8 AFTER-EFFECTS OF A WOMAN CHASING A MAN by RC Blakes
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- 8 AFTER-EFFECTS OF A WOMAN CHASING A MAN by RC Blakes
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A woman is the prize. It's sad that so many women don't know their worth.
I'm not in that category.
Yep, “You can’t catch a husband” and the woman is the prize. Good lessons. But when it comes to handling rejection, I have seen much of the same behaviors and reactions come out of men. I’m not so certain that men and women are all that different in the area of emotions and being able to control them. Generally speaking, men and women both can get easily upset and offended about a lot of things
I married a man like this. I had to do everything and make all of the decisions. It was 10 years of hell. I'm so glad I finally learned how to love myself first.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️
Girl I almost married a man like that. I am glad I didn’t. Sounds more like having a grown son
I married the same kind of a man...actualky he was a monster .but he also abused me brutally emotionally and mentally. Also he cheated on me many times but that I did not know until the divorce. At last he turned all my children against me. They are now grown. Now they are abusing me too doing the same things as he did . I am completely isolated. I have 2 grandchildren but not allowed too see them. My life has absolutely no meaning althoung a believer. I am loosing my faith. No wonder. I want to die. There is nothing here in this life for a LOVING and a faithful MOTHER.... My children even thought my brothers and sisters to despice me. This world is full of evil men. Sex and flirting is all for them . That is what all their life is about. Stupid and evil creatures . Very few men are worth marrying...almost none. Porn is all over the . How are you going to get married if you don't nwant a man wtathing porn even in the grocery store in the magasines. This live sucks....
Wish there was just one....of a...kind ❤ He would be loved by me and treated like a king 😔
I can relate wow! Thank God he revealed the truth 🙏
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
The Fact Is. If You As a Woman Have To Pursue Him. He Ain't The One.
“You can’t catch no husband “
So true!!! My HUSBAND found ME!!! 31 years and counting!!!!
God bless that's Real love💙
❤️❤️
That's awesome!! 🙏🏾💕
Amen 🙌🏾
Exactly! Also, you must not pray if you think it may be him. Leave all to God and that man! It works. That's the way it is and has to be to my mind.
And remember ladies, men tell us (through words and BEHAVIOR) whether or not they truly value and WANT us. He may never verbally say he doesn't want you but his actions will tell you everything you need to know! Don't fall for the illusion of his delusion. Pray and ask God to open your eyes and show you what you need to see to make better decisions for yourself!❤️❤️
Yes!! Thank you!💚
Yes so true
Amen🙏🏼
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
But why men dont say that they dont one directly?
I absolutely used to chase men in my 20s and I’m embarrassed. He is correct. The men I pursued sat back in their femininity and one even admitted that he wouldn’t have talked to me if I didn’t initiate. I fell into the “ women should shoot her shot” and “ go after what you want “ culture. Now I’m 31 and patiently waiting for my husband. I only need a confident masculine partner.
That's great sis, you're young woman becoming wise. May God grant you what you're praying for 🙏🏽
The brainwashing of women to make them believe it's cool and empowering and a sign of being a modern feminist when you chase because it's "going for what you want" started in the 90ies with movies but it peaked when "Sex and the city" came out. The epitome of turning what is a healthy feminine energy upside down. I am 47 and also fell for it. All theses things became trendy in my formative years and to this day it's difficult to undo the damage.
I did this. We broke up and I was so desperate to get him back. I chased him and ran away from myself. I finally picked myself up and just stopped calling, texting or reaching out in anyway. Been working on myself for the past few weeks. It’s hard at times but I’m learning to not be so hard on myself sometimes. Chasing does nothing but hurt yourself and self esteem.
Currently going through the same sis. Stay strong, know that YOU are enough and focus on the reason you guys are not together in the first place! Our hearts are broken but God is able!!- to do exceedingly and abundantly above ALL we can ask or think!! Love u sis and keep fighting! 💖💖
Facts!!!
