He Wants To Get In YOUR PANT. Men and Women can Never be Just BESTFRIENDS...Steve Harvey said so..
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- čas přidán 23. 04. 2021
- Can men and women really be best friends with no strings attached??
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Emotional attachment doesn't mean you guys aren't just friends. Men and women can be friends and have nothing together
A man and a woman can't be besties with no strings attached especially if married. It is a recipe for disaster. Don't do it. Thanks for an entertaining topic Adaeze and Nelo! Y'all are doing well ❤️.
I've seen it work time and time again. You'll just have to exercise some caution to ensure you never cross that boundary.
I was once told that using this phrase that “you cannot keep a goat and yam in the same room” and Nelo you’re spot on, there will be emotions attached. You and Adaeze shared your opinions beautifully. Sometimes the feelings develop without either party realising it.
Who are these beautiful damsels?😍😍
Ada and Nelo
Joro to Joro😂😂
My people
Ada and Nelo look really good for women in their 40’s.
Steve Harvey is a comedian, actor and host for those who don’t know. He also resembles Mr Potato head
@@hitthedislikes3373 they ain't in their 40s.
Not all women, though. I know ladies will be upset with this but, if you are ugly&unattractive, you can be a bestie-for-life, no shaking. Not every man wants to get into your pants, as long as you don't want to get into his pockets. Let's respect boundaries, and everyone will be okay. I enjoyed your vlog.
So as a married woman, a male bestie is a big No for me. And female bestie is a big no for hubby. For obvious reasons- emotional attachment. After all, it’s from forming bestie when I had bobo that I ended up dating and marrying my “bestie”🤣
Most of my best friends are males, just bcc I played ping pong a lot throughout my university years and they were intrigued by that. I was so close to a particular one that we were everywhere together but never had any sexual contact and for that reason, we’re still friends today. We both are married and lives in the states. We scheduled to meet each other again last year before covid struck. We will reschedule after covid wahala. Both his wife and my husband are now like family. So yes, there are male best friends that don’t have ulterior motives in mind, rare to find
I feel bad for the male bestie.
Nevuuuuuuuurrrrrrr!!!! There’s nothing like a guy and a girl as best friends.... Somebody must catch feelings. I’ve been scammed with that lie before. It ended in premium tears
BTW You guys are doing the lord’s work with these hot takes 😂😂😂
You guys should make this a podcast
That will really make sense 👏
I'm sure they have bigger plans but let them start counting from 1 before 2 and then 3................
Wow!!! When people say Ur are rude and difficult it means that they are not able to use you the way they want. EXACTLY 💯!!!
Wrong. Being respectful even when you disagree is key.
Well... My bestie is female and we have been so since 2004 at the university, people thought we were dating but no strings have been attached ever since. Our partners in our relationships knew and we convinced them that nothing was going on between us. She's getting married in June and her fiancé knows me well. I'm even on the grooms men train. No strings attached.
I do have a Male best friend and there's never been any awkward conversation or moment between us serious. And we are both in our different relationships. So I think it all depends on your experience we been friends for 17yrs now.
Are you married???
I believe you 💯%, just that such is rarely seen, but very much possible
@@bekybeyon no, I'm Engaged
@@shepherdboy6492 yea
Yes i had one from high school to college we were best friends with nothing attached to it not until i got married, then we lost contact.
You guys are really impacting your generation with some good sense reasoning, kudos to both of you.
It's difficult to have an opposite sex as your best friend and their won't be emotional feeling 😍😍. When I was in the Uni, I had two Male Close friends at different intervals and they both knew i was in a relationship(a distant one) . It took one of the guy two to three years to express his feelings and since "I see him often", "he's always there" to care for me and I started feeling the same way too. But i didn't accept to date him co's I knew the person I was in a relationship with then truely loves me and it was only the distance that wanted to put a barrier between us. Thank God we are happily married now with two children 💃💃💃
Can I like this video 100times. Pure truth💯✅
I love this video. So true.
