One Month Post-op Bottom Surgery

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  • čas přidán 13. 02. 2018
  • I'm one month post-op metoidioplasty!
    First vlog: • FTM Transgender Gettin...
    Second: • FTM Bottom Surgery Pos...
    Social Media Links:
    Instagram: / jammi.dodger
    Facebook: / jamiearaines
    Twitter: / jammi_dodger94
    Email: jamieraines@hotmail.com
    Music: Bensound.com

Komentáře • 502

  • @jamiedovahkiin2155
    @jamiedovahkiin2155 Před 6 lety +116

    "Oh, and I can also put my own shoes on" *giggles* I died.

  • @Nuriita200
    @Nuriita200 Před 6 lety +16

    I have no idea how ofter you're told this but... Thank you, this content is SO necessary. It does not apply to me directly but I know there is a lot of people out there who could benefit massively from your videos.

  • @katelyns694
    @katelyns694 Před 6 lety +379

    I didn't know Shaaba could sing like that! She has a beautiful voice

    • @PinkiesBrokenWheelchair
      @PinkiesBrokenWheelchair Před 6 lety +23

      Kayden yo Have a look on Shaaba's channel, she has some songs uploaded. She also plays guitar and I think she played the ukele for the trans song. Shaaba is stunningly talented.

  • @Dr3Mc3Ninja
    @Dr3Mc3Ninja Před 6 lety +89

    Glad the surgery actually had a positive impact on your mental state. The pain was worth it.

  • @MatthewArangatta
    @MatthewArangatta Před 6 lety +741

    Gosh I can't get over how much this new long messy hair suits you. It's quite attractive haha. Shaaba is a lucky woman and also amazing for doing all those chores while you couldn't :p

    • @laflakcuba
      @laflakcuba Před 6 lety +7

      i hope he doesnt cause he really does look great with the long hair

    • @HeilielPrince
      @HeilielPrince Před 6 lety +3

      yea he pulls it off very well as a guy. not many can

    • @Galvion1980
      @Galvion1980 Před 4 lety +5

      Jamie's got anime hair!

  • @tippib2222
    @tippib2222 Před 6 lety +1004

    2018 mood: Being happy for an internet stranger's bulge

  • @NewView638
    @NewView638 Před 6 lety +36

    I am so very happy for you. My daughter is only 9 months along on her transition and it has already made a huge difference in her life. Thanks for sharing that it can just keep getting better. All the hard work is worth it. I wish you and Shaaba a Happy Valentines Day.

  • @user-si8fk1rv5e
    @user-si8fk1rv5e Před 6 lety +57

    The way he said "I love you too" after he went down the stairs was so cute aww

  • @wonderqueerTT
    @wonderqueerTT Před 4 lety +5

    I wish I had known about transitioning and been able to 20 years ago, you really are an inspiration so thank you. Theres no way I could do it now, I'm too damn old for a third puberty but I'm so happy for you

  • @Noah-ew8nx
    @Noah-ew8nx Před 6 lety +86

    Recommended your channel to the LGBTIQ+ awareness group that im in at school and now you have 8 new subscribers. Love you, glad that everything is going well

  • @brucegreenberg7573
    @brucegreenberg7573 Před 6 lety +154

    Been following your transitioning progress for some time & still amazed at the scope of medical as well as societal evolution as regards transgendering. I'm a cis gay guy, & doubt I'd have the courage & commitment you've shown, Jaime, on your journey of change. Best to you and Shaaba. And happy Valentine's day!!💜🌈

    • @hallwnby
      @hallwnby Před 6 lety +7

      Bruce Greenberg btw! The word is transitioning not transgender gender :P that isn’t a word aa

    • @hunterellis9319
      @hunterellis9319 Před 6 lety +5

      Transgender is an adjective, not a verb btw

    • @brucegreenberg7573
      @brucegreenberg7573 Před 6 lety +3

      Cosmocogs Yes. Thanks for the correction.

