thats when you kno ud PROTECT and care for you kid mess with My kid and itell you to stop ,weather in a meeting with Pricipal or parent to Parent , but it doNt stop ... ur goin have issues .... give me a *reason* LEGIT reason as to WHY u pickin On my kid
Having passion is one thing but going to jail and losing time with your kids would be a whole different ballgame lol.. I’ll always do what I have to do to protect my kids but I need that person to swing first and I’m videoing the whole interaction lmao…
Exactly! I feel like emotional cheating a lot of people forget about that one. Especially men "forget" about that one. Which makes me believe her dude was cool with to many things so she was cool too. But really they were red flags
Jeannie baby... I hope your answers have changed. And, being married the longest doesn't mean anything, especially if you got a divorce and your ex-husband already had another girl lined up and pregnant.
Same here, especially since now days so many young children are committing suicide because they were bullied. Not just that, but kids are dying because of injuries during these bully fights. And parents/people have to understand it's a completely different type of bullying today than it was in our era. It's a whole lot more cruel and vicious. There's also internet and social media cyber bullying that exist today. And it's way more physically/emotionally/mentally harmful. So not only would I stand up for my child/children (when I have them), I'd stand up for all the children who are being bullied. Because they lack protection too. But I'd first whoop their @$$es tho, because now days the parents can be just as bad as their kids.
I disagree that bullies are hurt people. In the case of Regina George, she just wants to be on top all the time and it does not stem from any hurt or insecurity. She clearly has a great life at home and just wants to always have her way. Narcissism
Adrienne is absolutely right. The kids that are bullies 9 times out of 10 are the same kids that don't have much guidance at home so suspending them is a vacation. Make the parents pay a fine, if they cant pay they must BOTH do community service.
I disagree. People have this idea you can control people. You can't. Why not see what help they need and offer them help🤷 or if the kid is in a bad home life remove them.
@@nanagyambibi7426 you can't control you can advise and correct. You can't tell people or kids how to think and act. We have rules you break them and there are consequences. That's how life works... And hopeful we all learn when we do mess up and don't repeat them and do better next time.
Laaaawd Jeannie🥴🥴 ain’t no way my man Giving someone his number to a female he’s sexually attracted to. Like Adrienne said, what do they need to talk about
Yup.... he cheated and like Tia said she if you play with fire your gonna get burned and Jeanie got burned alright by Freddy. He got someone else pregnant and now they are divorced.
Sometimes they are just ignorant kids that weren't raised well that want to have fun, or are just jelouse, I believe we should be compationnate with them, but AFTER the sitiation is fixed ,and the victem is helped!
Jeannie was dropping hints way before her and Freddie divorced that she wasnt in love with him. I get the vibe that she wanted him to stray but she didnt want to be the one to initiate the divorce.
For real how is she talking like she still married. They wanted different things in the future and it ended it was crazy how she was dropping that she wasn't in love him. How could a woman let her man get even close to physically cheating before she thinks about leaving cuz we know
“He does the same thing and I don’t even trip.. I know her number too” - 😳 Whoa... my stomach literally just turned to knots there’s something so unsettling about this.
Jeannie: “I’m not one to jump to conclusions” Duuuude, you ain’t jumping anywhere. He gave you a full 8 sentence paragraph of conclusion! He has an intention to cheat, open your eyes!
briana I think at this point... she came to reality and noticed that, if I’m at this point in my marriage where things like your husband giving a female he’s attracted to his number r getting in dating apps , I’m her mind it has already ended but she was most likely in denial or didn’t want it to even though subconsciously she most likely already thought It was on its way out the door... which then lead to her getting a divorce a few months later
If Jeannie doesn’t think a lot of this is cheating, it means that she is comfortable networking with guys she likes, on dating sites and in chat rooms...... it’s the beginning of cheating.
😂😂😂 when she said that like she was really something, I was laughing so hard... I used to like her but the more videos I watched the more annoying she became.
Another problem is the victim get suspended when they stand up for them self and use self defense just because they are at school they could get kicked out to because they was attacked and they fought back
Unfortunately it's true. I was the victim of bullying when I was in elementary school. It went on for over a year and the school did nothing. So when I finally did snap and put the girl in the hospital, they wanted to try and expel me. They actually wanted to send me to juvie, her injuries were that bad. (It took 2 teachers to just get the chair out of my hands) But mom kept a log of every incident, so the school couldn't do anything or we had grounds to sue.
Yesssss Adrienne 👍🏾😂😂 I agree wit Adrienne the most cuz just talking to kids doesn’t work🤷🏾♀️ and I know this because I am in high school and us kids don’t like to open up to parents or teachers🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ a lot us have trust issues🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
4:30 My dad did exactly what Adrienne said when my little brother was bullied and later on when I started to get picked on. Let me tell you, it might not have been the most compassionate thing to do but those bullies wouldn't even look at us afterwards lol so it worked😅
As someone that was bullied a lot of times the parents know their kid is a bully, but don’t know how to handle their kids. One of my bullies parents was actually scared of her because she was so bad. Another one the parents didn’t see anything wrong with their kids actions. I think throwing a fine a parents isn’t going to do anything because a lot of times if the kid is a bully they don’t care about what their parents say.
