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Hey guys, it's Charlotte Dobre here, and today we're going to be discussing a shocking story that has taken the internet by storm. In this video, we'll be exploring the story of a woman who claimed her husband faked his own d3ath, only to have him come forward and reveal the truth.
It all started when the woman took to TikTok to share her story with the world. She claimed that her husband had di3d in a tragic accident, leaving her to pick up the pieces and carry on without him. But as she began to dig deeper into the circumstances surrounding his d3ath, she began to suspect that something was not right.
In her TikTok videos, the woman shared her suspicions and theories with her followers, many of whom were sympathetic and supportive. But just when it seemed like she was on the verge of uncovering the truth, her husband appeared on social media to reveal that he was very much alive and well.
The husband's response to his wife's allegations was nothing short of shocking, and he exposed her lies for all the world to see. The internet was abuzz with the scandalous turn of events, with people taking sides and debating who was in the right.
In this video, we'll be exploring the many twists and turns of this shocking story, as well as the potential consequences for both the woman and her husband. We'll also be discussing the power of social media to amplify even the most personal and intimate of dramas, and the responsibility that comes with sharing our lives online.
So buckle up and get ready for a wild ride as we dive into the story of the woman who told TikTok her husband faked his d3ath, only to be exposed by him in the end. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button for more fascinating stories just like this one. Thanks for watching!
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00:00-01:37 ANESSA ROSSI'S STORY
01:37-11:55 ANESSA ROSSI'S HUSBAND RESPONDS
12:48-17:16 THE MISTRESS SPEAKS OUT
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Okay but her mom actually calling the ex-husband directly to see if he was really d3ad kinda makes sense, since she knows her daughter is a pathological liar
Exactly. Went looking for this comment. Why wouldn't you fact check every single thing this woman tells you if that's her track record?
Yeah it doesn't even matter how much you directly confront them they will just make up more lies. You can show them video evidence and they will still lie to you. Reminds me of Letecia Stauch 😂 compulsive Liars are literally the scum of the earth. Because they aren't lying about innocent things only. They are lying to make themselves look good or look like a victim and destroying innocent people's lives in the process!
Was gonna say this same thing
I came here to comment this exactly thing. I don’t find it strange at all. Mom know her daughter is a pathological liar, so calling him to confirm is logical to me
Yeah. When that was debated, I was thinking it makes sense if the mom knows what a deep liar the daughter is.
Even if he's telling small lies, it's nothing compared to lying about someone being dead. She needs intensive help. HOW DO YOU LIE ABOUT YOUR DAD DYING
Also, lets stigmatize bringing other peoples kids into grown up nonsense
"lets stigmatize bringing other peoples kids into grown up nonsense" I was thinking the kids are probably more mature than the adults in this circus. Man, even a toddler's drama isn't this weird.
@@stxrynn but still it's drama of their parents so they shouldn't be part of this even if they're more mature then them . Sorry but cyber bullying a kids just cuz they parents want some kind of attention? That's messed up 🥲
@@stxrynn cyberbullying children isn't okay. Period
Also imagine just always making up fake stories about unrealistic events happening and then thinking that your husband is at fault when she got found out...
Maybe this guy is making up stories too?! Who knows
Bullying and threatening a child is not right. Also the mum calling to see if he is alive is 100% what I would do if I knew someone was a pathological liar.
Especially one that's apparently autistic. They're not wrong about the cyber bullying, at this point it's just straight up harassment of a minor
Yeah frankly even if the husband did cheat, how you gonna bully an autistic kid?
Yep its definitely showing her true self wow there both losers😮
Our sons ex lied about soo much and we fell for it, hook line and sinker. Her parents didn't bother informing us that she has 'histrionic personality disorder', I'd never heard of it before but it explained a lot. I had mobility issues due to a knee op gone wrong, over the three years that she dated our son, she would mimic my walk, how I held onto certain points throughout the house to move around faster and without a cane. She claimed SA by an uncle, I suffered that so I supported her, the whole time her parents knew of all these lies and said nothing, as if they were hoping she would marry our son and then it would be our problem. They moved away to her home area of the country for just over a year, then came back here and lived in our home for 6 months before they got their own place.
Six months later and she then began 'staying at a neighbours' flat. Our son was jumped when she told that neighbour and his friend that our son was abusive (physically and emotionally) and r*ped here, she even said that to the estate agent who informed us after we called her to let her know of the assault and that our son would be moving out. Our son was devastated and overdosed on painkillers, luckily we got him to the hospital after she called laughing to let us know that he had taken pills (laughing about his MH, even though she claimed to have MH issues herself) and she was going out. The r*pe accusation, getting jumped and the calls all happened within 5 hours, the scariest 5 hours of my life.
Even now, over a year and a half of being free from her, I'm still informed that we are terrible people, our son is abusive and we never supported her or helped her when she needed it. Hurts me, ngl. She claims to have hypermobility so uses a wheelchair, multiple personalities, childhood regression issues, sensory issues, PTSD, Autism along with a few others. Compulsive liars get away with too much, when they come across like a sociopath aswell... well that's a different kettle of fish. She is still with the neighbour, she is 22 and he is older than my husband... Yeah, had to add that as that was another of the weird issues. My son is still in a sad space, but getting there. Just need to get his confidence back up.
Sorry for my little rant there, but this is hard to watch as it hits home for me. Feels good to rant about it though, don't often share that much, this is the randomness of the net so hopefully I'm forgiven.
I’m so sorry you guys had to go through that. Definitely sounds traumatic but Karma always pays its dues where it’s needed, good or bad. Hope things continue getting better for you all
@@SHKRILLABAYBECELI It was a hard lesson to learn, but on the plus side I am now aware of people like that. Not that I live with rose tinted glasses, but until I saw it first hard, I would have thought someone was maybe exaggerating things. Like who would act like that..
I'm so sorry you went through this. I knew a girl that did similar to 2 of her boyfriends and my friend. We didn't know she was like this until she was living with my friend and caused her hell, lying, being manipulative and abusing her to the point she was wanting to unalive every day. It turned out she'd basically emotionally tortured and pushed her exes to unalive on purpose. She should be in prison imo.
I hope your family recovers and your son finds happiness and never has to experience that kind of abuse again.
@@MissKittyBelle Thank you. I hope your friend was able to move on, it's sad to know that there are more out there.
The silver lining would be the awareness you gain from knowing/interacting with someone like that. Yes, hard lesson to learn, but boy do you learn.
Stay safe.
So sorry you and your family went through that.
I have a sister who's a pathological liar and Tim's story isn't that hard to believe. They convince/brainwash themselves into believing it's actually happened, which makes the stories that much more believable. My sister told a childhood friend of hers that I ran into recently that her daughter died of brain cancer...my niece turned 18 last week and is very much healthy and well.
I believe Tim.
I had a friend who always lied about everything. My favorite was when she tried to convince me her 'boss' had tried to kill her by attempting to throw her into the machines at some factory she claimed to work at. Supposedly she was hanging on for dear life and some coworker came by, fought the boss off, and pulled her out before she could get hurt. First off, she was like 16-17. What 'factory' is hiring minors to work around 'dangerous machines'. Second, we live in a tiny town of less than 4000 people. There are no factories around here, and if someone attempted to murder someone else, it would be all over town instantly. Plus she claimed that she 'chose' not to involve police despite supposedly coming inches from death. So many holes in such an outlandish story.
Worst part is that they actually fully believe those lies as well. It's like they live in their own little fantasy worlds and can't recognize what's fantasy and what's not..
I knew someone like that too. They are out there.
It is the worst part that they believe it. I literally had a best friend like this and uncovering all the lies she made up not only to me about other but to me about myself and to other about me. Called me her sister but said insane things!!!! She was insane she lied and it took me almost ten years to realize she very much believes herself. She honestly believed herself and made up situations to get attention like when her husband tries to leave her she using her kids at the e.r. at 3 am with the kids for herself for nothing. And convincing the kids he's cheating her and her daughter calling messaging everyone that even looks at his social media. Following his location when he goes to families to stay to get away from her and when we say that his mom or his brother she says he knows someone in the house behind. I mean everything one time she got someone who stole his picture and one that looked so much like him but it wasn't it was different man with his wife but the person who stole the pictures was a scammer from Africa. Thay day I stayed up with her calling it was one of my realization moments we blew up the accounts until finally I got the guy to answer I was at my house her at hers doing this to catch what she was c9nvinced was a women posting her husband and pictures of the woman with the husband but it was a scammer and finally the scammer answered! It was like 1 am where I lived and he was in Africa snd it was daylight so I knew. He actually answered and I talked to him he was a Nigerian but he was really didn't admit to the stealing of photos but I explained my friend thinks your a woman who her husband is cheating on her with and that was so eye opening for me bc then I knew. Even after she still didn't get it I had talked to the guy not her and I explained it to her but she still didn't stop to this day I haven't talked to her in 2 years bc of some things she said about me and my 13yr old daughter trying to come between us bc she was jealous of our friendship WTF. that was the last straw but I talked to her daughter and I can tell her mother is still doing it and her husband leaves her lime 5 times a year for a month at a time sometimes but he can't get away last I heard she filed for support still married and is trying to convince the whole family he did it. But some of us (me) can actually understand court documents and it's clear she filed. But hey not my problem anymore just adding my experience with a person who really does act like this. It's legit and they believe themselves when doing it. How can you g9 on lime that for your entire life if you don't believe it the lying would drive a person insane it think.
