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HOW A WOMAN RECOVERS FROM THE CHASE by RC Blakes
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I believe that Pst.Rc Blakes channel wasn't searched by many of us. It found us through God's mercy and since then, our lives have been constantly changing. This message right here, MORE PRECIOUS THAN GOLD! God bless you Pastor. You're changing and healing the lives of women like me.
Amen!
This is priceless to me. Thank you.
Yes!!!!🙌🏾
Agreed!
Agreed!!
Those days are sooooooooo behind me .. thank you Jesus. I would NEVA act like this ever again. Queen over here 👈 self love, self worth, and working on me
Yes Sis! I've chased up behind enough men to last a lifetime. I'm getting older therefore I'm getting wiser. If I got to chase him, he doesn't want me.
I understand I did it too.
Ditto!!! 🙏🏾🙌🏾💃🏽
@@keepitupkhaizen4079 NEVA EVVA!😊
Amen! I've done it too. Praise God for our awakening. 🙂 Thank you Pastor RC Blake's & Lisa y'all have helped so much on my journey.
I just left a man who thought I was going to chase him. I left him soon as I seen he wasn't ready .stop missing the red flags ladies. pay attention it will save you a lot of heartaches.
I met this man through fb & he wanted me to chase him girl I block him & keep it moving cause if you say you want me why you going all day without conversation & only want to get otp & talk about meeting up & sex move around
I needed to hear this ...I am chasing a man who I know don't care too much about me ...If I don't message him he won't message me ...when I call he don't answer and don't return my calls ...I stopped doing all of that for 3 days now ...nothing from him since ...I know God wanted me to see this ...I thank you .Blessings
Mine finally texted me. I decided to ignore!! Yeah Growth
@@nishadeloney7361 since then nothing from him and I decided it was time to delete everything about him and focus on me for once .
I know God was showing me certain things and I was ignoring all the red flags ...I thank God I was strong enough to press the delete button .
@@sylvenakeil6778 Be grateful he showed you upfront. Some men will fake interest to get access to your body😺purse👜 or home🔑🏡
Chasing acceptance and the love that she needed, that she never gotten from family.
1: STOP and THINK about the futility of what you’re doing.
a) risking your mental health to chase
b) you paint the picture that you are easy.
c) attracts users and not husbands
2: REPLENISH yourself that the chase depleted certain areas
a) self-esteem
b) self-development
c) heartbroken
d) restart your personal vision
God + Counselor = healthy me!
3: DEPOSIT the knowledge gained, into your wisdom bank so you can grow with interest.
4: READJUST your crown.
“Don’t chase but attract and approve..”
Thank you for the notes 🍏
@@dalandasctt3495 You’re welcome. 💛
Thank you for the notes.
@@gathonisupu You’re welcome 💛
Thank you for the notes….great job!
Sometimes one of the best methods to deal with relationship trauma is just to take a freaking time out! A time out ladies!
I’ve been timed out for almost 3 years now
Yes indeed! I took me some self love and me time for 3 yrs. When I met someone after the 3 yrs after my time out, he was devil but I broke it off with him. It has been over a year now since I've dated anyone. I talk to guys on FB dating but they are full of games. Some have called me on the phone and then I never hear from them again. Smh.
@@lashawnshipp8271 so sorry 😔
Idk. If you take a time out you may time yourself out if you take too long. Some time themselves out for 10 years
@@Tnc8748+ years myself and counting. Celibacy and solitude are my crown's most precious gems.
I would gladly go on like this until death comes around to get me.
I don't have the time to chase men at all!!! That is beneath a Queen's behavior. Queens we have better things to do with our lives Amen!!!!!!
I finally escaped from a 39 year abusive toxic marriage by listening to pastor RC Blakes I listened to him for over 3 years and I finally did it. It's it's been the biggest blessing and the best thing that I ever did. His youtube videos literally saved my life! That's NOT ❤️, Signs the relationship is over, It's time to move on! LIFE SAVERS FOR REAL....
