SIX WAYS A WOMAN TRAINS HER SELF LOVE by RC Blakes

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    SIX WAYS A WOMAN TRAINS HER SELF LOVE by RC Blakes
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Komentáře • 712

  • @yolandaw.1257
    @yolandaw.1257 Před 2 lety +683

    1. Doing deep thinking about worth.
    2. Exercising daily declarations.
    3. Defining future as an INDIVIDUAL!
    4. Determine the requirements for a person to participate in My Life
    5. Develop intentional solitude.
    6. Delight in own independence.
    Scriptures; Psalms39:13-14, 46:10
    Proverbs 29:18
    Hebrew 10:23, 12:2
    Matthew 12:34
    2 Corinthians 4:13, 6:14.

  • @umayhabiba2609
    @umayhabiba2609 Před 2 lety +498

    I am a proud practicing Muslim and I love to listen to the great teachings of Bishop Blakes. Your words are the gems of wisdom that has helped me a lot... Much love from Pakistan 🇵🇰

    • @cece1907
      @cece1907 Před 2 lety +30

      He speaks from the Bible always. God bless you ♥️

    • @jazzyone1986
      @jazzyone1986 Před 2 lety +43

      Amén sister his messages translate to all religions and faiths.

    • @princessacademy1554
      @princessacademy1554 Před 2 lety +13

      Amen sister. We are happy to have you

    • @lakendraadams1077
      @lakendraadams1077 Před 2 lety +19

      We welcome you to the body of Christ. God is Love 💕🙏. We love everyone everywhere just like our savior Jesus Christ. Praying for you all and your country

    • @reginaanim8287
      @reginaanim8287 Před 2 lety +8

      God bless you Habiba we love ❤️ you dearly.

  • @marywolfe6598
    @marywolfe6598 Před 2 lety +56

    These kind of messages need to begin in middle school, high school, and every college....So much abuse, codependency, divorce in the world because we don't know who we are or have a vision.....

    • @UDUBZ
      @UDUBZ Před 2 lety

      AMEN

    • @Loyalandlondonforever
      @Loyalandlondonforever Před rokem

      ❤ yes ! They need to have a self development class just teaching empowerment and affirmation ! Starting in elementary

    • @larabraver
      @larabraver Před rokem

      You’re ABSOLUTELY right. I often say this.

    • @calico-kat-mom6204
      @calico-kat-mom6204 Před 19 dny

      you're absolutely correct

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 Před 2 lety +337

    “If you don’t know what your vision is you don’t know who belongs in your life.” 👏🏾

  • @sabrinasmiley8903
    @sabrinasmiley8903 Před 2 lety +344

    "When you KNOW where you're going, you KNOW when someone is stopping you!" Testimony ❤️ So powerful, Bishop ❤️

  • @purplelily6950
    @purplelily6950 Před 2 lety +13

    I've been separated for 2 years. Recently, I changed my own flat tire; independence feels good!

  • @anabautista8071
    @anabautista8071 Před 2 lety +89

    1. You must do deep thought about your worth. 2. Begin to exercise daily declarations. 3. Begin to define your future as an individual. 4. Determine the requirements for a person to participate in your life. 5. Develop intentional solitude. 6. Delight in your independence.

    • @charitawamack6932
      @charitawamack6932 Před 2 lety +4

      Thank you

    • @immaculatebeauty_aoki
      @immaculatebeauty_aoki Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you

    • @Lhvlly
      @Lhvlly Před 2 lety

      Thank you

    • @sharonmagdalenebooysen2874
      @sharonmagdalenebooysen2874 Před rokem

      Thank you , Bishop, I am 4o years married,and wishes to hear this Sound doctrine ,way back, would have, save me less pain and suffering in marriage. South Africa 🌍...