@@monae1852 thank you!
Why most of you just repeat what he has said..wakeUp!
Do, most of u
Omg! I am 81 years. Thank you Pastor Blake. I needed this teaching❤
NEVER too old to learn! 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
Bless your heart!❤️ Keep growing sis!🤲🏽
This has been me my whole life. I have degraded myself for a man, chased a man even with him telling me he didn't want me. It seems I always wanted the wrong type of man to love me. A love I never given myself. Lord is working on me 🙌🏽
I can relate, it take the right therapy and spiritual help.
I have been right here doing the same thing for two years..I finally woke up and stopped
@@monica3787 we got this
@@HD-xb9mj yes I agree 100%
Me too not to not to the point where they verbally say they don't want me but if they disappear it means they don't want me too
I have to add that if the men are beautiful physically and are used to women throwing themselves at them, they become feminine in their energy and anticipate the chase. They become the celebrity, and you become to adoring fan. I've seen this first hand. It is truly rare for a "hunk" to have a humble, honest and genuine heart who is ready to settle down and commit.
Ugly men are worse
I know someone like this…HE ONLY DATES ELDERLY WOMEN WHO TAKE CARE OF HIM.
You saved me from getting embarrassed and used from wrong people in my life so many times.Thank you so much sir🙏
You are the gift God has sent for us.
Ditto ❤️
He is a blessing to this generation..❤
Same here.❤
Amen
Thank you Bishop RC Blakes! What an awesome teaching!
The aftermath of a woman chasing a man.
1. The pursuer is made emotional vulnerable to the one being pursued.
2. You lose valuable time in self development.
3. You unknowingly join the toxic sisterhood and damage the psyche of women to come.
4. Once you start chasing you will forever be on the chase.
5. You will never repair the fracture to your feminine soul which need to be desired, pursued and cherished.
6. You will never be allowed to take a break from pursuing.
7. You will always be crushed by woman who sat in their feminine and their men found them.
8. You will struggle to forgive yourself for failing you.
Wow…..
Deep..
Too deep
Real deep. Thank you Pastor.
Wow! What a word. Wisdom from most high. Thanks for sharing your note taking skills.
Idolizing him more than you worship God..down fall. Put God first. Always
RC Blakes!! Love this message! My granny used to say any woman can get a man down the aisle if she does the right things in the bedroom... BUT it will not bring him home at night. She spoke of allowing the man to choose you so that he continues to make that choice year in and year out. I appreciate a Man of God sharing this same wisdom...you can chase a man but not a husband.
“You can’t catch a husband,” thats truth! I didn’t think I was a chaser but in hindsight I was. Putting in a disproportionate amount of effort, elevating him to idol status in my heart, jumping through hoops he wouldn’t even look at let alone jump through…that WAS me. Thank God for healing and removing the scales from my eyes!
I'm 62 and I never, never, never received this type of talk from my father. I don't even know what a father-daughter relationship is like. But, I am grateful to God for the advice from Bishop Blakes. I have listened to several of your videos. I am excited to be a female, looking forward to being pursued, and being a Godly wife. I have female friends around my age, and younger who have never married, and desire to marry, but are fearful of trusting this type of advice because of bad relationships. But, I will continue to encourage them to listen. Your videos are very refreshing, eye-opening, and life-changing.
I agree...great, practical information!
The few times I did chase, premarital sex, soul ties and I had no idea what was going on. I wish someone from church would have informed me, but folks were shy back in the day. I'm quite bold and tell the inexperienced brothers & sisters about these things. Also, I was sexually abused as a small child and I was traumatized. Hated myself. But God, but God. He completely healed me! Now I'm a 3 times published author and I help others. Bless His Holy Name.
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@@heaventime9148 God healed my trauma. Smiling now. Joyful, even.
This is very good of you to share your knowledge with youngers 💖🙏
Society has changed and promotes this behavior and many men encourage this .....