But tge kid and the parents should still have consequences, before they are talked to or helped, I have been bullied ALOT before ,and no one should ake things lightly or ignore them, cuz that is what happened with me ,no one hot suspended or even punished, things only hot worse for me and I was never given the help I needed. I thankfully turned out okay, but you can't garentee that with everyone!
Sturgill Vlogs be careful how you comment eon someone’s life that you don’t know and how you think you know all the tea because where is your Life going to be or what is your life going to look like in five years time if you even reach there?
You trust each other enough that he not only cheated but knocked another girl up(who i might add was also your FRIEND!!!!) while still together with ya Miss mia.
Chelsey Faye that was not her friend... she knew her and was FRIENDly with her because of Freddie due to him always going back and forth to Colorado to hunt...
Jeannie let things get too far now I can't feel bad for her you don't want children and you gonna let your man cheat before you say that it's cheating cuz us as women we know the signs
I was going to say the same. I realized, subconsciously, Jeannie just didn't want to be with Freddie. You can't hate her for being honest even though her messages were subtle....
@@randomnessa If you catch Jeannie on her CZcams channel, she said she wasn't fully happy with Freddie. But she didn't get ugly about it. There was a lot of room and independence in that marriage for good reason. Neither one wanted it anymore....
Kyla she herself has said one time ( after the divorce during a season 4 girl chat session ) I’m gonna paraphrase “ if someone has thoughts and overlooks things that basically gives their partner leeway to cheat and not make it a big deal, that’s when your relationship is out the door “ so in her mind... before actually filing and announcing it a few months later , she was already done & was probably in denial on whether or not she wants to stay married with HIM Z
I think you're right. Jeanie seemed more fake when she spoke on topics where she brought up Freddie. You watch the old episodes and you'll noticed, she was real on a lot of things but when it came to bringing up her relationship, she did not seem to come from a genuine place. Plus in the 1st or 2nd season, I remember they had a male model lying on the table and she was rubbing something on his chest (as a married woman). She just wasn't that into her husband and that's why she encouraged him exploring outside or pushing their marraige boundaries because maybe she wanted to do the same. Also, she said she didn't want to have kids with him but she froze her eggs. I think she probably always knew she was not going to stay with him forever and that's why she didn't want to have kids at that time. No one goes through the torture of freezing their eggs if they can't see themselves with kids. Anyway, now she's got a man she wants and a baby on the way and she seems genuinely happy and truly authentic when she speaks about her love for him. I'm happy for her. Also, she's very protective of their relationship and wouldn't play these 'that's not cheating' games when it comes to Jeezy cause the love is truly there and she's not trying to risk either of them playing too close to the fire. You protect what you treasure.
I like Ade's response on the bullying. If you don't get your child to act right, I'm wuppin your ass cos my baby ain't going to be the only one getting beatings
I was horribly bullied when I was in high school I had to suffer through it. Had no one to tell no one listened to me and it nearly drove me to a point of becoming suicidal. I definitely do think that it's something people should crack down more on
i was just thinking this i was bullied too but never to the point where i wanted to hurt myself but i definitely think there should be some serious consequences to those bullies who physically or mentally hurt kids to the point they want to hurt themselves that issue should really be talked about
@@ramonajavier5938 that's why I didn't even respond to him because he clearly commented that to get a rise out of me plus he just made himself look like the dumb one because his comment didn't even make sense
First, I'm all here for Adrienne's reaction to bullying! If I tell you once & it happens again, I'm beating ya ass!!!!Second, I'm not one to mock being cheated on but they all had a point about "leaving the door open." Didn't Freddie have another woman pregnant right after him & Jeannie split up? That fire that she was playing with burned her!
I agree with Adrienne and if they can’t afford to pay maybe they can do volunteer service for 50 hours or something the parent and child together. Volunteering is usually free.
I love Jeannie but saying she's but trying to use the "I've been married the longest" card is ridiculous, unfair and makes it seem like she's trying to belittle her cohosts and their marriages. That's like driving to a cliff and you keep seeing signs saying, turn back and road ends soon and CLIFF AHEAD and she keeps driving until she's off the the cliff. It's not about trust, if someone is Into someone else while they're married or dating somebody, they should try to stay clear of them so that they don't accidentally put themselves in a bad situation that can jeopardize their current relationship. It has nothing to do with trust, it's common sense. And some people are married for 40 years and still get divorced. I think her saying that, esp with how she is the only divorced one at the table now, was rude. Again, I love Jeannie Mai but that was an unfair card to play whether her marriage would've worked out or not.
as true as that is, I think she was trying to get them to back off cause she felt backed into a corner and admitting that they were right would have been like admitting her marriage had issues and she wasn't ready for it
@@sakhilelisazondo7080 which I understand but there's so many other ways she could've said it without making her cohosts feel like she's deeming her marriage the most reliable just because she's been married longer. And she was backed into a corner because she was wrong. But I absolutely see what you're saying. She didn't want to admit it because she was aware admitting it would probably confirm the suspicions in her marriage she was having about Freddie.
ABCD12345 honestly it is like her she’s always used how long her and Freddie were married as a one up on the other women. That was her go to whenever she wanted to top the women at the table like her being married that long instantly means she knows everything about relationships and marriages
I love Adrienne so much lmao and I completely agree with her. If your child bullying mine, I’m only gon tell you once as a parent to fix it. If it continues, you might as well be ready to meet me somewhere so we can get our one in🤷🏽♀️
I’ve seen teenagers that are actually from good, well educated and wealthy backgrounds that are bullies! I think it’s more complicated than that, and of course, schools gotta take action and do something about this!