Better to be called rude and difficult than be an easy person
Adaeze said "What are you people besting there?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Wait, I’m just 14mins 33 secs in on the clip. And I actually disagree with Steve Harvey. I disagree cos he said “friends”. Not best friend. I think a married person can safely have friends of the opposite sex with zero intentions behind it. We meet pple all the time. I don’t know about best friend though. That maybe pushing it.
Godly women educating the younger generation while erring there opinion. Good job, Keep it up
U babes are killing it 👏
Nelo really looks pretty with the hair style 😍
I am lover of SH and having watched this video, he’s 💯 right! It just doesn’t and can’t work. I have male friends but they can’t be that “best friends” just cos guys will always be guys and will wanna take any advantage so they are better kept at arms length.
I love being called rude, unfriendly, Margaret thatcher, difficult and all I really don’t care!!! I have experienced a lot not to be a victim periodt!!
And women will always be women 🙄🙄🙄
@@shepherdboy6492 lol 😂
Steve is right most guys I've come across have even told me that if by any chance my husband doesn't take care of me or that we Divorce that they're here for me....I'm like you guys are weird...it's never happening......never....we are just friends nothing will ever happen. Guys will always be guys......that's why I don't have best male friends but I have male friends lol.
Cheating most times happens because the room of access was left open !
He is speaking for himself. I have a female best friend and nothing has happened for years.
Mindless flirting actually makes men catch feelings, I actually feel men catch feelings faster than women really.
And truthfully men do flirting and extra care when they wanna enter your pant
I totally agree with you guys
Well when i was still single I have had male best friends with no strings attached. But i agree that having someone as a bestie while married is a no no. Nice topic
It was bestie till the end? Maybe there was no crack in the wall
You guys work well together. Enjoying your show. To answer your question, it's a no for me. I've tried it and there are always feelings to navigate. If you are self aware and honest, you know. It can be ignored but then you leave yourself open to compromising situations.
Beautiful topic..that's it! We get what we want and don't tell me I'm rude that's it.. you guys disected this topic so well👏👏👏👏
I'm so indifferent about this conversation because I have very close female friends that I've no feelings for. As for 'friends with benefits' and 'no strings attached,' I completely agree that one person is almost always in love.
If I don't have any attraction to a lady then I can be a very good friend with her, I have come across ladies that even if you give them to me for dash, I won't take for any reason, but their personality (skills, knowledge, attitudes, reasoning etc.) can make me want to have them as friends and associates. In that case, I can build a very good friendship with them without any strings, whatsoever, attached to it. Though I'm very much aware that even if I'm not thinking that way, she might possibly think, get emotional with me, by I am speaking about my own side.
Ifeelyou
Men and woman to be friends is not easy not until they discover their boundaries. Dog and meat can never be in the same room.
Being friends in group activities is fine. I would get worried if your guy was off doing one-on-one stuff with a woman. That's a date."
in Ada's voice what you people besting there 😂😂😂 im still on the floor😂😂😂
Well I have a best friend I’ve been friends with since I was 10 years old and now I’m 30. And he got married yesterday, he never talks weird to me or anything. Well I can’t relate. I also know know my brother’s best friend who they have been friend with for so many years and even when the girl is married now they still remain friends and even the girl’s hubby is even now close to my brother. I Personally can’t be so close again to my own best friend who got married yesterday because I respect boundaries. But yeah people can literally be friends without feelings or anything it all depends on the individual mindset they both have
loving nelos braidsssss
Me too🔥🔥
Nelo always saying my mind.We reason alike Nelo😍
Male bestie gbakwa oku! 😂😂 All the ones i had were a messed up situation. Before you know it advances to emotional and then sexual feelings (either mutual or forced by one party).
Best friends? No. But friends without strings attached? Very possible. Am good friends with a married woman and we have absolutely no emotional feelings for each other. Our spouses know about our friendship which started when we were growing up as kids. And they are very okay with it. Some people just understand each other better in this life and this cuts across gender differences. Anyway it’s no use judging others based on our own weaknesses.
Is just a no no ..... Steve just said it , ate it and left no crumbs
It will be nice if this can also be like a podcast. So we can listen while driving too. Maybe the audio version can be uploaded like a podcast. Thanks
Beautiful ladles 😘😘😘
He is right......
