I’ve bought engraved jewelry off Amazon and it came drop shipped like that. The inside could be shortened (4/For, Lor/Lori, & XOX/XOXO) to fit the character limit of the ring. I think if someone knew your husband’s name for you then they probably also knew neither of you wore jewelry, so it leans me towards someone thought this would be a nice token/momento in your grief over the holidays. However, I think it is crossing a line to send a wedding band (that’s extremely personal/intimate), and to write an engraving as if it came from a deceased loved (instead of a generic grief/sympathy card kind of phrase like “Love lasts forever”). “Memorial jewelry” gifts are very personal, they should have asked for consent before purchasing it. I’m going to hope it’s someone who meant well but who just doesn’t get it because they haven’t lived through the death of a spouse. I hope they have the courage to reach out to you and explain and apologize.
Dear Lori, I'm sorry you are dealing with all these things. I've lost many loved ones. I have had sleep paralysis and its terrifying. I'm glad you are taking this ring thing as "there are good people in this world". The gift would bother me. I would throw it away. But that's me. Please know that I am praying for you during this time. if you don't believe in prayer, think of it as positive thoughts being sent your way.
my guess it couldve probably most likely be a new fan that most likely binge watch or watched most of your videos and probably was assuming to give a nice gesture to remember your husband. hope you find peace and still streghten yourself from the loss of you loved ones. we all be here
I cannot imagine someone doing this maliciously. Some people, myself included, have a lot of difficulty with what’s proper and what’s not at times when facing some situations (like when a person we care for is sad or hurt) and may have meant very well by sending something that would have been comforting to them. I hope the person who sent this reaches out to you and explains his/her thoughts behind the gift. That being said, I was great to hear your voice again, Lori. I hope 2023 is much easier on you and yours than 2022 was and I pray your father gets well soon. ❤
There is something called "brushing" which sellers attempt to get a flood of positive reviews for a product. They find the address for someone out of various means and they have people that work for them that use the recipients name (don't worry, they don't have any of your financial info or the like) and they review the "item" that they are gathering the reviews for. They have to send something to you in order for the received info to be valid on the review (like you'll see a note on Amazon saying verified) I've received brushings twice in the past and in one I did receive a ring. While I'm a huge believer in the paranormal, I think this might be one extremely coincidental brushing that I wouldn't blame you the way it has you feeling unnerved and left with a lot of questions. I'd feel exactly the same way.
Oh, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have never yet had to deal with a first holiday like that but I can understand how hard it must be. Please accept every heartfelt condolence I can give you.
My feeling is that the person who sent it didn't want to impersonate or think of it being from your husband. I think that it is a symbol and the person trying to send you comforting words in the form of a ring to reinforce that Howie is still with you and that you might see him in your dreams. I have had dreams of my mother and. have had conversations with her in my dreams. I think that many people dream about their deceased loved ones. My mind did not even go to what you suggested. If someone has viewed your video, they are probably feeling embarrassed so they won't identify themselves. In my mind, they purposely remained anonymous and wanted to send you something to comfort you and that you could hold onto. I think it is from one of your CZcams fans.
I sent you a text. Years ago, I had just moved into an apartment with my son who was 5. It got cold and I had no money to buy heating fuel. I didn't have a car and walked 5 miles to work and home everyday. One day I found a Christmas card on my door with a receipt for heating fuel. Someone had bought me heating fuel and the note only said, Santa. My family didn't do it and no one ever owned up to it. I still don't know.
I think it’s really creepy and would definitely get rid of it. No one should send you something like that. I lost my husband 4 years ago and no one sent me anything personal like that. Also say a prayer over yourself and home after getting rid of that because people do put curses on things. Again I am so sorry for your loss
Yes, things can carry a curse. Have it and your home and yourself blessed, even the packaging. Demons know everything. I am sorry you have to go through this on top of everything else. For your peace of mind, I hope and pray that the person who sent this --who hopefully meant well-- lets you know why they sent this.
@@alexg4936 Some people who are youtubers are into that and don't like Christians or Jews. Don't know anyone specific, but have seen comments not about Lori, but about Christians and Jews. All of us who care about Lori (and it's a lot of people) need to pray that she stays safe if this thing has been hexxed. I would get rid of it and have everything and everyone in the house blessed.
Hi, I don’t comment often, but that’s creepy to the point of feeling malicious. I’d be reaching out to the company, even if they won’t share sender info they should tell you if it was sent by an individual as a gift or as a corporate review item given you youtube platform. As I say I don’t want to be scary, but that is concerning I’d want the company to be explaining how they got your address. Hope things move in a more positive direction for the rest of the year ❤️
Lori, I am so sorry that this has caused you such upset. I have no idea what this is meant to be. Sending warm thoughts your way for you, your dad and of course your girls.
I'm so sorry you and your family lost someone so dear to them! The whole thing creeps me out. Toss it and say prayers for yourself, your family and your house. That's my opinion for what it's worth
Painful and Creepy. I do believe in paranormal but not this way. During 2008 crisis I lost my home. In fact it was home I grew up in. My Mom died in October 2008 to boot. In October 2010 I moved into my new home from renting apartments. In fact i moved in exactly on my Mothers 2 year loss anniversary. As I was unpacking things I was literally wondering if both my parents would forgive me for losing the house. Virginia was where I lived. October was cold and wet. I was miserable from moving so was in pain. I started unpacking stuff they belonged to my Mom and Dad. First weird thing happened was 2 Cardinals one male and one female landed on the window right in front of me. I thought wow rare. Cardinals were my Dads favorite bird. Seeing them in cold October was rare but possible. The second thing was opening the box containing my bedding. One thing of which was a quilt and pillow I helped my Grandma make as a child and my Mom inherited when Grandma passed. Moths and butterflies look alike. But Monarch Butterflies are not moths and rarely appear in VA past summer. We were in mid fall. Two Monarch butterflies flew out of the vacuum sealed bag the quilt was in when i opened the bag. I know they were Monarchs cause they were mine and my Moms favorites. They flew out of the bag that quilt was in. That quilt had been packed up for more than 5 years. We packed it away when Mom switched to a hospital bed. It was in a vauum sealed bag. How in the hell did 2 butterflies get in there let alone survive for 5 years? I was not the only one who saw them. My Son in law, daughter and brother saw them. In fact they were like where the hell did they come from. They flew out the front door we had open to move stuff in the house. Most bizarre thing ever. My Mother did not keep or raise live butterflies. How they got in there I dont know and frankly dont care. I took the birds and butterflies as a sign my parents were happy and ok with losing the house and just getting on with life. Other weird thing was spring after my Mom passed and this is not paranormal just some what sadly funny. I bought my Mom a Mothers ring. It had 10 stones 4 for me and my siblings and 6 for each of the grand kids. It cost me $5 k cause I had it made with real gems not the commercial ones. Mom loved that ring wore it and her wedding band always. Like she got the quilt i got the ring back when she passed. I grieved hard over losing both my parents. Anyway my sisters and I took a day trip to Jamestown and Williamsburg and the pottery in Williamsburg, VA. We took the Ferry. Well while on the ferry we were throwing bread crumbs to sea gulls following it. Its a thing OK . While throwing bread crumbs the ring, which was kind of loose on my finger, flew off and I watched a seagull catch and eat it. (I hope the seagull survived that ring. Thats why I consider this sadly funny. I worried about that bird.) But I saw it and I burst out laughing. It was like the worst of my grief evaporated. My sisters were horrified for me cause they knew my Mom and I loved that ring. I laughed so hard i started to cry. But they were happy tears. Now if that ring comes back to me then it will be insane. But seeing that bird eat the ring was something that my Mom would appreciate the hilarity of.
So sorry Miss Lori. What an odd thing to get. Sleep paralysis, MS is like that only without ever being asleep, so I know how scary that is. And I've had things sent to me just like this,. I'd make a video asking who did it and thank them, after I made a video demanding an answer, then the troll made a video mocking me about wanting to know who was sending these things. So I quit acknowledging anything in my videos and they got pizzed. I finally got rid of the troll, thank God.
Hi Lori, Last week I received a ring, from someone I don't know. Well not sure if I know them. I don't know who sent it! And, it too is a wedding engagement ring. No one has spoken up. Also, the ring is small, size 6. I wish I knew why it was sent to me.. Lori I truly am sorry for your loss. I too lost my husband 15 years ago. I wish you happiness in your new life..
They may have meant well but it was too personal! You touch the lives of so many and are loved by all ! If it upsets you, discard it and allow it no more of your energy. Sending you blessings for you and your family.
It’s possible someone thought it was a kind gesture on behalf of your husband, meaning someone out there cares about you (which you already know is true), but doesn’t know you too well. For sleep paralysis, I highly recommend you read the book They Only Come Out At Night by Vicki Joy Anderson. It’s a must read for anyone who is new to sleep paralysis or wants to understand it and get rid of it.
I have had it around 3 times in my life. The last time was 2 days before the package arrived. It was also the first time I had nobody sleeping with me that I could move over and spoon with. I nearly ended up sleeping on the floor in my Daughter's room but didn't want to seem silly. It's very scary. I was able to feel the bed move as if there was someone there and I couldn't shake myself out of it. Then I get a ring saying "see you in your dreams". It was like Nightmare on Elm St. I really thought Freddy was out to get me.
