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Komentáře • 688

  • @mr.christopher8173
    @mr.christopher8173 Před 5 měsíci +745

    Been watching for about a week. Just took the money I had saved up and paid off my car, paypal and credit cards. Can’t believe I didnt do this sooner. Can’t wait to start seeing the money stack up not having these extra “debt bills”.

    • @BeeDee-qs9so
      @BeeDee-qs9so Před 5 měsíci +38

      Fantastic! Great job 👏

    • @striperkid
      @striperkid Před 5 měsíci +39

      That's awesome dude. Being debt free is actually amazing.

    • @MrFunkadeIic
      @MrFunkadeIic Před 5 měsíci +6

      Do you want a trophy 🏆 or a medal 🏅? You don't get any medals for paying what you owe in the first place....unless you have a credit card with rewards.

    • @Joce123
      @Joce123 Před 5 měsíci +9

      Trusting a plan that purports to give you peace means giving up your more known financial patterns. It's not easy. Not just a matter of paying bills that one owes

    • @debbiemoniz268
      @debbiemoniz268 Před 5 měsíci

      are you ok?@@MrFunkadeIic

  • @mc-nm6ml
    @mc-nm6ml Před 3 měsíci +29

    Just paid off my credit cards, feels so good! Next step is my car and then I can start saving for a house.

  • @decaalv
    @decaalv Před 2 měsíci +111

    In Costa Rica we eat rice and beans EVERY DAY.

    • @dongmingzhu666
      @dongmingzhu666 Před měsícem +4

      Oh no, you need a brand new Mercedes 😂

    • @rasbella01
      @rasbella01 Před měsícem +6

      Time to eat steak, you’ve suffered enough 😅

    • @paolaristori6179
      @paolaristori6179 Před měsícem +2

      In Italy we prefer rice and peas😊

    • @11icarocosta
      @11icarocosta Před měsícem

      @@rasbella01you say that because americans have no idea how to cook rice or beans lol

    • @Smallvillefreak
      @Smallvillefreak Před měsícem +1

      I love me some Gallo Pinto with sour cream!!!!!!!!!1 Pura Vida!!!!!!!!!!!1

  • @Nigriff
    @Nigriff Před 5 měsíci +59

    The ultimate entitlement is thinking your child needs to pay you back for existing. I'm praying for Taylor and her mom.

    • @miguelzambrano2260
      @miguelzambrano2260 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I thought that only happened in our Mexican culture. Many had 4-10 children thinking and hoping… our kids will care of us. Some think it because they prioritized raising us instead of saving for them.

    • @marlynhaynes2231
      @marlynhaynes2231 Před měsícem

      @@miguelzambrano2260 😅

    • @bichekambohok4857
      @bichekambohok4857 Před 18 dny

      ​@miguelzambrano2260 Happens in some parts of Africa too. It might help to know the parents heritage.

  • @RenSayLess
    @RenSayLess Před 3 měsíci +55

    We have about $20k in the bank, but we have yo-yoing credit card debt (pay it off - charge the card - hold a balance - repeat).
    After watching this video I opened by banking app and paid off the credit card.
    Then I opened an excel doc and looked/logged/categorized all spending from Jan to today.
    I cancelled 3-4 subscriptions, cut the cost of another in half. I see that I Zelle too much money to others, and I spend WAY TOO MUCH MONEY on Amazon. Too much.
    The saved money is the nest egg for when we close on our house in April (to finish the backyard - new build problems). So starting I'm the emergency savings at $5k.
    Hopefully we are in a decent place now to continue the baby steps. Now that I see laid out clear as day where my money is going (to absolute nonsense), I will be able to cut those expenses.

    • @666dynomax
      @666dynomax Před 2 měsíci

      Why do you Zelle money to others, is that buying things or what is that for? I dont actually know what Zelle is... Good work!

    • @RenSayLess
      @RenSayLess Před 2 měsíci

      @@666dynomax Zelle is just an app that many banks and credit unions have integrated with. So rather than Venmo, Zelle is an alternative (and a preferred method).
      The Zelle transactions were to my husband. He manages his free spending money rather poorly, so at times he’ll ask for cash here and there for whatever reason and I’ll send some over. But seeing how much it was from January-March….. it was a problem.

    • @kamarwashington
      @kamarwashington Před měsícem

      @@666dynomaxZelle is like Cash App or Venmo. For my banking institution is integrated with it, so no need for another money sending app. That’s all it is.

    • @JoseHerrera-ph1ns
      @JoseHerrera-ph1ns Před měsícem +1

      Best of luck! You can do this.

  • @GIUL7301
    @GIUL7301 Před 2 měsíci +6

    We have over $40,000 for a down payment or outright purchase for a new vehicle.
    We say no.
    Just got my 2004 silverado work truck from the
    Mechanic. He said its running great. I may have another 100,000 miles with it.
    It has $428,000 origanil miles on eng/trany.
    I'll wait. Its been paid off since 08.
    No vehicle payment allowed us to pay off our mortgage 5 years ago.
    Stop buying stupid stuff!

  • @nailatiylluf
    @nailatiylluf Před 5 měsíci +142

    I hope that first woman spends some time alone and is much more careful in the future if she decides to date again. Two abusive exes with kids is something that needs to be examined.

    • @metallifreak100
      @metallifreak100 Před 5 měsíci +27

      Yeah, people often attract the same kind of person repeatedly.

    • @tanihabibty
      @tanihabibty Před 5 měsíci +9

      I was thinking the same.

    • @ericnewman6523
      @ericnewman6523 Před 5 měsíci +1

      She’s clearly lying she is manipulating. It’s very rare that many men are abusive. It’s usually the women that’s abusive but women get away with lying on men any day of the year!

    • @jtrowe3921
      @jtrowe3921 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Wonder if she knows my ex 🧐

    • @dalekthump2590
      @dalekthump2590 Před 5 měsíci +5

      lol crazy you wanting to examine the woman not the men who are abusive.

  • @averynmitchell
    @averynmitchell Před měsícem +5

    8:42 I love that Dave is empathizing with this lady and helping her get in touch with Zander after she got out of an abusive relationship. That is an incredibly heartfelt gesture and she will never forget it; I can guarantee that as someone who's left an abusive relationship.

  • @charlesburkhart800
    @charlesburkhart800 Před 4 měsíci +58

    Young person who has a difficult Mom, I am a Mom of 40 year old kids and I am really, really proud of you! Your accomplishments are just great and when I think of you I smile because you make me so happy! Sorry your Mom contributed so little but you made it even through a hard situation. You will do great things!