I traveled to a different state with my sister for a one week holiday 3 years ago. She told me “let’s have fun, whatever happens here stays here 🥳🤪”. I only found out THIS year from our eldest sister that she told everyone I was not even with her and stayed in a hotel with my boyfriend and that I was there being a “whore”….
My sister paid for the hotel that we stayed in TOGETHER 😭 because I’m legally BROKE 🙄💀 and she’s the one who would go out and I’d wait for her in the hotel SHE PAID FORRRR. I only paid for my flight which was all agreed on before traveling as she wanted a travel partner.
Smh… I cut her bitch as out this year… like why lie? What was the point? 😭 I hate liars, they’re so ugly for no reason. 😊
It speaks volumes to me that the fiancée is willing to speak publicly about this. English is not her first language and she struggled to explain but still felt it was important enough to try and stick up for him. It was obvious to me she didn’t want to have to do that video. Until the fiancée’s TikTok I wasn’t sure, but now I believe them.
Yeah, I believe her as well.
Absolutely! Agree with you 100%
She made the most sense tbh. And she seems like a very well rounded and mature woman. Also, let's leave their kids alone. They have nothing to do with adult messiness.
Absolutely just like he said "she is a women and annessa is a girl" lol. But bringing kids into anything is always wrong. I'm team Tim!
I don't believe that they didn't cheat on the ex wife but I believe that she's making up stories to hurt them
I was a pathological liar once when I was a kid. Every word that came out of my mouth was a lie. I lie almost at every first conversation I engage in. I then one day asked myself "why do I do this?"
I'm glad I got to control myself before my lies became too much to handle.
mad respect for admitting that
I agree, mad respect for putting in the work as well 🙌 If you are comfortable answering I would genuinely appreciate hearing your opinion on 'why do I do this?' Thank you!
@@Sgt.Subversion 100% for attention... I didn't know how to get anyone to notice me. My parents both work, had a big age gap among my older siblings, they shoo me away from their business with their friends cuz i was too young. So when my mom or dad comes home from work, id tell them my "little adventures" back out the streets or in the park which didn't actually happened. Like I'd say "I saw [celebrity's name]. They shooting a movie or something. And guessed what...they asked me to play a role in it!"
My parents didn't see it as a problem at that time but it became a problem for me in making friends😅. I often told my classmates/kids in the neighborhood, I was friends/ relatives with so and so [again, celebrities]. I also made them come over to my birthday party to meet these celebrities. And when they did come, I would say "Sadly, [_____] couldn't come" etc.
There was a lie of mine that went too far tho. So I had to control my tongue to not make that mistake happen again.
@@Sgt.SubversionI can't answer for OP, but I know why *I* did this...
Escape. Pure and simple. I even remember the very first time I lied... I was in 2nd or 3rd grade, and was VERY ADHD as well as PTSD, both of which wouldn't be recognized until I was an adult. On that day, I came home without my homework. I had totally forgotten it. When my mom asked, I panicked and lied. Which meant NOTHING BAD HAPPENED.
The fact that my lies would just make WORSE "bad happened" later took many years for me to really actually recognize. Part of ADHD is difficulty with anything to do with long-range planning, reality, consequences (as I've come to understand it, anyway). By the time I did start to recognize it, I was still in a very "not safe" environment. I both became VERY GOOD at deception, and just retreated as hard as I could, trying to avoid EVERYTHING.
Once I was an adult and out of that situation, it took years of working my a$$ off to break all that. I am NEVER willing to return to that toxic stress again. But that's me as an adult, and not helpless anymore.
I've long suspected many people lie to fulfill a variety of needs, and not all of them will be physical safety. Emotional and mental safety will be more difficult to identify, but also some I have known just seem to have ... a need for this?
My kiddo (one of two) was very much like this. Kiddo finally was able to see and vocalize that they created scenarios that matched how they FELT, or they thought would be "neat" or give something they "needed". To be clear, kiddo was YOUNG as well as non-neurotypical, so it was a very difficult and confusing world for kiddo to navigate. Their confusion was so real.
I'm very proud to say this kiddo also worked their a$$ off, and after a period of a couple years learning to recognize and independently self correct lies ("actually, that's not actually what happened. I'm sorry. It was just this and that.") this kiddo is no longer battling so hard against automatic fabrication. I won't say it's not there on occasion, but definitely is not as toxic. Kiddo is not yet adult, and kiddo is still working hard and improving. 🥰
I'm sure there's many scenarios for this 🤷♀️ It's all in if an individual will own their own crud or not.
Just from my perspective, anyway. 😊
I feel so bad for Tim being put through this. I feel bad for Anessa for lying this way.
In regards to Anessa's mom calling Tim thinking he's dead, it makes sense. Her mom knows she's a pathological liar so obviously the mother called to make sure it wasn't true. I have a pathological liar in my family and this honestly is the kind of stuff they put me and my family through almost every day.
I knew it was bull when she said she was in contact with the CORONER. The CORONER! They don’t lie or confirm deaths with no evidence. Wtf. That’s a confirmable lie.
When my friend told his sisters that he heard their other sister was in a wheelchair now they each independently asked “like as an insurance fraud thing?” None of them know for sure because they’re all no contact.
Growing up gaslight scars people.
You are correct. The host is taking sides for whatever reasons
And I mean, it's not like grieving has a timeline.
The second she told her mom "Tim is dead", the mom was grieving. If it was 5 minutes until she tried calling Tim doesn't matter. Because again, grief has no time limit for how long it has to be before it's "valid"
I had a friend who was a pathological liar. It got to the point where I had to double check everything she said. The woman’s mother called the “dead man” because she needed to double check her pathological liar daughter’s story.
Rachel, if you had to start double-checking everything they said, why did you remain friends with them? (This is an honest question.)
Yeah that’s my thinking. It’s way more likely that the mom called a dead man than that this guy somehow faked his death convincingly enough to fool the police and a coroner
same. my ex-best friend is a pathological liar. you just can't trust a single word they say.
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@ Nélia Ferreira
It’s seriously not that simple and there are thousands of things that could have happened (rejection sensitivity dysphoria, the friend is to it and manipulative, etc), Rachel also mentioned that they had (past tense) a friend who was a pathological liar
As someone who used lies as a defense mechanism when I was a kid. This girl is not just lying. She’s ruining lives. She’s addicted to the attention that grief and sympathy bring her. She needs therapy. Serious help.
The timing of all of this is bizarre for me. I’ve been catching my husband in a web of different lies for years. If I don’t have concrete or solid proof when I confront him over suspicions, he’ll lie more - but out of 90% of those situations I eventually was able to find proof. When I do have proof, he doesn’t try to cover it up with more lies and will just admit that he lied but he’ll still try to defend himself with excuses as to why he felt like he had to do it. We almost got divorced over it two years ago but I agreed to change my own perspective and try to give him a safe space to feel like he can tell the truth. That lasted for two seconds before I got angry and hostile for being continuously lied to. This year will be five years that I’ve been married to him and on Mother’s Day he left his phone at his moms house and asked me to get it for him, thinking that I didn’t know his passcode. I found out that he had been lying to me about something I had suspicions over for two weeks and he finally agreed to go to therapy for the first time in his adult life. He told me that he knows he has a problem and needs help, and we’re both well aware of where the lying stems from, which in short, it stems from a massive accident he was in as a child in which he was hospitalized for a couple years due to needing hundreds of surgeries to recover from that accident. This accident and how long it effected him has all been verified. The lying was a coping mechanism he carried into adulthood with him and he never learned why it was wrong and how badly it can effect a relationship. I’m willing to give it all one last chance to see if he can fix the issue in therapy but I’m curious if you feel like you were able to successfully address that defense mechanism and learn new behaviors?