    • @brucegreenberg7573
      @brucegreenberg7573 Před 6 lety +3

      holang gasi namu choi Got it!

  • @MatthewArangatta
    @MatthewArangatta Před 6 lety +204

    I personally like the 20 min long vlog clip videos! Don't worry about it

  • @leealex5976
    @leealex5976 Před 6 lety +69

    Jamie: it is Wednesday
    Me: my dudes

  • @ethereum7091
    @ethereum7091 Před 6 lety +14

    Thank you so much for the update, Jammi! I'm glad you're doing better, and hope it continues like this!!
    Also tell Shaaba that her voice is gorgeous!

  • @rayanalzaabi7668
    @rayanalzaabi7668 Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you for the videos, I really needed them. I always see myself as a person who tolerate pain but I was very disappointed on myself that I couldn’t take some pain. The first few days of the surgery were pain free but the second week was painful and restless. I felt depressed because of pain and because I was alone in this journey. My friends were connecting with me online but mobility was hard, feeding myself is hard and bathing myself is hard. I always go back to your videos and count the days based on your experience and I say to myself it’s going to feel better. So thank you so much for them. One last advice for anyone who is looking forward to the surgery, have someone with you who is also positive, responsible, take your time to heal and if you need something and you can’t ask for it, you are not always this way and you will feel better afterwards and would do the same for someone or the friends who were there for you during the process.

  • @nonanona4926
    @nonanona4926 Před 6 lety

    Keeping you in my prayers. Thank you for doing this channel. It helps me understand what my grand son is going through. Seriously, thank you!💖

  • @johnlemus7921
    @johnlemus7921 Před 6 lety +76

    Happy Valentines day Shaaba and Jamie! You two are Awesome!
    Jamie Welcome to the world of Constantly Protecting your Package, sitting with your legs spread, because OUCH, being aware of Zippers on Jeans, Discovering new ways of covertly scratching an itch, and lastly, the most important thing, is giving your new friend a new name.
    Best Wishes and Best of Luck with Eveything!

    • @opalescent4694
      @opalescent4694 Před 6 lety +1

      I don't get what people say about sitting with legs spread makes it hurt. I'm MtF, and even before I was on hormones, it never hurt to cross my legs tight like women generally do.

    • @johnlemus7921
      @johnlemus7921 Před 6 lety +1

      It may have to do with the amount of skin that gets stretched and pulled, also the size of the bulge. I can't close my legs all the way, at least not with out making some adjustments.

    • @opalescent4694
      @opalescent4694 Před 6 lety +2

      Maybe. It's not like I don't have a lot. It could also be because I sat that way since I was a kid. Maybe my body just, adjusted to it over time and made it comfortable.

    • @johnlemus7921
      @johnlemus7921 Před 6 lety +2

      Everyone is different. My ex boyfriend who is also FTM use to sit like a guy even before transitioning.

    • @jenniferwhite6089
      @jenniferwhite6089 Před 6 lety +2

      have to get used to having something there now it will be weird at first to feel things differently down their at first for me, it was a very different feeling to have a vaginal it was very different for me to ride my horse the first time with a vaginal how much changed for me.

  • @Chrstne81
    @Chrstne81 Před 6 lety

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us, Jamie! Glad you’re healing and feeling better!

  • @ainebeirneyt
    @ainebeirneyt Před 6 lety

    I love the long update videos, it’s so interesting to hear about this side of your life, I hope everything goes amazing for you in the future!

