Chill is picky but honestly the pack of guys that she was set up with i wouldn't want to date them, but I think that Tianna had a point. There are some things that you can't change in what you want in a guy religion and smoking I can understand that but the pork and socially drinking is too much to ask for in a guy.
EVERYONE, Chilli has a boyfriend/love interested. She's not alone. She's not too picky. Everyone has qualifications that they want in a partner. So, get over it!!! She's just fine.
Chili looks good enough to be as picky as she wants. Tiona doesn't know what that's like. She has to pretty much take what she can get. Tiona keeps bringing Chili the type of men she has been clear about. Tiona was bringing her the type of men SHE herself would gladly take. Chili knows what she DOESN'T want!
U are so right.. like Tionna didnt have any judgement at all. SHE put any guys to date with Chilli.. CHILLI knows what she wants.. but obviously Tionna no
Some things on Chili's list are a bit extra but she's hooking her up with guys that don't even fit the most important standards. Doesn't believe in God, doesn't take care of their body, and drinks. Those are things that can really draw a wedge between them later in the relationship.
I think I'm like Chilli in some ways. I would have never worn that wig, hell no. People need to understand that she has a child and wants another child so she wants this new relationship to last forever basically. She doesn't want to have to go through a relationship where the guy has drinking issues, responsibility issues and all of that nonsense. She's getting old and wants to settle down so I think that also adds up to why she's so picky. She aint got time for no games.
D Clark it's a bit too late for Chilli to be coming out with these "standards" She was a pass around back in the day who had more pricks than a secondhand dartboard and had been on her knees more than any Nun. No decent man is gonna want her. That's why she needs a man with a huge penis her walls are probably as loose as she was
The only time I think Chilli was being too picky was with the man who she clicked with on the bowling date. He was a little young and she could have gotten to know him more before writing him off. Some men are more mature at a younger age. As for the man that was drinking, there is nothing wrong with socially drinking but he had two drinks on his table already. He also seemed like he was buzzing and that was the beginning of the date. My boyfriend and I do not drink 99% of the time but sometimes we may have one drink. I am sure if she met a man that rarely had a drink but did once in awhile then it would be different. Also, when you like a man sometimes if you cannot find someone who is better you are not happy. It is possible someone else is on her mind. Plus, she is older and her standards are going to be different because of her experiences. Sometimes you learn not to make the same mistakes twice.
Who is this woman that's trying to set chili up seem like she's a Hater And don't want nothing good for chili I believe the dates that she set chili on specially that men in the gym with the attitude was a set up for chili she's telling the guys how to act towards chili and maybe sayng chili has a diva attitude are I'm too pretty attitude Like I said that woman is a hater
Never settle! I have high standards for the woman I'm going to marry and looks only get you so far with me. I've turned away women other dudes trip over
i totally get where you are coming from chilli, its so annoying, when ppl tell us we don't no what we want cos we are sure of what we want, an cos they settle they expect every one to....ppl trivialize our wants by calling us fussy an picky we are only wanting what we are willing to offer an give, we compromise on our strict standards an wants, but only we can do that, as we are the ones who know what we feel we can compromise on,... id rather live forever in hope, then settle an always wander?
What she s telling chili is real not everyone’s perfect her standards are high and unrealistic to be super picky etc... some people don t have all that
Hi people, I believe what my grandparents had was true love. My grandma had flawless skin and my grandpa skin was complete opposite. They both have love within each other. Come on, Chilli is way to picky and difficult. Is she going to say no to people have flaws?? Why not trying helping people, instead of thinking mm this and that!
u can put a hundred guys in the pecking order for some one to choose from it don't mean ya any closer to finding the right one?.. chilli has not lived her live in a box,. she has no doubt met lots of guys some she liked who didn't like her some who liked her but she didn't like them, all not compatible or she wouldn't be doing this, good luck chilli its a tough an sometimes long road but what will be will be, don't let ppl sway u, u are on the right track! doesn't make any one happy to settle!!!
I think it would help for her to come off her list and get to know the man and like him for him. That's when love usually happens and with whom u least expect.
