Just don't text at all. They're ex for a reason. I just broke up n it's been painful, i even sent a last text telling him about how i knew he was lying. (After a wonderful no fight kinda relationship - also was ghosted) N i did not expect a reply because duh "self respect" .... It hurt yes, but what's more important than your own respect? Nothing. And pls don't send a toxic text at all. You're high value person, n high value people have their head held high, they don't spew venom. If they care at all, they'll reach out bruh! Build a better version of yourself meanwhile. Worth it.
I was about to say, if a friend doesn't respond to something important like a question, I'm going to be upset because that means either they literally died or they're now dead to me.
Consider yourself lucky. In my case, I was breadcrumbed before I got ghosted, so I wasted way too much time and energy before I finally realized what was happening.
Smh this is really shitty advice. If my ex wants me back that text better come with a big ass apology. If they left you because of bad behavior, cheating, gas lighting, not wanting to keep a job, using them, keeping them on your back burner. Then if you want that person back youd better swallow your pride and lead with a sincere apology and take accountability, also tell and show that you have fixed the problem, and that it wont happen again. Basically your gonna have to come crawling if they had good reason to leave you. If it was just losing interest or getting bored with the relationship. Then yes this might work.
Yeah, if they treated you like shit, you'd have to be out of your damn mind to act friendly during the next encounter. Basically, that just teaches them that you'll not only take them back in a heartbeat, but aso tolerate more of their bad behavior because you're such a low-value doormat. This guy's advice sounds naive and unrealistic at best, maybe even bordering on toxic positivity.
My problem is that he ghosted me and unfollowed me on snapchat and there hasn't been reciprocated texting from him to me since early January idk where the relationship stands or if there even still is one but if it no longer exists I'm joining the US military
It was just an argument and he wanted space... I gave it to him... Then he said he was fine. Things still seemed off to me so then I wanted space to think about things. He also told me he felt claustrophobic (the night of the argument) so I mentioned we BOTH take space for a few weeks. I reached out after almost a month and nothing came back from him. Been 5 days. We didn't break up (I don't think we did) before the break he said he wanted to have a relationship. Idk 😐
TBH, if someone said they wanted "space" for a few weeks, which is essentially a month, I would consider that a break _up._ So now you're back (from outer space, as Gloria Gaynor would say) and stressed that you haven't heard back from him in almost a week? 😒 Either he's doing the "no contact" rule - and rightfully so - or he's simply moved on and lost all interest in you.
@@user-kb8qw7dy4t hey so update. Not long after I posted that we did break up and it was honestly one of the best things.... It was hard but I honestly felt empowered. If he wasn't wanting to fix anything there's no reason for me to keep pushing... I now have a loving boyfriend who actually treats me right... 😊
@@asmrsleep3079 That's awesome. If you don't mind me giving you some advice for future reference, though, when a guy says he's fine, it means he doesn't want any drama. Therefore, just let it go.
NO response is a response
Just don't text at all. They're ex for a reason. I just broke up n it's been painful, i even sent a last text telling him about how i knew he was lying. (After a wonderful no fight kinda relationship - also was ghosted)
N i did not expect a reply because duh "self respect" .... It hurt yes, but what's more important than your own respect? Nothing.
And pls don't send a toxic text at all. You're high value person, n high value people have their head held high, they don't spew venom.
If they care at all, they'll reach out bruh!
Build a better version of yourself meanwhile. Worth it.
@Neitzel Beckie hello
Oh really that's bad
I was about to say, if a friend doesn't respond to something important like a question, I'm going to be upset because that means either they literally died or they're now dead to me.
If you have to do all that they probably aren't into you.
Or you just get ghosted, as in my case 🤷 🙄 🙃 🙄😒.
Consider yourself lucky. In my case, I was breadcrumbed before I got ghosted, so I wasted way too much time and energy before I finally realized what was happening.
Went 12 months NC and sent a text today. I got no response…. I guess we’re done for good 😢
Smh this is really shitty advice. If my ex wants me back that text better come with a big ass apology. If they left you because of bad behavior, cheating, gas lighting, not wanting to keep a job, using them, keeping them on your back burner. Then if you want that person back youd better swallow your pride and lead with a sincere apology and take accountability, also tell and show that you have fixed the problem, and that it wont happen again. Basically your gonna have to come crawling if they had good reason to leave you. If it was just losing interest or getting bored with the relationship. Then yes this might work.
Yeah, if they treated you like shit, you'd have to be out of your damn mind to act friendly during the next encounter. Basically, that just teaches them that you'll not only take them back in a heartbeat, but aso tolerate more of their bad behavior because you're such a low-value doormat.
This guy's advice sounds naive and unrealistic at best, maybe even bordering on toxic positivity.
You're videos always make me feel empowered and give me hope that no matter what happens, I will be okay. :)
My problem is that he ghosted me and unfollowed me on snapchat and there hasn't been reciprocated texting from him to me since early January idk where the relationship stands or if there even still is one but if it no longer exists I'm joining the US military
It was just an argument and he wanted space... I gave it to him... Then he said he was fine. Things still seemed off to me so then I wanted space to think about things. He also told me he felt claustrophobic (the night of the argument) so I mentioned we BOTH take space for a few weeks. I reached out after almost a month and nothing came back from him. Been 5 days. We didn't break up (I don't think we did) before the break he said he wanted to have a relationship. Idk 😐
TBH, if someone said they wanted "space" for a few weeks, which is essentially a month, I would consider that a break _up._ So now you're back (from outer space, as Gloria Gaynor would say) and stressed that you haven't heard back from him in almost a week? 😒 Either he's doing the "no contact" rule - and rightfully so - or he's simply moved on and lost all interest in you.
@@user-kb8qw7dy4t hey so update. Not long after I posted that we did break up and it was honestly one of the best things.... It was hard but I honestly felt empowered. If he wasn't wanting to fix anything there's no reason for me to keep pushing... I now have a loving boyfriend who actually treats me right... 😊
@@asmrsleep3079 That's awesome. If you don't mind me giving you some advice for future reference, though, when a guy says he's fine, it means he doesn't want any drama. Therefore, just let it go.
@@user-kb8qw7dy4t Let it go like not try to push them to explain anything? Or like let it go like let the relationship go/end?
@@asmrsleep3079 Let it go like let him talk when he's ready or just let him get over it.
I’m the ex that won’t respond no matter what lmao 🤣.
That’s disrespectful
How about letters?
NO DOUBLE TEXTS ❗
I sent a text, its your turn to respond.