This is tricky, obviously bullying is awful especially in middle school, I feel like a fine could help but I also feel like the bully needs to be punished directly
As someone who was bullied relentlessly for half my life, I wanna say I wholeheartedly agree that bullies need to be held accountable. Parents need to see what their kids are at, picking on kids that make other kids lives miserable. And yes, bullies can be the most insecure people on the planet but even so, they need to know their behaviour is not acceptable and if a good therapy session is what they need, they should get it.
I got bullied just for wearing my glasses in elementary school and they should make kids pay for for bullying or suspensions for kids that bully other kids. Jeannie And Tamera Two thanks for always inspirational to other people about bullying. Keep it up ladies. I love you guys. Bullying is unexcepectable.😀😍😀😍😘😘
My partner is a high school teacher and during parent-teacher meetings he tells parents if their kid is acting up in class and they always tell him he's wrong because they're fine at home so he must be mistaken. Some parents are just in denial and don't want to know when all bad behaviour stems from home.
I'm 17 years old and i've been bullied since i was in elementary and when i went to the principal,the guidance and the teacher they didn't do anything about it because they were buddy buddy with the people that were bullying me and my mom had to keep going up to the school because they didn't do nothing and nothing was getting done and i became depressed and she took me out of school and but when they talked to the female's parents they acted like angels in front of the parent and my mom said enough is enough and put me in online school it didn't work because i'm very social and a happy person but my mom said i wasn't being myself because i was still depressed i'm better now that we moved but it really sucks when your in that situation.
Usually I’m on tamera’s side but why would you be compassionate towards a bully? So the bully gets to treat people like crap all you wanna do is be compassionate? I understand people may have things going on at home but that’s no excuse. You know right from wrong and sometimes kids are just bad. It doesn’t have to a serious situation going on at home for a kid to act up. They just need discipline
Carmara Aaliyah Thats true, but when I was in high school, this girl used to always pick on me for not having much. I finally snapped one day and beat her up and we both got suspended. She lived near me and I ended up finding out she was getting raped by her father every night so he wouldn’t touch her sisters, her mother was an addict, and she was stealing food/clothes all the time for her and her siblings. To make a long story short, she was basically “bullying” me because she was envious of what she imagined my life to be. That actually inspired me to become a teacher and adopt a kid and I see this stuff everyday. 9/10 bullies have it very rough, like unimaginably rough. I know this doesn’t excuse their actions, but a little love can go a long way. They should most definitely be punished, because in the real world, the law doesn’t excuse your trauma when you inflict it onto someone else, but all of that pain is hard on adults, imagine how it is for a child or teen to handle it.
I think it starts with educating children what bullying is and what kind behaviour is and knowing the difference between them. Sometimes parents are just as much of a bully as their own child. There needs to be a 3 step program for those that bully and for those that have been bullied.
Speaking as someone who was bullied until high school, most bullies are just verbally abusive and sadly most teachers ignore it because no one is getting hit and it's a lot of he said/she said. Honestly they should train teachers to treat every issue urgently until it's been resolved and the bully needs a punishment fitting the crime. And teach kids how to treat people right!
And Jeanie said “I’ve been married the longest at this table”... Girl lol unfortunately or fortunately that didn’t last much longer. Anyhow, that is completely unacceptable in my books. Period. I was in my feelings just like Adrienne.
Hurt people, hurt people. You took the words right out of my mouth Ms. Tamera, amen. Agreed there is a root to this situation. WE need to find the root to this. Bottom line.
whatz up unfortunately many women think it’s natural and loving and normal for a man to be with a woman while attracted, follow , like and even fantasise about other women .
I agree. When I first seen this video before they got divorced I just had a bad feeling he must have a side chick or something cause Jeannie really let him do whatever. For me yes I get marriage is about trust and loyalty, but there also has to be respect and boundaries. If u don’t have boundaries then you pretty much letting him do whatever. I’m not saying she deserved what happened to her but she has to also understand that the way she was thinking was being gullible and naive. I mean u could never really stop anyone from cheating. But she gave Freddie so much freedom it was almost like he was single. He was able to talk to other women whenever he wanted about anything and Jeannie would let it slide he was allowed to flirt with any woman. It was easy for him sadly to say.
Teachers turn SEVERAL blind eyes about bullying, coming from someone who got decked in the face by a bully and told to “man up” by my teacher when I bitched about it. But god forbid you wear a shirt with no straps. Jesus Christ you will be suspended doing it more than twice.
@@hlengiwezungu8152 but look what happened? The things that she thought was okay are perfect ways of someone getting tempted to cheat she is almost oblivious
I agree with Adrienne! Parents should Pay a fine and kicked out!!! There are so many kids committing suicide because of the bullying! Suspension is not enough!!!
Heck I went to the therapist or counselling sessions myself, just so I can improve as a parent. Going to seek help and get advice, but I have to have the will first of course. No one can help me unless I wanna improve, unless I wanna listen and think. When I save enough money I will to do family counselling sessions too, so my whole mini family can join. It’s all about respectful & understanding communication, and learning to live harmoniously with people around me despite the differences in every aspect of life.