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Wow, that’s amazing. Well done for finding the strength to put yourself first ❤
I left my abuser 5 years ago too a pastor at that
THANK U FAITH 4 Sharing that. Im looking forward to being on the other side Also ! GOD BLESS U!!🙏🙏💝💝
Sir, I found you over 3 years ago. I was broken, lost , confused, chased men, made a fool of me. After listening to you & your teachings, I am proud to say I am not engaged 💍 & happy. He is truly amazing 🥺🥹🥹♥️ thank you for all of your teachings 💙💙💙 muchas bendiciones 🥹🥹♥️♥️
I’ve enrolled in school, joined the gym, and I’m on my 5th book thanks to you. Queenology workbook included. Thank you for continuing to pour into our lives.
Kudos to you for doing the work! Peace and blessings to you!
I'm wondering how the workbook is. I wanted to buy it but have no idea what it looks like inside
Great job!
@@jesssands5349 good question me too
Too many women have too much time on their hands. Should be chasing purpose and like Ruth, the man God has for you will find you
Amen!
Not true. A woman can be very busy & STILL chase a man 😑
I have been in the healing process for a while now and am starting to discover how I became this kind of woman. Yes am the type that chased men. And I have realized that it didn't start with them. It started in my childhood when I was made to believe I needed to earn love. I never believed that anyone could truly love me for me but that I needed to earn it. This teaching is one that has left me feeling some what grieved due to the realization of just how much of the damage I have suffered would have been avoided if I had the right mindset. Anyway am on my way to wholeness now. And thank you RC for this.
Thank you for sharing@ANNITA GOLD. Your story resonated with me. Some of us have been chasing love since childhood because we had caregivers who withheld affection and attention which in turn taught us that love was something to be earned. That we weren't good enough as is and that we had to prove ourselves worthy of receiving it. It created in us love hunger that could never be filled. I recognize it in myself. A lot of my physical weight was the product of being devoid of the nutrition of love.
Wow I just made this realization of myself today and here I am seeing it written …God does work in mysterious ways. And it crazy because when men try to love me I reject it because I feel it comes too easy, but I keep trying to earn love from men who cannot/will not give it to me 😢
Whew!!! This topic is gone be good!!! Was just dating a guy who all of a sudden ghosted me…I’ve just left the situation alone and moved on…I’m not chasing no man!!!!
They always try to comeback dont accept it
Watch he just gone reappear bc you didn't Chase him lol. It never fails. There is a ex I chased years ago and when I stopped chasing him he came back 6 months later to only be the same man again and I was in a new relationship. He came back again this August and I began chasing him to just realize that he was not the one and only God can change him and I cut ties and feel so relieved that I did not waste 1.5 years chasing him like I did before. I pray that when he comes back next time I'll be married to the man that God has ordained for me.
That new relationship that I was in the enemy destroyed it and when he walked away I let him go and he still tries to remain my friend but I have to make room for my husband! If it's him God will change him if it's someone else then so be it let God's will be done amen.
@@vickyblanco4284 I was just saying this
@@StephaniesGoldenSkincareVlogs Why not the 'love' that replaces the man be the self love you discovered inside of you? I think this thinking about 'a husband' is part of the problem. You're still thinking about replacing one man for another, even if you call the man you seek a 'husband', you are still seeking. It's the seeking that is causing the problem, because you are seeking outside of yourself. The love you are seeking is inside of you, not in a husband. Start the search from within and you will find the love you've been seeking in others. Then the change happens as you attract people (not just a husband) who reflect back to you the love you've discovered inside of you.
@@tamsparris-bah8283 thank you for explaining this. I think a lot of us were programmed to stay waiting for the husband and that actually leads to a cycle of looking for the next man hoping for this husband. I was dating for the sake of being open to meet and chat in hopes for finding my husband but I’ve learned the hard way to let that go and take care of myself. Some men don’t have the right spirit and you’ll be drained in one interaction. Such characters don’t deserve my time at all, not even a date.
If you're chasing something that means its trying to get away from you.
Pastor Blakes, i am a muslim and i follow your teachings, i think there are a lot of muslims that listen to your podcasts too. Respect and love from Algeria ❤️ to all our christian brothers and to Pastor RC and Lisa ❤️
Yes ,,me too a Muslim woman ❤
I'm ready to watch this , You have helped me in so many ways , My father was never there to teach me about how important it is to have self love and protect your mind , body and soul. You are a true blessing in my life
I agree 💯
Fully and Wholeheartedly agree!
It's hard not to have a father in our lives. It took me now 50 years to learn I was doing it wrong
Thank you pastor RC Blakes I'm only 18 years of age and your videos have helped me greatly!! From your videos educating on the topic of Narcissism to Queenology & your vids on the father daughter really have blessed my life tremendously.
