My ex did both, the one punch ko I got hurt a lot more, as it was 8 yrs ago and still suffer pain in that area. The scene: it was late night after night out of drinking and a heated discussion started (forget what about), I left the room to get away from him towards the kitchen, he followed me continued the heat as I felt trapped and couldnt get away i banged the kettle on countertop (was gonna make a coffee, didnt know what to do in the moment) that was last thing I remember until I woke up and couldnt see outta my left eye, was badly swollen and deep gash on my eyebrow. Anyone who's been through this would NOT choose it! You can fix the emotional hurt by knowing he never cared, violence towards another is a whole another level of abuse. I would choose neither as it shouldn't even be an option! Been a long journey trying to heal and being aware of myself of what part I played in the whole relationship, I haven't gotten into any relationship since. The image is public on my fb page if anyone wants to see, might scroll abit been few months since I last posted it.
Sorry to hear that, i hope you are doing well on your new journey, taking time off from meeting people is a good thing, gives you time to think, focus on yourself, and improve. Though i've never been in a relationship, i hope my message was some good advice.🙏
Now every time someone watches one of their old videos, they will realize the whole "I love my wife" thing was just a front. He sh*t all over their brand lol
You think she wasn’t getting anything out of it too? They were caught in public. It would be different if he was hushing her and making her keep it on the dl. I know a lady who’s a “business owner” because she manipulated her ex husband into giving her parts of the company and then ruined the guys life by saying he cheated on her and his customers ended up pulling away and doing business with her. People might look innocent because of their status but it’s a two way street. The Asian lady cheated on her fiancé too. Publicly humiliated him by cheating. She’s just as bad as the guy.
@@Izetfazlinovucjelegenda I think you don't understand that him being her boss is a huge power imbalance. You're ignoring the actual fact about the situation and going off of an anecdote YOU know. Shut the hell up goofball.
@@IzetfazlinovucjelegendaAlso because he branded himself after being a family man and made money off of it he published books about marriage and even made products to sell with his wife he went against his brand that was family oriented and made money off of people without living by his own words
Being cheated on is a trauma that sticks with you for years after the fact. It affects your ability to trust in future relationships. If you stay and try to work it out with the cheater, the trust is never fully restored. Even years later, let them come home a little late or be hanging out with friends... the suspicion and mistrust is always beneath the surface. If you even remotely care about your partner, on just a human level, don't cheat. If you ghost them, it'll hurt. If you tell them you fell out of love and want to split, it'll hurt. But nothing hurts worse than the betrayal of your partner sharing their body with another person and the lies that come along with that. It's a truly despicable thing to do to someone, and is certainly no way to treat a person you claim to love.
I agree but I wonder if the sexes were reversed if a woman would lose her career position if she cheated on her husband, maybe? I don't see cases of women being dismissed by their jobs for cheating. If someone knows any example let me know.
Not only did dude monetize his family for content, him and his wife gave marriage seminars. They did seminars for how to have healthy relationships let that marinate....
If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏 But don't do what these guys did.
For those who might not understand why their fans are so shocked and appalled (I've been a long time try guys fan), is that ned has always been known as the "wife guy". That's literally his only personality, and that's what people have known him for. He was someone who clearly loves his wife and nearly mentions her in every single video they do. Not only that but this has taken off career wise, and he has gone through uni to conduct lectures about ethics of marriage, he has published books about healthy marriage, has set up social media showing off his wife and family and have gotten brand deals from that, and has also recently published a cook book with his wife. To have all of this come out is so so shocking and obviously left a bitter taste in everyone's mouth. And this is all being talked about in light of the recent celebrities who have been caught cheating on their partners so far in this year. So it's just an extremely sad situation that have resulted in a wife and a mother of two losing her husband who have profited from her, while he was screwing some other chick for years
@@sararistictodorovic2100 I actually didn’t know alllll of that. Like I didn’t realize just how thoroughly he included his wife into his whole work (i.e. the cookbook, the lectures at a uni, all the brand deals) so I really appreciated this comment. Maybe if you did know all of that, just don’t comment anything?? Instead of taking the time to write a snarky comment in response to a helpful one lol
I will continue to say it: " Why are people so surprised? It's always the "my-wife" guy!" People don't make their partner their whole personality/brand because they're healthy...
Exactly. But he NEVER seemed like a great guy. I remember hating him in buzzfeed videos and thinking the best TryGuys were the vids that didn't include him.
You really think that? REALISTICALLY speaking he cheated because he found the other woman more attractive or the situation thrilling instead of his dad and "I love my wife" life. The whole underserving of her love thing can happen, but most of the ppl cheat because they see the person as a better option than their current partner or need some or of thrilling moment.
This is actually a good example to use for an MBA level HR class. Not even kidding. Understanding all of the interlinking parts of a business and how acts like this can tarnish a business.
@@TCt83067695 no Ned wouldn’t. If anything the other guys have grounds to sue for lost income due to the damage to the brand overall. Alex the Employee might have a case for unlawful termination if they actually fired her but I would imagine they offered her a generous severance package to resign.
@@ranga1cat severance payment aka hush money is admissible in court too as evidence. As for Ned, they would have to prove the damages. These past few weeks have seen an increased awareness of their brand. Those videos are their most watched. They're even getting replays on some of their old videos. They're getting spoofed on snl broadcast to millions. The works. Basically, they have marketed this split in a way that maximizes value for their brand rather than damage it. Their brand valuation has increased esp since as a company, they no longer have to split things 4 ways. He just needs a good lawyer. My guy can sue them into oblivion. The money may then help him forget his betray of his wife and kids.
@@ranga1cat That is not at all how that works, you can't sue your business partner for bad publicity. The only way you can sue someone for brand damage is slander or libel.
"I appreciate yall watching. We not homies, we not friends" This is what the majority of fans need to understand😂 Just because you enjoy someones content doesnt mean you have a connection to that person.
@@misspapillon24 that IG model is really daft and doesn't want to take accountability. I don't mind THOTs that embrace their rachetiness, at least those are honest.
Exactly if he was gon slang D dude should’ve been more careful and cautious but it seems like he gave NO fuk’s *how tf are you going clubbing partying & making out tongue kissing the side chick…In public!??* what part of the game is that!??
@@chocolatte522 I remember watching a self improvement video where the guy says that co-workers in the corporate level are a no go for hooking up because if things go down south, you could possibly end up like Ned. No one will give a shit if you hook up with someone at your 9-5 10-17 dollar an hour wage job. But in a place where you have a salary, power dynamics get involved, it's easy to fuck it all up.
The Try Guys are a good example of guys who don't brush off behavior that is contrary to their values. We ask men to stand up to their friends when their friends lie and cheat, and here we see men doing just that. I hope more people will do this and not ignore bad behavior because acknowledging it and taking action may cost them.
We ask women to understand that women don't get to ask anything of "men" , not when men can't say anything about women without it being a feminist issue. Pretty sure y'all cheat more and are encouraged to cheat and have it hidden by your friends more than we do.
Meh. It’s cause they have a brand and bag to protect. Guarantee if this was found out internally(I.e no fan detectives on Reddit blasting their comments) it would be handled a lot softer.
@@gedoplanet Right, but she's also an employee. She can very easily state that Ned took advantage of his position as her boss in this situation. Also, Ned is the public figure here
@@JollyWanker weaponised autism. Sadly some inmocent people get doxxed easily when a group targets them. Sometimes people find out they're getting fired weeks ahead due to premature tweets or leaks.
I've heard a story of a band of special forces who found out all their wives were having affairs while they were deployed and they were bragging about it to each other. One of them who told the story said that he would've rather been shot. The difference between physical pain and emotional pain is that one is brief but the other can last for a long time and can even deteriorate your health.
This is why I have mad respect for you guys. We all know Preach has a wife and Aba is single. But Preach carries himself as a married man with how he talks and interacts with content, and Aba carries himself as single. But Aba isn't pushing Preach to say anything crazy and I can only speculate what both of you guys' personal lives looks like. You both set the boundary and keep it real. Both of your personal lives ain't our business and that's fine by me.
I feel so awful for ariel, her kids, and the womans fiance. Its awesome how the try guys r handling this. I hope other companies will take note. The fact that u can see the disappointment on their faces feels so refreshing cause most celebrities or business ppl dont actually care
You are so right - have seen so many content creators refer to their audience as 'family'. It has always been so creepy to me (though I understand it 'sells' better from a marketing perspective), especially because so many of them are teenagers who are learning about boundaries from these people. Then when a break-up happens, they feel personally involved - you can't really expect otherwise!