True 😢
Yes, because the lion wants to eat the chasing rabbit. It makes it easy for him.
"You will struggle to forgive yourself for failing you. You will wake up one day and recognize the travesty you have brought upon yourself" This is so true Bishop Blake's what you said. I struggle with myself for so long because I was like this, even suicidal. Even though God I believe with all my heart the Lord has forgiven me, the enemy will still fight your thoughts with your past failures. As my mom used to say, a hard head makes for a soft behind and it definitely has broken me and made me not so arrogant and rough.😠😑😊
You sure are right! Been celibate eight years and plan to stay this way until the Lord sends me my husband. It’s to hurtful to be dealing with these grown men boys who don’t want anything.
To be honest it shouldn't hurt, it should be a relief that one isn't shackled to them which opens up the opportunity to be with an ideal man.
Abstinence is what it sounds like you're doing (waiting until marriage) and I'm right along with you.
It’s their loss!!!
"Your feminine soul needs to be desired, pursued, and cherished". I say this all the time and I will have nothing less. I. AM. THE. PRIZE.
I opened myself up, I was broken from a narcissistic abusive relationship. I'm realizing I need to hold to God and keep him close
Wow.i never knew. That chasing is so dangerous.because it destroys respect. This is what my Daddy taught me at and early age. We (my sisters and I ) were not allowed to even call a male on the phone.
Smh my father taught me nothing, 35 years, two failed marriage and finally disrespected by a little man lead me here……. Thank Pastor Blake’s your a blessing and I’m grateful to have realized that I have this problem because some never do
Same. Pretty much. He said it once when he sae me chasing 'don't chase' but that was all. No explanation. No preparation for the world ahead. Same w mother. Had to seek k owledge elsewhere
This message was meant for me … I’m not a chaser but a people pleaser and my people pleasing ways cause me to please men to a fault therefore seeking approval… my takeaway was he needs to be your HUSBAND first and he needs to lead … Thsnk you BishopBlakes Much love ❤️
This man has raised my conscience as a woman, I levelled up and still learning. It's been a game changer in my life. Thank you, Mr Blakes! I appreciate your teachings every time.
Same here! Totally terrying how different I though before. My mindset has hurt me so much in the past
Yes. He always brings me back to reality.
SAME HERE. TO ME. CZcams =R.C BLAKES TIME FOR ME. 😄
These men don't have respect to begin with. Chase or no chase.
Ouch I wasn't chasing but def wasting time. Maybe I was chasing bc I didn't know how I should be treated. I love God but not sure I know how to love myself.
Measuring what others do by comparing it to what I do for myself, thats good.
The whole truth in this message. I learned all of these things the hard way and am healing my feminine from years of chasing a man. NOW I know my worth and will never chase a man ever again. Never knew there is an art to being a woman that goes beyond the outward appearance. I know better and am doing better.
Chasing NEVER works. Period!
Ladies let me say I don’t know how I came across this wise man. But ever since I have been tuned in to his teachings that are so on point and much required. I love it here I wish I had RC in my life when I was younger in my walk. Ladies and gents tell your peeps to tune in and be in tuned with RC Blake’s teachings and lessons. I have told so many about him and you should too… There is no lies being told here so if you ready for truth listen in and subscribed to his channel to become a better person❤
Thank you, pastor Blakes
Listen, I’m gettin tired of always learning but never coming to the knowledge of the truth🙌🏾 I’ve been listening to Mr. R.C for 3 years now. I am finally writing this knowledge down cause in my journal 📓 so it can stick. Im not where I was but not where I wanna be. Lordddd Im coming back! 🙏🏾
‼️‼️‼️ time to put the knowledge into practice
@@nikkyshamz2696 Amen sis🙏🏾
My too sister. Still working everyday. I have my faults but I’m getting better and better. I like the idea of journaling. I shall try that. ❤
I don't know. I think I just got a revelation. I am thinking about when I was in high school and I chased boys, one in particular. I took on the masculine role in high school. I would be ready to go home because of the rejection. I learned about relationships late, being late out the gate. Now, I examine men and pray about them. I sit back and wait for God's answer. If a hubby and kids never happens, I will be sad, but press through. I want it the right way. Thank you for this lesson! Please keep putting out hard facts! It's not your problem some people are not ready or able to handle the truth! Some people don't want to be saved.