@@ColorMyWorld Ive seen two different Entities, when I was between 10 and 11 yrs old, at the Apt. that I grew up in. They were attracted to my mother, as she could see these things all the time. What I did, for the first time in my life... was to close my eyes, and pray. I asked G0d for Strength and Protection. After that, Ive never had such an experience, in all of my 49 yrs. Here are some things beyond that.. that you should know: 1) Ghost / Lost Souls... have no real power on this Physical plane of Existence... with an EXCEPTION ...if they take it from you / use you as a gateway. 2) In order for a person to see/feel these entities... you have to "Tune" into them. Its like tuning into a different radio station. While we are on 98.9.. they may be on 109.6. In essence, you have to both tune into their Plane, and to AMPLIFY their signal. You thus, act as an Amplifier and Bridge. 3) Most people do not experience these things, until they get Scared. As such, most people often only ever experience these things in the quiet darkness... often all alone. You see, its Fear that breaks down even the strongest of Skeptics beliefs (beliefs, that such things do not exist). Once fear has entered a person... they start to "LISTEN" with far more Intensity. They also start to seek to hear / experience something.. as they are now actively focusing on such potentials. For example... you hear a noise.. and are spooked. You think: maybe thats a Ghost... and in doing so... now you are constantly thinking about Ghosts, and listening intently, for more "Activity". Basically, you have taken your "Antenna" out of the closet... dusted it off... and hoisted it to the Roof, for best Reception. 4) Good souls, tend to leave this plane, and move on to the next Re-Incarnation. However, some tormented "Lost Souls" often stay behind. They are often stuck in a sort of perpetual dreamlike state. They carry their former torments into their Afterlife existence such as constant feelings of Anger, Depression, Rage, Jealousy.. and more. As such, they are often ATTRACTED to a person whom has Negative feelings within them. They typically HATE a soul that is full of Love, and Happiness... because it goes against how they feel. 5) Every Drop of Fear that you give them... adds to their power over, and around you. Most especially, if you BELIEVE that they are gaining power and control over you. They again.. have ZERO power in this plane. They can only get power, via You, and your fears + beliefs. Things tend to start off small.. such as a noise, a feeling of dread... maybe a shadow out of the corner of your eye. Over time, this can escalate to knocking on the walls, sulfur smells, shadow figures, and potentially objects moving. in the worst cases, they can effect the host physically, and or mentally. They can implant feelings, voices, and even images, directly into your mind. This is why many Exorcists, have seen things like a Hosts head spinning a full 360 degrees. Its not physically possible.. but its a very convincing Illusion, that such a being can project into your minds eye... which over-rides your normal visual center. As such... You need to learn that You have the power here... and to stop Feeding them Fear. I do suggest asking a higher power, for Inner strength, and Protection (Ask, and it shall be Given unto you). Beyond that, you just have to realize that your beliefs are key to shutting things down... and preventing things from getting much worse. During these times, stay away from heavy medications, sleep aids, drugs, alcohol. Anything that lowers / messes with your Consciousness. As that is a perfect time for them to try to push their way into a possession. That said... most possessions, only can take place, when the Host feels completely Defeated. When the host believes they no longer have control.. that the being has bested them... then thats exactly what ends up happening. Its an indirect form of Permission. Its made all the easier, when the Host is partially or fully Unconscious. Try to do things that make you feel happy, and loving. Try to let go of any negative feelings / emotions. Learn to take control over your emotions, and to calm yourself with some deep breathing, and reassurance. And potentially, some Prayer, if you can have some faith. Similarly, "Witches" are also not able to effect anyone, that has faith / belief, that they are not capable of doing so. In fact, the Cultists tend to tech these Systems of Belief to their Followers, and can and often Do, Use these inserted beliefs... against them. Nothing negative, can effect you.. if you do not believe it possible. The Creator made these systems of Protection, into the System. Though, he left the ability for certain rules to be bent / broken... based on your own beliefs / actions. Now... If you can not find the Inner Strength to be able to rid yourself of these experiences... then it might then be time to ask a medium / priest, to try to Bless you, and the house. However, this doesnt mean that either would work, permanently, if at all. Again, it comes down to your beliefs... and what you may be choosing to keep focusing on.. amplifying it into your daily reality. Hope this helps. Best Regards
Woah, sorry you had this extra stress put on you. Maybe someone was trying to be kind, but I think I would sell it for the gold, so it would get melted down. I have had sleep paralysis occasionally my whole life, when I'm stressed, for me it feels like I'm falling, but I can't move. When you know what is happening it gets less scary.
OMGOODNESS … so know this feeling of being watched and hearing a wrap on my bedroom door! My husband has passed 12 years ago. Receiving something like this would send me over the deep end! How this is a disrespectful gift. Keep breathing softly tender heart.
I honestly don't know what to think. But I do think it was a typo. The fact that they also put XOX instead of XOXO makes me think the Lor was a typo too? I think someone wanted to do something nice, people that believe in and find comfort in paranormal stuff, I have noticed, assume it will do the same for everyone. When it doesn't. Everyone has their own beliefs on the afterlife and good intentions or not, the death of one's husband is an extremely personal event that outsiders should not put their input into. But. That is just my opinion.
Hi Lori. Sorry to the late to this particular party (damn you, youtube algorithm!). With you in your dreams is a late 90's song about grieving and loss I had never heard of until just now googling it. I suspect this was a poorly timed (and perhaps not wise) gift from someone out there who you have touched deeply. That you have had sleep paralysis and that there was weird shortening is probably not meant as a threat, I hope. Many of us stopped in our tracks and felt so much for you, I can imagine someone wanted to reach out to provide solace. My hope is that is all it means. It's a funny interconnected world these days that make one feel like we know people we have never and will never meet. Buy some pepper spray just in case, and keep being the beautiful person you are!
I agree. It's just a really weird combination of things that just happened at the same time. I am certain the person did not mean disrespect. They thought they were being kind. As for my safety, I am not afraid. We have more than pepper spray in the house and my Son-in-law to be is an Army Vet.
I've always had sleeping issues, and experience sleep paralysis quite a lot. If you can recognize when it's happening I would suggest keeping your eyes shut and tell yourself you're in sleep paralysis so your brain registers the fact that your body is still alseep and then you can focus on trying to wiggle your fingers or your toes because once your brain knows your body is asleep you can wake your body up. As soon as you can move a finger or your toes you'll be out of sleep paralysis and can get up for a drink or the bathroom. Honestly just do something to really wake your body up, even if it's putting on a movie or just sitting up in bed for a minute, just something, and then you can go back to sleep and should be fine for the rest of the night. I really hope your sleep gets better for you, and I'm sorry you're going through so much right now along with getting something like this in the mail. I hope whoever sent it really did just think they were doing something good and didn't do it as some cruel prank..
I'd get that ring out of my house. That seems like a item of witchcraft that may have caused the speep paralysis. I will be praying for you Ms Lori. God bless you and your family. May the peace of God rule in your heart.
That's strange! I wonder if there was supposed to be an enclosed message card or something? I've sent Amazon packages that were supposed to include them, but they weren't.
Many years ago, while going to college at night and working full time, I was worried about tuition. Out of the clear blue sky, I receive an envelope in the mail filled with cash. Nobody in my family sent it, so I was at a loss to explain it. To this day, I never found out who the kind-hearted person was. Or perhaps it was a guardian Angel.
I'm sorry, Lori. It doesn't sound like something someone close to you would do, since they would know the other things, too, and how you'd feel about it. If it happened to me, I'd throw it away since I'd be uncomfortable with it and hope the person was trying to be kind, then try to forget about it. 💓
Oh my dear sweet friend, this definitely falls on the side of creepy or worse. I would lock it away somewhere for a short time....and if you don't hear from the sender; I would get rid of it (possibly even destroy it). I've been widowed and my current husband has been told by his Dr that his life is day to day. You have plenty of other things to be concerned about, your father and your beautiful girls. I wouldn't add this to the mix. Your life is in a state of flux.....trying to settle into this new "season " of your life. Streamline everything as much as possible until you begin to settle into this new way of life. Praying for you and all of your loved ones. May G....gently warm you with love and confidence. Audrey W., PhD, Osb.
I find it hard to believe that this was a "reaching out from beyond" gift. Those will normally go overlooked and be just casual or feel natural. This doesn't seem super malicious either, more along the lines of someone who doesn't understand how boundaries work or tact for that matter. If it was someone close they would most likely understand your feelings towards jewelry... hopefully this mystery will come to a conclusion and you will find out what happened. A personal engraving like that should be able to pull up some sort of purchasing records but not sure how much information the company can or will share with you. Personally I wouldn't feel comfortable holding on to something like that until I got an answer to the mystery myself though. Keep us posted on any new findings please.
I had sleep paralysis when newly pregnant but heard my favorite loyal cat growing felt some thing walk around the bed and shaking me to get up to go to work. Scary or could have been me doing it being so tired after sending hubby to work I went back to sleep. When I finally woke up to old house phone call from husband telling me get up before I am late to work. I told him but all I thought of was my scary creepy Grandfather or it was his energy.
I think it’s odd because of the mystery behind it right? So the person who sent it should reach out to you & explain their actions. I think if I were you, I’d put it away out of sight for a while & pray/meditate about it. I noticed you said you were drawn to it? That’s interesting to me as a sensitive person (not claiming to be a medium or anything like that) I’m only sensitive to energy & I’m wondering if you might be the same way? Maybe the persons intentions were good & that’s why you’re drawn to it? Personally I don’t feel any negative energy associated with it but depending on your beliefs, you could seek out someone who can do psychometry & they might be able to pick up on more info by actually holding it. Either way I wish you peace & comfort. I hope your dad continues to heal & makes a full recovery! I’ve had sleep paralysis too after my mom passed suddenly in 2010 & it is really scary. I use a app called relax Melodies to help calm my mind & it hasn’t happened since! Can’t recommend that app enough! Sending you much love & light!! ❤🕯️✨
Wow that is strange, I’d certainly be freaked out about it and annoyed. I can’t get my head round the thought that someone would think at a time of Christmas and especially ya 1st one without your beautiful husband, why would anyone think that would comfort you, in any kind of way, distress and upset you, as it would obviously make you think of him more. As for a company sending it you to review again that’s weird as surly I could understand if you had something similar in a basket or you was watching a particular item or had liked it, as I’ve had ppl from companies reach out to me, saying if I buy the item and leave 5* review they’d refund my money. I’d have reached out by doing a video like you have and hopefully you’ve had new of who sent it - some ppl just don’t things through prob did it in your best interest at heart - but I think it’s not a nice thing for you to have received. I also don’t think ya close members of ya family (children) would have appreciated it either. I’d put it outa sight n outa mind hun, ya don’t want to be thinking about it hun, you’ve enough on your plate. I do hope whoever sent it sends you a message to give you piece of mind. Wishing you and your family all the best for 2023 xx cheers Ness
Not sure what I think.....if it was meant as a sign from your husband it would've been something you knew without a doubt it was him....something he enjoyed or something you'd think of him when you saw it ( butterfies for my mom....deer for my husband) .Its weird how it just showed up anyway.