@@crystalciera49 oh hunni if what you wrote is accurate please leave. Please please leave ..
That’s just more lies to keep you around.
Not the fact he was in an accident..
But the fact he is now a pathological liar because of it 🥸
He’s a narcissist. Hands down a narcissist, they also lie through their teeth’s
And mind you narcissism is a defence mechanism too -
But that does not excuse that behaviour. Not in the slightest
He will never ever stop unless he wants to, and it doesn’t sound like he wants to.
He just has to - to keep you as his narcissistic supply
And either way - narcissism and as a result pathological lying
Even if he does try to work on it- it will be life long journey and he will slip back into those patterns
@@crystalciera49 and the fact that you show him proof of his lying -
And he doesn’t double down and keep lying - is literal proof he is NOT a pathological liar -
He has a condition (narcissism) which results in constant lying
An actual pathological liar would keep lying despite unbelievable evidence against them ..
There’s how you can tell the difference
He will
Make excuses when finally Caught - I bet he also gaslights you and turns it back on you
Textbook narcissist
Crystal, you need to leave him.
Please leave that man right tf now,
@@crystalciera49 I read your comment and I'm sorry for what has been going on. Hoping you're doing OK and that the therapy has helped. I'm not going to tell you to leave but what I will say is my best friend, her partner and the father of her kids was a pathological liar, he'd lie about silly little things, try to convince her she was in the wrong and he was telling the truth, he'd tell her she remembered things wrong (typical gaslighting, but it was mainly over small, insignificant things so she'd ignore it). Things got worse and after being together for 10yrs she finally kicked him out. She met a new guy and is very happily married. She is much better off. With all that I know from witnessing my best friend's relationship, I do understand what you're going through and I hope that whatever happens you live a life filled with success, love and happiness. 😊
Seeing other peoples drama on the internet makes me love my ‘boring’, normal life so so much. I can’t believe people are actually out here functioning like this!
Anyone who threatens to call CPS fir revenge is a MONSTER
Mad respect for this guy to maintain composure and call out the trolls. Also for sticking up for his fiance and kids.
Agreed. Also to any adult who think it's appropriate to go to a child's social media page and Bully that child because of something the adults in their lives do you're not a good person. You're not even a nice person. Why in God's name would anybody think that that's a good idea?
Idk, lots of stuff doesn't add up, I think they're all lying. He starts with "I'm too old for drama" but instead of just clearing the situation he started to spill the tea on any lie Anessa ever allegedly said... that sounds like drama to me. I don't think anyone is being honest, not fully honest for sure, probably adding some stuff to throw dirt at the other person. Without solid proof, messages, or admissions of lying, I'm not believing anyone! He seems very sus
@@0Onyx13 “that sounds like drama to me” no that’s airing out her shit. Calling her out for the apparent stuff he did but she was lying. Calling out lies, especially harmful ones, isn’t “drama” honestly
@@0Onyx13 not to mention it isn’t drama at all, it’s his life. She called him these things and said these things. Why shouldnt he defend himself??
@@0Onyx13 He's ranting. Do you know what happens when you first start discovering a pathological liar has taken up a huge role in your life then is constantly lying about you? You go through all the potential lies they've every told you, you go on this huge ass journey through it where you feel dumber and dumber for putting that trust in them. So when you mention one, you start listing them all off because YOU'RE IN SHOCK still. How didn't you see it? Why didn't you see it? How could they lie about shit like that? I legit just did that in a previous comment because it builds and builds, and you find yourself recounting more than what you intended because it's so ridiculous mentally. I don't like the guy but I believe she's a liar like that, especially because that was real anger for his kid and I've been there trying to sift though what's lies, what's truth and just... it's tiring, man. Especially when social media is involved. SHE brought it to the public. Keep that in mind, not him or his girlfriend. He probably only jumped in because her followers took it to the fucking kids. Which is disgusting. Again, I don't like him. His personality ain't for me but I see that frustration I went through. It's shitty.
I genuinely believe the ex-husband for 2 reasons:
1. He doesn't exhibit signs of lying. Meaning he doesn't distance himself from the story by using impersonal statements. And he doesn't get every detail correct, which means his story isn't rehearsed.
2. In the woman's TikTok she said that she deserves an Oscar for the scenarios she makes up in her head. At the bottom of her TikTok, it said that she's seeing a psychiatrist and has now been diagnosed.
Yes, I was starting to wonder if I was the only one who noticed that part!
@@mrandisg I didn't see that because I was washing dishes but you're right! OMG!!! 2 kids are having their lives threatened over this. Its crazy. thanks both you for posting that.
Nah he seems very sus too, lots of what he says doesn't add up. Most likely scenario at this point is that these 3 invented the whole story to become viral. I believe NO ONE 🙅🏻♀
And Tim and the “mistress “ look fine for Tiktok
And she looks like a troll, doesn’t even doll up 😅
i'm glad she went to see a psychiatrist, do you know what she was diagnosed with
If she knows her daughter is a pathological liar it makes perfect sense she called him??
I was married to a pathological liar...and he lied about everything including his age, career, income, name, his family, his education, places he's lived, driving a sports car that didn't belong to him, etc. Anytime you start catching people even in small lies run!!!
To be fair, I've immediately called someone after hearing they could be dead. My friends were talking about hearing from someone that my cousin had died in a car crash. It was weird that I hadnt heard about it, because he was my cousin, so i called his phone and he answered. Yes, he had been in a wreck, but he had a few broken bones and was alive and mostly well
Yeah, I didn't think that part was all that odd, especially considering the daughter is stated to be a known liar. If one of my kids had a past like that, fact-checking would become second nature. In fact, it would make less sense for her to take her daughter at her word, wouldn't it? Something that serious? No, you immediately verify for yourself. Even with honest people it can be a misunderstanding, as your experience proves.
Also, glad your cousin was okay!
Same here.. I don't think that is so weird thing.. My instinct was to call..
It's something a lot of people would do, I think. I think it would be a common part of denial now adays
I have too :(
When I was told my father had passed I immediately called him. Unfortunately, it was true, my dearest Dad had died at just 53. But I don't blame the mother-in-law for calling, just to check.
You cross a line when you bring SOMEONE ELSES KIDS into the situation. You don’t threaten someone else’s kids or threaten to take away someone’s kids. That’s truly insane!!
#TRUTH 💯
Yeah that was heartless... And having people bully the stepson because he's autistic
@@natalyabaich4006 oh no.
Not the fuckin kids
Sending love to your family and your son
Remember that woman who pretended to get threats from her ex's wife and then faked her own death and had her arrested for her death? It gave me that vibe. Wow.😮
As someone who dated someone who was a pathological liar....I believe him. My ex literally also lied about people dying and about being raped. Being lied to about such huge things is so hurtful and traumatic.
It is possible that the mother called Timmy, knowing her daughter is pathological, to see if she was telling the truth or not. I mean, if you know someone who makes stuff up all the time, and they told you so-and-so passed, wouldn't you call so-and-so to find out for yourself?
I have a family member that likes to make stuff up and I always double check anything they tell me. I'm more shocked when I find out they were telling the truth, rather than the lie!
That's what it feels like to me too, dang getting chills watching this...
YUP. As someone with a family member like this, we frequently have to call and check-up on people given his constant lies. If we believed him and didnt check up on people, most of my family would be "dead or in jail", instead of thriving like they actually are.
This is exactly one of my cousins...he can tell you that it is dark outside and you go outside to check.
Be careful of other family member hiding other people's BS so that when you grow up and call them out on their non-sense, you're then casted as a black sheep. I will always stand up for myself even if its my own family. 🦍
This is what I thought. That the mother was told by Anessa that the ex-husband died, and she got taken in at first, but then remembered who her daughter was and decided to double-check, so she called him. I have also delt with a few pathological liars in my lifetime.
I absolutely believe the ex husband. His story rang so much more true as he was telling it than hers did, even if some parts may have sounded off. The number one rule with memory recall is that people are unable to recount a story with the same exact details every time. It always gets told slightly different, but the most important parts will stay the same.
It’s totally plausible that the parents of a woman who is diagnosed/believed to be a pathological liar would just get on a simple call with the ex to verify if his death is real or another lie. This story just seems sad, get that woman in a good mental clinic.
I think a lot of the things that people pointed out that didn't make sense was because his intention wasn't to tell a story so the order of the story got messed up (which proves that he hadn't planned out what he was going to say in the video)
@@floraflitzereth8148 Exactly!