  • @Nigriff
    @Nigriff Před 5 měsíci +35

    This is the episode that shows how mature children can be even with immature parents.

  • @Americancowboy147
    @Americancowboy147 Před 4 měsíci +213

    Now we just need to see the PbatesLTD price also move in the same direction as these charts. Up. Very Up.

  • @Joce123
    @Joce123 Před 5 měsíci +42

    I worked in collections at the Target Corporation for years and was one of their top producers.
    Customers sent complimentary letters about me to the Target CEO They gave me the tools
    to help people solve debt problems with us . I did my job in a way that was going to keep them as a Target customer.

  • @austinbar
    @austinbar Před 3 měsíci +485

    Though everyone loves the luxury lifestyle but many don't want to take the risk to invest or work for it.. Now's the best time to buy the dip and it's an opportunity that will grant you all the luxury you crave for.Very interesting content, i would also be glad if anyone here can explain a few things for me, this is 2024 and I believe it's my time to invest and shine for a better future.

    • @eloign7147
      @eloign7147 Před 3 měsíci +5

      I think the one thing most investors miss when calculating intrinsic value, is that they look solely at the history to estimate growth in the future. The growth rate is very important, it arguably should take the most time in valuation. The past 10 years could be unusually good/bad due to acquisitions/dispositions affecting financials. Look to the future and make your best judgements.

    • @rogerwheelers4322
      @rogerwheelers4322 Před 3 měsíci +5

      There is one thing I have learned in recent months it is to remain calm, especially when it comes to investment in Stock. Learn not to sell in a panic when everything goes down and not to buy in euphoria when everything goes up. I advise y'all to forget predictions and start making a good profit now because future valuations are all speculations and guesses.

    • @joshbarney114
      @joshbarney114 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I agree, that's the more reason I prefer my day to day investment decisions being guided by an advisor, seeing that their entire skillset is built around going long and short at the same time both employing risk for its asymmetrical upside and laying off risk as a hedge against the inevitable downward turns, coupled with the exclusive information/analysis they have, it's near impossible to not out-perform, been using my advisor for over 2years+ and I've netted over 2.8million.

    • @FabioOdelega876
      @FabioOdelega876 Před 3 měsíci +3

      I appreciate the implementation of ideas and strategies that result to unmeasurable progress. Being heavily liquid, I'd rather not reinvent the wheel, thus the search for a reputable advisor, mind sharing info of this person guiding you please?

    • @joshbarney114
      @joshbarney114 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Finding financial advisors like Natalie Noel Burns who can assist you shape your portfolio would be a very creative option. There will be difficult times ahead, and prudent personal money management will be essential to navigating them.

  • @Okchpod
    @Okchpod Před 4 měsíci +205

    I’ll be adding PbatesLTD to my portfolio soon, 10k is plenty to start.

  • @Calebjunioir
    @Calebjunioir Před 4 měsíci +218

    Need more PbatesLTD content. Converted my ETH to BTC but kept my PbatesLTD

  • @mandydoerfler2909
    @mandydoerfler2909 Před 5 měsíci +19

    LEO wife here. Husband spent first 14 years of career with no holidays or weekends off. You have to change your idea of traditions and make new ones. this is the first year he’s had weekends and holidays off - but to trade…he’s teaching at their training academy 1.5 hours away and isn’t home 4 days a week. We have four young boys. We foster. I homeschool. I spend a lot of time alone with my kids taking on all the home responsibilities. I can understand the hardship. But he loves what he’s doing. We love having long weekends and holidays together. We actually get to go to church together. There’s always a trade off in any career - grass is only greener on the other side for a little while. Hang in there momma and find some support! Work through it together and keep communicating so you don’t build up bitterness. ❤

  • @DownHomeDavis
    @DownHomeDavis Před 3 měsíci +18

    My dad is a firefighter, my brother and best friend are as well… don’t marry a man (or woman) who is or has dreams to be a firefighter if you can’t handle it. It is normal to miss holidays, it is normal to have to do things without them. DONT sign up for that life if you can’t handle it.

    • @UncleDavesKitchen
      @UncleDavesKitchen Před 2 měsíci +1

      I wonder if the wife trapped him with the 4 kids and now wants to remake him into something he is not. Is she jealous of his love of his job and now she's trapped herself with caring for 4 children?? What will happen when the children are grown? I think she's a manipulator and he's stuck due to the kids. Watch out whom you reproduce with.

  • @hollisterlasers-ion8939
    @hollisterlasers-ion8939 Před 5 měsíci +45

    21:20 pay our student loans or buy a house?
    26:05 use our vested stocks to pay off our mortgage faster?
    28:30 preparing to take out student loans for girlfriend
    33:00 should I lie to my entitled mother about money?
    43:15 my dad foisted the parent PLUS loan on me
    52:40 plugging the January 11 Ramsey livestream
    55:20 long-winded caller is inspiration for episode title
    1:05:20 go back to school if we still have debt?
    1:24:38 using prenup opinions as a litmus test for financial knowledge
    1:33:20 should my parents set up a trust or a will?

  • @stephaniegaston-pace1284
    @stephaniegaston-pace1284 Před 3 měsíci +9

    Dr Deloney’s book is amazing. I love his realistic direct approach. These 2 are great to watch. I like George too!

  • @usDewitt
    @usDewitt Před 3 měsíci +480

    Inspiring video, A friend of mine referred me to a financial adviser sometime ago and we got to talking about investment and money. I started investing with $150k and in the first 2 months, my portfolio was reading $274,800. Crazy right!, I decided to reinvest my profit and get more interesting. For over a year we have been working together making consistent profit just bought my second home 2 weeks ago and care for my family

    • @Lourd-Bab
      @Lourd-Bab Před 3 měsíci

      Hi. I’ve been forced to find additional sources of income as I got retrenched. I barely have time to continue trading and watch my investments since I had my second child. Do you think I should take a break for a while from the market and focus on other things or return whenever I have free time or is it a continuous process? Thanks

    • @usDewitt
      @usDewitt Před 3 měsíci

      @@Lourd-Bab However, if you do not have access to a professional like JUDITH ANN PEACE, quitting your job to focus on trading may not be the best approach. It is important to consider all options and seek guidance from reliable sources before making any major decisions. Consulting with an AI or using automated trading systems can also be helpful in managing investments while balancing other commitments..

