Have Standards, Not Expectations - Happiness Vlog

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  • čas přidán 16. 11. 2016
  • Not having expectations is not having no or low standards! X
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Komentáře • 28

  • @robbykidman
    @robbykidman Před 5 lety +8

    I forced someone to fall into my standards. Now he went away :( thanks for this video xandria. I realised my mistakes

  • @emiliancristianhopirtean4368

    duuuuude (Xandria) :D . I really love what you are "preaching" . It really helps me get through every day. I am going through a divorce at the moment and every time I see one of your videos it makes me so happy because you are sending such a beautiful message and vibe. Believe me when I am saying from my heart: THANK YOU!! Thank you for who YOU are . I think you are a very beautiful soul. (this was me smiling while I was writing this :D ). I really hope you know that you are helping other souls. Bye :D

  • @agentlix
    @agentlix Před 7 lety +4

    have a set of good standards. drop expectations altogether. happy vs miserable simplified. thank you @xandriaooi! 😊

  • @monsieurlim6759
    @monsieurlim6759 Před 2 lety

    This is the most relevant piece of advice that I would strongly encourage everyone to watch.
    The amount of rubbish pettiness I had to deal with on the account on expectations really made this video even more relevant now.
    Thank you for this Xandria - it’s very well put !

  • @fishilli
    @fishilli Před 6 lety +3

    I like your fashion style and the way you put your words across.
    Precision with such simplicity.

  • @animeedge2009
    @animeedge2009 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your ideia
    Keep going on, I wish you success in what you´re doing.

  • @agnespangemanan8390
    @agnespangemanan8390 Před 7 lety +2

    I just watch your video for the first time and it is making me addicted to see more. I love content you share to be professional and happy. You bring such a positive energy and impact to my journey. Love you, keep very good at it in valuable content to make more impact to lots of people in the world :)

  • @AbirSpeaking
    @AbirSpeaking Před 4 lety

    this video totally changed my friend game

  • @mregias
    @mregias Před 5 lety +1

    Great message, thank you!

  • @shanz377
    @shanz377 Před 7 lety

    Thank you for being you. You are really helping me to be a happier me. X

  • @cmr3194
    @cmr3194 Před 5 lety +1

    Excellent advice!!!! Wow!!❤️🌈❤️🌈❤️

  • @elenamartin8288
    @elenamartin8288 Před 6 lety +1

    Looove it!!

  • @KaylaThurman0326
    @KaylaThurman0326 Před 3 lety

    I love your videos!!!!

  • @henrique2011ish
    @henrique2011ish Před 7 lety +2

    She is so smart and wise! And stylish! Love her!

    • @saidakastit400
      @saidakastit400 Před 7 lety

      Pipig

    • @MJGenius11
      @MJGenius11 Před 7 lety

      I believe she read a lot of book and go through many experiences in her life.

  • @SandieCastaneda
    @SandieCastaneda Před 6 lety

    GOLD! Thank you! 😃

  • @NinaBlow
    @NinaBlow Před 5 lety +3

    So how do you influence others to adopt higher standards in a positive way?

    • @pocoloco5160
      @pocoloco5160 Před 4 lety +1

      I'd say by setting a positive example for those who you wish to influence. For example, keeping fit by going to the gym and staying in shape. People take notice.

  • @AbirSpeaking
    @AbirSpeaking Před 4 lety

    I agree with everything. it's a great video. But, the most important thing in life shouldn't be happiness. Happiness is one of the many feelings humans have. We should look towards maximizing happiness.

  • @davidgichiri1911
    @davidgichiri1911 Před 7 lety

    very inspiring

  • @erikasantoso21
    @erikasantoso21 Před 7 lety +1

    good morning Xandria,so happy hear your youtube notification

  • @ShengDanLaoRen
    @ShengDanLaoRen Před 7 lety +3

    Wouldn't life be very dull if we didn't have any expectations at all on the things we do? :-( What would be the point of going on a date/applying for a new job?
    It just sounds arrogant with this "standards" you talk about. Like "My standards are to never go on a date that isn't fun" or "My standards are to only apply for jobs where I will get accepted"
    I don't understand

    • @TherieKardie
      @TherieKardie Před 6 lety

      I think the standards apply to achievements instead of restrictions, and you get to set your own standards as you please, so its entirely your own decision to where the standards lie... Feel free to change to your likings if you feel its too dull?

  • @charlessmith1718
    @charlessmith1718 Před 7 lety +2

    how come you are pretty, young and WISE! 99.99% young and pretty ppl are narcissists. But you are exceptional. Thank you for the wise tips, I subscribed to your channel.

    • @xy5393
      @xy5393 Před 4 lety

      BAHAHAHA DO U HAVE EMPTY SKULL OR SARCASM OR GENERALIZE EVERYTHING