Ranking the 16 Myers-Briggs Types by Mental Age
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- Ranking the 16 Myers Briggs Personalities by their "True" Mental Age
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Chapters:
0:00 What is Mental Age
0:16 ISTJ
0:31 ISFP
0:52 ENTP
1:07 INTJ
1:29 ESTP
1:54 ESFJ
2:40 ISTP
3:06 ENTJ
3:46 ENFP
4:44 INFP
5:25 ESFP
6:10 ESTJ
6:40 INFJ
8:25 ISFJ
8:59 ENFJ
9:16 INTP
9:53 Tiebreaker 1
10:26 Tiebreaker 2
10:58 Tiebreaker 3
11:22 Tiebreaker 4
11:38 Tiebreaker 5
12:13 The Last Type
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Just right in time. Thank you FJ. I need some laugh.
Its okay Frank, i got the theater joke!
Same ❤
fine , the INTJ mental age is not elderly , my large ego can afford that hit .
But did you really have to put the ESFP above us ?
I didn't lost my respect for you because you are the greatest MBTI comedy channel but it seems a bit unfair .
I get that you wanted to illustrate why ESFP's are misunderstood , and i agree but i don't think this is the way to fix it .
it's true that INTJ's think they know everything but it's because we are considering things very deeply and sacrifice our sensory tasks for the purpose of understanding things and gaining experience . you know very well that ESFP's are way more carefree and irresponsible (relatively to INTJ , but in general it's not allwase clear )
Also , great video . Don't let my comment upset you or anything 👍🏻
I love how INFP is just in their own category. 😂 we're eternal.
Frank really knows us despite all his mocking 😂 we are the ancient baby. That's how I've always felt. ❤
Facts!!
I'm a 40 year old, Christian INFP, and my strong impression is that most individuals just... well... 'don't know what to make' of me. At least, in casual or professional settings. I don't think INFP's respond to others in ways others (who are not INFP's) consider normal. You're right, we're in our own category.
Freaking COSMIC! 🎶🌠🌌😴
Yes were a billion yo 😂
As an INFP, I can confirm that you're 100% correct. I'm pretty much everywhere on the age scale depending on the situation and my emotions lol
@@user-ic3fg2cr3i We do have the power of speech in our hands when we need it though
@maskedanimatronic147 Can confirm this is true as well, lol
Same 😂
Couldn’t agree more lmao😂
So true
As an INFP, I was pleasantly surprised and honored to be given that much consideration and having a category just for my type.
Like yes, I do act like a child, but I feel much older on the inside. It's just that, I don't think anyone would believe me if I say I'm mature unless I act like it, and it's just hard. I was half expecting to be put in baby section but I'm so glad that someone actually acknowledged our (atleast mine) true mental age.
That's because we don't open up to most people. They don't know what to say because we sound awkward if we are forced to do smalltalk but if someone would ask us straight up what our opinion on slavery, human traffiking, space, the deep sea, death and life etc. Are we would open up and start a deep conversation
true
but even I see myself as pretty childish at times and others around me also agree
but inside i definitely dont feel like a child@@Cuteemogirl94
same! (✿ ♡‿♡)
We are like the yin and yang of being an adult and a child.
@@josephgrove4779 l i t e r a l l y
As an INTP, I kinda feel like we appear like we age backward. We’re very mature for our age when we’re younger and then eventually there’s a crossover and we’re still perpetual children even as adults.
IKRRR I literally said that to a friend of mine recently that i feel like i age backwardss
That's because we've been here before 😆
Exactly, the curiosity and social awkwardness doesn't really go away. We seem as well behaved mature kids for naturally good grades and not getting in trouble much. But the secret is that deep down we are perpetually immature, only showing that wacky side of us to selected few. When we grow up and academia success is not the most important marker for maturity anymore, we lag behind. We're not the ones to dive into relationships and families as everything must be thought and overthought to highest details. Making (at least semi) permanent decisions like partnership and housing the bane of us, because what if, what if, what if. May even translate into jobs "what if something better is around the corner, I don't want to be stuck here". Our indecisive need of always keeping one foot out can be bane of our commitment, which is usually maturity marker later on. Unless the stars align and we're fully passionate and engulfed in our commitments. I wish the life worth obsessing over to all my fellow INTPs 😆.
as another intp i think i kind a disagree, we're always mid in everything, i have entj and intj as my siblings and their mental age was older when they were at my age, of course we get things done eventually by not even trying to, whether if its about understanding others intentions and living our own path, but we're always in the middle of "should i leave everything' and ' i need attention' zone, we're really like young adults that has both sides
Me to a T....It's a curse
How did I just know that the INFP could not be categorised as anything other than a paradoxical loop? Once again, FJ, you seem to have fully understood how we INFPs view ourselves and the world.👏👏👏
Yeah, we are 8 and 80 years old at the same time, being old souls with a more childlike view on the world, daydreaming how it could be or should be :D
Yeah he nailed that one!
100% on the INFP. Probably why I have so many "old lady hobbies", but also have the attention span of a goldfish. And start new projects every week.
I finally can understand why my INFP idols look like old people and babies at the same time. 😂😂😂
I am an INFP and this video made me feel Truman Show-ed. No I will not explain, you already know.
As an INFP I can confirm.. I have been told, that I am an old soul living in a wrong century AND I have been told that im immature and I have to grow up. I was genuinely expecting Frank to divide INFPs into ancient and baby. Life would be easier for us it we could actually take some kind of benefit from both sides of maturity, it is more likely used against us. We are either too "boring" and not wanting to join in on other people´s fun activities, or acting childish and super silly and doing random goofy things, which makes people uncomfortable, why are we so silly when your not 10 anymore, and why are we so bored and uninterested, when we are not 70. It is sure a journey.
We have too much going on, and thus should not be bothered by what they say (but it stays forever).
We should just tell those people to get off our lawns, then go roll around on it. Whimsy.