Nothing he said contradicted anything else he said. He was told by his gf that her mom was in a coma. Later he spoke to the mom on the phone and said “I thought you were dead.” Connecting the dots his gf told him at some point her mom died…no he was not saying it in the most coherent or sequential order because this story is just wild!
@@LikesLimes also if someone is in a coma they're not well usually. So it'd make sense for him to be concerned she was dying. In a conversation you wouldn't say "oh i though you were in a coma and close to dying" it'd be easy to slip or even for the sake of talking quicker to just say dead.
I used to be a pathological liar when I was younger. From a litlle kid to my 18s. I remember that I felt my life was so boring, and i was looking for attention. I realized that a few years ago, and with therapy (not about that exclusively) I've learned that I had such an amazing life, so many unique experiences to share with my friends. I realized that lying was a burden to me, because I was so scared of being called a liar, not trustworthy.
It really needs to comes from within to heal, with some professional help.
I dated a pathological liar for a very brief period of time. He told me he was descendant from royalty (I had to restrain myself from laughing out loud every single time he told me and others that story). He had a ring as "proof", wore a cloak and hired "security" and a driver for one of the nights we went out, wrote an entire awful "article" about him being at that club as a celebrity (like a paparazzi article) and printed it to show me. LMAO. He was also fully gay but wouldn't admit it. He's still in the closet to this day. I know it sounds insane, but it's true. I couldn't stand him for more than a week and a half. Soooo much lying, and for no reason at all.
i feel like it s more worrisome that people get so riled up by random peoples lifes/stories to go and threaten people and their kids.
True. This is what's most alarming to me even though what Anessa did is intense because atleast she would be held accountable but those online bullies, no and maybe even never. It's like when celebrities are not great with each other and then fans are the ones sending death threats but the one being held accountable only is the celeb.
I’ve literally said so many times “if (my sister) told me someone was dead I’d go to the damn coffin just to check!” Maybe calling them is easier but yeah, when you have a pathological liar in your life you start to become dubious of everything they say.
You’re in hospital because you fell in the kitchen? Take a damn photo of you in the hospital with a white piece of paper with the date on and tell me your doctors name. Seriously.
I always said that if my niece told me the sky was blue, I'd have to run outside to be sure it wasn't red with bright pink polka dots. That's how much she lied.
Yup. And yet everyone else looks at you like you are the crazy one. Gets really old really fast
My dad is a pathological liar, and the shit he's made up over the years still blows my mind
This a thousand times over, my sister is exactly the same. We believe nothing that comes out of her mouth no matter how much someone would think "why would they lie about that"
@@yelhsasokolova8561 mine too! The mind boggles at some of the stuff he's come out with... It's like he thinks we're all 4yr old & believe in the tooth fairy, easter bunny Santa & all the flying reindeer & they all have massive parties together!
I believe him. I used to have a friend who I lived with who was a compulsive liar. The final straw was when he pretended to have cancer. As much as I was furious at the time, when he was out of my life I just felt pity and concern for him. You can sense that regard from Tim when he says he wishes her peace.
This is like watching a soap opera.
"Days of Our Lies".
😂😂😂
I watched another video breaking this whole thing down with even more videos and the fact that her own mother won’t speak to her daughter anymore speaks volumes to me. Also, it makes sense that the Mom called him to see if he was actually unalived because her daughter has made up so many stories in the past. And she has personally admitted that she has mental health issues and is seeking treatment.
Link video please 🙏🏼🤣🤣
Yea please give info on video so I can search. I can never click links through CZcams comments.
@@katherineauber if you have an iPhone you can screenshot and long click the link in the screenshot and you can access the link, I learned this recently
His story fits. Her mom calling is probably bc she saw lies in her story.
Liink please, or maybe a tutle or creators name?
The mom knows her daughter so much. When her daughter says her husband died, she knows to double check with the other person.
She don’t know her daughter that well. She sat on the phone and lied saying she hasn’t worked in years. Yet the daughter provided proof that that was a lie
I had a female coworker who was a pathological lier and it was incredible to listen to her tales, specially the ones regarding the many surgery procedures she made her father "undergo". Kind of believe the guy...
My sister was this way. She would sprinkle in the barest amounts of truth so she could “prove” the story but they would inevitably change because she forgot who she told the story to and she was constantly embellishing. She ended up un-aliving herself when her lies and alcoholism caught up to her. I miss my sister, but I can honestly say my life is a lot less stressful without such horrific stories coming up. I believe him. I guess I envy the people who can’t believe a story like this, because they hadn’t known a narcissist like his ex wife
“Why would she call him if she thought he was dead?” If Mom knows Anessa to be a liar (see San Francisco story that mom apparently discussed with Tim) that would give her reason to check up and see if. Tim is actually dead.
That’s exactly what I was thinking too.
This! ☝️
I have lost a brother and I use to call his phone to hear his voice. I don’t know if that’s the reason but an idea.
My thoughts exactly. Also might not necessarily be related to this case but people do call numbers of the deceased to hear their voicemails so they don’t forget their voices
@@sarahpitcher3996 yeah, a paranormal show I like, one of the inventors of the equipment the guys use is a man called Gary Galka, and his daughter was killed in a car accident in 2004, and they still keep her number so they can call it and hear her voice
Some people were questioning why the mother would call Tim if she thought he was dead. Well, she clearly knows what kind of person her daughter is and called to verify or debunk her story about him killing himself.
That is what I was thinking.
Also it makes sense if you don't have any family members phone/address. Just call him directly expecting that some family member will answer and confirm his death.
Yeah cause that's what a normal person would do 😂. I know I would. I don't understand some people.
Mother's intuition
@@JuxJacy There are some reasons why she might still have mourned. Maybe she initially believed it. Maybe she was in denial and didn't want to believe her daughter was lying. Maybe she was so shocked and upset, she didn't think to verify at first. Or maybe she lied herself or exaggerated that part. Who knows? We don't have a follow-up on that. But that's the only real hole I could see in his story, the rest of it tracks. I'm leaning toward his side of the story, especially after she admitted in another video that she was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Lying is one of the main behaviors associated with BPD.
If mom knows her daughter is a compulsive liar, she probably called him to see if she was lying again.
Pathological liar my bad
One of my friends is a pathological liar. She told many people that a little boy she babysits for died….he didn’t. She told me she had three miscarriage and I cried…..she didn’t. And so much more.
Wow I was about to say that husband is so disgusting but hearing the husbands side makes sense. I guess she is the pathological liar. That’s a really sick person to do that to someone. I think she needs some deep, deep mental therapy. Wow the lies just keep coming and coming. 😮. This story just keeps getting messier
@@erikarussell1142 Thats for sure, they both sound like there could be some lying on both sides but Anessa is deeply disturbing
This is why you should always hear the other side of the story before making a judgment.
@@AmyDaisy69 I said they both sound like they are lying. It’s not a judgement, it’s an opinion just like yours
@@shawnadennis613 one so messed up. Girl needs real help. Like maybe shock therapy? Idk. I feel like that’s the only correction for habitual liars like that. Like, just don’t lie!! Don’t be a toxic disgusting person either. Idk.
@@shawnadennis613 it’s all just so deeply disturbing.
I was married to a pathological liar. He lied about things that didn't even matter....like seriously, about what he ate, drank, mundane telephone convos, what he was wearing earlier in the day etc. It was only several years in that the BIG lies he had told me and his mother came out because we began fact-checking with each other. It is a SERIOUS mental health issue and it can ruin lives. So glad that chapter of my life is over.
Same Same. I literally felt absolute relief when I left
Honestly, I have to say I'm team Timmy. Reason being that ive known many pathological liars in my day whether due to BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) or just plain malice. Anessa's lies seem all too familiar to all the experiences I've had. Two ex friends in particular used to say a lot of shit like she did all the time. Team Timmy all the way.
I had a friend years ago who was a pathological liar. She faked having terminal cancer and gained a huge following on her blog. Celebrities sent her gifts and even dedicated a book to her because she convinced everyone. These things do happen.
What the what?! Did she ever get caught or called out?
@@LaFlor718 yes, her best friend finally found out the truth and exposed her. Absolutely everything I'd known about her was a lie. I submitted evidence in the fraud case against her, but never heard the outcome or from her again.
@@HJ-si7hd oh wow. That is wild. I hope justice was served. Lying about terminal cancer is not a game. Thanks for responding!
It's unbeliavable that people actually finding the social media of this random strangers and bullying them. Even if they believe for the first woman, why do they need to be involved in their drama?