Clowns are held to a higher standard than politicians. That's modern society in a nutshell. EDIT: Randomly got this video recommended to me again, and it looks like I made a smart comment lol
Or they're holding themselves to a higher standard, they could have. When he has the I love my wife thing going on and he's a public figure it's a problem also while I'm fine with employees dating each other this is more akin to a owner level employee dating a non owner employee presents a power dynamic and like aba and preach said it's his brand. We can't really expect politicians to hold themselves to any standard if we don't hold ourselves to a good standard.
i think its because certain politicians have followings that can "look past" certain things. like for example, there definitely is a big group of politicians in this country who, if accused of money laundering or adultery, for example, wouldn't face real backlash from their constituents. because that's not what they care about. but.. if they said they support gay marriage or abortion, or migrant workers' rights, they'd lose voters. which is backwards asf right? dumb as hell
From a financial and reputation standpoint, I completely understand why they’re pissed. Especially with their Food Network show being moved to a dead time slot. And not only that, reputation wise, this just makes their company look messy and networks probably don’t want to be associated with influencers that have drama like this. lol
I think with privacy and private space it’s like with consent. It’s a basic right and even after giving it, you are always allowed to reclaim it. Even with best friends, when you ask them for space, they give you space. The public has no rights on another person’s privacy.
Ned's brand started when they were still dating, and The Try Guys were still under Buzzfeed, which is why it was such a shock. So a decade-strong marriage and a 15-year brand were ruined in weeks or longer. The betrayal is en mass, but their kids are the most impacted.
For me it’s the kids and how public this is. It’s awful. Sometimes marriages can bounce back after adultery but it takes a lot of work. And unfortunately, ppl nowadays are so judgmental about spouses who try to work things out with cheaters. You try for the sake of your kids but it will be much harder to do something like that in the public eye.
@@optimalscore they were basically carrying BuzzFeed on their backs for a long time As well as Shane and Ryan But they lost their way when they started their own company
You would be amazed at how many people cheat that are married. I know of one lady who thinks she's in this wonderful committed relationship and he cheats on her EVERY chance he gets. It's sad.
Ned fumbled the bag for all of them. They just got a TV show with the food network this year, and right after the news broke out, I read they moved their time slot from Wednesday nights to Friday mornings, now they will probably not get a second season.
He was trying to switch his brand. If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. He would not be canceled now. But homie dipped his dick too early. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
@@halfxbreed23 yeah but if you cheat when married might make the non cheating partner(which could be the mom) more likely to have custody. For myself, just leave, I can always figure out how to separate my feelings of being left and still letting my ex be a parent. But with cheating, it makes me question what their thought process is. It’s hard to leave but if you feel like you need to go cheat, it’s better morally to leave, separate and divorce then get your piece than the embarrassment of yourself having to find out your spouse stepped out and kept it secret. It will show that they did not value the relationship, kept a secret and shows the children that it’s okay to step out on commitment if you have desires
@@halfxbreed23 most kids wouldn’t want a mother or father that cheated on one another. Cheating and staying for the kids usually leads to arguments and truama on the kids. Most kids (aka myself) would love for their parents to get a divorce. Especially in this day and age🤦🏻♀️
The more I see the compilation video of Ned saying "My wife" makes me think that he just sees her as a character rather than him seeing her as his actual wife. I've watched Try Guys before and I just took it that he rarely said her name. Just a thought.
l was thinking he could be a simp. any man who has to acknowledge his wife so much in a show 'brand and all' he problably don't get that respect cos last time l checked women are annoyed by it, l know it might be a stretch
This is especially telling considering he almost always referred to his wife as "my wife" instead of saying her name (Ariel). On the other hand, the other guys, like Keith for example, usually just said the name of their SO (like Keith would just say "Becky and I ..." or "Me and Becky..." instead of "my wife" "my wife" "my wife").
His kids are going to know exactly what happened, who their dad cheated on their mom with, where their dad cheated, and when it all happened. They will probably never know why it happened, and might even blame themselves.
As a woman who is healthy, sturdy, and average height... I would rather be cheated on than seriously attacked any day of the week. Chances I leave a cheater are very high. But at least that man isn't going to look me in the eye and make a concerted attempt to smash my face/skull/brain. Damn, just break my heart, not my body. I don't want to be heartbroken and in fear for my life at the same time, wtf.
My fiancée cheated on me like five years ago with a mutual friend of ours that was her co-worker. Man, that was hard for me. Especially because my brother was going through chemo therapy, at the time. My brother ended up dying. The aftermath of my fiancée cheating was also hard for her because she ended up with no one, after I broke up with her. I told her, to her face, "You're a bad person." She was kneeling on the ground; hugging my leg, crying to me like a child; and begging for me to stay. Honestly, I felt ashamed being with her. Ashamed that I chose her as my girlfriend. Like I wanted nothing to do with her. Zero association. I was very close to her family and I'm pretty sure that her entire family and close friend group all knows what happened, at this point. Even though, I was very selective of who I'd tell. And the wedding? Obviously, cancelled before it got started. All we've built in the 6 or so years of dating thrown to the trash. And now, we're both in our late twenties trying to navigate the world without a partner. LESSON: DON'T CHEAT! IT'S NEVER WORTH IT!
Went through something similar. Was with a chick for a bit and one of her family members tried offing themself. Recommended ALL of them get therapy because even when people survive, the damage ripples outward for years. The only one that didn't take my input seriously; the girl I was with. So, even as I was taking my own advice, I withdrew from her and cared less and less and less as she did more reckless things while becoming angry and resentful towards me. Even becoming "hurt' by my not wanting to be intimate when she hadn't bathed for over a week but always seemed to have energy when "going out with the girls". Yeah... I suspected. Eventually she told me she was interested in another guy as though I should be shocked and was confused when I helped her move out to pursue the "love of her life". Hopefully she has learned and won't make the same mistakes but upon relfection and consideration of what I know about her through her family, her, and some of her friends... there is a pattern. 100% don't cheat. Even if no one finds out, you hurt yourself. And when others do find out, you hurt them too.
I'm sorry that happened to you...being cheated on is traumatic, I don't think people really understand how much until you've been through it. I wouldn't wish that feeling on anyone 😢. You did the right thing, leaving. Once the trust is gone, it's over anyway. I hope you're doing better now ❤️
I laughed so hard, a hearty, I love being alive laugh at your interactions from 1:30+ minutes into the video. Your chemistry as a team is the best I've ever seen.
Yup! Sometimes you just want to walk away or fight the urge. Seen this happen to way too many co-workers at Walmart and the awkward engagements after they break up, but still have to together.
Why dont they ever fire the woman? I get it datting in the office leads to drama in the office so it cant happen but when it dose only the guy gets shamed and fired? He didnt rape her she was a willing partner in the crime why dose she get the victim status? If him cheating on his wife is a bad look for the company why isnt her cheating on her dude a bad look?
I get the argument for content creators inviting people to their lives, homes, families etc and that asking for privacy when you've made people invested is weird but I started thinking about my brother and his fiance who had a miscarriage with twins. Obviously me, our family and his friends are super invested in their lives and follow them on social media etc but when they announced the passing of their unborn children everyone of course gave sympathies, but also per their request; gave them space to mourn, figure stuff out and give them a chance to talk about it when it suited them. So even if I think there's always gonna be people who ignore those requests out of worry and empathy I still feel it's fair to make that request that people leave you alone in times of hardships, public person or not.
The craziest part of this story that my sister told me yesterday is that they paid for her wedding dress in a video all to find out she was cheating with Ned the whole time.
@@helloworld7818 They paid for the lover, Alex's wedding dress. They had a few women getting married in their office and Alex's wedding was first so they did Try Guys try wedding and bridesmaid dresses and paid for her stuff in those episodes. To find out you spent company funds on a wedding that isnt happening because the owner is having an affair with the bride is wild.
How about try this. If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
That young girl is going to come up with excuses as he brainwashed her and he was her supervisor, bla bla bla... If the dude's wife decides to divorce him then it's gonna be a huge financial hit for him for sure! These hypocrites are always trying to portray themselves as superior to other people. "My wife, my wife, my wife" and this is the outcome! Well played!
i will never understand those types..like if i were to do the whole cheating thing why NOT cheat and keep it under wraps.. Like why are you taking the side chick out to lunches and public venues.. making out at clubs wtf
@@jayclearmen411 good point… and not for the sake of the wife, but for his own sake! Now, he messed up his bag AND the wife could very well take him for all he’s worth in a divorce! 🤦🏾♂️ Either he shoulda had an agreement w/ the wife OR kept that ish discreet af!
@@yukijames1321 People will still jump down this mans throat as if he did manipulate her though, thats just how gullible society is when it comes to women.
To all the guys who are in a long term relationship, i would take this as a lesson that no matter how faithful you have been, temptations are always waiting. Stay strong.
True. Also, if you don't have any religious views against it, try a threesome with your man. Cheating rarely comes out of the blue. Men don't just go "I love my wife, my balls are empty, life is good." & Then see a random broad & try to shag her. There's more behind it & tbh a lot of cheating could be prevented if there was more open dialogue about it. Sadly, so many women have been fed the lie of "you're the only one for me" Etc, that most men would never bring up when they feel like cheating & why.