You are talking good. So many great nuggets . Ladies stop the chase. Let him find you and chase you down! WOW 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Omg! I feel attacked! Mr RC I can always count on you for the bitter medicine right when I need it. You’re literally always on time.
I don’t want you to feel attacked though. 🙏🏽
What was #1
@@jacquelineking454 He sums it up at 17:49 minutes
Most times I say ouch bc uncle R.C. stepped on my toes...I be like 😳..
Bitter Truth Teller 🦋
Pastor Blakes this is sooooooo good. Don't you ever worry about sparing our feelings for telling the Gospel Truth. Women need this kind of honesty, it's long overdue. ❤❤❤💯💯💯🙏🙏🙏
Always interesting topics that help heal broken women. Thank you for your biblically sound wisdom as always.
Oh Bishop this needs this needs to be hear worldwide! I pray girls 12 and older will be taught this teaching and broken women everywhere will decrease tremendously!
You are saving women's lives RC ♡ you certainly saved mine when I found your videos in February of this year, I was down bad. I'm so proud to now be a woman who is perfecting herself, living in purpose, with self-respect deepening every day. I'm loving God, and I am grateful for the queen and wife I've become and am becoming. Already thanking God every day for my future king who will soon find me. Manifesting you officiating our wedding in Lebanon!
TRUTH. And if someone doesn't want U LEAVE THEM ALONE THEY ARE NOT THE ONE.THE WOMAN IS NOT THE PURSUER.PERIOD.WAKE UPLOVE YOURSELFU ARE VALUABLE.LOVED BY GOD.. DON'T FORGET THAT
I've been desperate for love so I'm watching...
Stop chasing and get back to the basics 👈🏾that part❤️. This is necessary content. Thanks for always keeping it real. We can't play into the toxic culture of desperation and toxic masculinity. 👏🏿
AMEN!!!!
Thank you so much. i needed this lecture when I was in my 20s and 30s. I was a plain woman desiring to be married and having my family. because men didn't see me, I started chasing them to let them know I exist. I don't have to tell you that it didn't work out well for me. I'm finally learning to love myself and have a good relationship with God and myself. tEh rest will follow naturally.
I try to catch all the live,love this man's teaching. It can straightened out any bent out of shape woman
All facts
Im not sure if whoever was suppose to hear that message DID, but I sure did. I wish I heard that as a teenager, it probably would have changed my life. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this teaching.. I use to chase men and lost myself in the process but I got into my sense a found myself by surrendering my life to Christ. Im at peace with myself and I'm becoming the best version of myself through Christ my Saviour
I'm so grateful to God for using him to help me make better relational choices.
Thank you so much pastor for this message 🙏🏽. Even though I was very emotional when listening to you I'm thankful to God for putting this message in your heart to share with us. I never had a father or a man in my life to talk to me about the things you teach me. I don't even know what it truly feels like to have a man love me and protect me. However, I am going to continue to work on loving and protecting myself with the grace and mercy of God 🙏🏽🙌🏽💫. Thank you pastor and first Lady for all the love and support you bless us women with. I can sadly say I am a broken 💔 woman, but I'm hopeful for complete healing 🙏🏽 ✨️ Amen!
Acknowledgement is the first step then the work begins ❤️ we are all working through it sis as we get more wisdom. Stay blessed and encouraged. Some of us have always had fathers present but they never had these conversations with us.
@@nikkyshamz2696 Thank you for your supportive words 🙏🏽 💖
I don’t see how anyone could find any fault in what this man teaches. He speaks facts! It’s tight but it’s right. So thankful I found him ❤ nothing he says offends me. Making me wiser @ 53!
