GIRL CHAT VAULT: How To Give Advice to Love Ones who Won’t Take It

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  • čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
  • Real fam, do you tell your inner circle when they are doing something you don’t agree with or love them for a distance?
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  • @kirkxavier777
    @kirkxavier777 Před 3 lety +166

    Great point that Jeannie made. I’ve struggled with drug use and my family pushed me to get help but I still ended up in the same positions until I decided MYSELF that I wanted a different life. Sometimes you have to fall hard in order to look at things in an objective perspective.

    • @licks3962
      @licks3962 Před 3 lety +4

      I Pray for your recovery and just Now god loves you and every1 else who is struggling w drug abuse.you will see the light at the end of the tunel.keep trying you get there your love ones don't love you less.they Just care for you that's why they keep praying for you!!🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @chelsea5595
      @chelsea5595 Před 2 lety

      That’s awesome. I have a family member dealing with addiction. I can’t just act like it’s fine, so my only options are to keep trying to get them to get help and have them get angry at me and feel like I am pushing them, or just ignore them and have them mad at me for that. Do you have an opinion on which is better?

  • @Zumzizeroo17
    @Zumzizeroo17 Před 3 lety +108

    I agree with Adrienne. Unless it’s a choice that I feel I need to intervene because someone’s safety is in jeopardy, I’ll let them see the decisions they are making are not good ones.

  • @longlivekingjames806
    @longlivekingjames806 Před 3 lety +180

    So sad tam is leaving the show but SISTER SISTER WILL BE ON NETFLIX SEPTEMBER 1ST 😊

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 Před 3 lety +19

      I want the real to be on netflix so Ican watch full episodes

    • @indigobeauty1
      @indigobeauty1 Před 3 lety +5

      Omg!! Im so happy!

    • @lovebuglenise904
      @lovebuglenise904 Před 3 lety +4

      Heyyyy I didn’t know

    • @malumbesyatwinda8094
      @malumbesyatwinda8094 Před 3 lety +3

      I’m so made at UK Netflix 😭😭😭. We won’t be getting any of the great old school shows

    • @Kimbrly_xo
      @Kimbrly_xo Před 3 lety +1

      Malumbe Syatwinda ikr😢

  • @itsjacquelynambeau
    @itsjacquelynambeau Před 3 lety +130

    They are all looking so good on here!

    • @richardvargus7443
      @richardvargus7443 Před 3 lety +1

      I admire the goodyear blimp as well

    • @SoshiStars
      @SoshiStars Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah this was the season where they were styled the best

  • @mor9820
    @mor9820 Před 3 lety +29

    that was sooo cute when adrienne whispered and then loni told Jeannie and they were giggling

  • @kamissadiarra5074
    @kamissadiarra5074 Před 3 lety +77

    I'm gonna miss tamera :(

  • @veronicalopez6187
    @veronicalopez6187 Před 3 lety +38

    I agree with Loni ! Even if it’s going to hurt my feelings or if I’m wrong TELL ME. If you love me help me grow.

    • @mube8885
      @mube8885 Před 3 lety

      😂😂😂😂😂👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @crem2121
    @crem2121 Před 3 lety +15

    I live for the girl chats! So much more relaxed and they seem more relatable and it really feels like girlfriends all chatting in the room together lol

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety +59

    It feels so good to not have Instagram, Twitter, etc. CZcams is all I use.

    • @MaleahsDiary
      @MaleahsDiary Před 3 lety +3

      Same here

    • @wonderwoman1199
      @wonderwoman1199 Před 3 lety

      Yup true

    • @nyahjohnson7126
      @nyahjohnson7126 Před 2 lety +2

      Same but I was CZcams so much now that it takes up the same time as all the other applications I had.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Před 2 lety

      @@nyahjohnson7126 I understand what you mean.

  • @jennifercamille16
    @jennifercamille16 Před 3 lety +42

    Aww, loved this conversation! I'm gonna miss Tam on here SO much!

  • @jennamartin5913
    @jennamartin5913 Před 3 lety +24

    I agree with Adrienne.... if I don’t actually ask, don’t give me advice. Go talk to the wall if you must talk.

  • @angellll357
    @angellll357 Před 3 lety +22

    Tamera talking about how her kids won't leave her alone when she goes to the bathroom 😂😂❤️. Ugh I'm gonna miss her sm 😣😭

    • @richardvargus7443
      @richardvargus7443 Před 3 lety

      Yea like she ever spends time with her kids anyway. Those strong independent women raising weak fatherless children. Go society!

