How To Deal With The Lack of Common Sense - Happiness Vlog
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- čas přidán 11. 07. 2016
- Why isn't common sense common? If you've ever felt frustrated dealing with people whom you think have no common sense... watch this!
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I have no common sense and I hate it. I had a really bad childhood and an abusive parental figure. And now as an adult I'm told "use common sense " it hurts me cause I can't help it..
I lost my job at TMobile due to a lack of common sense because I was nervous and anxious of making mistakes.
Tbh, my family's common sense is literal and mine is basically being too lazy to do what they say right away, not thinking about plans months ahead, not thinking about what's more important, I'm basically losing brain cells, being semi-mute and not thinking straight like my family does really makes me feel less of a human being and more of a literal nuisance to my family including relatives... I miss opportunities and events that i could have taken have i not been massively incompetent... Tbh, it makes me feel worse even when feeling better...
Eric Lerma I’m the exact same way bro🤦🏾♂️
If you are not adopted, you inherited the ability of being an organized person like your parents but Probably you either rebel against your family or they didn’t teach you (with chores and stuff like that) when you were a child and now is hard to do it spontaneously.
i recommend rebellion. break some foundations of control they have over u so that they let you plan things on ur own. my parents would micromanage me a lot and i never had to think for myself i honestly didn’t know how i felt like i as a person never existed at home bc i played a role in the family as someone who is not independent being youngest in the family. best thing with this though is to wait til u move out. college was important for me cuz i wanted out and now that i’m here in my own place i’m like omg fuck that life. took me forever to see the bad patterns i’ve learned from my childhood and i work on that so i can actually have a sense of who i am outside of the labels and perceptions of my parents
sounds like my lil bro, I hope he does realize it tho like you here, its pretty tiring when he act clueless and HAH me everytime I knock some sense onto him, sometimes he even tantrum for ex I try to right his wrong at the age of hmm 21 (Thought he can do the thing right but when I check, damn what a big mistake he made and ask him to correct it but then...), I want to give up on him but he is my family so...
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When you visit a place you never been before, always take a few minutes to OBSERVE what’s happening around you so you can learn what is the normal behavior there.
Or teach what can be done to help others. such as not being a slob by leaving your garbage on a table after you made the mess.
wow it's really true...I have standards in my life...I am so surprised my friends or co workers behave in a different manner..nd I use to get frustrated...now I am bit convinced after watching your video...thank you Xandria😍
This woman slapped my face in just two minutes. 😊 Sometimes we can't see things in other's people perspective.❤
But how can I be happy if not having the same common sense as another person, angers them? How? All my trust, faith and protection is in God. But I'm often told I still have no common sense or its common sense... I honestly dont want to live on earth anymore because of how my brain operates. It does Not operate along with the world I live on. WHY ME?..
IM A HAPPY JOYFUL GITTY PERSON BUT.... I'll still be happy just dieing from a place I cant relate to or pick up things as fast ....
Your exact words are the exact feelings I am feeling. Especially when more than one person tells you this in your life. Have you ever learned to get past this feeling? Have you become better at dealing with certain situations with "common sense"? Please help me, I'm desperate.
This is more important than ever!
Thank You For Sharing ❤
The ending was so perfect!! You’re so awesoem
I've watched your videos, and this one is the most I love!
I'm glad! Haha xoxo
This was absolutely wonderful:) love your energy 🙏🤗
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People that do not clean up after themselves don’t just lack common sense they lack cleanliness and that is a action or humans know.
Just sat down at McDonalds in the UK. I think Xandria was here before me haha!
wonderful thoughts and forthright words! you inspire so many of us :) keep going! cheers xoxo
Thank you for this note! X
Your attitude is awesome
Thank you Toni!! 🌟🌟🌈🌈
If Plato was here watching your video he would bang his head in despair seeing so much cultural relativism.
Common sense is not relative to upbringing. It is a deeper connexion to truth that we are born with like the natural rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
I'm glad someone understands what common sense is.
I wonder if other households teach their children to touch fire with their bare hands?
@@Mekeninzo if the fire is small enough, you can put it out with your hands by starving it oxygen and your hand moisture.
@@Mekeninzo would earth having gravity be a better example?
This is so true.
love your videos... n this kind of topic is what people really needs nowdays... we need to let go n gain more happines rather than just stressed up over someone who doesn't have the same common sense as us on the internet..
+Ryan Satria Indeed! X
Love your accent and energy ❤️
What a thought!! I really don't know if I can ever reach to the level where I don't get angry or frustrated with people at any given time
But I really wanna do it!
social etiquette/customs and common sense are two different things. common sense is things logic should lead someone to figure out without seeing someone else's example to follow.
People who come from different family&culture but have to live together.The common sense may be the hard word to understand & so complicated for some people who didn't know this word before.
great positive videos! keep it up! xo
Well how about just throw your own trash after you are done? I mean my culture didn't teach me that, it is just a past of being clean
To me common sense in this case would be to realise you are in a different country so things are done differently and then observe others. If you notice that everyone takes they trash to the bin at fast food place it's probably a custom and polite behaviour there.
Dear Xaandria...thank you make my day every day... thanks for that..and I would like to learn how to overcome egoist nature from oneself ...could you make a video of it...
+Princess Mia (maya) Hugs! And I'll think on the ego thing! ;) X
So it's common for Malaysians not to consider how much harder they make the employees work at McDonalds when they leave a mess everywhere.
Seems inconsiderate no matter what country you live in.
Some people lack understanding or consideration of others so they lazied their habits which lazied their mind
Listen my 10 year old has more common sense than my fiancé. It really triggers me I mean I just can’t wrap my head around it and then I feel bad because his parents cared that little…
Common sense is paying attention to the world around you and adjusting accordingly.
I get cultures are different but I think ot has to do technological advances makes things easier and convenient whereas lack thereof causes you to think outside of the box
So true!
Yup, that’s rude. Clean up after you eat.
You look like a japanese artist called REOL. I mean like, EXACTLY like her.
Lol!
so what about living with a bunch of strangers in a house. nobody couldn't care less about the bathroom when it gets dirty and shit. the only person who actually gives a fuck is me since I am the only one who actually cleans it. can I tolerate that? Hell naw. This shit has been going on for awhile now. This is common sense. I'm sure as hell everybody was taught to take a good care of their household hygiene and shit.
Common sense is the less common of the senses, women and men that are a 3 and think deserve a 10/10 partner, desilusional, lacks of critical thinking skills will be the doomfall of humanity
nice topic..are u Malaysian?
Terri Samonte 💀I️ get... common sense
My parents never taught me a single thing
Guess what, I have non existant common sense.
This should be labeled as cultural differences. Not common sense
Be better Malaysians! Lol
Maybe some cultures don't have common sense, not all cultures are equal. Like stoning someone of adultery.
You make a really good point that I like; however, stoning people over adultery was probably a good thing.
"it's not rude, because everyone does it"... Uhhh. Hmmm. How do I approach this?? I don't know about you, but common sense to me is if you are on a freeway, don't stare at your phone... If you are on a roadway, use a blinker so you don't get hit by a car killing people. Common sense has a lot to do with understanding the reality you live in as well as a realization that everyone is a person and is in there world just like you. The nice little music and bubbley way people learn and understand today is a reason way people are lost. People are getting hurt, everyday, very bad things are happening in the world, and we need to realize it's not just I, realize there are other people around you. Say thank you, say please. Let that person over in traffic. Stop getting angry, stop road raging, worry about yourself instead of others. Help someone out. We need to stop this finger pointing bs!