I mean it’s not really temptation is it? Because it seems cheaters of all identities always choose the most mid/mediocre looking people. This is no exception, look at the two of them. “Beauty is subjective, she could be kinda bad, them Asian chicks-“ I’m not playing that game, they’re both mid/medium ugly at best. The “tempting” part _was_ the cheating, that was the point. I don’t feel like it’s temptation at that point, idk.
I have a coworker who's married. All of us know they're married. He's flirty with all the women in my department and even other departmens. I've called him out before by saying "I don't hug married men." Soooooooooooo 🤷🏻♀️
As a domestic abuse survivor I'd rather be cheated on the punched in the face. And if you picked punched you've obviously never been punched in the face full force by a man. That shit hurts! Concussions, broken nose, cracked orbital bones, lost teeth, etc are all very possible when being hit in the face. Naw you'd rather be cheated on.
@@sruthi2708 you think being punched in the face doesn’t come with emotional damage too did you use your small brain before you mad this comment man clealy not please use it next time I know it might hurt to but for your sake please do
@@jiggatoni4082 Idk personally for me, if someone I thought loved me punched me in the head, that relationship gets no more of my emotional energy, I'm going cold instantly. I'm not even mad anymore at that point just level headed and focussing on how to escape/finish the situation. If they swing at me it's obvious they were never really down for me like that anyway so how can I invest any more emotional energy into it? It's a complete waste of time. Maybe down the track I'd reflect and be a bit confused/conflicted in my mind but once violence is involved I can no-longer rely on emotions to get me anywhere, and so they don't get a place in my mind. It's all survival and escape mode at that point. I'm acutely aware that not everyone thinks this way, but that's just how it is for me. Logic prevails over emotions 99/100 times.
Damn first Adam Levine, now some other guy that I’ve never heard of before. “If the poom poom nice, me look” they wanted to have a glance at some new poom poom
What I consider extra salt in the wound is that Ned either didn’t care or didn’t take into account just what it means for all this to happen in the public eye with someone of his reputation. I don’t care if people choose to work it out after infidelity, but now we’ll have the entirety of the internet down his poor wife’s throat judging her or just forever looking at her with pity for staying with an unfaithful man. Working it out is *vastly harder* in my mind. The wife doesn’t deserve that.
@@davidadegbe8494 that's an excuse. Women have a lot more choices and that means the faithful ones pick their partners over all those choices every day. The least a man could do is the same.
@@zorgon410 the stats are crazy for the same type of people, it's not a gender based thing. Some people are fucked in the head, we're all responsible for not being simps for them
Being cheated on can scar you for life. That's the thing. That shit can hurt, especially when you deeply love and trust someone. For many people, the shot to the face would hurt less.
Now add to that the fact that you spent a considerable amount of your life with someone who didn’t love you. Someone you have kids with. Someone who you will be stuck dealing with a long time. I hope his wife becomes his ex-wife and recovers and lives a happy and healthy rest of her life with her children.
Gone through it twice with two different women. No explanation either time. Worst thing is trying to find an answer as to why when the only reason is that they're heartless monsters
It's robbing your spouse of living in reality. They think everything is great, they are making life together, doing good together, bu secretly, it's lies all along
The problem was not that he cheated, even though he was the wife guy this was not why they fired him..he was the boss and she was an employee which opens the company up to lawsuits.. and disclaimer she is 30 not 24
Also, he's in a position of authority. This literally happened in my workplace, I knew a supervisor who was engaged and was seeing one of my colleagues who was married with a kid. They nailed him because he was manipulating her hours. In this case, the guy was compromising the brand's image, which will inevitably affect their bottom line.
Preach is 100 percent right. They knew about this for a year and did nothing until it blew up and went public. What happened to the girl he was cheating with? She's an employee too, was she fired?
I highlighted doubt they knew for a year. I think they just recently knew. And no they can’t really fire her because that could bring in a whole host of lawsuits. As much as I would love to see her get fired
@@sruthi2708 they did fire her. or i think they have both "been suspended immediately". see @14:59 its alex, i think alexandria of the food babies. not sure tho.
I'm sure they knew or had a gut feeling that they never acted on. Employee's have mentioned noticing something was off, so I don't think it escaped his closest friends and co-workers the actual Try Guys. They would have preferred to sweep this under the rug and keep the brand.
Not everyone is that interested in other people's affairs. Sometimes if you don't know for certain you don't ask. Hence why they probably didn't know for sure, they may have suspected but like I said most people keep their nose out of other peoples business especially at work.
Ned played the sweet, innocent guy role who had so much love for his wife really well. He pulled it off so good and a lot of us fell for it and thought it was adorable. It’s really disappointing to find out it was all just him overcompensating for the fact that he actually was a nasty, habitual cheater behind the scenes. 🤦🏻♀️
Or... He just fell in love with someone else? That's not a crime. Y'all act like adultery is worse than homicide. People grow and change and want something else. It's not that big a deal.
Yup not surprising a lot of internet personalities/ celebrities play a role that they think will make them more palatable/relatable/marketable that's just kinda how the entertainment world works that's why I don't take these celebs all that seriously I just enjoy what it is they do and leave it at that
@@brynnwalk4390 I agree to a certain extent now if you give your word to a girl that your gonna be faithful then imo you have to honor that but all this hysteria and a damn apology video? Just cause 2 consenting adults decided to step out on their significant other? Idk it feels like a bit much
This is why content creators shouldn't monetize their personal lives or if they do, at least be prepared for scandals and consequences when some shit goes down.
What got me fucked up was they didn’t just fire Ned, they got rid of him from merch, from old videos, deleted new videos like they basically erased Ned from the try guys
I agree 100% I hate when public figures have the audacity to want privacy when they get exposed. We in season 3 espisode 2 of your life you don’t get to just cut it off now 🤣🤣🤣
0:55 what a bunch of backstabbers. You’d think a bunch of friends would stick up for each other in their time of need. These guys have no backbone. I would’ve stood up for my friend.. Granted, I have no clue who these guys are, but that’s not the point. The point is they left their friend in his hour of need
I'm a huge fan of the Try Guys. I haven't been watching CZcams in a while because of life circumstances, and have been slowly watching all of the videos you guys have uploaded (because yall hold a special place in my entertainment enjoyment) and paused for a second to see their video about what was going on and my first thought was that I wished yall would comment on it. I thought it was outside of your scope given who they are but then I saw this pop up tonight and was like let's goooooo. I may not always like what you guys say or agree with you fully on everything, but I always love hearing your opinion. I still love the Try Guys, but I dig what yall did here too. Ned fucked up big time, so did Alex. Its crazy how even the "squeaky clean" people are out there doing shady stuff.
This is not just about cheating and how it destroyed his brand and reflected negatively on the Try Guy's brand. It is also about him cheating with an employee who was his subordinate and who he, in a work context, had power over. The reason why they hired an independent HR professional & talked to HR lawyers is because this employee could have probably easily sued the Try Guys and thus destry the company. So I agree, if he would have had cheated with someone outside the company there would have probably been a way to keep him on but since he had to do it with one of his subordinate employees this situation has completely different legal consequences for the company. There is a reason why most companies have a clause against there relationships in company policies and employment contracts.
@@destaneyvito5936 People say she's 30. At what age do Americans tend to graduate high school? Because she graduated in 2009 (says so on her linked in). Either way, she's probably closer to 30 than 24.
Something I find strange is that people want to defend him to keep his job but they cancel people for jokes or comments they deem sexist or racist. The public sense of morality is so twisted that a few off hand words are considered worse by many than this ned guy and what he'll do for kicks.
I think the thing you’re looking for with the whole brand thing is Will Smith slapping Chris Rock, Will’s whole brand is being positive, so the moments he slipped had a big wave.
If it was just cheating, I'm sure they had not much legal grounds to cast him out. But he was a founder/boss/HR manager of the company, she a subordinate . It was definitely a legal matter.
I Give all of you a good advise I learnd over time. If someone is repeatedly saying something. Like "loyalty is important to me" you can bet they are not loyal.
The fact that this has been going on for nearly a year (that we know of) speaks volumes. And then she accepts a proposal from her long-term relationship all the while sleeping with her coworker AND planning a wedding at that, like WTF? 😐 Her fiancée is even crazier for going to her lover asking him to stop - if I read that correctly 😵💫 Why even get married?? As The World Turns...
When you loved somebody for that long, it’s easy to forgive them as long as it doesn’t happen again. I can’t imagine how he feels knowing he wasted 10 years of his love life for someone who cheated on him, even after given a second chance. I hope he got that proposal ring back, at the very least.
@@pdors94 I totally get it, but self respect should be just as important. She clearly does not respect him, so why hold on? 🤷 People only do what you allow. This is just sad 😔
The Fiancé of the girl is wild.. bro knew they hooked up and didn't say shit to the wife. Him making the decision to stay with her was dumb but even worse was him making the decision to stay quite.
Could Not be me. If lord forbid i find out my girl, wasn’t really my girl i’m Out. I’d ghost her.. I wouldn’t even let on that I’d know just plan & move accordingly. Wouldn’t respond to none of her voice calls or read None of her text messages. I’d just be gone one day. She reach out to my ppl We are NOTHING to each other.
