire. We'll have our 26 year anniversary this October. Some things just work out despite the odds.

    • @ezbozz9671
      @ezbozz9671 Před 3 lety +3

      What a nice story you can be very happy

    • @juliannasreddin5226
      @juliannasreddin5226 Před 3 lety

      I Hope you're doing well.

    • @itsAurora-zq8cb
      @itsAurora-zq8cb Před 3 lety

      ThAts so sweet

    • @swabdobbin4081
      @swabdobbin4081 Před 3 lety +1

      Hope you two are doing great! Congratulations to you both. That's a great story. I wonder how many people watching this have actually used an AOL chat room lol.

    • @pickettywitchoriginal
      @pickettywitchoriginal Před 2 lety

      @ Mr Trump,id say that was beautiful odds.Like the previous commenters i do hope you’re both in grand shape and here’s to many more wonderful years my friend.🤍
      Stay happy with life guys 🌹

  • @ericj6124
    @ericj6124 Před 4 lety +399

    Thoughty2 is my personal tinder advisor 😜

    • @toby2031
      @toby2031 Před 4 lety +14

      Eric J bro how did you comment an hour ago

    • @Emerald_Forge
      @Emerald_Forge Před 4 lety +1

      Video was privated?

    • @AE2-scc
      @AE2-scc Před 4 lety +2

      Anonymous 27 We are Members we get early access and other things.

    • @aaronburratwood.6957
      @aaronburratwood.6957 Před 4 lety +4

      Anonymous 27
      Oh oh oh it’s magic...

    • @rooni8188
      @rooni8188 Před 4 lety +2

      Imagine searching for love in tinder lol.

  • @kwek2243
    @kwek2243 Před 4 lety +57

    Brave of you to assume i can make someone fall in love with me

    • @madmax5841
      @madmax5841 Před 3 lety +9

      Your hand will always love you

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 Před 3 lety +2

      If you're open to the possibility, love will come to you. If you open up a little more, you'll love was always there, inside you. If you want love, and feel that your life is loveless, then you'll just keep getting no love. So, hold it within yourself first.

    • @itsAurora-zq8cb
      @itsAurora-zq8cb Před 3 lety

      @@audreydoyle5268 so true

    • @Blox117
      @Blox117 Před 2 lety

      if you are a woman then its quite easy

    • @nodoboho
      @nodoboho Před 2 lety +1

      @@Blox117 No, no it's not. And even when it happens, it's often not the person you want.

  • @heyamselby
    @heyamselby Před 3 lety +16

    "They're comfortable making themselves vulnerable..."
    N O P E
    Aight, am outta hereee

    • @inconnu4961
      @inconnu4961 Před 3 lety

      LOL, that will be most of us, too!

  • @AdvanceAU
    @AdvanceAU Před 4 lety +582

    Can we all take a moment to appreciate Thoughty2's constant flow of high quality videos?
    He deserves much appreciation!

    • @iBMcFly
      @iBMcFly Před 4 lety +9

      Yes I’m sure all his content comes from him personally organically...and he has no team of people compiling interesting information, because that would make too much sense.

    • @AdvanceAU
      @AdvanceAU Před 4 lety +14

      Yes and I'm sure that OP meant to minimize the efforts of tens of people...and he has no idea about the process of making a video for someone whose literal identity is Thoughty2, because only thanking the production crew makes far too much sense.

    • @AdvanceAU
      @AdvanceAU Před 4 lety +12

      @@iBMcFly Go away, and try not to trivialize any more kind comments, yeah?

    • @QualeQualeson
      @QualeQualeson Před 4 lety +4

      The flow is constant alright, but the quality varies greatly.

    • @iBMcFly
      @iBMcFly Před 4 lety +3

      Travis lol I know when I get two replies that I really touched a nerve. 42(how he pronounces his name every video) is alright, but he’s propped up, and not terrible accurate.
      I enjoy his stories as much as your passionate reply to my low key call out of your naivety to how 42 operates.