I’m gonna be 100% percent about this issue right?!?! I honestly don’t believe kids understand how much their actions can affect everybody involved... when you have parents that are busy and can’t really give you attention even though most of them wish they could , that DOES NOT give you the right to put that negative energy into something else and bully people who have literally did nothing to you! So if the fee gives parents and kids more leeway and a lesson to either get things right at home or give that kid some type of punishment so he or she won’t be bullying anymore , then I’m here for it!
Lots of red flags about Jeannie's marriage back then... Damn
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Yep
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Like what?
Bean Grant 12:21
Adrienne was so heated 😩😩I'm with her 100%
thats when you kno
ud PROTECT and care for you kid
mess with My kid and itell you to stop ,weather in a meeting with Pricipal or parent to Parent ,
but it doNt stop ... ur goin have issues ....
give me a *reason* LEGIT reason as to WHY u pickin On my kid
her scorpio passion >>
Having passion is one thing but going to jail and losing time with your kids would be a whole different ballgame lol.. I’ll always do what I have to do to protect my kids but I need that person to swing first and I’m videoing the whole interaction lmao…
Me too whip ass
There’s something called emotional cheating Jeanie... those are red flags!
Exactly! I feel like emotional cheating a lot of people forget about that one. Especially men "forget" about that one. Which makes me believe her dude was cool with to many things so she was cool too. But really they were red flags
Exactly. What she was agreeing with was the opposite of what is a "NO" "NO" in a real marriage. Smh
Jeannie: doesn’t think anything is cheating
Also Jeannie: got cheated on
that was a bit harsh don't you think
@@kelsiekerr750 yeah but playing with fire get you burnt ✋🏻 just saying
I do think Jeannie and Freddie are already separated when Freddie and the other girl got together.
Jeannie baby... I hope your answers have changed. And, being married the longest doesn't mean anything, especially if you got a divorce and your ex-husband already had another girl lined up and pregnant.
LovelyTranquility yup. And with that “friend” that he gave his number to and you were cool with it. Smh
@@rachaelm7084 Right. Lol Poor Jeannie she had to learn the hard way.💁
They are expecting the 2nd baby already!!! Freddie and that lady DEF had something going on on the side. He got with her waaaayyy too quick.
Wow. Second baby already!?? Damn.
So true. The more I look back on these the more it just looks like her Ex took advantage of her naiveness.
If a parent cant pay the fine. They can do community service bully and both the parent/s.
I agree 100% with Adrienne. I'm whooping ass too.
Exactly
Me too it always starts with the parents !
Same here, especially since now days so many young children are committing suicide because they were bullied. Not just that, but kids are dying because of injuries during these bully fights. And parents/people have to understand it's a completely different type of bullying today than it was in our era. It's a whole lot more cruel and vicious. There's also internet and social media cyber bullying that exist today. And it's way more physically/emotionally/mentally harmful. So not only would I stand up for my child/children (when I have them), I'd stand up for all the children who are being bullied. Because they lack protection too. But I'd first whoop their @$$es tho, because now days the parents can be just as bad as their kids.
Yes! Totally agree
I disagree that bullies are hurt people. In the case of Regina George, she just wants to be on top all the time and it does not stem from any hurt or insecurity. She clearly has a great life at home and just wants to always have her way. Narcissism
Adrienne is absolutely right. The kids that are bullies 9 times out of 10 are the same kids that don't have much guidance at home so suspending them is a vacation. Make the parents pay a fine, if they cant pay they must BOTH do community service.
I disagree. People have this idea you can control people. You can't. Why not see what help they need and offer them help🤷 or if the kid is in a bad home life remove them.
I was bullied and had no guidance at home because my dad was also a bully. It was super tough growing up.
@@user-jn7so8eh7v I totally disagree. Parents should absolutely be able to control their childs behavior!
@@nanagyambibi7426 you can't control you can advise and correct. You can't tell people or kids how to think and act. We have rules you break them and there are consequences. That's how life works... And hopeful we all learn when we do mess up and don't repeat them and do better next time.
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Opps Jeannie! lol I was cringing the wholllllleee time Jeannie was going off about "trusting her man" lol.. yikes!
Kimberly Nguyen -and I oop 😮
TheStarPrincess8 😂🤣😂
Same!!! The more I watch these the more I feel like her ex took advantage of how naive she was
Yea and then she was like "well I've been married the longest at this table..." Not anymore! Lol
@@lilmissmonsterrr true but so sad I can't help but feel bad for her
Laaaawd Jeannie🥴🥴 ain’t no way my man Giving someone his number to a female he’s sexually attracted to. Like Adrienne said, what do they need to talk about
Getting pregnant, like Freddy did to Lindsey toole, now she pregnant again!!! 😂😂😂
Yup.... he cheated and like Tia said she if you play with fire your gonna get burned and Jeanie got burned alright by Freddy. He got someone else pregnant and now they are divorced.
or Tamara I stay getting them both confused.
This the episode we found out Freddy was out here living his best life, while Jeannie out here trusting, Freddie out here cheating
Maybe Jeannie and her ex husband were into threesomes 🤷🏾♀️
It is not always the case that bullies are from a "broken" background though.