You babes are right ooo. Many men really meaning to nice gestures, that is why unnecessary chatting, calls should be avoided
Yes men and women can be best friends. Tow of my best friends are men. Steve is right. I laid out boundaries from the onset.
Steve Harvey is right ooo.
The truth is that Being Married with a Bestie male or female is a recipe for disaster because when you open up for your bestie an issue between you and your spouse, he/she might take advantage of it and later it will all end up with regrets. So stay off any bestie stuff if you are married. Those that are single and still can control themselves as they claim, congratulations!!!
We are here💃💃💃
Well... I don't know how true this claim is. I have been "just friends" with a guy for 21 years since we both were 17.
And while I crushed on him briefly at some point (dunno if he ever did), he never once tried to get in my pants.
I HAVE WOMEN FRIENDS. NO STRINGS ATTACHED. 15 TO 30 YRS AGO. IT WILL BE DILFICULT. BUT NOW, AM 58,A FATHER AND GRAND DAD. AM ABOVE MANY WORLDLY THINGS
It is True for majority of men
but there are few Men who still have Ladies as bestie without any emotional attachments.
I used have Lady Friends of which 2 used to even Lived with me between 6months to One Year.
I never Touched them at anytime but only advised them not to Jump into bed with them and always see them as Sisters and I never wanted it to be that I took advantage of them in their Time of Need.
I have a personal Policy not to Use my help of a girls as Yastic to get her into Relationship.
It makes it difficult for the lady and also make her feel Like ungrateful in her Eyes.
But people say It is better to Marry your best Friend and it is the best for marriage.
This two are married now and we are still good friends their new family but not close as we used to be because I know they are married and they need full commitment to the Marriage.
Nice job beautiful People
I love u gals😘😘
Married men and women should not even bother having "best friends" of the opposite sex.
What's your spouse there for? Have friends o have a social life and all that but not one special opposite sex bestie....Nah don't do it it's just a recipe for disaster.
One must definitely catch feelings 😉😉
If I am married I can't have a guy best friend. If I'm not married, I can surely do with no strings attached. N if he like he should fall after he go stand up
Well done ladies, I would say the lack of fear of God in the world today has brought about human race producing seeds that are unholy/evil. we are all created to have self control and discipline in life but the world today have chosen to lack self control and self discipline. hence, the reason why it seems like a man or a woman is incapable of having a positive platonic friendship without strings attached or unwanted or unholy thoughts and feelings developing along the line.. I would say it all has to do with ones mindset and self discipline.
For me, it's a NO....
Thanks for the reminder when it comes to being close with Guy's when am not interested in them..this Mindless flirting can seriously cost you....I now Fear God😂
And I totally disagree with having a male Bestie..
I personally think males and females can be best friends with absolutely no strings attached.
My Daddy (Rip to him) always told me that A man and a Woman cannot be just friend ...
Same with my dad ( lovely sole)
I have a lot of female friends but not thought of them that way and this include a lot of my exes
It's not impossible. But not advisable for married couples.
1 day the man will eat the pet
Hmmm this issue I don’t even know where l should start mine from oooh
Please tell me naa I want to hear it
It leads to soul ties
I agree with Steve, I remember being besties with a certain guy for 7 freaking years! Long story short, we've been married for 2 years
Fantabulous
I dont know why but this made me laugh😅😅
It's very difficult and possibly impossible
Actually, it possible to have a woman as your best friend who is not sexually attractive to you. It depends both parties.
That why we love our Play Station 5, it helps us not get too bored, lol
Get a job too. It helps to keep you busy and have some money in your pocket
@@diplomatdiplomat2800 is that a general advice or directed to me, if it’s Directed to me, just know I am a Data Analyst well educated with 2 masters, working and married with kids for some years now, but if it’s a general advice then that’s nice to say .
Nelo,I want you to be my best friend.
See, we can without any sin attached.
I love you all.