  • @LosTacos
    @LosTacos Před 4 lety +275

    Of course Thoughty2 never needed to employ these techniques because his mustache does all the heavy lifting.

    • @miner4236
      @miner4236 Před 4 lety +4

      He hasn't had it for so long xd

    • @oilersridersbluejays
      @oilersridersbluejays Před 4 lety +1

      He looks better without it to be honest.

    • @markmolino6091
      @markmolino6091 Před 4 lety +7

      The mustache is what got Miss current Thoughty 2

    • @JellyAntz
      @JellyAntz Před 4 lety

      LosTacos get that man a beard

    • @average_enjoyer
      @average_enjoyer Před 4 lety +1

      @@oilersridersbluejays splish splash your opinion is trash

  • @MrVelyx
    @MrVelyx Před 4 lety +14

    Moral of this Story: If you want a long, health relationship: Don't Piss off Octavian

  • @DagothUr.
    @DagothUr. Před 3 lety +4

    This is honestly one of the most legit videos on relations and love that ive watched. Damn you're good thoughty2

  • @Som3D
    @Som3D Před 4 lety +462

    "How to make someone fall in love with you"
    60k people: "PLS I NEED IT"

    • @satanisgod7639
      @satanisgod7639 Před 3 lety +5

      huh u mean 288k ?

    • @yishi.4466
      @yishi.4466 Před 3 lety +1

      any number or percentage of views.. I'm sure I didn't go here to make someone fall in love with me 😂
      but if YOU did, to anyone reading my reply, don't be offended ;-; i wish you luck and smile more~ (but not creepily)

    • @justamanofculture12
      @justamanofculture12 Před 3 lety +2

      @@satanisgod7639 307k*

    • @Nunyaname2023
      @Nunyaname2023 Před 3 lety

      @@yishi.4466
      Aa
      A

    • @alexanderareadsjustsomeran3013
      @alexanderareadsjustsomeran3013 Před 3 lety

      @@justamanofculture12 you mean 377k?

  • @josephhorton5311
    @josephhorton5311 Před 4 lety +414

    7% of love through family
    *ALABAMA INTENSIFIES*

    • @walterscogginsakathesilver6246
      @walterscogginsakathesilver6246 Před 4 lety +4

      Roll tide

    • @edi9892
      @edi9892 Před 4 lety +5

      I thought more of: no! you´re gonna marry your cousin Jaspreet...
      (arranged marriages, including distant relatives, are very common among Hindus and Muslims)

    • @djcrackademiks1191
      @djcrackademiks1191 Před 4 lety

      😂😂😂😭😭

    • @ec-68
      @ec-68 Před 4 lety

      Stolen comment

    • @edi9892
      @edi9892 Před 3 lety +1

      @Nikhil Pawar I know one Hindu and several Muslims where it happened and some have genetic defects because of it...

  • @antoniomaglione4101
    @antoniomaglione4101 Před 4 lety +3

    Mr Arron,
    You deserve a special prize from CZcams for your truly uplifting and encouraging delivery about the most complex aspect of humanhood: the relationship.
    As quick contibute: some specialist psychological studies have proven that many cognitive functions, to be accomplished successfully, require the complementarity of two differently oriented minds, of a male/female attitude. Mostly because of the different thresholds in understanding of the pathways that, starting with needs, feelings, emotions - then translate into spoken words. The same phrase, listened by a male and a female, can give way to very different understanding, which a loving couple can fuse into a truly mirable comprension of underlying facts. BTW I don't know of any really good textbook about differential phsicology.
    Socrates famously stated "Gnosce te ipsum", know yourself - first. Incredibly, only a minority of people does it, because it is the most daunting task the human mind is called to exercise over itself. Other studies and some fiction (The Harvard Professor) shows that the most successful person have the ability of removing themself completely from their deliveries or observations, leading to most impressive results. A layperson is able to "cancel" themselves from their mental activities for a period of 5 to 12 milliseconds; a great orator, demagogue, minister, scientist or phylosopher can achieve a period of "Self - AWOL" above 5 full SECONDS; in that lapse of time, some fantastic and true images, situations, and convincing others became the pinnacle of human communication, typical of the most successful politicians, leaders, and groundbreaking science; I mention Copernicus, Maxwell, Newton, Dirac, Fermi, Einstein, Lise Meitner. To achieve their discoveries, the grade and the length of total mental abstraction has been somewhat un-natural, of a genius nested into another genius.
    I believe that the dynamics of relationship should be a matter of study starting in elementary schools. "Gnosce te ipsum" would give every person the knowledge of if they are a grain of sand, a pebble, a brick or a meteor, and how a person could act upon themselves to live in harmony.
    Thank you again for the inspiring video.