This was truly a blessing to listen! I never chased but after being tricked and getting deeply involved then I started chasing… I am and will be delivered!! Break the soul ties in Jesus name!!!!
My Lord!! I cried during this whole video. This is my first time ever posting in the chat, but I watch your videos all the time. And I share them on my social media. This video really blessed my life! I'm under construction!! Thank you!! God bless you Pastor...🙏🏾
Pastor you are telling the truth. I will never turn you off.we need to hear this the truth 💯 as woman.
I don't know about not being available Bishop Blakes. I am a single, queen of a woman with good self esteem and I truly have a relationship with God. I'm not having many men approach me.
I just want to thank you for allowing the Lord to use you. You have been such a blessing in my life, and you’ve helped me to look at things with wisdom and discernment. I was a woman who was chasing and didn’t even recognize it, but in the mist of I didn’t feel happy and would feel let down in the end. The idea of marriage was so intense that often times just the thought of marriage and love would take me to a daydream land and not in a logical place. I thank Yahweh for this learning experience with him and myself. Keep going strong Pastor Blakes, and I can’t wait to check out that new book! God bless you and your family!
I turned into that chasing ,broken woman. He had me so turned around to the point he’d use that verse against me. By saying when a man finds a wife not a woman finding a husband . I finally was able to walk away, with God’s help.. didn’t look back….
Needed to hear this tonight. I asked a question on a forum about when is the right time to be intimate with a man you're dating, I got so many different responses everywhere from do it whenever you want, to only if he agrees to be in a relationship with you. Its hard dating as a woman today, the dating apps make men run through so many women. Its a lose-lose situation. I am getting so, so so, so tired.
We love you, thank you for all your hard work and the time you give us. God Bless
Such a blessing Pastor! That's why you can't make a boy into a man. U will have to do everything. Pray without ceasing, be still and trust God. Wait on God focus on your inner parts. Proverbs 31. Remember it was Satan in the garden that deceived Eve not Adam. That's why we are the weaker vessel and need a covering. God first and everything eles follow. God Bless you my sisters. God is a restorer! 👏👏👏👏
Thank you very much Bishop Blakes..🙏🏿
I would rather die in the truth than live in lies!
You speak TRUTH to power!👊🏿🏆
YOU are empowering...funny.. and so genuinely honest!
Next to my dad...and brothers..you are the next "most important man in my life"..
Thank you!🙏🏿
May I add to this. I know of a woman that perfected herself in God in ministry as well as the gentleman. At first during dating and seeing each other he was the nicest guy. He chased her to the point he asked to marry her 3 times. Each time she turned him down. So finally she gave him a chance. Months earlier during the marriage he was Dr Jekyll and me Hyde. The key thing like you said is approval. This lady being full of the holyspirit was guiding her not to marry him. Because someone has a clergy collar doesn’t mean they are a grown man. Ppl are ordaining immature ppl. What I’m saying always be lead by the spirit of God. Because God can see dither than you can. And God was right the marriage turned into a hot mess.
Always dropping Gems for us Bishop RC. Appreciate you and Lady Lisa . Continuous Blessings and Abundance to you both.
This is a very needed advice , thanks Pastor RC. We live in a world with narcissism man that play games that have lost morals. And woman have lost their integrity by choosing and chairing man. It happened to me because the man die not have the right character to reciprocate my goodness giving too much to someone who is lost him self. Great advice for all. Please share it. God is the center of a woman’s heart. If the man can’t wait till marriage he is not worth the time. ⭐️❤️🙏🕊
YOU HIT THE BULLSEYE, SIS!!!! God bless you!
RC Blake’s As long as you have this platform I will support you. Your teaching has helped me a lot. . I tell so many women to watch your teachings .
GLORY TO GOD!!!!!! This presentation has been MORE food for my soul. This is a great indication that I am on the right track. God bless you Mr. RC BLAKES
This felt like healing...