OMG I feel that so much as INFP as well... I either ruin the fun cause I'm not joining in, OR I'm being so silly that it's too much and people think I'm annoying :D
It's so great :D (/sar)
Let this comment/reply section to be a home for all us INFPs to come to and feel safe and understood🙏
Oh shoot. The relatability of this post made me laugh so hard. God, I just hate being like this. And I have been like this for ages, since birth maybe. Somehow I can't change it. I don't want to at times. But like what the hell! It's really disadvantageous. Doesn't it make INFPs less attractive in conventional terms? I feel that all the time. I hate it. Its sometimes like being bipolar. And you know what! you are not actually getting on the side of anyone by being like this but still you still innately remain like this. Not joining in when you could have benefitted from it because hey, it's too much and then doing really random stuff that no one can make a head or tail of.( I like doing the random stuff to be honest). Nowadays, it's like the whole world is having a party. And you want to have fun but there's a zip going on prompting you not go and to feel left out like an observer, never a participant. I am sorry for ranting like this. It might not come off as much coherent. I just wanted to share.
@@jaironracsothesilentninjas9562I hope so too
My best friend is a very stereotypical INFP. She has a lot of childlike interests and often acts like a 13 year old (she's actually 19), but when someone hurts her feelings, her morals or her interests, she becomes the most mature and wisest person in the room. She's childish on the outside, maybe to cope with her problems, but is internally extremely mature.
My bff is also infp and yes!! I totally agree with the way you described it
Yeah i have infp friend she is just like how you say,she is mature but she don't like to act like it she is kinda toxic so she act all crybaby and childish but she know how she act some of the time
I’m an Infp and that’s also how my father described me once, quite spot on. I’m also a Pisces so that might explain the wise characteristic
As someone who is about as INFP as possible, this could not have been more accurate. I recently had to write a memoir of my adolescence for an education class focusing on the adolescent, and I basically came to the conclusion that I feel like I have simultaneously been an adult since I was 5, and yet am still very much a sensitive child in my 20s, and I am not entirely if I ever had an adolescence, or if I am just going to be perpetually stuck in adolescence because I feel like I am both an adult and a child at the same time.
Relatable.
So true!
Exactly as I feel! As a teen, I've always wondered why I am more 'mature' than the adults.. but now as a mid-20s person, I do do things I wanted to do as a teen, while feeling like a baby, and acting like a elderly person
Wait...not everyone feels like that? Is this really specific to us INFP? Go figure...
i mean... my username says it all 😭
... did you just imply that INFP's are some kind of ouroboros infinity loop of senile, child-like elders? That mentally, I am both too old AND too young to responsibly watch a pg-13 movie by myself without uncontrollably bursting into tears? How DARE, sir! We will (probably not) talk about this after my naptime!!!
that is exactly the implication
i agree a hundred percent
This comment deserves a pin 😂😂😂😂😂
This comment... my favorite.
Naptimes are needed always!
Frank, those last few minutes about the INFP were way deeper than I thought they'd be, and honestly I'm so glad someone said it for me. I've literally felt EXACTLY like that - so young at heart, yet...so, so old. On the surface, we might seem pretty naive and oblivious to a lot of things, but deep inside of us, we have an entire world with dark places that so many people haven't even begun to explore yet.
Also mood
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This is so real, sometimes I feel like a massive baby and at other times I feel like I've lived through centuries, it's pretty strange tbh but I wouldn't have it any other way
So so true. People will be calling us naive but many times can’t be as deep in thoughts and feelings. We get excited over silly things but also sympathize with the cosmic truth of life. 😂
@@zahirasahar9491 Beautifully worded. 🥺 I completely agree.
unpopular onion: real INFJs won't skip the video just to see the INFJ part lmao frfr
Because to us, we always love to read each character. Especially from fellow INFJ
😂😂😂
As an INFJ, I didn't skip at all! I def agree with this!
I am an INFJ and I clicked this video out of pure curiosity. I have to admit I started rolling from laughter when you categorized my personality type in 'ancient' and brought up the e-mail bit, because my social media is literally filled with a bunch of (re)posts of inspirational and motivational quotes, tutorials, relaxing scenery, helpful tips, cute things that make people smile, etc. In my case, you totally nailed it 😂
Same
Same but mine only have motivational quotes inspirational stuff and funny things
Same with foreign language learning stuff
@@srs1659 Me too. Im also INFJ and I really like learning foreign languaeges.
Um…. I wonder if that makes us highly marketable to people who (for once?) aren’t trying to sell us anything (“just inspiration”)
As an INFJ who loves a suspected INFP very much. I wholeheartedly agree. They really are capable of childlike wonder and openness and the maturity and single-mindedness of old age at the same time.^^
My wife and I are both INFP.
Agreed! I'm INFJ and my hubby over over 20 years is confirmed INFP. He is so much more interested and open to new possibliities and opportunities than me, which has been really good for me to learn from him, but at the same time, our deep convos are on such a deep (high?) wavelength that no average person would get what he's even talking about, so definitely ancient wisdom from that perspective!
As an INFJ in a relationship with an INFP I can confirm that we emotionally connect on our ancient level but I also love my partner‘s childlike behavior which comes out once or twice everday.
Thank you thank you so much
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As an INFJ, I was wondering if I should try dating an ENFJ or INFP because I love them both. But now I think that a childish INFP man would be good for my mature and organized personality.
As an INFP myself, I KNEW they were going to be difficult to categorize here... we are somehow both like a child that is first experiencing the wonders of the world, yet also an ancient poet who has wisdom gathered from many years in nature...
yet also like a depressed emo teen 😭xD
EDIT: HAHAH the ending was perfect oml
Best friends with an infp, yes.
I would say that makes the ANCIENT. If you actually talk to someone who is very close to the end of their life they are very much that way. They have REGAINED the wonder of every little thing in the world but at the same time they have experienced so much that they are easily weighed down by even small sorrows because there are so many great sorrows that it reminds them of.
I can relate, I am the student and teacher forever. Perceived as young and mentally old at the same time.
exactly
I've often described myself as a kindergartener with decades of experience, so yep.
As an INFP I was at a party this summer and someone said they weren't sure if I was 21 or 21,000, so I can confirm that you got it right.
When I was 15, people thought I was 30. At 30, people thought I was 20.
As an INFP I think that our position being both the oldest and youngest really fits. I do constantly have my head in the clouds and act kind of childish but since I was younger I realized I had more adult-like thoughts than most kids my age. I don't know how or why but it really does feel just right to be both the youngest and the oldest in terms of mental age.