  • @Sockboy8282
    @Sockboy8282 Před 3 lety +5

    omg i thought he said suicide eases anxiety and makes you happy and i was like wait what

  • @TheThunderTurnerTTT
    @TheThunderTurnerTTT Před 4 lety +240

    Especially if your usual self is a sack of $hit hahahahahha, I'm crying 6:50

    • @gamerdweebentertainment1616
      @gamerdweebentertainment1616 Před 4 lety +8

      Brutal,

    • @hannesp3493
      @hannesp3493 Před 4 lety +23

      *Reports video:*
      ‘I have been mentioned in this video, and I don’t like it’

    • @lukechandra6233
      @lukechandra6233 Před 4 lety +9

      I thought he was talking directly to me there. Thoughty really knows how to connect with his youtube audience

    • @ronloc3309
      @ronloc3309 Před 4 lety

      @@lukechandra6233 on god

  • @mery8680
    @mery8680 Před 4 lety +68

    I love how the girl at 5:12 answered to a "hey, are we still on for later?" with a heart.
    Hey mom, can you buy some cereal?
    Mom:🤪

  • @alice80085
    @alice80085 Před 3 lety +14

    It’s 3 things: confidence, understanding social cues and hygene . That’s all there is too it

  • @lusir.
    @lusir. Před 3 lety +63

    Let's be honest, the thing you need the most to attract someone is to have a beautiful/handsome face.

    • @benziearada6707
      @benziearada6707 Před 3 lety +10

      Proper grooming if you insist; hairstyling, dressing, face makeover (excluding makeup and surgery even the subtle ones), and overall body language. You don't need expensive outfit and accessories, you just need to know what style suits you, and i mean suits on you because let's face it, some hairstyles will look funny on you. If you already find your style, invest on it, if you want to look standout, go for it, and of course pull it with confidence.

    • @jinz0
      @jinz0 Před 3 lety +1

      I guess im lucky lol

    • @Unique_Racing
      @Unique_Racing Před 3 lety +10

      Let’s be honest money will attract most women 😂

    • @yishi.4466
      @yishi.4466 Před 3 lety +10

      @@Unique_Racing don't do women like that lmao

    • @iulianborta
      @iulianborta Před 3 lety +2

      Umm no, theres lots of girls at school who are pretty but dont attract me, and i didnt ever get attracted by any of them until i sat next to one in maths and just by talking i developed an ez crush lmao

  • @aidanrivera1215
    @aidanrivera1215 Před 4 lety +89

    9:57 "another sneaky brain trick is to purposely embarrass yourself on the first date"
    oh don't worry, I wont have to do it on purpose

  • @cringe511
    @cringe511 Před 4 lety +43

    “Recommended for you”

  • @TheNukedNacho
    @TheNukedNacho Před 3 lety +5

    “Look the person in the eye.”
    “ *FOCUSING. FOCUSING. FOCUSING.* ”

  • @jbug1979
    @jbug1979 Před 3 lety +9

    This made me want to watch HBO's "Rome" again..

  • @crimsonszero
    @crimsonszero Před 4 lety +491

    Girl: "Who do you go to for advice about love?"
    Me, an intellectual: "Thoughty2, obviously."

