Girl Chat Vault: Tough Talks with the Family

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  • čas přidán 18. 09. 2020
  • Real fam, how would you explain to a family member that they are not welcome in your home during the holidays?
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  • @forroses.2445
    @forroses.2445 Před 3 lety +571

    The thing is the show needs someone like tam she brings a more old school perspective. Shes also hilarious and a sweet heart 🥺

    • @FriendshipIsMagic6214
      @FriendshipIsMagic6214 Před 3 lety +21

      If I wanted to hear an old school perspective I'd watch The View😂😂

    • @daria5846
      @daria5846 Před 3 lety +22

      Scott Hall Maternal might be a better word. Her personality is rather sweet and like a typical caring mom.

    • @forroses.2445
      @forroses.2445 Před 3 lety +20

      @@FriendshipIsMagic6214 😭 her perspective just balances out the other co hosts. I dont want an entire panel of tameras, but someone with her personality type is needed

    • @forroses.2445
      @forroses.2445 Před 3 lety

      @@daria5846 yeah maybe you're right, Tamera just tends to describe her views as old school

    • @misshglady4lyfe
      @misshglady4lyfe Před 3 lety +11

      She's irreplaceable 😭😭😭😭I want Tam back!!!!!

  • @yaalouise
    @yaalouise Před 3 lety +199

    I'm gonna miss the "why y'all laughing?" And the "why you laughing ___" 😂😭😂😭

  • @h.1458
    @h.1458 Před 3 lety +535

    The show won't the same without her..

    • @TheYesminn
      @TheYesminn Před 3 lety +4

      True

    • @keylaflores6632
      @keylaflores6632 Před 3 lety +4

      Period

    • @Kashniyaa.3
      @Kashniyaa.3 Před 3 lety +1

      right😭

    • @equalityforallhumans
      @equalityforallhumans Před 3 lety +10

      Same, I subscribed because of her...and unsubscribed once I found out she was leaving. It’s a dope show, don’t get me wrong, but something about having her in it made me okay with watching it.

    • @scarletv219
      @scarletv219 Před 3 lety

      Who?

  • @djredd1225
    @djredd1225 Před 3 lety +382

    I feel some type of way that Tam wont be on the show...like my feelings are hurt hurt

    • @AnabethS2Logan
      @AnabethS2Logan Před 3 lety +3

      why!??? What happened? where is the announcement?

    • @jayelma9738
      @jayelma9738 Před 3 lety +3

      i can't watch any more

    • @misshglady4lyfe
      @misshglady4lyfe Před 3 lety +2

      Me too 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔

    • @misshglady4lyfe
      @misshglady4lyfe Před 3 lety

      @@AnabethS2Logan you are late hunty.. a few weeks ago it was announced she posted it on instagram.

    • @AnabethS2Logan
      @AnabethS2Logan Před 3 lety

      @@misshglady4lyfe On the stories? bc I follow her and I didn't see no announcements

  • @MO-ty3he
    @MO-ty3he Před 3 lety +117

    The Real is taking a major L losing Tamera.

  • @angellll357
    @angellll357 Před 3 lety +219

    I'm really gonna miss Tam and Adrienne bonding over their freakiness, Jeannie laughing at Tam's weirdness/innocence and Loni teasing Tam about Adam😂😂. I don't understand why she's leaving😭 but I wish her the best and hopefully she comes back as a guest co-host❤️

    • @kamissadiarra5074
      @kamissadiarra5074 Před 3 lety +7

      Loni's jokes about Tamera are the funniest😂😂😂😂

    • @lx9414
      @lx9414 Před 3 lety +7

      Did they have a goodbye episode for her?

    • @angellll357
      @angellll357 Před 3 lety +2

      I'm not sure if they did

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety +4

      @@lx9414 No, they did not. Tamera left after the season ended.

    • @RTA6226
      @RTA6226 Před 2 lety +1

      I heard they were messing with her pay.

  • @melindahmkhwanazi
    @melindahmkhwanazi Před 3 lety +99

    I haven't seen my father's side of the family in like 13 years. I uninvited myself and I am so glad I did! Toxic people are toxic people, it doesn't matter if they're family. Therapy is expensive, the fewer issues I have, the less sessions I need, the more money I save!

    • @tenishabotha6032
      @tenishabotha6032 Před 3 lety +3

      So true! It's sad and hurts but it's better to let go of toxic family members

    • @mandisazulu8426
      @mandisazulu8426 Před 3 lety +1

      For real! Toxic people are toxic, even if they are family.

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 Před 3 lety +2

      @@mandisazulu8426 samee father side of the fam is always shitty i can relate lmao

    • @MamaCeesay98
      @MamaCeesay98 Před rokem

      Is it okay to laugh at your comment, more so the therapy savings part?