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety +2

      Richard Vargus You just wrote endless bitter comments on the channel. Find something better to do.

    • @angellll357
      @angellll357 Před 3 lety

      @@richardvargus7443 how would you know she barely spends time with her kids. She actually even mentions that she does spend every moment she can with them so take your hate elsewhere

    • @Justbu45
      @Justbu45 Před 3 lety

      She better enjoy it. They grow up quickly.

  • @ColieJr
    @ColieJr Před 3 lety +23

    I found out an ex was cheating via going in the bathroom texting.

  • @thisiskayleemarie9042
    @thisiskayleemarie9042 Před 3 lety +32

    Can we get a video on the topic of toxic parents even when their children are adults.

  • @bakangmlangeni
    @bakangmlangeni Před 3 lety +6

    Jeanie looks beautiful and Tamera looks like a bridesmaid 😍

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee Před 3 lety +6

    Obsessed with this cinnamon lewk from Jeannie!!! That lip and hair combo 🤤

  • @ericamlca
    @ericamlca Před 3 lety +9

    Lonis Winnie the Pooh laughs are so funny 😭

  • @gabrielaferraz7401
    @gabrielaferraz7401 Před 3 lety +6

    I love your words Jeannie. I wish you would tell us the books you’re reading! That was so true

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust Před 3 lety +16

    It's only best to give advice to loved ones when *THEY ASK YOU FOR ADVICE* think about it this way. You wouldn't take advice from someone when you never asked. Especially in the areas of dating and relationships and life in general. Especially if you think the ones giving you advice ain't doing better than you...True or correct?

  • @rorosung1026
    @rorosung1026 Před 3 lety +2

    Giving advice or solutions doesn't do much for a person until they feel like they're willing to change, and sometimes you don't have to try to fix it but just a good listener

  • @abcdefghijimin3248
    @abcdefghijimin3248 Před 3 lety

    i agree ! i will help of course but there’s a certain point where if you’re not willing to make improvements then i’m letting you decide when you DO want to make a decision

  • @Saffire1990
    @Saffire1990 Před 3 lety

    Fast forward to Tam being absolutely snatched now. What an inspiration 👏👏👏

  • @xlilchowchowx
    @xlilchowchowx Před 3 lety +4

    lol adrienne at 8:45 YESSSS

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety +3

    I hated it so much when people would insist on posting photos with me that I didn’t like. If someone doesn’t like a photo, don’t post it. It’s that simple.

  • @elisabetholiveira1772
    @elisabetholiveira1772 Před rokem +1

    I love you Lonnie Love y'all looks and expressions on your face are priceless you always have me in stitches

  • @MJ-vb7un
    @MJ-vb7un Před 3 lety +60

    Adrienne wants to come off as if she’s always minding her business but actually these girls chats have shown she’s the most judgmental and nosy. She spent this entire segment judging everything..

    • @ramonaflowers7613
      @ramonaflowers7613 Před 3 lety +12

      I agree that A seems more nosey than a lot of the other girls but i never got the impression that she seems imposing or controlling like I used to get from Tamar

    • @MJ-vb7un
      @MJ-vb7un Před 3 lety +5

      Ramona Real no me too.. but whatever type of ‘girl’ she says she is.. when she talks she’s actually the opposite.

    • @BigbossBonita
      @BigbossBonita Před 3 lety +2

      Now that's is keeping it real.

  • @ManiB_4
    @ManiB_4 Před 3 lety +9

    You guys are so amazing and hilarious

  • @Whereisnicolenow
    @Whereisnicolenow Před 3 lety +11

    going to miss tamera so much 😭

  • @ScatheMinx
    @ScatheMinx Před 3 lety +9

    I want to be their bestfriend :( Thank you for this. Your wisdom, humor, intelligence and confidence is empowering. I'm happy to be a subscriber. You're all beautiful and sexy as well. Stay safe.

  • @Jazzle06
    @Jazzle06 Před 2 lety

    My grandma lives with us but during the day she goes to a senior independence center, they pick them up, do activities, help them make and take them to their doctors appointment. It’s the best thing evvvvver.

  • @greciamedero2808
    @greciamedero2808 Před 3 lety +3

    Agree with Adrienne 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @kelseystramel5349
    @kelseystramel5349 Před 3 lety

    I'm actually refurnishing and painting my bathroom for this. Thats my escape room.

