Exactly, she is not settling for anybody just to have someone, I applaud her for that too. These days women are being with men just to have a man, they don't care if the man beats on them, a cheater, a drug user, all they just want to have someone, which is sad. I am glad to see women like chilli, who is not going to settle for anything,she wants what she wants.
Exactly, society tells us that we have to have someone in order to be happy which is a load of BS. Look at high the Divorce rates are today. If your Aunt is happy with the way she is, then that's all that matters. I much rather be single then to be in a unhappy marriage being cheated on and abused.
@@tiffanywaldon4875 She gotta fat 10 inch penis? And quite frankly she has these things because she leads the life of a celebrity. She has to be fit for her profession... If dude is a telemarketer .. he sits down all day... Usher was in her profession.
I'm not saying this to insult Chilli, but a psychologist would really be better for her. This matchmaker isn't helping the situation by being impatient, angry, and insulting; I think she's just stressed out because her reputation is on the line. Chilli is getting in her own way, and she needs to find out what it is (with a professional who's supportive). No one is perfect, and i know she can solve this!
i respect chilli so much because she has morals and u dont see dat in black women these days so i dont blame her 4 havin a checklist she jus dont want any man she want da rite man
nothing is wrong with the list, i get the drinking and smoking and wanting them to be gorgeous of course. the pork is also understandable, it's another reason why people are vegetarians, much to do with politics, and animal torture. duh.
Everyone ear the story Mr. Ralph and Annie I can see Usher and Chilli coming around again. The word compromise and qualities. Did not give up Mr. Ralph she won't give up on Usher. Actually Usher and Chilli are friends.
I love my girls from TLC they are my favorite group. This is no show though for years Chilli and T-boz have struggled with finding a good man. However in Chilli's case the problem is her. She is too picky and she is thinking with a celebrity mind. She needs to think on the level of being human and a woman. The right man for her might not be one who is able to meet all of her pre-requisites. He might not be rich or have a perfect body. Sadly for her true love is something that she may not get.
If we women are HONEST, at some point we all subscribe to The List in our heads. Yes, have standards but that damn list keeps you back. I'm so glad her friend let her talk to that lovely older couple - great idea.
One thing fo sure she doesn't have issue with her ex Dallas Austin. Usher going through hell now with his ex wife I don't think Usher would have this problem with Chilli. She knows how to handle her business. she morals and values she wouldn't be spitting on ex girlfriends like someone did. I know Usher said he don't live with regret but definitely look back cz he said he should have listen to his mom and Usher's mom love Chilli. How could you not. Chilli got a good spirit.
13:31 Mrs. Ruth hit home and really touch base on how to find that one man. Its hard finding that special someone but u have to know the quality in what you will live with and what you cant live without with.
aww poor Chilli she's too damn beautiful for the bullshit... and the list is too superficial because she can find just one of few guys with all the qualities on the list and he may not be for her.. she's passing up a lot of good guys with THE LIST, because its all about what the person is willing to do for you .. maybe Chilli being a good woman that she is, she can inspire someone to quit doing all of the things that she doesnt want them to just with her LOVE ...
To each their own, you have to know what you want and what you can tolerate in life, and if u can't tolerate those things, then don't put up with it, misery is not worth it. Plus she is at a point in her life where she has a child and wants someone who would be an extremely good role model and influence to her son and future kid/s. And I would not personally want to be with someone who does not take care of them self to stay healthy and a live a longer life. #I-dont-have-time-for-that.
chilli is in really good shape. she has a body even better than a lot of women in there 20's. i bet her dating adviser would be pretty if she lost a lot of weight.
You guys need to stop fighting on what someone is. First of all African American people have all textures of hair. Some are puff and striaght but chilli if FULL African American, Her father Abdul Ali, has Middle Eastern ancestry but says he is 100% black and her mother, Ava Thomas, is African-American and if you think she got the hair from her dad your wrong it was her mom. She says shes full African American couple times before so why do we care.
Women create lists like hers because of men like Usher. Once we get hurt we double down on "standards" in an attempt to make sure we are not hurt again. It rarely works.