My family's mental ages:
Me (INTJ) = ~ 40 years
Son (INTP) = ~ 21 years
Husband (INFJ) = ~ 1000 years
Home atmosphere = relentlessly intense
😂
you mean in tents? 💀
Yeah idk about asinigning this to my family but we blended 3 families. Ex passive agressive and his daughter( pulled between 2 coasts) narcissist, ME ADD, my son ADHD, 2 Adooted natural brother and sister. He HAS ADHD & PTSD issues from his abusive birth home, she is bi- polar, Oppositional defiant, ADHD. They were adopted from my 1st cousin. Bad drug & abusive situation. Husband is a NASA engineer, I'm an interior designer home remodeled, older son MMA fighter physical trainer, his daughter accountant, younger odd daughter hair stylist, younger son USMC VETERAN, engineer .SO we all survived the pandemonium and shenanigans surfaced successfully. Now add 5 grandsons 🥰😍
its scary how you're all introverts...
Mom is that you? (Jk
"Life is not a straight line but an endless circle" You took us on a roller coaster ride and land us eventually on a wisdom field.
Frank is the best one to make a closing scene 😎👍
This is my favorite of all your explanations of INFP! Cryer, goofball, AND deep thinker. No wonder I have a hard time figuring out what mental age I am. Thanks for this video to help me understand better!
I once did a random what's your mental age test and got the result that my mental age was 18. Then I did the same test again and selected the least likely options for my least accurate mental age. And got 19. 😆 Analyzing the questions and my answers the results provided, I basically answered so completely opposite ends of the spectrum between 1-40 that the test got confused and threw me in the middle somewhere, and then I did the opposite, which still was so divided that I was thrown in the middle anyway. My actual age at the time was 17.
How did you manage to capture the essence of what it's like to be an INFP in such a charming, funny, insightful way? Love it!
INFP is accurate as always. I act like I'm 12 and feel like I'm 70. And everything in between at all times
For me it's the other way around. I act like a 70 year old but feel like I am 10, haha...
I'm in the middle and I feel both ways. It's insane. I also love how you described this. It made me think of life path #'s and how I'm a 9, which is described as the beginning and the end.
I am still convinced that INTPs (including myself) reach the mental age of 15 at 10 years old and just stop aging. We just get more experienced at being a 15 year old.
I kind of get it. It's like instead of becoming more mature, you just become more experienced so the maturity level remains constant. I'm not so sure what age I was at 10 but apparently all my family thought I acted like I was 70.
WHY IS THIS SO TRUEE
THIS IS SO VALIDATING 😂❤
Swear this is me, too.
Yes. It's quite the exquisite experience.
Before watching the video, I was pondering how old I feel as an INFP with a chronological age of 25. On one hand, I feel like a child; I can get extremely happy or upset about little things, and I believe I still haven't grown up. On the other hand, I'm more mature than my peers, as if I've reached the end of my life; I keep contemplating the ultimate purpose of life. In short, I found myself torn between two extremes. After watching the video, I couldn't believe it; my eyes welled up with tears. I'm astonished by how well you understand this - you explained the INFP personality perfectly. Thank you. ❤🎉
I love how you rank us INFPs by simply cuting us in half and putting us at the top and bottom. Made me chuckle 😅
As an INFP, I sometimes feel like a part of me is too old for this life already, but at the same time, I'm also still the child I was younger. It's really strange and hard to explain but yep, that how I feel about my mental age at least.
Update : just saw the end of the video and it's perfect xD
I think it's like mentally we already experienced a lot but in reality we have tried too little xD
agreed hgvjbknj
I liked the ending too! It’s like a circle. I’ve always described the INFP to myself as like I was frozen in time at a young age (maybe mid-teens?) and eternal like I’m young still in spirit but lived a long time, kind of like tuck everlasting
@@littlebluefishyOMG yes yes yes this, thank you ! So true for me 😅
Reading all of the comments about how us INFPs feel makes me suddenly feel not so alone. Thanks guys😌
Meanwhile me looking for another ISFP comment in a sea of INFP’s: *L O N E L Y*
I am loving the comments too
@@TylenOneal239Heya! ^_^
no problem bro
Amazing way to view INFP. I was ok being in my own category, but an ancient baby sounds nice too. I guess it’s because we shape our personality to match with the person we’re talking to, so it’s hard to see where we belong in terms of “mental age”. I think what you said about us seeming like we’ve “seen everything” is nice too.
“Ancient baby” 😂
@@sharon5259band name
@@sharon5259 "Prehistoric baby"
As an INFP, it's funny that with the basic common sense pertaining the practical aspect of life, I'm such a beginner navigating my way through it; but in the meantime, I also have the comprehension of "life" in a much larger sense since a young age. I remember in college, a friend told me that "you have a youthful spirit but also an old soul". I always like to compare life as a game, and I would say that, I have a pretty good understanding of the concept of the game, but pretty slow at actually playing the game. I'm very comfortable just staying out of everything and just observing human.
I agree wholeheartedly about IN FP’s being both old and young. Shakespeare’s 7 stages of life soliloquy sums it up perfectly, that being extremely old returns us to another childlike state of incognizance.
As an INTJ I absolutely am the "get off my lawn" old lady 😂 But I also love diving into a deep conversations about a seemingly random but very specific topics. I also like cute things. There was a cartoon drawing I saw years ago of a girl dressed entirely in black and just ignoring yet observing others around. But at home she was wearing cute fuzzy pajamas. Accurate.
I'm not really a Get Off My Lawn 62yo gal but more a Get Out of My Way/Sight sort, lol...
This comment is how I interact with the perils of the outside world. Aggressively, sometimes philosophically, and showing a side that I much prefer over my usual.
get off my lawn lol
I love this
INTJ female here. Leave me alone.
I'm ISTJ here. I approve of where you put us on the age chart. I was "that child" in the sandbox.
I married an INFP and I have yet to figure out if he acts older or younger than I do. One minute he is having more fun playing dinosaurs with a 4 year old than the child is, the next he looks like he is Gandalf carrying the weight of middle earth on his shoulders and has a zero fun attitude about him that can only be described as Carl from Up.
Our personalities clash a lot but only if he speaks too much gibberish that I can't make sense of. Once he can later translate it to understandable English, things run smoothly. 😂
I think inside the box. If I do think outside of the box, it is simply thinking in a *different* box. His thinking has no box or no boundaries. His mind is like a galaxy that is filled with more imagination than I could ever dream to have. I always love it when he takes me on trips into his imagination. (In the safety of my rocketship box) 😂
I am INFJ and having been surrounded by INFPs I can't agree more to this ...✨❤️they are the best people I have
I'm an INFP. While driving, I often entertain myself by thinking clouds are dragons to try to feel how people would feel if such animals would exist and to relativise our size and importance in the universe. I think it illustrates pretty well how to be childish and have deep thoughts at the same time.