I’m a boxer and I’ve been cheated on. Can confirm being punched is worse. I don’t even remember the girls name who cheated on me. Yet I for sure remember the first person who yeeted me in the face. 😭😭😭
@@AlIskanderZhao I remember like it was yesterday. I accidentally snitched and they got in serious trouble. They would lock me in closets, throw food on my uniform, punch me, kick me, slam me etc. One day my mother asked me why my cloths were so dirty and was about to ring my neck and I think I just got tired of being blamed so I told her the truth. They had to go to this after school counciling shit. I still feel bad because I have/had a strong feeling whatever was going on at home for them was much worse for them then it was for me. You could smell the desperation of trying to be cool or popular or some bs so I let it slide. I did fight back got beat every time but I did fight back. Mama ain’t raise no B’.
Wouldn't you say it matters for how long you've been together and how much you've built together? How long were you together with the girl whose name you can't remember?
Proof that immoral actions can snowball into some horrible shit. His cheating didnt just hurt his wife, it ruined his friends too and harmed their business
I said this when it first came out. The people they work with absolutely knew. Now they have to watch out for themselves and pretend they "had no idea".
Aba ripping into Ned feels good because it's basically what Eugene wanted to say at the minimum, you could see Eugene was pissed and had to HR himself not to say anything personal about Ned. Ned is actually just dumb not just for the cheating but how openly he did it. Especially in California where basically most of the state that uses CZcams would recognize him either from Buzzfeed or from the Try Guys, he literally a local celebrity at the minimum, he really probably thought no one would recognize him. Good to know he's not the big brains of anything.
Thats just how Eugene always looks. Hes permanently got the angry face and usually attitude. And to be fair, if I was forced to work with the rest of them, Id be like that too...
7:10 if your brand is about being vegetarian and animal sanctuaries but you having barbecues every weekend hit 17 different kinds of protein and 15 exotic meats, camel , lion, cheetah,elephant, etc
They fired him bc he’s the CEO who slept with a lower lever employee, legally he’s the one in the wrong bc she is the ‘vulnerable’ one here even if she consented. Legally it’s hard to fire her. If the roles were reversed she’d be fired
My ex did both, the one punch ko I got hurt a lot more, as it was 8 yrs ago and still suffer pain in that area. The scene: it was late night after night out of drinking and a heated discussion started (forget what about), I left the room to get away from him towards the kitchen, he followed me continued the heat as I felt trapped and couldnt get away i banged the kettle on countertop (was gonna make a coffee, didnt know what to do in the moment) that was last thing I remember until I woke up and couldnt see outta my left eye, was badly swollen and deep gash on my eyebrow. Anyone who's been through this would NOT choose it! You can fix the emotional hurt by knowing he never cared, violence towards another is a whole another level of abuse. I would choose neither as it shouldn't even be an option! Been a long journey trying to heal and being aware of myself of what part I played in the whole relationship, I haven't gotten into any relationship since. The image is public on my fb page if anyone wants to see, might scroll abit been few months since I last posted it.
That´s horrible. Noone deserves something like that. I wish you strength, healing and a good support system on your journey. God bless.
ouch
Damn just damn
Sorry to hear that, i hope you are doing well on your new journey, taking time off from meeting people is a good thing, gives you time to think, focus on yourself, and improve.
Though i've never been in a relationship, i hope my message was some good advice.🙏
I'm sorry you had to remember those unpleasant moments again.
I definitely laughed pretty hard when I saw someone write "try guy tries adultery" early on.
Lol that is funny
Yeah I got to retweet from zanny with the title try guys try infidelity 🤣🤣🤣
Take notes people, if you’re gonna steal a comment at least admit it there’s no shame.
LMAOOO
@@pete5516 he didnt steal it he admitted it wasnt his
He jeopardized his marriage, his career and the career of others because he couldn't keep it in his pants... Did he even....try???
That’s why fck cheaters
just be up front and divorce and sleep around guilt free
Do or do not, there is no try. Boy couldn't do marriage.
Now every time someone watches one of their old videos, they will realize the whole "I love my wife" thing was just a front. He sh*t all over their brand lol
@@takoflame4948 People like to have both. A stable family and side pieces.
He wasn't fired for cheating. He was fired for having a relationship with an employee as a BOSS.
You think she wasn’t getting anything out of it too? They were caught in public. It would be different if he was hushing her and making her keep it on the dl. I know a lady who’s a “business owner” because she manipulated her ex husband into giving her parts of the company and then ruined the guys life by saying he cheated on her and his customers ended up pulling away and doing business with her. People might look innocent because of their status but it’s a two way street. The Asian lady cheated on her fiancé too. Publicly humiliated him by cheating. She’s just as bad as the guy.
@@Izetfazlinovucjelegenda Eugene's comment "the internet judges women more harshly than men" good job!
@@Izetfazlinovucjelegenda I think you don't understand that him being her boss is a huge power imbalance. You're ignoring the actual fact about the situation and going off of an anecdote YOU know. Shut the hell up goofball.
@@IzetfazlinovucjelegendaAlso because he branded himself after being a family man and made money off of it he published books about marriage and even made products to sell with his wife he went against his brand that was family oriented and made money off of people without living by his own words
Being cheated on is a trauma that sticks with you for years after the fact. It affects your ability to trust in future relationships. If you stay and try to work it out with the cheater, the trust is never fully restored. Even years later, let them come home a little late or be hanging out with friends... the suspicion and mistrust is always beneath the surface. If you even remotely care about your partner, on just a human level, don't cheat. If you ghost them, it'll hurt. If you tell them you fell out of love and want to split, it'll hurt. But nothing hurts worse than the betrayal of your partner sharing their body with another person and the lies that come along with that. It's a truly despicable thing to do to someone, and is certainly no way to treat a person you claim to love.
Based. Well said.
That’s very true.
He didn't just cheat on his wife, he publicly humiliated her.
Both honestly.
I cant handle public humiliation...maybe in private we mighta been able to work past it... but public? Oh u gotta go...expeditiously....
I agree but I wonder if the sexes were reversed if a woman would lose her career position if she cheated on her husband, maybe? I don't see cases of women being dismissed by their jobs for cheating. If someone knows any example let me know.
@@amaury_off Boooothhhhh!!!!!
@@-Epiphany YUPPP FOR SURE BYE BITCH
Not only did dude monetize his family for content, him and his wife gave marriage seminars. They did seminars for how to have healthy relationships let that marinate....
Exactly they seemed like a very happy couple.
Let that marryned
u know liars are very good sales people
Nothing wrong with that.
Its the same as any guru or self help shit.
I tend to blame the consumer more than the seller when it comes to these things.
If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
But don't do what these guys did.
For those who might not understand why their fans are so shocked and appalled (I've been a long time try guys fan), is that ned has always been known as the "wife guy". That's literally his only personality, and that's what people have known him for. He was someone who clearly loves his wife and nearly mentions her in every single video they do. Not only that but this has taken off career wise, and he has gone through uni to conduct lectures about ethics of marriage, he has published books about healthy marriage, has set up social media showing off his wife and family and have gotten brand deals from that, and has also recently published a cook book with his wife. To have all of this come out is so so shocking and obviously left a bitter taste in everyone's mouth. And this is all being talked about in light of the recent celebrities who have been caught cheating on their partners so far in this year. So it's just an extremely sad situation that have resulted in a wife and a mother of two losing her husband who have profited from her, while he was screwing some other chick for years
Not that hard to understand, regardless of whether you're a fan tbh
@@sararistictodorovic2100 I actually didn’t know alllll of that. Like I didn’t realize just how thoroughly he included his wife into his whole work (i.e. the cookbook, the lectures at a uni, all the brand deals) so I really appreciated this comment. Maybe if you did know all of that, just don’t comment anything?? Instead of taking the time to write a snarky comment in response to a helpful one lol
@@sararistictodorovic2100 Yeah but most people don't have that background information
Okay.
Honestly it doesn’t seem like a coincidence. More like an overcompensation of not being faithful to his wife
I will continue to say it: " Why are people so surprised? It's always the "my-wife" guy!"
People don't make their partner their whole personality/brand because they're healthy...
Exactly. But he NEVER seemed like a great guy. I remember hating him in buzzfeed videos and thinking the best TryGuys were the vids that didn't include him.
He loved his wife so much that he decided to cheat on her because he felt undeserving of her love
🤣
I’ve seen this like 4 times already
I'm sick of women blaming everything on men.. wtf happened to the other 60 genders? >:(
Sounds just like some guy without a mustache would say
You really think that? REALISTICALLY speaking he cheated because he found the other woman more attractive or the situation thrilling instead of his dad and "I love my wife" life. The whole underserving of her love thing can happen, but most of the ppl cheat because they see the person as a better option than their current partner or need some or of thrilling moment.
The most shocking thing is that all the men she could have cheated with, she chose Ned
women luv a married man
Neddyyyy
That’s not shocking at all. None of this is shocking
Ned because of pre-selection. Men have always noticed they get more attention from women when they get a girlfriend.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 true.