Kia Isavibe I know you are young I was almost 17 going on to 18 years old and I had a narcissist and didn’t know anything about narcissist and I had a daughter out of wedlock just when I hit my 18 years old and I’m older and believe me I wish I could met him and have these videos and this pastor is really good and a blessing to you listen to him and you would never ever regret it!
You are blessed to have access to his teachings at your young age. Some of us are trying to learn all this in our 40’s and older. Better late than never I suppose.
@@socol76 For real!
It's good that you're learning early! 🙂
God bless you! Stay on track it will serve you very well and save you a ton of heartaches and time.
I wanted you to know just how grateful I am for everything you have done to my life.Thank you so very much Bishop RC Blakes 💐
It means a lot to me.
Once again accept my deepest thanks for your love and support,sir and Lisa ma’am 🙏
Teach Bishop
Thank you Father God for giving me strength to wait on you and know my worth
Thank u lord for keeping me in my right mind. All I can say .BUT GOD!!!
Can everyone take a moment and like the video. That’s the least we can do for the “Free” knowledge we’re receiving right now. You can like while the video is playing. That’s a new feature on CZcams 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes!!! I can adjust my crown and wake up because I was a "Sleeping Queen." Powerful!!!
This man helped me through pandemic sometimes you don’t open your Bible but his words comes from the word and it’s enough some days
I do not find your material offensive or triggering at all. This is coming from a highly sensitive woman. Keep preaching truth!! Thank you
I will Never Chase a man again in my life as my masculine energy is here doing greater things to benefit myself as a woman for my career. Thanks for being here for us woman ❤
I’m starting over from the ground up I don’t do half the things that I use to do I cut off things & place that no longer serve me
In fact. Im celibate for 2 years now. Happy.
8 plus years for me Halleujah!!!
Praise God! 🙌🏽
2.5
I’ve been chasing all my life. This makes so much sense to me.
Wow... This is so true that guys bait you to chase them and women go from one situationship to another situationship and loose decades. Unfortunately so sad! I like your preaching because it shows the point.
👀Chilllle...this gone be a GOOD one!😂
🙏🏿THANK YOU kindly Bishop Blakes for being so gracious and generous with your time...Yah bless you, your lovely wife Lady Lisa and your family!
I remember dealing with one guy things were going really good! Professing well and one day he just stopped accepting calls or texts and didn’t show up anymore. I got worried because it was odd and caught me off gaurd. No explanation. I thought something was wrong so I would keep trying to reach him and that’s when I realized he probably just left for his own resins… I realized I was chasing him for answers and I never heard from him. When men disappear suddenly it triggers out nurturing nature to show him were there to help if there is something wrong. I just made up my mind after 2 weeks to leave it alone and heal n move on.
Also RC is that my ex boyfriend also had a broken consciousness from coming from a broken home as well !! So he does not know how to be the man that is marriage oriented so we woman need to be careful of what kind of a man we are relating to. And put God First And fill our Spiritual needed self !! 🌟❤️🕊🙏
The internet has been teaching women to approach men for all kinds of reasons these days smh
I needed this lesson. I didn't know I was chasing but being flexible but no more! I'm just tired!
My God! My God! This was once me but no more! I stopped over five years ago! Living alone. Learning to love myself! ❤ Staying home doing other important things; journaling, watching movies, taking classes, focusing on my career, decorating my home, taking care of myself, resting! And more rest after chasing all my life! I’m exhausted! No more!
I have been a complete fool!! Even at the age of 49. I chased my husband. Currently still in it and suffering. Lord please help. Me. I don’t cry anymore I weep. The pain is unbearable at times. I though things would get better but it get worse. Y’all please pray for me.
Love you Tracy and it's hard but you are worthy of love ... pray to the lord for he has everything we need
This is 100% true for me. Just focus on God and wait!