    • @user-iw1zs6vc7f
      @user-iw1zs6vc7f Před 8 měsíci

      This message is a divine appointment for me a great inspiration moving into new year!!! Glory be to God 🙌🙌🙌

  • @steviemichelle7271
    @steviemichelle7271 Před 2 lety +50

    I was literally PRAYING that something is recommended to me when I opened my CZcams because I’m feeling unloved right now. It seems like everyone I know is in the worst mood lately, and I’m depleted from trying to cheer everyone else up and it not working…. In fact, I’m being used as the one to take their anger out on. Thank God for this message, right on time as always

  • @LoganRena
    @LoganRena Před 2 lety +38

    “No one has more access to your spirit more than you do.” RC BLAKES….that’s so good and true

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 Před 2 lety +63

    When you know where you going you know when someone is trying to stop you! 👏🏾

  • @sonjashirley3038
    @sonjashirley3038 Před 2 lety +79

    I wish I new how to begin to love myself earlier on in my life, but it begins now. I'm 57 divorced, have always taken care if everyone else, I was never my own priority, no more. Bishop Blakes thank you for these tools you have provided for me and so many others who allowed men, society and others to determine our worth, no more. God Bless you.

    • @marytaylor9504
      @marytaylor9504 Před 2 lety +6

      Yes I did the same!!! I always cared for everyone else and their care and needs. Back breaking work. My purpose God Appointed to Me!

    • @scheherazadewherry1410
      @scheherazadewherry1410 Před 2 lety +7

      Im 54 Sis....we'll get there together💕Pastor is PREACH'N!!

    • @joysimmons446
      @joysimmons446 Před 2 lety +2

      Amen I am in the same boat

    • @Christine-jg3hf
      @Christine-jg3hf Před 2 lety

      Yes yes I'm 52 years Young words cannot express how I feel I think you Bishop so much Jesus God everything that you teaching us I'm going through been through and by the grace of God I'm here and I thank you so much for teaching me so much you're helping me away I pray for this for so long I miss the violence Survivor loss to the Survivor Survivor you are amazing God bless you and Lady Lisa blessings always I can go on and on I'm just so moved and I appreciate you so much blessings blessings to all to everyone God bless all of us we are strong we are loved blessed to have blessings see you at the top!💞🌷💪🙏😍

    • @Christine-jg3hf
      @Christine-jg3hf Před 2 lety

      I apologize a lot of words didn't come out correctly narcissist Survivor domestic violence Survivor by my mother my husband of 33 years I appreciate you so much because your helping me get through this in my journey and I appreciate it so much blessings to you and your family always keep up the good work you are amazing! Man Of God!💞💪🙏

  • @shanijohnson3660
    @shanijohnson3660 Před 2 lety +44

    Working on my self worth. Another woman came to my boyfriend’s house he just moved into. He told her I was his COUSIN!! He disrespected me to my face. That whole situation tore my self esteem up pretty bad. I needed this video.

    • @msreeree65
      @msreeree65 Před 2 lety +20

      OMG! Shani I am so sorry that happened to you! Hold your head up....straighten up your crown hunnii! You were saved from a life of deceit! Be thankful for it....see the good in it!

    • @trainkeenpilates5227
      @trainkeenpilates5227 Před 2 lety +10

      You are worth so much more than this. I hope bishop Blakes helps you grow to know this so you can leave this type of situation with your head high, your crown on and to not allow situations like this to harden your heart. God LOVES you and He is with you and He is for you.

    • @phenomenal5537
      @phenomenal5537 Před 2 lety +22

      @Shani ... As bad as that hurts, accept what he said and move forward. Once a man publicly announces you in the role HE considers you holding, do NOT reposition yourself in the role YOU WANT to be in his life. Self-deception is the most devasting trauma you can inflict upon yourself and if you go back to your "cousin" believing he is actually your boyfriend, you are wounding yourself. It's no longer about him, this is all you babygirl. Walking away is good pain especially when you are rescuing yourself. You are worth it💐

    • @heatherlancaster7063
      @heatherlancaster7063 Před 2 lety +6

      If he can't claim you, he certainly doesn't deserve you or your time

    • @rubicon2608
      @rubicon2608 Před 2 lety +4

      @@phenomenal5537 well said 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @dreamiedips8624
    @dreamiedips8624 Před 2 lety +31