  • @jessc99
    @jessc99 Před 3 lety +4

    2:53 This is life lesson!

  • @rosebudd7170
    @rosebudd7170 Před 3 lety +1

    My mother lives in adult community; community bus transport shopping, doctors apartments. Each buildings has informal dinning area, kitchen, gym, movie threater and Ballard. Form friends have the same interests; bingo, board games. Family can have small parties. Loni, smart move for your mom. They meet new people.

  • @michelleblosser6701
    @michelleblosser6701 Před 3 lety +2

    I try to hide in the bathroom alot but yeah my kids bust in there anyway.🤣 Now i call my bathroom breaks a potty party bc both of my kids, both cats and my dog come in there so its always a party!!

  • @rositacortez-guzman6608
    @rositacortez-guzman6608 Před 3 lety +2

    Omg when they made those faces 😂

  • @jessicanarcisse673
    @jessicanarcisse673 Před 3 lety +2

    Opposite with my husband, I give him his space in the bathroom but baby when I’m in there he wanna come in brush his teeth, talk, brush his hair, change his clothes my gosh

  • @ranitagad7071
    @ranitagad7071 Před rokem

    If I were ever in that situation I'd wait for them to ask me for my advice about the situation and then politely tell them to ask someone else because their situation is none of my business.

  • @bobbiholmes2274
    @bobbiholmes2274 Před 2 lety

    I won’t get involved with someone even a family member if I know they are involved with drugs. I can be invested with that. I don’t want the stress, it sounds harsh but unless you have someone in your life that’s struggling with drugs you will never know the stress of worrying about them

  • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
    @ZuluGirlInNewYork Před 11 měsíci

    Adrienne is so gorgeous here❤

  • @Shannonlynn_98
    @Shannonlynn_98 Před 2 lety

    Praying!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @Brooklyn_baddiex3
    @Brooklyn_baddiex3 Před 3 lety +11

    I just mind my business honestly

  • @pal8542
    @pal8542 Před 3 lety +2

    Only seven hours a year? In this quarantine, I knock that off in 2 days.

  • @hannahwootton6491
    @hannahwootton6491 Před 3 lety

    Unless someone has that rock bottom where they know and want and are tired of going round in circles a lot of times you can't do alot

  • @anciboi
    @anciboi Před 3 lety

    I'll smooth out a forehead...lol....that took me out!!!

  • @millielouise2010
    @millielouise2010 Před 3 lety

    I’m like this with my sister she always picks the wrong guys and the one she is with fires off first thing in the morning and comes home late at night I’ve tried to tell her he isnt good for her but it just causes us to argue

  • @faridahnakayemba1496
    @faridahnakayemba1496 Před 3 lety +6

    I go with Adrienne coz u give advice and still do the same things gal

  • @titibams
    @titibams Před 3 lety +1

    Mum, mum, mum, ma, ma, ma.. Tamera😂😂

  • @moimeself1088
    @moimeself1088 Před 3 lety +2

    My family is religious. I disagree with their life choices. All of them don't speak to each other, but they speak to me, the athiest! I 😅

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety +5

    Adrienne sounds like a shady friend sometimes. I know she’s nonconfrontational, but your job as a friend to keep it real.

  • @LadiiLike5
    @LadiiLike5 Před 3 lety +2

    7 hours a year??!?!?!?
    More like 7 hours a week. Its a constant hour in the bathroom DAILY for my man lol

  • @krisstinalewis6347
    @krisstinalewis6347 Před 3 lety +4

    i love Adrienne lml

  • @kartert.jefferson6759
    @kartert.jefferson6759 Před 3 lety +6

    I’m with with Adrianne all the way.

  • @licks3962
    @licks3962 Před 3 lety

    L.O.L i ALSO DO THAT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i go to the bathroom.when i want to be ALONE NO WAY I THOUGH I WAS THE ONLY 1 GREAT TO NOW I AM NOT ALONE ON THIS!!!! I was beginning to think i was Weird..

  • @SSBMA1994
    @SSBMA1994 Před 3 lety

    I do it at work sometimes...🤫🤫

  • @kd-xp6eg
    @kd-xp6eg Před 3 lety +9

    Adrienne baby uon gotta speak on everything

  • @xxgizelrixx5480
    @xxgizelrixx5480 Před 2 lety

    loni be blowing me sometimes she can be such a hypocrite cuz she be the first one tryna get the tea n be nosy but as soon as the girls do it she gets all defensive n secretive like girl if u going do that then don’t be asking them personal questions either

  • @lisaharris1469
    @lisaharris1469 Před 3 lety

    Don't that's the best advice

  • @MsAmir-xw1us
    @MsAmir-xw1us Před 3 lety +2

    9:13 i felt that

  • @quailbanks4483
    @quailbanks4483 Před 3 lety +1

    Hilarious😂 but is this the episode today?