Love the picture of you both before the video! Thank you bishop blakes and Ms Lisa blakes for your wonderful ministry of helping people to be the best versions of ourselves! I have learned so much from listening to you since last year. Thank for being a spiritual father to us all! May God continue to bless you both on your journeys! 🙌🏾 👏🏽 🙏🏽 🙌🏾 👏🏽 🙏🏽 ❤️
Thank u, RC Blakes, for giving us excellent advice! I, myself, am healing, understanding and accepting tht it's very unbecoming to chase after a man. I am learning to "Rest in my Femininity," and I actually can say tht it's very peaceful and graceful. Letting things come to me with little to no effort is a blessing and seeking inner peace is the way! It's about not stressing about a man or anything for tht matter. We must be willing to accept tht they're things beyond our reach tht we cannot control, and thts ok. We cannot change or fix everything. We can only learn to change ourselves as individuals. I've been working on my personal growth since last year and I've encountered some obstacles, but I'm overcoming thm. If a man pursues me, and then turns around and doesn't give me the time of day, I'll stop dealing w him. I'm not initiating any call or text anymore bc I shouldn't have to do so.
I would love to see RC Blake’s have a podcast. I need to be listening to him on the go 24/7 🥺
Sometimes it's because you want to fix things and you are chasing a man... You're not even aware... you're fighting for your relationship
“Attract and Approve” sounds like an Outstanding next step to this session! Good Night, Pastor Blakes!😇
I love listening to you Pastor. I'm already so aware of your teachings and principles, but sometimes I like to get on here because you have such a kind, warm, and fatherly presence. Its just comforting on days where I feel sad or just need some gentle reminders and affirmations. So comforting for my soul. God bless you
I have been healing and i NOW understood this message and it has brought me to tears
The first one he did on chasing men just glossed over me because i needed to heal
To actually hear the message.
I am so sorry to myself for allowing this kind of mindset (chasing mindset). I am so sorry self.
I honestly don't know if there are any good men out there or not bc I'm NOT even looking 🤷🏾♀️ 🤗
That’s a really great place to be. 😊
Mike drops ... 🎤🎤. Pastor thank you for your healing words
Amen
Your teachings calm my spirit. Thank You.
I even sleep to Pastors voice. It's feels like being a little girl listening to dad's voice reading bedtime stories. True blessing in every way.
Lisa and RC Blake's you both have transformed my life in a way that I never thought that it was going to be transformed and it's a daily process I love you both and I love your children and your whole family
It hit me hard when pastor R.C Blakes said that I am sleeping on my crown. Because Sleeping Beauty is my favorite Disney Princess. Hallelujah I have AWAKEN!! 💜
So much wisdom here, RC Blakes Jr. is telling you ladies the absolute truth! Cherish yourself 1st, you’ll attract the right men who are worthy of you & you choose who you want to be with!
'The right men to choose from' this is a confirmation to a change of mindset God has given me recently instead of just 'the right man'. Thanks for ur comment 👍👍👏👏
"The chase took you off track to YOU!"
This right here is Nourishment for the depleted Soul. Oh! How I wish I had this knowledge 10 years ago. Nevertheless, it is still on Time.💗
This message has woke my spirit UP ⬆️ 👑 It has made sense of my childhood and entire life this far. I need to listen to this a few times over and over to make it stick. Thank you so much.
I agree. Will be listening to this multiple times
Ooooo the new second camera and set up. I love all the scenic backgrounds and changes especially the fireplace and pianos….niiice!
Good lesson for women of today.
I'm 41 and have had only one sexual partner and I Married him.
Just became single recently and I realised how much women chase men but I also think men like it when women chase them
Lord have mercy!!
I got a mental breakdown from it n neglect my children sometimes chasing men I’m now praying n god relationship with god legs closed n gaining my esteem back
Please do a teaching on how to attract and approve! That would be a blessing! Thank you Pastor Blakes, these lessons are pure gold!!! 😊💗🙌
*How does a woman recover after chasing after a man*
When a woman is awakened to her Queen Consciousness and she knows who she really is or begins to come into a revelation of who she really is and she realizes the ERA or the ERRORS of her ways, she needs to recover and come out of that lifestyle. She should come out whole and healthy and healed and in a positive and progressive way.
• First thing you got to do is *STOP* and think about the futility of what you’re doing.
Most women identify their value and worth in terms of their proximity to a man in a relationship so if they don’t have a man they don't feel as though they are worthwhile or of any value. The tendency of a woman with broken consciousness is she attempts to recover from that chase by starting a new chase. Her brokenness is apparent to a predatory community of men and they bait her into a new chase so what happens is you find yourself out of one *SITUATIONSHIP* into another *MANIPULATIONSHIP* and then you waste a few more decades of your life. Do not be afraid to stop. You will not miss out or you will not lose anything. You can’t bear hug the breeze. Can you catch the wind? Same way, do not chase after a man. It is a futile way to have a good and wholesome relationship.