I'm an INFP. While driving, I'm often immersed via audio book in such works as 'Mistborn' or 'The Millionaire Mind,' or 'The Lord of the Rings' or 'Midnight at Chernobyl.' Very much appeals to my being 10 & 70 at the same time.
I can be dead serious, organizing everyone around me to be efficient, and at the same time joking and saying goofy things at work. To me, it's not necessarily opposite. I think people sometimes find me too intense, but I don't really care, and they usually appreciate it in time. I'm INFP, of course.
As an INFP I had an existential crisis at three.... the beginning of a poem apparently....
Taking edibles as an INFP Capricorn is *SOMETHIN' ELSE.*
@@ianrandolph6436 I've done deep guided drums meditation and I saw so much, that I'm afraid of what I could find if I tried edibles
As an INFP, I fully expected us to be either the absolute oldest or the absolute youngest, there was no in between in my mind. I laughed so hard as you were trying to figure out where to put us. 🤣 We are for sure the strangest personality type I have come across!
We're like Bustling with knowledge yet, Cry for the Thing that we want eagerly 😂😂😂😂
@@patu5956wao this makes sense. 😮
FR EVEN I SOMETIMES TRY TO FIGURE OUT HOW COULD I SUCCEED TO BE THAT WEIRD ESP WHEN I WATCH SOME VIDEOS OF MYSELF RANDOMLY AND I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF I SHOULD BE PROUD OF IT OSRJGIRSHWSHNK
My favorite INFP’s are John Green, Rhett McLaughlin and my therapist. I think Frank got them completely right.
I can't believe what you did with the INFP! First, you isolated it, and then you split it between the Ancient and the ultimate Baby. Man, this is SO true! I feel like an old soul who understands and has experienced the greatest of loves and the deepest of griefs but still with this childlike wonder and even naivety. I'm so dreamy but can also be such a bleak realist. Thank you for being the first to accurately describe the unique INFP.
"Life is not a straight line, but an endless cycle." 😢Thank you.
My INTP boyfriend literally complimented me (I am an INFP) by saying when we first met he thought I was pretty but like super dumb. Just air headed now really here. So he had not much interest in me. Until I randomly started crying while talking to him with a smile on my face. He said it was creepy but now he was curious. No one just starts crying while talking with a smile plasterd.
I ended up opening up to him about how basically traumtizing my life was at an early age & that I force myself to wake up everyday by living in a constant state of delusion. If I am constantly in a fanasty world I never have to be sad, but when I remember why I am forcing this upon myself I get sad & my mask breaks temporarily.
He developed a crush on me after realizing I wasn't some dumb blonde with no substance. But instead I had a lot of depth to me & actually incredibly intelligent for my age.
He liked that everyday he always learned something new about me. Even now I still surprise him with new things.
I can keep him intellectually simulated plus make him actually emotional when he's normally an unemotional person
I changed his perspective on something when he was sure he was right. Both stubborn ngl- I can compromise a lot more though
Anyways I am the delusional old lady who will bake you cookies while still thinking my mom is still alive.
Edit: The last two commenters take the fun out of every room they walk into. Give them your condolences
I'm an INTJ and not INTP but i can relate to finding someone ditzy and not liking them at first, but later realizing that there was a lot more to them than I initially pegged them.
In general, learning more about people and getting my curiousity stated is one of my favorite experiences. I don't find a lot of interesting, compelling people in general though.
@@cultreader9751 INTJ & INTP are similar when it comes to not liking dumb people from what I have noticed.
But yeah surface level people can be uninteresting. Nothing to discover, but I think there is beauty in their simplicity. Get exactly what was advertised. It's comfortable.
Except to my boyfriend, he says they're boring & doesn't see how I can find that interesting. Then I say it's the most trustworthy option, they're not any different on the inside than they are on the outside.
That was really heartbreaking to the point where I almost cried for you😢
Thanks for sharing your story 🥹🥹❤️❤️
why would you date someone who calls people dumb to their faces just because of their appearance? and you call it compliment? huh? wdym you´re infp?
As an INFP, I cannot agree more. I literally had goosebumps at the end. Finally, someone who understands!
Same bro same..
YES.🗿🗿
As an INFP I agree, I’m usually like the most childish person you’ll ever meet but if you really talk with me you’ll learn that I have the most deepest thoughts you’ve ever heard of
As an INFJ, I consider myself to be kind of an infant because I love shiny objects and snacks, but I think it may make sense for me to be ancient, because I don't like risk of any kind, and I love nurturing people's souls with treats and listening to them talk about their problems.
Same
The 45% of you who skipped to the INFJ part. Wow, talk about calling us all out, Frank! 😂
Well, this INFJ did not skip to the INFJ part. Hehe. I guess my mental age told me it's important to care about everyone. I would have to agree with at least my type and the INFP (the two types I know most about, lol). I remember giving advice to my friends from a very young age. I like this style of edutainment, with the comedic graphics, etc. Thanks for the early access and the reminder about "kick." I needed that today. Always appreciate your tutelage, Frank.☺️
yay, glad you liked it!!
Yes on the giving of advice. All my life I've done it, whether they want advice or not!
@@meagiesmuse2334 Lol. I try not to unless asked. Sometimes I can't help myself, though. 🤭
Hahah Guess we infj’s just don’t skip getting more info and understanding of other people.
I also didn't skip just to find out where the INFJ one was at (then again its a no brainer to know where we'd end up so it just wasn't worth bothering to skip) 😂 I was way more curious about how the overall ranking would look like and how it all would come together ☺️. More info on others? Gimme, I alrrady know enough about myself age-wise 👵
I'm INFP and that's the best descirption of INFP I ever seen in my life :3
Even since I was a little child, I didn't act like one. I kinda never "fit my age", I always befriended those, who were younger or older than me. I was too mature and too childish to my classmates at the same time. It's a bit upsetting,but I could switch between kid and adult/elder in a second and because of that I could learn from them a lot of things. It's kinda win-win for me but I needed to grow up to accept this xd
I think our emotional intelligence, wild imagination, empathy and sensitivity help us to "live more than once", and help us to deal with people expericenced by life. At the same time this child-like curiosity, idealism, innocence and avoiding conflicts make us look immature.