  • @sitatheyoutuber
    @sitatheyoutuber Před 3 lety +48

    I simply stop showing up to keep my distance from toxic family members. Yet they wonder why I don’t open up to them or talk, because all they do is criticize and be all up in everyone’s business 🥱

  • @sdmnfam7005
    @sdmnfam7005 Před 3 lety +128

    Gonna really miss Tamera 😭🥺

  • @NellyChristelle
    @NellyChristelle Před 3 lety +33

    I love how Adrienne constantly speaks Spanish, you know, acknowledging her culture. I wish more people would do that because it also educates people and helps us be diverse.

  • @2topaz
    @2topaz Před 3 lety +99

    No one
    None at all
    Not even a single soul
    Jeanie: you guys, our pee is gonna be so pretty today
    😂😂😂😂

    • @ra4207
      @ra4207 Před 3 lety +1

      Lol can yawl let us know about that text message! Was it glittery?

  • @jeffreyward7815
    @jeffreyward7815 Před 3 lety +55

    Tamera we miss you already

  • @beegs771
    @beegs771 Před 3 lety +17

    I grew up watching Tia and Tam on Sister Sister.I had the biggest crush on those beautiful twins.They're still amazing.Nothing is the same without Tamera with her fun bubbly personality.I will be missing Tam once again.Lord bless that precious woman!

  • @sheeks2467
    @sheeks2467 Před 3 lety +27

    One of the reasons i watch this show is because Tamera is on it. Don't know if i'll watch it as often now.

  • @ilad3689
    @ilad3689 Před 3 lety +77

    I’m gonna miss tamera 😭😭😭

  • @cherrysIushie
    @cherrysIushie Před rokem +4

    New word of the day: “succinct”
    Jeannie is always expanding my vocabulary 😂

  • @OneLoveRSR
    @OneLoveRSR Před 3 lety +32

    Adrienne: "Yo, you stepped to him!"
    Tamera: "I sure did!"
    Me: COME THRU 90s!!! Ugh! The nostalgia!

  • @carolea1629
    @carolea1629 Před 3 lety +10

    ❤❤❤❤ *Nostalgia: back in the days when it was Real chemistry between them four girlfriends. The only guest there were was us the audience chatting with our 4 girls*

  • @etvscandalfanpage2011
    @etvscandalfanpage2011 Před 3 lety +11

    Im gonna miss Tam and Loni's friendship, infact I ll miss all four of them's chemistry. These ladies are "The Real"

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn Před 3 lety +33

    So like here’s my issue if I know fir a fact there is a certain person whose energy is strong enough to bring down the morale... especially if they have issues with people and create drama I’m hit them straight no chaser- with the truth and say “ hey I think it would be best if u don’t come , I would love for you to be there but the past few times haven’t been great so i can’t allow you to come “

  • @valeriejaramillo1189
    @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety +11

    You ladies are addicting .thanks. For the laughs. .makes my day.

  • @dream2020as
    @dream2020as Před 2 lety +5

    The four of them have really good chemistry

  • @Saigneli
    @Saigneli Před 3 lety +9

    Me and my home girls are very upset that TAMERA won’t be in the show no more😭 my feelings or actually hurt and my heart is broken...but I am happy to see what she will be doing next fully and new talk show😏

  • @tashagirl2569
    @tashagirl2569 Před 3 lety +18

    Miss you tamera

  • @yvonnelutunacevamaca3347
    @yvonnelutunacevamaca3347 Před 3 lety +5

    I miss this bunches' chemistry and friendship

  • @dee8765
    @dee8765 Před 3 lety +12

    Tam Tam !!!!!!💕

  • @lucillescheepers972
    @lucillescheepers972 Před 3 lety +3

    Love the show ladies💕💕💕💕💕

  • @06050010631
    @06050010631 Před 3 lety +4

    I love Tam and will miss her so much and although I know she can never be replaced, I’m open to what Garcelle has to bring to the table💝

  • @whiteteaandpeonies9145
    @whiteteaandpeonies9145 Před 3 lety +16

    I will definitely miss Tamera on this show!

  • @EllePlowPlow
    @EllePlowPlow Před 3 lety +8

    The question is, did Tia get the invite from Tyler Perry? 👀👀

  • @cassandragray2081
    @cassandragray2081 Před 3 lety +11

    They need someone similar to tan for this show to work well. Someone with the old school more reserved persona someone gentle an a momma !! Her whole aura completes this show so if she’s gone you need the perfect fit for this to work!!