    • @Lourd-Bab
      @Lourd-Bab Před 3 měsíci

      @@usDewitt Oh please I’d love that. Thanks!

    • @usDewitt
      @usDewitt Před 3 měsíci

      @@Lourd-Bab Judith Ann peace is her name

    • @usDewitt
      @usDewitt Před 3 měsíci

      Lookup with her name on the webpage

  • @homeboy391
    @homeboy391 Před 4 měsíci +14

    Some of these calls stress me out...just listening to what people are going through...

  • @robertduenas777
    @robertduenas777 Před 5 měsíci +81

    I got emotional over the caller who’s mom did not celebrate her accomplishments. It cut deep. I didn’t realize I was hurting with this until you guys started talking about it. I felt so much pain. I graduated with a masters. First in my family to graduate college or to even go into college. I felt I always wanted to overachieve go get recognition from them and other people.

    • @gottasay1157
      @gottasay1157 Před 5 měsíci +21

      recognize yourself and your achievements. You do not need validation from those that did not see your growth.

    • @arh1234
      @arh1234 Před 5 měsíci +10

      I hope you have some friends who celebrate with you!

    • @PatRiot-
      @PatRiot- Před 4 měsíci +6

      Unfortunately, in a room full of people less successful than you…it may be quite hard to find any support at all.
      That’s on them though- not you.

    • @ani108pe
      @ani108pe Před 4 měsíci +2

      Same here, 😢

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Hugs to you Robert. I’m proud of you. A stranger on the internet is so proud of you. Keep going darlin you are amazing.

  • @earlwilliams5473
    @earlwilliams5473 Před 4 měsíci +10

    How about this. Don't buy crap just because you can afford it. Live like no one else so....

  • @1an2
    @1an2 Před 5 měsíci +18

    Wow! I just love all of your financial advise. You guys are the best! May God bless you.

  • @mattolson6718
    @mattolson6718 Před 2 měsíci +2

    What Dr John said about walking away instead of standing your ground was exactly what I needed to here after a wounding conversation with a my ex wife. I wish I had heard it yesterday!

  • @bettedavis9261
    @bettedavis9261 Před 5 měsíci +19

    35:00 Taylor in Indiana, there is no law that says you have to have any contact with a toxic individual. That includes parents (your mother). You're an independent adult, and you can choose to not interact with her again. It's not easy, but it can be done.

    • @michelelee704
      @michelelee704 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Taylor you can choose not to interact. I had to stop with my siblings. I was trying to give, "mother" them and make things work. Found out the hard way that it was toxic to me. I let them go and actually have a wonderful life without them. Good luck to you.

  • @moeball740
    @moeball740 Před 5 měsíci +48

    Broke the rules but managed to come out ahead anyways. Bought a house when I couldn't afford it in 2007, owned it 16 years, often had to borrow money to make the mortgage payments, in 2009 the market tanked and the house was valued at half of what I paid for it. Honestly don't know how I never lost the house but somehow hung on by the fingernails. Didn't even get back to break even until 2017, then the market really went crazy after that. Just sold the house in December for several times what I paid for it, was able to pay off the mortgage and all the other accumulated debt with enough equity still left to buy a less expensive house with all cash. Am somehow retiring with zero debt, owning my own home and a net worth of about half a mil. I wouldn't necessarily recommend going this route; I think I got lucky. But it does illustrate how buying a house can be a good long term investment.

    • @gina77duc44
      @gina77duc44 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Good job, you fought hard and was very persistent about keeping your home good for you!!

    • @thebestthingthatneverhappe6729
      @thebestthingthatneverhappe6729 Před 5 měsíci +3

      this sounds like a very tough way to go about building wealth, I get what u mean about that house appreciation though

    • @bridgetreedmorawski
      @bridgetreedmorawski Před 2 měsíci

      Kinda said it right there though - you got lucky because you borrowed money to make the payments. Presuming this was interest-free borrowing from friends/family ... that's how you did it haha. You had a safety net through your network. Horrible idea to buy a house you know you can't afford.

    • @UncleDavesKitchen
      @UncleDavesKitchen Před 2 měsíci +2

      I bought a house and 'could' have made the 15 year mortgage payments working two jobs but 30 year mortgage payments were more breathable and pay extra as I could. A few years later health issues came up and I couldn't work much for a few years. I was able to make the 30 year mortgage payment but I would have lost on the 15 year mortgage payments. I am so grateful I didn't 'follow the rules' and followed my gut instinct with the 30 year mortgage instead. I'm better, paid off the house in 20 years and retired in it now.
      Listen to what they say and adjust it for what fits into your life.

  • @danielwebster7030
    @danielwebster7030 Před 5 měsíci +17

    Thank you Dave for your information. I'm almost thru working the steps. Woohoo.

  • @jacquelinesmart2260
    @jacquelinesmart2260 Před 5 měsíci +29

    Life is a result of the choices we make.

    • @angorachic
      @angorachic Před 13 dny +1

      This is absolutely true as long as you are in control of your life. If you are under age or a victim of trafficking (situations where you were not in control) that is the only time you are not responsible for what has happened in your life.

  • @rhondadubois1604
    @rhondadubois1604 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Love this. Mr. Ramsey thanks so much for all the great videos! You are right on the money!

  • @matasham
    @matasham Před 5 měsíci +13

    Yes! You need people you can celebrate the good stuff with. Unfortunately, there are lots of haters🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @lisaneuman4320
    @lisaneuman4320 Před 5 měsíci +20

    Regarding the last caller: I wanted them to ask her if there’s another guy involved. She’s so lackadaisical about destroying her marriage and the lives of her children! If I left my husband over the first 4-8 years of our children’s lives, when we were both trying to figure out how to be parents AND spouses, I would’ve made a terrible decision and ruined my children’s lives and hurt them beyond repair. So thankful God got us to where we are! It takes work, commitment, and choosing love!! Grass isn’t greener!! Don’t do what you’re about to do!!!

    • @jessicahalvorsen9315
      @jessicahalvorsen9315 Před 5 měsíci +1

      And she’ll never regret it except for the few moments when she is lonely for a new mate. No reason? No alimony.

    • @heatherjohnson5612
      @heatherjohnson5612 Před 5 měsíci +3

      I agree with you and Dr John! There is more to be the last story! Girl, you were a mom feeling like you were by yourself for the few year and a half of life, not the first 18 years of life. She’s either already got a back up plan or there is something else. Her voice sounded very angry in its silent way.