It is
Sometimes they are just ignorant kids that weren't raised well that want to have fun, or are just jelouse, I believe we should be compationnate with them, but AFTER the sitiation is fixed ,and the victem is helped!
It's not a easy fix but suspension is like a vacation to most students
@@kennydearest6519 yeah but it coupd be as simple as jelousy, combined with not raised to have manners and care about people!
Some of them are just CRUEL human beings!!!
Production Team shading for uploading this, letting Jeannie talk about all this trust and now she divorced smh😂😂😂
For reeaal lmao
Jeannie was dropping hints way before her and Freddie divorced that she wasnt in love with him. I get the vibe that she wanted him to stray but she didnt want to be the one to initiate the divorce.
For real how is she talking like she still married. They wanted different things in the future and it ended it was crazy how she was dropping that she wasn't in love him. How could a woman let her man get even close to physically cheating before she thinks about leaving cuz we know
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kelvianna epperson it’s an old episode
“He does the same thing and I don’t even trip.. I know her number too” - 😳
Whoa... my stomach literally just turned to knots there’s something so unsettling about this.
I had to pause cause I was cringing so hard. I actually thought she meant she is number two to him like she's not his first priority
This shows all the signs before Freddy cheating on her thats why she is so defensive. She already knew and was in denial.
I agree
😎JEANNIE TURN A BLIND EYE!!
Chloenarian Vibes .. right. And she couldn’t even pick up the paddle to display ‘Not Cheating’. Her subconscious exposed her..
Sorry Jeannie, but this was her covering up for her marriage that was heading for divorce!
This was so cringy to watch knowing what happened to Jennie
I agree with Adrienne 👏🏽 at the end of the day when you mess with peoples money that’s when people start caring.
Yup
Jeannie: “I’m not one to jump to conclusions”
Duuuude, you ain’t jumping anywhere. He gave you a full 8 sentence paragraph of conclusion! He has an intention to cheat, open your eyes!
Adrienne got real💯love these women❤glad they're talking about this
I like I'm going to beat yo ass and pray on your recovery.
@@antjr6929 lol yesss
Crazy how Jeannie doesn’t think any of this is cheating but she was cheated on
Adrienne has me dead "you gonna wait till she comes to your house"
The real and the old episodes 🤦🏻♀️ makes me feel bad for Jeannie
briana why?
The editing must be different than the on air
Never say never.
briana I think at this point... she came to reality and noticed that, if I’m at this point in my marriage where things like your husband giving a female he’s attracted to his number r getting in dating apps , I’m her mind it has already ended but she was most likely in denial or didn’t want it to even though subconsciously she most likely already thought It was on its way out the door... which then lead to her getting a divorce a few months later
I 100% agree with Adrienne on the bullying situation!
If Jeannie doesn’t think a lot of this is cheating, it means that she is comfortable networking with guys she likes, on dating sites and in chat rooms...... it’s the beginning of cheating.
"I have been married the longest here at the table" LMAO
Lmao don’t start
Tables don't have wheel, but MAN do they turn!
😂😂😂 when she said that like she was really something, I was laughing so hard... I used to like her but the more videos I watched the more annoying she became.
I cringe when she made that statement... She didn't see it coming 🤦🏽♀️
her comments didn’t age well
Another problem is the victim get suspended when they stand up for them self and use self defense just because they are at school they could get kicked out to because they was attacked and they fought back
jayshawn92 this is so true!
Unfortunately it's true. I was the victim of bullying when I was in elementary school. It went on for over a year and the school did nothing. So when I finally did snap and put the girl in the hospital, they wanted to try and expel me. They actually wanted to send me to juvie, her injuries were that bad. (It took 2 teachers to just get the chair out of my hands) But mom kept a log of every incident, so the school couldn't do anything or we had grounds to sue.
8:38 *Adrienne defining like for Tamera*
*Tamera: “oh then hell no”*
😂😂😂 so cute
Well...she’s divorced now 😕so let this be a lesson to anyone watching.
Right!?! Definitely I lesson for me cause I think a whole lot like Jeannie
It's so funny when Adrienne said it" I'm gonna whoop your ass!"
Adrienne gave me life in this clip. She was fire!!!!!!
Yesssss Adrienne 👍🏾😂😂 I agree wit Adrienne the most cuz just talking to kids doesn’t work🤷🏾♀️ and I know this because I am in high school and us kids don’t like to open up to parents or teachers🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ a lot us have trust issues🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Coffee w/someone you like? That's a date lol
4:30 My dad did exactly what Adrienne said when my little brother was bullied and later on when I started to get picked on. Let me tell you, it might not have been the most compassionate thing to do but those bullies wouldn't even look at us afterwards lol so it worked😅
As someone that was bullied a lot of times the parents know their kid is a bully, but don’t know how to handle their kids. One of my bullies parents was actually scared of her because she was so bad. Another one the parents didn’t see anything wrong with their kids actions. I think throwing a fine a parents isn’t going to do anything because a lot of times if the kid is a bully they don’t care about what their parents say.
But tge kid and the parents should still have consequences, before they are talked to or helped, I have been bullied ALOT before ,and no one should ake things lightly or ignore them, cuz that is what happened with me ,no one hot suspended or even punished, things only hot worse for me and I was never given the help I needed. I thankfully turned out okay, but you can't garentee that with everyone!
