Embarrassment and Growing pains in your relationship | Fridays with Tab and Chance

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  • čas přidán 3. 08. 2023
  • Are you ever embarrassed around your partner? How do you recover from embarrassing moments? Today we're talking about some of our embarrassing moments and growing pains we've experienced early on in our relationship. Lets get into it!
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  • @bestkksser
    @bestkksser Před 10 měsíci +420

    If you are reading this there’s a reason……No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs ❤️🇧🇸

  • @laymic8944
    @laymic8944 Před 10 měsíci +166

    Why pay for a therapist when we can just watch this real couple? I love yall❤

  • @Latoija
    @Latoija Před 10 měsíci +113

    I love how chance is more comfortable with the camera and talking. He gets straight to the point so much quicker now.

    • @AllThingsSoul
      @AllThingsSoul Před 10 měsíci +16

      I love how Tabitha does not interrupt him and allows him to express himself in his own words on his own time. Us ladies tend to want to interrupt and put our 2 cents in or finish his sentences, but we have to learn how to be good listeners. Myself included!

    • @purplepantheradk
      @purplepantheradk Před 10 měsíci +4

      These are great comments 😊I concur. I need to work on that too.

  • @awardtour93
    @awardtour93 Před 10 měsíci +35

    I hope Chance understands just how valuable his voice is. Thank you for sharing your experiences, brother.

  • @zerandrianmorris
    @zerandrianmorris Před 10 měsíci +52

    I ADORE how Tab slows down time for Chance to get his thoughts together. To think in first draft and arrive at his point. I ADORE that.
    She does not rush him. She allows him to explore where he is trying to go. To arrive at articulating what he’s saying.
    THAT is amazing to me.

  • @sleepytimesoundsnightnight
    @sleepytimesoundsnightnight Před 10 měsíci +77

    Tab and Chance talking about they momma's had me laughing so hard that i couldn't even close my mouth. I had that silent open mouth laugh!

  • @ajrose1245
    @ajrose1245 Před 10 měsíci +50

    The beginning was the perfect Segway to the topic!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @GirlfriendsTeawithSebrina
    @GirlfriendsTeawithSebrina Před 10 měsíci +117

    I sincerely appreciate your and Chance's transparency.

  • @BibleTalk2
    @BibleTalk2 Před 10 měsíci +63

    I really enjoy these Tab and Chance Fridays. So encouraging and uplifting

  • @gwenmack5108
    @gwenmack5108 Před 10 měsíci +88

    Love the way you two look at each other with so much love and respect for each other! ❤It’s FRIDAY!!

  • @KiaFlow
    @KiaFlow Před 10 měsíci +54

    These topics give my husband and I things to discuss, learn and grow from. Thanks for your wisdom.

  • @LeLand2112
    @LeLand2112 Před 10 měsíci +52

    Chance was waiting till the coast was clear to ask if Tab was alright 😂

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Před 10 měsíci +28

    Embarrassing moments just make you grow in your relationships ❤

  • @sfr9722
    @sfr9722 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Chance’s hair looks really good.

  • @helenellis1045
    @helenellis1045 Před 10 měsíci +28

    Thanks for sharing your lives with us…. It’s funny, touching and so relatable. My husband and I have been married almost 28 years- thru the good, bad & ugly.
    God has been faithful and prayer got us here 😊

    • @TayReneeTips
      @TayReneeTips Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yes, I love them. I wish I was able to watch them back in the beginning of my marriage. We're going on 22 years now. Happy early 28th anniversary 😘.