    Inner healing
    Self discovery
    Self development
    Mastering Self love
    🕊️1. @9:44 Deep thought about your worth
    🕊️2. @17:21 Exercise/Develope daily declarations that builts you up
    Self love is not what others saying to you, but what you are saying to yourself
    🕊️3. @26:28 Train yourself to define your future as an individual
    Pursuit of vision: Focusing on your vision for future
    🕊️4. @36:48 Determine the requirements and standards for a person to have the privilege to participate in my life
    🕊️5. @43:31 Develope intentional solitude
    🕊️6. @45:27 Delight in your independence
    I was feeling so much hopeless 😭 and crying to Papa God that I just can't take the storms that came one after another anymore and as I'm doing my evening walking, your thought came in my mind and Hallelujah 🙌🏻 Praise the Lord 💗🙏🏻 I get so many answers from your message. Thank you so much for sharing and uploading.✝️🙌🏻🐑

    • @thetarotcottage7262
      @thetarotcottage7262 Před 2 lety

      I know of a man who can help you out with your problems you might be facing now

    • @thetarotcottage7262
      @thetarotcottage7262 Před 2 lety

      What sApp him

    • @stephaniedevine3431
      @stephaniedevine3431 Před rokem

      🙏🏾

    • @jackybaloyi256
      @jackybaloyi256 Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you so much
      When I start listening to RC Blakes I realise I have vision Pastor thank you for teaching us and the prayers
      God bless you.

  • @Amy-ys2od
    @Amy-ys2od Před 2 lety +116

    I have never encountered such wisdom in my life! God appointed You bishop specifically for what am going through! At the moment..the dad I ever needed in my life..thank you, thank you Jesus for using the man of God as a vessel to bind our wounds!

  • @nicoleml4491
    @nicoleml4491 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I wanna be happy with myself, and if someone else is also happy, they can be happy with me together. And have the same values!

  • @ruthphoto
    @ruthphoto Před 2 lety +8

    “Our self-esteem is driven by a sense of purpose”. Great quote

  • @daniellejones1460
    @daniellejones1460 Před 2 lety +67

    “Define my future as an individual “ Amen!

  • @faycollymore9352
    @faycollymore9352 Před 2 lety +30

    PREACH!!!!
    I ask my self these questions everyday. I walk in my worth let no one trespass!

    • @scheherazadewherry1410
      @scheherazadewherry1410 Před 2 lety +1

      Let know one trespass....OOOOOOOHHH thats GOOD! Thank you! Im remembering that!!😍

  • @JUSTNIZE
    @JUSTNIZE Před 2 lety +37

    The Holy Spirit woke me up from that nap to hear this tonight… All I know is that after listening to you my Heart ♥️ and Ears 👂 are open. I am so happy at 43 I know my Full worth and love myself enough to let the Clowns 🤡 Walk on and leave me my peace. No longer am I a piece in his life, I am the Provider of my Peace and Praise God for revelations. Forget what the World 🌎 says and ❤️ you for you…

    • @tiffanyharris4545
      @tiffanyharris4545 Před 2 lety +2

      Amen! 🙏

    • @shun23ish
      @shun23ish Před 2 lety +3

      Love your post! I just turned 43 & now trying to learn to love myself & walking away from a narcissistic relationship. It’s hard but I know it’s worth it.

  • @ieshasantini860
    @ieshasantini860 Před 2 lety +12

    MIRROR TEACHING- THIS IS EXACTLY THE THING I TEACH WOMEN IN MY SELF LOVE CLASSES IN WOMENS SHELTERS. FOR WOMEN TO FEEL PERSONAL SELF FULFILMENT IN GOD AND INTERNALLY. TO LOOK WITH IN FOR ALL THINGS. WE ATE BORN WITH EVERY THING WE WILL EVER NEED OUR ENTIRE LIVES. IT IS NO ONES JOB TO LOVE US. IT IS BETWEEN US AND GOD.

  • @brendas7558
    @brendas7558 Před 2 lety +9

    Self love is to let yourself to have the strength,the Gut to drop,STOP!! SELFISH people around and in your life. To Determine ,that you are unique and worthy of loving and be loved. To knowledge Who you are and Trust God who send you the Helper ,to guide you.. Remember that!!