It is ❤️
The opening song is SO encouraging!!! I look forward the song just as much as I do the message ❤
I’m 45 and don’t have anymore time to waste. Chasing a man is like a bunny rabbit chasing a lion 😩
Thank you! I will never chase another man. The last time I chase a man he hurt me mentally. I stay with that man for 15yrs. I can say I didn’t love myself. Now heck no 1 time you do something wrong he gotta go! I am not putting up with that! Self love is good. No man take my power away
I was raised by an alcoholic father and narcissistic mother, both indoctrinated by a religious cult.
I wish my father taught me this.
I have no identify.
I wasn’t allowed to form my identity as a child, I had to please
my parents just to survive.
I am learning how to live again at 40
Wow... 40 is still young though. God bless you ❤🙏🏽
You will get a piece of man on the chase but a husband when he finds YOU
That's not an area for me, but I will definitely listen so I don't find myself in this situation.
This is absolutely the truth !!! Thank you , Pastor Blakes
U are so right! Once I stopped chasing my husband he came looking for me. We have been together for many years now, but I had to give him time & space. We stopped talking for about 3 wks & he realized I was very valuable to him! Like your mother told u to go get Lisa, his mother told him the same! She knew I was in love with her baby & I would take care of him!!!
Wow such a powerful message that i needed i once was that woman who chased a man to only be told i don't want you or im not interested that's when i knew i lost myself and pulled back and stopped calling and messaging and blocked,the hardest part is picking myself back up and start healing,thank you for this teaching Bishop RC🙏
I make it a habit to tune in every Monday. For some reason I was like nah this doesn't resonate with me. I tuned in this morning and realized that the hard truth is I'm experiencing EVERY effect. Truth be told I am drained and the only thing that has been comforting is my walk in faith!! Thank you for this message!!
It's like coming to this realization brings me so much peace.. I can be one with God..My My My... like I can actually feel the Freedom
Every man and woman that has common sense know that you need to love yourself first before you can love someone else please and thank you👋☺️
I just recently got out of a relationship with a man tht has been physically and mentally abusive. He ended the relationship on multiple different occasions and came back to me when he felt like it.. He had 0 consideration for how he made me feel.. He hurt me in sooooo many different ways and i hate tht i even feel any sadness from not being with him. I know God is gonna pull me thru this i just pray its soon so i cnt feel this pain anymore. I just wanna finally feel blessed tht this person is gone out my life 4ever
If I had this information in my twenties, would probably saved me from a lot of mistakes ,but maybe it supposed to be like this … I am happy that I’m growing day by day and learn to love myself ❤
This word will bring about breakthroughs, redemption and restoration. May God continue to use you
Paster I hope these women hear u because some of them run jump hop skip and cart wheel wig first to say they have a man. A man that does nothing for them in the end.
R.C. Blakes Jnr. is a very brave man. He states truth in the face of much heat against these truths and personal heat against him from the world. Many would crumble or retreat, but Pastor Blakes has the Holy Spirit upholding him and continues these truths in a world much in need of them.
I’m genuinely grateful for these teachings and I’m learning and wearing my crown. 👑
Too busy to chase; mortgage, and my own obligations I am responsible for as a single woman daily.
I like how you don't just be talking you always have something to say... via God and what we the people need ..
I am ready Pastor. I need to hear this!!!
This is the gospel!!! I am so happy to have tapped into RC Blakes!! Use him LORD!!🙂
I'm 34 and I'm no man's fool anymore. From today .
Relationships are hard to come across nowadays, it's always situationships or friends with benefits or hook up situations.
Sometimes they don't even wanna Netflix and chill do they. Excuses.
Please comment if you're finding it difficult to find a relationship too.
Men are gay and predators and have no idea how to act or treat a women
I cannot express the GRATITUDE I feel right now for the Abundance of God's Love and Mercy. Wow how He saved me from me, from ignorance and lack of knowledge... and here He gives me a second chance at His perfect Time.