  • @gabbymommie2
    @gabbymommie2 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Your mom is my hero! I love how sweet and cool she remained but still demanded that respect. I love it! 😂

  • @luvnyaalwayz
    @luvnyaalwayz Před 10 měsíci +16

    Every week I feel more love for the two of you, it's the transparency and the hard conversations for me. I love to see it

  • @divastarr35
    @divastarr35 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I felt a little embarrassed when my wonderful Significant Other & I “tooted” or burped in front of each other the first time. We always say “excuse me” or something polite when it happens. He said something to me that really made a lot of sense & speaks volumes: “If you can’t be comfortable ripping one in front of each other, then you’re not comfortable being around each other!” (or something close to that. I don’t remember the exact wording, but you get the idea.) That’s real truth right there! You gotta be able to let the embarrassments happen to allow to becoming comfortable to happen! You gotta take the good with the bad & toughen up! Thank you for your realness Tab & Chance. I love this show & you guys! Keep on being awesome & your best selves! Blessings 💖

  • @tonyaheaden9199
    @tonyaheaden9199 Před 10 měsíci +35

    😂😂😂 I can only imagine what Chance was thinking that entire time between the slap and the time y’all got back in the car!😂😂😂

  • @TOMMYBITESTV
    @TOMMYBITESTV Před 10 měsíci +5

    We have had so many embarrassing things happen in our 21 years married. It is something a kut being able to trust that you can go through those things and know that your partner is truly there for better or worse and you can laugh about it later.

  • @Virtuouswomanproductions
    @Virtuouswomanproductions Před 10 měsíci +12

    I love how you're dropping the episodes earlier in the day. I just hit like before it comes on. I know its gonna be good. I just talked to God about this topic with someone

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Před 10 měsíci +15

    You guys have stand the test of time especially because you were very young and God has blessed you to still be together ❤

  • @GirlfriendsTeawithSebrina
    @GirlfriendsTeawithSebrina Před 10 měsíci +18

    Chance... "They watching me in my house." 😂

  • @LoveFireWellness
    @LoveFireWellness Před 10 měsíci +8

    "I'm grown, in my Choice voice" LMBO! 🤣😭😂🦋😍🥰

  • @WhateverIsClever1111
    @WhateverIsClever1111 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Chance cracks me up. He reminds me very much of my late husband. They compliment each other perfectly. Tabitha is so beautiful …on the outside too💖✨😊

  • @lorinunery2353
    @lorinunery2353 Před 10 měsíci +11

    I love your relationship and how you kept it real for 20+yrs.

  • @christinabaker7021
    @christinabaker7021 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I’m going through perimenopause as well, and having the conversation with my husband is a challenge sometimes because I’m afición being too needy. But….men go through andropause, and me being willing to open up about how my body is changing has helped him to open up as well. That said, the struggle is real. But, Tabitha, listening to you and others who have a spiritual perspective has encouraged me, and prayer is my constant companion. Lord, lead me to the solution for this issue. Help me to keep things in perspective and to know that you want for me to be happy and healthy even as you take me through this lesson.

  • @AudreyBerry-jw2sd
    @AudreyBerry-jw2sd Před 10 měsíci +32

    Don’t feel bad the first time I tried cooking pinto beans didn’t put enough water in and my husband told me to never cook them again because they were hard as rocks 😂😂😂

  • @dthornton1107
    @dthornton1107 Před 10 měsíci +12

    Love the relationship that you and Chance has, very open.

  • @denisescott6469
    @denisescott6469 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Man, y'all be making my day! When I really need a laugh I look the honeymoon recap. 😂😂😂😂 I'm going to look at it now I feel like laughing! ❤

  • @melaniehicks7815
    @melaniehicks7815 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I’m post menopausal and just realized I was in a depression. Adjusting to my body and life changes. I’m plant based and I know that helps but I didn’t realize I was depressed until I came out of it … didn’t know when it started .
    Awesome you both are speaking on this

  • @tracysittinpretty1381
    @tracysittinpretty1381 Před 10 měsíci +10

    I am crying at the beans in the fryer! 🤣

  • @Kita_01
    @Kita_01 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I love y’all sooo much ❤️❤️ I pray to have this type of love, energy, laughter, understanding and everything else I’m forgetting lol .. one day with my husband.

  • @donnathornwell1068
    @donnathornwell1068 Před 10 měsíci +15

    Y’all have some great conversations which turn into teachable moments. Thank you for the lessons 💜

  • @kelleyjones2899
    @kelleyjones2899 Před 10 měsíci +18

    OMG!!! Cooking Pento beans in a deep fryer!!! Tabitha, I am dead!!!