My point exactly. They need as much of a psychiatric than that loony of Annessa
Not me being autistic and reading this comment literally the first 2 times. 💀
Exactly, a person must have some sort of mental illness to need to inject themselves in the drama of literal strangers. Its mind blowing to me, and I see it ALL the damn time
Because people don't have real freaking lives anymore....especially on that horrid app. 😑
@@sabihasayeed1670 what does autism have to do with you inability to make yourself understandable ?
Bc I still don't get what you meant and I know for a fact that's it's not bc of austism lol
As of right now, I believe the ex husband because I have absolutely met people like Annessa, and people will believe whatever they say because they're a poor innocent women and he's a big bad scary man. People like Annessa ruin lives.
Agreed.
Yep. But I do think posting a response video wasn't the right action. The right action would have been to hire a lawyer. If he has all the evidence he's claiming to have taken her to court would have shut her up. A lot of these cases to they will make people issue retraction videos and apologies. Yes I know posting a reactionl video is cathartic and it feels good in the moment but in the long-term it only hurts it and brings more attention to this. Nothing's going to shut up the internet trolls like a judge's ruling. Also the fact that adults think it's okay to go to a child's social media and believe a child because of something the adults in his life are involved in just blows my mind. It's always children that suffer for the actions of adults.
If anessa was such a great person she wouldn't have attacked the stepson and only her husband who she claims is at fault
Not to mention that there are TOO MANY “omg, (insert person) is dead” fake incidents.
I have someone just like her- I decided to call a relative they claimed were dead. Nope, just the cat, not the relative.
My exbf was a pathological liar who convinced all our mutual friends that I was the one who was lying. Meanwhile I always tell the truth, he just had a knack for twisting things and coming up with convincing stories. So it goes both ways. The guy didn't provide any proof of anything he was claiming yet everyone is eager to paint her a liar.
Yeah I did my own digging. Totally believe Tim. And yes I have seen people go to Great Lengths to continually lie. What's crazy is it's to the point that they believe their own lies, and they will defend themselves.
8:03 Charlotte‘s turkey noise! I’ve missed this.🙃💜🥔
My mother was a narcissistic, pathological liar and it was incredibly difficult growing up with her. If she told me anything now, I would definitely verify every part of her story, so I’m not surprised that the mother called him to find out. Some people just need to be engulfed in drama and the constant center of attention. For instance, the last time I spoke with my mother, she gave me this very sad story of how she was S.A.’d a few months prior. The problem… it’s the exact story I told her when I was 16 about what happened to me. She told sooooo many lies, she didn’t even remember that this happened to her own daughter. Luckily I haven’t seen or spoken to her in over 25 years.
I stopped speaking to mine for this exact reason, she had diseases that were contagious, I told my family and she said I was lying and telling my own dad I was the one with them . Teaching us to hate our own dad because she was “abused”. Trying to kidnap me and my sister when we were in a foster home saying that they “stole us” from her. Beating me up when she’s drunk and “not remembering”. And many more, we love our dad more than anything and my sister, my brother and I cut her off while being with a man while living with my dad. Conartist, pathological liar, narcissistic.
There are way too many people like that out there. I've seen it and it's terrifying.
This hits home .. my dad is a narcissistic, pedagogical liar and he just always lies and I just kinda let it go but I also haven’t talked to him in years .
Preach girl!! Mine too!! Only her lying didn't get really bad till now. The stories about childhood. Early 1900s, Victorian London!! 😂😂😂 She lived in Liverpool and was born in 1948!!! 😂😂😂😂
The most recent one I’ve met I’m still friends with, so far it’s only amusing because they forget that I’m the one that told them a story about myself and then they relate it back as if it were them. I’ve dealt with worse so I know to keep boundaries.
The scariest part is how many ppl like this there are. I’ve known two as bad as this lady in the video, and 3 others of varying degrees. It’s especially sad that they seem like such nice ppl, I think they really are, they are just very very sick in the head.
firmly team tim, he has no motivation to lie about any of this. the fact that his fiancee took the time to make a video in English when it isn't her native language gave me the impression of sincerity as well. and when anessa "i should get an oscar for the fake scenarios i make up in my head" i stg i looked into the camera like i'm on the office lol
I have to agree. Why would one bring people in to clear something up with such gusto? I believe Tim completely in this, because I’ve come across people like Anessa in my own family… 🤯🔫
You looked into the camera like someone (Jim) from the office. LMAO 😂😂😭💀 I can't begin to describe just how much I both love and relate to this (I am still giggling like a maniac 😅 help!)
@@mirafawn1019 lol. Yup… 😂
Plus, it's against the law to falsify your death. No one would come out to clear things up unless the whole thing was a lie.
Sofia Vergara must play the "mistress" in the lifetime movie
My sister is also a pathological liar and when she was idk maybe like 11 or 12 she told everyone in our primary school that she had a miscarriage (a stillborn, our mum aunt and our nan all had miscarriages that’s where she got the idea) and this just kept going on into secondary where she now says she has BPD and schizophrenia, her boyfriend actually does have it and has been diagnosed so I don’t see how she keeps lying about that but it just keeps going on.
There is more but I just can’t be bothered to name them all or I’d be here all day. She’s 17 now and has moved out cause she always argued with our mum, i miss her but I’m kinda glad she’s gone cause there’s a lot less arguing and shouting at 12am
So uh, update: he just broke up with my sister cause I told him she was lying after he asked and now she’s screaming at me and saying it’s all my fault so that’s nice ig 👍
I already went deep down this rabbit hole. I watched a few videos and looked at his proof vs hers. Both their stories are off if you ask me. Makes me think they both hiding something. But she’s way more messed up than him.
I'm now 4 and a half minutes in and I'm pretty sure he already mixed up his timeline, because if I understand correctly he was divorcing this lady *because* he found out her mother wasn't in a coma, but then later he says he finds out she's *not* in a coma because of her call to him *after* her daughter claims he ended his life? But by that point they were already in the process of getting divorced hence why they hadn't spoken in ages and why he didn't realize his ex had put together this whole story? Also - how did the mother have his number if they'd never spoken because she was ""in a coma""" and why would she call *that* number if she thought he was possibly dead?
He said he didn't speak to the "mom" cause he didn't want to deal with Anessa(the girl that started this) but I don't think he ever deleted her number
Right?!? Just all kinds of wtf. Like there’s videos of him and anessa mom talking and him talking to anessa and all kinds of stuff. And if you look at her pictures of him cheating as proof, she never included any time stamps, but he does. And his time stamps line up with them divorcing. He originally said he broke up with her because she was always lying and manipulating and starting drama. But then this that and the other. It’s all so very confusing. All Ik is I don’t believe either of them, but I definitely don’t believe anessa.
@@watchingCZcams224 right right!
I went down the rabbit hole.I heard the phone call. Apparently she called him because she heard a rumor he was alive so she called to find out if it was true. It appears he is telling the truth.
I like how her tiktok straight up admits it, like no joke. lol. It's the "I was diagnosed by a psychiatrist and a lot makes sense now lmao" just casually plopped into the caption for me.
And, really, I think everyone who's opposed to the ex-husband is really just icked by the stereotype he's putting across and that has little to do with the situation at large. Any inconsistencies in his story make sense for someone who's a babble-talker and not used to being in front of a camera, and while I think he's probably got some cringey personality traits to hide for sure, he's still the one who got screwed here. Because lets face it, unlike tv and movies, no one's real life drama is ever going to wrap itself up into a neat little bow and be clearly black and white with a Good Guy and a Bad Guy. That's what makes it so messy.
Her lying to a huge platform of people and using them to bully her ex and his new partner for personal amusement is just screwy, regardless of what justification is used.
And a kid too!
I need more of this story!
He called his woman most beautiful woman in and out ! Okay I will take this part and leave 🥺♥️
Vanessa's mother called the ex-husband to make sure he was alive because she doesn't believe her own daughter
Yes!!!! Why don’t ppl get that?
For me it’s because she waited so long to call
My grandmother used to pull stuff like this all the time. She told me and my cousins once that Mein Kampf was a French novel and went as far as to tell us Google was wrong when it said otherwise. (obviously different than killing off your husband but its just one example) Narcissism and pathological lying are words that get thrown around a lot but when thats actually whats happening or they are comorbid they can be truly frightening. I'm not diagnosing anyone involved in the video but i just wish i saw the receipts
Yes I'm so glad you decided to post this. Digital Derrick gave all the facts when i watched his videos
I dated a pathological liar in high school. He told me the most crazy stories, like he was going blind, his family left him on his bday for a vacation etc. I believed all his crap lies til I decided to end our relationship and he started lying about me and a friend. I started to see all the holes in his other stories. It is insane how people like this just live among us. I believe the husbands side because he sounds like me realizing all the lies once the relationship was bad. I feel sorry for him.