Maybe the ring is supposed to be worn on a chain. Pray on it, maybe GOD arranged this for your comfort and healing of the sorrow you are feeling from the loss of your husband.
I think it was someone trying to be kind but with an odd idea of what a gift should be. Also Amazon drop ships stuff like that and doesn’t add the note that maybe the sender sent you. I too have suffered with sleep paralysis and it is creepy!!!!! Mine is caused when I’m overly stressed about life. I have heard don’t sleep in complete darkness and don’t sleep with your head extra elevated to help avoid it. Not sure any of that actually helps 😉
night terrors (the paralysis was a shocker!!) have an insidious (toxic) component....had a few in college and honestly the memory is as vivid now, if ii let it, as it was in 1974. Ntl...we are more vulnerable to such soul attacks under duress...so sorry you had that, and ii've learned some things _like prayer for one_ that set the tone inward out like a boundary those entities cannot breach. sometimes there can be people whose intent appears benign but ... their hidden intent (to themselves even) can present as a curse rather than a blessing... there appears to be a lot of trolls online (including more AI trackers) who ii'm certain are as abusive in their lives as they are online...whipped cream over cow patties so to speak. A poster suggested brushing...new word for me (like doxing), and any amount of speculation may be part of their agenda for attention. On the other hand, ii don't sense it was a mistake in spelling or a call to review an item out of the blue. if one of yr friends sent it knowing yr inside joke, maybe it is a bit over the top and they may come forward and out themself. either way, trust yr gut about what you do or don't do with it. So glad yr in comm. been playing around with starjoy pencils and miss yr tutorials. Hugs and prayers for yr dad.
@@HeavenLeeMadeOnEtsy Yes and no. Yes I own this machine, no I don't have a clue how to use it LOL. If you can use the all powerful engraver then I can use a cricket. We hope.
No one can, or should, claim to walk in your shoes at this time in your life...we all grieve differently. However, being a very positive person myself I would accept it as a gift. It does not feel malicious to me... may be a bit "odd" since there was no sender's name attached to it...but I think someone might have just been trying to remind you that your hubby will ALWAYS be with you. The way you speak of him we all can hear how much you miss him. The wedding band is just a universal symbol of love between two souls. The words/inscription...I think they are words of endearment. I tell my grandsons that I will see them in my dreams all the time...because I miss them when I am unable to be with them. Throughout history, there have been songs and poems written about "seeing you in my dreams". It's a romantic term because our dreams consist of our deepest hopes and wishes...maybe even a place where, in our minds, we can connect with our loved ones on the other side. We are all different in how we show our love and support but I think this person was trying to do a nice thing for you...and if they weren't, well, there is a place for that kind of person and he/she will have to face THAT when their time comes. So be positive, be strong and regardless of what the message was meant to be, make it your own! Make it what YOU need/want it to be 🙂 and continue to heal your heart rather than allowing this to cause you added stress.
Prayers! For your Dad, your family, and your safety. I tend to give the benefit of the doubt, but this gives me the shivers. I would remove it, bless the home and your girls & self after touching/wearing. Lord knows what the intent was, but why not identify themselves?
Hi Lori, Hope things are going better for you. Have a favor to ask but put it off a while after seeing this last post. Hope you saw my well wish from earlier. I ordered the star Joy gold edition 120 pencil set. I got 2 of the 70mp vintage vermillion. Could you please see if you could get this sent the missing 56j carrot orange? I didn't know any other way to contact you other than this.I emailed my request to the address on the package but got no response.
Someone could have meant well like people that say the completely wrong thing to the family instead of saying nothing at all. It could have a simple intent such as giving you an item to touch to remind you that your husband will always be with you. It is unlikely the sender has ill intent.
Just watching the video and listening to you explain it gave me the creeps even before you said it was engraved. I think I'd put it in a box by itself and a good bit of cedar and white sage. Give it a while since you've done this video now. To see if anyone owns it. If no one comes forward, then put it to your husband, ask him if it was something he did. It seriously sounds like it would not be... but ask. And ask him to make sure somehow that you know it was really him. If no one comes forward and you don't feel as though your husband was telling it was him. Take the box don't, open it or fuss with it, and put it out in the trash. Once it's out of your house sage yourself and your house. Just to be safe. I don't understand people at all. I am sorry you have had to deal with that at an already stress stressful time. Sending healing loving light your way along with warm comforting hugs.
My Daughter who is very spiritual saged. In fact I didn't even ask her to do it. I just smelled it and she was doing it. I never did find out anything. I am hoping it's the last of the situation and the person just slinked away. While I appreciate the possible sentiment behind the gift, it was not really appreciated in the way they wanted it to be. In other words.. you get my drift :)
I see this as intrusive and way over the line. I recommend that you keep the ring and all packaging, along with notes about the date you received it, about any investigation you do, like contacting the company, the dates, and any responses, etc. In case you receive more from this person, you are building a case for harassment.
Just speak in prayer secretly to husband and say if you are spiritually communicating with me give me a true forgotten memory dream not of fear . Say your protection blessings religious or not it helps we all have guardians. . I can’t say if it’s paranormal use your intuition. Best of luck may you have peaceful days and nights ahead.
Hi Lori, I have looked at this both ways and although to me it may have been done as a comforting gesture, it seems a little spooky to me. If you know the person you're sending this to, you acknowledge yourself. Don't send a clandestine package. My Native American blood says get rid of it and burn some sage.
This ring is too personal, if it was someone that truly knew you, they’d know firstly you don’t wear jewellery, secondly, they’d of contacted you, even put a gift card in the package, sadly, I think this is stepping over the line, whether someone had good intentions or not, it’s completely out of order and definitely disrespectful. May not have had bad intentions, but they did not take time to think this would appear as more a negative than a positive. I’d get rid of it, you don’t need a weird trinket to remember your lost and loved husband, you have wonderful memories, you have your family, especially your children that will always have sweet memories to share with you. A ring from a stranger will never be comforting.
I believe this to be highly inappropriate. I would be pissed and disgusted. Honestly, I was going to write you some smart-alecky comment before in joking, and I found myself deleting it, as soon as I typed it out. Because I felt it was... You know how they say there's a time for everything? Well, I felt it was definitely NOT the time for what I was going to be joking about. Even though in my heart, I wanted you to be happy. So, I left it alone, because everyone needs to be able to grieve in their own way. I just went through this last month. Our cat of 6 years, passed away at the age of 12. He was a very loving cat, that made sure he always said good morning, and let you know if you didn't. It was very hard on me and the family. But, everyone had to grieve in their "own" way. Now, I don't even recall what the smart-aleck comment was, but I'm glad that I refrained. Because, it could have been more hurtful to you, than what was intended. However, with you posting this, hopefully, the person will reach out and clear up the issue. I would have put it back in the envelope, and put "RETURN TO SENDER".