I understand what chilli wants to be with a man who will loves her for her rest of her life she has been hurt before by her exes who cheated on her and come one if I was with chilli I would never cheat on her I'm not saying this because she's beautiful and pretty I love her so much I want to met her but u wouldn't understand what she's been through she doesn't want that to happened to her again that's why she has a checklist but finding a guys who dont drink or who doesn't eat pork or has a six pack , sexy and who has money is hard to find she needs a guy who is non famous who has a job and who loves kids or has there own kids I'm saying this from the heart because I love you chilli for real I'm not writing this so I can get your attention I saying all this stuff because I truly honesty love you for all my heart and I respect you for all my heart your beautiful chilli you need a guy who all be there for you 'through the good times and bad times always be right there' new edition can you stand the rain what the lyicrs says on the song.
roter13 Chilli is probably the most naturally beautiful person I've ever seen - she doesn't age. Plus she is talented and intelligent. She is a huge catch.
@@MichaelWilliams-cd9if Why can't she find anybody then? There's obviously something missing, mainly the fact that she lives on Fantasy Island and not in the real world. She wants a bunch of characteristics, but she can't handle a flesh and blood human being. We can't blame it all on these guys, either, because she's dated dozens and there's something wrong with ALL OF THEM? Nah, something is wrong with HER.
what's with her and the drinks wtf? I don't drink period, I think it's nasty. but im not going to impose that viewpoint on other ppl. she missing out on good men due to superficial stuff....I pray...and I mean really pray that this is part of the show and not really her cause if it's really her....ooooh child
The drink guy seemed very arrogant. Sure, she speaks her mind but a lot of men find that attractive. A gentleman would have made her feel comfortable. He just got cocky and defensive, then rude. She was right to walk out. And men have plenty of items on their checklist! She is upholding a major one by being gorgeous and in shape and ageless, plus she is independent, family minded and god fearing. She is a catch and expects one in return, nothing wrong with that!
@@chronicles6065 What good is being "all that" if it's not getting you what you want out of life? She's going to end up a lonely old lady who "looks good for her age." All you can do with that is just stare in the mirror all day.
It was a time that I made good money but I had to stop and say I make more money then most and know that I am not on top I am glad that I don't look at money as a flaw
I can tell ya'll what Chilli wants: Calvin Klein's model (Or Paco Ravanne) Six pack Rich as phuck Dude should have a big long saussage. Guy should workout religiously Guy should wanna get married to her (to belong to her and nobody else) and tell her that she's the only one A LOT. Nothing unhealthy (it doesn't matter if he works his ass out all week, if he smoke only one cigarrette a week, he's out) No pork (Damn) Guy should be tall and muscular, so this 4"5 lady can feel protected by this guy who is a sweetie in the inside but kicks ass in the outside while bed is waiting for them both.
I love the artist and what Chilli represent being part of TLC and that cannot change. But on the personal side, geez... what a "limited narrow minded" totally immature woman still fantasizing on Walt Disney's prince charming like an 8 years old. And most sad is that many of the things she revendicated or denounced as a woman via TLC in regards to men's behaviors... She is herself doing it but just on the other side and to blind to see it... To put it in "God's style words" that she could understand would be... Chilli, you see the branch in the eyes of the other but not the forest in your eye... It's just sad really because it is obvious that she is not floating in happiness and she deserve it but she wont until she accept that she need to evolve. I guess I'm just going to continue to enjoy TLC's music and vibe of over 2 decades already and ignore how Turn Off she is. Enough watching this Sad story and time to change the energy with.... hmmm... "What about you friends...." I hear it in my mind already...
Why she has a list and who and why she felt the need to compromise and why it left her so rigid I feel should have been the 1st topic to talk about but also ppl can use it as a crutch to not change what also to isn't working. And she isn't young so these ideas will and did take such deep root every1 knows bout her list? Every1.
Big package deal? She is not even close to a big package, You are the big package and also behind your back a huge package. Does she have a boyfriend or husband that yeah right expert. Her eyes are so telling me how manipulative and jealous!
and Im still watching some Usher videos with comments like "He sould go back with Chilli they were a perfect couple" now Im like, seriously??? something is wrong with her glad Usher moved on and I wish him so much better than this woman. period!!