I too am a survivor ❤
I had a compulsive liar friend. She could never keep her stories straight, cause that’s how things go. Her uncle died four times while we were in middle school. She got better at lying in high school, but worse in college. To this day - after 15 years of knowing her - I have no idea what about her life is real. I feel sorry for compulsive/pathological liars.
Hold up, you still friends with her????
AND ITS STILL YOUR FRIEND???
@@kaidiver4306 nah, but we come in regular contact
That's scary
@@a.a131 sorry, bad choice of words I suppose haha
I love this deep dive. Should do it every now and then cause I was invested!!!
Poor man. I'm glad none of that was true. I hope the woman gets the help she needs.
ONE HUNDRED percent Team Tim! To me it is just so obvious he's telling the truth because of his mannerisms and how he is talking. It's clear he didn't rehearse what he was gonna say and it's clear he's uncomfortable with being in front of a camera just explaining stuff.
Anessa is a pathological liar if I ever saw one. Reminds me of a friend i used to have, with out of control borderline personality disorder. She lied about absolutely everything, from where she was all day to huge stories like Anessa. People like Anessa COUNT on us to not want to believe that someone could lie on that scale.
It would be easy to check his story since he says he just started the account to address the lies and doesn't do social media. If anyone found him with a normal and active social media account then it would be clear he was a liar. Since no one has called him out on that, I'm inclined to believe him. Also, you nailed it that he didn't sound rehearsed and seems uncomfortable.
I worked with a pathological liar before and it was the most INSANE time of my life. It was stressful, constant drama, and people would fall into her stories as if they were the truth I was treated like I was insane for calling her out. Once more and more people saw her for what she was, and people realized I was the sane one, she quickly vanished and got another job. Continued her lies in other areas of the University until she was completely booted out. There may be three sides to each story but when you deal with pathological liars there is only one.
I've known a few over the years. One said she had breast cancer (she didnt), another said that his dog who he treated like his child died by getting hit by a car (never happened and he thought our collective horror and grief was funny), former partner's BFF spent 2h on video call convincing me that he cheated on me CAUSE THEY ENJOYED THE REACTION. Insane. And they seem to always be so charismatic, and their lies are so unreasonable that it's hard to convince people that you aren't the person lying about them!
Charlotte this style of video is really fun, please do more!
I just saw her on my fyp and she was preaching all happy life, happy dancing, all positive vibes. How crazy is that...
Honestly, I don't care who started the fight and who lied first; you DON'T go after the kids and get them involved in this toxic grown up stuff and start bullying them. But honestly, the fact that this girl's own mother felt she needed to call him and double check her daughter's story really speaks volumes to how many other lies she's told and been caught in. She probably does deserve an Oscar, but she also needs intense therapy. Sounds like she really craves all the pity attention she gets for making up these elaborate stories and she can't help herself anymore.
Yeah, who threatens an autistic child? Making fun of them, bullying them? That's sick, it's twisted.
Exactly. This is wow. I didn’t want to even continue watching it but I did. I’ve known people who are compulsive liars. One acquaintance from high school began to lose track of what she lied about to whom.
Team neither
@@Andyandcollies lmaooo. The guy wasn’t Prince Charming but he’s definitely better than her. Fuck that megalomaniac.
Husband is telling the truth. She set it up so anything he’d say would be quested. I have an ex gf with Narcissistic Personality Disorder…seems similar to my experiences. Also, after all the gaslighting the husband supposedly went through, it makes perfect sense that he would want to tell the truth. Also the fact that he is off social media points to him being honest. I rarely do anything on my socials because my ex is still stalking me. Hi, Chelle! 😂
Leave her alone Chelle.
Beat it, Chelle. Go get a life, doll.
Go away and move on, Chelle.
If you've never cheated on anybody in your entire life... how is there an "especially" category to put that poor woman into at alllllllll
Her mother calling ex is pro to make sure it’s true,because she knows how her daughter lies. It makes sense. Easy enough to check if ex has any social media hx.
Yeah this guy talks the exact way that my family talks so even if he trips over his words a little bit I can tell it’s coming from a really genuine place lol. Love to see how much love he has in him. Hope things work out for everyone involved here. Also it makes perfect sense for the mom to call him and check that he was actually alive after having a moment of clarity through the immediate grief response if her daughter has made up a whole bunch of other stories. Like “hold on…maybe I should double check that one”
💯 exactly!
Pathological liars are CRAZY to deal with!!! I’ve encountered a few in my day and honestly it’s super scarring. One of my least favorite forms of a brain’s possible make up.
oh yeah they're the worst! my ex lied so much his stories started to not make sense and I would constantly catch him changing dates and times etc. like get help lol
Especially if she doesn’t even make herself look good for Tiktok 😅
Yes!!! Still have nightmares over the one I knew!
That’s why it’s good to hear the two sides of every story. Good thing he could clear up his name! 🥳
If I had the time, I would write down about my sister who is also a pathological liar. People who stick up for liars are just as bad.
My husband and I want to hear about that bachelorette party you went to! You can't say that drama was bad and not let your fans in on it! 😊😊😊. So, please, Charlotte, SPILL THAT TEA (or keg)!!! Love yah!!!!
Oh goshhhI was looking a comment like this oneee!!! Same here!!!!
Yes, please spill the tea, Charlotte!
Thank you! Come on, Charlotte, we're waiting!!!😊😊😊♥️♥️♥️
Yeah I’m on the “spill the tea” bandwagon here. Please 😇
Right?!
I remember him posting parts of a phone conversation with Annessas mother and the jest of the conversation was all of the lies Annessa told and how Annessa had apparently been setting up for his "funeral" but couldn't give a name to the funeral home and all of that fun stuff. I believe they both lied about stuff. No one is innocent in this scenario, but she definitely started all of it by making the original tik tok
Was looking for this. Did the people who took her side completely gloss over that? If there was any truth it, what funeral home makes plans for a body they don’t have?
@Kenzie Lea exactly! His parents didn't even know she was planning a funeral and a wake for him at that. She never once called them during this whole fiasco. Annessa didnt even address the things Tim said about her or the things her mother said she said. She just went back to posting like nothing was even said. The whole thing is just wild to me. That phone call basically confirmed everything Tim said, and what his fiancée said about Annessa still being obsessed with Tim. I hope someone is able to find the video so Charlotte can see it 😂😂 make this whole thing a series for her channel lmao
**gist
I personally believe the majority of what the husband and new girlfriend are saying. I have a family member like Anessa and the crazy thing is, a lot of the attention seeking wild elaborate stories they make up can easily be disproven, yet they double down on their lies when confronted and will never admit they lied, even in the face that proof. It’s a common trait you see in people with APD, BPD, NPD or a combination of those disorders.
@@teridoster5840 Yeah... my dad was diagnosed with NPD and after that, everything he did started to make a lot more sense. Can't trust a single thing he says. I can't even trust him when he's sitting in front of me crying literal tears, because they probably aren't real. It's awful.
@Teri Doster i think she 100% has some kind of personality disorder. Hell i have BPD myself, i would say she needs professional help but I doubt she thinks anything is wrong. Also thank you, i had a brain fart on how to spell gist for a minute so i went with jest 😂😂
The 'mistress' gets mad respect for dealing with this batshit crazy girl and still standing by her man.
Folks:
This is the pattern to detect a liar:
Liars (typically) start vague and embellish their stories more and more every time they retell them.
Honest people generally begin with lots of details, and whittle the story down to the basic crimes/elements of the story. When they remember a new element of the story, it will be spontaneous but with an obvious trigger they can name, and have a relevant, emotional effect on the conclusions of the story. Things that indicate fictitious recall are:
Long spans of pantomimed conversation, elements that seem to have no impact on the outcome of the story other than to improve the image of the storyteller. This one is huge. If your husband or woman or kid can act out long convos word for word with phrases like "and then I was like" and "and then he was all" but the baseline behavior/mood/speech is that of an onlooker/storyteller, theyre likely fabricating, especially if they claim not to remember how key elements unfolded or use phrases like "one thing lead to another" etc....