*Chasing a man does not make sense and here are a few reasons why*
• You are risking your mental health to chase and the rejection may break you. Hope deferred makes the heart sick.
• Women develop reputations that discourage husbands and attracts USERS (These are the kind of people who smooth talk themselves into the into the homes of unstable, depressed and needy women and take advantage of them). You are disqualified as a wife because wives do not chase. Wives are in full control of their virtue, they handle themselves like the prize, wives are not running around with this rhetoric that, ‘men of the prize’. Wives understand that ‘I am the prize’ and wives perfect themselves to attract husband material and they approve of the right one.
• Replenish yourself where the chase has depleted you.
When a woman has been a chaser you have to understand that you've been that because you've been empty in certain vital areas of your life.
1. One is an emptied self-esteem. That could be because of a father wound. He was never there to pour into you and to give you a solid sense of who you are or maybe you did have a great father but maybe you still chose the wrong man and he just broke you, leaving you in search for a sense of worth and value. Your value and identity that only comes from God. When you don't know the identity or the purpose of a thing always go back to the creator. Reconnect with the Creator he will restore your soul, your mind, your will and your emotions.
2. Some of the areas that must be replenished would be the area of self-development. The only way you could chase a man is when you put your own self-development on hold. You've wasted time chasing what should have been invested in to perfecting yourself by trying to find a relationship before you did the work to find yourself. You were chasing before you became your best version of yourself. You need to pause and take a sabbatical from all of this and the whole biological clock thing. Your lack of self-development is the reason you never attracted what you deserved and always chased what you didn't deserve.
3. You have to you have to understand that your heart is broken. You need inner healing. The Chase has made your soul sick. What the soul is, is the mind, the will and the emotions. So you're sick in your mind your will is all screwed up and what you should be doing you aint doing and what you should not be doing. So reconnect to God, forgive yourself and others, try therapy and counseling to get a greater understanding of you. Helps you see who you are beneath the surface and then reimagining your life and your future
4. You have to restart your personal Vision. The chase took you off of your personal Vision and the chase took you off track to you. You were so busy trying to catch someone, you lost yourself. You’re beautiful on the outside but empty on the inside.
• Make the deposit of knowledge gained from the chase into your wisdom Bank. Now that you have gone through it, hopefully you will choose to grow through it and the only way to grow through what you go through is to take the knowledge of the experience and to deposit it into you wisdom bank. Knowledge is data committed to memory but wisdom is having the proper application of that knowledge. Therein lies the difference with the two. if you don't know what to do with the knowledge it can't benefit you.
• Readjust your crown. Don’t feel unworthy of it. Your crown is your mindset. Elevate your thinking to prepare for your throne. As a man thinketh in his heart so he is. So when you elevate your thinking to Queen Consciousness, your behvaiour will follow and that means you can’t behave like a chaser. Fix your attention on God you'll be changed from the inside out readily recognize what he wants from you and quickly respond to it unlike the culture around you that is always dragging you down to its level of immaturity. God brings the best out of you develops well-formed maturity in you
You will never again chase a man. You you're not desperate, you're not needy, you do not need a man for purpose or for value or for fulfillment. You are becoming the best version of you, your best version and allow your essence to attract a capable of or suitable man. Don't chase. Queens ATTRACT and APPROVE.
Thank you!
I agree to an extent. But it also reflects the notion that married women are in tact women who have "earned" the right to a good husband and single women are somehow broken women in need of self development that haven't quite "gotten" how to get a man. I know that is not what you intended, but that was the takeaway. Women shouldn't chase because women aren't the hunters. Period. But we live in a society that doesn't value single women, so many single women are chasing the respect of society and not needlessly chasing men. Lets' be honest, men aren't worth the pursuit in the first place and most don't have anything of value to offer a good woman.
@@PScott-yh2cs I agree with you....
What another great lesson from Pastor Blakes! Thank you so very much for your tremendous wisdom; I just can't get enough of it. You are such a blessing to so many women!