And that’s why Freddie cheated on you with a person y’all took on vacations with y’all.☕️👀
Yep, blind trust is not a good thing.
Sturgill Vlogs be careful how you comment eon someone’s life that you don’t know and how you think you know all the tea because where is your Life going to be or what is your life going to look like in five years time if you even reach there?
Adrienne 😭😭 i really hope you have children ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ praying for you
You trust each other enough that he not only cheated but knocked another girl up(who i might add was also your FRIEND!!!!) while still together with ya Miss mia.
Her dumbass at the time was in denial.
Chelsey Faye that was not her friend... she knew her and was FRIENDly with her because of Freddie due to him always going back and forth to Colorado to hunt...
I'm sad to say it. Much love to Jeannie but that's why Freddie must of found it easy to step out on you 😥
That shouldn't be an excuse
Jeannie let things get too far now I can't feel bad for her you don't want children and you gonna let your man cheat before you say that it's cheating cuz us as women we know the signs
I don't get how she's talking as if she's still married either
@@kelviannaepperson3677 this is a old episode. This was before her divorce.
@@kelviannaepperson3677 She did say she didn't want kids though
I loveeeeee me some Jeanie but girl this why y’all divorced she is literally DRIVING him into other women’s arms carelessly 😩😭
I was going to say the same. I realized, subconsciously, Jeannie just didn't want to be with Freddie. You can't hate her for being honest even though her messages were subtle....
She was just trying to be mature
@@randomnessa If you catch Jeannie on her CZcams channel, she said she wasn't fully happy with Freddie. But she didn't get ugly about it. There was a lot of room and independence in that marriage for good reason. Neither one wanted it anymore....
Kyla she herself has said one time ( after the divorce during a season 4 girl chat session ) I’m gonna paraphrase “ if someone has thoughts and overlooks things that basically gives their partner leeway to cheat and not make it a big deal, that’s when your relationship is out the door “ so in her mind... before actually filing and announcing it a few months later , she was already done & was probably in denial on whether or not she wants to stay married with HIM Z
I think you're right. Jeanie seemed more fake when she spoke on topics where she brought up Freddie. You watch the old episodes and you'll noticed, she was real on a lot of things but when it came to bringing up her relationship, she did not seem to come from a genuine place. Plus in the 1st or 2nd season, I remember they had a male model lying on the table and she was rubbing something on his chest (as a married woman). She just wasn't that into her husband and that's why she encouraged him exploring outside or pushing their marraige boundaries because maybe she wanted to do the same. Also, she said she didn't want to have kids with him but she froze her eggs. I think she probably always knew she was not going to stay with him forever and that's why she didn't want to have kids at that time. No one goes through the torture of freezing their eggs if they can't see themselves with kids. Anyway, now she's got a man she wants and a baby on the way and she seems genuinely happy and truly authentic when she speaks about her love for him. I'm happy for her. Also, she's very protective of their relationship and wouldn't play these 'that's not cheating' games when it comes to Jeezy cause the love is truly there and she's not trying to risk either of them playing too close to the fire. You protect what you treasure.
oh man seeing this now and knowing that Freddie cheated on jeanie is just sad...
I like Ade's response on the bullying. If you don't get your child to act right, I'm wuppin your ass cos my baby ain't going to be the only one getting beatings
And now you’re divorced at the table...ok!
*the only one
I was horribly bullied when I was in high school
I had to suffer through it. Had no one to tell no one listened to me and it nearly drove me to a point of becoming suicidal. I definitely do think that it's something people should crack down more on
i was just thinking this i was bullied too but never to the point where i wanted to hurt myself but i definitely think there should be some serious consequences to those bullies who physically or mentally hurt kids to the point they want to hurt themselves that issue should really be talked about
100 percent
@Eddie N obviously not if they didn't do it 🤣 duh
@Eddie N please stfu
@@ramonajavier5938 that's why I didn't even respond to him because he clearly commented that to get a rise out of me plus he just made himself look like the dumb one because his comment didn't even make sense
First, I'm all here for Adrienne's reaction to bullying! If I tell you once & it happens again, I'm beating ya ass!!!!Second, I'm not one to mock being cheated on but they all had a point about "leaving the door open." Didn't Freddie have another woman pregnant right after him & Jeannie split up? That fire that she was playing with burned her!
I agree with Adrienne and if they can’t afford to pay maybe they can do volunteer service for 50 hours or something the parent and child together. Volunteering is usually free.
Community service is better for the fact it needs to be done!!!
I agree with Adrienne.
I love Jeannie but saying she's but trying to use the "I've been married the longest" card is ridiculous, unfair and makes it seem like she's trying to belittle her cohosts and their marriages. That's like driving to a cliff and you keep seeing signs saying, turn back and road ends soon and CLIFF AHEAD and she keeps driving until she's off the the cliff. It's not about trust, if someone is Into someone else while they're married or dating somebody, they should try to stay clear of them so that they don't accidentally put themselves in a bad situation that can jeopardize their current relationship. It has nothing to do with trust, it's common sense.
And some people are married for 40 years and still get divorced. I think her saying that, esp with how she is the only divorced one at the table now, was rude. Again, I love Jeannie Mai but that was an unfair card to play whether her marriage would've worked out or not.