  • @aniabrandt7
    @aniabrandt7 Před 2 lety +27

    This is one of the best speeches I ever heard. Truly. Thank u father for your love& desire to help us women's and your daughters

  • @gc2137
    @gc2137 Před 2 lety +6

    I'm a Queen - God's Child....I woke up like this!!!👑👑👑

  • @supermommy2717
    @supermommy2717 Před 2 lety +21

    “Going to the creator to inform me of my worth” that’s a word! 🙌🏾 I’m so grateful for your teachings, it’s been helping me along my healing journey, God bless you Mr. RC Blakes 🙏🏾

  • @rubyjones9951
    @rubyjones9951 Před 2 lety +73

    Amen. I get a lot out of your messages. It took some struggles before I learned to love myself and realize my self worth, but once I did I never looked back. 🙏

    • @marytaylor9504
      @marytaylor9504 Před 2 lety +4

      Yes Love your self As God Loves You ❤️

    • @sheilasquare4339
      @sheilasquare4339 Před 2 lety +4

      Amen Ruby. God Bless and keep you on your journey. I'm right there with you. Completely loving myself as God the creator loves me.

    • @marytaylor9504
      @marytaylor9504 Před 2 lety +3

      Yes and Never Look Back!!!!

  • @LGCM2024
    @LGCM2024 Před 2 lety +13

    Bishop you were sent by God!

  • @palesamotingoe5905
    @palesamotingoe5905 Před rokem +5

    I can never get enough of this message , I repeatedly play it for myself because although people always tell me how beautiful I am I struggle inwardly to validate myself but I’m slowly getting there ❤

  • @trulycay5714
    @trulycay5714 Před 2 lety +4

    I've been a single mom now my kids are doing them I enjoy my own company it's been great :)

  • @MsJennDefinerofSelf
    @MsJennDefinerofSelf Před 2 lety +14

    I’m so happy to have found your teachings during this phase of my life. I’ve been married and with one emotionally unavailable man my entire adult life and he decided he didn’t want to be married anymore. My heart is in conflict between rejoicing and rejection and now realizing that as lonely as I’ve been my whole life, I now have to figure out my life alone in order to grow to a place that God has called me. I am admittedly saddened by this realization..

    • @PyrPupMom
      @PyrPupMom Před 2 lety +3

      Hang in there, sister! Somewhat similar situation here. It's hard. God loves us both!

    • @UDUBZ
      @UDUBZ Před 2 lety +3

      I am 73. Wish I had heard this years ago.

  • @ruthphoto
    @ruthphoto Před 2 lety +5

    “ Determine the requirements for a person to participate in your life”. I love this quoteby him. It makes me think about being a good mother. If I had a young girl I would be very careful who she spent time with.
    Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”
    1 Corinthians 15:33
    Why would we not be as selective for our own lives? Thank you, RC Blakes

  • @patriciasydney9526
    @patriciasydney9526 Před 2 lety +40

    This was such a beautiful timely message. God was speaking to my heart through BISHOP RC BLAKES. I pray God continue to inspire and bless this ministry

  • @cherankimiorak1739
    @cherankimiorak1739 Před 2 lety +11

    This is deep! Never heard of self love the way RC explains it🙏🏽 Amen!

  • @scheherazadewherry1410
    @scheherazadewherry1410 Před 2 lety +4

    Gone are the days for anyone to JUST enter in my life. Thats good Pastor! PREACH!

  • @31MelKo
    @31MelKo Před 2 lety +5

    God bless your wonderful wife for lining up with your vision that God has given you and her to bless his people. Amen 🙏🏼

  • @kizzythompson3135
    @kizzythompson3135 Před 2 lety +9

    I will See you at the top pastor Blake's by the grace of God Amen and Amen.

  • @bm547
    @bm547 Před 2 lety +4

    Thanks for the conformation. I'm sixty and in a relationship with GOD and self. I've been in a close relationship in a failed marriage and two long term relationships. For last 10 years it's been The Father Son and the HOLY SPIRIT and me. So I'm NEVER ALONE.
    I Love the message PLEASE KEEP Sharing. I know my worth Love myself Respect my WHOLE self. I'm a social worker (retired) when GOD calls me Home. I allow GOD to counsel me. And I also share to HELP.
    GOD is my BOSS and ALWAYS have been. I know this through what GOD has brought me through. I'm FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE
    THANKS,
    CHILD OF GOD
    GOD BLESS

  • @thameshasebro2678
    @thameshasebro2678 Před 2 lety +9

    Daily I look myself in the mirror and I declare I am loved, called and chosen. I am anointed, equipped and able to handle this beautiful Queen that I am filled with God's love and blessings. 👑

  • @tahomalewis2300
    @tahomalewis2300 Před 2 lety +8

    "Determine the requirements..."Amen!