I had a subscriber send me a couple things that freaked me out, I didn’t find out for over a week & was totally freaking out that I had offended someone! I was sent a colouring book & a mug from Amazon, the colouring book was one of those creepy cute/creepy Kawaii books but it crossed the line in my opinion as it’s a flipping satanic book!!! Filled with devils, those evil goat horns & pentagrams, the mug had a unicorn & said, “she is beauty she is grace, she will STAB YOU IN THE FACE!!!” 😭😭😭 I was so freaked out 😭 it was addressed to Eddie Blue so I knew it was a subscriber. It took over a week to find out who sent it, I ended up being able to contact the person, apparently she thought the items were cute & had bought them for herself too 😳 I felt bad & kind of still do cuz I don’t want to be ungrateful.. but I really didn’t want those items in my home. My mom took the mug to the thrift store & I plan to send the book to a friend who is an atheist. I’m not even sure a Wiccan would want the book as the pentagrams are all upside down.. anyway point being I don’t think it was sent in malice, however it was very unsettling so I can definitely imagine how you feel! I’m so sorry you got freaked out, I have a feeling it’s the same type of situation, they probably meant it as a nice gift just weren’t thinking properly. Anyway sorry for the novel, I subscribed to you Last January when I started colouring & can’t tell you how much I enjoy your videos. I actually check your home page every few days hoping to hear from you 😅 I even enjoy just listening to you talk while I tidy the house & I cried for you/with you when your husband passed away.. I myself have had 2 out of body experiences where I was in the tunnel going towards the light with everyone in the room underneath me, it’s like the ceilings & walls disappear & you can see every room & all the people in the building your body is in. Those experiences taught me that we do continue on & I have to remind myself of this on tough days… he is definitely looking down on you & I mean that for real, not just sentimentally. Anyway sorry for the novel, I hope you see this. Wishing you health, healing & a wonderfully magical 2023 💞🕊️❤️🩹🎨🦋💘🍭
P.S I got my star joy golds for Christmas from my dad & I am in LOVE!!! I swatched about 20 on the included swatch chart when I first received them & to be honest I didn’t think they were for me, idkw I didn’t think to try them on better paper! I just finally pulled them out yesterday & tried them on the neenah Bristol vellum paper & OMG girl the layering/blending is amazing!!! Even as an amateur I was able to create SO many new colours by layering & I honestly think they blend beautifully even with burnishing! Ok I’m really done now 🙈 I just had to say it 😋💜
There is no hard and fast way in a single comment on how to resolve the paranormal issue. 2hrs is not good if its really a paranormal entity pressing down and holding you in your bed, they are feeding off on your energy leaving you fatigued and negativity increases too. What you can do for a start is to ask for blessings from the god of your religion and see what advice your religion can give. If you are a Christian or Catholic, when it happens again repeat verses from the bible do it in your mind even if you cannot speak to drive them away asking for protection and to cast it out. Also you can place a bible on the bedside table and as well consider to wear a blessed wooden cross with string or beads instead of anything metal around the neck to sleep for protection. I do the same with my religion and scream vocally when I can as that alerts my mum to come running to wake me and chase the entities out. Being held down for 2hrs can be quite scary I understand and I know it well. I’m like a lighthouse in their dark world a natural magnet for these things even on good days, with good practices and protection so I feel you. Entities like to follow me uninvited so I avoid visiting cemeteries, funerals, homes for seniors, hospice, museums with war exhibits on display, prisons, hospitals, massacre sites whenever I can and decline to go if it’s on the itinerary. One thing you can do immediately is to fill your home and self with positive good energy and drive out the excessive negative energy. Paranormal entities are attracted to negative energy, examples of such are like hiding in musty stale rooms, dark dank places etc. they especially like to prey on people who are depressed as their defences are weak and much lower. You can easily help yourself in this area to air out the rooms let in good light, do some house cleaning, exercise or simply take relaxing walks in the mornings get some sun and with each breath in think of it as letting in all the good energy fill you and each breath out sends all negative out. Avoid going to big celebrations like birthdays and weddings till your mourning period is over. Does not seem like much reads like science and doctor’s advice but know that having good energy is essential to fend of unwanted paranormal entities. If none of your friends have sent you the ring and you want to keep it, get it blessed as a precaution. Else chuck it out or sell/donate it at some 2nd hand store. If your paranormal issues started from when it came into your possession, definitely chuck it out and far away. Good luck and i hope everything will work itself out soon enough.
Where you reminiscing of you and your husband past with a group of people, friends, family? Or maybe someone from you and your husband past that may just found out of your husband's passing and showing they still remember of the friendship? Maybe you'll get a call after this video knowing you'd record something like this. What close friend haven't you seen for soooo long?
It's all wrong, in so many ways. I definitely wouldn't keep it. I'm sorry you were the recipient of someone's perverted sense of humour, or lack of appropriateness. Either way, it's unnerving. 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Dear Lori, Thank you for Color My world. Your teaching and recommendations have given me much joy. As well as has you your self as the lovely person you are sharing about your self. I my self have been going thru some pretty serious bad times. So I understand. Regarding this odd package, have one of the kids take it along with any noted documentation you have made. Have them hide it away somewhere outside and not on any of your properties. I say this because I think it being gone and away will put you all more at ease. I also only say this as a way to combine 2 points that others made. 1 you get rid of it. 2 you can retrieve it should you ever need it for proof of harassment. Then let go and put no more energy or thoughts to this. Regardless of intent you need to care for yourself and time spent on this is wasteful in many ways. If you ever hear something or not it will be what is is and we can't change that. So again don't put any more time and thought to it!!!! Life at it's best is hard and that's part of it. Please don't worry about this. Regardless of its orgins and intent it really doesn't matter. It is what it is. I really don't believe that it is anything you have to worry about. Really I don't! Just let it go and turn it over to God since understandably you would initially be upsetting. I learned the hard way how damaging stress is to my body. -------You know 90% of the time we worry about things and they usually pan out all on there own. Iam so sorry about the sleep paralyzes thing. I get all kinds of odd thing too. Stress dose terrible things to us. Please know how important it is and do all you can to minimize it. Being in nature has a calming affect. Don't be shy about seeking out some counciling if you need some help with stress management. There is noting wrong with you! You are just a human going thru a rough time. Sometimes some can just say the right thing and it clicks for you and makes things so much better. I sincerely hope I may have been of some help. Love and best wishes to you and your family. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. Your Dad especially as I know it weights on you. Lisa B
Any possibility it could be a gag gift from your husband purchased before his death? Could be someone you met while in the hospital with your husband. If not I'd call it creepy. And don't throw it away. Take the ring and all the packaging and put it in a zipped and dated plastic bag. If this is someone with less than innocent intentions you might need to produce items at a later date.
Hey Lori: I'd like to ask a coloring question here. (I don't have facebook, so I can't ask on there.) I'm looking for a paper that will actually go through my printer and will at least function better than cheap 20lb standard printer paper for coloring with pencils. It's gotta be a cheaper paper that is less than 46.6 lb paper. Also I'm hoping for something less than $25 for a package of at least 250 sheets. I was thinking that a 32 lb paper would for sure go through my printer, but the trouble is I have No idea what I'm trying to even look for at all. I've been all over Amazon, but I just don't understand what to look for or even how to phrase a search. To give you some idea of what I'm after: I have been coloring for a little while--long enough to want to step up the paper a bit, but I can't do that 67 lb paper that people say to get because that won't go through my printer. I just want a paper for practicing with Scholar pencils or SJ golds hobby type pencils. It doesn't have to be fancy. Also, I'm sharing with a absolute beginner colorist. she just scrubs the color into an area and feels thrilled about her work when it's done 15 minutes later. Then a month later, she takes that very picture off the wall to clean cat vomit. So, I'm not gonna buy an expensive paper. I hope I can get either you or another colorist to give me some idea of what I'm looking for here. Or a recommendation of what to try for a pack of 32 lb printer paper.
I have to wonder if your husband ordered it before he passed with directions for it to be delivered at the holidays because he knew how hard the holidays would be this year. If you normally wear a 7 he might not have realized it would be too small. It’s definitely very strange. Given his pet name for you on the engraving think he ordered it before he passed. I don’t know how he passed but if there were things happening that affected his mind he may have done something he wouldn’t have ever done before. Or maybe he’s sending you a message that there is an afterlife and he is still with you in spirit, IDK, definitely mysterious!!
I believe in the paranormal, but this doesn't seem like that. I think it might be a misguided gift from someone who cares, or, as Laureen Davis said in a previous comment, it's a ethically-dubious company preying on vulnerable people. But please do look after yourself, Lori, sleep disturbances happen often to the stressed and grieving. There might be a specialist counsellor in your area who could help. I hope your father recovers and comes home soon. 💞
You've told the story of your nicknames some time ago. I didn't remember the names specifically, but I know you put it out on your channel. Maybe when clearing out a house, from your husbands brother? Sorry, I can't be more specific, it's been a long time. You are correct, this is not from your husband. ghosts don't make online transactions. From my world view, this isn't someone who doesn't know better. This is a stalker. He has watched your videos for years, and fallen 'in love' with you, It's been 6 months, you say, and I'm sure he felt that was long enough. He wan'ts to be in your dreams, because you are in his. He want's to be just like your husband, you loved your husband, and now it's his turn xox. Please, do not wear that ring. Even just the small amount of time you wore it in this video, is validation to him. You wore HIS ring! You are agreeing you will have dreams about him. (or nightmares, but whats in a name.) He didn't put your last name, because that's not who you are, anymore. You are his. And in his mind, he is calling you Lori HisName. Be cautious because this will escalate. Stalkers don't understand rejection. Good luck.
You could ask the police to look into it for safety's sake! Plus to have it documented in case it happens again. That's what I would do. For three years after my Step-dad passed away, flowers on my mom's birthday in June and a week before Christmas, a big beautiful poinsettia would arrive for her. With a card in his handwriting saying, " I will love you forever " But he had a terminal illness and had time to make those arrangements I'm sorry if that strange gift upset you. 🫂💕
I’ve bought engraved jewelry off Amazon and it came drop shipped like that. The inside could be shortened (4/For, Lor/Lori, & XOX/XOXO) to fit the character limit of the ring. I think if someone knew your husband’s name for you then they probably also knew neither of you wore jewelry, so it leans me towards someone thought this would be a nice token/momento in your grief over the holidays. However, I think it is crossing a line to send a wedding band (that’s extremely personal/intimate), and to write an engraving as if it came from a deceased loved (instead of a generic grief/sympathy card kind of phrase like “Love lasts forever”). “Memorial jewelry” gifts are very personal, they should have asked for consent before purchasing it.
I’m going to hope it’s someone who meant well but who just doesn’t get it because they haven’t lived through the death of a spouse. I hope they have the courage to reach out to you and explain and apologize.
Dear Lori, I'm sorry you are dealing with all these things. I've lost many loved ones. I have had sleep paralysis and its terrifying. I'm glad you are taking this ring thing as "there are good people in this world". The gift would bother me. I would throw it away. But that's me. Please know that I am praying for you during this time. if you don't believe in prayer, think of it as positive thoughts being sent your way.
my guess it couldve probably most likely be a new fan that most likely binge watch or watched most of your videos and probably was assuming to give a nice gesture to remember your husband. hope you find peace and still streghten yourself from the loss of you loved ones. we all be here
I cannot imagine someone doing this maliciously. Some people, myself included, have a lot of difficulty with what’s proper and what’s not at times when facing some situations (like when a person we care for is sad or hurt) and may have meant very well by sending something that would have been comforting to them. I hope the person who sent this reaches out to you and explains his/her thoughts behind the gift. That being said, I was great to hear your voice again, Lori. I hope 2023 is much easier on you and yours than 2022 was and I pray your father gets well soon. ❤
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There is something called "brushing" which sellers attempt to get a flood of positive reviews for a product. They find the address for someone out of various means and they have people that work for them that use the recipients name (don't worry, they don't have any of your financial info or the like) and they review the "item" that they are gathering the reviews for. They have to send something to you in order for the received info to be valid on the review (like you'll see a note on Amazon saying verified) I've received brushings twice in the past and in one I did receive a ring. While I'm a huge believer in the paranormal, I think this might be one extremely coincidental brushing that I wouldn't blame you the way it has you feeling unnerved and left with a lot of questions. I'd feel exactly the same way.