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety +1

      No, this is an old video. The new season starts next month.

  • @bantandiaye5020
    @bantandiaye5020 Před 3 lety

    I like dhis girle

  • @moadekunle2458
    @moadekunle2458 Před 3 lety +2

    Second comment 🤸‍♀️

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 Před 2 lety

    I do way more then my husband. Spend time in the my bathroom.

  • @ariahblack6043
    @ariahblack6043 Před 3 lety +3

    First comment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! First view

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety +3

    I can’t believe Jeannie had never heard of diastasis recti.

  • @heroncabo3756
    @heroncabo3756 Před 3 lety

    Good 😷🙏🙏🕊️🙏 abençoado por Deus 🙏🕊️🙏 e paz amor saúde amar o próximo ok 🇺🇸 respeito educação e beruti...Deus abençoe todos com muito amor...ok

  • @Mike-ri3ub
    @Mike-ri3ub Před 3 lety

    @11:10 she asked Tamera, not the audience

  • @setarehmotazedi2804
    @setarehmotazedi2804 Před 3 lety

    I think Jeannie and Adrienne were talking about tamar... :0

  • @BigSoul29
    @BigSoul29 Před 3 lety +1

    How about don't ? Don't give advice unless someone asks unless their life or the life of someone else is at risk. Other people's lives are nor our buisness. Less judgement more listening please.

  • @CocoAde
    @CocoAde Před 3 lety

    Loni and James aren't together anymore? Sorry if I'm late I can't keep up with all the relationships lol

    • @j.graham8201
      @j.graham8201 Před 3 lety

      This is an old girl chat, don't worry

    • @CocoAde
      @CocoAde Před 3 lety

      @@j.graham8201 phew

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 Před 2 lety

    But he got his man cave.

  • @natalieraeann
    @natalieraeann Před 2 lety +1

    Only 7 hours??????

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 Před rokem +1

    Gm edagdwg Miss. A . is soooooo extra out of love I would tell you not to make you feel bad because I really care some people do it because they enjoy hurting your feelings sad not a friend pay attention Linda j peace

  • @Victoria-gv3qh
    @Victoria-gv3qh Před 3 lety +2

    Loni is the shadiest person smh. I don't know how they can handle her

    • @laragirly3522
      @laragirly3522 Před 3 lety +2

      Wtf?? Shes not shady. There All friends. U just don't like her. Loni is very good for this show. Stop hating. Tf?!

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh Před 3 lety +3

      @@laragirly3522 she is a frenemy. always making fun of the others, rolling her eyes, attitude, she has negative vibes allll the time period.

    • @laragirly3522
      @laragirly3522 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Victoria-gv3qh No tf she doesn't. She's good friends with All of them. She's not a frenemy. Loni is a great co host along with those women. U are taking it so wrong. Shes good friends with All the co host. Ur looking too deep into it honey. Its really not like that. No she Doesn't has negative vibes all the time, thats just how u take it but she doesn't. Bye hunny.

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh Před 3 lety +1

      @@laragirly3522 you have your opinion, i have mine. Every episode I've seen she's making fun of one of the girls or being a HATER for no reason or giving attitude or rolling her eyes if other people's opinions are different than hers - especially to Tamera. It gets OLD real fast.

  • @Thewifelife40
    @Thewifelife40 Před 2 lety

    Men have man caves so they go there..the bathroom is the hiding place for men with no man cave..my husband doesn't hide but I do. I escape my responsibilities by hiding in the bathroom.

  • @55556666ish
    @55556666ish Před 3 lety +1

    Just a guess but mutual friend... Malika Haqq?

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety

      What makes you think they were talking about her?

    • @55556666ish
      @55556666ish Před 3 lety +1

      @@gaila.9852 she is a socialite and may be concerned with her image, they are also both friends with her

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Před 3 lety

      poodle fan Gotcha!

    • @MsMak03
      @MsMak03 Před 3 lety +3

      You were right sis, she said it was her in another episode

  • @jeromebaxter2987
    @jeromebaxter2987 Před rokem

    8:36