  • @JulisaNicole
    @JulisaNicole Před 10 měsíci +1

    Omg! The “aye you alright” 2 hours after sounds just like Chance 😂 that was a good story.

  • @tyuanacoates273
    @tyuanacoates273 Před 10 měsíci +19

    This was very good conversation thank you both; may God continue to bless you!

  • @shebapowers7235
    @shebapowers7235 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Y'all are so refreshing. Thank you!

  • @valeriedorsey7527
    @valeriedorsey7527 Před 10 měsíci +4

    🤣🤣🤣 I cannot believe this. I had almost the exact same experience with my mother, at around the exact same age, and my boyfriend at the time, who later became my husband also, had the same response that Chance had. He asked me was I alright too! The only thing different, was that indidn't cuss and hang up on my mom. She just didn't like my tone of voice. I shudder to think what would have happened had I cussed and hung up the phone, but I was so embarrassed. I'm now 68 years old, and my mom is 91 yrs old, and she still doesn't play. You really took me back with that story,vand believe me, it never happened again!😂😂😂😂

  • @Srhubanks
    @Srhubanks Před 10 měsíci +3

    I cried laughed through this whole episode…Chance couldn’t even keep it together and I was Chance while Tab was telling her momma story! I couldn’t keep it together! 😂😂😂

  • @jamuq3589
    @jamuq3589 Před 10 měsíci +8

    THIS was Excellent! Thank you, Tab & Chance!

  • @dymjackson713
    @dymjackson713 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Not somebody shooting 😭😂😭😭😭😭 I love Yall god 😂😂😂❤️

  • @jnellp9362
    @jnellp9362 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I really appreciate this conversation. I raised three sons as a divorced single mother. And it saddens me to say they don't know how to do things that society and "other" males believe they should...

  • @LowkeyMikeyyy
    @LowkeyMikeyyy Před 10 měsíci +17

    My favorite Friday podcast! ❤

  • @curlylyric
    @curlylyric Před 10 měsíci +15

    i love you both so much ❤️ so much wisdom and love 🙏🏾

  • @nikkil1212
    @nikkil1212 Před 10 měsíci +19

    Hey Tab and Chance. Have the day you deserve 🙏🏽❤

  • @user-bg3bt6zp5h
    @user-bg3bt6zp5h Před 10 měsíci +4

    I love your union, you compliment each other so well. I enjoy the way you love and support your family. Blessings and continued well being to you all.

  • @beautyinme360
    @beautyinme360 Před 10 měsíci +3

    To be able to hear the maturity and growth between you two is a blessing 🙏

  • @ladylashleytt
    @ladylashleytt Před 10 měsíci +8

    Such a real real conversation. Love you two! 🤎🙌🏾

  • @lineegiles815
    @lineegiles815 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Oh Tab, you got GOT! You are never too old. I say this to my 31 yo too.

  • @InTheRecoveryRoom
    @InTheRecoveryRoom Před 10 měsíci +1

    Ms Tab… u and ur husband’s vulnerability brings tears to my eyes …
    #thankubothforshowingup

  • @marshabowens9253
    @marshabowens9253 Před 10 měsíci +14

    Hello There! Tab & Chance what a bless Friday it is.
    I’m going home from the hospital today. Much Love You Both ❤️💙❤️💙

    • @mamakarin8592
      @mamakarin8592 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Awesome! Praying for your health to be fully restored!💜

  • @NicxNic
    @NicxNic Před 10 měsíci +6

    Watching Tab and Chance at work 😌 these paperwork can wait and that’s my business

  • @TulseeDeen
    @TulseeDeen Před 10 měsíci +4

    Love this couple’s friendship, it’s a beautiful thing to watch😍

  • @btownes5632
    @btownes5632 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Absolutely a needed conversation. Thank you so much for sharing and always being so transparent about everything.❤❤❤

  • @stellac.e2086
    @stellac.e2086 Před 10 měsíci +8

    FYI ... 😂 we are here for TAB & CHANCE.

  • @alphaandomega1332
    @alphaandomega1332 Před 10 měsíci +2

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 ..that momma story had me rolling 😂😂😂😂. I keep going back to the momma story 😂😂😂.

