How to Enter Your DARK FEMININE ERA and Level Up Your Life ⚡️
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CHAPTERS:
0:00 How to step into your dark feminine era
0:42 Light vs dark feminine energy?
1:51 Examples of dark feminine
3:49 Is the dark feminine manipulative?
4:57 Become the “villain”
7:03 You get what you’re willing to accept
10:31 The art of feminine assertiveness
14:20 A little mystery + privacy can be helpful
16:51 Leveling up requires self-focus
18:48 It’s all about balance
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I think maturity comes first in the way of dark feminine energy
True
It goes unsaid. You can tell someone to be mature but that's learned through life experiences, not by others.
Acceptance of womenhood and own your worth of being.
That's what I was thinking too.
Yes I agree .. integrating darker things .. it’s nessesary
I wrote a few key points of the video, hope it helps :)
1. Be comfortable in becoming the villain
- Be confident in asserting boundaries and telling others ‘no’
- Comfortable with being disliked.
- Be selective with where u put your energy.
2. Walk away once you know that something is not worth your time or energy.
3. Change your standards. (higher)
4. Be more assertive.
- Eg: instead of ‘omg so sorry im late’ say, ‘thank you for waiting for me.’
5. Rescinding your energy is a form of assertiveness. Look fricking disappointed. Channel Alfred. Ull reach there.
6. Privacy + mystery. Don’t tell every small detail to random people, only trusted ones.
- Don’t overshare or brag. Be more observant.
- Eg. An acquaintance probably doesn’t need to know how u drank three sodas tdy. But with trusted friends, it’s a joke.
- This helps to protect and guard your energy, until u know who does/ doesn’t have your best interests in mind.
7. Put yourself first. Its okay to be selfish (as in, self focused.)
Thank you for going that❣️❣️
Thank you, love 🤗
Thanks for sharing your notes 📝
Thanks girly pop for the summary!
You’re the mature wise older sister every woman wants! 💛
😘😘
You truly are❤
yes! the best description! I totally agree
My default is dark feminine. It is actually just in the last 6 years i learned to be more in my light feminine. Now i am at the point in my life to be more balanced in both, and be able to switch effortlessly accordingly to people, occasions and opportunities. I love this video! Thank you!
Same over here 😅😅
Sweetheart let me point out that this idea of dark feminine energy that you speak of is really masculine energy.
@@trishalawinger7222 I think there is a lot of overlap between masculine energie and dark feminine energies. In Masculine energies there is also dark and light. We have al those energies within us. The dark and light feminine as well as the dark and light masculine. I personally think it’s about healing the wounding in all of them in order to master all of the so one can be balanced.
Same here! I had to learn Light, to be more socially accepted and now i just want to go back to my natural state with the ability to switch at will.
@@Nyuffykah Yes i totally resonate with this!
Dark feminine energy protects you
In my 20s, I was definitely a light feminine with a bit of pushover & people pleasing. Now that I'm 32, I simply just say "no thanks" or "I'm not doing that" and keep it moving, I'm also more selective with who I interact with, the peace I experience now is definitely worth the awkward-ness that comes with being a Dark Feminine.
I love this. Recently a perspective that has helped me with being viewed negatively by others is comparing it to: when a man is secure in his masculinity, he is not afraid to show his vulnerability and softness at times. So when a woman is secure in her femininity, she is not afraid to show her strength, and power at times. She knows shes a good person and leads from love so doesn’t need to constantly prove it to everyone
Oh wow I absolutely love that perspective!
Love this, thank you so much for sharing ❤
🎯🎯🎯
I don't worry about men anymore. They aren't my focus. It's not a slight against them. I just don't think making someone else the center of my world. Men don't do this with us and that is fine. Why should they? Our energy needs to be on our lives.
But with men how does it work because honestly I've had so many psychopathic borderline stalker men that get furious when they hear 'no' or 'no thanks' even when I'm actually nice about it@@JillzGuerin
Dark feminine energy is really bending life to your will.
Light is going with the flow, being content with what you cant change.
I recently stepping into my dark feminine and fell in love with the energy. I used to be a chronic people pleaser, very naive, easy to manipulate, did not embody my feelings, wants or needs. Once I entered dark feminine era I have become assertive, protective, my nurting side has a soft, gentle, but powerful and confident nature to it. I do not need to dress for others, express myself for others but rather I found a quiet elegance to command a room without taking up all of the space in it. I know exactly what I want and I don't need to manipulate to get it. Revenge, envy and jealousy has become a thing of the past but if there is an injustice around me I can speak on it.
Love that! How do you enter the dark energy?