  • @joey_5060
    @joey_5060 Před 6 lety +26

    Honestly, Jamie, I LOVE your longer/vlog videos!! I love you two so much. You're goals. Your relationship is truly beautiful. You're both very lucky. 💕😊
    Thrilled to hear that your healing is going well. Careful on those dang stairs!! I "missed" a step a couple years ago and fractured my ankle. Not fun times. Lol 😉😊💕
    P.S....Shaaba's singing voice!!! Oh my lanta!! She should sing more!!! Aaaaand...I LOVE your hair. You're so handsome. 😊😊

  • @heyitsjay5593
    @heyitsjay5593 Před 6 lety +2

    Glad you’re doing well! the vlogs are helpful bc we get to see stuff in “real time”

  • @leoas6951
    @leoas6951 Před 6 lety

    Jamie you're really great and I really enjoy your videos! I think it's awesome how genuine and kind and funny and humble you are and I look forward to your videos, because they're really helpful to me as a young ftm kid. You're a big role model to me and it's really great to be able to get a glimpse of what lower surgery and top surgery are like, because hopefully I'll get them eventually. So thanks for all you do!! It means a lot to me and a whole lot of people and it's just great

  • @delsinrowe6696
    @delsinrowe6696 Před 6 lety

    I'm so happy for you dude! Your happiness just radiates and makes me excited for you. Also I just want to say I'm grateful you've posted these vids on the surgery. I have been so intimidated by it and seeing it first hand has helped me decide that it's something I want to look into in the future.

  • @michellelouise4498
    @michellelouise4498 Před 6 lety +4

    So glad you're doing well. Really enjoy the vlogs. Sending love to you, shabba and kitty ❤

  • @desert1671
    @desert1671 Před 6 lety +1

    I've really enjoyed the vlog format updates, and am so psyched for you that everything is doing well now. I love watching your journey. You and Shaaba are lovely!!!

  • @jennifer9084
    @jennifer9084 Před 6 lety +19

    I'm glad things are going well for you Jammii. Shaaba you have been amazing in helping Jammii. :)

  • @aamie6330
    @aamie6330 Před 6 lety +2

    So so proud of you to have done this! Such an important step which would have terrified me personally. I love how supportive everyone close to you is so you're not alone in this trying stage

  • @froggyman01
    @froggyman01 Před 6 lety +2

    I personally don’t find myself wanting to get any sort of bottom surgery, but watching your videos just make me so proud. Proud of you. Proud of our community. We’ve all come so far and I’m proud of us. Keep holding on!!

  • @xyz7572
    @xyz7572 Před 6 lety +10

    3:50 "also, I can put on my own shoes now, hehehehhee"
    Oh Jamie😂

  • @ql8ll
    @ql8ll Před 6 lety

    So happy for you! Just seeing how happy this makes you really warms my heart. God bless you!

  • @stinehald110
    @stinehald110 Před 6 lety

    you’re so awesome, i’m very glad you’re feeling better and that everything is going well!! 🌼

  • @Iceychiida
    @Iceychiida Před 6 lety

    I'm so happy for you! You definitely look so happy and it's wonderful to see!

  • @redsdragon2928
    @redsdragon2928 Před 6 lety +1

    Congrats Jamie! God, I was absolutely terrified for you for the first 15 minutes of the initial video I was nearly in tears when you already looked miles better after the second surgery and finally got to go home. As always, Shaaba is wonderful and so amazing for helping you through the healing process and supporting you through your journey. Surgery is a super taxing event for your body, I'm really glad everything turned out okay and your 1 month post-op video looks amazing, you look so happy! Good luck on the rest of your healing!

  • @salvasardar4416
    @salvasardar4416 Před 6 lety

    I love you and I’m beyond proud of you, you’re doing things people would never be brave enough to even face.

  • @kbd_ny8662
    @kbd_ny8662 Před 6 lety +1

    It's nice to see someone else so happy. I hope you're even happier now! Thanks for sharing such intimate parts of your life.

  • @bestboy690
    @bestboy690 Před 6 lety

    this is the cutest thing. im so happy for you!!!! like this just makes my day idk you’ve just come so far and you definitely seem happier and more comfortable!!