  • @mt5472
    @mt5472 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Oh I needed this!! Thank you!!

  • @iamshe3275
    @iamshe3275 Před 10 měsíci +14

    I did the exact same thing to a chicken breast. I was making my BF, which is my husband now. LOL, I thought frying chicken was all about the pretty color on the outside! He bit the chicken LOL He screamed and spit that crap out like Hun! I'll fry the rest of the chicken LMAO up until he went vegetarian he never bit into a piece of chicken!!!😂 He'd break it open with his fingers first!

  • @sdc1116
    @sdc1116 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Great conversation❤love it!!!

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with the world 🙏🏾♥️

  • @hppybnstr537
    @hppybnstr537 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I just love you guys SOOO much!! Thank you for doing what you do so very well!❤

  • @bernadettedarden9520
    @bernadettedarden9520 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Menopause can be very harsh I went through a rough time in 2011. My mother being a nurse for over 35 yrs told me not to take the pill the doctors give you it can cause cancer do I went natural way by using the compound cream. Tab please set down with your doctor concerning this matter it really affected my entire body. Praying for you and I hope your husband understands and be very sensitive towards you. 😢❤

  • @alliyoung17
    @alliyoung17 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I really LOVE y'all for this. Thank you, for sharing. This will help a lot of young couples and newly married couples in general. Y'all are The-Real-Deal. It's just a beautiful thing to watch the two of you!❤

  • @msmashelleanderson5876
    @msmashelleanderson5876 Před 10 měsíci +10

    I loooooove you both! So very inspiring 😊

  • @mosue3200
    @mosue3200 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Wonderful storytelling! 😊 Thank you Tab and Chance!

  • @TheCoastofMagdala
    @TheCoastofMagdala Před 10 měsíci

    Tab praying for you and your hip and any other alignments you may be suffering from. We love you and want to be able to have you here for many many more years to come! You make the world a better place to live in. Thank you

  • @1valerie_oakley
    @1valerie_oakley Před 10 měsíci +1

    Your willingness to work out EVERYTHING together is golden. Everything is figure outable if you just give each other grace. Thanks for sharing❤❤

  • @gomasworld7215
    @gomasworld7215 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I feel you Tab on the peremenopause its😮 no joke....😢

  • @yeslia2010Godis
    @yeslia2010Godis Před 10 měsíci +12

    That's one of those old School pop in the mouth where your lips sting for minutes afterwards 😄 I like Chance's T-shirt !! Very good conversation!!!!

    • @TayReneeTips
      @TayReneeTips Před 10 měsíci +1

      Sure was 😂! I was on the receiving end of one of those when I was about 17. 😅

  • @janicevance6981
    @janicevance6981 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Great Topic! I just LOVE the two of you transparency!

  • @speakezforkids545
    @speakezforkids545 Před 10 měsíci +4

    This was good! Throughly enjoyed it! Thanks and love ya’ll❤

  • @arianastetson5330
    @arianastetson5330 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Love you both. ❤
    Thank you for sharing your lives with us 💯

  • @UniqulyBold1
    @UniqulyBold1 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you Tab!!! I needed that part about you being sick very young 😭😭😭

  • @monetdavenport9626
    @monetdavenport9626 Před 10 měsíci

    This blessed me today. I love this. I feel the love flowing through the screen ❤

  • @joannjohnson8334
    @joannjohnson8334 Před 10 měsíci

    Appreciate all of these topics. Thanks for sharing your lives and love with us ❤.

  • @chrisblue961
    @chrisblue961 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Now Tab you know better. Even if your mom was quiet she still comes from a particular time of don’t play with me or you’ll find out.

  • @shawquilalogan344
    @shawquilalogan344 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Learning together! I love that!

  • @maryhiggs8444
    @maryhiggs8444 Před 10 měsíci

    You Two have Been Chosen to Help the Masses at the Point of their Needs

  • @thea7418
    @thea7418 Před 10 měsíci

    Tysm Tabitha for sharing 💓, rich blessings in your mind, body, and entire life.