Oh, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have never yet had to deal with a first holiday like that but I can understand how hard it must be. Please accept every heartfelt condolence I can give you.
Unless someone comes forward I think it's creepy
My feeling is that the person who sent it didn't want to impersonate or think of it being from your husband. I think that it is a symbol and the person trying to send you comforting words in the form of a ring to reinforce that Howie is still with you and that you might see him in your dreams. I have had dreams of my mother and. have had conversations with her in my dreams. I think that many people dream about their deceased loved ones. My mind did not even go to what you suggested. If someone has viewed your video, they are probably feeling embarrassed so they won't identify themselves. In my mind, they purposely remained anonymous and wanted to send you something to comfort you and that you could hold onto. I think it is from one of your CZcams fans.
I sent you a text. Years ago, I had just moved into an apartment with my son who was 5. It got cold and I had no money to buy heating fuel. I didn't have a car and walked 5 miles to work and home everyday. One day I found a Christmas card on my door with a receipt for heating fuel. Someone had bought me heating fuel and the note only said, Santa. My family didn't do it and no one ever owned up to it. I still don't know.
This would creep me out. I have no words....no words.
I think it’s really creepy and would definitely get rid of it. No one should send you something like that. I lost my husband 4 years ago and no one sent me anything personal like that. Also say a prayer over yourself and home after getting rid of that because people do put curses on things. Again I am so sorry for your loss
Yes, things can carry a curse. Have it and your home and yourself blessed, even the packaging. Demons know everything. I am sorry you have to go through this on top of everything else. For your peace of mind, I hope and pray that the person who sent this --who hopefully meant well-- lets you know why they sent this.
I agree. I mean, sending a gift is nice. But... sending something like this is just creepy.
Can you imagine if some other colorist youtuber put a hex on it?
@@alexg4936 Some people who are youtubers are into that and don't like Christians or Jews. Don't know anyone specific, but have seen comments not about Lori, but about Christians and Jews. All of us who care about Lori (and it's a lot of people) need to pray that she stays safe if this thing has been hexxed. I would get rid of it and have everything and everyone in the house blessed.
Hi,
I don’t comment often, but that’s creepy to the point of feeling malicious. I’d be reaching out to the company, even if they won’t share sender info they should tell you if it was sent by an individual as a gift or as a corporate review item given you youtube platform.
As I say I don’t want to be scary, but that is concerning I’d want the company to be explaining how they got your address.
Hope things move in a more positive direction for the rest of the year ❤️
We tried twice and got no response.
How weird and how weird of someone to think that was ok to do. So sorry this happened to you!
Lori, I am so sorry that this has caused you such upset. I have no idea what this is meant to be. Sending warm thoughts your way for you, your dad and of course your girls.
The mystery has been solved. It was done with Malice. Video to come.
I'm sorry to hear that Lori. I was hoping it was just a mistake in judgement.
I'm so sorry you and your family lost someone so dear to them!
The whole thing creeps me out. Toss it and say prayers for yourself, your family and your house. That's my opinion for what it's worth
Painful and Creepy. I do believe in paranormal but not this way. During 2008 crisis I lost my home. In fact it was home I grew up in. My Mom died in October 2008 to boot. In October 2010 I moved into my new home from renting apartments. In fact i moved in exactly on my Mothers 2 year loss anniversary. As I was unpacking things I was literally wondering if both my parents would forgive me for losing the house. Virginia was where I lived. October was cold and wet. I was miserable from moving so was in pain. I started unpacking stuff they belonged to my Mom and Dad. First weird thing happened was 2 Cardinals one male and one female landed on the window right in front of me. I thought wow rare. Cardinals were my Dads favorite bird. Seeing them in cold October was rare but possible. The second thing was opening the box containing my bedding. One thing of which was a quilt and pillow I helped my Grandma make as a child and my Mom inherited when Grandma passed. Moths and butterflies look alike. But Monarch Butterflies are not moths and rarely appear in VA past summer. We were in mid fall. Two Monarch butterflies flew out of the vacuum sealed bag the quilt was in when i opened the bag. I know they were Monarchs cause they were mine and my Moms favorites. They flew out of the bag that quilt was in. That quilt had been packed up for more than 5 years. We packed it away when Mom switched to a hospital bed. It was in a vauum sealed bag. How in the hell did 2 butterflies get in there let alone survive for 5 years? I was not the only one who saw them. My Son in law, daughter and brother saw them. In fact they were like where the hell did they come from. They flew out the front door we had open to move stuff in the house. Most bizarre thing ever. My Mother did not keep or raise live butterflies. How they got in there I dont know and frankly dont care. I took the birds and butterflies as a sign my parents were happy and ok with losing the house and just getting on with life.
Other weird thing was spring after my Mom passed and this is not paranormal just some what sadly funny. I bought my Mom a Mothers ring. It had 10 stones 4 for me and my siblings and 6 for each of the grand kids. It cost me $5 k cause I had it made with real gems not the commercial ones. Mom loved that ring wore it and her wedding band always. Like she got the quilt i got the ring back when she passed. I grieved hard over losing both my parents. Anyway my sisters and I took a day trip to Jamestown and Williamsburg and the pottery in Williamsburg, VA. We took the Ferry. Well while on the ferry we were throwing bread crumbs to sea gulls following it. Its a thing OK . While throwing bread crumbs the ring, which was kind of loose on my finger, flew off and I watched a seagull catch and eat it. (I hope the seagull survived that ring. Thats why I consider this sadly funny. I worried about that bird.) But I saw it and I burst out laughing. It was like the worst of my grief evaporated. My sisters were horrified for me cause they knew my Mom and I loved that ring. I laughed so hard i started to cry. But they were happy tears. Now if that ring comes back to me then it will be insane. But seeing that bird eat the ring was something that my Mom would appreciate the hilarity of.
😳 Is all I can put into words. HUGS
My son has sleep paralysis. But it's a lot more scary. It's a old woman holding him down. Prayers girl.
So sorry Miss Lori. What an odd thing to get. Sleep paralysis, MS is like that only without ever being asleep, so I know how scary that is. And I've had things sent to me just like this,. I'd make a video asking who did it and thank them, after I made a video demanding an answer, then the troll made a video mocking me about wanting to know who was sending these things. So I quit acknowledging anything in my videos and they got pizzed. I finally got rid of the troll, thank God.
Hi Lori,
Last week I received a ring, from someone I don't know. Well not sure if I know them. I don't know who sent it! And, it too is a wedding engagement ring. No one has spoken up. Also, the ring is small, size 6. I wish I knew why it was sent to me..
Lori I truly am sorry for your loss. I too lost my husband 15 years ago. I wish you happiness in your new life..
They may have meant well but it was too personal! You touch the lives of so many and are loved by all ! If it upsets you, discard it and allow it no more of your energy. Sending you blessings for you and your family.
It’s possible someone thought it was a kind gesture on behalf of your husband, meaning someone out there cares about you (which you already know is true), but doesn’t know you too well.
For sleep paralysis, I highly recommend you read the book They Only Come Out At Night by Vicki Joy Anderson. It’s a must read for anyone who is new to sleep paralysis or wants to understand it and get rid of it.
I have had it around 3 times in my life. The last time was 2 days before the package arrived. It was also the first time I had nobody sleeping with me that I could move over and spoon with. I nearly ended up sleeping on the floor in my Daughter's room but didn't want to seem silly. It's very scary. I was able to feel the bed move as if there was someone there and I couldn't shake myself out of it. Then I get a ring saying "see you in your dreams". It was like Nightmare on Elm St. I really thought Freddy was out to get me.
@@ColorMyWorld Ive seen two different Entities, when I was between 10 and 11 yrs old, at the Apt. that I grew up in. They were attracted to my mother, as she could see these things all the time. What I did, for the first time in my life... was to close my eyes, and pray. I asked G0d for Strength and Protection. After that, Ive never had such an experience, in all of my 49 yrs. Here are some things beyond that.. that you should know:
1) Ghost / Lost Souls... have no real power on this Physical plane of Existence... with an EXCEPTION ...if they take it from you / use you as a gateway.
2) In order for a person to see/feel these entities... you have to "Tune" into them. Its like tuning into a different radio station. While we are on 98.9.. they may be on 109.6. In essence, you have to both tune into their Plane, and to AMPLIFY their signal. You thus, act as an Amplifier and Bridge.
3) Most people do not experience these things, until they get Scared. As such, most people often only ever experience these things in the quiet darkness... often all alone. You see, its Fear that breaks down even the strongest of Skeptics beliefs (beliefs, that such things do not exist). Once fear has entered a person... they start to "LISTEN" with far more Intensity. They also start to seek to hear / experience something.. as they are now actively focusing on such potentials. For example... you hear a noise.. and are spooked. You think: maybe thats a Ghost... and in doing so... now you are constantly thinking about Ghosts, and listening intently, for more "Activity". Basically, you have taken your "Antenna" out of the closet... dusted it off... and hoisted it to the Roof, for best Reception.
4) Good souls, tend to leave this plane, and move on to the next Re-Incarnation. However, some tormented "Lost Souls" often stay behind. They are often stuck in a sort of perpetual dreamlike state. They carry their former torments into their Afterlife existence such as constant feelings of Anger, Depression, Rage, Jealousy.. and more. As such, they are often ATTRACTED to a person whom has Negative feelings within them. They typically HATE a soul that is full of Love, and Happiness... because it goes against how they feel.