@@leeanndiamond2770 I realized a value within myself that I never knew I had. Which lead to realizing I am actually a powerful woman.
@@SimpleMandycan I get some tips! Am a teen?
beautiful, girl
Wow I chaneled my dark feminine energy before i even knew about it. I'm so proud of myself! My self respect is higher than my feelings 💯
Are you an Introvert? Cause, Introverts are naturally attractive in a dark mysterious way. I'm a girl but, i have a masculine dark energy within me too cause i'm an Introvert.
A good reminder that the feminine is not always love and light and warm and snuggly. She is light and dark, lover and protector of her own, creator and destroyer, giver of birth, “death” and re-birth.
Kali is that you?
Persephone, Goddess of Spring, Queen of the underworld. That you?
This is hard advice to swallow for a Pisces woman. No pun intended 😂
Jealous you had a mom who exemplified maturity. Mine was a toddler trapped in an adult body so here we are.
Going through it. I'm a teen and the oldest so its really hard. Any tips?
acceptance for whatever you are currently experiencing…realizing that someday you will look back at the memory of this time with understanding ❤
@@Jlw_2008you are doing better than you think you are. You are enough. Never forget your inherent worth as a human being. You can create your own reality (Neville Goddard)
@@Jlw_2008Find a healthy adult to look up to, or help you. Grandma, Aunty. If no one in family, reach out to a teacher, counselor, someone at church. It’s not right your parent isn’t parenting you. It’s not your fault! Good for you/watching you tube videos to help yourself. Sending you good energy to help you. 🙌🏼🌈✨
Me too. The forever 13 year old.
Love how you match your outfits with the theme of the video
Haha I try, it makes it more fun that way 😊
Just thought the same 😄
This is also very validating. Sometimes I see my ppl around me make close friendships extremely fast. But I like to take my time and assess whether or not it’s someone I’d like to get closer to. This is a good thing. When I see others with a lot of friends and I compare myself negatively I have to remind myself that being selective about where I put my energy is a good thing.
For me, my twenties was mastering my light feminine energy and my thirties is harnessing my dark feminine energy! It feels so good. It’s so loving and strong! Oh and yes I’m a Libra sun, Cancer rising and Pisces moon so you can imagine how long it’s taken me to start developing trust in myself - aka not relying on external approval or becoming too sensitive to constructive criticism. ❤
Oh I totally get it! I’m a cancer sun/libra moon, but my aquarius rising helps me a little bit in that department lol. And same I first worked on my light feminine energy because that’s what I needed first, and the dark feminine came later as I got older 🖤
After 3 decades of living for everyone else, it’s time to fully fill my cup first with self love and compassion in a growing number of ways, while also removing the rocks and sand accumulated over time, making more space for Me to be... Then - the love *overflows* to others.
… Hello darlings! Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, and Cancer Rising here. 🙋🏻♀️🥰 (until last year I thought Scorpio rising, which didn’t resonate very much… changed the birth time appropriately to PM, and ta da! ♋️😂)
@@samanthaa.8018 oh wow we are almost big 3 twins!! Just different placements ❤️ and I love that you’re on the journey!
@@JillzGuerin I love that! And I can see how your Aquarius rising pulls through! ❤️
@@WithLovexo such a happy surprise! I’ve never come across another with the same big 3 before. Be well, si-star! Our journey truly happens within; may your self-love, happiness, and abundance continue growing in ways that serve You. 😊💫
I just spent the weekend with some friends and got the chance to know one of the girls of the group a little better. She has totally and naturally embodied her dark feminine energy, and she is confident in it. She is a nice person, she is pleasent to be around, but she does not take anyone's sh*t and I felt like she was not afraid of being herself or being disliked. I kept observing her, kind of trying to learn from her how being confident is (because I am not). And now watching this video she keeps coming to my mind.
A person who knows what they want and steps up for themself at the moment of need is a person who knows their self worth,
simply leave if its not benefiting you and do what's best for you.
surround yourself with people who treat you right and cut off the people who is making you stagnant in life,
go with the flow and grow to be the best version of yourself.
Trust me love you have so much potential in you than you are letting on
I always find learning about the dark feminine energy and balancing that and the light so interesting because i was naturally more in my dark feminine for a good portion of my life but I think to an extreme extent. To the point of being too selfish and isolating myself. Over the past 2 years i’ve been cultivating a beautiful light feminine energy that i feel has almost tipped to far in its direction as well. I can be almost too selfless now and it has gotten me taken advantage of. At this point in life I’m really trying to find the balance between both. You are actually an amazing example of that balanced energy and it’s good to learn from someone who was my opposite at a point (more in her light and now working with dark vs me who was always more in my dark then light now learning to balance) because it gives me a different perspective on the dark feminine and ways i can use it for my highest good. Thank you for your beautiful information & elegant execution. You’ve gained a new subscriber ❤
Love that you've presented all these choices as part of a desirable "dark feminine" aesthetic. At first I was put off by the tiktok language, but as women we often second-guess ourselves and just need a role model or mentor to give us that permission to be more assertive. Your date example was a great reminder to stay true to myself and do what's right in spite of pushback or disapproval.