  • @UselessRambling
    @UselessRambling Před 5 lety +1

    When you came into frame with that big smile on your face it made me smile too, you look so confident and happy

  • @nancybeveridgetaylor3256
    @nancybeveridgetaylor3256 Před 4 lety +1

    I just found your channel and I am so happy for you and your partner! Retired nurse here, you are correct, do not ignore your symptoms, give yourself time for healing! ❤❤❤

  • @jamieloerts3778
    @jamieloerts3778 Před 6 lety

    I'm glad you are feeling better. Take pride in small accomplishments! You are doing a great job helping others to not only see a change but understand the change. The fact that your change goes a lot more deeper then just your appearance. Please tell Shaaba how beautiful her voice is! I used to be a singer. I loved performing but as I have gotten older I have less practice time. Tell to keep it up! Jamie once again I want to thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. I am able yo feel closer to my niece and with myself through your videos. Hope all those stitches get out soon!

  • @GoddesSilverRose
    @GoddesSilverRose Před 6 lety

    I love your vlogs and I never get bored with them. I'm so happy your life is coming back!

  • @maryphelan8167
    @maryphelan8167 Před 6 lety +1

    Really grateful for all your work, time and honesty in putting such helpful information together. Helps that yourself and Shaaba are so lovely and personable!

  • @felixsanchezaguiar5159

    What an amazing recovery! Glad to see you are doing great. Much love to Shaaba, she took really good care of you.

  • @JennyJin-YoungLee101
    @JennyJin-YoungLee101 Před 6 lety +1

    Yay!!! I am so happy that things are getting better and better keep it up Jamie :)

  • @leolola1998
    @leolola1998 Před 6 lety +1

    Wow really happy for you man! Glad finally everything's coming along

  • @sadiezipsie3434
    @sadiezipsie3434 Před 6 lety

    i love how you’ve been in such high spirits through all of this. so happy for you and your fiancé

  • @LucywithinCapture
    @LucywithinCapture Před 6 lety

    So unbelievably happy for you, Jamie and so proud ❤

  • @fabulousporcupine3828
    @fabulousporcupine3828 Před 6 lety

    im so glad you are recovering well, and that youre happy about it! im feeling a little less scared of maybe doing bottom surgery myself now and i appreciate how honest youve been about the process!

  • @wyattduijnmaijer
    @wyattduijnmaijer Před 6 lety +2

    Glad to hear your feeling a lot better!

  • @ellibean5937
    @ellibean5937 Před 6 lety

    I have no problem with long videos! Or short ones. I like the updates either way. So glad you're healing well and happy with your body!

  • @MrDieseltje
    @MrDieseltje Před 6 lety

    You guys are so cute!
    And i’m really happy for you that the healing is going so well!

  • @barrowpotter
    @barrowpotter Před 6 lety

    So happy for you. And that feeling of unexplainable contentment with body that you would never have believed. I totally get that. It is a growing feeling in myself since I start T and completely alien to me but great! Anxious about how I'll cope with surgery when I get there but excited for afterwards. Thank you for everything.

  • @lnwbpa
    @lnwbpa Před 6 lety

    I have enjoyed all the bottom surgery updates. Short clips tied together are much more interesting than one long clip about one day keep them up.

  • @S0dap0pb0ttle
    @S0dap0pb0ttle Před 6 lety

    I really love seeing you happy ^.^ You're such a bowl of joy

  • @drummerxkun
    @drummerxkun Před 6 lety

    Congrats! Been watching you transition for years. So happy for you

  • @donnakoprek7005
    @donnakoprek7005 Před 6 lety +1

    I am always so happy for anyone who transitions and you see them, being themselves and realizing that was who they were all along. Hard to explain to people especially since I am a hetero woman, but it seems so obvious to me when your true self is screaming to get out! Cheers to you. What a beautiful couple. Much joy to you!!!!

  • @travisdicks3773
    @travisdicks3773 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your recovery. It's super encouraging and helpfull to people like me.