INFP here ♡˖, I love it how we have our own category (that's lonely ofc) aside for being honoured it's so satisfying we are acknowledged to those who understand this stuff. we rarely have someone to show our true side or someone who really understands!
As an ENTP, I’ve read my childhood diary and poetry many times as an adult and thought “wow, I truly haven’t changed at my core…and I love that about myself”. My life is all about making sure my inner child becomes self-actualized.
Right!! I’m such a kid and old at the same time. I still play the sims at 27 and played since I was 4. We’re just curious about life and want to know everything which is what keeps us young and fresh. No expired milk here
@@sim771I read your comment first as "I play Sims 27" and I was like "whoa, when did time fly so fast?"
I need a nap...
Playful and fun like a 12yr old - sure… But between our intuition and pattern recognition abilities means more often than not we DO “know it all.” So we’re kind of like the Sage in top of the mountain -but when we dispense our wisdom, we add a couple fart jokes just for fun 🤷🏼♀️
@@revolutionfrommahbed4246Exactly! Once I got older I personally realised that I actually *didn’t* know everything, and then proceeded to spend the rest of my life up until now making sure that I do…
I relate - tho I have multiple ages that become dominant depending on context. They are 5, 8, 17 & 90+ (that last one may not be present for all ENTP but I acquired it in the course of my life (before actually hitting that age or close)
I'm an INFP , and when you put the piece of paper for that type to the side for later I was thinking, "yep that's me!" 😂 And the whole time when you were going back and forth, finally settling on splitting the INFP between baby and ancient, I was laughing Hard! 🤣
Yeah like before he placed the INFP in my mind I thought the only way this would work as if he splits it and puts it in both the ancient and the baby. Then he puts it off to the side and I'm like oh well I guess that could work I guess if you can't split it or put it in both. Way out of the way of any of the categories would work.
Then it goes back and splits it and puts it there and it's the whole thing and I'm just like, I knew it. 😂 This was a fun video.
I also thought we can't be in one category lol. Splitting the paper was ❤
@@wimsylogic65I also feel like in that "pushed aside from whole society" category 😢
SAME
Same! i haven't burst out laughing like that in a minute!
As an ENFP, I think you miss the “external” constant intake lighting fast neural connections firing. We are not “middle school”. We can see connections that so many miss. As a historian, being ENFP allows me to find those connections of culture, languages - basically the human condition and how as humans we are connected to other living beings and to the atoms of the very universe we are in. Yes - I am wise enough to know that the generations coming after me in my courses are going to take it further and hopefully make the future sustainable. They keep me informed and in touch with my liberal “we’re all in this together” mindset. We are goofy and most ENFP’s are MENSA range IQ’s. I don’t want to “get the glory” for solving or figuring out a problem. I lean on finding solutions that make everyone’s life better. I/we don’t need the spot light, but our ability to process external information lightning fast lead to real solutions. We are in it for a win-win for everyone. We are the ones out protesting and sitting up all night debating everything from string theory to how Homo sapiens are neuron-wired to repeat patterns of thought/behavior globally to individually. That’s NOT middle school. Read some of the brain scanning done on ENFP’s and how when shown information, all five areas of the brain involved in processing and analyzing light up.
Yep 👏 The INFJs and INFPs so desperately want to be the "misunderstood" types 😂🤦, but the one's that are truly misunderstood are apparently the ENFPs...
People seem to think that ENFPs are goofing around and they don't take things "seriously", simply because they (we) see the bigger picture (through all the haze) and realize that most of that "serious" stuff is actually utter nonsense that doesn't even deserve to be taken seriously (and deserves to be mocked / ridiculed instead).
I've always felt like an observer (not an active participant) in this life because I understand the basic truths about (human) existence, while most of the other people are like squirrels in a wheel (running around blindly for no meaningful reason whatsoever) 🤷
Agreeeee🎉
I really hate these ranking lists, even for fun, because they miss the entire point of MBTI and just reflect our stupid capitalism inspired values today.
Sadly I also have to admit, that if you refuse to play the game of power, you'll end up the door mat, so I can speak from experience that the ENFP placement is ultimately correct.
Really sad video actually.
It's not that deep buddy
While I do not work in an occupation anywhere near as intellectually complex as what you shared, my INTJ husband and I work in a very involved field requiring a ton of problem solving.
One of my favorite ways about how my Ne and his Ni operate together is when he will state a current obstacle in our shared career, ask me if we should solve it with X or Y, and then I will suggest Z, A, B, C and D. He then extrapolates all the details that would be involved with seeing each option through to completion, and we both land on the best solution together.
Our problem solving skills as a team shocks everyone around us, but these two functions simply work very well together.
I also agree we are not middle school aged mentally. However, I do have a very childlike heart and love to be goofy and have fun. Kiddos love hanging around me and even my husband... he has a goofy side, too. It simply doesn't come out as often.
Also, my absolute favorite type of activity is brainstorming. When I was a child, teachers would mention we were going to brainstorm for a certain topic, and my hand would shoot up into the air before they could finish their sentence. I would already have five or six ideas brimming beneath the surface and selected the best ones to share first... because usually my teachers would tell me I needed to give someone else a chance to answer, too. They were correct... other students needed to be involved in the learning process, but in my young mind, I just couldn't understand why every amazing idea of my own wouldn't spark even more creative ideas in theirs. So, I wanted to share so they could be inspired, too.
My brain works crazy fast when it comes to ideas. It takes me a hundred times longer to explain all the ideas than it does for my brain to generate them. 😂
oh my god the INFP one is so accurate, as a kid I was constantly told that I'm wise for my age and as an adult I feel like a kid in an adult body 😂 But I feel like I retain both sides and use them when it's neccessary ☺
You have indeed captured the INFP. My mom is exactly as you described. And as an INTJ I truly value the deep conversations we have that no one else really gets and also the crazy convos we have that leave us laughing on the floor with our sides hurting. Truly an infinite ageless loop of a personality.
I'm an INFP and both my mom and close brother are INTJs. I have never related to a comment more. They are my best friends, and my brother and I will leave people behind with our joint abstractness. My dad is also an INFP, leading me to believe it's a perfect personality combination.