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust Před 3 lety +14

    If there is a valid reason such as fearing they may harm you or other relatives. Then the talk shouldn't be tough. You let them know the reason and let them know if they want to come back again for the holidays they better show improvements which you will be the judge of. It's all about effective communication skills but don't take family for granted...true or correct?

  • @arisquad9618
    @arisquad9618 Před 3 lety +2

    Great video

  • @zacxyclips9826
    @zacxyclips9826 Před 3 lety +2

    Love Adriennes hair on here

  • @Baby-oe5zw
    @Baby-oe5zw Před 3 lety +4

    Me realizing how old Tia and Tamera are, and they are like 4 years younger than my mom, and my mom was born 74, and i was like WHAT THE HECK these two are 40 something. They pass for 30-35

  • @doublerr1884
    @doublerr1884 Před 3 lety +3

    Hello beautiful people Happy Saturday 💚🤗💚
    #DoubleRR
    #DaAfricanPrincess
    #Rhanni
    #LatashaBrown💚

  • @elizabethcalderon8490
    @elizabethcalderon8490 Před 3 lety +3

    Ughhh watching old clips cus I miss Tamera!!!😩😩😩

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety +3

    Ugh, I hate when people spread misinformation about nutrition. I hope Adrienne has educated herself since they filmed this video.

  • @jesuschild07able
    @jesuschild07able Před 3 lety +40

    I just don’t come to Thanksgiving or Christmas. I have too many racist relatives.

    • @titibams
      @titibams Před 3 lety +8

      It's time to have those hard conversations. Change starts with you....👍🏾

  • @kimpatterson4256
    @kimpatterson4256 Před 2 lety +1

    Tam Tam needs to come back 😫 😤 I really really really miss Tam. And I miss the studio set up too.

  • @jayjee735
    @jayjee735 Před 3 lety +3

    The glitter will come out with the solids...

  • @misshglady4lyfe
    @misshglady4lyfe Před 3 lety +4

    She's irreplaceable 😭😭😭😭I want Tam back!!!!!

  • @EFUAGYANOWAA
    @EFUAGYANOWAA Před 3 lety +2

    Wow can we get our old panel back on the show...Tamera and Tamar back on the show.....

  • @KokoBombonColon
    @KokoBombonColon Před 3 lety

    Awww Tam. ❤️🥰

  • @Halseyismyrealname
    @Halseyismyrealname Před 3 lety +2

    You just tell them they can’t come- my thanksgiving was completely ruined last year bc of a actual “ hater “ who was a family member... keep them away... kids shouldn’t been around that !

  • @kellycraddock269
    @kellycraddock269 Před 3 lety

    Hey I'm a big fan

  • @valeriejaramillo1189
    @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety +1

    Had a whole year to talk it out

  • @teamlovepanda
    @teamlovepanda Před 3 lety +2

    Did we ever figure out the glitter pee/poo situation??

  • @nessamae7141
    @nessamae7141 Před 3 lety +3

    y’all already posted this same video before. why again now?

  • @NornaFrancis
    @NornaFrancis Před 3 lety +1

    what did i miss why is tam gone :(
    ?¡¡¡ can someone please tell me

  • @valeriejaramillo1189
    @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety +1

    I would just tell them. .because they pissed me off .and screwed up

  • @huntspiceboy4ever
    @huntspiceboy4ever Před 3 lety +1

    Is this what happens when ppl aren't treated like milked cows

  • @valeriejaramillo1189
    @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety +1

    My family does that

  • @areeja2672
    @areeja2672 Před 3 lety +2

    I just realized how much I used to really enjoy the show and these days......just ..too much....

  • @paulababula9621
    @paulababula9621 Před 3 lety +2

    Rest in power, RBG. ❤️

  • @ReemThearab
    @ReemThearab Před 3 lety +1

    I miss Tam 😭😭

  • @theateam8431
    @theateam8431 Před 3 lety +2

    Has anybody watched sister sister were

  • @valeriejaramillo1189
    @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety

    They always forgive me

  • @shamaoliver7989
    @shamaoliver7989 Před 2 lety

    I feel like Adrienne and Tamera would be the only ones that would invite someone for thanksgiving to their home but they won't put up with drama.

  • @karoline1953
    @karoline1953 Před 3 lety

    Why did Tamara leave?

  • @alexandratonico3662
    @alexandratonico3662 Před 3 lety +2

    Early🤘🏽

  • @jeromebaxter2987
    @jeromebaxter2987 Před 2 dny

    1:22 😂😂😂

  • @MrSexydivas
    @MrSexydivas Před 2 lety

    Casa de Houghton!!! 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @abasiamaudom9372
    @abasiamaudom9372 Před 3 lety +1

    Wait I’m so confused someone pleasee answer me
    I thought TAMERA was no longer at the REAL?!!!!