Another sign is a shallow/fleeting expression of what should be intense emotions surrounding various elements of the story. Ex. Your SO explaining why he was late says his ride bailed on him, saying "Then he just left me there", and when you ask why or what they felt when that happened, they struggle to define a relevant response and/or their animation doesnt match. If it isnt clear from their response, ask softly how they feel about it now. It's kind, responsive, grounding, and open-ended way to honestly built trust, reduce defensiveness, and address a legit feeling, or address a disconnect/lie.
Remember: if the event they're describing was enough to cause misbehavior (because why else do people lie?), but not significant enough to sustain a genuine emotional expression about it (or a drastically diminished/mismatched expression) .. it probably never happened. Weird shit sticks with people. It isnt transparency if you can't see the proof. And truth has a smell.
Anyone trying desperately to convince you of something, especially a partner living and sleeping with you, should be prepared to offer the evidence YOU ask for, assuming youre not asking for irrelevant or impossoble info.
Truth. Has. A. Smell. It smells like cooperation, empathy, simplicity, consistency, and a desire to know what you need them to reveal to restore trust, and a desire to seek data, info, facts to resolve inconsistencies. It does NOT look like
--"I already told you that" *no elaboration*
--"what? Where was I? Why do you want to know? Dont start this again." *with no real answer*
--"how dare you ask me that, I dont mind when you (fill in some behavior theyve never once mentioned before) *with no real answer*
--"whats the big deal, so I (did thing theyve never done or shouldnt do) *with no explanation
--"ill explain everytbing after I (poop/rest/eat/whatever) as if they need all their mental energy to describe a thing they experienced.
*Big One* --"Why were you snooping through my phone!? It doesnt matter what you found, you violated my trust like I knew you would and thats why I did the thing you found"... and other phrasing that attempts to reverse cause and effect. HUGE violation of ToS in all relationships between adults.
If you catch them, show them empirical evidence you caught them, and they don't confess fully, express genuine ongoing remorse, and admit to lying in addition to the sin they lied about, they dont value trust, they xont value your intellect or heart, and you can and should leave without anything further from you.
And anyone who uses violence to control you has relinquished their right to the reasonable household resources necessary to leave them and get safe. Sorry but thats how it is. Likewise if your wife harms you, you get to use the money in the shared account or in the sygar bowl to move out.
People with legit ASD/ADHD will not usually fit within these models. In general, spectrum individuals will simply not be interested in this kind of subterfuge in the long run. Theyre not impervious to temptation. They just struggle with verbal deception. They can act their way out of trouble. They just struggle to talk their way out under any pressure.
Thank you for your patience. I was lied to recently (no shit right) and believed my ex far longer than J ever care to admit. Dont be like I was.
There are 3 things in life that are certain: Death, taxes and people who claim they avoid drama are the center of all the drama all of the time
My version of the saying goes the three certainties in life are death, taxes and human stupidity, but I like your version of it too.
A guy told me on our 3rd date, he avoids drama at all costs, he said he'd "had enough of that" in his last relationship to "last a few lifetimes!"
Well he must be part cat or something because he had more lives in reserve and filled them to the MAX with his melodramatic performative theatrics over nearly EVERY. LITTLE. THING.
He'd make "connections" and LEAP to conclusions that were so off the wall and so FAR removed from reality, it actually scared me and worried that his mind just wasn't all there......
Or....
he WAS "the drama" he was supposedly" trying to avoid"
Either way I'm out💀
@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 Yep, sounds about right in my experience 😂
Honestly when I split from my ex I wondered if I was the drama because we had a myriad of problems whilst together; from abuse to debt collectors chasing us. It felt like a tidal wave that never lost steam but since I've been alone that tidal wave has become a gentle ripple. Any fear(s) I had that I was somehow the problem has completely dissipated, it's been a lot calmer, easier since 🙂
Tell that to my mom and brother...they claim they're not about that drama but sure enough don't money starting it. I love them both but it's just aggravating. I told my mom recently there is a reason that certain people become a "karen" and it's because of bull crap that gets put on them. Not saying it is an excuse but definitely can see why it happens and not saying it is every "Karen" .....there are some that are legit buttholes too.
I am team Tim. I am the mother of a pathological liar and have not spoke to her in over 12 years. She has done things in her life that most people could not imagine. Some days I can’t even imagine. I had to stop contact for my safety as well as those around me. She has basically destroyed her brothers life (my son) she has since had two children that I worry about even though I’ve never met. So I can completely and totally see this woman pulling the same crap. It’s like they’re not happy unless they are creating drama and chaos for someone else and it’s usually someone is the closest to them. My daughter has alienated herself from her mother, her father and her brother. She has no other family except the ones she married, and her children I pray for the kids every day.
Coming from a stranger on the internet... If there's any way for you to get in contact with the children, I feel like you should. They need you for safety and accountability. I'm sorry for over stepping.
I have a family member who I’m afraid is becoming a pathological liar as well. The elaborateness of the lies is mind blowing
Hi. Random internet advice. If you know where the kids are located, perhaps post them Christmas cards every year? Then when they are 18 they can choose to have a relationship with you. And they will know that you cared. If know their birthdays, send birthday cards as well.
I hope they seek you out and have none of their mother's traits.
One of my kids has an ex-roomate is a pathological liar. It’s amazing what extravagant nonsense people will believe, this person has gotten a book advance to write a memoir of her troubled childhood and had tv appearances re: surviving a certain category of domestic violence. My kid and the other roommates track this person and report them, because she has a whole pile of imagined stories involving them too, and they don’t need/want the nightmare of her stories getting media traction. She’s as eventually charged with fraud over the book deal and that plus some other things eventually led to charges that were jail worthy. That was about 10 years ago.
The people who watch a tik tok video and then start cyber bullying total strangers based off of what some random person said online need to burn in a special kind of hell.
We had a friend in middle school who was a pathological liar and this was before the internet was a huge thing so we couldn’t check her stories. She created an elaborate fake background about how her mom had an affair with a famous popstar and she became pregnant with twins. We asked where her twin sister was and she said that the popstar father took the other sister. Our friends family was wealthy and she told us the expensive things she had were gifts from popstar dad. Years later when the internet was a thing I spent a few minutes checking her story and it was unsurprisingly totally fake. She had many people convinced including adults. She’s probably a successful writer now with that sort of creative talent but if so she’s using a fake name as an author.
In college I had a friend who pretended to have seizures to get attention and sympathy. Myself and another friend finally got her to the ER (she really didn’t want to go… just wanted us to stay with her in case another seizure happened), and waited anxiously for all the test results… There was literally no sign that she had ever had any seizure or anything else wrong. We spent hours in waiting rooms in the middle of the night just because she wanted attention. So messed up.
Lol I had a friend similar to yours in middle school as well. She told me and all our friends she was dating a boy from another school. She went on for over a year about their relationship. Being very detailed about their weekends together and showing me texts between them. One day she comes to me freaking out saying she thinks she is pregnant. I calm her down and go with her to buy a pregnancy test. Of course she’s freaking out saying she needs the most expensive one to be sure. When we get to the counter “Oops! She forgot her money at home”. I pay for the 40 dollar pregnancy test and she goes into the bathroom. She comes out with it and shows the negative test. Acting very relieved, she goes on about it for the rest of the day. A couple years later after she and I had graduated, gone to separate high schools and lost touch. I happened to run into the guy she was dating back in middle school. I start asking him about her and if they still talk. He looks at me with the wildest look I’ve ever seen. Apparently they never dated. He said he barely even knew her and certainly didn’t have sex with her. I obviously was stunned because of just how detailed her lies were. I mean I didn’t even believe the guy at first thinking he was trying to play dumb but nope. Turns out he was telling the truth. Honestly looking back it made a lot more sense she wasn’t telling the truth. We’d always ask her to meet her boyfriend and since they were always together, you think that’d be an easy task right? Yet every time there was an excuse. I still had my same phone from middle school and I happened to have the number she was supposedly texting him on back then. She asked me to save his number in case she got her phone taken away. I showed him the number and he said that was never his number. So we called it and it was one of those numbers you can use from a texting app. One of our friends who had gone to the same high school as her, ended up confronting her about her lies. She admitted to our friend she had lied and was a virgin at the time I bought her the pregnancy test! 🫠 she never explained why she lied but I’m guessing she wanted to give the impression of being more mature than the rest of us. Since we all thought she was the first to loose her virginity and have a steady boyfriend.
@@charcharbinks94 I don't know the story but there are plenty pp, that have seizures and nothing shows up on test.
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My sister makes up stories like this too. Every time we talk, if she even mentions that someone she knows has died from cancer, I just roll my eyes because I'm pretty sure its not true.
I mean it would be very very rare in life, to know that many people who have cancer and have died from it.