I agree, I love her tho. That's not like her, usually, she is on point.
as true as that is, I think she was trying to get them to back off cause she felt backed into a corner and admitting that they were right would have been like admitting her marriage had issues and she wasn't ready for it
@@sakhilelisazondo7080 which I understand but there's so many other ways she could've said it without making her cohosts feel like she's deeming her marriage the most reliable just because she's been married longer. And she was backed into a corner because she was wrong. But I absolutely see what you're saying. She didn't want to admit it because she was aware admitting it would probably confirm the suspicions in her marriage she was having about Freddie.
Exactly And Adrienne's sarcastic "you're better than me" was on point after that unnecessary shade 👌🏽
ABCD12345 honestly it is like her she’s always used how long her and Freddie were married as a one up on the other women. That was her go to whenever she wanted to top the women at the table like her being married that long instantly means she knows everything about relationships and marriages
The real is so shady with those clips
I love Adrienne so much lmao and I completely agree with her. If your child bullying mine, I’m only gon tell you once as a parent to fix it. If it continues, you might as well be ready to meet me somewhere so we can get our one in🤷🏽♀️
Lord! This is so awkward now knowing Freddie cheated. So glad J realised she’s worth better!
I’ve seen teenagers that are actually from good, well educated and wealthy backgrounds that are bullies!
I think it’s more complicated than that, and of course, schools gotta take action and do something about this!
Jeeez this didnt age well for jeannie
This is tricky, obviously bullying is awful especially in middle school, I feel like a fine could help but I also feel like the bully needs to be punished directly
Both - punishment for the bully and fine for the parent(s) of the bully...
As someone who was bullied relentlessly for half my life, I wanna say I wholeheartedly agree that bullies need to be held accountable. Parents need to see what their kids are at, picking on kids that make other kids lives miserable. And yes, bullies can be the most insecure people on the planet but even so, they need to know their behaviour is not acceptable and if a good therapy session is what they need, they should get it.
Smh. That's not always true. Hurt people get hurt by bullies too. Not always hurt people hurt people.
Yeah fr
I got bullied just for wearing my glasses in elementary school and they should make kids pay for for bullying or suspensions for kids that bully other kids. Jeannie And Tamera Two thanks for always inspirational to other people about bullying. Keep it up ladies. I love you guys. Bullying is unexcepectable.😀😍😀😍😘😘
My partner is a high school teacher and during parent-teacher meetings he tells parents if their kid is acting up in class and they always tell him he's wrong because they're fine at home so he must be mistaken. Some parents are just in denial and don't want to know when all bad behaviour stems from home.
I'm 17 years old and i've been bullied since i was in elementary and when i went to the principal,the guidance and the teacher they didn't do anything about it because they were buddy buddy with the people that were bullying me and my mom had to keep going up to the school because they didn't do nothing and nothing was getting done and i became depressed and she took me out of school and but when they talked to the female's parents they acted like angels in front of the parent and my mom said enough is enough and put me in online school it didn't work because i'm very social and a happy person but my mom said i wasn't being myself because i was still depressed i'm better now that we moved but it really sucks when your in that situation.
@G P thank you
she said she the one thats been married the longest, but now she divorced, but that's none of my business🐸
Ali Ramirez it really isn’t so idk why you commenting
Ali Ramirez and she initiated it...
" if u play with fire, u gonna get burn" I agree with Tam tam
idk if that’s trust😗 (my opinion) and erm a short healthy relationship is better than a long toxic one
Usually I’m on tamera’s side but why would you be compassionate towards a bully? So the bully gets to treat people like crap all you wanna do is be compassionate? I understand people may have things going on at home but that’s no excuse. You know right from wrong and sometimes kids are just bad. It doesn’t have to a serious situation going on at home for a kid to act up. They just need discipline
Carmara Aaliyah exactly
It’s that cancer in her. We tend to feel for both parties smh 🤦🏽♂️ blessing and a curse 🤷🏽♂️
Exactly I go with Adrienne on this one.
Carmara Aaliyah I honestly see it both ways. 🤔
Carmara Aaliyah Thats true, but when I was in high school, this girl used to always pick on me for not having much. I finally snapped one day and beat her up and we both got suspended. She lived near me and I ended up finding out she was getting raped by her father every night so he wouldn’t touch her sisters, her mother was an addict, and she was stealing food/clothes all the time for her and her siblings. To make a long story short, she was basically “bullying” me because she was envious of what she imagined my life to be. That actually inspired me to become a teacher and adopt a kid and I see this stuff everyday. 9/10 bullies have it very rough, like unimaginably rough. I know this doesn’t excuse their actions, but a little love can go a long way. They should most definitely be punished, because in the real world, the law doesn’t excuse your trauma when you inflict it onto someone else, but all of that pain is hard on adults, imagine how it is for a child or teen to handle it.
I really feel for Jeanie after watching this. She did throw a little shade though when she said she was married the longest
I'm addicted to this channel I listen to it while I do work hahahaha.
I think it starts with educating children what bullying is and what kind behaviour is and knowing the difference between them. Sometimes parents are just as much of a bully as their own child. There needs to be a 3 step program for those that bully and for those that have been bullied.