If men and women didn't make women feel like shit for not havin a man,I think women would be more picky. My aunt is divorced and people wont let her alone about a man. Everytime she get in an argument with a cousin or sister its "dats why you aint got a man" women aint taught to value themselves by their dummy mommas and fathers
I do not think there is anything wrong with Chilli's list, maybe a few she could compromise on like the pork eating part but it's here nor there, however things like drinking, smoking, staying healthy=health conscious, a Christian and not just a christian by name but someone who practises it, respectable, goal, family oriented. To me those are not extremely high standards, I think society/the world has allowed so many things to be acceptable that people think it's normal to do.
@dirtylilpig98 i mean look @ how many times she hav been heartbroken its kinda hard 4 her 2 relax when she got her heartbroken twice so i can c y she got a checklist
TriceyDiva💋 actually Dallas did. like seriously. he slept with every girl behind Chilli’s back. that’s why she finds everything wrong with each man she’s been on a date with.
That was so cute to see Chilli and T-Boz look at each other with love in their eyes. AAAAAW! I love their bond.
Ikr
Ikr
Chilli is doing her body well. I see why her standards are so high. Her means of living are high. It goes hand in hand. #GOALS
De'Shon Riggins
Well said! She is only asking for what she her self can bring to the table. Love Tboz and Chilli!
how they were looking at each other at 5:48 >>> awww
KanaAnnie Messick ikr I LOVE HOW THEY LOOK AT EACH OTHER WITH SISTERLY LOVE REST IN PEACE LEFT EYE
12:20-13:04 when Dallas showed up and they had a cute little family moment for a few minutes. I loved it. so cute.
Please Dallas was just there for clout. Usher might as well be his father
I love how chilli and tron get along so well and also how well chilli and Dallas get along most separated couples with children end up on maury lol
They’re goodpeople that’s why they get along sometimes people end with psychos so of course you can’t be rational with then
I love the mother and son dates and how she's preparing him
Chilli got Matthew Lawrence now. I hope it works out for her.
T-boz is so chill !!! I love HER
Exactly, she is not settling for anybody just to have someone, I applaud her for that too. These days women are being with men just to have a man, they don't care if the man beats on them, a cheater, a drug user, all they just want to have someone, which is sad. I am glad to see women like chilli, who is not going to settle for anything,she wants what she wants.
Glad she prepared her son. 🙏🏽☺ Now he's engaged. 🥳💍
"like she has Tourettes!"
OMG T-Boz cracks me up.
7:15
Hey I’m glad that she talk to T-boz and tell her what’s up, and I’m glad T-boz give her a sample
Chilli literally describe Michael Jackson as his man type.😂
Her son is to cute she's a great mom she'll be a wonderful wife:) I love u Chili Never Give Up
Chilli making sure she stuck to the song no scrubs I met her the other day I love her
lmao "time to start the workout" "wait that wasnt the workout"
Ashley Gayle 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
its nice to see parents who aren't still together getting along
Chili don't need usher. He can't keep his thing his pants
Deandra D he got an STD now so you ain’t wrong
She dodged a bullet
Loving the way she's raising Tron! And when Daddy shows up.. Aww... So touching! Chilli is the bomb and I'm glad she got help with the therapist.
Exactly, society tells us that we have to have someone in order to be happy which is a load of BS. Look at high the Divorce rates are today. If your Aunt is happy with the way she is, then that's all that matters. I much rather be single then to be in a unhappy marriage being cheated on and abused.
T-Boz is still fine!!
I love what chilli wants
I mean everything she's asking for she has like she has a 6 pack,she doesn't drink or smoke,she loves kids of course , and etc
jiselle mcfarlane Exactly! People keep saying that she's being unrealistic, but she's not asking for anything that she, herself, is not.
@@tiffanywaldon4875 She gotta fat 10 inch penis? And quite frankly she has these things because she leads the life of a celebrity. She has to be fit for her profession... If dude is a telemarketer .. he sits down all day... Usher was in her profession.
@@THEKINGOFGAYMUSIC you don't need to be a celebrity to be fit lol
@@tiffanywaldon4875 and that's exactly why opposite's attract
Chili is one of the most beautiful celebrities out there!!! And shes half black half indian:)
I'm not saying this to insult Chilli, but a psychologist would really be better for her. This matchmaker isn't helping the situation by being impatient, angry, and insulting; I think she's just stressed out because her reputation is on the line. Chilli is getting in her own way, and she needs to find out what it is (with a professional who's supportive). No one is perfect, and i know she can solve this!