5) Every Drop of Fear that you give them... adds to their power over, and around you. Most especially, if you BELIEVE that they are gaining power and control over you. They again.. have ZERO power in this plane. They can only get power, via You, and your fears + beliefs. Things tend to start off small.. such as a noise, a feeling of dread... maybe a shadow out of the corner of your eye. Over time, this can escalate to knocking on the walls, sulfur smells, shadow figures, and potentially objects moving. in the worst cases, they can effect the host physically, and or mentally. They can implant feelings, voices, and even images, directly into your mind. This is why many Exorcists, have seen things like a Hosts head spinning a full 360 degrees. Its not physically possible.. but its a very convincing Illusion, that such a being can project into your minds eye... which over-rides your normal visual center.
As such... You need to learn that You have the power here... and to stop Feeding them Fear. I do suggest asking a higher power, for Inner strength, and Protection (Ask, and it shall be Given unto you). Beyond that, you just have to realize that your beliefs are key to shutting things down... and preventing things from getting much worse.
During these times, stay away from heavy medications, sleep aids, drugs, alcohol. Anything that lowers / messes with your Consciousness. As that is a perfect time for them to try to push their way into a possession. That said... most possessions, only can take place, when the Host feels completely Defeated. When the host believes they no longer have control.. that the being has bested them... then thats exactly what ends up happening. Its an indirect form of Permission. Its made all the easier, when the Host is partially or fully Unconscious.
Try to do things that make you feel happy, and loving. Try to let go of any negative feelings / emotions. Learn to take control over your emotions, and to calm yourself with some deep breathing, and reassurance. And potentially, some Prayer, if you can have some faith.
Similarly, "Witches" are also not able to effect anyone, that has faith / belief, that they are not capable of doing so. In fact, the Cultists tend to tech these Systems of Belief to their Followers, and can and often Do, Use these inserted beliefs... against them. Nothing negative, can effect you.. if you do not believe it possible. The Creator made these systems of Protection, into the System. Though, he left the ability for certain rules to be bent / broken... based on your own beliefs / actions.
Now... If you can not find the Inner Strength to be able to rid yourself of these experiences... then it might then be time to ask a medium / priest, to try to Bless you, and the house. However, this doesnt mean that either would work, permanently, if at all. Again, it comes down to your beliefs... and what you may be choosing to keep focusing on.. amplifying it into your daily reality.
Hope this helps.
Best Regards
I would have Lori do a blessing or salt cleaning around her home . Who knows what negative energy was brought in before his passing.
@@johndough8115 No! Not a medium!!! Only a Rabbi or Priest. Never a medium.
Woah, sorry you had this extra stress put on you. Maybe someone was trying to be kind, but I think I would sell it for the gold, so it would get melted down.
I have had sleep paralysis occasionally my whole life, when I'm stressed, for me it feels like I'm falling, but I can't move. When you know what is happening it gets less scary.
OMGOODNESS … so know this feeling of being watched and hearing a wrap on my bedroom door! My husband has passed 12 years ago. Receiving something like this would send me over the deep end! How this is a disrespectful gift.
Keep breathing softly tender heart.
Welcome back miss u God bless
I honestly don't know what to think. But I do think it was a typo. The fact that they also put XOX instead of XOXO makes me think the Lor was a typo too? I think someone wanted to do something nice, people that believe in and find comfort in paranormal stuff, I have noticed, assume it will do the same for everyone. When it doesn't. Everyone has their own beliefs on the afterlife and good intentions or not, the death of one's husband is an extremely personal event that outsiders should not put their input into. But. That is just my opinion.
That's strange to say the least. I hope it was someone who meant well. If it makes you uncomfortable just toss it. And then sage the house.
Hi Lori. Sorry to the late to this particular party (damn you, youtube algorithm!). With you in your dreams is a late 90's song about grieving and loss I had never heard of until just now googling it. I suspect this was a poorly timed (and perhaps not wise) gift from someone out there who you have touched deeply. That you have had sleep paralysis and that there was weird shortening is probably not meant as a threat, I hope. Many of us stopped in our tracks and felt so much for you, I can imagine someone wanted to reach out to provide solace. My hope is that is all it means. It's a funny interconnected world these days that make one feel like we know people we have never and will never meet. Buy some pepper spray just in case, and keep being the beautiful person you are!
I agree. It's just a really weird combination of things that just happened at the same time. I am certain the person did not mean disrespect. They thought they were being kind. As for my safety, I am not afraid. We have more than pepper spray in the house and my Son-in-law to be is an Army Vet.
Certain? Does that mean you know who it is? Will you reveal it to us or will you call the person out on it? So many are curious 👀
I've always had sleeping issues, and experience sleep paralysis quite a lot. If you can recognize when it's happening I would suggest keeping your eyes shut and tell yourself you're in sleep paralysis so your brain registers the fact that your body is still alseep and then you can focus on trying to wiggle your fingers or your toes because once your brain knows your body is asleep you can wake your body up. As soon as you can move a finger or your toes you'll be out of sleep paralysis and can get up for a drink or the bathroom. Honestly just do something to really wake your body up, even if it's putting on a movie or just sitting up in bed for a minute, just something, and then you can go back to sleep and should be fine for the rest of the night. I really hope your sleep gets better for you, and I'm sorry you're going through so much right now along with getting something like this in the mail. I hope whoever sent it really did just think they were doing something good and didn't do it as some cruel prank..
The sleep paralysis I've had feels like something holding me down.
I'd get that ring out of my house. That seems like a item of witchcraft that may have caused the speep paralysis. I will be praying for you Ms Lori. God bless you and your family. May the peace of God rule in your heart.
That's strange! I wonder if there was supposed to be an enclosed message card or something? I've sent Amazon packages that were supposed to include them, but they weren't.
Many years ago, while going to college at night and working full time, I was worried about tuition. Out of the clear blue sky, I receive an envelope in the mail filled with cash. Nobody in my family sent it, so I was at a loss to explain it. To this day, I never found out who the kind-hearted person was. Or perhaps it was a guardian Angel.
I'm sorry, Lori. It doesn't sound like something someone close to you would do, since they would know the other things, too, and how you'd feel about it. If it happened to me, I'd throw it away since I'd be uncomfortable with it and hope the person was trying to be kind, then try to forget about it. 💓
Oh my dear sweet friend, this definitely falls on the side of creepy or worse. I would lock it away somewhere for a short time....and if you don't hear from the sender; I would get rid of it (possibly even destroy it). I've been widowed and my current husband has been told by his Dr that his life is day to day. You have plenty of other things to be concerned about, your father and your beautiful girls. I wouldn't add this to the mix. Your life is in a state of flux.....trying to settle into this new "season " of your life. Streamline everything as much as possible until you begin to settle into this new way of life. Praying for you and all of your loved ones. May G....gently warm you with love and confidence. Audrey W., PhD, Osb.
I find it hard to believe that this was a "reaching out from beyond" gift. Those will normally go overlooked and be just casual or feel natural. This doesn't seem super malicious either, more along the lines of someone who doesn't understand how boundaries work or tact for that matter. If it was someone close they would most likely understand your feelings towards jewelry... hopefully this mystery will come to a conclusion and you will find out what happened. A personal engraving like that should be able to pull up some sort of purchasing records but not sure how much information the company can or will share with you. Personally I wouldn't feel comfortable holding on to something like that until I got an answer to the mystery myself though. Keep us posted on any new findings please.
Hey Lori, definatley a little strange and not something I would want either but hope someone was trying to be kind. Hugs from 🇨🇦🫶🏻
I had sleep paralysis when newly pregnant but heard my favorite loyal cat growing felt some thing walk around the bed and shaking me to get up to go to work. Scary or could have been me doing it being so tired after sending hubby to work I went back to sleep. When I finally woke up to old house phone call from husband telling me get up before I am late to work. I told him but all I thought of was my scary creepy Grandfather or it was his energy.
I think it’s odd because of the mystery behind it right? So the person who sent it should reach out to you & explain their actions. I think if I were you, I’d put it away out of sight for a while & pray/meditate about it. I noticed you said you were drawn to it? That’s interesting to me as a sensitive person (not claiming to be a medium or anything like that) I’m only sensitive to energy & I’m wondering if you might be the same way? Maybe the persons intentions were good & that’s why you’re drawn to it? Personally I don’t feel any negative energy associated with it but depending on your beliefs, you could seek out someone who can do psychometry & they might be able to pick up on more info by actually holding it. Either way I wish you peace & comfort. I hope your dad continues to heal & makes a full recovery! I’ve had sleep paralysis too after my mom passed suddenly in 2010 & it is really scary. I use a app called relax Melodies to help calm my mind & it hasn’t happened since! Can’t recommend that app enough! Sending you much love & light!! ❤🕯️✨
Gosh, Lori. Sorry this happened. It is unnerving. Throw it into the fires of Mordor!
Wow that is strange, I’d certainly be freaked out about it and annoyed. I can’t get my head round the thought that someone would think at a time of Christmas and especially ya 1st one without your beautiful husband, why would anyone think that would comfort you, in any kind of way, distress and upset you, as it would obviously make you think of him more. As for a company sending it you to review again that’s weird as surly I could understand if you had something similar in a basket or you was watching a particular item or had liked it, as I’ve had ppl from companies reach out to me, saying if I buy the item and leave 5* review they’d refund my money. I’d have reached out by doing a video like you have and hopefully you’ve had new of who sent it - some ppl just don’t things through prob did it in your best interest at heart - but I think it’s not a nice thing for you to have received. I also don’t think ya close members of ya family (children) would have appreciated it either. I’d put it outa sight n outa mind hun, ya don’t want to be thinking about it hun, you’ve enough on your plate. I do hope whoever sent it sends you a message to give you piece of mind. Wishing you and your family all the best for 2023 xx cheers Ness
Not sure what I think.....if it was meant as a sign from your husband it would've been something you knew without a doubt it was him....something he enjoyed or something you'd think of him when you saw it ( butterfies for my mom....deer for my husband) .Its weird how it just showed up anyway.
