ENFJ here. I can definitely confirm the struggle of the ExxJ types. I am so dependent on my tribe for encouragement. I feel worthless if I don’t get their approval and I hate myself for it. I never thought I shared much with my ENTJ co-workers but I have seen their low self worth appear in casual conversations. I enjoy the series a lot. I’ve always been fairly confident in my type assessment but I’m still wondering about my other savior. I feel like my Se is a big player but I’m always in the future and that seriously annoys my ISFJ typed wife. I suppose I could be ESFJ (the only other MBTI type I’ve ever tested as) with savior Ne but I do my best thinking in solitude as opposed to a brainstorming/rapid fire environment. I guess I’ll have to keep watching.
Hey dude do a video on ESTPs. As an ESTP, I don’t really see too many vids on us. Most of them are based on intuitives like ENFPs, INFJs, ENTPs, INFPs, etc. The only sensors I see getting press are the SJs really. Hope you get around to making some on SPs. Thanks bro!
I’m so glad you’re back! I began my journey of MBTI with your videos and bought you’d never make another one. But not only are you back, but you spoke about my type. Double appeal. Haha thanks and welcome back.
I recently discovered that I'm an ENFJ after years of trying to find my type. I was typed upside-down by MBTI people who somehow thought I was lead Ti (peacocking? lol!) I have all the ExxJ problems but it took me forever to see it 😒
I've been opening my mind up to all of this and really liking the awareness that you constantly express (example being that anecdotes and google definitions get us nowhere). I had to comment on the amazing sense of humor you have though. I died a bit on ENFU.
Yeah enfjs and estjs really suck when it comes to themselves. Knowing how they feel or believe. But they are good and keeping everyone together and strong so that's good
I know you work within the MBTI model, but in socionics, I've been thinking about the same issues and have been trying to break things down into the binary level and use that to develope statistical tools. Q: how do you score the 1/4 categories (tribe, organize, gatherer, self) with a 1/2 category (extrovert, introvert)? Do you have an internal check to see if all tribe and gather groups are extroverted?
Ooooh I got an interesting point. My mum's an esfj and a martyr typical. I'm Ti I think, and my mum NEVER trusts her choice . Like never. She's v unsure of her choices. She always looks for me for shopping and other things.I wonder if this connects to anything.
What other types are there apart from the 16? Also, what books do you recommend reading to understand the system better (as to not fall into the trap of all those crappy sites)? What sources do you use? It seems I like asking questions haha.
I consistently go back to typing myself as INTP. Every now and then I think I might be another NT type. Based on my understanding, I'm an INTP. But I still have very strong characteristics that resemble strongly the other three Rationals. Question: How do I actually know what my biggest fear (in contrast) is? I can't tell how "strong" my fear for tribe validation is relative to my other three fears. I can't tell whether I've been more concerned with my identity or with being validated by the tribe, or exploring, or organizing. /Question I have spent my whole life around improving my weaknesses, as I perceive them. I haven't been very effective or objective. That made me sort of figuratively disfigured. So it's hard for me to tell the "shape" of my four fears. Please help. You're actually the only one who's input I'm starting to give a fuck about when it comes to this. At this point, I'm confused beyond comprehension (exaggerated).
"What do people fear?" perhaps you say so because your primary enneagram type is in the fear center, i.e. a better question for others may be "what are people ashamed of?" or "what makes people angry?".
YL Sze The functions don't display what people are capable of. It displays, how we process information, and what drains our energy, or what gives us energy during while we process information, so yes they can understand each other. It comes down to will the process of getting to know each other drain them or energize them. Then after is seeing how much of a drainage or vice versa are they to each other. The best way to see this is by looking at pairs of types in contrast with each other. So you have an INFP and ENFJ. They both have the same temperament being that their Idealist, so at first they may have a kind of subtle attraction to each h other through that like minded sense. That notice then as they begin to get to know each other, but as they progress more and more into their convo, due to their function stacks being mirror opposites of each other. (Like two sides of the same coin) They would gain some energy from realizing they have common interests but their energy will quickly drain for the both of them, because of how they communicate and express themselves to each other is the same in essence, but different in nature. On the other hand you can have an INFP and an ENFP. They are sister types so between all the types, these two types process the world the most similar to each other. So when they meet and converse, they will gain a lot of energy from each other due to how complimentary their types are with each other. (Fi>Ne with Ne>Fi) Compare that with how that INFP interact with the ENFJ then you can really begin to see the difference AT SCALE.
Y'all need to stop commenting on videos and have some new typings please. I keep refreshing your site and nada. It's annoying. I say this light-heartedly as well.
Why is personality enthusiasts sound angry when they explain their ideas? It's not this channel but almost all of them. Probably because they work with archetypes and when many people shallowly treat those archetypes as moulds this gets on their nerves. Or because the ideas themselves are intuitive and not clearly thought out which makes explaining them sort of aggrevating. Not sure..