Mostly men do catch feelings in that Bestie stuff but me I believe they just wanna sleep with the person
I believe you’re mixing things up. Some men become your friend cause they are attracted to you, trying to get to know you and probably make their feelings known as time goes on. Some are just opportunists waiting for the right time to strike. A few are genuine friends who just want to be there for you as you are there for them and they trust you. If you have boundaries then you can have opposite sex friends. I don’t understand how we think opposite sexes can’t be best friends, you can fall for anybody at any point in time. Even same sex friends still go down on each other so why make a big deal out of opposite sex? So my point is, it’s not about the person being an opposite sex, it’s about self control and boundaries. Thanks 🙏
What if I'm the one that wants to get in his pants???
Ya'll may be in your 30s but still...🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
Also,Women and men can be just friends.
And there was no emotions but as a married man or woman, it's wrong to have the opposite sex as best friend
Lol. It is serious oo
That bestie nor work o
When 2oposite sex spend more time Bonds, sparks feelxs starts developx dats nature. No matter de maturity hormones will blow off smday
I'm here
My best friend is a guy..
I feel attacked..lol
A BIG NO TO DAT BESTIE THING. I have had d experience n bliv it dint end well.
I have had male besties . But from the man's angle , he'll stick around in hope. I have a video on lies men tell women, and one on lies women tell men. one of the lies is 'there's nothing going on between us'
the bestie is in a friend zone and waiting for the main guy to f..k up so that he can step in
It is possible for a man and woman to be friends nothing attached in fact my best friends are women beautiful ones at that but........
BE AWARE AND KNOW YOUR FEELINGS. WHO IS IT THAT DISRUPT YOUR EMOTIONS WHEN YOU SIT NEXT TO HIM OR HER, WHO ,HOW STRONG IS THE FEELING. WHERE DO YOU FEEL IT. IN YOUR SHOULDER. WE CAN STILL HAVE THE BEST CLOSE FEMALE OR MALE FRIENDS WITH NO STRING ATTACHED.
As a single you can have a female best friend
Sincerely, Relationship can be Complicated,
I can't have or Keep a Male best friend as a Married Woman,
I want my husband to be my best and same with him too
Lovely video I really enjoyed watching 🥰
I think I will disagree with what Steve said, 99%?? ... haba .... i like the fact he said it applies both ways but I feel if that sexual attraction is not there by at least one of them .... you can still be best friends with no strings attached. but personally ...... i wont want to try it
Men and women can be best friends I think it’s our mentality in Nigeria and also when you cross the line. Focus on the friendship and leave dirty thoughts and dirty ideas just friendship. Will there be over protection or jealousy atimes oh yes. I have never kept close female friends especially growing up without sisters it’s easier dealing with makes take it from me. Even till now I still keep make friends more than female friends. In the world today with so much lesbianism going on wether male or female best friends cheating and sex Can still happen
Is it just me or does Nelo kind of look like Jill Scott...? 🤔
Honestly I don't understand this "best friend thing" I guess because I have seasonal friends 😁. I am my husband's best friend and vise versa. Most times, these so called best friends catch feelings at different times (it could be the guy first then later the lady) and it could also ruin their relationship. Single ladies, if a guy is your best friend, then marry him and have him for life 😁😁.
No woman should be my best friend, except my Wife.
Nelo you always drink ,why Ada not drinking
Absolutely wrong. If you guys can't keep such a relationship it doesn't mean others can't keep it. His point is subjective and personal.
A man and woman can be best friends with no strings attached. I have witnessed it. It not a good idea of male or female best friends when you are married. Male or female friends when married should be formal/social friends. Also dish out least minimum information
Where is self descipline and maturity and self worth
No&NO
How can a full grown woman have a man as her best friend? If you are a married woman you will now tell your husband that that man is your best friend, it is not good at all Man your best friend, no no, it has to stop
I cant have a guy as beestie cos by the time i complain somethings to him about my MAN, oneday we will do the do..
Disagree, you can have a malefried, without any string attach. I'm a senior and have longtime malefriends without any problem or sexual feeling.
You’re speaking for yourself, I’ll like to hear from the male best friend.