This is actually a good example to use for an MBA level HR class. Not even kidding. Understanding all of the interlinking parts of a business and how acts like this can tarnish a business.
I'm sure he can have a case against them for unlawful termination
@@TCt83067695 no Ned wouldn’t. If anything the other guys have grounds to sue for lost income due to the damage to the brand overall. Alex the Employee might have a case for unlawful termination if they actually fired her but I would imagine they offered her a generous severance package to resign.
@@ranga1cat severance payment aka hush money is admissible in court too as evidence.
As for Ned, they would have to prove the damages. These past few weeks have seen an increased awareness of their brand. Those videos are their most watched. They're even getting replays on some of their old videos. They're getting spoofed on snl broadcast to millions. The works.
Basically, they have marketed this split in a way that maximizes value for their brand rather than damage it. Their brand valuation has increased esp since as a company, they no longer have to split things 4 ways.
He just needs a good lawyer. My guy can sue them into oblivion. The money may then help him forget his betray of his wife and kids.
@@ranga1cat That is not at all how that works, you can't sue your business partner for bad publicity. The only way you can sue someone for brand damage is slander or libel.
"I appreciate yall watching. We not homies, we not friends" This is what the majority of fans need to understand😂 Just because you enjoy someones content doesnt mean you have a connection to that person.
Social media is taking the Ned cheating scandal like the press thought we'd react to Adam Levine 😂
Haha "it's another PR move"
Adam's wife seems to give him a free pass to sleep around
we all knew Adam wife has arrangement with him to sleep around
@@Apocalymon yeah, that’s the vibe I’m getting too. She’s probably just pissed he lost the bag lol
@@misspapillon24 that IG model is really daft and doesn't want to take accountability. I don't mind THOTs that embrace their rachetiness, at least those are honest.
Damn whomever took time out of their day to find every "my wife" is petty and needs a promotion 😂
Exactly if he was gon slang D dude should’ve been more careful and cautious but it seems like he gave NO fuk’s
*how tf are you going clubbing partying & making out tongue kissing the side chick…In public!??* what part of the game is that!??
Hero of the internet
@@chocolatte522 I remember watching a self improvement video where the guy says that co-workers in the corporate level are a no go for hooking up because if things go down south, you could possibly end up like Ned. No one will give a shit if you hook up with someone at your 9-5 10-17 dollar an hour wage job. But in a place where you have a salary, power dynamics get involved, it's easy to fuck it all up.
It was probably pretty easy
@@yukijames1321 the fact that you know this is bizarre
The Try Guys are a good example of guys who don't brush off behavior that is contrary to their values. We ask men to stand up to their friends when their friends lie and cheat, and here we see men doing just that. I hope more people will do this and not ignore bad behavior because acknowledging it and taking action may cost them.
Nah I will have my friend's back if I catch him cheating
We ask women to understand that women don't get to ask anything of "men" , not when men can't say anything about women without it being a feminist issue. Pretty sure y'all cheat more and are encouraged to cheat and have it hidden by your friends more than we do.
What about the woman who cheated. She was engaged. Where is her accountability???
Meh. It’s cause they have a brand and bag to protect. Guarantee if this was found out internally(I.e no fan detectives on Reddit blasting their comments) it would be handled a lot softer.
@@gedoplanet Right, but she's also an employee. She can very easily state that Ned took advantage of his position as her boss in this situation. Also, Ned is the public figure here
I’m SOOOOO glad you guys put the “my wife” clips in there! Me and my sis would joke about him constantly saying that, we thought it was just us😂
Bc everyone in the try guys acted like Ned's weird fissad was normal. Fuck em
Gotta love the internet bro. They figure shit out faster than actual detectives sometimes.
Reminds me when 4chan coordinated a Russian airstrike on an ISIS base in Southern Aleppo using Google Maps.
The internet is fucking wild.
@@JollyWanker weaponised autism. Sadly some inmocent people get doxxed easily when a group targets them. Sometimes people find out they're getting fired weeks ahead due to premature tweets or leaks.
@@JollyWanker instead of "nanobots son" from the senator, it should be "weaponized autism son"
@@JollyWanker I'm sorry what?
That's the difference between people who have 20 cases to work and someone who doesn't have a job and autism.
Eugene is pissed! He's not there for all that nonsense. You can just see the anger in his face.
I've heard a story of a band of special forces who found out all their wives were having affairs while they were deployed and they were bragging about it to each other. One of them who told the story said that he would've rather been shot. The difference between physical pain and emotional pain is that one is brief but the other can last for a long time and can even deteriorate your health.
Eugene is pissed, Zach is sad, Keith is confused and still trying to process it, and Ned is finished
Yea he is j**ish he cares about the Benjamins
Only reason I liked this comment was cuz it was 666 and I don’t fuck with that shit…
@@TheHussein123 i appreciate you and the good vibes
@@TheHussein123 What are you talking about? 666 is a wonderful number!
@@anaalina5964 number of the beast homie
This is why I have mad respect for you guys. We all know Preach has a wife and Aba is single. But Preach carries himself as a married man with how he talks and interacts with content, and Aba carries himself as single. But Aba isn't pushing Preach to say anything crazy and I can only speculate what both of you guys' personal lives looks like. You both set the boundary and keep it real. Both of your personal lives ain't our business and that's fine by me.
100%
The fact that keeping your personal life a secret warrants so much respect, speaks to how overly open people are with their information these days.
@@christopherlewis6915 exactly. Like bro, we all don't need to know how many mental disorders you diagnosed yourself with lmao
I keep forgetting that Preach is married but it’s like you said, he knows how to keep his personal life away from the internet
Aba is single?
you sure about that? ;)
I feel so awful for ariel, her kids, and the womans fiance. Its awesome how the try guys r handling this. I hope other companies will take note. The fact that u can see the disappointment on their faces feels so refreshing cause most celebrities or business ppl dont actually care
She stayed with him so she's an idiot. She is now choosing to raise her children in a home where she is a disrespected doormat. She is a clown
You are so right - have seen so many content creators refer to their audience as 'family'. It has always been so creepy to me (though I understand it 'sells' better from a marketing perspective), especially because so many of them are teenagers who are learning about boundaries from these people. Then when a break-up happens, they feel personally involved - you can't really expect otherwise!
dang Eugene didn't even try to hide he pissed. Ned really almost spoiled the bag for the hole team. 😭😭😭
Almost lmao he did.
Who’s the hole team?
@@brensherlock well it's more than one hole
lady got fired also?
He was livid!
Clowns are held to a higher standard than politicians. That's modern society in a nutshell.
EDIT: Randomly got this video recommended to me again, and it looks like I made a smart comment lol
Or they're holding themselves to a higher standard, they could have. When he has the I love my wife thing going on and he's a public figure it's a problem also while I'm fine with employees dating each other this is more akin to a owner level employee dating a non owner employee presents a power dynamic and like aba and preach said it's his brand.
We can't really expect politicians to hold themselves to any standard if we don't hold ourselves to a good standard.
The only thing higher to be held for a politician is the height of the blade on a guillotine
That’s where they belong
Holy shit this is so true.
Well said 👏
Especially the heels of the insider trading bill being killed by Nancy Pelosi. 😂
What a world we live in.
i think its because certain politicians have followings that can "look past" certain things. like for example, there definitely is a big group of politicians in this country who, if accused of money laundering or adultery, for example, wouldn't face real backlash from their constituents. because that's not what they care about. but.. if they said they support gay marriage or abortion, or migrant workers' rights, they'd lose voters. which is backwards asf right? dumb as hell
Thank you this is what happens when you make clowns with no Talent famous
From a financial and reputation standpoint, I completely understand why they’re pissed. Especially with their Food Network show being moved to a dead time slot.
And not only that, reputation wise, this just makes their company look messy and networks probably don’t want to be associated with influencers that have drama like this. lol
I think with privacy and private space it’s like with consent. It’s a basic right and even after giving it, you are always allowed to reclaim it. Even with best friends, when you ask them for space, they give you space. The public has no rights on another person’s privacy.
Ned's brand started when they were still dating, and The Try Guys were still under Buzzfeed, which is why it was such a shock. So a decade-strong marriage and a 15-year brand were ruined in weeks or longer.
The betrayal is en mass, but their kids are the most impacted.
For me it’s the kids and how public this is. It’s awful. Sometimes marriages can bounce back after adultery but it takes a lot of work. And unfortunately, ppl nowadays are so judgmental about spouses who try to work things out with cheaters. You try for the sake of your kids but it will be much harder to do something like that in the public eye.
the girl who cheated with him should be punished as well. she seems to have a habit of going after married men
@@goodbad-boy Oh yeah the girl who cheated should be fucking hammered. She literally did the same thing lol
All over a younger hole.
No... seriously. I'm taking the Patrice stance on this LOL
Its just a PR thing
I don't know what's more shocking that he cheated or that the try guys are still around.