Agreed
I was ctfu when her son was eating! Her facial expressions are priceless haha!!!
11:49
Never compromise Chili! I won't!
Chilli has two options: Dallas or Usher lol. I think she and Dallas still got it though and they should try again
i respect chilli so much because she has morals and u dont see dat in black women these days so i dont blame her 4 havin a checklist she jus dont want any man she want da rite man
3:14 😂🤣 her face and voice, I can’t 😂🤣
Chilli is like really really mature and classy I never knew her personality was like that !
T-Boz issss sssooooooo funnnnnnnyyyyy!
Awwww i kove how they look atceach other with love
Aww i love her and Tionne together. I guess as you get older you grow apart from certain friends
5:49 was The cutest thing ever that eye contact moment love them soo much sister luv ❤️🙈☺️
chilli is very pretty
Well I couldn't work out with that hairstyle, it's more fitting for the red carpet :D
One of favorite episodes ❤😂
Awww i love TLC
oh nice show! I just watch it for the first time xD
Chilli deserves to have high standards
I agree why are people so fussy
I think it's a good thing chilli has some of those standards a spouse can't be in equally yoked she stays fit and healthy her man should too
thats my first time seeing dallas in real life !!!!!!!
People need to stop hating
Thank god she talked to t boz
The way chilli mocked delvet lol!
Tron has NO MANNERS while eating....he really has no manners!
Seriously!! He eats like an animal
nothing is wrong with the list, i get the drinking and smoking and wanting them to be gorgeous of course. the pork is also understandable, it's another reason why people are vegetarians, much to do with politics, and animal torture. duh.
Her son is so adorable
Everyone ear the story Mr. Ralph and Annie I can see Usher and Chilli coming around again. The word compromise and qualities. Did not give up Mr. Ralph she won't give up on Usher. Actually Usher and Chilli are friends.
chilli was drivin usher crazy..he just couldnt do it no mo..but he did love her..she fucked it up by bein to demanding
I think 🤔 chill is a Muslim from inside! Waooo
I love my girls from TLC they are my favorite group. This is no show though for years Chilli and T-boz have struggled with finding a good man. However in Chilli's case the problem is her. She is too picky and she is thinking with a celebrity mind. She needs to think on the level of being human and a woman. The right man for her might not be one who is able to meet all of her pre-requisites. He might not be rich or have a perfect body. Sadly for her true love is something that she may not get.
tboz looks so different
Best comment on race everrr!
If we women are HONEST, at some point we all subscribe to The List in our heads. Yes, have standards but that damn list keeps you back.
I'm so glad her friend let her talk to that lovely older couple - great idea.
I'm not sure why anyone would bother with her. She Childish, too materialist and a little too insecure and from this she lacks social skills
One thing fo sure she doesn't have issue with her ex Dallas Austin. Usher going through hell now with his ex wife I don't think Usher would have this problem with Chilli. She knows how to handle her business. she morals and values she wouldn't be spitting on ex girlfriends like someone did. I know Usher said he don't live with regret but definitely look back cz he said he should have listen to his mom and Usher's mom love Chilli. How could you not. Chilli got a good spirit.
13:31 Mrs. Ruth hit home and really touch base on how to find that one man. Its hard finding that special someone but u have to know the quality in what you will live with and what you cant live without with.
aww poor Chilli she's too damn beautiful for the bullshit... and the list is too superficial because she can find just one of few guys with all the qualities on the list and he may not be for her.. she's passing up a lot of good guys with THE LIST, because its all about what the person is willing to do for you .. maybe Chilli being a good woman that she is, she can inspire someone to quit doing all of the things that she doesnt want them to just with her LOVE ...
shes very pretty
Chilli is a Pisces they live in they’re own fantasy’s 24/7.
Love t boz
To each their own, you have to know what you want and what you can tolerate in life, and if u can't tolerate those things, then don't put up with it, misery is not worth it. Plus she is at a point in her life where she has a child and wants someone who would be an extremely good role model and influence to her son and future kid/s. And I would not personally want to be with someone who does not take care of them self to stay healthy and a live a longer life. #I-dont-have-time-for-that.