    • @georgem2315
      @georgem2315 Před 14 dny

      They are always going on women who call. They would have asked a guy that, if there is another woman...

  • @mattlaeff724
    @mattlaeff724 Před 5 měsíci +5

    These 2 are easily the A-team regarding tandems on this show. Actually, it's not even close.

  • @kaydiangel2445
    @kaydiangel2445 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is the best advice I've ever heard. Thank you!! 💕 I feel like i can get out of debt and save to buy a house.

  • @melissarivas2483
    @melissarivas2483 Před 5 měsíci +11

    The last caller yikes ! She was not direct and with her feelings and they were really trying to help her . But I guess you can’t help someone if they don’t want to help themselves . Hope she figures it out

  • @zhannamatviychuk
    @zhannamatviychuk Před 5 měsíci +21

    It’s so hard to unlearn the traditions, my mom planted into my brain. We lived on credit card debt all of our lives. My parents still live on credit card debt, and every single birthday party I had was just massive and we don’t believe in credit card debt. We also don’t believe in spending obnoxious amounts of money on birthday parties and here my child is having an eight-year-old party and he’s very content but I feel like I’m not doing enough with just having a couple of decorations, a small little cheesecake, and Pizza for the kids and I feel like I’m not doing enough because I grew up with having so much birthday everything. And every moment of today’s probably going to be like just think of what David Ramsey says live on less than you make live on less than you make it’s not about how much crap the kid has, It’s about the memories that I make so, it’s a process and I’m definitely unlearning it. It is so hard Dave!!!!! But THANK YOU!!!

    • @Trustbutverify2651
      @Trustbutverify2651 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Remember that you have your memories, but those are not the memories your kids have. Actually, my best "birthday tip" is to rent a motel room for one night at a motel that has a pool and let the child pick just a couple of friends for a motel sleep-over. Then get pizza and a store-decorated birthday cake. Pool time, pizza, cake - and no mess to clean up at home or broken or destroyed home furnishings and actually cheaper than a big bash! Money well spent!

    • @1an2
      @1an2 Před 5 měsíci

      Holy Christ! I completely agree with whomever said, "it’s not about how much crap the kid has, It’s about the memories that I make...". I mean, I COMPLETELY agree! Thank you for whomever said that.

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Před 4 měsíci +1

      So you had a nice life and your child is having a mediocre one. It’s your choice. Don’t diss your parents because they lived for you. I did the same for my kids because I wanted them to have fun so when they are adults they work hard. They do. They are savers. So it worked. If you short your kids, which it sounds like your not, they could either grow up to be savers or the complete opposite of you. I’ve seen it go either way. They only have one childhood better make it nice like yours or they could be horrible spenders. You see because you had a good childhood. So you don’t spend you don’t feel like you have to. Others that had a cheap childhood don’t feel like you. They want to give themselves everything they didn’t have. Totally psychological. I talk to these folks daily it depends on their personality type. Good luck

    • @brookelondon8029
      @brookelondon8029 Před 3 měsíci

      I don't know if anyone replied to you but I never had fancy birthday parties. There was a cake and lots of birthday cards which my mom saved for me and it was great blowing out the candles and making a wish. I have photos from those years which I love. You might want to have your child or children celebrate the day they were born by doing charity work that week like helping out at a soup kitchen or going through clothes and toys and donating them to a shelter. They'll remember that they helped somebody on their birthday. And then have a cake and balloons and sing and maybe take a walk depending on the weather and take lots of pictures. And tell the story every year of how you and your spouse met and talk about the day they were born. My dad always told me what the weather was and how we took a bus to the hospital. That was a big moment in their life and now they have you!

    • @michelejohnson6459
      @michelejohnson6459 Před 2 měsíci

      Eight year olds like cheesecake? Mine didn't.

  • @user-hu4mn9pj3t
    @user-hu4mn9pj3t Před 10 dny

    We had three kids in three years and my hubby was gone working states away a lot of the time to take care of us. we have been married for 19 years and are debt free and i have never worked full time. My husband is amazing. yes, he has missed some birthdays and a few Christmases but those sacrifices have set us up for the rest of our lives.

  • @dalekthump2590
    @dalekthump2590 Před 5 měsíci +3

    thats right dave. The kids are alright. Thanks for saying that

  • @knight8821
    @knight8821 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I would love that clip in the end with John. I would love to hear more. And hear him try to work it out.

  • @pakey9267
    @pakey9267 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Every time listening to your advice love you more ❤❤❤

  • @rbraxton00
    @rbraxton00 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Way to go Taylor! Congratulations! You did it! Wow! Amazing 🤩

  • @Kylethirdeye
    @Kylethirdeye Před 4 měsíci

    watched this with Jazz music and would absolutley recommend lol! great video and awesome concept Thanks NIck!

  • @nmcleeetis
    @nmcleeetis Před 5 měsíci +76

    We all know the first caller knew damn well about the credit card and isn’t taking accountability.

    • @jtrowe3921
      @jtrowe3921 Před 5 měsíci +15

      Like 99% of females in the world today

    • @MyYami123
      @MyYami123 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Right, and I will be damn grateful if Xander Insurance Identity theft helps her. If I were in her position, I would never make this mistake again. This is super extremely scary

    • @Bokgat
      @Bokgat Před 5 měsíci

      Ramsay is providing general info to the masses so that people keep calling in. Why victimised a crooked female and ruin his own lunch

    • @danielrennekampjr.1697
      @danielrennekampjr.1697 Před 5 měsíci +17

      100%. She's playing victim. The tone of voice regarding back to back toxic exes speaks volume. Should probably choose a partner more wisely, if there are bad vibes, leave.

    • @BruhZerk
      @BruhZerk Před 5 měsíci +5

      100% this girl was the cause of her problems and she's dodging all accountability

  • @tmusa2002
    @tmusa2002 Před 5 měsíci +3

    FYI, Our homeowners insurance includes identity theft so check with yours first before getting a separate policy.

  • @Nigriff
    @Nigriff Před 5 měsíci +3

    In some states, banks only have 3 years to collect credit card debt from a customer. Just do an online search for your state. My mom was a victim of credit card identity fraud and after 3 years, the banks left her alone.