Same.
😂😂😂
Seriously never heard of these guys till this video here.
@@optimalscore they were basically carrying BuzzFeed on their backs for a long time
As well as Shane and Ryan
But they lost their way when they started their own company
Yall just live under a rock lol
I didn’t know anyone cared about the try guys anymore until this came up
You would be amazed at how many people cheat that are married. I know of one lady who thinks she's in this wonderful committed relationship and he cheats on her EVERY chance he gets. It's sad.
as someone who was recently cheated on by her boyfriend of 5 years who also boxes, i would much rather him have just socked me in the face lmao.
Ned fumbled the bag for all of them. They just got a TV show with the food network this year, and right after the news broke out, I read they moved their time slot from Wednesday nights to Friday mornings, now they will probably not get a second season.
He was trying to switch his brand. If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. He would not be canceled now. But homie dipped his dick too early. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
Bruh, their show is dead in the water. These networks know how to kill a show.
I know!!
Eugene looks like he came to slay… and I mean actually kill Ned.
Talk about letting down the team................
"Cheated on or punched in the face?"
Neither. Just leave me. Tell me you're done and go. No harm, no foul, no blood.
Bit harder with kids
@@halfxbreed23how you choose to handle your situation is up to you.
@@pgpluss1076 I agree 100% but "just leave" is harder with kids. I think most ppl would if it wasn't for children
@@halfxbreed23 yeah but if you cheat when married might make the non cheating partner(which could be the mom) more likely to have custody. For myself, just leave, I can always figure out how to separate my feelings of being left and still letting my ex be a parent. But with cheating, it makes me question what their thought process is. It’s hard to leave but if you feel like you need to go cheat, it’s better morally to leave, separate and divorce then get your piece than the embarrassment of yourself having to find out your spouse stepped out and kept it secret. It will show that they did not value the relationship, kept a secret and shows the children that it’s okay to step out on commitment if you have desires
@@halfxbreed23 most kids wouldn’t want a mother or father that cheated on one another. Cheating and staying for the kids usually leads to arguments and truama on the kids. Most kids (aka myself) would love for their parents to get a divorce. Especially in this day and age🤦🏻♀️
Live by the “my wife” ……. Die by the “my wife” 🤣🤣🤣
Imagine if we held politicians to this standard 🐸🍵
Imagine
No more government.
Yeah, I love this kind of Sci-Fi.
We can’t - all the politicians are hoes to various extent
Exactly! Why do we let these idiots go without a slap on the wrist.
pain is temporary. getting cheated on is forever
Nonsense
Bruh just how weak are some of you
The more I see the compilation video of Ned saying "My wife" makes me think that he just sees her as a character rather than him seeing her as his actual wife. I've watched Try Guys before and I just took it that he rarely said her name. Just a thought.
True, I was about to make that point.
He’s like a chick 😂
Lol, she comes off as an sjw character.
l was thinking he could be a simp. any man who has to acknowledge his wife so much in a show 'brand and all' he problably don't get that respect cos last time l checked women are annoyed by it, l know it might be a stretch
This is especially telling considering he almost always referred to his wife as "my wife" instead of saying her name (Ariel). On the other hand, the other guys, like Keith for example, usually just said the name of their SO (like Keith would just say "Becky and I ..." or "Me and Becky..." instead of "my wife" "my wife" "my wife").
“If Leonardo cheats on his wife she turned 25 it’s what she deserves” 😂
How dare she turn 25
I know Aba was being facetious and sarcastic, but that sounded like some red pill shit
@@bilalc4415 yeah i think thas what they’re mocking at 😭
I think that Ned guy WANTED his wife to find out. Probably thinks the grass is greener
Well, at least he tried..
HAHA. I see u
🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏾
Nice
*golf clap* 😊
Damn son.
His kids are going to know exactly what happened, who their dad cheated on their mom with, where their dad cheated, and when it all happened. They will probably never know why it happened, and might even blame themselves.
that's the sad part
4:18 😯😬OH IT'S EVEN MESSIER!
As a woman who is healthy, sturdy, and average height... I would rather be cheated on than seriously attacked any day of the week. Chances I leave a cheater are very high. But at least that man isn't going to look me in the eye and make a concerted attempt to smash my face/skull/brain. Damn, just break my heart, not my body. I don't want to be heartbroken and in fear for my life at the same time, wtf.
Why did you use the word sturdy? 💀💀
Exactly!!!
My fiancée cheated on me like five years ago with a mutual friend of ours that was her co-worker. Man, that was hard for me. Especially because my brother was going through chemo therapy, at the time. My brother ended up dying. The aftermath of my fiancée cheating was also hard for her because she ended up with no one, after I broke up with her. I told her, to her face, "You're a bad person." She was kneeling on the ground; hugging my leg, crying to me like a child; and begging for me to stay. Honestly, I felt ashamed being with her. Ashamed that I chose her as my girlfriend. Like I wanted nothing to do with her. Zero association. I was very close to her family and I'm pretty sure that her entire family and close friend group all knows what happened, at this point. Even though, I was very selective of who I'd tell. And the wedding? Obviously, cancelled before it got started. All we've built in the 6 or so years of dating thrown to the trash. And now, we're both in our late twenties trying to navigate the world without a partner. LESSON: DON'T CHEAT! IT'S NEVER WORTH IT!
late 20's without a partner? trust me...it's not the end of the world..
@@masterchief9291 oh yeah, i know. i realize that now more than ever.
Went through something similar.
Was with a chick for a bit and one of her family members tried offing themself. Recommended ALL of them get therapy because even when people survive, the damage ripples outward for years. The only one that didn't take my input seriously; the girl I was with. So, even as I was taking my own advice, I withdrew from her and cared less and less and less as she did more reckless things while becoming angry and resentful towards me.
Even becoming "hurt' by my not wanting to be intimate when she hadn't bathed for over a week but always seemed to have energy when "going out with the girls". Yeah... I suspected.
Eventually she told me she was interested in another guy as though I should be shocked and was confused when I helped her move out to pursue the "love of her life".
Hopefully she has learned and won't make the same mistakes but upon relfection and consideration of what I know about her through her family, her, and some of her friends... there is a pattern.
100% don't cheat. Even if no one finds out, you hurt yourself. And when others do find out, you hurt them too.
I'm sorry that happened to you...being cheated on is traumatic, I don't think people really understand how much until you've been through it. I wouldn't wish that feeling on anyone 😢. You did the right thing, leaving. Once the trust is gone, it's over anyway. I hope you're doing better now ❤️
Very good. She would have destroyed you.
I laughed so hard, a hearty, I love being alive laugh at your interactions from 1:30+ minutes into the video. Your chemistry as a team is the best I've ever seen.
The Internet is harsher towards women than men what? 3:34
Fellas, if you value your job, STOP SHITTING WHERE YOU EAT. It’s very simple
Yup! Sometimes you just want to walk away or fight the urge. Seen this happen to way too many co-workers at Walmart and the awkward engagements after they break up, but still have to together.
🎯💯
You mean stop fvcking where you eat. Don't need no ass crumbs on the dinner table 😆
Why dont they ever fire the woman? I get it datting in the office leads to drama in the office so it cant happen but when it dose only the guy gets shamed and fired? He didnt rape her she was a willing partner in the crime why dose she get the victim status? If him cheating on his wife is a bad look for the company why isnt her cheating on her dude a bad look?
Facts!
I swear this guy used to say "my wife" all the time to convince us he was straight. We didn't believe it so he cheated to prove it lol
He sure showed us😅🤣🤡
You may be onto something lol
Bro for the longest time I thought at least 3 of the 4 were gay. When they first started mentioning their SOs in videos I was surprised.
@@albericponcedeleon2696 One of them is gay I think
@@jayqwuan Eugene is (asian guy who looked pissed in the video).
3:25 I would appreciate empirical evidence and I would like to see the data backing the empirical evidence
I get the argument for content creators inviting people to their lives, homes, families etc and that asking for privacy when you've made people invested is weird but I started thinking about my brother and his fiance who had a miscarriage with twins. Obviously me, our family and his friends are super invested in their lives and follow them on social media etc but when they announced the passing of their unborn children everyone of course gave sympathies, but also per their request; gave them space to mourn, figure stuff out and give them a chance to talk about it when it suited them. So even if I think there's always gonna be people who ignore those requests out of worry and empathy I still feel it's fair to make that request that people leave you alone in times of hardships, public person or not.
The craziest part of this story that my sister told me yesterday is that they paid for her wedding dress in a video all to find out she was cheating with Ned the whole time.
Wow.
Whose wedding dress?? Ariels or the lover's?
@@helloworld7818 They paid for the lover, Alex's wedding dress. They had a few women getting married in their office and Alex's wedding was first so they did Try Guys try wedding and bridesmaid dresses and paid for her stuff in those episodes. To find out you spent company funds on a wedding that isnt happening because the owner is having an affair with the bride is wild.
He never cheated on his wife before, so maybe he just wanted to try it.