First- love you and your lovely lady! But please- you talk way to fast and .... kind of degrading.. Also for a record: in my life I met couple of man enfj and only one female (unfortunately) ME! So ! There you go! Stop stereotyping all!!! Please! I beg you! All so annoying 🤦♀️🤦♀️
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"Everyone is either an ExxJ, or not an ExxJ." Best out of context quote ever.
I laughed hard when he said “F U”
Me too 😭😂
Fr that was genius
Witty
Just call me Snap Decision Johnny
This is so intellectually satisfying
I literally have been waiting this for YEARS
5?
HE'S BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ENFJ here. I can definitely confirm the struggle of the ExxJ types. I am so dependent on my tribe for encouragement. I feel worthless if I don’t get their approval and I hate myself for it. I never thought I shared much with my ENTJ co-workers but I have seen their low self worth appear in casual conversations. I enjoy the series a lot. I’ve always been fairly confident in my type assessment but I’m still wondering about my other savior. I feel like my Se is a big player but I’m always in the future and that seriously annoys my ISFJ typed wife. I suppose I could be ESFJ (the only other MBTI type I’ve ever tested as) with savior Ne but I do my best thinking in solitude as opposed to a brainstorming/rapid fire environment. I guess I’ll have to keep watching.
It feels as if Deadpool is trying to teach me about psychology
Low self identity exxj so trueee
Hey dude do a video on ESTPs. As an ESTP, I don’t really see too many vids on us. Most of them are based on intuitives like ENFPs, INFJs, ENTPs, INFPs, etc. The only sensors I see getting press are the SJs really.
Hope you get around to making some on SPs. Thanks bro!
I’m so glad you’re back! I began my journey of MBTI with your videos and bought you’d never make another one. But not only are you back, but you spoke about my type. Double appeal. Haha thanks and welcome back.
This dude is so decisive and angry he must be a j 😂😂😂😂😂😂. 👀👀 💃🏾
I recently discovered that I'm an ENFJ after years of trying to find my type. I was typed upside-down by MBTI people who somehow thought I was lead Ti (peacocking? lol!) I have all the ExxJ problems but it took me forever to see it 😒
Your videos are my favorite! 🤯😂
"INFP”
"See My Jumper Hanging on the Line," by R.L. Burnside. Now's that a great song, provocatively subtle, yet derivatively poignant.
I've been waiting on these for years xD
OMFG YES YOU'RE BACK
Wow. This is so clear. Thank you so much for this. Really interested to see more of this.
Awesome video! I am glad you came back :)
Your point at 3:03 is well worth the view.
Dave you brilliant beautiful directing fucking human. I’m so excited for what you’re bringing to the world.
I've been opening my mind up to all of this and really liking the awareness that you constantly express (example being that anecdotes and google definitions get us nowhere). I had to comment on the amazing sense of humor you have though. I died a bit on ENFU.
As an intp the emphasis you putt on some things seems so redundant and obvious but then I remember there are less special people out there :P
Could you guys do a video on all 4? Like ExxP, IxxP, and IxxJ also? Thanks, so glad you are making videos again!
Very interesting! It all ended a bit abruptly though.
So glad that you’re back. The only legitimate channel for this topic. All others are posers with no idea, breeding a community of headless chickens.
u talk so fast i needed to slow things up a little bit hahaha, but daamn u know how to teach. im learning form you more than u think. (ENFJ here)
Yeah enfjs and estjs really suck when it comes to themselves. Knowing how they feel or believe. But they are good and keeping everyone together and strong so that's good
This is going to be interesting.
Mind = blown
CZcams didnt notify my of this. I waited years for this
Total coincidence that you started uploading this week. Interesting.
Who else is gonna watch this video on repeat until his next one comes out
My mom's an ENFJ. She definitely has a dominant Fe. And she happens to really like Effie, too. So that's a thing.
Finally!
This shit is awesome
Yes! Yes! Yes!
Can't wait for the rest of the series!
Thank you for posting this
The best explanation I’ve seen so far !!!!
I know you work within the MBTI model, but in socionics, I've been thinking about the same issues and have been trying to break things down into the binary level and use that to develope statistical tools.
Q: how do you score the 1/4 categories (tribe, organize, gatherer, self) with a 1/2 category (extrovert, introvert)? Do you have an internal check to see if all tribe and gather groups are extroverted?
I AM AN ENFJ AND I APPROVE THIS MESSAGE BITCHES!
Dave (if that's even ur real name) as a loyal fan what are you (type)?
Hey! Snap decision Johnny! Look at SuperDave's list of "binary coins" before you Leap!
Ooooh I got an interesting point. My mum's an esfj and a martyr typical. I'm Ti I think, and my mum NEVER trusts her choice . Like never. She's v unsure of her choices. She always looks for me for shopping and other things.I wonder if this connects to anything.
Double blind partner 😂😂
I'm really excited to learn more about the "types within types".
Also, do you have an upload schedule?
What other types are there apart from the 16? Also, what books do you recommend reading to understand the system better (as to not fall into the trap of all those crappy sites)? What sources do you use? It seems I like asking questions haha.