Your family may have failed you, they may not have known what to teach you, Forgive them and remember that God Has the perfect plan for You and He is just waiting for you to come to Him. Father Thank you and Thank you papa Blakes, so much, Thank you 🙏🏽💝
Crazy how I started reading the Bible last November and I found this page this year and I know the story you just referenced from the Bible… think God is on to something in my life
Good lesson. I see the difference in me now. I took my crown repaired it. Fast forward.. now I can go to work see emails from the man who broke me because he is blocked on phone and hit delete, delete, delete. God is working on me now. Thanks for this lesson.
Thanks so much for the important talk. How to stop chasing a man's affection when it's your own husband? A lot of women like me feel devalued and forced to apologize, called stupid, and devalued by their own husband.
Thank you Pastor Blake for the important messages and information. I am learning to love myself and trust myself. I am aware I was taught at a young age I had to chase my dad for any attention. However, it is a toxic way and I realize I will not get respect for a dad who does not see my worth and rejects me still to this day. He bread crumbs me occasionally. However, I realize my worth and letting go of a dad who rejected me. I am detaching and it is difficult but at this time, I do not want a relationship with him. However, l will check on him from time to time but I will not be in his life as I have or try to get his love anymore. I will accrept it as is but do not need his love or him in my day to day life. I accept it will never change and he will never change and he is elderly. I will love him from a far but don't expect anything in return from him. I am focusing on myself to be my best self. I started chasing a man but realized it was a toxic way. I never chased until after my divorce. I am now strengthening my relationship with God. I am reading the Bible now which is so important.
I met my boyfriend in college at a mutual friend's birthday party. He was a good-looking but extremely socially awkward covert Narcissist (as it turned out) and had I not approached him I sincerely doubt anything would have transpired.
Oh boy, did this video hit home... recalling his smugness that I had come on to him, how I ended up planning all our dates and driving us around in my car.
I was hung up on not being single at my 21st birthday party, mission accomplished but what a price to pay! We still had to do what HE wanted on MY birthday and one of his friends even went so far as to tell him off for being so selfish. (To no avail, of course. My boyfriend believed he was doing me a favour.)
Greetings to all. Thank you RC Blake's junior for your amazing, and powerful message/ teaching. May the Lord continue to empower you with his knowledge.
That introductory song puts me in such a peaceful place
My mother pushed my father away from us , I never knew anything about relationships but I thank you for been so honest yet firm like a Jesus used to talk to people . I leaned from you and I do follow your steps very closely because they all
Makes sense to me , thank you
Pastor Blakes I NEVER wanna cut you off.. I can’t get enough of these videos. You’ve helped me more than any therapist I’ve ever had. If only I had found you years ago!
I am married and never did the chasing, but when things don't go according to plan. I always wish I have known about you before I even took that step. I am glad I will be able to guide my daughter the right way. Thank you spook much Mr RC Blakes.- Ntozakhe South-Africa
Finding my way back to me! Thank you for this word ❤❤❤❤
Good evening:
In Genesis God brought the woman to Adam, therefore it is true that there is no reason to chase or pursue a man.
The best relationship is the one established with God first and being filled with the Holy Ghost as it is the best plan.
Not all decisions are made on this concept which God has laid out. Therefore, pitfalls and all unnecessary heart aches and pains occur.
Thank you for expressing all the reasons why it is not a great or even a good idea
to chase any man no matter what he displays or promises.
Chase Jesus instead and get the right direction for your life.
Doing it God way is always the best way.
Totally relatable. I wish someone gave me this enlightenment in my adolescent years. 33 years old today and doing very well, but I did miss some personal development. Making up for it now.. but still.
I'm trying my hardest to get out of a 14 year marriage just like this. I have degraded myself and put myself last all to TRY and get a ounce of worthiness from him. All he does is use me, never felt hears or worthy. I have realized I'm a Queen. I need help getting out but I'm taking the steps to do so.