13:35 - 14:19 is pure gold. Learning how much discomfort leaning into a new habit is going to evoke and how to handle it really sets clear expectations for how difficult a task is to achieve. That really took away the mystery, thanks for this.
thanks, I needed this now. This year has been a crazy level-up for me, and not without controversies. I got so much criticism that comes with the bigger responsibilities that I'm just exhausted and started to lose confidence.
Nice to remind myself that it's ok, and it doesn't mean I'm wrong or mean.
You are fantastic, Jillz. I recently discovered your channel and am steadily working my way through your beautiful contributions (I don't want to just call it content). I am currently experiencing an immense personal transformation regarding the person and woman I want to be. What started for me as simply stumbling upon an elegant, articulate woman describing the 7 Feminine Archetypes has turned into a joyous accompaniment to my life at a time where I am questioning everything. I love this channel and all of your output. Thank you for doing your thing 💖
Okay I just stumbled on this channel for the first time and have binged like 5 or 6 videos already. This video alone has given me more thorough understanding of my self with your beautifully succinct one liners than a year of therapy has. You knowledge is so wonderfully arranged, I am so grateful! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Thank you so much for this video. It came to me in the perfect time in my life. It feels like fate. I have much more of an understanding of myself now. It's like you found the missing puzzle piece and put it into words for me.
Thank you so much Jillz! You can't understand how this video has impacted me and for the better.
Ever since I started embracing my dark feminine energy, I've been able to make better choices for myself. Excellent advice!
Really needed to hear the message in this video. I am very much a light feminine and stayed in a 3 year relationship with a guy that wasn’t putting the effort I expected and I dismissed it and tried to be a better girlfriend and be the girl that motivates him. It got to the point where I didn’t know who I was anymore because everything revolved around him. I was also bad about not ending things sooner with a guy that I kept getting creepy vibes from. I have standards, I just need to have respect for myself and enforce them.
Oh my god .. same happened with me the guy didn't put any effort and I let him abuse me mantally but still didm't break things apart and at the end he broke up with me and still I am the one crying while he has moved on.
He must be rich that's why you were unwilling to leave
Thank you for this. I was initially cautious around the word dark, thinking it meant evil, but you explain it in a way that makes it sound like the “right” thing to embody in an appropriate balance 🙂
First and foremost, I love your top.
Secondly, I only found this channel today. My boyfriend of 3 years and I are taking a month-long break in communication and I have been researching where things went wrong so things can go right again.
I lacked greatly in being in my feminine energy, especially my dark feminine energy. I had basically as little as I possibly could as of self-worth and boundaries. I hope we can work it out but no matter what I have to remember that I can't go back to something that isn't worthy of my time and energy. Thank you Jillz!!!
Everytime I watch this video it changes something in me. Put's me in the right mindset for some people or situations where i need my dark feminine energy. And gives me the strengh to be assertive or to exit the situation. Thank you for your content!
I am totally selfish now. Can't help it, I love myself, I value myself, and I care for myself, fully and foremost!
One of the most valuable changes I've made, is not to explain myself to people. I'm also not obligated to answer questions that I don't want to answer.
F.e. if someone texted if I wanted to meet up, I used to explain in detail why I can't and apologised, but now I just answer " I'm not available that evening", no explanation and no apologies needed!! When someone asks questions that I find personal, I simply ignore the question (if it was asked via text message), or if in person, I flat out say I'm not happy to talk about this.
I also hardly post anything on social media anymore. Taking these simple steps were very empowering for me.
Love it!! Very good video on dark femininity. It’s funny how I was able to relate to a lot of this lol I’m more into my dark feminine side than I thought. I’m also a former people pleaser and I learned that making everyone else happy at the expense of yours is not a good way to live your life. Be light and smooth, but also be assertive when needed and set those boundaries!!
I LOVE the way you express assertiveness. I feel that this is often misconstrued.
This is a very instructive and clear video.
I love how your look matches the theme of the video! Beautiful and powerful!
The goal is to have a balance between the dark and light feminine energies. I might want my front to be light feminine but that deep down dark feminine is what grounds and gives me respect and honor , its where my worth is at. I have learned that unless you are deeply connected to your dark feminine, your light feminine will get taken advantage of, so finding the energy that anchors me is of the essence.