  • @godmodevegeta1216
    @godmodevegeta1216 Před 4 lety +185

    Them: "So.. where do you see yourself later tonight ;)?"
    Me who knows nothing about flirting: *"hopefully with a large bowl of cereal! You?"*

  • @DesWulf
    @DesWulf Před 4 lety +1

    Such a wholesome lad. I've appreciated this channel for a long time. Thanks for being here, bud.

  • @lovefancy
    @lovefancy Před 3 lety +3

    “Falling in love that is.. not suicide” got me off 🤣🤣

  • @johnnyt.2523
    @johnnyt.2523 Před 4 lety +53

    DON'T WATCH THIS BEFORE YOU GO TO SLEEP!!! You will have a lot of thinking to do after that and won't be able to sleep.

  • @ZiZla999
    @ZiZla999 Před 4 lety +78

    HAVE A MORE VIBRANT SOCIAL LIFE
    *Shows isolated people standing with their phones*

  • @verbalessences422
    @verbalessences422 Před 3 lety +15

    You have to love yourself before loving someone else.

  • @ShiZostu
    @ShiZostu Před 4 lety +70

    "to purposefully embarras yourself"
    i don't even have to do this on purpose

  • @evoxis1058
    @evoxis1058 Před 4 lety +210

    It's sad that people have to deliberately use psychology to get a partner, with that being said... Time to watch!

    • @hohoucgguztizi4655
      @hohoucgguztizi4655 Před 4 lety +27

      Well ya know all animals do it, mating dances, also known as flexing by humans

    • @heyokawanderer3185
      @heyokawanderer3185 Před 4 lety +11

      Creepy actually love and romance should be natural. Not calculated and strategized... Anyone seriously watching this hoping to learn how to manipulate someone into loving them has problems.

    • @tescobakery1927
      @tescobakery1927 Před 4 lety

      42 likes lol

    • @TheV3la
      @TheV3la Před 4 lety

      Omg 🤦🏼‍♂️😂

    • @flakes6551
      @flakes6551 Před 4 lety +21

      @@heyokawanderer3185 Many things come with experience but some people, especially due to insecurities, never get to make enough experience.
      It's not less valid if you know the mechanisms behind trough reading instead of trial and error, it still has to be applied.
      This is not manipulation, you are not manipulating if you do things (say dress well, touch, look in the eyes, talk about deeper things) to appear more attractive, we all do it hopefully.
      There are manipulation techniques but this is not the case

  • @TheNukedNacho
    @TheNukedNacho Před 3 lety +2

    “Just be yourself. Terrible advice, I know. Especially if your regular self is a sack of shit.”
    This. This is why I love this channel

  • @michaelslater6839
    @michaelslater6839 Před 2 lety +1

    So much great detail in one video. Definitely worth watching every minute. However if you want to get back to something that was particularly interesting to you, here you go:
    Minute 11:53 A series of questions which helps develop intimacy starts here.
    Min 13:45 things you can do to make yourself more attractive.

  • @ryadh456
    @ryadh456 Před 4 lety +187

    Wait so hold, Romeo and Juliet was based upon the real life love affair of Cleopatra and Marc Anthony! 😯
    Well I've definitely learned something from this video.

    • @impalaSS65
      @impalaSS65 Před 3 lety +10

      You know there was an extremelly well-known play by Shakespeare about Marc Anthony and Cleopatra, right?

    • @shz603
      @shz603 Před 3 lety +2

      impalaSS65 was it called Romeo and Juliet

    • @impalaSS65
      @impalaSS65 Před 3 lety +7

      @@shz603 Anthony and Cleopatra.

    • @Danishlikeapotato
      @Danishlikeapotato Před 3 lety +4

      I thought the original story was about Pyramus and Thisbe

  • @davysamir2289
    @davysamir2289 Před 4 lety +151

    „You killed me, and by killing me you made me stronger“
    - Sephiroth

    • @alltheworldsastage4785
      @alltheworldsastage4785 Před 4 lety +2

      @@Ecktor You're out of luck, until you've gone duck.
      -Howard.