Suspension does nothing but add fuel to the fire
Adrienne was PREACHING
Fr
It seems Adrienne gets the "flyest" outfits!!
Speaking as someone who was bullied until high school, most bullies are just verbally abusive and sadly most teachers ignore it because no one is getting hit and it's a lot of he said/she said. Honestly they should train teachers to treat every issue urgently until it's been resolved and the bully needs a punishment fitting the crime. And teach kids how to treat people right!
ADRIENNE!!!🤭
“I’m coming to whoop yo ahh”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And Jeanie said “I’ve been married the longest at this table”... Girl lol unfortunately or fortunately that didn’t last much longer.
Anyhow, that is completely unacceptable in my books. Period.
I was in my feelings just like Adrienne.
"That's why I'm single! You see these married heffas arguing?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hurt people, hurt people. You took the words right out of my mouth Ms. Tamera, amen. Agreed there is a root to this situation. WE need to find the root to this. Bottom line.
Hurt people don't always hurt people
OMG Jeannie you’re so naive
I know it's an old episode when Jeannie says. "Me and Freddie..."
I absolutely died laughing when Adrianne clapped her hands and 12:31 and starting doing the cheating dance 😂
Adrienne’s honest reaction to jeannie’s no cheating segment is me jeannie was kind of getting on my nerves like come on girllll!!!!
I hate when Tamara acts confused about questions!!! " What do you mean like ?"
So asking for clarifaction is being confused
@@tashaharris6960 fr bro
Yea but sometimes girls bully in a very sneaky way. Not provable ☹️ for example: not inviting, talking behind back, exluding you... so sad.
Exactly
This kind of mindset jeannnie has when it comes to cheating is exactly why her man was in a affair with another woman and she had no idea.. no shade
whatz up unfortunately many women think it’s natural and loving and normal for a man to be with a woman while attracted, follow , like and even fantasise about other women .
@@Jay-cy4js ur absolutely right....now I feel bad [sorry jeannie]
Or maybe he manipulated her into thinking none of these things meant anything so that he could have his way easier...
I agree. When I first seen this video before they got divorced I just had a bad feeling he must have a side chick or something cause Jeannie really let him do whatever. For me yes I get marriage is about trust and loyalty, but there also has to be respect and boundaries. If u don’t have boundaries then you pretty much letting him do whatever. I’m not saying she deserved what happened to her but she has to also understand that the way she was thinking was being gullible and naive. I mean u could never really stop anyone from cheating. But she gave Freddie so much freedom it was almost like he was single. He was able to talk to other women whenever he wanted about anything and Jeannie would let it slide he was allowed to flirt with any woman. It was easy for him sadly to say.
"If he had told me I would have told him he cant go"
LOL for once I agree with Adrienne throughout this whole video.
Meanwhile genies divorced currently
Couldn't have been that great
Was good for him. He was double dipping.
Hectic Erectic lol and she just said she was fine with it 😂 and now she’s divorced
and jennie was obviously in denial trying to convince herself
Teachers turn SEVERAL blind eyes about bullying, coming from someone who got decked in the face by a bully and told to “man up” by my teacher when I bitched about it. But god forbid you wear a shirt with no straps. Jesus Christ you will be suspended doing it more than twice.
Thank you for discussing this topic because I went through it for 5 years
Jeannie was so hard headed. No wonder he left her.
She's just open minded and trust a lot
@@hlengiwezungu8152 but look what happened? The things that she thought was okay are perfect ways of someone getting tempted to cheat she is almost oblivious
"I've been married the longest" but she still got cheated on.. yikes
I agree with Adrienne! Parents should Pay a fine and kicked out!!! There are so many kids committing suicide because of the bullying! Suspension is not enough!!!
Not only in schools. Bullying is major in workplace. Every organisation should address this issue too.
Fazira Jajol very true
Heck I went to the therapist or counselling sessions myself, just so I can improve as a parent. Going to seek help and get advice, but I have to have the will first of course. No one can help me unless I wanna improve, unless I wanna listen and think. When I save enough money I will to do family counselling sessions too, so my whole mini family can join. It’s all about respectful & understanding communication, and learning to live harmoniously with people around me despite the differences in every aspect of life.
Literally on my bucket list to one day be on the real watching you guys live 😩😩
You won't be punishing a child by letting them stay home
“If you play with fire you are bound to get burned”- tam’s momma called it
Had to come back and watch this after they got divorced. Sis- you trusted him too much.
little did jeannie know that her marriage would and soon because of lack of trust
Carys Hinkson I was just thinking the same thing.... so sad. Love her though.
YESSS Adrienne!! Preach!
5:09-5:13 Adrienne had me crying here tho 😂😂😂😂
Jeanie was on that bs
Adrienne sounds just like my mom when it comes to bullies it might be a Hispanic thing cuz Hispanic parents don’t play when it comes to bullying lol
I would say Adrienne is the closest style to mine.
I’m gonna be 100% percent about this issue right?!?! I honestly don’t believe kids understand how much their actions can affect everybody involved... when you have parents that are busy and can’t really give you attention even though most of them wish they could , that DOES NOT give you the right to put that negative energy into something else and bully people who have literally did nothing to you! So if the fee gives parents and kids more leeway and a lesson to either get things right at home or give that kid some type of punishment so he or she won’t be bullying anymore , then I’m here for it!