I'm an INFP and I've never met an INTJ... Never... And I think it's the perfect personality. They're honest, practical and they have dominant Ni. All I want.
@@joanaborrellsanchez9225INTJ's 'in the wild' we go into either camouflage or chameleon mode, it's possible you've met/seen us before but just not in depth and we came across as ..I dare say it...an 'extrovert' 😅
@@anniefarrell9907 Hahaha but I hate that because I'm also an introvert, and I rarely go out... There's no way to meet an INTJ 💔
Just admit it, us infp's are complicated 😂
12:49 Truer words have never been spoken. INFPs are like philosophers writing down their thoughts one minute, then scream-singing some anime song the next...when no one's around, of course. "Robert Smith being weird" is probably one of the finest examples on the youtubes of an INFP acting not so "ancient."
No problem to sing when someone is around :D I even sung the Duck Tales theme at Karaoke.
As someone who switches between INFP and INFJ, I approve of this message.
INFP here and you got it exactly right! In some life seasons I feel like a little kid. I am the fun aunt that jumps on the trampoline with my niece and nephews and plays all the games with them. I love looking at Christmas lights and I get so excited by stupid little silly things. But at the same time, when life is really hard I feel ancient. I feel like I've gone through so much in my life and I feel things so deeply that it's utterly exhausting and I feel as though I am much older than I am.
You did the only thing you could do by putting us in both categories. This is what it's like to be an INFP. We are a living paradox.
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I felt every emotion like I was that sheet of paper during the entire video. The loneliness and the inability to tell if I felt older or younger. It's hard being an INFP. Being a wise, childish old man is the best place.
As an 18 year old INTP I did indeed experience my first mid life crisis already.
source: my therapist.
She literally told me I blurted out every thought and emotion of 40 year old patients she’s had.
How ironic.
Uss💀
You'll get younger 👍😁 believe me , at least the way i feel pain got younger after 23_24 for me ,
Duuuude. This was brilliant! I expected it to be funny and quirky like your normal videos, which it was, but wow! I'm an INFJ, but that stuff about the INFP brought me to tears. In a good way. NICE work!
As an ISFP, I totally agree with you on that one. I don't have ADHD, but my personality type mimics it quite well. It's very hard to concentrate on what I'm doing because I'm always thinking about what I'll be doing next. My optimal output usually comes from having two or more projects going simultaneously and jumping back and forth between them.
Me too !!! Doing several tasks at the same time always works best for me..
@Idellphany Yeah, it's pretty cool when you know it, and you can use it to your advantage. 😎
Oh that makes a lot more sense on why I struggle with attention spans now...
@Moon_Savior Same here. I'm 45, and it's been such a mystery my whole life. It was always, "Not quite ADD and not quite ADHD..." It was very elusive and very frustrating.
People keep telling me I need to see a psychiatrist I might have a couple things, but I think a lot of it is my personality and other things could be something. 😅I don't know It's in my to do list.
INTJ - do we really care how old you think we are? no....that would involve a relationship.
I am honestly surprised by the categorization of my personality type (INFP). The "being ancient (or old?) and childish at the same time" bit is so accurate. There is one time that I attented a funeral and I approached someone who is still emotional and I asked the typical asking assurance questions i.e. "Are you alright?" related-type of questions. Then we started a conversation contemplating the "whys of life" and the "uncertainties" of human existence and "death". Then out of nowhere, I said within the lines of: "Death is an act of deliverance into the being that we were once meant to be. We may never get to see them through our eyes, feel them with our hands, and such but their footprint that they left within this land will always remain within the confines of our minds and hearts". And they were shocked asking how do I know these stuff and I just replied: Idk tbh... eh idk now lol
Yeah we can grasp and comprehend the idea of how we came to understand these things but these sort of things are abstract and dont like logic, reason, and order, hence why its hard to explain, i think the trick to understanding things is understanding that logic and reason cant fully explain abstract ideas, so you need to let go of thinking that it has to make sense, or proceed linearly, life is not linear, plus logic and reason will never be able to explain where creation itself came from, but it exists so there has to be a why to the existance of existance, or the reality that things exist, cause there cant be a cause to cause an effect without something causing the cause, that caused the effect.
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could you please explain what did you mean with that you Said?
I just dont get what Is it that you were trying to say, maybe becuase I dont really speak english but it may Also not be
That’s so beautiful
I'm an INFP as well and I just love how I'm able to understand the complex nature of existance and dig really deeply into my feelings breaking them down so I could understand the exact thing that caused that feeling and realize how to simplify my analasys in order to explain how I'm feeling or my thoughts on something eternal. However, when somebody asks me why I do this or any other thing I do I'm like It's just fun.
Frank, you know INTJs so well. I was just about to respond to your placement of my type on your yardstick when you offered us the opportunity to angrily respond! Made me laugh but not out loud.
P.S. INTJs are old souls from childhood. In some ways, we’re burdened with purpose because intuitively we understand consequence, which drives our need to plan a better way. I’d put us in the ancient category because building for the sake of building, a young adult’s reasoning, is not our motivator. It’s to save the world from what we know can happen BECAUSE WE KNOW WE’RE RIGHT!!! (A bit grandiose, aren’t we?!!)
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yeah but i like anime and action figures and games
As an ENFJ, I think your discription was pretty spot on. 😁 As a kid people use to tell me I acted like a little adult, but as I became an adult now over 35 people think I'm younger than I actually am and have commented on how youthful I seem. LOL It's funny and strange, but also cool in my opinion.
As an ENFP who is now in his late 60s, I have noticed that I am more balanced and have become a lot more balanced in my outlook and actions. Life has beaten the crap, er, smoothed off the rough edges, er, taught me that there is no one way to be. I started off life as an old soul due to tragedy and abuse, got out of the situation, became the child I never got to be, got smooshed by life because of it, became more introverted but no less reflective, and still like people. I suspect that this happens a lot to people as they age no matter their Myers-Briggs personality. I enjoy being alone but when I am around people I like, which is almost everyone, they can't get me to shut up. Hence, my comments on YouBoob for people who don't really care. 😁
im an ENFP at his 20's, idk why but reading this was so heartwarming. Maybe because I recognized some relatable experience and track of thoughts
INFP is so on point.
Thank you, Frank.
This is your best video yet Frank!
I love how you got a bit closer to explaining the INFP..Just a tiny bit😁
THAT WAS SO COOL!! Enjoyed!