    • @mmnewry8828
      @mmnewry8828 Před 4 lety +3

      If everything's a dream, don't wake me.
      - cloud strife

    • @luckybegum2518
      @luckybegum2518 Před 4 lety +5

      "every 60 seconds in africa, a minute passes". random philosopher.

    • @TrendSavage
      @TrendSavage Před 4 lety +5

      "Not interested"
      - Cloud Strife

    • @leatherDarkhorse
      @leatherDarkhorse Před 4 lety +1

      "I donut - ed jupiter" - sephiroth

  • @srujanas.p.3392
    @srujanas.p.3392 Před 3 lety +24

    The answer is staring us in the face: HAVE A BEAUTIFUL MUSTACHE

  • @claytonlandon6399
    @claytonlandon6399 Před 3 lety +5

    “Romantic entanglement” Thoughty predicting will and jada 😂

  • @PlaymateTessiNumberOneFan
    @PlaymateTessiNumberOneFan Před 4 lety +302

    True love is when she stops trying to escape your basement

    • @unclesam2360
      @unclesam2360 Před 4 lety +24

      Relatable! :)

    • @thatomaake7398
      @thatomaake7398 Před 4 lety +7

      Well said

    • @hypotheskeptic
      @hypotheskeptic Před 4 lety +10

      That's gold. The truth is sometimes not politically correct. Lol

    • @woutervanr
      @woutervanr Před 4 lety +9

      Does this still count if she's dead? It does right?

    • @ryujin422
      @ryujin422 Před 4 lety +21

      Awww. Ain't stockholm just so romantic.

  • @yelwinaung1608
    @yelwinaung1608 Před 4 lety +58

    In a meeting,
    Friends : Well, we invested in a multi million business project!How about you?
    Me : I invested in a dog!

  • @bassammeraby8922
    @bassammeraby8922 Před 3 lety

    bro thoughty2 i love your nonchalant comments man your funny keep it up

  • @mallorymathews7571
    @mallorymathews7571 Před 3 lety +3

    4:06 ngl, he had me there for a second. I was like “hold up- what?”

  • @velxus
    @velxus Před 4 lety +53

    When he listed things that makes people more likely to like you, I realized I have almost nothing lol

    • @PRODBYLIIVID
      @PRODBYLIIVID Před 3 lety

      @Pratyush Kishore I do that a lot unintentionally at times😂

    • @PRODBYLIIVID
      @PRODBYLIIVID Před 3 lety +3

      @Pratyush Kishore Oh no I agree, it’s just sometimes I do it accidentally and it gets akward but I do like the fact that I can make others laugh, a little laugh does go a long way

    • @catrina3909
      @catrina3909 Před 3 lety

      I feel it comes down to how compatable we are with someone on all levels
      Like I know for a fact physical compatibility is easy and common but everything else comes down to knowing each other by going on dates

  • @redwood3036
    @redwood3036 Před 4 lety +47

    "How to make someone fall in love with you"
    100k people: *interesting...*

  • @bassboystokley8180
    @bassboystokley8180 Před 3 lety

    This is one of the few videos I see everyday that stick in my memory. Really I can’t stop watching. You are better than documentaries. You are better than nature shows.

  • @lizard_ow7145
    @lizard_ow7145 Před 3 lety +3

    Cleopatra: *you weren’t supposed to do that*

  • @LockDCS
    @LockDCS Před 4 lety +17

    Honestly, the fact that physical proximity to someone is extremely important is something I long suspected living in the middle of nowhere.

  • @aksjhdbaksjhdbNotASpam
    @aksjhdbaksjhdbNotASpam Před 4 lety +80

    Benefits of suicide: Live longer
    Oh, it's big brain time

    • @natebit8130
      @natebit8130 Před 4 lety

      Mr Cookie I think he meant the benefits of falling in love

    • @Eric-zz5ij
      @Eric-zz5ij Před 4 lety

      @@natebit8130 naw mate, I think ur rong.