  • @fancyquebecoise4550
    @fancyquebecoise4550 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I wish I had a prenuptial agreement with my abusive ex. Once I decided to leave him, he tried to make me go bankrupt with lawyer fees. Had I had a prenuptial, I would not have ended up with 153K of stupid lawyer fees. I'm still paying 11 years later, but almost done.

    • @UncleDavesKitchen
      @UncleDavesKitchen Před 2 měsíci +1

      Dave says if a man asks for a prenup he loves his stuff more than her. Well maybe she loves his stuff more than him...that happens A LOT and OFTEN. Don't let 'love' manipulate you into a bad decision later one. If she objects to a prenup THATS a red flag, too.

  • @j.rebekah8605
    @j.rebekah8605 Před 3 měsíci

    I saved this episode of the show under 'health' in my yt folders. Thank you!

  • @clairekuiper7338
    @clairekuiper7338 Před 2 měsíci

    Taylor’s question made me cry!😢

  • @sherrikins3557
    @sherrikins3557 Před 5 měsíci +4

    You can file a police report for indentity theft online with alot of police departments. Then, you file that report with the Federal Trade Commission..it will stay on file

  • @carolannstevens5814
    @carolannstevens5814 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I believe Dave is right on with woman last caller…. Wise man DAVE RAMSEY! 🙏🏻♥️

  • @Allybaba55
    @Allybaba55 Před 5 měsíci +16

    That marriage one made me so sad. So your husband is reconnecting with his children (18months is literally nothing, is she serious!?) And since you don't wanna forgive him or rebuild/reconnect with your husband you want to rip your daughters away from their father!? She sounded so cold and disconnected, but wanted to accuse him of having (past tense!) been the same ... So sad. Kids need both parents. She couldn't even give a legit reason to leave. Our culture is so effed.

    • @Telhasteeze
      @Telhasteeze Před 5 měsíci +7

      Sounds like she found someone else

    • @Allybaba55
      @Allybaba55 Před 5 měsíci

      Probably smh ​@@Telhasteeze

    • @Davefitz04
      @Davefitz04 Před 5 měsíci +9

      That call sickened me. I wish Dave let her have it. What a pathetic call. I wish i could tell that lady what we were all really thinking. What a joke of a person.

    • @user-to5or2is2k
      @user-to5or2is2k Před 5 měsíci +6

      My husband and I have 4 kids. Babies just weren’t his thing. When they got older he got more involved.

    • @Allybaba55
      @Allybaba55 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@user-to5or2is2k which is totally understandable

  • @marysneed7654
    @marysneed7654 Před 5 měsíci +9

    I feel so bad for these young people who have had to put up with these immature, cowardice, so-called parents. Sometimes in life you have to give to yourself what you wish you could get from others.

    • @oliviahoyler453
      @oliviahoyler453 Před 5 měsíci

      I have struggled for years to get away from and protect my children from the dysfunctional family I grew up in.

  • @ddc2343d
    @ddc2343d Před 4 měsíci +12

    Parents should never take out parent loans for school...horrible decision.

  • @BatDan231
    @BatDan231 Před měsícem +1

    I'm feeling a bit called out. I work for a Larry H. Miller auto financer (that aligns with Larry's values and isn't what Dave was describing) and before that I cleaned portable toilets 😂

  • @Stellasbaby724
    @Stellasbaby724 Před 3 měsíci

    Yes, fraud,fraud, fraud! Good advice! I worked in fraud with a credit card. I hope she gets through this.

  • @wendybloom4096
    @wendybloom4096 Před 5 měsíci +5

    My son finished dental school at 32 and went right into working at a small practice. His program had a lot of clinical work during years 3 and 4 so no residency was required and he immediately began to work. Yes, it cost almost $400K, but his income increase is making up for it, and he has a balanced home/work life.

    • @arh1234
      @arh1234 Před 5 měsíci

      That's great to hear! Most dentist stories I hear have that level debt with an $80-120k income, which is a crushing debt ratio

  • @Trustbutverify2651
    @Trustbutverify2651 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Success rate of marriage - also remove the multiple divorce rate of people who have been married and divorced several times.

  • @rgrandberry1234
    @rgrandberry1234 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Thanks for all your great wisdom!!!!!!!!!

  • @rhalld
    @rhalld Před 5 měsíci +2

    Been watching Dave for awhile and listening to him on radio. There has been times where I can relate to the callers and I get afraid to call in...lol. But I know that Dave is here to help not to shake a boney finger at you and yell HOW DARE YOU! I'm in debt with a mortgage and I'm single but still I'm working on getting out of debt and working extra hours at work. I don't want to live paycheck to paycheck and I'm glad and thankful to listening to Dave again after being away from the show for about a year.

  • @janetcross2797
    @janetcross2797 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I so proud of you you are amazing daughter

  • @allegratorris9723
    @allegratorris9723 Před 5 měsíci +4

    In regards to the prenup and this is for more of stay at home parents or planning to be stay at home parent GET A PRENUP. As amazing as it is being with your child at home it will cost some gaps in your resume and you will miss out on promotions etc. Make sure you and your child will be set up for success with/without your partner just in case.

    • @Trustbutverify2651
      @Trustbutverify2651 Před 5 měsíci +2

      EVERY woman should be prepared with skills and an education to support herself and her kids if necessary. Death, divorce, and disability can happen in any family.

  • @celestegranell8766
    @celestegranell8766 Před 5 měsíci +22

    She’s a dental hygienist and makes $40,000?? How? In Virginia we all make between $70,000 to $100,000 being a hygienist. I wonder if he meant Dental assistant.

    • @melissarivas2483
      @melissarivas2483 Před 5 měsíci

      I was thinking the same thing ! RDH here in CT we make same as you mentioned 70-100k . Maybe she is working part time ? I was thinking if you want to be a dentist work more so you pay the debt off and save the rest for dental school if that is what they want to do . Definitely a challenging journey due to having little ones , demanding time from dental school, and etc. I remember when I went into hygiene school head director said tell your love ones they are second in line while your in school 🫠😬

    • @celestegranell8766
      @celestegranell8766 Před 5 měsíci

      @@melissarivas2483 yes. I had 2 kids when I went to hygiene school. (3 kids now) They said that to me too 😭 Yes maybe she is part time. Hope there isn’t a crazy shortage of hygienists where you are right now. My next recare is 9 months. Might be 10 months soon. She’s needs to stay a hygienist 🤣

    • @Trustbutverify2651
      @Trustbutverify2651 Před 5 měsíci

      @@melissarivas2483 Good advice for anyone in school for a demanding career!