8:36 the nigga in tha back llf 😂😂😃
Akira Miller 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 y'all tooo silly lolololol!!! He just admiring the view 😂😂🤓🤓
chilli is in really good shape. she has a body even better than a lot of women in there 20's. i bet her dating adviser would be pretty if she lost a lot of weight.
I actually agree with you for the first time. She still looks the same, and she is the prettiest in the tlc group.
Prince Khari The Poofumuffinhead yeah true but ooooo that picture is scary, them eyes. where did you find it.
howard gordo lol bahahaha on Google images, I typed in hamsters and found this lol
she IS pretty. lOoking weight would benefit her in many ways. But she's already pretty. I think.
+Jane Rebecca *loosing
I don’t think she’s asking for too much
Over a decade later chilli is still single
Facts 🤣🤣🤣
she's not now
You guys need to stop fighting on what someone is. First of all African American people have all textures of hair. Some are puff and striaght but chilli if FULL African American,
Her father Abdul Ali, has Middle Eastern ancestry but says he is 100% black and her mother, Ava Thomas, is African-American and if you think she got the hair from her dad your wrong it was her mom. She says shes full African American couple times before so why do we care.
I think Chilli pushed Usher away.
She's just toooo much with the expectations.
He cheated on her
Women create lists like hers because of men like Usher. Once we get hurt we double down on "standards" in an attempt to make sure we are not hurt again. It rarely works.
@@clarajackson8911 Not true. Chilli said he didn't 💁♀️
honestly, USHER is THEE best bet for her:)
ur find the right man!!!
lol i was just thinking that
I used to think that my standards were high, until I saw this. Chilli IS pathetic.
she's never gonna find a man lol
Leave it up to god and Jesus 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ever seen a gorgeous eskimo? Right, didn't think so.
Her mom is black and her dad is Indo-Carribean. But I know she does identify as black.
If men and women didn't make women feel like shit for not havin a man,I think women would be more picky. My aunt is divorced and people wont let her alone about a man. Everytime she get in an argument with a cousin or sister its "dats why you aint got a man" women aint taught to value themselves by their dummy mommas and fathers
I do not think there is anything wrong with Chilli's list, maybe a few she could compromise on like the pork eating part but it's here nor there, however things like drinking, smoking, staying healthy=health conscious, a Christian and not just a christian by name but someone who practises it, respectable, goal, family oriented. To me those are not extremely high standards, I think society/the world has allowed so many things to be acceptable that people think it's normal to do.
i personally keep seeing her belonging with usher. period.
I got the vibe that Christian really didn't want to date her ,he just was bored or SumThin but dude has da most sexiest bedroom eyes
Damn Dallas look fine ass hell..ahhah
she needs usher back in her life
I don't think she wants herpes
Clara Jackson 😂 😂 😂
she can't get mad at that girl cause she got to send her life with him
Chilli is going to be single forever
Fact!
Yes and it's sad if she really doesn't want to be. If she DOES want to, though, it can be empowering.
@dirtylilpig98 i mean look @ how many times she hav been heartbroken its kinda hard 4 her 2 relax when she got her heartbroken twice so i can c y she got a checklist
something about her reminds me of Jlo...
Only if I was older ;)
yes indeed it refers to people in the Caribbean of Indian descent, also nicki minaj father is of Indo-Caribbean. MarisaStar1 google it
No cause she's also looking for a gorgeous dude.
I love chilli and I'm 12 and watch my video to cause im trying to get an girl group
She is a joke......a joke ! hahahaha
i can understand most of the thang's chiili is looking for and she's right, but the other thang's are kinda crazy.
bingo!
She realli lookn for a guy that look good and trust me she not with Floyd cuz floyd don't wanna take it there with her
Lol she tlk shit n her sleep lol to funny
@Megara lol thats funny
Prince did her so dirty
TriceyDiva💋 actually Dallas did. like seriously. he slept with every girl behind Chilli’s back. that’s why she finds everything wrong with each man she’s been on a date with.
yo that's exactly what i said