  • @Theobruhh
    @Theobruhh Před 3 lety +1

    4:18 I'm glad he cleared that up for me

  • @hannahhickenlooper7877
    @hannahhickenlooper7877 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m relieved that this video is making me feel better. I’m newly single. I’m definitely feeling awesome about my decision to invest in myself and rely on myself for the first time in years.

  • @funnelfpv9435
    @funnelfpv9435 Před 4 lety +82

    Rule number 1: Be attractive.
    Rule number 2: Don't be unattractive.

  • @tescobakery1927
    @tescobakery1927 Před 4 lety +61

    14:22
    "And lastly, have incredibly large breasts" Kalm
    "And this one's definitely if you're female" Panik

  • @Smokie120
    @Smokie120 Před 3 lety

    Thank you this was very helpful 🙏🏽😊😁 you gave me a great idea 💡

  • @metavault0923
    @metavault0923 Před rokem

    4:20 geez i laughed so hard, i were like "wtf???" I'm glad you cleared that up, lol

  • @thegnome9529
    @thegnome9529 Před 4 lety +24

    Even the subtitles think you’re saying ”hey 42 here”

    • @vaisakhkm783
      @vaisakhkm783 Před 3 lety

      He is saying 42...., He mentioned it in his 100000 sub q and a video..

  • @kriskan743
    @kriskan743 Před 4 lety +250

    *Me: try to make eye contact*
    *She: screams.. Police! Police*

    • @nickname2324
      @nickname2324 Před 4 lety +37

      Plot twist: Your name is Police

    • @sock8211
      @sock8211 Před 4 lety +24

      @@nickname2324 idk man for some reason they mostly call me help or rape even tho my name is dave kinda strange

    • @nickname2324
      @nickname2324 Před 4 lety +10

      Thats just Dave but in another language.

    • @Dabblade710
      @Dabblade710 Před 4 lety +3

      NICKNAME 😂😂😂

    • @Dabblade710
      @Dabblade710 Před 4 lety +3

      sock 😂😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @locohobo1925
    @locohobo1925 Před 2 lety +2

    “The current mrs 42” 🤣 I was having a conversation with a male coworker about married life. I was married to my second wife at the time. While trading anecdotes over laughs (with no one else in sight), I used the phrase ‘my current wife’ to refer to the woman I was currently married to, *AS OPPOSED TO* my first wife, who had also entered the conversation. A female coworker, who was nowhere within sight, and apparently eavesdropping, reported to my supervisor that ‘my current wife’ was sexist, and she was offended. Nothing else in our conversation was in any way sexist beyond the extent that you would joke about with your gfs father. I was reprimanded by Debbie, my manager. At the end of the workday, as I was leaving, I had the privilege of hearing Debbie and some of my female coworkers loudly discussing their preferences with regard to dicks: size, length vs width, curvature, and so on. My career within the federal government only got worse… 😪 since I was a ‘male chauvinist pig’, the war cry of the girls in my junior high in the 80’s. Apparently the previous generations of men had done something such that I am now and forever a piece of $hit.

    • @luisvonxylander3627
      @luisvonxylander3627 Před rokem

      those kinds of girls are just a bunch of facists that only care about their own intrests and political agenda and constatnly want to attack what gose agiants thier fascist idles, that would potentialy hinder there influnce and so make them lose power. they are defently more sexists and a bunch of hypocrits who only care to exploit power dynamics for personal gain.
      its insanity living around people like that, it will drive you mad.

  • @Gpr1me
    @Gpr1me Před 3 lety

    As a lover of all kinds of knowledge and a seeker of wisdom and truth, what would I have done if I hadn't found you?
    Thank you Thoughty2, from the depth of my heart

  • @Matthew_Klepadlo
    @Matthew_Klepadlo Před 4 lety +26

    I’m going to use everything I learned here to make Thoughty2 fall in love with me lol.

