Overcoming the Fear of Bullying

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  • čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
  • Helping boys overcome the fear of defending themselves against another bully’s attack is a complex and emotionally challenging task. Their anger often redirects toward us-coaches, parents, teachers. Nevertheless, it is crucial that we maintain our emotional stability to coach them through the restoration process. By doing so, we facilitate their mental healing and equip them with the skills to protect themselves physically when necessary.

Komentáře • 30

  • @rrsmb7136
    @rrsmb7136 Před 4 dny +13

    Better to cry in the dojo with your coach and your team, than crying alone after being bullied.

  • @egomaniac247
    @egomaniac247 Před 4 dny +12

    These kids need strong masculine role models in their lives. Well done sirs.

  • @r2d187
    @r2d187 Před 4 dny +22

    How come every time I watch one of these clips someone starts slicing onions. Respect!

  • @sammysam6522
    @sammysam6522 Před 4 dny +12

    Very good teaching young men how to handle their emotions and stand up for themselves like real men!

  • @charlydavies2287
    @charlydavies2287 Před 4 dny +3

    these videos are powerful and beautiful because of the lessons of manhood, brotherly love, respect, and wisdom on full display. To see our kiddos get this teaching and receiving the message that they are worthy of love and respect brings me to tears because they deserve to know they ARE worthy, they ARE powerful, THEY ARE LOVED. Amen. 🙏🏾

  • @urbanlady1.
    @urbanlady1. Před 4 dny +7

    These videos are like therapy to me. They always bring to mind something from long ago that I need to look at with a fresh set if eyes. Thank you!

  • @tazzywazzy7599
    @tazzywazzy7599 Před 4 dny +2

    We have a mental mechanism called displacement. The young man in this video is being bullied outside of the dojo. By not having the confidence nor the courage to stand up for himself and defend himself, he's displacing his pent-up anger on those who are trying to help him. By him doing this, he's not addressing his issues. This young man needs strong, bold, and courageous roll models, and he has them in this dojo. Encourage this young man to open up and let him know he's in a safe place, emotionally, mentally, psychologically, psychically, and spiritually 🙏 Ask him if his bully is in his family or not.

  • @jameswalker366
    @jameswalker366 Před 4 dny +5

    Great work- Many folk are conditioned that anger is an unacceptable emotion. The fear is not always of those who cause it, but the fear of feeling/expressing anger itself. The key, as described in this video, is to get used to feeling it, and expressing/directing it in a healthy way. If parents are equally passive, these beliefs can be passed down. I hope that’s considered also to break the cycle.

  • @user-zj3dq4rn8z
    @user-zj3dq4rn8z Před 4 dny +1

    I'm missed that much.
    So glad that tgis young man have such an example and support.
    Because in other case - you will be having that anger and point that on close one's.
    All as Master said.

  • @HowDoIDad
    @HowDoIDad Před 4 dny +1

    Thank you for helping these young men. He's going to grow up able to process his feelings in a healthy way and teach those lessons to his own friends and family. You're doing good in the world. Keep it up! 🎉

  • @mzasia85
    @mzasia85 Před 2 dny

    God bless you brothers and the work you’re doing with these beautiful young boys 🙏🏾

  • @JasonMcGarva
    @JasonMcGarva Před 3 dny

    I wish I had this teacher growing up.

  • @MohanKumar-bi8li
    @MohanKumar-bi8li Před 4 dny +3

    Super .... Good job master....

  • @juanblanco7898
    @juanblanco7898 Před 4 dny +1

    Amazing work you people are doing! Thank you.
    Wish I had something like this in my childhood.

  • @Maria-kg1nh
    @Maria-kg1nh Před 4 dny

    Beautiful. God's Love and Blessings 🙌 ✝️ 💜.

  • @artpimpn
    @artpimpn Před 4 dny +2

    I'm wondering if the environment is part of the issue. That kid needs one on one training without an audience. He is probably concerned about how he looks in front of his peers and failing. Force is one thing but technique is another.

  • @GSM_6703
    @GSM_6703 Před 4 dny +6

    Just a question is there classes for young adults such as 18 through 25

  • @NAJILife
    @NAJILife Před 4 dny

    im 42...
    Thank you

  • @Vladimyrful
    @Vladimyrful Před 4 dny

    Thank you for putting these videos together!

  • @tattoodrdoke
    @tattoodrdoke Před 4 dny

    I would really love to see this become an international movement. The UK could do with something like this.

  • @josephselwan1652
    @josephselwan1652 Před 4 dny +1

    Amazing work 🙏

  • @iamsumiitd
    @iamsumiitd Před 3 dny

    Way he delivered the first speech

  • @mygirlfriendtoldme4957

    awesome!

  • @desmondmcneil496
    @desmondmcneil496 Před 4 dny

    Great job

  • @JasonMcGarva
    @JasonMcGarva Před 3 dny

    I'm curious, where is this martial arts school located?

  • @Jonbutler89
    @Jonbutler89 Před 3 dny

    My father won't stop bullying me and my mom who calls herself a Christian is influencing him. 😢🙏

  • @desmondmcneil496
    @desmondmcneil496 Před 4 dny

    What city are you guys in?