I knew you’d do it Justice to talk about dark feminine energy! There is SO much being marketed now as dark feminine that’s misconstrued and often the wounded feminine.
I’m a Libra too and I knew it when I found your channel 😂. Totally can relate. I found your channel recently and I’ve been binging and loving ALL your videos. I love your vibe and now that I know you are a Libra , it makes so much sense. Thank you.
I absolutely love that I came across your channel. I always look forward to watching your videos. You are truly an inspiration and I can’t wait to see more videos.
I love your videos. And that top was the perfect top for dark feminine energy! Brilliant!😊
Wow I love the concept of feminine assertiveness, I needed that thank you ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for mentioning the situation of being married, when “walk away” is not your first option. I’m not married, but I’m in 2,5 years relationships. Recently I realised I don’t like how my partner started treating me and that I want to have some space. I moved to another city and we live separately. I thought it will be the end of our relationships, but truly it was the beginning, I can be honest, I can live the life I want, and I still know I’m loved and accepted.
I absolutely agree with everything you said. I'm also pleased you said "Empathic" instead of the commonly, incorrectly used "Empathetic".
Wow so much of light and dark feminine talk has had me confused because most of them were around male validation or the creators were light feminine woman and I felt myself trying to embody that when i knew I didn’t feel right. I’m glad I found your channel. Keep it up
I love that there is an embrace of this energy because this is my natural personality, but I feel surrounded by women who are like, "love and light!"
Yea. I am getting my dark feminine energy back. I suppressed it for years to be a nice girl. Now I embrace my authenticity to claim my desires and power.
I always prided myself on having boundaries. I've never been afraid to say no or to voice my opinion.
What was a complete shocker for me while watching this video is that while I have no problem establishing boundaries with other people, I've never established boundaries with myself, and I believe that is what has led me to the past few months being the most difficult of my life.
This is my first video of yours that I've seen and I'll definitely be watching more.
Thank you for opening my eyes 🖤
What does setting boundaries for yourself look like?
I started watching your videos a few months ago and I feel a lot more confident in my body, also I really appreciate the dog at the background he sometimes matches my energy 😂❤
I love how she teaches girls to also be in touch with their emotional side and helps them accept them
I love how you articulate your thoughts
love this take of feminine energy. thanks jillz for yet another cool video
This video is brilliant! I love the explanation on what the true dark feminine energy is and how it is necessary, not just always embodying the light feminine energy. To me, the ultimate focus of life is finding balance within ourselves and within all facets of our lives. Thank you 🙏🏻
Your videos are always inspired and motivated me … you know what… I watch one of your videos every morning to start my day ❤
Thank you for this video Jillz. I needed it today. Watching it, I realized I need friends. Real friends. I'm stepping into my dark feminine energy, and it seems to be upsetting a lot of people around me (and I'm totally okay with it), but as you were talking about standards, I just realized my friends don't treat me the way I want to be treated. I always give too much of myself, and I never get the same. And I'm tired of it. I hope one day I find my people 😔
Girl, same! ❤❤❤
Sameee, i hope to find my circle of friends one day too. The genuine ones ❤.
I felt this too when I started to connect to my dark feminine energy... the initial shift is hard but you're embodying this energy for the most positive reasons 🩶
I have heard already a lot about dark vs light femenine energy. But the way you have explained it has been BY FAR the best. You really helped me to understand the topic in a very case-study way in the best meaning of it, that was what I needed, no a "mainstream/superficial way". Thank you so much for the teaching❤❤
I definitely needed to see this today. I desperately need to work on my dark feminine energy. There were parts of your video that hit me so hard I started tearing up 🥺
the only person who did justice and correctly explained what dark feminine energy actually is. thank you so much for this!!
Thank you for explaining the psychology! I had to be okay with being the villain when my ex immediately assumed the worst of my new relationship, and it wasn’t so bad! I finally had an opportunity to romanticize the darkness and I was even attracted to tattoos, dark rooms, dark clothing etc. I had no idea what was happening but what you are sharing makes sense.
I've always been in light feminine era but I knew that I needed a change with focusing on myself lately and found out with this video that I started to get in my dark feminine era. I knew something was different and I liked this difference but I didn't know its name. Thanks to you I figured it out what I need to focus on 🥰❤
hi friend, I am a libra and am in my villain era this year! this was the perfect video. I am putting myself first. I told my family I have to focus on my physical health mental health and my husband. specifically, my husband and son. they accepted it!!