I think someone was just trying to do something nice and comfort you in your grief. I'm sure they feel incredibly embarrassed now
I think they were trying to be nice and it would have worked had they sent a card.
We have a river nearby . It would be thrown in there . I guess you could throw it in Lake Mead ! I think it's super weird.
Maybe the ring is supposed to be worn on a chain. Pray on it, maybe GOD arranged this for your comfort and healing of the sorrow you are feeling from the loss of your husband.
Hi Lori. I'm going to wait to comment on this matter. I feel it's worth giving some thought first and seek some guidance.
If the ring bothers you throw it away. I have had the sleep paralysis thing a few times, mostly when under stress. I bet it won't last long.
I think it was someone trying to be kind but with an odd idea of what a gift should be. Also Amazon drop ships stuff like that and doesn’t add the note that maybe the sender sent you.
I too have suffered with sleep paralysis and it is creepy!!!!! Mine is caused when I’m overly stressed about life. I have heard don’t sleep in complete darkness and don’t sleep with your head extra elevated to help avoid it. Not sure any of that actually helps 😉
night terrors (the paralysis was a shocker!!) have an insidious (toxic) component....had a few in college and honestly the memory is as vivid now, if ii let it, as it was in 1974. Ntl...we are more vulnerable to such soul attacks under duress...so sorry you had that, and ii've learned some things _like prayer for one_ that set the tone inward out like a boundary those entities cannot breach. sometimes there can be people whose intent appears benign but ... their hidden intent (to themselves even) can present as a curse rather than a blessing... there appears to be a lot of trolls online (including more AI trackers) who ii'm certain are as abusive in their lives as they are online...whipped cream over cow patties so to speak. A poster suggested brushing...new word for me (like doxing), and any amount of speculation may be part of their agenda for attention. On the other hand, ii don't sense it was a mistake in spelling or a call to review an item out of the blue. if one of yr friends sent it knowing yr inside joke, maybe it is a bit over the top and they may come forward and out themself. either way, trust yr gut about what you do or don't do with it. So glad yr in comm. been playing around with starjoy pencils and miss yr tutorials. Hugs and prayers for yr dad.
well. that wasn't me!! I'm still shopping for a jewelry engraver. Where have you been? Missed you
I suspect it was a very small person :) I'll call you this week. I got the Cricket maker 3.
@@ColorMyWorld well hope for the best that it wasn't done with bad intentions.
Ooh, you've become a Cricuiter
@@HeavenLeeMadeOnEtsy Yes and no. Yes I own this machine, no I don't have a clue how to use it LOL. If you can use the all powerful engraver then I can use a cricket. We hope.
No one can, or should, claim to walk in your shoes at this time in your life...we all grieve differently. However, being a very positive person myself I would accept it as a gift. It does not feel malicious to me... may be a bit "odd" since there was no sender's name attached to it...but I think someone might have just been trying to remind you that your hubby will ALWAYS be with you. The way you speak of him we all can hear how much you miss him. The wedding band is just a universal symbol of love between two souls. The words/inscription...I think they are words of endearment. I tell my grandsons that I will see them in my dreams all the time...because I miss them when I am unable to be with them. Throughout history, there have been songs and poems written about "seeing you in my dreams". It's a romantic term because our dreams consist of our deepest hopes and wishes...maybe even a place where, in our minds, we can connect with our loved ones on the other side. We are all different in how we show our love and support but I think this person was trying to do a nice thing for you...and if they weren't, well, there is a place for that kind of person and he/she will have to face THAT when their time comes. So be positive, be strong and regardless of what the message was meant to be, make it your own! Make it what YOU need/want it to be 🙂 and continue to heal your heart rather than allowing this to cause you added stress.
Wow!
Prayers! For your Dad, your family, and your safety. I tend to give the benefit of the doubt, but this gives me the shivers. I would remove it, bless the home and your girls & self after touching/wearing. Lord knows what the intent was, but why not identify themselves?
When will you be ready with your next video?
Hi Lori,
Hope things are going better for you. Have a favor to ask but put it off a while after seeing this last post. Hope you saw my well wish from earlier. I ordered the star Joy gold edition 120 pencil set. I got 2 of the 70mp vintage vermillion. Could you please see if you could get this sent the missing 56j carrot orange? I didn't know any other way to contact you other than this.I emailed my request to the address on the package but got no response.
I agree that is a very strange gift. Even if you wanted to be nice why a wedding ring. That’s weird.
Watch the update video. It's the one before my last video. You will find out who sent it. Pretty sick person.
@@ColorMyWorld ooh how did I miss it? Watching it now!
Someone could have meant well like people that say the completely wrong thing to the family instead of saying nothing at all. It could have a simple intent such as giving you an item to touch to remind you that your husband will always be with you. It is unlikely the sender has ill intent.
Very creepy! I would throw it out!
I want to but I am strangely drawn to it as if it's not the time to do it.
I’m going with creepy. Hopefully someone had good intentions, but how did they get your address?
I really don’t know what to think about this. It’s just weird.
Just watching the video and listening to you explain it gave me the creeps even before you said it was engraved. I think I'd put it in a box by itself and a good bit of cedar and white sage. Give it a while since you've done this video now. To see if anyone owns it. If no one comes forward, then put it to your husband, ask him if it was something he did. It seriously sounds like it would not be... but ask. And ask him to make sure somehow that you know it was really him. If no one comes forward and you don't feel as though your husband was telling it was him. Take the box don't, open it or fuss with it, and put it out in the trash. Once it's out of your house sage yourself and your house. Just to be safe.
I don't understand people at all.
I am sorry you have had to deal with that at an already stress stressful time. Sending healing loving light your way along with warm comforting hugs.
My Daughter who is very spiritual saged. In fact I didn't even ask her to do it. I just smelled it and she was doing it. I never did find out anything. I am hoping it's the last of the situation and the person just slinked away. While I appreciate the possible sentiment behind the gift, it was not really appreciated in the way they wanted it to be. In other words.. you get my drift :)
I see this as intrusive and way over the line. I recommend that you keep the ring and all packaging, along with notes about the date you received it, about any investigation you do, like contacting the company, the dates, and any responses, etc. In case you receive more from this person, you are building a case for harassment.
Just speak in prayer secretly to husband and say if you are spiritually communicating with me give me a true forgotten memory dream not of fear . Say your protection blessings religious or not it helps we all have guardians. . I can’t say if it’s paranormal use your intuition. Best of luck may you have peaceful days and nights ahead.
Hi Lori, I have looked at this both ways and although to me it may have been done as a comforting gesture, it seems a little spooky to me. If you know the person you're sending this to, you acknowledge yourself. Don't send a clandestine package. My Native American blood says get rid of it and burn some sage.
Sounds stalkerish....
LOL, Yep that word has crossed my mind.
exactly what I said.
That’s just weird whatever the intentions it’s weird. If it was me I’d stick it back in the bag and send it back.
Definitely looks like it must of been dropshiped from China. I sent you a message about what I think.
Personally, I think that it was sent with good intentions to try and comfort you. Just my opinion.
This ring is too personal, if it was someone that truly knew you, they’d know firstly you don’t wear jewellery, secondly, they’d of contacted you, even put a gift card in the package, sadly, I think this is stepping over the line, whether someone had good intentions or not, it’s completely out of order and definitely disrespectful. May not have had bad intentions, but they did not take time to think this would appear as more a negative than a positive. I’d get rid of it, you don’t need a weird trinket to remember your lost and loved husband, you have wonderful memories, you have your family, especially your children that will always have sweet memories to share with you. A ring from a stranger will never be comforting.
I really believe this came from your husband…..🤗❤️🤗.
They never got jewelry for each other.
If her husband had the ability to send her a ring posthumously, why would he send her the wrong size?
She said she can't wear rings. Maybe this was meant to be smaller and worn on a necklace
I believe this to be highly inappropriate. I would be pissed and disgusted. Honestly, I was going to write you some smart-alecky comment before in joking, and I found myself deleting it, as soon as I typed it out. Because I felt it was... You know how they say there's a time for everything? Well, I felt it was definitely NOT the time for what I was going to be joking about. Even though in my heart, I wanted you to be happy. So, I left it alone, because everyone needs to be able to grieve in their own way.
I just went through this last month. Our cat of 6 years, passed away at the age of 12. He was a very loving cat, that made sure he always said good morning, and let you know if you didn't. It was very hard on me and the family. But, everyone had to grieve in their "own" way.
Now, I don't even recall what the smart-aleck comment was, but I'm glad that I refrained. Because, it could have been more hurtful to you, than what was intended.
However, with you posting this, hopefully, the person will reach out and clear up the issue.
I would have put it back in the envelope, and put "RETURN TO SENDER".
I think it’s very odd. I think if no one comes forward soon after you post this then I’d have your kids destroy it and get rid of it.