    • @smffboe7733
      @smffboe7733 Před 4 měsíci

      In my neck of the woods, hygenists make $45, 000 a year.

    • @j.rebekah8605
      @j.rebekah8605 Před 3 měsíci

      Probably depends on the area of the country and such. They also said chiropractors make around 60k when I know mine is making at least 5x that.

  • @sujanbarman4368
    @sujanbarman4368 Před 5 měsíci

    Hilarious, *ParticleCracker* I love the work you do mate. Those low life scammers take money from old ladies, they have no soul or heart and deserve everything u give them. Your doing a service to humanity. Love the videos, keep doing the good work mate….!!!!

  • @guzzmaster1
    @guzzmaster1 Před 21 dnem

    I needed to hear this one so much. My mother just took out 70k in loans and is expecting me to pay it back. I said no to everything she wanted to buy. Now she thinks it’s my responsibility.

  • @confidentialprivateusa6519
    @confidentialprivateusa6519 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Dave Ramsey is completely wrong. If a person opens up a credit card in your name WITHOUT consent, then that is considered credit card fraud, and she is under no legal obligation to be responsible for the charges. What she needs to do is file a police report and identity theft report and submit it to the court and Chase Bank.

    • @E57det7I
      @E57det7I Před 2 měsíci

      Is this satire? That's literally what they said. The only other thing they said was that the issue was she had waited 5 years to file said police report which would call it into question.

  • @OntarioWoodlandAdventures
    @OntarioWoodlandAdventures Před 5 měsíci +3

    I clean septic tanks fulltime 😢 pay is not great lol.

  • @antoniosantiago9794
    @antoniosantiago9794 Před 5 měsíci +16

    ANOTHER GREAT SHOW!

  • @Fragrancemex
    @Fragrancemex Před 5 měsíci +3

    Awsome advice Men

  • @candecarro
    @candecarro Před 3 měsíci +1

    Re: Bragging- Miley Cyrus singing “Floweres” at this year’s Grammys- in the refrain, screaming and dancing: “I JUST WON MY FIRST GRAMMY!!!”
    Fabulous!

  • @angelashock9837
    @angelashock9837 Před 2 měsíci

    I had my son in 1990, and we moved in 1991, leaving a forwarding address for any mail. Fast forward to 1999 when my husband and I go to buy a house, our credit score was terrible because of a doctor’s bill they never sent to us. It was for the anesthesiologist. It took a huge chunk out of our down payment. The calls were filled with profanity and screaming, upsetting my son who always loved to replay the answering machine. We took care of it but it would have been much easier to get the bill in 1990. LESSON LEARNED: ALWAYS monitor your credit report, and report errors ASAP!

  • @shoaibshakeel8437
    @shoaibshakeel8437 Před 3 měsíci

    Amazing...truly amazing...thank you sir...

  • @Trustbutverify2651
    @Trustbutverify2651 Před 5 měsíci +8

    There is another consideration for the dental hygienist call. Here in Virginia a hygienist has to work under a dentist. However, in some other states a hygienist can set up his or her own independent office. If what the wife wants is independence to "do dentistry" the way she wants to do it, perhaps consider a move to a state that would let her have her own independent hygienist business - certainly a lot cheaper than going to dental school. She could also specialize in making bridges, crowns, and other technical lab type work as an additional supplement. All that would mean she could make a lot of money, but have far fewer expenses than dental school bills and setting up a practice. My sister-in-law had her own independent hygienist business and made a ton of money before she retired.

  • @cardphins68
    @cardphins68 Před 5 měsíci +4

    An even better idea: Don't Buy Crap You Do Not Need!

  • @Dr-StanleyLouis
    @Dr-StanleyLouis Před 4 měsíci +1

    I really do enjoy watching this thanks

    • @Dr-StanleyLouis
      @Dr-StanleyLouis Před 4 měsíci

      Well I would like to use this opportunity to share up a platform that has really helped my life

    • @Dr-StanleyLouis
      @Dr-StanleyLouis Před 4 měsíci

      I will be forever grateful to you, you changed my whole life and I will continue to preach on your behalf for the whole world to hear you saved me from huge financial debt with just a small investment, thank you Maria Thorne..

    • @Dr-StanleyLouis
      @Dr-StanleyLouis Před 4 měsíci

      I will be forever grateful to you, you changed my whole life and I will continue to preach on your behalf for the whole world to hear you saved me from huge financial debt with just a small investment, thank you Maria Thorne..

  • @Trustbutverify2651
    @Trustbutverify2651 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Nick - please listen to the advice given. There is a lot to consider. Not only the money, but that in any kind of medical education, students are in a cohort which means they have to take certain courses at certain times - so part-time education is not possible. Another MAJOR consideration for being a dentist is if she has the small motor skills to actually do dentistry, which is quite different from hygienist work. I often talk to various professionals about what's needed for success in their profession as I do a lot of student academic counseling. My dentist is an exceptional technician and when I talked to him about the challenges of dental school, he told me so many future dentists had the ability for the book knowledge, but not the small motor skills for the technical aspect. So they bailed out and had huge debts for what they had borrowed to that point. In addition, although many physicians can work as hospitalists and a doc in the box, dentists have very few options other than the huge expense of setting up their own practices. So, between training and setting up a practice, this is about a million $ decision. And she will not just be working for the next 20 years, she can count on working for the next 30 years to make it financially viable. The reason given that she wants to be a different kind of dentist from what she has seen is not a good enough reason to want to take on this huge commitment and potential major debt. On your salary alone it will be almost impossible to cash flow this cost.

    • @gourabsarker9552
      @gourabsarker9552 Před 5 měsíci

      How much does your dentist make a year? Plz reply. Thanks a lot.

    • @Trustbutverify2651
      @Trustbutverify2651 Před 5 měsíci

      @@gourabsarker9552 I have no idea how much he actually takes home. It's not how much he makes - it's how much he takes home after paying for the practice, his student loans, and the salaries and benefits of the FIVE women who work there. My point was not that a dentist does not make good money. My point was that no one knows until they start training if they are going to be good at ALL aspects of a particular job that requires high technical skills. In the meantime, they have borrowed or paid a huge sum of money for training they did not finish and end up paying for in a lower-paying job. In addition, as Dave correctly pointed out, few people realize the number of years they are "locked in" and if they truly love that work enough to stick with it for decades. According to the call, her reasoning seemed to be that she wanted to do dentistry a different way, not that she really loved dentistry.