  • @nowKissthaQueen
    @nowKissthaQueen Před 2 lety +4

    Determine the requirements for a person to participate in my life. Yes Lord! I am loved by God, I stopped being desperate 3 years ago. I decree I will live a joyful, full, abundant life. I will not be hurt by anyone who does not Miss or Adore me evA again. What she doing, don't nobody want her huh! 🗣️ Deep Conditioning baby. Grow and Row. I refuse, I refuse to let my daddy's grace be in vain no more. No hoops or hurdles will I jump for anyone to love me, care for me, Understand me. The ones that God blessed to hear him will embrace me. That's the bottom line. I learned when I was a adolescent the way I Ioved myself was way diff from anyone else around me. That message God gave to me then still reigns today. Father I thank you for speaking through pastor Blake's spirit.

  • @trulycay5714
    @trulycay5714 Před 2 lety +2

    YOU SAID THAT RIGHT STAND ALONE ORIGINAL ... WHEN I THINK BACK IVE HAD HATERS ALL MY LIFE PPL CAN SEE DIAMONDS IN YOU BEFORE YOU CAN SEE THEM YOURSELF

  • @karenirby3558
    @karenirby3558 Před 2 lety +10

    This is a good train tool for the preteen. I wonder if all the women that received this message had been trained as a preteen what impact would it have made on our lives. Thank you for the message.

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 Před rokem +1

    After growing up with so many toxic man in my family - god send me a gift in form on this man - a father, brother, uncle with such a wisdom. All I do now is pray my husband will have similar mind and heart.
    Bless you RC and Lady Lisa. You truly changed my life❤

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před rokem +1

      I am so honored. ♥️😊🙏🏽

    • @hgamer...7177
      @hgamer...7177 Před rokem +1

      Praise the Lord me to

    • @annaa6259
      @annaa6259 Před rokem

      @@RCBlakesJr. We are honoured to have you in our lives Dear RC Blakes. Thank you

  • @enigmaticladypisces3169
    @enigmaticladypisces3169 Před 2 lety +7

    I humbly thank God for you my brother R.C Blakes! Me and my 20 year old daughter Watches you several times a week. May God continue to use you tremendously! You are an amazing soul that God truly use. 🙏🏾☀️🎁💯

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 Před 2 lety +3

    When you learn to say no , when you can holistically love and value all you are,
    Strengths and embracing weaknesses , to acknowledge is growth ,
    to see each day as a gift of grace , for you have another day of life ,
    Loving god with everything , however though self love will give you the value of discernment , not all that extend love, will receive the same energy back ,
    So what is greater than gods infinite power and grace to keep one steadfast , and progressing .
    RC Blakes thank you enjoy content . Bless

  • @godislove4255
    @godislove4255 Před 2 lety +9

    Father, I receive this word in my heart and I thank You in advance. Amen

  • @garciagracelynd.8399
    @garciagracelynd.8399 Před 2 lety +13

    Thank you so much for your videos. I know that i've had such a broken consciousness since we didn't have a father that guide us spiritually. Until now I'm strugling to see my worth and dealing with my insecurities. I'm glad that I found your youtube channel. I consider you as my spiritual father, asking for your prayer in my self love journey. God bless you and your family.