I see what you did there lol
He kept striking out( He was trying to cheat while on the road). That's why he decided to sh*t where he eats.
hot younger than his wife asian ting
Lmao
How about try this. If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
He seemed like he pushed he loved his wife so much it was a cover like we was trying to convince himself
4 minutes into the video and I’m still wondering “who the f@c are these people and why should I care?”
That young girl is going to come up with excuses as he brainwashed her and he was her supervisor, bla bla bla... If the dude's wife decides to divorce him then it's gonna be a huge financial hit for him for sure! These hypocrites are always trying to portray themselves as superior to other people. "My wife, my wife, my wife" and this is the outcome! Well played!
i will never understand those types..like if i were to do the whole cheating thing why NOT cheat and keep it under wraps.. Like why are you taking the side chick out to lunches and public venues.. making out at clubs wtf
@@jayclearmen411 good point… and not for the sake of the wife, but for his own sake! Now, he messed up his bag AND the wife could very well take him for all he’s worth in a divorce! 🤦🏾♂️
Either he shoulda had an agreement w/ the wife OR kept that ish discreet af!
@@yukijames1321 People will still jump down this mans throat as if he did manipulate her though, thats just how gullible society is when it comes to women.
We all make our own beds don't we ?
Yeah she threw away a 10-year long relationship for him too lol
To all the guys who are in a long term relationship, i would take this as a lesson that no matter how faithful you have been, temptations are always waiting. Stay strong.
Appreciate, uce!!
Truew
Nuff respect to the ones who got their priorities str8 and keep their heads on...
True. Also, if you don't have any religious views against it, try a threesome with your man.
Cheating rarely comes out of the blue. Men don't just go "I love my wife, my balls are empty, life is good." & Then see a random broad & try to shag her. There's more behind it & tbh a lot of cheating could be prevented if there was more open dialogue about it. Sadly, so many women have been fed the lie of "you're the only one for me" Etc, that most men would never bring up when they feel like cheating & why.
I mean it’s not really temptation is it? Because it seems cheaters of all identities always choose the most mid/mediocre looking people. This is no exception, look at the two of them. “Beauty is subjective, she could be kinda bad, them Asian chicks-“ I’m not playing that game, they’re both mid/medium ugly at best. The “tempting” part _was_ the cheating, that was the point. I don’t feel like it’s temptation at that point, idk.
I have a coworker who's married. All of us know they're married. He's flirty with all the women in my department and even other departmens. I've called him out before by saying "I don't hug married men." Soooooooooooo 🤷🏻♀️
"Nothing happened" 2:20 that look💀
As a domestic abuse survivor I'd rather be cheated on the punched in the face. And if you picked punched you've obviously never been punched in the face full force by a man. That shit hurts! Concussions, broken nose, cracked orbital bones, lost teeth, etc are all very possible when being hit in the face. Naw you'd rather be cheated on.
Each to there own some people would rather go through physical pain then emotional pain
Pick an actual decent man
@@sruthi2708 you think being punched in the face doesn’t come with emotional damage too did you use your small brain before you mad this comment man clealy not please use it next time I know it might hurt to but for your sake please do
You also have a smaller face, cause biology...
@@jiggatoni4082 Idk personally for me, if someone I thought loved me punched me in the head, that relationship gets no more of my emotional energy, I'm going cold instantly. I'm not even mad anymore at that point just level headed and focussing on how to escape/finish the situation. If they swing at me it's obvious they were never really down for me like that anyway so how can I invest any more emotional energy into it? It's a complete waste of time.
Maybe down the track I'd reflect and be a bit confused/conflicted in my mind but once violence is involved I can no-longer rely on emotions to get me anywhere, and so they don't get a place in my mind. It's all survival and escape mode at that point. I'm acutely aware that not everyone thinks this way, but that's just how it is for me. Logic prevails over emotions 99/100 times.
Who would have guessed that a bunch of BuzzFeed employees were bad people? Lol
Lol this is funny I like this
What a bad take. One guy cheats and now they're all horrible? Jeez.
I guess Adam Levine is a bad person too. Time to boycott Maroon 5.
@@SuperMurray2009 Absolutely.
I thought it would've been well excepted to sleep around given their demographic
Damn first Adam Levine, now some other guy that I’ve never heard of before. “If the poom poom nice, me look” they wanted to have a glance at some new poom poom
That yellow dress to a work thing?
I could never lmao.
What I consider extra salt in the wound is that Ned either didn’t care or didn’t take into account just what it means for all this to happen in the public eye with someone of his reputation. I don’t care if people choose to work it out after infidelity, but now we’ll have the entirety of the internet down his poor wife’s throat judging her or just forever looking at her with pity for staying with an unfaithful man. Working it out is *vastly harder* in my mind. The wife doesn’t deserve that.
Emotion and Logic don't work together... It takes a really strong man to look over his Horniness
Sounds like the fans are nosy bitches lol
@@davidadegbe8494 that's an excuse. Women have a lot more choices and that means the faithful ones pick their partners over all those choices every day. The least a man could do is the same.
@@UltraGalacticSuperFantastic lmao, there’s no faithful woman… look up the stats. It’s crazy out here
@@zorgon410 the stats are crazy for the same type of people, it's not a gender based thing. Some people are fucked in the head, we're all responsible for not being simps for them
Being cheated on can scar you for life. That's the thing. That shit can hurt, especially when you deeply love and trust someone. For many people, the shot to the face would hurt less.
Im sure it would hurt less. Considering youd only feel it for half a second.
Now add to that the fact that you spent a considerable amount of your life with someone who didn’t love you. Someone you have kids with. Someone who you will be stuck dealing with a long time. I hope his wife becomes his ex-wife and recovers and lives a happy and healthy rest of her life with her children.
Nigga shut that lame shit up
Gone through it twice with two different women. No explanation either time. Worst thing is trying to find an answer as to why when the only reason is that they're heartless monsters
It's robbing your spouse of living in reality. They think everything is great, they are making life together, doing good together, bu secretly, it's lies all along
The problem was not that he cheated, even though he was the wife guy this was not why they fired him..he was the boss and she was an employee which opens the company up to lawsuits.. and disclaimer she is 30 not 24
He lost his job, but she gets to keep hers.
Correct. Or she will sue them
Also, he's in a position of authority. This literally happened in my workplace, I knew a supervisor who was engaged and was seeing one of my colleagues who was married with a kid. They nailed him because he was manipulating her hours. In this case, the guy was compromising the brand's image, which will inevitably affect their bottom line.
Preach is 100 percent right. They knew about this for a year and did nothing until it blew up and went public. What happened to the girl he was cheating with? She's an employee too, was she fired?
I highlighted doubt they knew for a year. I think they just recently knew. And no they can’t really fire her because that could bring in a whole host of lawsuits. As much as I would love to see her get fired
@@sruthi2708 they did fire her. or i think they have both "been suspended immediately". see @14:59 its alex, i think alexandria of the food babies. not sure tho.
@@sruthi2708 can’t be no lawsuit if they more than likely violated workplace guidelines by having an affair 🤷🏽♀️
I'm sure they knew or had a gut feeling that they never acted on. Employee's have mentioned noticing something was off, so I don't think it escaped his closest friends and co-workers the actual Try Guys. They would have preferred to sweep this under the rug and keep the brand.
Not everyone is that interested in other people's affairs. Sometimes if you don't know for certain you don't ask. Hence why they probably didn't know for sure, they may have suspected but like I said most people keep their nose out of other peoples business especially at work.
Ned played the sweet, innocent guy role who had so much love for his wife really well. He pulled it off so good and a lot of us fell for it and thought it was adorable. It’s really disappointing to find out it was all just him overcompensating for the fact that he actually was a nasty, habitual cheater behind the scenes. 🤦🏻♀️
dnt knw these guys. did lady get fired too?
Or... He just fell in love with someone else? That's not a crime. Y'all act like adultery is worse than homicide. People grow and change and want something else. It's not that big a deal.
Yup not surprising a lot of internet personalities/ celebrities play a role that they think will make them more palatable/relatable/marketable that's just kinda how the entertainment world works that's why I don't take these celebs all that seriously I just enjoy what it is they do and leave it at that
@@brynnwalk4390 I agree to a certain extent now if you give your word to a girl that your gonna be faithful then imo you have to honor that but all this hysteria and a damn apology video? Just cause 2 consenting adults decided to step out on their significant other? Idk it feels like a bit much
Did he though? lol
even after all this... wha I wanna know is why buzzfeed employees said they weren't suprised?!
As a woman, cheat on me. Do not punch me in the face. I need it to find a new nigga. Either way, we're done.
Funny part is, I just read a article with him saying cheating is a deal breaker in a marriage.
This is why content creators shouldn't monetize their personal lives or if they do, at least be prepared for scandals and consequences when some shit goes down.
Hell nah, that parasocial relationship content makes so much money baybeee
Idk I've been watching a lot of Destiny, and his personal drama is so fun to watch
Naw, they wont it makes too much money and even though aba called out their hypocrisy, nothing will change.