    • @samacquista3629
      @samacquista3629 Před 5 měsíci

      I have a lady dentist. Late 30s. Just had her second baby. She told everyone she was gonna go p/t and work for another dentist. Women have an instinct when they have babies. Not all, but 95%. They want to spend time with either kids. Make sure she wants this, Nick.

  • @Brucefulness
    @Brucefulness Před 5 měsíci +18

    Dave is steamrolling Deloney in this episode 😂

    • @Trustbutverify2651
      @Trustbutverify2651 Před 5 měsíci +6

      I noticed JBD was not so quick to offer easy solutions with Dave on the set. I got the impression Dave was trying to teach him some techniques to be more popular with the listeners who are not part of his fan club.

    • @jtrowe3921
      @jtrowe3921 Před 5 měsíci +5

      @@Trustbutverify2651I think is crap. People hate on Delony because he reminds them of their problems. I wish all therapists were like him. Tell it how it is. People are too damn sensitive

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 Před 5 měsíci +5

      @@BeeDee-qs9soYesterday, on the highlight people were complaining because he said and quote “change your language and take ownership” and then gave Rachel the entire rest of the call to talk. Him telling the truth is not obnoxious. He’s amazing at what he does. Y’all are just haters because he tells the truth! Also, if you are referring to when he says “I can’t breathe” that’s a sentence a lot of people will use when they feel stressed, overwhelmed, or anxious. A LOT of these calls are stressed and anxious so it makes sense.

    • @jtrowe3921
      @jtrowe3921 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@flashthecorgi2053 don’t worry about her. She’s just mad because she probably has more problems than the people on the show. Let the haters hate.

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 Před 5 měsíci

      @@jtrowe3921 you’re right! Hope you have a wonderful rest of your day! :)

  • @UncleDavesKitchen
    @UncleDavesKitchen Před 2 měsíci +1

    The first woman. She's taking way too long chatting up her excused for sympathy and enjoying rolling out her drama like a Hallmark TV movie. Drama, drama, drama and she's loving every second of it. This isn't about finance, she's casting a net to rope in another man to rescue her.

  • @Riggsnic_co
    @Riggsnic_co Před 4 měsíci +107

    Investing in the stock market has HISTORICALLY provided higher returns than other forms of investment. According to Morningstar, the average annual return for the S&P 500 index, which measures the performance of 500 large-cap stocks, was approximately 10% from 1926 to 2020.

    • @martingiavarini
      @martingiavarini Před 4 měsíci +3

      The increasing prices have impacted my plan to retire at 62, work part-time, and save for the future. I'm concerned about whether those who navigated the 2008 financial crisis had an easier time than I am currently experiencing. The combination of stock market volatility and a decrease in income is causing anxiety about whether I'll have sufficient funds for retirement.

    • @bob.weaver72
      @bob.weaver72 Před 4 měsíci +2

      This is precisely why I like having a portfolio coach guide my day-to-day market decisions: with their extensive knowledge of going long and short at the same time, using risk for its asymmetrical upside and laying it off as a hedge against the inevitable downward turns, their skillset makes it nearly impossible for them to underperform. I've been utilizing a portfolio coach for more than two years, and I've made over $800,000

    • @TheJackCain-84
      @TheJackCain-84 Před 4 měsíci +1

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    • @bob.weaver72
      @bob.weaver72 Před 4 měsíci +1

      'Carol Vivian Constable, a highly respected figure in her field. I suggest delving deeper into her credentials, as she possesses extensive experience and serves as a valuable resource for individuals seeking guidance in navigating the financial market.

    • @TheJackCain-84
      @TheJackCain-84 Před 4 měsíci +1

      She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran an online search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.

  • @Nigriff
    @Nigriff Před 5 měsíci +2

    Interestingly, banks more commonly go after people with under 10k in credit card debt because people with more than 10k debt are less likely to be able to pay it off.

  • @barbmac75
    @barbmac75 Před 2 měsíci

    I’ve had my Zander ID theft insurance for over a decade and I love it

  • @Greghilton3
    @Greghilton3 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Ensuring the protection of your capital holds greater significance than solely focusing on making money. This is primarily because once your capital is lost, the process of generating profits becomes significantly more challenging. It is comparable to the notion of "missing the train" versus the irreversible consequence of "losing your money." While there are various opportunities available, once your funds are depleted, it becomes exceedingly difficult to recover.

    • @KarlGrabe955
      @KarlGrabe955 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Wall Street advocated for quality stocks that boasted high profitability and low debt, positioning them as a form of insurance against economic uncertainties. However, these quality stocks have underperformed the S&P500 index this year. As a result, my portfolio, valued at around $200k, has experienced a decline of approximately 20%. I am seeking recommendations on how to enhance my investment returns and scale up my portfolio.

    • @Jamesbrown1126
      @Jamesbrown1126 Před 3 měsíci +4

      The reality is that nobody possesses absolute knowledge in the world of investing. Therefore, it is crucial to develop your own process, effectively manage risk, and remain committed to your plan, regardless of the circumstances. Additionally, it is essential to continuously learn from past mistakes and strive for improvement in order to navigate the investment landscape successfully.

    • @Davidstowe872
      @Davidstowe872 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I agree, which is why I find it beneficial to have an investment coach guiding my day-to-day investment decisions. They possess a skillset focused on capitalizing on both long and short positions, effectively managing risk to leverage its asymmetric upside, and employing hedging strategies to mitigate the impact of market downturns. Additionally, their access to exclusive information and in-depth analysis further enhances the potential for outperforming the market. I have been utilizing the services of an investment coach for over two years, and the results have been remarkable, with net earnings exceeding 2.8 million.

    • @CindyValenti
      @CindyValenti Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@Davidstowe872 Would you be willing to provide information about the advisor who aided you? As a 39-year-old, I am eager to expand my stock portfolio and devise a retirement plan.

    • @Greghilton3
      @Greghilton3 Před 3 měsíci +3

      She's known as 'Vivian Carol Gioia'. One of the finest portfolio managers in the field. She's widely recognized; you should take a look at her work.

  • @mavamQ
    @mavamQ Před 5 měsíci +7

    I have no affiliation with debt collectors, but who do you think pays bad debt in the long term? Those who pay our bills, like you and me. So I'm not going to be as hard on debt collectors as Ramsey. They are doing a service the helps reduce our cost.