I never thought I could feel so accurately described and understood by a paper being cut. What a moment!
As a 48 year old INTJ I confirm Ive always been about 17.
Frank, you are brilliant. So glad you are back!
I'm an INFP and I just love how I'm able to understand the complex nature of existance and dig really deeply into my feelings breaking them down so I could understand the exact thing that caused that feeling and realize how to simplify my analasys in order to explain how I'm feeling or my thoughts on something eternal. However, when somebody asks me why I do this or any other thing I do I'm like It's just fun.
As an INFP, I have spent my entire life being called both an Old Soul and a baby (because I'm too sensitive).
So yeah, I'd say you got it spot on.
same 💯
Spot on for the infp part! And I love how people only see the naive baby part at first, which is quite evident when you look at me and it looks like I am having the time of my life playing with a ladybug, and then, they start asking questions, and get to know my experience in life, and they realize I have litteraly lived many many lives already and there is an old bear with a sword hiding inside. Something I find amusing in that 😅
Totally relate, although I tend to watch bees more than ladybugs. There's something magical and somber about watching all the different species of bees interacting in my flower bed while also contemplating their march toward extinction due to humanity's impact on the environment.
The way you ranked these made me think about the shifting of my personality over the years, and it kinda makes sense! Between 2013 and 2023 I have taken the test 4 times and got 4 different results. I was ENFP in college..which makes sense..a few years later and I’m INFP. This is when I started to mature into adulthood. Things were getting more serious, and I yearned for simpler and more carefree times, while at the same time I’m starting to be more independent. I had been through a lot in my life (abusive relationships and struggling with my mental health and such) even up until that point, and wasn’t done. Around 2018 or 2019 I took the test again and got INFJ. At that point, among other things, I had already lost one of my parents. I was still in my 20s. It changed my entire perspective of everything, and life in general and my relationships. I did get pretty withdrawn for a period of time, fighting my own demons. A few months ago, I just turned 34, and took the test again. I’m ENFJ, and I legitimately almost died twice in the last 2 years (taken by ambulance for lengthy stays in the hospital, involving surgeries and blood transfusions). This year alone has been a wild ride. I still yearn for a simpler time, before I knew of any loss. I realize the importance of reaching out and cherishing time with your loved ones, and I try to do it more. I am less withdrawn, my circle is smaller than when I was younger, but I have a closer relationship with the people who have stuck around long term, and I am now working in peer support to help other people overcome their own struggles. I want to get out more and live life to the fullest, and try to help other people too, to the best of my ability. I realize I’m no hero, though. But I do my best, and I believe in doing your best and being the best, most authentic version of yourself. No matter who you are, you deserve to be loved for you. ❤
As I started watching the video I was already commenting on how Frank forgot the teen stage. I always felt like a teenager, even as child, and later as adult. Glad to see the category was added and INTJ & ENTJ in it. The rebeld spirit, the " some / most people or adults are idiots", the " me against the world "specially... the angst inside, while you Keep being efficient and not succumbing to peer-pressure. It totally makes sense to me
this sounds weird but thank you for breaking us in half lmao. I feel much more at peace knowing that there is no need to classify us and we can simply be two things at once.
As an INTJ, I have never identified with teenagers with the exception of being ready and willing to critically think through others' plans (i.e. criticize). As a child, teenager, and young adult, I've been more ready to identify with seniors (my grandparents, church members) than most groups, but I have also been far more adept at technology than them. It makes more sense for INTJs to be placed at middle-aged or at a crotchety old soul who is ready and willing to tell people how things should be.
💯I've never known an INTJ that was truly "young at heart." To classify INTJ as teenagers based on them being future focused is irrational. Teenagers are mostly focused on their peers and living in the moment. There is very little strategic planning and outcome-based thinking. I think he was just trying to put some surprises in the vid (and generate comments).
I think INTJs do have inherently have a certain level of curiosity that can only be described as childlike; which is probably why we can get obsessed with things...the rest of the time 💯 we are like old people... the INTJ juxtaposition
@@crwlh6721 Exactly. I'm a 13-year-old INTP and I definitely don't see other teens as strategic or future-focused. I honestly just think they're irresponsible, which makes it hard for me to make friends.
@@Nome_the_Furry My thought process when reading your comment: "Hey I relate to thi- what in the name of Mark Zuckerberg is that username."
@@tenebris13 Lol.
Thank you for the great video!
Like many of the commenters, I am an INFP.
It's my opinion, Frank put half of the INFP on the INFJ, in fact in the same league of INFJ, I think it is.
I know an INFJ and he is very mature and has given me great answers to my creations and life advice.
I think INFJs have an aspect of maturity that I don't have. I just wondered if that is just the part I am missing half the time.
As an infp you hit a nerve, Frank. I can't believe we got set aside by you and told I'll deal with you later 😅 such a real life thing only an infp would understand.😢😂
Fun facts no one care about:
- I'm an ISFJ
- I'm from Italy
- I love cooking
- I love lasagna
- I love traditions
- I love eating together with both family and friends
........... Oh, and i love your video too ❤
Italians are awesome. I have Italian friends from 20 years ago.
I care! ^_^
@@CloudyWolf713i bet you are an enfp
awsome
@@lilicorderoo I’m an ISFP myself!
INFP here, so many times in life i feel like I'm stuck watching my friends and family make mistakes that seem so obvious (dating manipulative people, thinking their actions wont have consequences, blaming others for their own issues, etc.). I feel like I have that lifetime of wisdom and experience to know better than to do what they are. Yet at the same time I still have that hope/idealism that lets me see the world for what it should/could be and strive to work towards that kind of life for myself and those around me. Your placement for us couldn't be any more fitting, Wise beyond our years, but "held back" (depending on your perspective) by a childlike Idealism. Able to view the world both for what it is AND for what it could be.
Yes! It takes wisdom to see what could be. I hate that being “naive” and “idealistic” is considered a bad thing :/
@@unionunicorn6776well personally I would still say that being naive is a bad thing. Choosing to live life in denial or clinging to a fantasy is unhealthy both for the naive individual and those around them. But a lot of people confuse idealism for naivety when the two are completely different. Idealism is seeing the difference between what is and what could be and choosing to work hard so that reality can edge closer to the ideal, where as In My personal experience naivety often means seeing the world through a lens of idealism and insisting that it is reality. Those who are naive are unable to see that difference. Choosing instead to believe that they have already achieved the ideal and need not try any further.