  • @lelelum4103
    @lelelum4103 Před 10 měsíci +12

    My daughter is currently 21 and I’m this close to smacking her lips too! It must be that age

  • @Sheninabroaders
    @Sheninabroaders Před 10 měsíci

    I love y’all I look forward to Friday with Tab and Chance I watch it every week

  • @lawandamoore7743
    @lawandamoore7743 Před 10 měsíci +3

    This is so funny my husband and I have been together since were 17. Together 31 years married 21. Tab and Chance listening to y’all stories brings up so many memories of me and my husband. My husband is not the handyman but I can fix some things he can’t because of my dad and brothers. I definitely couldn’t cook either I would call my mama, grandma and my aunt Sister 😂😂. My mama used to come to my house to cook for us and I would tell my husband then boyfriend that I cook 😂😂 until he caught my mama leaving one day. 😂😂 We got this now! ❤

    • @TayReneeTips
      @TayReneeTips Před 10 měsíci

      I'm strolling down memory lane too, and loving this conversation. I definitely have to watch this with my husband.

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Před 10 měsíci +7

    You guys are hilarious 😂 ❤but when you are married there is no embarrassment especially after 37 years. Nope 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @leetheaarceneaux8151
    @leetheaarceneaux8151 Před 10 měsíci

    I love their energy ! Both are wonderful!

  • @houzhead6588
    @houzhead6588 Před 10 měsíci

    Absolutely Chance growing together early ...figuring it out....this is real talk and its talk that most folk dont talk about so thanks to you both Tab/Chance.

  • @user-li2vl4yd1x
    @user-li2vl4yd1x Před 2 dny

    Stevie Wonder can see they love each other. But most of all, I looooove the way they listen to each other. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kingdomchild6392
    @kingdomchild6392 Před 10 měsíci

    Just getting to this on Monday. Love this! The Lord Bless everything and everyone connected to you two ❤❤

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace Před 10 měsíci

    I’m loving the transparency 😆💛 these conversations are needed. Thank you guys for sharing.

  • @vashonablanchard-qx8gp
    @vashonablanchard-qx8gp Před 10 měsíci

    You are such an inspiration! Thank You for sharing your experiences

  • @fontellajohnson
    @fontellajohnson Před 10 měsíci +1

    Great topic, thanks for sharing

  • @betternay9165
    @betternay9165 Před 10 měsíci

    Chance yes that was a mouthful. If young men are not educated about it they have no patience for it. Thank you

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 Před 10 měsíci

    Great discussion!!

  • @wonderzofcloudn9ne
    @wonderzofcloudn9ne Před 10 měsíci +4

    I'm dyiinnnggg I wasn't ready for that mama slapppppp story!

  • @yvonnewilliams8800
    @yvonnewilliams8800 Před 10 měsíci +17

    Alright Mama! We love you Tab❤ But my mama would have done the same thing. I understand Chance too. I had a teacher that used to make the whole class stay after even if you had nothing to do with. Well my daddy used to dress like Sammy Davis Jr on Sundays for church but during the week my daddy worked hard and when he picked us up from school after working hard, he usually would be wearing his house slippers and when he had to pick me up from school late because our teacher held us over. I could hear his feet scooting down the school hallway and I would be so embarrassed because I know he was already saying in his mind what the F is going on that my daughter had to stay after. Chile, I like to have gotten my behind blazed over some other kid and my teacher😂

  • @marshabowens9253
    @marshabowens9253 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Thanks Tab and Chance for this topic on this Friday. Y’all had me laughing 😂😂😂😂

  • @TR-hn6qj
    @TR-hn6qj Před 10 měsíci +2

    YES!!! Tab mama got her straight even at 21yo!! Come on!!

  • @melbaknowlton
    @melbaknowlton Před 10 měsíci

    I really enjoy y’all conversations!! Every couple can’t talk like this!! Keep them coming give the people hope!! 😁

  • @anndavis1142
    @anndavis1142 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Going through growing pains builds a wonderful relationship

  • @alwaysdayla
    @alwaysdayla Před 10 měsíci +7

    Tab knew better than to try moms like that 🤣🤣