  • @chillerup5709
    @chillerup5709 Před 4 lety +47

    Me: Dont do this
    42: Do what?
    Me: *..give me hope*

  • @synapris
    @synapris Před 4 lety

    6:44 hahaha that took me by surprise dude, thx for the laugh :D

  • @millions2nette
    @millions2nette Před 3 lety

    Just found this channel. Very interesting...Nice vid. New subbie!

  • @theguywhoasked5591
    @theguywhoasked5591 Před 4 lety +34

    Thoughty2 is my favorite wing man.

  • @thelegend5817
    @thelegend5817 Před 4 lety +31

    I get it you make them simp for you so you aren't a simp,this is revolutionary. You are truly a master of the craft

    • @j.d.v2.09
      @j.d.v2.09 Před 4 lety +1

      Or learn to communicate without a meme or jargon and maybe someone finds common ground to actually talk to you? Without you reverting to some 'pose' or other affected behavior type? If you even know how to do that I mean.

    • @PebsBeans
      @PebsBeans Před 4 lety +2

      @@j.d.v2.09 you need to learn to take a joke

  • @anonymousbosch9265
    @anonymousbosch9265 Před 3 lety +2

    I think the number one trick is to be happy with yourself, work hard towards your own life goals, be honest and of good character, and treat your perspective partners how you want to be treated. If you do most of this the perspective partner will fall in love with you and if they don’t, move onto someone who will

  • @Hunts_with_Bow_Original

    Never a dull nor ignorant moment with you, Arran. 👍

  • @mrdontmessaround2704
    @mrdontmessaround2704 Před 4 lety +23

    Me:I want to fall in love
    Thoughty2:Ah yes here's how you do it
    Me:Without going outside the house
    Thoughty2:...........

  • @sreejith8022
    @sreejith8022 Před 4 lety +24

    Warning - This does not work if you are ugly af , I'm the living example

    • @erikm3188
      @erikm3188 Před 4 lety +1

      😢

    • @kelvindelacuesta2003
      @kelvindelacuesta2003 Před 4 lety +1

      Nobody's ugly everybody is attractive in their own way.

    • @JezaLoki
      @JezaLoki Před 4 lety +1

      E X I L E D wrong. Trust me. I’ve been told to my face.

  • @terrycalderwood3480
    @terrycalderwood3480 Před 3 lety

    Your videos crack me up. I like how you sneak the humor in there so it catches me off guard sometimes, too. But the way you say, Thoughty two, sounded like forty two to me for a really long time until I paid more attention. Nevertheless, I love the accent but it doesn't interfere with the articulation at all.

  • @ghoster7600
    @ghoster7600 Před 3 lety +3

    Eye contact.
    People with autism: *anxiety meter does brrr*

    • @nicksparrow009
      @nicksparrow009 Před 3 lety

      I had that... I am in love with someone now though and I grew over it....now I need to fix her

  • @Xperim
    @Xperim Před 4 lety +327

    How to make someone fall in love with you:
    Be good looking.

    • @immigratoclandestino6259
      @immigratoclandestino6259 Před 4 lety +37

      Being good looking can only take you so far. A good, funny and genuine personality is probably more attractive to 90% of women anyway

    • @BlindDevilNeko
      @BlindDevilNeko Před 4 lety +35

      @@immigratoclandestino6259 And yet we see so many wonderful people get into abusive relationships and stick with those people.

    • @PlaceholderDoe123
      @PlaceholderDoe123 Před 4 lety +17

      Actually Cleopatra wasn’t as pretty as people make her out to be, it was her personality that drew people to her. :)

    • @thomasblock1164
      @thomasblock1164 Před 4 lety +2

      @@PlaceholderDoe123 all those Kodak Instamatic photos got out?

    • @edennis3202
      @edennis3202 Před 4 lety +7

      @@thomasblock1164 You don't need a photo. Her image was on the coinage, which still exists. Her profile was truly awful.