One day, her ex husbands sister and a friend stopped by my house to check on me. This girl had never come to my house before, and I'd never met her friend, but apparently I was dying of cancer. Yeah she told them I had cancer. That why every time she tells me, a friend is dying from cancer, I know she's lying.
She lies about many things. She even lies so much, she doesn't remember what she tells you and when I call her on it, she says "I never said that"
In her delusional mind, she believes what she is saying.
my sister is like this too
Man, this is just WILD to me. How do you lie about that kind of stuff? Like, we all tell little insignificant white lies now and then, but none of them are as huge or harmful as this. I just can't wrap my mind around it.
It’s a common trait of BPD to compulsively lie and a lot of the time they actually believe many of their own lies
Oh my f'ing god. This is a circus. This is so messed up on both sides.
The mom calling him actually makes the most sense if her daughter is a liar. 🤷
I once knew a woman who would tell lies, not overly dramatic ones, just pointless ones. I think she wanted her life to seem more interesting than it was.
I used to work with a guy like that. Not awful lies, just "this funny thing happened to me" type lies. I suspect he did it to be able to join in conversations, as he was never malicious in any way - he just seemed to want to "fit in". I felt really sorry for him.
I work with a guy like that lmfao. He's been born in 4 different places, was in the black opps, had to register his hands as deadly weapons, the list of absurdities goes on and on
I feel bad for them, too...how sad must they believe their lives are to put so much effort into fabricating it smh
Friends with someone like this it’s soo weird
I used to BE like this when I was a kid. I didn't really think much about it until doing this shit bit me in the ass as a teen. It really is mostly because your life is boring and you want to spice it up to fit in. As a kid, all of my friends lives seemed so fun and interesting, and I wanted to be like that so bad I would lie. But people like this can change if they want to. I'm completely the opposite now. I've become so honest that sometimes I'm too honest and I hurt people sometimes. Now I'm trying really hard to develop some tact and think before I speak so I can still tell the truth but in a more tactful way. That kind of balance is really hard to develop on your own.
Personal story: dated a guy once that had Paranoid Schizophrenia. He was medicated so we had some discussions about it and I decided to do the dating thing anyway. Well, there is a habit with some people that when they "feel better" they stop taking their meds because they think they are actually better (cured). They aren't. Schizophrenia doesn't just go away like that. So around US Thanksgiving he goes dark. Ghosted me through Christmas. Was into February. His messenger goes online. I sent out a tentative "hello?" And got a response. After a little light chatting realized this wasn't the way he spoke/typed and asked who it was.... did my best not to give anything away on my end first because at that point I more wanted to know what happened and if he was even okay and less jealousy type stuff. Didn't wanna scare the girl. So between what she told me, and him getting on later, this is what happened: he went off meds. He played out a whole situation in his head that we had broken up. He was upset. Went to a bar. Did the rebound thing, but the girl got pregnant. That was who was on his account, because she was at his place with him where she could auto sign in. This was a bit before everyone had cell phones...so going through the computer messenger was still the thing to do. After he and I spoke, honestly couldn't be mad at it anymore... just told him we could keep being friends for as long as he was on his meds but we can't do the dating thing again - ever. For all the reasons.
So seeing some of these videos, kinda wonder if that was what she was diagnosed with? She seems to believe her stories which very much happens with delusion. Not sure... this could also be a case of two narcissists trying to clumsily duke it out like drunk cats.
I definitely agree with leaving all this to the people involved. No one should be dragging a kid into a conflict between adults. They blasted the whole thing online. So yeah, have your say. But until there is clear right or wrong, you are just muddling the waters. There is no justice in that.
After watching the whole video, I saw signs of narcissistic personality traits, sociopathic traits and some other stuff that I am not qualified to diagnose. The part where Anessa talks about the oscar for the stuff she makes up was chilling because it was all like "ha ha! Gotcha all believing my dhit!" She thinks she's smarter than everybody else and finds it funny which is related to narcissistic traits.
I dearly love "the duking it out like drunk cats scenario". We do what we can with what we have to work with to protect our children. Love to you and yours.
Anessa is a whack job. TEAM TIM!
I had a fun but dissappearing act (usually being charged and hospitalised) relationship with a guy who has schizo-affective bipolar, he was so poorly medically managed then would not continue with his treatment. You made me laugh! It's the drunk cats for me! 🐈⬛🍻🐈 😂
You mean messenger was a thing before cellphones? Facebook messenger?
Charlotte's look on 10:39 made me lol so bad 😂 its giving Jim in The Office vibes😆
Ok! I'm excited for this one Charlotte! When I saw the last one you did on this I was shocked you didn't have ALLLL the tea yet. 🗣I AM HERE FOR IT!! *in my British accent*
I’m just gonna put out here that faking his death would be much more complex than Annessa is making it out to be. Like to plan a funeral, the funeral home of choice would have to have his body to prepare it for cremation or burial, whichever choice, and wouldn’t take payment until they got the body. They would need his body even to even pay for the casket I believe.
Although I believe him completely, u can prepay for a funeral & plan it b4 u die. Many ppl do so their family isn't left 2 make decisions & payments during such a difficult time.
Now all we need is Anessa's mom to make a TikTok. Maybe then it'll make sense 😂😂
Right? That's who I wanna hear from!
@@lynnettebelle3019 unless she's in a coma again 😂🤣
@@candice1989 Oh no, the poor dear, I hope she hasn’t had a relapse…lol.
@@candice1989 she’s prolly mourning her husband who died of cancer as a result of those 3 gunshots outside the courthouse.
There are recordings somewhere online. I heard the mother talking with Tim. You get to hear some of her side.
I had a friend like this, and another very like this too. They’re definitely out there!
Charlotte reviewing this crazy story is a dream come true! 😂
I had a friend in high school who pretended to have Leukemia. She also lied about her parents getting a divorce, her father hitting her and much more. I was scared to death of her father and also of losing her as she was, at that time, my best friend. She actually ended our friendship, and started hanging out with people that bullied me. When we all found out she was lying about everything, she all of a sudden wanted to be friends again. I am a very empathetic person, but I cannot for the life of me understand these kind of people. 😶
Hope you said no when she asked to be friends again.
@@footyfan101ful I told her I would not treat her like trash like the others did, but that is us being friends would never happen again.
It’s a straight up mental illness. Cut & dry. Disorders, illnesses, vices (drugs / alcohol etc) really mess with the brain. I’ve seen a lot is strange things in my life but whacked lies always boggles me. Like, yo... it’s so easy to tell the truth or just not say a thing. 🤷🏼♀️
"You're not the only person she's told that story to" is the biggest red flag in this saga, if multiple people are in agreement that you've lied about something super specific and crazy, you're the liiiiiiiaaaaarrrr 😂😂😂 #TeamMistress 🤣
Had to look this up. She said she was diagnose with BPD … soooo yahhh and had another vid saying she needs an Oscar for the scenarios she creates in her head that never happened.
I know someone like this.
My husband's ex wife got on a Catholic widow/widower dating site and told everyone she matched with her husband died. (She cheated on him multiple times) Husband caught her in the act in their home the last time and divorced her. She got married and divorced three more times before coming up with the scheme to claim her husband was dead.
She met and married husband number 5 on the window dating site.
Lied to the new husband until her children informed new husband that their dad was still alive.
I have so, so many stories about this woman and her antics.
I once had a friend who was a pathalogical liar. They are soooooo convincing when they lie, I kept doubting myself everytime they gasloght me. Its really scary.
I’m team “I’ve had enough personal drama in my life that now I don’t need to insert myself into outside drama and just want to live in peace and watch Charlotte and laugh for hours. ☺️
I really wonder sometimes about people out there you hear about on social media that seem to have severe undiagnosed mental illness like Anessa. It's so concerning. Makes me worry about people.
I’ve seen this story on another channel as well. All I can say is this girl is good! I believed everything she said til I heard her ex’s side.
She was kidnapped and brought to a cabin in San Fransisco. Trying to escape she jumped off the balcony but the kidnapper managed to slice her midsection open, she landed and survived but broke both legs...THAT story made enough sense to believe anything that came out of her mouth afterward?'Sounds like the plot to an early 90's D-List straight-to VHS thriller.
How did she run away with broken legs and guts spilling?
@@lotstodo where in SF do they have cabins?
Well Muir National Forest is across the GGB in Marin County , there are cabins there. But yeah, her story doesn't check out
Even scary movie has a better script!
I once dated a guy who told me he "got in a knife fight and got stabbed" when I asked about his appendectomy* scar. 😂