Thanks for sharing this video! It made me reflect on who I am as a person, and I learned so much more about myself. I’ve always had guy friends and never really got along with girls. This helped me understand why and my ratio of masculine-feminine energy. Puts a new perspective on my life!
I’m going into my Dark Feminine now in my 30’s. I’m a Scorpio Sun, Cancer Moon, and Leo Rising and I can tell you that sometimes I have trouble saying no for fear of being told that I’m an awful person. I admire women who have harnessed their Dark feminine energy
Thos who you are afraid that they would tell you that you are awful are the same that, deep inside you know, take advantage of you and want to guilt trip you.
I just came across your videos and I must say they are calming, thank you.
I really needed this. I grew up with a lot of abuse and became a people pleaser and lately I have had to pull back from a friend who swears at me and treats me badly whenever I disagree with her. I need to bring my Dark Feminine side. Let it out.
Bring it out, no one speaks to you like that.
Thankyou so much jilz i was not knowing about this dark feminine exactly and explaining that dark feminine does not mean a bad energy
Thank you. I have been a light feminine for a very long time. It has served me well to a point. It is time to level up. Thank you for your insight into the dark feminine. I am ready! 💜
I LOVE the quality of audio and your accent 😚🤍
I'm Libra and I totally agree with the people pleasing part. It's so hard to say no. SPECIALLY if you ever so slightly like the other person.
I love the way you explain it , straight forward and understandable
My greatest dark feminine moment was recent. I walked into a room filled with a history of trauma and walked between two toxic people in high heels and graceful silence. I held my peace and space. Annnd you could tell it shook them.
Thank you! You have a very captivating way of speaking and I love your top. I was attentively listening the whole time and it was very helpful!
This past year I felt like something was off whenever I forced a light feminine narrative but I found I am more comfortable in the dark feminine energy and this video helped me to embrace that aspect of myself and not try to be something I am not, as well as have a healthy balance between the two
I love this message!!! Fully resonates with me… transformation❤dark feminine energy
Your voice is very smooth. I love hearing you speak❤
I've been lacking overall in balance and I'm going to be fixing this leading up to 2024!
love how i match with these qualitites both light and dark feminine energy.
i love these videos, i don’t wanna be toxic bc then that will attract it so thank you 💗
Your teaching technique is incredible.. i listen to so many women about this subject but its always you that completely get me to understand. everything you taught me changed my life ❤️ love from iraq
Thank you so much, Jillz ! Your messages always resonate in such a healing way ♥
You should start a podcast , and you’re so sweet. I’m definitely a dark fem, and my soul sister is so light . Love her we balance each other
Love the advice about the few moments of awkwardness!
It was such a tremendous explanation.... please upload constantly ❤
Thank you for explaining in a comprehensible way! Now it all makes sense!
I love this Jillz!! I so love this! Thank you so much!!
I need to embrace my dark feminine in order to be more my own priority ❤
You need to embrace masculine energy to take care of yourself. No such thing as dark feminine as empowering. Dark feminine is toxic, unbalanced energy.
First time hearing about the concept, thank you! 🖤
❤ Jillz you are a genius. Thanks for sharing this so beautifully
You're rebuilding me like it's my rebirth.. Thank you for this channel.
Jillz, thank you and I hope you know how amazing you are 💖💖
A quick reminder that u need go heal urself and be mature enough and stable to be on ur feminine energy whether it's dark or light
This is SO good. Super helpful and validating. Thank you for creating such an awesome video! :)
The Gossip Girl examples 👌🏻 chefs kiss 💕
Yeeh! Let that dark feminine energy ✨shine✨ baby! ❤️🔥
A contradiction of terms. Dark energy is evil by it's very nature. Ladies just don't understand about embracing your masculine energy for empowerment and job success. Wake up!
I would've loved to hear about seduction as well because as a light feminine it's something that I struggle with the most.
Great video though, as always❤❤
Yesss I might make that it’s own video though!
This video is literally a life changer
This came at such a good moment🥹I’m on my break right now and an hour ago someone was making offensive jokes towards me and I felt like I had to laugh and agree to avoid the awkward energy and you just reminded me that I don’t have to do that. Thank you so much Jillz💜💜💜
So glad it was helpful!!! 💕
Jokes are supposed to be funny - if it's not funny, its not! SO glad you came to this realization girl 🖤
Fiery, spicy, confident, assertive, fearless, passionate, bold, mysterious, seductive, communicates limits, in touch with desires, protects you, transformative
I would very much appreciate a video on feminine assertiveness ❤ thank you 🥰
This is absolutely the best video its gonna help me a lot in my life ✨✨
I loved this one!! And perfectly said! 😍
Thankyou for sharing!
Love your content.