Yay! 🎉 I cheered and clapped 👏 for infp. That made me feel great 😊❤
I definitely need more videos like this frank! It was SO funny!
Maybe feeling a little troll-y, but I would definitely subscribe to a word of the week if it was quite literally just an email containing only one word and nothing more
it would be funny but most readers would not get the joke! smh
As an ISTP, I usually act younger than my age (probably because I get told that I look younger than my age). But I feel like my mental age is older than a lot of others. I have a very disciplined and serious side when I'm in the focused mode (which I think others see me as a little scary because of it). So, this feels accurate.
Relatable. People tend to think I'm younger than I am too. I'm pretty sure it's because of my height even though when they explain it they say it's because of how my face looks. They can't fool me...
ISTP's can seem intimidating to others because they usually have things all thought out. That's why we are in the old category when it comes to process. But, I agree with others saying I seem younger than my age. There's something in or spirits that drive us to play hard.
I used to look much younger than my age, but now I just look like an old hag! And feel it. Even as a teenager, I felt old, old, old, and yet I also feel like I can't grow up. The biggest problem I find is that very few people can relate to me on any level, and it doesn't help that I generally lack effective communication skills. I used to absorb new information like a sponge and always analyzed every tidbit of information. The end result is almost like an overloaded computer, trying to correlate all the data. Cause and effect going in endless circles. I have taken the M-B a few times, and the result each time was (I was told) unusually strong. Am I alone in this?
@@user-fe7mg5ot9z A lot of the things you said aren't hard for me to understand and relate to to be honest.
im an istp but idrc i act like a child and i will never be old
Such a great video- comedy gold vs educational. Thank you, Frank.
You KNEW what you were doing with INFP... It genuinely felt the most right to be the "end" and the "beginning" at the same time for me and and your final speech really made me emotional... 🙊
I think INFP being kind of on the outskirts makes sense. I have taken a couple cognitive functions test and I’ve been getting INFP and ENFP as my type pretty much neck and neck . With INFJ usually being a possible option in third place. I don’t know enough to know if I lead with extraverted intuition or introverted feeling
I’ve always gotten along with younger people or older people, but people my age I’m just awkward How do I talk to you… you’re aliens I don’t get it. It was hard for a long time.
So the feeling of being trapped between being an old soul and a kid at heart… it can make it hard for people to take me seriously. Especially since I look a lot younger age. Work has gotten easier because I built my confidence but I know when I was in college dating really hard.
An awkward., old soul who looks 16 trying to flirt… you can imagine how well that turned out!
I was kind of bummed and melancholy at the prospect of being INFP because of the stereotypes, and then I realized that’s possibly an INFP way to look at it … hehe
Anyway! Thanks for the cool video and word of the week. It’s nice to have weekly inspiration.
I cannot believe your little one is 9 months old :) he’s too cute! Sorry about the book.
haha thanks for the book!!
Learn about the cognitive functions to clarify which type you are.
Only an INFP could transform a commentary into a book
:) I’m very wordy that’s for sure.
That description IS LITTERLY ME.
Up until like a year ago I thought I was an ENFP that turned into an INFP when intense an intense period of sadness hit. But life is complex. Learned I was an INFP that had a little personality of ENFP that shined through 😅
I can't wait to learn about everyone! Sincerely, A Very Sincere ENFJ
thanks!
INFP have never been this much flattered and succinctly described. Also a very true observation
I love that in the ranking video’s us INFPs are genuinely seen in both the comedic and literal sense of what we are (not who, what.)
I feel so special as an INFP after this 🥰 and you summed up our age perfectly, hehe thank you Frank! 🧚♀️
Several things I learned while watching this:
1. Editor Kevin is my favorite human being (this is subject to change). I have laughed really hard at the wild, blink-or-you'll-miss-it jokes he threw in there while watching this. He has infinitely made this channel so much better.
2. Interesting that Frank tied the ENFP and ENTJ with each other. IMHO, ENFPs do tend to be more emotionally mature than ENTJs but ENTJs are pretty analytical and more go-getter than ENFPs. For example, ENTJs tend to be the bossy ones in the group, but ENFPs do tend to not listen and do their own thing since ENTJs do tend to overreact to certain things. ENTJs over time will respect ENFP's boundaries and sense of wonder and will let them do things the way they do them.
3. Funny how Frank ranks INFJs pretty high on this scale (no bias at all lol), but I would argue that INTJs belong up there with the INFJs. INFJs have a very emotional core which they hide very well. INTJs may know how to temper their emotions better, but they might have a hard time addressing how they feel. Though INFJs are more open, INTJs are hardened. I'm on the fence whether INFJs are older than INTJs, but I think INTJs do have a wisdom beyond their years which should not be disregarded.
4. Glad Frank redeemed himself after unnecessarily bashing the INFPs in the last ranking video. However, I think more thought should be given in regard to the youthfulness of the INFP. They do appear to be paradoxical since they have a youthful sense of wonder, but also a taste for the ancient and finer things in life. I would put them lower than the INTJs for that, but still pretty high.
This is the rant of an ENFP who obviously is pretty biased. I do not know many Sensors so I cannot speak as to their ranking. Take what I say with a grain of salt!
Thank you, FJ! While I felt validated enough when you put us off the chart with your green drink, my head exploded with warm, fuzzy kittens when you cut us in two and placed us on both ends of the continuum/infinity loop! Looking forward to your wotw.
Love this video. So detailed. And accurate.
Wow, I’m an INFP and you’re so right that we’re both really young and really old at the same time. That basically sums me up. For as long as I can remember, I’ve felt like I’m really a little old lady trapped in a younger body. At the same time, I admittedly have a naive and childlike view of the world sometimes.
This is awesome 😄
Holy buckets - you understand INFPs so well. Kudos.
INFP-always last to be thought about. lol.
Or is this a strategy to increase watch time because we're polite and will watch the whole thing instead of skipping ahead?
As an INTJ I can confirm that our age is a young adoult. I've noticed that I and other INTJ have that hope within them, but not a childish hope, a romantic hope, belive that we can make word better, love for future and ambition. Basically every positive aspect of young adoult mindset. We can see hope where other adoults give up.
Thank you for understanding us so well :’) - INFP
Loool, that's great Frank! Spot on. - Love, INFP