😂😂😂😂 Chilli not having it. She knows what she wants and she's not settling and she shouldn't have to.
Which is true but at the same time she needs to put some standards to the side cause some things you can change about a person some you can t
Why is this matchmaker blatantly setting her up with guys that she doesn't like? LOL Chilli was crystal clear about what she wants in a guy!
Lol..its semi scripted thats why
Chill is picky but honestly the pack of guys that she was set up with i wouldn't want to date them, but I think that Tianna had a point. There are some things that you can't change in what you want in a guy religion and smoking I can understand that but the pork and socially drinking is too much to ask for in a guy.
EVERYONE, Chilli has a boyfriend/love interested. She's not alone. She's not too picky. Everyone has qualifications that they want in a partner. So, get over it!!! She's just fine.
+SexyRapSinger No, at the time I wrote that comment, she was dating Brad James.
Chili looks good enough to be as picky as she wants. Tiona doesn't know what that's like. She has to pretty much take what she can get. Tiona keeps bringing Chili the type of men she has been clear about. Tiona was bringing her the type of men SHE herself would gladly take. Chili knows what she DOESN'T want!
khandi pwens you obviously missed the fact that Tianna has a fiance and was close to her wedding when doing this programme
@@jinaedinisci159 And are they still together...
Yea but Chilli wouldn’t want a guy like her fiancé. That would have been settling for her.
damnnnn 'its because of the drinks' and the Olympics winner got a smart mouth too damn son
She fixing her up with fools....smh
Golden Aura ikr
Exactly 😖😖😩
Yes
U are so right.. like Tionna didnt have any judgement at all.
SHE put any guys to date with Chilli..
CHILLI knows what she wants.. but obviously Tionna no
I love chilli so much I'll take her side almost every time
Lol
Me too 😂😂😂
Some things on Chili's list are a bit extra but she's hooking her up with guys that don't even fit the most important standards. Doesn't believe in God, doesn't take care of their body, and drinks. Those are things that can really draw a wedge between them later in the relationship.
Ok....having watched this for a minute. Yall know she can't just pick anyone....then the show would end too early.....
I think I'm like Chilli in some ways. I would have never worn that wig, hell no. People need to understand that she has a child and wants another child so she wants this new relationship to last forever basically. She doesn't want to have to go through a relationship where the guy has drinking issues, responsibility issues and all of that nonsense. She's getting old and wants to settle down so I think that also adds up to why she's so picky. She aint got time for no games.
There's a difference between being picky and having standards.
Yes, being picky is a nasty tittle, and having standards is a fancy way to be called instead of "picky".
D Clark it's a bit too late for Chilli to be coming out with these "standards" She was a pass around back in the day who had more pricks than a secondhand dartboard and had been on her knees more than any Nun. No decent man is gonna want her. That's why she needs a man with a huge penis her walls are probably as loose as she was
I'll have to agree with Chilli on the b word don't like it. Don't call me that (I find it offensive) joking or not.
The only time I think Chilli was being too picky was with the man who she clicked with on the bowling date. He was a little young and she could have gotten to know him more before writing him off. Some men are more mature at a younger age. As for the man that was drinking, there is nothing wrong with socially drinking but he had two drinks on his table already. He also seemed like he was buzzing and that was the beginning of the date. My boyfriend and I do not drink 99% of the time but sometimes we may have one drink. I am sure if she met a man that rarely had a drink but did once in awhile then it would be different. Also, when you like a man sometimes if you cannot find someone who is better you are not happy. It is possible someone else is on her mind. Plus, she is older and her standards are going to be different because of her experiences. Sometimes you learn not to make the same mistakes twice.
But she does have a point when compromising, and it didn't work.
Who is this woman that's trying to set chili up seem like she's a Hater
And don't want nothing good for chili
I believe the dates that she set chili on specially that men in the gym with the attitude was a set up for chili she's telling the guys how to act towards chili and maybe sayng chili has a diva attitude are I'm too pretty attitude
Like I said that woman is a hater
I agree i said the same thing
Never settle! I have high standards for the woman I'm going to marry and looks only get you so far with me. I've turned away women other dudes trip over
i totally get where you are coming from chilli, its so annoying, when ppl tell us we don't no what we want cos we are sure of what we want, an cos they settle they expect every one to....ppl trivialize our wants by calling us fussy an picky we are only wanting what we are willing to offer an give, we compromise on our strict standards an wants, but only we can do that, as we are the ones who know what we feel we can compromise on,... id rather live forever in hope, then settle an always wander?