He IS the source.
"..F~U..."
Oh my God..
That was surely a good laugh.
✌😎
Please do like a whole video analysis of ENTJ type, it would be really really awesome!!! Love your vids!!!
types within types!???! i'm digging that even though i don't know what it means exactly
OMG SNAP DECISION JOHNNY I think I know him......
We need to memefy this :D
I consistently go back to typing myself as INTP. Every now and then I think I might be another NT type. Based on my understanding, I'm an INTP. But I still have very strong characteristics that resemble strongly the other three Rationals.
Question: How do I actually know what my biggest fear (in contrast) is? I can't tell how "strong" my fear for tribe validation is relative to my other three fears. I can't tell whether I've been more concerned with my identity or with being validated by the tribe, or exploring, or organizing.
/Question
I have spent my whole life around improving my weaknesses, as I perceive them. I haven't been very effective or objective. That made me sort of figuratively disfigured. So it's hard for me to tell the "shape" of my four fears.
Please help. You're actually the only one who's input I'm starting to give a fuck about when it comes to this. At this point, I'm confused beyond comprehension (exaggerated).
I did the exercise but got a brain injury. Gotta take it easy for a few months.
goddamn its so funny seeing mad in the beginning lol
my greatest fear is failure. Im an INFP 6w5 sp/so/sx
Charles Benson Failure to whom... Yourself or the tribe?
Failure to launch syndrome
I need my teachers to talk like this🤣 btw ENFJ here👋
"What do people fear?" perhaps you say so because your primary enneagram type is in the fear center, i.e. a better question for others may be "what are people ashamed of?" or "what makes people angry?".
I wanna know enfj vs infp!!! They r opposite to each other can they really understand each other???
YL Sze The functions don't display what people are capable of. It displays, how we process information, and what drains our energy, or what gives us energy during while we process information, so yes they can understand each other. It comes down to will the process of getting to know each other drain them or energize them. Then after is seeing how much of a drainage or vice versa are they to each other. The best way to see this is by looking at pairs of types in contrast with each other. So you have an INFP and ENFJ. They both have the same temperament being that their Idealist, so at first they may have a kind of subtle attraction to each h other through that like minded sense. That notice then as they begin to get to know each other, but as they progress more and more into their convo, due to their function stacks being mirror opposites of each other. (Like two sides of the same coin) They would gain some energy from realizing they have common interests but their energy will quickly drain for the both of them, because of how they communicate and express themselves to each other is the same in essence, but different in nature. On the other hand you can have an INFP and an ENFP. They are sister types so between all the types, these two types process the world the most similar to each other. So when they meet and converse, they will gain a lot of energy from each other due to how complimentary their types are with each other. (Fi>Ne with Ne>Fi) Compare that with how that INFP interact with the ENFJ then you can really begin to see the difference AT SCALE.
I LOVE YOU
FeNi-Se-Ti=Social oriented Envision-Physical effects-Hiveminded
Please do this with every type..
Confused
The question is what is YOUR type xD
me: I wish I was entj but still I kinda like being enfj....
ISFJ vs ISTJ? I’m a guy and I balance between the two and it is said that a guy ISFJ can mistype as an ISTJ.
0:25 lmfaoo
God... a couple years later and im still trying to figure out witch type i am...
Lautaro Colli Please bear with him.
Does it make sense to be good Se/Ne gatherer and suck shit at Si/Ni organizing, but feel a million times better when things are organized?
Is Tony Robbins still an ENTJ in your estimation?
ENFJ
I saw recently that he is INTJ :)
Where did you see that, on bullshit.com?
Y'all need to stop commenting on videos and have some new typings please. I keep refreshing your site and nada. It's annoying.
I say this light-heartedly as well.
so according to your system theirs 32 types? if so will the system be explained in future videos?
Fuck yeah!!!!!!
Hey Dave, what is that chart around 4:35?
Has anyone taken their typing service here? How does it work? You have to talk with them for days? Lol
What is the context here? This sounds like an excerpt from a seminar.
bye
We dont like helpling others, we like to be perceived as helpful
Do you make consulting ?
Once you meet enough ENFJs, all looks the same. Recognizing them becomes instantaneous.
So you are telling us that ENTJs care about anyone apart from themselves? Haha
Why is personality enthusiasts sound angry when they explain their ideas? It's not this channel but almost all of them. Probably because they work with archetypes and when many people shallowly treat those archetypes as moulds this gets on their nerves. Or because the ideas themselves are intuitive and not clearly thought out which makes explaining them sort of aggrevating. Not sure..
ENFU LOL!!
If an ENFJ's strongest function is Fe, is their weakest function Fi or Ti? I would assume Fi since it doesnt even make the stack.
FU lol
First- love you and your lovely lady! But please- you talk way to fast and .... kind of degrading.. Also for a record: in my life I met couple of man enfj and only one female (unfortunately) ME! So ! There you go! Stop stereotyping all!!! Please! I beg you! All so annoying 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Bad use of the word objective but good rationalisation