Lots of Hawaiians move there
I had a subscriber send me a couple things that freaked me out, I didn’t find out for over a week & was totally freaking out that I had offended someone! I was sent a colouring book & a mug from Amazon, the colouring book was one of those creepy cute/creepy Kawaii books but it crossed the line in my opinion as it’s a flipping satanic book!!! Filled with devils, those evil goat horns & pentagrams, the mug had a unicorn & said, “she is beauty she is grace, she will STAB YOU IN THE FACE!!!” 😭😭😭 I was so freaked out 😭 it was addressed to Eddie Blue so I knew it was a subscriber. It took over a week to find out who sent it, I ended up being able to contact the person, apparently she thought the items were cute & had bought them for herself too 😳 I felt bad & kind of still do cuz I don’t want to be ungrateful.. but I really didn’t want those items in my home. My mom took the mug to the thrift store & I plan to send the book to a friend who is an atheist. I’m not even sure a Wiccan would want the book as the pentagrams are all upside down.. anyway point being I don’t think it was sent in malice, however it was very unsettling so I can definitely imagine how you feel! I’m so sorry you got freaked out, I have a feeling it’s the same type of situation, they probably meant it as a nice gift just weren’t thinking properly. Anyway sorry for the novel, I subscribed to you Last January when I started colouring & can’t tell you how much I enjoy your videos. I actually check your home page every few days hoping to hear from you 😅 I even enjoy just listening to you talk while I tidy the house & I cried for you/with you when your husband passed away.. I myself have had 2 out of body experiences where I was in the tunnel going towards the light with everyone in the room underneath me, it’s like the ceilings & walls disappear & you can see every room & all the people in the building your body is in. Those experiences taught me that we do continue on & I have to remind myself of this on tough days… he is definitely looking down on you & I mean that for real, not just sentimentally. Anyway sorry for the novel, I hope you see this. Wishing you health, healing & a wonderfully magical 2023 💞🕊️❤️🩹🎨🦋💘🍭
P.S I got my star joy golds for Christmas from my dad & I am in LOVE!!! I swatched about 20 on the included swatch chart when I first received them & to be honest I didn’t think they were for me, idkw I didn’t think to try them on better paper! I just finally pulled them out yesterday & tried them on the neenah Bristol vellum paper & OMG girl the layering/blending is amazing!!! Even as an amateur I was able to create SO many new colours by layering & I honestly think they blend beautifully even with burnishing! Ok I’m really done now 🙈 I just had to say it 😋💜
There is no hard and fast way in a single comment on how to resolve the paranormal issue. 2hrs is not good if its really a paranormal entity pressing down and holding you in your bed, they are feeding off on your energy leaving you fatigued and negativity increases too. What you can do for a start is to ask for blessings from the god of your religion and see what advice your religion can give.
If you are a Christian or Catholic, when it happens again repeat verses from the bible do it in your mind even if you cannot speak to drive them away asking for protection and to cast it out. Also you can place a bible on the bedside table and as well consider to wear a blessed wooden cross with string or beads instead of anything metal around the neck to sleep for protection. I do the same with my religion and scream vocally when I can as that alerts my mum to come running to wake me and chase the entities out. Being held down for 2hrs can be quite scary I understand and I know it well. I’m like a lighthouse in their dark world a natural magnet for these things even on good days, with good practices and protection so I feel you. Entities like to follow me uninvited so I avoid visiting cemeteries, funerals, homes for seniors, hospice, museums with war exhibits on display, prisons, hospitals, massacre sites whenever I can and decline to go if it’s on the itinerary.
One thing you can do immediately is to fill your home and self with positive good energy and drive out the excessive negative energy. Paranormal entities are attracted to negative energy, examples of such are like hiding in musty stale rooms, dark dank places etc. they especially like to prey on people who are depressed as their defences are weak and much lower. You can easily help yourself in this area to air out the rooms let in good light, do some house cleaning, exercise or simply take relaxing walks in the mornings get some sun and with each breath in think of it as letting in all the good energy fill you and each breath out sends all negative out. Avoid going to big celebrations like birthdays and weddings till your mourning period is over. Does not seem like much reads like science and doctor’s advice but know that having good energy is essential to fend of unwanted paranormal entities.
If none of your friends have sent you the ring and you want to keep it, get it blessed as a precaution. Else chuck it out or sell/donate it at some 2nd hand store. If your paranormal issues started from when it came into your possession, definitely chuck it out and far away.
Good luck and i hope everything will work itself out soon enough.
Where you reminiscing of you and your husband past with a group of people, friends, family? Or maybe someone from you and your husband past that may just found out of your husband's passing and showing they still remember of the friendship? Maybe you'll get a call after this video knowing you'd record something like this. What close friend haven't you seen for soooo long?
I have asked everyone in my personal life. Nobody has taken responsibilty. I think it's a kind act gone wrong.
I think it’s a miss take sounds like a Hawaiian name for a man or lady from Hawaii wedding
It's all wrong, in so many ways. I definitely wouldn't keep it. I'm sorry you were the recipient of someone's perverted sense of humour, or lack of appropriateness. Either way, it's unnerving. 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Dear Lori,
Thank you for Color My world. Your teaching and recommendations have given me much joy. As well as has you your self as the lovely person you are sharing about your self. I my self have been going thru some pretty serious bad times. So I understand. Regarding this odd package, have one of the kids take it along with any noted documentation you have made. Have them hide it away somewhere outside and not on any of your properties. I say this because I think it being gone and away will put you all more at ease. I also only say this as a way to combine 2 points that others made. 1 you get rid of it. 2 you can retrieve it should you ever need it for proof of harassment. Then let go and put no more energy or thoughts to this. Regardless of intent you need to care for yourself and time spent on this is wasteful in many ways. If you ever hear something or not it will be what is is and we can't change that. So again don't put any more time and thought to it!!!! Life at it's best is hard and that's part of it. Please don't worry about this. Regardless of its orgins and intent it really doesn't matter. It is what it is. I really don't believe that it is anything you have to worry about. Really I don't! Just let it go and turn it over to God since understandably you would initially be upsetting. I learned the hard way how damaging stress is to my body. -------You know 90% of the time we worry about things and they usually pan out all on there own.
Iam so sorry about the sleep paralyzes thing. I get all kinds of odd thing too. Stress dose terrible things to us. Please know how important it is and do all you can to minimize it. Being in nature has a calming affect. Don't be shy about seeking out some counciling if you need some help with stress management. There is noting wrong with you! You are just a human going thru a rough time. Sometimes some can just say the right thing and it clicks for you and makes things so much better. I sincerely hope I may have been of some help. Love and best wishes to you and your family. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. Your Dad especially as I know it weights on you. Lisa B
Any possibility it could be a gag gift from your husband purchased before his death? Could be someone you met while in the hospital with your husband. If not I'd call it creepy. And don't throw it away. Take the ring and all the packaging and put it in a zipped and dated plastic bag. If this is someone with less than innocent intentions you might need to produce items at a later date.
Hey Lori:
I'd like to ask a coloring question here. (I don't have facebook, so I can't ask on there.)
I'm looking for a paper that will actually go through my printer and will at least function better than cheap 20lb standard printer paper for coloring with pencils. It's gotta be a cheaper paper that is less than 46.6 lb paper. Also I'm hoping for something less than $25 for a package of at least 250 sheets.
I was thinking that a 32 lb paper would for sure go through my printer, but the trouble is I have No idea what I'm trying to even look for at all. I've been all over Amazon, but I just don't understand what to look for or even how to phrase a search.
To give you some idea of what I'm after:
I have been coloring for a little while--long enough to want to step up the paper a bit, but I can't do that 67 lb paper that people say to get because that won't go through my printer.
I just want a paper for practicing with Scholar pencils or SJ golds hobby type pencils. It doesn't have to be fancy.
Also, I'm sharing with a absolute beginner colorist. she just scrubs the color into an area and feels thrilled about her work when it's done 15 minutes later. Then a month later, she takes that very picture off the wall to clean cat vomit.
So, I'm not gonna buy an expensive paper.
I hope I can get either you or another colorist to give me some idea of what I'm looking for here. Or a recommendation of what to try for a pack of 32 lb printer paper.
I have to wonder if your husband ordered it before he passed with directions for it to be delivered at the holidays because he knew how hard the holidays would be this year. If you normally wear a 7 he might not have realized it would be too small. It’s definitely very strange. Given his pet name for you on the engraving think he ordered it before he passed. I don’t know how he passed but if there were things happening that affected his mind he may have done something he wouldn’t have ever done before. Or maybe he’s sending you a message that there is an afterlife and he is still with you in spirit, IDK, definitely mysterious!!
I believe in the paranormal, but this doesn't seem like that. I think it might be a misguided gift from someone who cares, or, as Laureen Davis said in a previous comment, it's a ethically-dubious company preying on vulnerable people. But please do look after yourself, Lori, sleep disturbances happen often to the stressed and grieving. There might be a specialist counsellor in your area who could help. I hope your father recovers and comes home soon. 💞
You've told the story of your nicknames some time ago. I didn't remember the names specifically, but I know you put it out on your channel. Maybe when clearing out a house, from your husbands brother? Sorry, I can't be more specific, it's been a long time.
You are correct, this is not from your husband. ghosts don't make online transactions.
From my world view, this isn't someone who doesn't know better. This is a stalker. He has watched your videos for years, and fallen 'in love' with you, It's been 6 months, you say, and I'm sure he felt that was long enough. He wan'ts to be in your dreams, because you are in his. He want's to be just like your husband, you loved your husband, and now it's his turn xox.
Please, do not wear that ring. Even just the small amount of time you wore it in this video, is validation to him. You wore HIS ring! You are agreeing you will have dreams about him. (or nightmares, but whats in a name.)
He didn't put your last name, because that's not who you are, anymore. You are his. And in his mind, he is calling you Lori HisName.
Be cautious because this will escalate. Stalkers don't understand rejection.
Good luck.
You could ask the police to look into it for safety's sake! Plus to have it documented in case it happens again. That's what I would do.
For three years after my Step-dad passed away, flowers on my mom's birthday in June and a week before Christmas, a big beautiful poinsettia would arrive for her. With a card in his handwriting saying, " I will love you forever " But he had a terminal illness and had time to make those arrangements
I'm sorry if that strange gift upset you. 🫂💕