Thank u Pastor Blake for your lesson on how to recover from chasing. I had a breakthrough with my therapist on how I've chased unintentionally or unconsciously throughout my life. Examples were passing notes in K-5 school professing liking boys, be my boyfriend, asking for "a chance", middle school, if my favorite songs came on, asking boys to dance and even high school, asking a boy on my block to go on my prom but he couldn't go b/c he had a track meet the next morning. I guess with the rejections I got my heart broken several times but thank God He was with me to mend it and build up my confidence and self esteem where I never looked for love in all the wrong places, remained a virgin through college, etc. I have a stronger relationship with God more so than ever and I thank the Blakes for their ministry to remind me that I am virtuous queen that needs to STOP chasing a gentleman of recent interest. Let go & let God, take control of the situation to bring us together or not.
It's so sad I've only dated the men I've got with out of boredom not wanting to be by myself. Then I get so attached to having them around but they irritate me so much and don't treat me right all while convincing myself I actually love these men when really I don't. It's sick now thinking about it. But thank God for this page I have learned so much.
This hurts to hear..I am a chaser but now I stick to myself untill i get myself to a stable place mentally spritually and physically financially in life .my self worth is low after @buse since child hood. Mol3station and r@pe have shaped me and its pain broke me but God has put me back together.i see clearly. Ladies if u chase ask yourself why? Why am I using energy to get a man when I could used that energy to better me and my relationship with God. Stop and think 🤔
Amen
It is my second time God helped me through to over come evil 😈relationship!!! God bless you my brother.
Now i even consider having sex too early as chasing. I hate that i did this to myself. My esteem was rock bottom when i was chasing this last dude. I started to hate myself
I definitely need it, has been on a chase for 2 years that finally failed 😞
❤ Thank you, Bishop RC. I’m not as young as I was, but I am so grateful to have found you before I die. You’re like the father I wished I had, but, yes, my soul has been redeemed and I’m being restored!
❤️ Love the photo played with the song it just made it even more Powerful it's refreshing to 👀 a king and queen about God's business POWER COUPLE blessings to you 🙏 and your family
How many parents out there just think all that is required to raise children is food, clothing and a roof over their head? Lots. I strongly feel if you don't have the wisdom of life, a teacher's heart and emotional intelligence - you should not have children. We are not cattle.
At 37, finally learning these hard truths. It hurts but I need to accept reality ❤ Thank you!!!
LESSON #2 Just because a man is chasing you doesn't mean he's the one or that he's going to do right once he gets you ❤ Be discerning!
Good evening Kings and Queens. I too am excited about this topic this evening. Though I can’t say I have ever chased a man. The women who raised me never displayed such behavior. Also Pastor, if you would be so kind to speak on women asking men to marry them. This is a thing and I find it quite disturbing. I have a friend who was asked by a woman to marry him. Of course the marriage didn’t last. They divorced after two years. I asked him if he knew she was the head of the household. I also asked how on earth would he marry a woman who proposed to him. That means she is the provider, the one who covers, the one who leads and so on. I also asked if he took her last name. He was hot then. 🤣🤣🤣 He didn’t get it. I will NEVER in this natural life feel that it is ok for a woman to COURT a man, CHASE a man or ask for a man’s hand in marriage. Not today, not ever. We are out of order with the role reversals. Begging men to stay when they have already left is also an absolute no. Waiting to Exhale is not sustainable.
You only get yourself back by the love of Jesus shining in your heart.
Beautiful Picture!
Message and knowledge well received 🙏 thank you Bishop, I appreciate you more than you know
I Give Thanks for you Pastor Blakes. Although my father was Very present in my life, his father was not there for him much. My dad was not a womanizer and was very loyal to my mother to my knowledge. I therefore trusted all men to be just like him! 👀
Hence.. “Hello other side of reality!!”
However.. i do not fault my Dad for not knowing what he wasn’t taught and I cherish my life and the lessons learned from the tumults I have taken, and for the gift of being Today Years Old at 63 and hearing your Golden Truths of Wisdom.
I BELIEVE..
We.. are all Right On Time❤️
Recovering piece by piece. THANK YOU AND MS. LISA for ALL that you do!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
Uncle RC Blakes, you’re always a blessing 🙏🏾
In total agreement with you Sis Aria Reeves💃🏿👌🏾.
I was thinking I was being inviting. Truth be told, it was a chase because he wasn't reciprocating.