  • @Lucylu723
    @Lucylu723 Před 2 lety +5

    I just want to start off by saying this video is an absolute God send and came at exactly the right time. I am in a difficult situation in my life right now and it has really reflected in the people who were friendly to me in the good season, but now ignore me in this difficult season. If I did not know my worth, I would allow these people's treatment towards me be the thing that defines my inventory, but my God is greater and I know his love for me and therefore I know my value which is above the awful ways these people treat me. Amen!
    NOTES
    15:43 - Train yourself to love you by doing some deep thought about your worth.
    It's not about comparison/ competing with others because "you are a standalone original" - 16:06
    Worth - What are your gift/ abilities? What do you bring to the table? What are your positive characteristics/ attributes?
    1) 16:39 - You have to make a list to remind yourself of your worth because "If you do not do an inventory of your own value, do not be surprised if people come in and try to mark you down."
    2) 17:50 - Daily declarations that support who you are, once you know your worth and where you know you are going.
    18:34 - "Self love is not about what others are saying to you, it's what you are saying to yourself."
    You need to get to a point where your daily declarations are enough to sustain your self-esteem
    *You have to know who you are, before you can make daily declarations for yourself*
    21:12 - Matthew 12:34 (KJV) - O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.
    You cannot develop a consistent regimen of decelerations over your life until you have firmly established in your own hear that *I am worth and I am valuable, I am irreplaceable*.
    22:54 - RC Blackes' story
    23:40 - RC Blakes affirming himself
    24:16 - Women stop waiting to be told your fine and start telling yourself that you are fine.
    24:52 - "Women learn to talk to yourself, because nobody in the world has access to your spirit more than you do and it's your daily declarations that are building your self love or destroying your self love. Especially if you are repeating the stuff that folk have said to you that *obviously* hate you."
    25:19 - 2 corinthians 4:13 - We having the same spirit of faith, according as it is written, I believed, and therefore have I spoken; we also believe, and therefore speak
    25:39 *"When you believe it, you gone speak it"*
    26:16 *"It naturally flows out of my mouth once I get it engrained into my heart"*

  • @HernameisSAFFA
    @HernameisSAFFA Před 2 lety +4

    You can't even put a wrap on a Lamborghini without getting permission or authorization first...you will never be out here misrepresenting their brand. You have to sign paperwork of 'requirements' and agree to their terms n conditions before you purchase...they don't have a problem turning customers away.

  • @sherrysher3124
    @sherrysher3124 Před 2 lety +24

    This has spoken to me in ways I didn't expect. I hope many more people get to see this message because it would save lives. May God continue to bless you abundantly Bishop.

  • @Courie11e
    @Courie11e Před 2 lety +2

    The Key for me is to be happy by myself. That's the prayer that I need to consistently pray to God. I love myself fully, but I struggle with being by myself.

  • @chavondottin2170
    @chavondottin2170 Před 2 lety +2

    Very true. Being miserable because you're single if not good energy out there and that I'm enough by myself.

  • @bowdred
    @bowdred Před 2 lety +5

    When you know who you are know one can tell you who you are.

  • @sheilasquare4339
    @sheilasquare4339 Před 2 lety +2

    Haiku
    Self Love ❣️
    Self love is love first.
    Loving you is the best thing.
    A beautiful queen.
    Thank you Pastor RC for the inspiration.

  • @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262

    Bishop Blakes always telling it like it is! Let the truth be told and spoken😁💖📖✨!

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele Před 2 lety +3

    The right way……. Facts for sure Psalm 46:10 is one of my favorite scriptures 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Yessss you began to Love ❤️ you

  • @Skaniathespartan
    @Skaniathespartan Před 2 lety +6

    This man is gold. Pastor Thanks for all you do🙏. My life have changed for the positive ever since I have been listening 🎧 to you 🥰. God bless pastor R.C Blakes Junior

  • @trulycay5714
    @trulycay5714 Před 2 lety +2

    lord you are preaching I can't take how some ppl just lie it's awful

  • @janicekangololo9705
    @janicekangololo9705 Před 2 lety +13

    Pastor R.c your messages have changed my life for the better and ive shared you to every woman in my circle and when i miss any of your messages one of them shares the link. Youre a blessing to every woman in our generation👏👏👏 Listening from Zambia central Africa.

  • @kreolekween8866
    @kreolekween8866 Před 2 lety +3

    Hi beautiful First Lady/A woman after Gods own heart.

  • @angelasmith6735
    @angelasmith6735 Před 2 lety +14

    So true looking forward to my destiny and keeping my faith strongly in God. In achieving my goal and purpose that God requires 🙏 of my life. Thank you Bishop Blake.

  • @celestinnarose
    @celestinnarose Před 2 lety +1

    It is not to the world’s advantage to affirm you… the realest line ever spoken 💯💯💯

  • @shaylabrown6038
    @shaylabrown6038 Před 2 lety +2

    Gooooood god almighty. Lord Jesus. Speak. Holy spirit. Thank you for sending me hear. Oooooooooooooooooooooooooh hallelujah. I just recently started setting boundaries. I'm proud. I'm seeing it. I'm seeing it!