  • @mazthemoose8529
    @mazthemoose8529 Před 6 lety

    Love seeing u so happy and exited , ur positivity is infectious 🦖❤️

  • @Easytiger19587
    @Easytiger19587 Před 6 lety

    I literally can not cope with how cute you guys are together! Awesome to see how well you are healing :)

  • @ladycavalier
    @ladycavalier Před rokem

    These have been so soothing to watch? Like, I've got it up on my pc while I play Stardew Valley on my xbox lol, and it's the most chill I've felt in a long while. It's made me happy watching, even with the challenges you went through. Thank you for sharing your story with us

  • @eilees7466
    @eilees7466 Před 6 lety

    Loving the hair! And that’s so awesome congrats on the surgery! Glad it went well ❤️

  • @deeelmore4560
    @deeelmore4560 Před 6 lety +307

    that thumbnail cracked me up

  • @AmoKarate
    @AmoKarate Před 6 lety +1

    I've never watched a channel like yours and I just started watching your videos yesterday. What an interesting and insightful look into the transition process! Thank you for sharing your ongoing story and helping all of us out here in internet land learn about transgender issues!

  • @skywells9515
    @skywells9515 Před 6 lety

    I'M SO PROUD OF YOU JAMIE!!!

  • @kadenlake2087
    @kadenlake2087 Před 6 lety

    been watching you since your top surgery (On a new account now, new email) but its really cool to see you get this far. Honestly your transition is my goals. Excited to see whats next!

  • @lawli56
    @lawli56 Před 6 lety

    Great to see you feeling so much better about yourself and almost completely healed. xx

  • @EchelonPrince
    @EchelonPrince Před 6 lety

    I love when you vlog!! Congrats on being post op surgery two!!

  • @Skr8955-f3c
    @Skr8955-f3c Před 2 lety

    So happy for you! Best to you and Shabba!!!

  • @evanhubbard146
    @evanhubbard146 Před 6 lety +22

    She called him jiminy. If that ain’t the cutest shit I’ve ever seen.

  • @missdaisy5736
    @missdaisy5736 Před 6 lety +3

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️2All. Happy to hear how well everything is going Jamie❣️HVD🌈

  • @janinevillasenor6771
    @janinevillasenor6771 Před 6 lety

    First video I've watched from your channel. I'm so happy you went thru your transition. Congratulations! 🎊 🤗😘

  • @arloc6690
    @arloc6690 Před 6 lety

    So happy to see you healing well. Congratulations!!!

  • @jacobhutt7046
    @jacobhutt7046 Před 6 lety +1

    i really like the long length videos i think its really good to watch rather than a shorter, less detailed video. Vlog format works really well i think. love watching your videos and im so happy for you

  • @staceylbradbury
    @staceylbradbury Před 6 lety +2

    yay I'm so glad the infection is gone!!!!!!!!!! so glad to hear you are doing better!!!

  • @taylortropiano6866
    @taylortropiano6866 Před 6 lety

    i loved this video! I'm so happy for you, congrats man!

  • @Ashleydziendobry
    @Ashleydziendobry Před 6 lety +2

    I'm so happy for you two 💜

  • @katiealexandra6314
    @katiealexandra6314 Před 6 lety

    I am so, so, so happy for you. And honestly the love that you and Shaaba have moves me to tears sometimes. I wish you both every happiness

  • @SwashBuckTief
    @SwashBuckTief Před 6 lety +3

    I'm glad you're doing well post-op, and I'm a bit jealous of your hair. Particularly because I can't make mine work well with glasses, but you've done that brilliantly.

  • @lakb45
    @lakb45 Před 6 lety

    I applaud you for knowing who you really are and being willing to tolerate pain and suffering to get there. I admire your courage. Continue to take it easy and enjoy the life you are meant to have.

  • @dods_420
    @dods_420 Před 6 lety +23

    Oooo your hair looking FABULOUS!!❤️
    I don’t if u did something but it’s so thick and wavy👌🏼😅

  • @evanl6819
    @evanl6819 Před 6 lety +82

    Longish hair like the type you have rn is definitely my favourite hairstyle for guys. Unfortunately I can't pull it off cause my hair is curly

    • @debusen81
      @debusen81 Před 6 lety +12

      Dildo Faggins curly hair is super nice

    • @moeszyslak3097
      @moeszyslak3097 Před 6 lety +5

      longish curly hair looks so good tho !