I appreciate this message
You are like a father I wish I had ....my mindset is different now and I feel great I finally understand what it means to be a queen 👸
Thank you
I began talking to an old love recently & it seem we immediately rekindled the passion that we had years ago. The problem is that he gets easily offended by simply hearing my thoughts & feelings. My complaints somehow make him feel slighted & it's quite feminine & unbecoming of him. I love the passion between us when we're good but when we're not, I'm left feeling disappointed & anxious but since I refuse to chase him or put myself in the position to be hurt again; I just deleted his number & act as if we never were. Although I hate for it to end & just the thought of what we could've been plagues my mind, I know I'll be setting myself up for a world of heartache. I can already see it coming. I admit I'd rather feel somewhat upset now than months or years down the line be devastated & drowning in sorrow.
I feel empowered choosing myself & not allowing my feelings to override my common sense.
Well done sis
I brought a couple rings to remind me that I'm married to Jesus . Isaiah 54. . The LORD is my husband until he decides rather or not to send someone. . But in the mean time . .he's given me power to refrain from sex.
Bishop thank you for listening to the Lord for this message. I thank the Lord this message we need this in the Body of Christ as well as the world.
Such a blessing!I loved how you pointed out the problem in one video and provided the solution in another. Complete Ministry! 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯
I have never chased a man but have stayed around too long. This man is why I am a happily married today.
Thank you Bishop RC Blakes JR for all that you & Lisa do. Many blessings 🙏🏼
Store the knowledge into your wisdom bank for future recall!! 🔥🔥🙏🏽🙏🏽
I feel so blessed that God brought your ministry into my life Bishop! Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you so much for this powerful word. Noone addresses these issues in our spiritual homes anymore out of fear of chasing us away with hard truths. I thank God for you!
I've always chased men. i was desperate to have a boyfriend when i was young and later when i was more mature i chased to have a husband. i only did this because as a plain woman no man was paying attention to me. i know better now. doing me.
btw, a man chasing you is not always a good man. i had men chasing me but they were all not good men. one wanted me to build him up, he even didnt like me but thought i was an easy prey for him. i had much older married men chasing me for sex but i was not interested. so be aware , a man chasing you is not always done by a good man.
Amen, Wisdom will always open the front door into your life 😇
Thank you…..I chased in my youth, never ever again….I didn’t chase my husband
This is a super message Thank you RC I am in the healing after the chase his chase my chase. It’s like you say about the broken consciousness. I come from a broken Family Thanks God and The Lord Jesus for healing me in my soul 🌟❤️🕊
Very good speach!!! Thank you from Spain❣️
Could you do a video on cultivating inner beauty? It's like once I became physically attractive I stopped believing men valued inner beauty because I saw the difference in treatment. I feel like pushed my personality to the side and need to recover it
Wow. That’s a great suggestion
@@RCBlakesJr. Thank you so much for considering it and what you do. Much love to you, Lisa and the church.
Greetings R J. Thank you for the post. Wow! This touched home, especially the part about no. 2, 'replenishing'. This deals with healing, which is essential when addressing this topic. Love, love, love your intro. The song was very powerful, and so was the message 🙏🏾💖
RC I have reiterated your message to certain of my friends and they have commented on how clever I have become. When we stop giving men easy access to us things will get better. But is something we as females have to unite on. As long as men can get easy access to a woman somewhere, those with high standards get left behind. If we want men to start investing in us we have to stop making it possible for them to get us for free. You are so right brother.
As the saying goes "every pot has a lid " so sometimes getting left behind is a blessing.
@@missrese868 Thats not biblical. Every woman does NOT get a husband. Some women will be single for the rest of their lives.
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Lord I just turned in and all I can do is lift my hands and cry
God I thank you for Bishop Blake Greatful that I was able to forgive myself and him. Now I’m in a position to pray for him and myself without saying anything to him it’s been a year I feel good
I feel blessed to have someone like you in my life.Every word of yours is a blessing and wisdom for me.Millions of thanks to RC Blakes sir & Lisa ma’am.🙏
Save all your peace offerings for the right man. . . .retain honor 🎖
Thank you so much Bishop Blakes for this message! I am always blessed by your videos.
Thank GOD for You
Life changing, thank you. May God bless you even unto your tenth generation. Goodness and mercy will never leave your household.
THIS RIGHT HERE AIN'T NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!!! Thanks Bishop & 1st Lady L love you both:)