He should order a drink right off. The proper thing to do is wait till the date got there. Ask them if they want a drink and go from there.
Damn calm your nerves chili continue to be who you are 😓😖😖😩 anybody
What she s telling chili is real not everyone’s perfect her standards are high and unrealistic to be super picky etc... some people don t have all that
They aren’t unrealistic
Hi people, I believe what my grandparents had was true love. My grandma had flawless skin and my grandpa skin was complete opposite. They both have love within each other. Come on, Chilli is way to picky and difficult. Is she going to say no to people have flaws?? Why not trying helping people, instead of thinking mm this and that!
baby, your grandparents lived in other times..nowadays we have the choice and we want the bets and life is too hectic for crap
You right times has change. Chilli knows what she want, but the man she want don't want her. You can't make someone love you.
She don't want no body but Floyd. He don't want her. She just don't get it. Move on please.
LaTonya Davis hahha, Im like this also..I want a man who doesnt want me..lol
Merci..A good reality tv show
u can put a hundred guys in the pecking order for some one to choose from it don't mean ya any closer to finding the right one?.. chilli has not lived her live in a box,. she has no doubt met lots of guys some she liked who didn't like her some who liked her but she didn't like them, all not compatible or she wouldn't be doing this, good luck chilli its a tough an sometimes long road but what will be will be, don't let ppl sway u, u are on the right track! doesn't make any one happy to settle!!!
I think it would help for her to come off her list and get to know the man and like him for him. That's when love usually happens and with whom u least expect.
No
Chilli act like Dallas and Usher was such a big catch...girl bye
Are you slow? Her past relationships are the reason she has a check list now.
lookin at this,I do not blame chilli,that chick kept hookin her up with lames.ga head chilli,u right and exact.
I understand what chilli wants to be with a man who will loves her for her rest of her life she has been hurt before by her exes who cheated on her and come one if I was with chilli I would never cheat on her I'm not saying this because she's beautiful and pretty I love her so much I want to met her but u wouldn't understand what she's been through she doesn't want that to happened to her again that's why she has a checklist but finding a guys who dont drink or who doesn't eat pork or has a six pack , sexy and who has money is hard to find she needs a guy who is non famous who has a job and who loves kids or has there own kids I'm saying this from the heart because I love you chilli for real I'm not writing this so I can get your attention I saying all this stuff because I truly honesty love you for all my heart and I respect you for all my heart your beautiful chilli you need a guy who all be there for you 'through the good times and bad times always be right there' new edition can you stand the rain what the lyicrs says on the song.
Fatma Jamal 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
you would think that chilli is the biggest catch in the world with her list. she still has no one.
roter13 Chilli is probably the most naturally beautiful person I've ever seen - she doesn't age. Plus she is talented and intelligent.
She is a huge catch.
@@MichaelWilliams-cd9if Why can't she find anybody then? There's obviously something missing, mainly the fact that she lives on Fantasy Island and not in the real world. She wants a bunch of characteristics, but she can't handle a flesh and blood human being. We can't blame it all on these guys, either, because she's dated dozens and there's something wrong with ALL OF THEM? Nah, something is wrong with HER.
He list consists of stuff she has though
She is like every thing a want in a women she is my check list
what's with her and the drinks wtf? I don't drink period, I think it's nasty. but im not going to impose that viewpoint on other ppl. she missing out on good men due to superficial stuff....I pray...and I mean really pray that this is part of the show and not really her cause if it's really her....ooooh child
***** that's extreme
Right. And Dallas Austin as well as Usher drink. Floyd said himself that if he wasn't an athlete that he would drink....Chilli is on BS
Tina Tally right hell Usher is bi so if she can go along with that, whats wrong with a man having a few drinks lol
She was talking about a permanent mate, not a one-time date. She doesent want a man in her life that drinks.