    • @Demi.d3mi
      @Demi.d3mi Před 6 lety +6

      My bf has long curly hair and its hot af

    • @michaljo711
      @michaljo711 Před 6 lety +2

      dude curly hair on guys is hot i recommend

    • @dylanbowen418
      @dylanbowen418 Před 5 lety

      Evan L I get you I try and do this and it ends up being like a shit Afro 🙃 hope it’s not as bad for you

  • @berglettemom6045
    @berglettemom6045 Před 6 lety

    Jamie, I really enjoy this vlogging format. I actually hope you will give us more frequent updates. As for having a hysterectomy, you can have those parts removed laparoscopically, through very small incisions which heal quickly. Might be a good idea to consider getting them out to avoid future health concerns. I am so happy for you that these changes have been good for you.

  • @edenbrown2517
    @edenbrown2517 Před 6 lety +4

    I'm honestly suprised how much your long hair suits you, I really like it

  • @michellew4637
    @michellew4637 Před 4 měsíci

    You are such a lovely guy and Shaaba is an amazing lady. I'm cis female but somehow your channel ended up in my feed and I'm so glad it did! "Knowing" you two is such a privilege x

  • @Timespace98
    @Timespace98 Před 6 lety

    I love your videos!!! The longer, the better!

  • @tommymm8
    @tommymm8 Před 6 lety

    omg I’m actually in love with both of your personality and vibes, you guys are the cutest, also why I have I just discovered this upload at 4:30am when I have a 9am lecture 😭🎉

  • @lisanneyang
    @lisanneyang Před 6 lety

    Still so happy for you jammi. Love the little present that popped out of its box. And shaba's voice tho

  • @hahaok9587
    @hahaok9587 Před 6 lety

    At 13:48 When they both say I love you it's so adorable. And Jamie looks so happy yaaaaay!!!

  • @ollieoliver7469
    @ollieoliver7469 Před 6 lety +1

    Love you Jamie! You're such an inspiration, dude 😂 I'll be starting T very soon (1-3 months) and seeing how happy you are, and how great the results are makes me feel so pumped for my own transition 💖💕

  • @sebastianbrinck5675
    @sebastianbrinck5675 Před 6 lety

    I'm so happy for you!
    And I love the vlogs

  • @Oneness298
    @Oneness298 Před 6 lety

    I love you guys!!! The longer the better!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @curtisanderson2772
    @curtisanderson2772 Před 6 lety

    You have helped me so much...you inspired me to actually come out and have helped me find clothes that work for me (I'm ftm) and you are an amazing human ❤❤❤

  • @KimSol90
    @KimSol90 Před 6 lety +3

    I'm so glad to see you're doing so well! =D

  • @lucaslockart8896
    @lucaslockart8896 Před 6 lety

    Glad to hear you are feeling better!

  • @_Al__
    @_Al__ Před 6 lety

    i only just found your channel but i am SO HAPPY FOR YOU ! ! !

  • @joannebaxter6370
    @joannebaxter6370 Před 6 lety

    Loving your fiance’s channel love the way she presents it liking what you’re doing now

  • @makenzileg
    @makenzileg Před 6 lety

    Great video! I'm so glad you're doing well! Also, on an unrelated note, I love being able to see the progression of your hair growth. Lol

  • @baluvideo
    @baluvideo Před 6 lety

    This vlog thing is great! Keep it up. So much fun!

  • @SoSoInf3
    @SoSoInf3 Před 6 lety +5

    3:52 = the cutest giggle EVER !

  • @felicitymoorcross198
    @felicitymoorcross198 Před 6 lety +16

    Overjoyed to hear you and Shaaba and the pageant peen are doing so well!

  • @eternalstorm7717
    @eternalstorm7717 Před 6 lety

    I’m glad you’re feeling better!