  • @adinahaynes338
    @adinahaynes338 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you lord, this is confirmation!!

  • @rorygreene7275
    @rorygreene7275 Před 2 lety +6

    I resonate with a lot that you've said. I think, obviously many more woman than men definitely seek/need validation of their worthiness. I don't think they're in a helpless situation at all though. I've seen many woman come to themselves and learn to accept themselves. Some, that I know anyway, do a better job at it than many men I know.

  • @CatherineBartasius
    @CatherineBartasius Před 7 měsíci

    I am 63 years old, been married tw8ce for 11 years a piece, full time single parenting experience at 10 years, 9 years of stepparenting, also full time. I have also had 2 long term relationships with other men 2 yrs on and 2 yrs off with one and 8 yrs with tye last one. I love listening to your God-inspired wisdom, Pastor Blakes. We, as women, need to hear your messages very badly. Thank you ❤

  • @dollsandfun8630
    @dollsandfun8630 Před 2 lety +9

    I'm so grateful for this Exhortation,it's just confirming what the Holy Spirit spoke to me about myself that blew my mind because of the way people were treating me ..He told me I have a sweet Personality and I have an Aurora about me that He loves .Thank you Bishop Blakes

  • @sisds
    @sisds Před 2 lety +1

    Years ago I listened to pastor Myles Munro about singleness and his teaching opened up my eyes when I was miserable and desperate for a man in my life. Also pastor Michelle Hammond’s books transformed my life to be who I am today…value myself and enjoy as an individual not giving someone else the power to make me happy. It was so liberating. All these materials helped me to understand that loneliness and singleness are two different things though there’s misunderstanding and using interchangeably. As Christians we are not alone and God has given me the strength to live and enjoy life my self as a single. I enjoy my company and go to movies, theatre, meals and even solo trips. I treat myself well and give myself good gifts. No one can disappoint me now cos I’m not expecting or relying on anyone else but God who provides for me, protects me and strengthen me. His grace is sufficient for me. Praise and glory be to God Almighty 🙏🏼

    • @sharoncooper7187
      @sharoncooper7187 Před 2 lety

      Most Definitely. I love Michelle books as well as Myles Monroe's.

  • @brittanyb5942
    @brittanyb5942 Před 2 lety +9

    EXCELLENT teaching Pastor Blake's 🎉🎉👏🏾👏🏾

  • @nataliep6873
    @nataliep6873 Před 2 lety +3

    “What are the requirements!?!!!” Yes!Preach!! Love these empowerment teachings!

  • @alessandramoldovean
    @alessandramoldovean Před 2 lety +4

    I also think you were born for this! Thanks for this knowldege, you're great !

  • @winnersneeddiscipline4926

    I'm so grateful to God who connected me to this channel, I'm becoming a great woman with great personality, you give wisdom to the world May God bless your ministry Bishop ♥♥

  • @sallybyrd3712
    @sallybyrd3712 Před 2 lety +5

    Great word. Psalm 139:14 my favorite verse.

  • @nadiacharles8091
    @nadiacharles8091 Před 2 lety +6

    God is always on time, I really needed this. God bless you RC 🙏🏾

  • @sheilasquare4339
    @sheilasquare4339 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for such an insightful teaching. On my journey of healing. Much of my brokeness came from a lack of self love. I am happy, healing and healthy. I'm grateful to God my loving father and also for your powerful ministry of healing and restoration.

  • @CAMILLEWHO
    @CAMILLEWHO Před 2 lety +3

    I can't say enough how perfect and on time this is for me and women everywhere! Thank you for letting the Holy Spirit use you in this way! Wow! Just wow!

  • @ericafernandez9423
    @ericafernandez9423 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much Mrs. Blakes. I want u to know that your videos has helped me so much & made me stronger to get out & over of a narcissistic toxic relationship. Sending you & Lisa hugs and many more blessings for all you do. 🥰😘😘

  • @teebookwriter
    @teebookwriter Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for these words of wisdom, they have helped me! My husband of 46 years passed away last year and we did everything together. I now have to train myself to be Happy with me and Delight in my Independence!