  • @lamarshalewis5380
    @lamarshalewis5380 Před 3 lety +5

    Adrienne lying. She always got a story where she’s “ experienced,” the subject matter they discussing.

  • @jayramsay7452
    @jayramsay7452 Před 3 lety

    Hi , take it out !!!

  • @thatleogirl7277
    @thatleogirl7277 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m eating and sitting on the couch sorry loni

  • @JenJHayden
    @JenJHayden Před 3 lety +25

    urgh. i am starting to disdain these vids thinking tam wont be there.

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn Před 3 lety +2

      They literally say VAULT💀

    • @JenJHayden
      @JenJHayden Před 3 lety +3

      @@MajesticMyronn no shyt. that's my point. they remind me she's not there. it's like watching a movie with the Twin Towers in the background. it's a constant reminder of their absence.

  • @gudrunmoe
    @gudrunmoe Před 3 lety +1

    You know that something is of with the beauty standards when girls who look as great as Adrianne and Tamara is this into how to loose weight...

  • @swaiyahrehman986
    @swaiyahrehman986 Před 3 lety +2

    Bring tamera back to show

  • @valeriejaramillo1189
    @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety

    The real crash party

  • @valeriejaramillo1189
    @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety +1

    I don't want to be uncomfortable or my guest

  • @Baby-oe5zw
    @Baby-oe5zw Před 3 lety +2

    I dont watch the real im a 13 year old girl. I mean like i see Tamera im like let me just see. I just wanna see Tamera honestly

  • @angelarosa6272
    @angelarosa6272 Před 3 lety

    Ugh I miss Tamara 😭

  • @ambreajo6869
    @ambreajo6869 Před 3 lety

    thanksgiving in two weeks????

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt Před 3 lety

      Ambrea Jo it says vault plz open your eyes

  • @tashatasha9648
    @tashatasha9648 Před 3 lety +2

    Are you Adrienne Pregnant 🤰🏽 You look different, I really hope you are.....with love from London 🇬🇧

    • @MiszJANAY
      @MiszJANAY Před 3 lety +3

      Stop asking people if they're pregnant. It's rude. And this is an old episode.

    • @tashatasha9648
      @tashatasha9648 Před 3 lety

      j m. It was said with love 💓

    • @tashatasha9648
      @tashatasha9648 Před 3 lety

      As long as I know with what sentiment is was sent with, I will send it.
      Have yourself a great day 😊

  • @harvinkhaneja3656
    @harvinkhaneja3656 Před 3 lety

    Mugboorun

  • @californialanta5908
    @californialanta5908 Před 3 lety +1

    Heheh

  • @zamariamuse2026
    @zamariamuse2026 Před 3 lety

    Is this old ??

    • @camille98tt
      @camille98tt Před 3 lety

      Zamaria Muse it literally says vault

  • @valeriejaramillo1189
    @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety

    He only wanted one real girl

    • @valeriejaramillo1189
      @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety

      That was funny hope you laughed. .cause four of you together he couldn't handle. .he would have to break out a Madea and the purse. Lol. Have a good one. .

  • @Chaos-Retribution
    @Chaos-Retribution Před 3 lety +6

    That is so tacky if you’re not invited to an event that means the person does want your company. To beg on national television 😏no one is liked by everyone move on

  • @AdamFarisArt
    @AdamFarisArt Před 3 lety +1

    loni looks skinny

  • @valeriejaramillo1189
    @valeriejaramillo1189 Před 3 lety

    It's to uncomfortable

  • @JenJHayden
    @JenJHayden Před 8 měsíci

    funny episode.

  • @EvenStevenSays
    @EvenStevenSays Před 3 lety +1

    8:41 Jeanie SHHHING Tamera......not very nice. It’s a little rude.

  • @stargirl91291
    @stargirl91291 Před 2 lety +2

    LMAOOOO 🤣 how…HOWWW!!…Loni! Is it still THIS difficult for you to read off the freaking teleprompter 10:05 - 10:58 ish I think…like GURLLL it’s your job!
    She legit struggles and stumbles through her words EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. Good god lord Jesus someone help this poor woman learn how to read and present a story naturally…whew! Gotta wipe the sweat off my brow after that rant hahaha 🤬🤯😆🥵😰

  • @8luvbug
    @8luvbug Před 3 lety

    4:25

  • @stellakamau6994
    @stellakamau6994 Před 3 lety +2

    I miss Tamera on the show.. Im done watching actually. Its been real

  • @ozieramayorih2927
    @ozieramayorih2927 Před 3 lety

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