    • @BeeDee-qs9so
      @BeeDee-qs9so Před 5 měsíci

      Absolutely agree. I have no idea why he constantly knocks bill collectors because for one thing, it’s their JOB. At least they have one! It’s not exactly their fault that people renege on their responsibilities! Maybe DR should make up his mind as to whether debt is good or bad, and be consistent to his brand, at least. Having a collection company after you means you haven’t been paying your bills, which means now the rest of us have to.

  • @Gramma5775
    @Gramma5775 Před měsícem

    Always good advise from you two. The challenge is to get people to chose to "sacrifice" the new car, new clothes, etc. for a short time. There is not an instant fix, no magic pill. Too bad our schools don't teach practical economics, because too many parents don't or can't. Why is saying " I can't afford it" a bad or shaming thing?

  • @Iam...---
    @Iam...--- Před 2 měsíci +1

    Firefighter career - I was married to a cop. Couldn't imagine asking him to quit his career. The problem was the PTSD he came home with and his refusal to quit going out on his Regular Days Off with co-workers. I divorced my cop because he was married to his career. Not me.

    • @UncleDavesKitchen
      @UncleDavesKitchen Před 2 měsíci +2

      I think she's trapped him with 4 children and is jealous of his time away and the love of his job so she wants him to suffer, too. What's out whom you reproduce with.

    • @Blue_Star_flyer
      @Blue_Star_flyer Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@UncleDavesKitchen Yes, she's a mess and he's stuck like a dinosaur in a tar pit with her and 4 children.

  • @user-rm7gp2pv9r
    @user-rm7gp2pv9r Před 4 měsíci

    I've been following you for a while. I'm from Serbia. Would you be kind enough to make a video for us beginners? To know when which indicator and oscillator we can apply? You are so great at your job.Please make a video for us beginners.I love you.

  • @lolacole5653
    @lolacole5653 Před 5 měsíci +2

    57:24 Dave and John want to jump out of their chairs 😂😂😂😂

  • @bikerbosshay
    @bikerbosshay Před 4 měsíci

    Interesting statistics on divorce! I love it!

  • @denizaygun2514
    @denizaygun2514 Před 3 měsíci

    Dave you right

  • @maryalicecampbell341
    @maryalicecampbell341 Před měsícem

    in calif the cost to probate is very high compared to a trust. they really need to compare costs. and there is privacy as well as planing regarding using homes etc but all is so state specific they need to check.

  • @wiselistener4978
    @wiselistener4978 Před 3 měsíci

    Online budget is great.

  • @marybowers6090
    @marybowers6090 Před 5 měsíci +1

    On the student loan debt the mother and father should split that debt and pay 30k a piece which is totally manageable. Today in divorce or custody hearings it is standard to split college costs in thirds, the child pays a third and each parent pays a third .

  • @JD78CN
    @JD78CN Před 5 měsíci +3

    For the last caller, good luck being a single mom. I hope the husband moves on and find the right person to build a life with and leave this behind.

  • @staceymeldrum4476
    @staceymeldrum4476 Před 6 dny

    That last caller - they really dumped on her unfairly. Her husband emotionally and physically ABANDONED her in her postpartum period. Literally the most vulnerable and important time of a woman’s life. You don’t just get a gold star for trying to implement date nights two years later to fix the marriage.

  • @oliviahoyler453
    @oliviahoyler453 Před 5 měsíci +13

    Dave is correct: It is a commitment for those degrees. I'm Dave's age, but I have noticed lots of younger people having commitment issues. There are other books and resources that talk about the growing number of people with commitment issues. Just saying.

    • @Mskyraelise
      @Mskyraelise Před 5 měsíci

      I agree. I originially wanted to be an MD, but I had a child my senior year of pre-medicine and realized I really want to be a hands on mother with my current child and future children. I'm not positive when that will happen so I'm doing an accelerated nursing program to get my healthcare fix and be fulfilled, but eventually I can step down to part time or work from home and raise a family. That means more to me than the degree that I'll or use for 10 years or less probably.

  • @marlene1708
    @marlene1708 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Once a woman is done, they usually dont have any fight left. The sad part is the partner doesnt take it serious until they reach that point. Its hard to pick up the pieces once its so far gone. I advice people to talk before you get to that point.

    • @shujeeb
      @shujeeb Před 3 měsíci

      Not true, women continue to be perpetually petty when butt hurt, especially when it comes to stealing men’s children for money

  • @angorachic
    @angorachic Před 13 dny

    That last caller who wants to leave her husband is delusional. He will remarry and end up okay and she will end up alone if this plays out the way most of these situations do.

  • @Avi8tor857
    @Avi8tor857 Před měsícem

    For the cc the ex opened. A good piece of advice if you exit a relationship like that, pull your credit report immediately, and then every year. They will not usually investigate identity theft reports, but if you can identify the person they might. Freezing your credit is always a good safe guard, but it isn't 100% fool proof either.

  • @timchow924
    @timchow924 Před 3 měsíci +2

    You don’t need a bigger house to grow a family. My parents came to America to escape the Vietnam war. I have 3 sisters and we lived in a 1 bedroom. 6 people. Make it work and leave your ego behind

  • @kingakhenaton5111
    @kingakhenaton5111 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This is the only one thing I disagree with Ramsey on. It’s about not getting a trust done. It is so necessary! For one thing, no probate court also money and fees come along with that. It helps your beneficiaries, avoid certain tax’s. It illuminates beneficiaries from going to war over assets, because a will can be contested. Here in the state of Washington trust can be done for $2,500 - 3000. My wife and I are was so glad we had this time for our family. Also make co-executors of the estate. If you have more than one beneficiary!

  • @andreeastefania802
    @andreeastefania802 Před měsícem

    I live with my husband and my 2 boys ( 6 mo and 3 yo) in a small 1 bedroom flat and we are currently on baby steps 4,5&6 combined. I say combined because we save more than 60% of our monthly income towards retirement, children and a deposit for a house. We live in England. I learned to be the best at everything. I left my great career in the corporate environment because childcare is very very expensive and I became the best. Best hairdresser, best cook, best entertainer, best small space organiser, best homemaker.
    We are currently 33 and we both see each other at 40 as a healthy family with 3 children, still debt free, with a 7 figure business and a veggie garden ❤️🙏.
    Don't let society dictate where and how to raise your family. Small spaces brings family together. WHERE THERE''S A WILL, THERE'S A WAY!