That's literally 70% of all creators lmao
from the relatable niche to finance creators and daily vloggers.
Silly statement to make
See whether he did or not shit would still hit the fan because he cheated with an employee
Ned doth brag too much…Eugene’s angry Asian mom energy is 🔥🔥🔥
My favorite parts of the videos is when they just go back and forth and make each other laugh shit is contagious
What got me fucked up was they didn’t just fire Ned, they got rid of him from merch, from old videos, deleted new videos like they basically erased Ned from the try guys
Good! FCK CHEATERS
It cause they are women that are barely registered as male.
Stalin time.
The merch I get. The video stuff is crazy overkill if that's true.
@@5050TM It could be a sponsorship issue? I could see some brands not wanting their content mixed up with a cheater.
I agree 100% I hate when public figures have the audacity to want privacy when they get exposed. We in season 3 espisode 2 of your life you don’t get to just cut it off now 🤣🤣🤣
0:55 what a bunch of backstabbers. You’d think a bunch of friends would stick up for each other in their time of need. These guys have no backbone. I would’ve stood up for my friend.. Granted, I have no clue who these guys are, but that’s not the point. The point is they left their friend in his hour of need
I'm a huge fan of the Try Guys. I haven't been watching CZcams in a while because of life circumstances, and have been slowly watching all of the videos you guys have uploaded (because yall hold a special place in my entertainment enjoyment) and paused for a second to see their video about what was going on and my first thought was that I wished yall would comment on it. I thought it was outside of your scope given who they are but then I saw this pop up tonight and was like let's goooooo. I may not always like what you guys say or agree with you fully on everything, but I always love hearing your opinion. I still love the Try Guys, but I dig what yall did here too. Ned fucked up big time, so did Alex. Its crazy how even the "squeaky clean" people are out there doing shady stuff.
This is not just about cheating and how it destroyed his brand and reflected negatively on the Try Guy's brand. It is also about him cheating with an employee who was his subordinate and who he, in a work context, had power over. The reason why they hired an independent HR professional & talked to HR lawyers is because this employee could have probably easily sued the Try Guys and thus destry the company. So I agree, if he would have had cheated with someone outside the company there would have probably been a way to keep him on but since he had to do it with one of his subordinate employees this situation has completely different legal consequences for the company. There is a reason why most companies have a clause against there relationships in company policies and employment contracts.
And the girl was in a relationship for 10 years and getting engaged, she even make a video trying WEDDING dresses....
damn send the source my guy
She’s 24 so was was with him when she was 14?
@@destaneyvito5936
People say she's 30. At what age do Americans tend to graduate high school? Because she graduated in 2009 (says so on her linked in). Either way, she's probably closer to 30 than 24.
@@destaneyvito5936 yes. 24 minus 10 is 14.
@@proudtobeme1ashkente the average highschool graduate age is 17 could be 18 depending on what year you first started schooling.
This is what Skippy would turn into if he ever got married...
My wife...my wife...my wife
He'd turn into a Try Guy?
Shout out to Chance the Rapper
Oh gawd! I had forgotten about him
Bruh that's not cool. I cringe at the thought of Skippy lmao
i sell my wife for internet connection
Something I find strange is that people want to defend him to keep his job but they cancel people for jokes or comments they deem sexist or racist. The public sense of morality is so twisted that a few off hand words are considered worse by many than this ned guy and what he'll do for kicks.
6:50 Aba really becoming more unhinged with every video 😂
I think the thing you’re looking for with the whole brand thing is Will Smith slapping Chris Rock, Will’s whole brand is being positive, so the moments he slipped had a big wave.
Why fire him when you can just spin it into a juicy episode? "The Try Guys Try Cheating on their Wives"
If it was just cheating, I'm sure they had not much legal grounds to cast him out. But he was a founder/boss/HR manager of the company, she a subordinate . It was definitely a legal matter.
Sounds Kardashianish 🤔
Next episode try guy ned tried to cheat on his wife 😆
You’re wild😂
It'd be too supportive of toxic masculinity and anti feminist for their woke audience
I’m glad Aba brought up confirmation bias because I’ve used that to catch on if I’m bein lied to or if someone got a crush on me
I Give all of you a good advise I learnd over time. If someone is repeatedly saying something. Like "loyalty is important to me" you can bet they are not loyal.
The fact that this has been going on for nearly a year (that we know of) speaks volumes. And then she accepts a proposal from her long-term relationship all the while sleeping with her coworker AND planning a wedding at that, like WTF? 😐 Her fiancée is even crazier for going to her lover asking him to stop - if I read that correctly 😵💫 Why even get married?? As The World Turns...
she isnt sleeping with her coworker, she is sleeping with her boss, adds another layer to this situation
I mean he probably didn't want to throw away so Many years of Hard work in the relationship...if you were a Guy you'd Understand..
When you loved somebody for that long, it’s easy to forgive them as long as it doesn’t happen again. I can’t imagine how he feels knowing he wasted 10 years of his love life for someone who cheated on him, even after given a second chance. I hope he got that proposal ring back, at the very least.
*if you were a simp, you’d understand…there…I fixed it for you 😉 👍!
@@pdors94 I totally get it, but self respect should be just as important. She clearly does not respect him, so why hold on? 🤷 People only do what you allow. This is just sad 😔
That's why Will Smith had such a downfall from the slap. His brand was "the good guy"
Nobody would've been given two fucks if Ezra Miller did that
@@familyguysofunny1933 i wonder if ezra ever built a brand though
That’s the opposite of what happened here…
Asian dude looking into the camera like Ned about to catch Ten Rings
Internet: Undefeated facts.
The Fiancé of the girl is wild.. bro knew they hooked up and didn't say shit to the wife. Him making the decision to stay with her was dumb but even worse was him making the decision to stay quite.
Probably actually enjoys the cuck experience. Not even an insult. There are people who like it which is odd, but true.
He's probably making her pay for it, public forgiveness, private persecution. Wouldn't be surprised if they're engaged for years.
They were dating for 10yrs before they got engaged a year ago. Ngl he’s giving me simp vibes.
wait... he knew !!!
Could Not be me. If lord forbid i find out my girl, wasn’t really my girl i’m Out. I’d ghost her.. I wouldn’t even let on that I’d know just plan & move accordingly. Wouldn’t respond to none of her voice calls or read None of her text messages. I’d just be gone one day. She reach out to my ppl We are NOTHING to each other.
I’m a boxer and I’ve been cheated on. Can confirm being punched is worse. I don’t even remember the girls name who cheated on me. Yet I for sure remember the first person who yeeted me in the face. 😭😭😭
Still ruminating on how you would have won that fight eh.
@@AlIskanderZhao simple answer I didn’t. Long answer I was bullied as a child by two people 2 grades above me 😭
@@518trey1 I hope he got what was coming to him
@@AlIskanderZhao I remember like it was yesterday. I accidentally snitched and they got in serious trouble. They would lock me in closets, throw food on my uniform, punch me, kick me, slam me etc. One day my mother asked me why my cloths were so dirty and was about to ring my neck and I think I just got tired of being blamed so I told her the truth. They had to go to this after school counciling shit. I still feel bad because I have/had a strong feeling whatever was going on at home for them was much worse for them then it was for me. You could smell the desperation of trying to be cool or popular or some bs so I let it slide. I did fight back got beat every time but I did fight back. Mama ain’t raise no B’.
Wouldn't you say it matters for how long you've been together and how much you've built together? How long were you together with the girl whose name you can't remember?
Proof that immoral actions can snowball into some horrible shit. His cheating didnt just hurt his wife, it ruined his friends too and harmed their business
Yo bro that sweater looks mad cozy
I said this when it first came out. The people they work with absolutely knew. Now they have to watch out for themselves and pretend they "had no idea".
Aba ripping into Ned feels good because it's basically what Eugene wanted to say at the minimum, you could see Eugene was pissed and had to HR himself not to say anything personal about Ned. Ned is actually just dumb not just for the cheating but how openly he did it. Especially in California where basically most of the state that uses CZcams would recognize him either from Buzzfeed or from the Try Guys, he literally a local celebrity at the minimum, he really probably thought no one would recognize him. Good to know he's not the big brains of anything.
Thats just how Eugene always looks. Hes permanently got the angry face and usually attitude. And to be fair, if I was forced to work with the rest of them, Id be like that too...
Does Alex deserve no blame?
7:10 if your brand is about being vegetarian and animal sanctuaries but you having barbecues every weekend hit 17 different kinds of protein and 15 exotic meats, camel , lion, cheetah,elephant, etc
"Has the tendency to be harsher on women".
They fired him but not her. As if it was only him to be blamed
They fired him bc he’s the CEO who slept with a lower lever employee, legally he’s the one in the wrong bc she is the ‘vulnerable’ one here even if she consented. Legally it’s hard to fire her. If the roles were reversed she’d be fired
@@muna4213 Sure she would. Whatever makes you sleep more comfortably at night.