@@GinaJonesStillettoQueen wait what??? Usher ain't bi
The drink guy seemed very arrogant. Sure, she speaks her mind but a lot of men find that attractive. A gentleman would have made her feel comfortable. He just got cocky and defensive, then rude. She was right to walk out. And men have plenty of items on their checklist! She is upholding a major one by being gorgeous and in shape and ageless, plus she is independent, family minded and god fearing. She is a catch and expects one in return, nothing wrong with that!
she's not all that lol. she's not even young anymore so it would make sense for her to be realistic
ryanr20091 that woman is fine for her age. And when you age beautifully like she does. you can honestly say she is all of that!
*****
Safe to say, they weren't a match, lol!
@@chronicles6065 What good is being "all that" if it's not getting you what you want out of life? She's going to end up a lonely old lady who "looks good for her age." All you can do with that is just stare in the mirror all day.
Its Sebas from Woody Show.. haha..
It was a time that I made good money but I had to stop and say I make more money then most and know that I am not on top I am glad that I don't look at money as a flaw
Chilli's Date: "The answer is "Yes...But"
Chilli: "You'er not so smart".....(I love it!!!)
North battling south. Lol
Usher drinks . ...and her BROTHER smoke... but the guy who was drinking was too much
Actually T. Smalls ruins her dates. Jus saying
Chilli check her and being unhealthy is a deal breaker
I can tell ya'll what Chilli wants:
Calvin Klein's model (Or Paco Ravanne)
Six pack
Rich as phuck
Dude should have a big long saussage.
Guy should workout religiously
Guy should wanna get married to her (to belong to her and nobody else) and tell her that she's the only one A LOT.
Nothing unhealthy (it doesn't matter if he works his ass out all week, if he smoke only one cigarrette a week, he's out)
No pork (Damn)
Guy should be tall and muscular, so this 4"5 lady can feel protected by this guy who is a sweetie in the inside but kicks ass in the outside while bed is waiting for them both.
what she really wants is a man with status. a celebrity. makes sense... she is one.
But they don't seem to want her. And if they do, she shoots them down for something superficial, like not being perfect--as if SHE'S perfect.
I love the artist and what Chilli represent being part of TLC and that cannot change. But on the personal side, geez... what a "limited narrow minded" totally immature woman still fantasizing on Walt Disney's prince charming like an 8 years old. And most sad is that many of the things she revendicated or denounced as a woman via TLC in regards to men's behaviors... She is herself doing it but just on the other side and to blind to see it... To put it in "God's style words" that she could understand would be... Chilli, you see the branch in the eyes of the other but not the forest in your eye... It's just sad really because it is obvious that she is not floating in happiness and she deserve it but she wont until she accept that she need to evolve. I guess I'm just going to continue to enjoy TLC's music and vibe of over 2 decades already and ignore how Turn Off she is. Enough watching this Sad story and time to change the energy with.... hmmm... "What about you friends...." I hear it in my mind already...
Chilli the type girl you just leave her be...
There's a difference between a drinking problem and someone who likes to drink... he was someone who liked to drink.
chilli you have disappointed me you need to review your check list i dont think you will find a man
Every thing she like I like but I am a workmen man and I am only five six
Why she has a list and who and why she felt the need to compromise and why it left her so rigid I feel should have been the 1st topic to talk about but also ppl can use it as a crutch to not change what also to isn't working. And she isn't young so these ideas will and did take such deep root every1 knows bout her list? Every1.
I don't let my boy call me the n word
T you are wasting your time. Help someone else😄🙂
Chilli wasn't like this wit the white boys
Big package deal? She is not even close to a big package, You are the big package and also behind your back a huge package.
Does she have a boyfriend or husband that yeah right expert. Her eyes are so telling me how manipulative and jealous!
Chill needs help from millionaire matchmake. i think shes great and not got the silly attitude of tht girl
She didn't have any luck there either
Your not so smart😂😂😂
and Im still watching some Usher videos with comments like "He sould go back with Chilli they were a perfect couple" now Im like, seriously??? something is wrong with her glad Usher moved on and I wish him so much better than this woman. period!!