  • @awilliams382
    @awilliams382 Před 2 lety +5

    ❤️❤️❤️
    This was much needed! Took a long time for me to get to this point…..but I’ve arrived. Thank you for a clear plan to move forward in life!!! I’m doing the work!!!💯

  • @atlsrealtor404
    @atlsrealtor404 Před 2 lety +6

    This is your BEST video yet Pastor! May God continue to bless you, your family, and your ministry.

  • @roselyneoduor802
    @roselyneoduor802 Před 2 lety +2

    Hearing and hearing the word of God from my own mouth again again again and again.🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @marciamcclain7198
    @marciamcclain7198 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank You Bishop. Heavenly Father let these spoken words soak into my self love❤❤❤❤

  • @sharmithiya1675
    @sharmithiya1675 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you Pastor for your golden words and wisdom for your spiritual daughters 🙏🙏🙏
    You don't know how much I have become stronger and bolder more closer to God by listening your words ( I lost my father when I was 7, and hearing from you the truths make my heart to expand beyond the limits)❤🙏

  • @Nadia-di4xw
    @Nadia-di4xw Před 2 lety +6

    This is a much needed and life altering message. So much knowledge & wisdom packed in one message.

  • @rosalysmartinez2153
    @rosalysmartinez2153 Před 2 lety +4

    This is a golden message, full of revelation and wisdom.❤️Encouraging, powerful and uplifting! I feel that every one that listens to this message will get something out of it! 🙏🕊💯💥

  • @cosmicconnection6719
    @cosmicconnection6719 Před 2 lety +3

    He is truly ANOINTED for this, my God!

  • @deet340
    @deet340 Před 2 lety +8

    Show love and hit the like button

  • @pamelamphotshabalala6863
    @pamelamphotshabalala6863 Před 2 lety +3

    I love and appreciate you the Blakes family. Thank you sir for speaking to us the way you would speak to your daughters

    • @Banzii_Mavuso
      @Banzii_Mavuso Před 2 lety +1

      Right? This is doing so much for me 👑❤️

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele Před 2 lety +2

    That’s right there are requirements before a person can participate in your life🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @annittaconquers5667
    @annittaconquers5667 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow. God bless you as you water our lives.

  • @christinewagner1722
    @christinewagner1722 Před 2 lety +7

    Amen, thank you for sharing this encouragement!! God Bless you & Lisa!! ♥️

  • @kingofkings5432
    @kingofkings5432 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow!! a stand-alone original!...That's Bishop for ya!... the message is so meaty that you can eat off of it for the rest of your life. it is so full of treasure that you hit the lottery every time you listen to the message... it's a win-win every time...

  • @evelyncooley6217
    @evelyncooley6217 Před 2 lety +7

    I thank God for you Bishop... Needed this. Amen

  • @Wyzdom1974
    @Wyzdom1974 Před 2 lety +7

    Excellent teaching Unc, I appreciate you remain blessed 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sharonoloya
    @sharonoloya Před rokem +2

    Your videos leave me speechless! Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for your powerful words that uplift me every time. You've educated me just like the father I've always needed. God bless you and your family. Truly truly annoited for this.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @Hamination8
    @Hamination8 Před 2 lety +17

    One of Bishop's most powerful messages💪..my God! I'm so grateful for these teachings. Thank you!🙏♥️

  • @krystalreynolds2889
    @krystalreynolds2889 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you so much for this. I am one of those who has lost a lot of weight and now I am worried about the loose skin instead of being happy with the weight loss. God was speaking to me through you.

  • @trulycay5714
    @trulycay5714 Před 2 lety +3

    Now that I'm in god he's showing me all the qualities I have. . he's bringing out the best in me.. MY MAKER IS MY HUSBANDMAN HES BEEN THE BEST :)

  • @chamerej5673
    @chamerej5673 Před 2 lety +7

    Wonderful message! What a Blessing this was! Thank you so much Pastor!

  • @purebitty8512
    @purebitty8512 Před 2 lety +6

    Amen Blake’s because these messages keeps me.

  • @stephaniekc
    @stephaniekc Před 2 lety +4

    Yes, this is all absolutely true! Thank you💞💕